7 REASONS WHY MARRIAGE SUCKS | THE UGLY TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
  • In this video we discuss the ugly truth about marriage. As beautiful as marriage is, it is not without challenges! We’ve made this video to give you 7 reasons why marriage sucks! Unrealistic expectations are one of the top causes for divorce. We are bringing the reality to you in this funny but brutally honest video!
    #marriagesucks #marriagestory
    Instagram: @rlfpowercouple
    Facebook: @rlfpowercouple
    Intro: (0:00)
    1. No more personal time: (1:10)
    2. No more personal space: (2:19)
    3. No more independent decision making: (3:50)
    4. Share all your moves / Continuous check-ins: (5:05)
    5. Stuck with annoying habits forever: (6:32)
    6. Your money becomes our money: (8:01)
    7. Completely dependent on each other: (9:07)
    Outro: (10:09)

Комментарии • 148

  • @Jasminesbeautyroom
    @Jasminesbeautyroom 3 года назад +2

    “Someone’s pooping their life away” 🤣 I’m rolling! You two are so funny!

  • @yourfavoritebesties1040
    @yourfavoritebesties1040 3 года назад

    Hey RLF we're here with you! What a beautiful couple you two are! Lol @ the 'No Returns' sign, that's cute. Making decisions together is so important in a marriage and that's where a lot of the test will come in as well. Combined money can be both a blessing and a curse depending on which spouse you pick. Awesome content we hit the red button & we left a big thumbs up💕💕💕

  • @NathanHQ
    @NathanHQ 3 года назад +2

    Hey guys...just found your channel....wow having got married this year was interested to see what you were going to say here. haha some of these have already happened to me lol. Great vid guys! ...keep in touch...Like 66 🙂 happy to support

  • @byniacuisine
    @byniacuisine 3 года назад +2

    Guys you are very entertaining with a subject that people will enjoy as you are giving good advice.

  • @Maurmaur_OG
    @Maurmaur_OG 3 года назад +2

    Marriage Maths: One plus One Equals One. Thanks for sharing.

  • @JessieOpportunityCostInvesting
    @JessieOpportunityCostInvesting 3 года назад +1

    As much as this was about knowing the balance of getting married, I found this so uplifting. AND HILARIOUS. I'm hoping to take these next steps soon so it was a really fun look at knowing what to expect. You two are so down to earth, thanks for sharing!

  • @countryboyred
    @countryboyred 3 года назад

    This was one of the best videos about marriage I’ve ever seen. Thank y’all for being so honest about the downsides. But you two seem so happy and I love the positive energy!

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! We really just want people to know that marriage is not happily ever after but a lot of work!

  • @EllasTastyWorld
    @EllasTastyWorld 3 года назад +1

    1:41 that's what my husband says every time 😂 #3 is the hardest I know (no more single decision making) and #7 yes! depend on each other! You guys really hit all the points! love it! can't wait for the next one 😍👍

  • @kemigirly
    @kemigirly 3 года назад

    That number 7 is key and usually a difficult one especially for people who are not use to being dependent on by others. Great points !!!

  • @JuliannaLukye
    @JuliannaLukye 3 года назад

    I really like the energy and the transparency !
    thanks for the tips and the laugh 😂 I will definitely remember your advices.

  • @KienenKoga
    @KienenKoga 3 года назад

    LOL im so glad you found my channel so I could see yours! You guys are hilarious! Excited to follow along your journey so I can learn too!

  • @jaymel2589
    @jaymel2589 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for all your awesome tips!

  • @KelechIwuaba
    @KelechIwuaba 3 года назад

    Y'all are so much fun to watch.

  • @PierceJordan
    @PierceJordan 3 года назад +1

    lol you guys are too funny! Keep up the hard work with the channel!

  • @averyhomedecor
    @averyhomedecor 3 года назад +1

    I love the points you made and enjoyed watching your content. You do have to make decisions together, I agree. I can't wait to see more from you. Have a wonderful day.

  • @CourtneySCo
    @CourtneySCo 3 года назад +1

    I love this video! It’s needed! I think people are in love with the idea of marriage... but they don’t realize it takes a lot of work! I love my husband ... but marriage is WORK!😂♥️

  • @Regina.Michelle
    @Regina.Michelle 3 года назад

    You all are ball of energy. Sis I like that yellow sweater your wearing. Marriage is a ministry and it’s not for the weak. I enjoyed all the conflicts you all talked about. Seems like you all work through them well 💕😅

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! Marriage is definitely a ministry! We have accepted the things we cannot change 😂😂😂

  • @TheRealKMoe
    @TheRealKMoe 3 года назад

    Whew i could right a book on this topic. Some days i hate his guts 😂🤣but you have to find balance. This quarantine really made me look at him like 😩👀. All day long we were in each others face so that was challenging and for months! Yall are so refreshing and this is really a great topic and i love how yall added the comedy in it but speaking straight facts. Thanks for sharing! Y'all are such a lovely couple. 🧡

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      Thank you so much! We've been stuck at home with each other this entire pandemic and sharing the same office space so it has definitely highlighted some of this issues.

  • @bshspace4655
    @bshspace4655 3 года назад

    You guys are super funny. I enjoyed your video! Lots of love❤

  •  3 года назад +1

    This was hilarious and so spot on. You two work great together thanks for sharing this...lol #393 that is me looking forward to the next video.

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      Thanks a lot! we have been loving your channel as well!

  • @WealthWisdomFinancial
    @WealthWisdomFinancial 3 года назад

    I love this. Both a couples channel like us and we can totally relate. We have worked together for years and oh man. We have stories. Love this!

  • @sandraekoma145
    @sandraekoma145 3 года назад

    Y'all really made me laugh. Thankyou so much for this. Really great points. Loved it.

  • @ayotundeawomolo1223
    @ayotundeawomolo1223 3 года назад

    Thanks guys for sharing.

  • @jaymel2589
    @jaymel2589 3 года назад +1

    Awe y'all are so cute 🥰 great info

  • @InspirationalbyMarie
    @InspirationalbyMarie 3 года назад +1

    Hello, I watched fully and laughed throughout 😂although I am not married. I really loved your companionship and how you are friends with each other

  • @debtmenot3928
    @debtmenot3928 3 года назад

    Oh goodness you guys are sooooo true about marriage! I'm the introvert in the relationship so I love my personal time...not anymore:) Wood always wants to chat, chat, chat!!! We have been married for 9 years and I'm still not used to some annoying habits (like leaving the water running when he brushes his teeth)! But I wouldn't trade married life for anything; thanks for sharing you two:) -Britt

  • @TheLongRunwithJoelandChristy
    @TheLongRunwithJoelandChristy 3 года назад +1

    You guys are hilarious and absolutely correct! 😂🥰

  • @SeanAndersonThe9th
    @SeanAndersonThe9th 3 года назад

    This is way good, a must see for all couples in the goo goo stage. Real funny and entertaining although a serious topic.

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      Yes! Couples in the goo goo stage have no idea 😂😂🙄

  • @TNOG511
    @TNOG511 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing, I Enjoyed hanging out with you all, I Laughed so much 🤣🤣🤣 Have a Beautiful Evening 🌸

  • @amakaglorious9768
    @amakaglorious9768 3 года назад

    Interesting topic
    Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @CynthiaAjudolu
    @CynthiaAjudolu 3 года назад

    Am just an absolute true believer of Marriage no matter how rough and good it goes.

  • @LandoSuccess
    @LandoSuccess 3 года назад

    Love both of y’all energy

  • @literacygardentv1639
    @literacygardentv1639 3 года назад +1

    You guys are the best I enjoyed you all so much tjis was entertaining .

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga 3 года назад +1

    U two are so adorable! I was smiling the whole time! Hahahahaha

  • @MAMACATHY47
    @MAMACATHY47 3 года назад

    Great share about marriage. Thanks much. Have a good day.

  • @PogiboyProductions
    @PogiboyProductions 3 года назад

    LOL.. love this topic.. I had a failed marriage, but I look at it as experience... tips for those who are looking forward to marriage haha.. you guys explained it so well! 🙂❤

  • @PopleBackyardFarm
    @PopleBackyardFarm 3 года назад +1

    Marriage can be heaven on earth or hell on earth... prayer is the key :)

  • @mommykimberlysadventures954
    @mommykimberlysadventures954 3 года назад

    Wow..... hahahahaha u both crack me up thanks for sharing have a bless day 💓 prayers and peace ")

  • @shontayharrell4850
    @shontayharrell4850 3 года назад

    🤣🤣🤣you guys are too funny. These are some good ones. I definitely have to have a TV in my room though...lol. my husband loves to be outside when he's home so I get the TV to myself majority. He's always like if I'm happy he's happy. I wouldn't change it for the world 🥰😁

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад +1

      That’s awesome! If only I could convince my husband. Hopefully after a few more years of marriage I will get my TV!

    • @shontayharrell4850
      @shontayharrell4850 3 года назад

      @@RLFPowerCouple 🤞🤞🤞😁

  • @PurposeDrivenWomen
    @PurposeDrivenWomen 3 года назад +1

    "No refunds no returns" 😂😂😂😂
    "Pooping their life away"😂😂😂
    I had to pull my husband, so much we can relate with

  • @carelessislanders
    @carelessislanders 3 года назад

    hello dear friend, im here again. great advice. thank you for sharing

  • @MONEYANDTIME
    @MONEYANDTIME 3 года назад +1

    Great act there. Well done.

  • @SimplyAileen
    @SimplyAileen 3 года назад

    Love the chemistry. Keep it up guys. 49 for you.

  • @dcncfamily7731
    @dcncfamily7731 3 года назад

    Hi! New friend here! We have been married for 27 years and we were together 4 1/2 years before we got married... so 31 1/2 years all together! We met in highschool! My husband is a big baby and he can never find his own things in the house!!You guys are a beautiful couple! Enjoyed the video! We have our Bell on! See you later! Enjoy your day!♥️♥️

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      Wow thats so awesome. We just going on 4 years and it feels like forever! Thank you so much for watching!

    • @dcncfamily7731
      @dcncfamily7731 3 года назад

      @@RLFPowerCouple You’re welcome! ❤️

  • @igboprincess1322
    @igboprincess1322 3 года назад

    I am glad we found each other. Thanks for joining my Family. I am happy to meet you guys. You guys look nice. I got married this year and honestly, i don't have any private anything anymore?

  • @RodrigoMedeirosFinance
    @RodrigoMedeirosFinance 3 года назад

    haha i think if my girlfriend read this title she would be upset! Great video though guys 👍👍

  • @believer7280
    @believer7280 3 года назад

    Haha, this video is funny, but it's informative and true. Good idea. I'm 48 and never married....I don't think I could deal with that stuff. But, God can use us all, whether married or single. (from Louisiana, USA)

  • @OddlySatisfyingthings
    @OddlySatisfyingthings 3 года назад

    You two looks so natural and adorable. I love your topic. Wish I had stumbled on your channel before I pooped my life away...
    Big thumbs up.
    Stay inlove both of you. 😘🌹🇵🇬🇳🇿

  • @UgbosFamily
    @UgbosFamily 3 года назад

    This is really funny and seeing you both people will know that marriage is sweet especially when you marry the right person kudos to you both

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад +1

      Yes it is. Thank you so much for watching!

  • @studyyourbibleinoneyear1209
    @studyyourbibleinoneyear1209 3 года назад

    Marriages suck because people do not choose the right mate.
    Simply put!! I have written a few books like this like The Naked Wife and 23 Types of Guys You Might Meet.

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад +1

      Very true. It’s so important to pick the right partner!

  • @LaRuthaBella
    @LaRuthaBella 3 года назад +1

    These are all facts but we just have to deal with.

  • @JeffrenaGeorge
    @JeffrenaGeorge 3 года назад

    Oh damn it’s the personal time for me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mavutivepersonalfinancelif5326
    @mavutivepersonalfinancelif5326 3 года назад

    Can’t lie the title of the video shocked me. Hahaha

  • @ChillHeal
    @ChillHeal 3 года назад

    *Marriage is not for me but I respect everyone who does want it.*

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      This is something most people are not willing to admit. Thank you so much for stopping by.

  • @icysnow57cold64
    @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад +1

    I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
    Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
    I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
    People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts. Actually do agree that relationships with a best friend may seem more fun and reliable than romantic partners/spouse. Therefore, it is more ideal to find a long term partner that is a true friend.

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад

      @@RLFPowerCouple You're welcome. Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
      Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
      And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
      Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
      Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
      So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.

  • @iamna2609
    @iamna2609 3 года назад

    😊👍

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 года назад

    You both have great personalities

  • @aRAhandfamDaExplorer
    @aRAhandfamDaExplorer 3 года назад

    You are nice couple guys:)

  • @miketiksayfishhunting5497
    @miketiksayfishhunting5497 3 года назад

    Sweet couple

  • @dkfamtv1883
    @dkfamtv1883 3 года назад

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 all too real 😅

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
    @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948 3 года назад

    😅😅😅 don't do it reconsider y'all are too funny

  • @Maurmaur_OG
    @Maurmaur_OG 3 года назад

    Hey. When I heard RE- consider I was like......What????? Still watching though

  • @AstridDl
    @AstridDl 3 года назад

    Hi guys!! Greetings :)

  • @shaunp4560
    @shaunp4560 3 года назад

    this is not aboot that movie with scarlet johanson in it

    • @RLFPowerCouple
      @RLFPowerCouple  3 года назад

      No never heard of the movie. Does the movie have the same title?

  • @UgbosFamily
    @UgbosFamily 3 года назад

    I am really missing my tv in my room

  • @GabrielLopez-w6k
    @GabrielLopez-w6k 13 дней назад

    🤣

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 года назад

    Don't do it 😂😂😂

  • @djgabulearchitect9155
    @djgabulearchitect9155 3 года назад

    number 7 is so hilarious reason. nice tips. Great video. super cool. full watch and support here. Hope you do the same.

  • @DTCHANNEL8590
    @DTCHANNEL8590 3 года назад

    The video is very good, complementary and interesting. same like share sub ...!!! Like 31

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    @worldinfo9739 3 года назад

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