Why Marriage is Bad
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
- Why Marriage is Bad
Everyone says marriage is good, but are they right?
In this video, I'll be going over the reasons why it's not so great. From how much money you will spend to how many years you might waist...marriage may seem like a bad idea!
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Marriage was the worst decision I ever made.
R u wrong tho?
I fell for that p+$$y trap too.
@Jefff72
That's the first thing to go. Married men actually get less. Some lose interest because the attraction fades😮, or she simply doesn't feel the need to perform, even though that is the primary reason many men sign the license to begin with. 😳
Lol No peace and no 420 time...oh and more $ I have over 12 gs chillin all for me not her lame asz
Same here
When you're single, you've got lots of freedom and free to go anywhere you please.
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And more money! 😂
Go anywhere like no where I remember my ex wanted to go out all the time I just wanted to rest from work
Fu** marriage
Yessir 👍🏽
Every married guy I deal with. "My wife will kill me if I don't ......" or "My wife will kill me if I forget...". You never hear wives saying stuff like this.
Married men become weak and cucked out meanwhile their wife is probably smashing tyrone or chad next door
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Feel bad for the fool. He's lost the game. Hopefully he takes the L and gets out of that unhealthy relationship.
that's never going to happen unless if u r wallet is always full.....
They use p+$$y as a bait and men are powerless against p+$$y. They're giving it to you all the time. On many occasions, they initiate it. It's a trap.
47, no kids, never married, and I do not regret it.
Did you had or have s*x with womens... ??
If not , do you regret that sometime..
I am asking because i am 39 male virgin unmarried.. and think not to marry .. but sometime regret not ever experienced s*x..
I dont know whether my decusion of living this way will make me regret or not.. as i dont want to marry because i am afraid of women cheating as i have seen few.. and its heartbreaking..
Ive been married for 3 years its pure hell I did it because i gave up not gonna lie ive had failed relationship after failed relationship and i just settled for anything and threw in the towel now i am more depressed than i ever was as a single man needless to say i fucked up after this ends and it is gonna end i will never date and damn sure will never get married again it is truly better to be alone i can do bad and be miserable all by myself maybe thats the way its supposed to be for me anyways sad but true😢😢
Isn't it remarkable that the Bible says the following? "[B]ut those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this." "To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is well for them to remain single as I do." -Apostle Paul, née Saul (1 Corinthians 7:28; 7:7-8).
Yeah, but these people are not gonna live without sex, so they want sex without get married
My life is my life, it’s not just some thing that I can give to someone. I won’t do it, I have dreams and ambitions, blood sweat and tears and I’m not giving that to anyone.
Same idea here man ...plus I protect my heart at all cost
Enjoy your single life lol
You are smart. Women have nothing to offer a man. They are petty, irrational, lazy and they change for the worse after the fantasy moon, some cell the honeymoon. It will suck all of your money out of you
@@MyForeverPersonoh were enjoying it
@@MyForeverPersonmarried man get 1 pum pum , single man gets many
If married man try to get another pum pum he losses all his money & 1/2 future paycheques
So ,married man end up with 0 money & 0 pum pum
I was in Walmart and a guy was on his cell talking to his wife in the laundry isle. He was asking which Tide Pods to buy as there was so many different kinds and he couldn't find the specific ones SHE wanted. I thought, "Dear God, if I ever have to do this, strike me dead with a lightning bolt in the parking lot."
Some men are betas and need marriage
@@VoiceOfReason919 and if your a married Alpha you just argue 24/7 because you don’t let them get away with the BS. It’s no better. I’d rather be unmarried
Meanwhile his wife is probably smashing tyrone or chad next door
“Happy wife, happy life”😂😂
Pretty much the only time I'm not happy is when I'm dealing with other people
Dealing with this with my own family thinking living up too sinful desire
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
Everything living has desires. Rid yourself of mind viruses such as religious mythology and your life will be so much more enjoyable. 😶
Same
I really appreciate you pointing out that marriage is a bad thing. You really do show a great deal of knowledge and insight. I admire that. However, in my opinion, there is a whole lot more to the story. With this in mind, I PUT FORTH MY COMMENTARY ON WHY MEN SHOULD REMAIN SINGLE:
Benjamin Franklin once said, "Those who will trade freedom for security, will eventually end up with neither." There are men who have been cunningly deceived into believing that marriage will bring a sense of security; a secured lifetime companion, a secured lifetime lover, and a secured lifetime helpmate. Thus, they renounce their freedom through marriage. These men often end up experiencing tragedy and disaster. On the other hand, there are a lot of men who have wised up, and realize that modern marriage is a complete disgrace. These men, like me, have firmly resolved to cling tenaciously to their freedom; and to cherish it, protect it, and defend it for the rest of their lives.
"Nowadays, in America, it is better for men to remain single, than to get married and reproduce. For men, marriage and child-rearing have become shackles, chains, and slavery; where women are the slave drivers. Most modern wives, in this country, refuse to share EQUALLY in the conjugal duties of marriage; be it financial responsibilities or domestic responsibilities. In marriage, everything is centered on making the wife happy, regardless of how miserable the husband feels. Women are allowed to be liberated and free to act however they please; while men are forced to carry the cross of traditional masculine gender roles, often ending up nailed to that cross. Wives, in turn, show very little affection, love, respect, or appreciation to their husbands. Even sex becomes just another job for men to do, in order to please their wives. What's more, most modern men can handle their own domestic duties, such as cooking and cleaning. Above all, women and society show almost no appreciation to husbands and fathers, for all the hard work, the sacrifice, and the love, that they show their wives and families. So nowadays, WHAT BENEFIT IS MARRIAGE? For men, marriage has no benefits whatsoever; only stress, fatigue, discouragement, disappointment, despair; and feeling unloved as well as unappreciated. From what I've seen, most modern females (between the ages of 18-34) are selfish, greedy, untrustworthy, irresponsible, disrespectful, narcissistic, cruel, and basically evil. Their yearning for marriage is not rooted in love, but in a selfish desire to fulfill their feminine identity. Hence, the real problem, in this country, is not that there are no good men; the problem is that there are so few good women (between the ages of 18-34).
To make matters worse, 50% of marriages end in divorce, with women initiating 80% of divorces. Even worse, if wives commit adultery, or abuse their husbands, they are usually not held accountable for the evil that they do. Many females will use their poisonous tongues, during and after marriage, to kill a man's reputation through slander, gossip, and lies. Worst of all, many ex-wives will deprive fathers and children of having healthy relationships by keeping fathers from having contact with their children. Any female who compels a man to marry her against his will (or who "baby traps" a man), is not acting out of love and devotion. She is acting out of selfishness, greed, manipulation, codependency, insecurity, cruelty, and possibly misandry. My friends, don't let any female deceive you by telling you that having a child together will bring "meaning" to the relationship. IT WON'T! It will only put the relationship to test. These females will often use your children as a tool for manipulation against you. I have seen many good-hearted men have their lives destroyed by evil women who commit such despicable acts. Worst of all, these females rarely have any remorse for the cruelty, the sins, and the evil that they commit. All these things destroy a man's life!
Therefore, DON'T BLAME MEN FOR NOT WANTING TO GET MARRIED!
I don't think Benjamin Franklin said this quote. ...he himself was married and I could not find this exact quote on internet. Can you elaborate where you found it ?
@@awesomekj5812 Benjamin Franklin did say this but he applied it to the American Revolution and standing up to the British tyranny. I decided to apply it to marriage. It really fits, doesn't it? While Ben Franklin was married, he did have his share of mistresses on the side. Maybe he should have stayed single. I think that if he was alive today, and he saw how marriage is a disgrace, he would be right there with me. He is one historical figure that I greatly admire. And if we meet up yonder, I hope to shake his hand.
Live longer to be unhappy longer? 😂
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Unless if you want some freedom, at least
Marriage is COMPLICATED. 😡
and alot of hard work
Don't do it!
married men are stressed more thus visit the doctor more often. They have more small health problems but that leads to doctors catching the big problems earlier.
Unless your spouse is faithful..you might as well not be married
I subscribed 5 times 💪
As long as you keep it an odd number
Man that was awesome guys. Cant wait to break a million so I can join the boys club. Lol #doge
@@LifeofTyas a big reason kids often stay with the mother instead of the father is because the mother gives birth to the child and often times has a stronger emotional & physical bond.
Also women are conditioned to be nurturers and care givers from being young.
Facts that state children without fathers have more behavioural problems is not particularly helpful to the women who are left to be mother & father to the child because the father disappears!! There’s no real evidence that men make better single parents than women. Money doesn’t equal “better” when it comes to parenting.
@Kitty Kate proof please?
Im a MGTOW for 1 year after a quick divorce - Im typing this from Symphony of the Seas heading to Alaska
if there is a third party in a contract that has nothing to lose but everything to gain, it is no brainer to not sign that contract
I agree.
Interesting statement.
Might be the only woman here (and I also work at weddings ha) but it’s refreshing to hear your views. I personally don’t see any reason for involving the government in my relationship. Thanks for sharing this info and your thoughts with us.
I didn't watch any part of this video
Marriage is horrible
Don't do it at all
Try to make enough to survive solo and remain single
With exceptions: every time I see men getting married am like WHY??? Why would you want to involve the unfair courts.
There is the common law marriage trap too.
Men don't understand marriage and the contract they sign. Men think they are giving her what she wants and will be a loving wife afterwards. She will get the commitment and sex will continue.
The reality is completely different, the marriage is a contract between the man and state government laws. These laws are never revealed when the man signs the contract. Here is what I mean.....
1) the man is now obligated to keep her in the life style she expects - she gets the house, furniture, children and dog. It's a given, she just says, give it to me.
2) man must pay alimony to keep her going in that life style. Some states it's a payment for life.
3) man pays child support but pays 3x more than it really costs.
4) his children are the states, not his, they decide when you see them, it might only be a few times a month- it's never if the ex says so. All she says is the kids do not want to go. The father is out. Don't say he can fight for them because it will cost $50,000 and statically he won't win.
5) he must keep a life insurance policy with the ex as beneficiary in case he kills himself after losing everything he worked for. The state knows he might, but they want the money.
Where is the benefit to the man ? Sex, no she just cuts him off. Kids? No the state controls them. Money ? No she keeps her own and spends the man's. Companionship ? No, she files for divorce at 80%. 90% if she makes more. Marriage is actually a scam for the man and a big fat profit center for her. The state just says to the man, live in your car and get 2 or 3 jobs. All of this happened to me.
My condolences brother, why any sane man plays this game and gambles on the most emotionally volatile and preferentially treated creature in the world is beyond me
Yeah Fuck Marriage
THIS IS SO TRUE NEVER SIGN A CONTRACT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND
I'm gonna comment again to help raise the algorithm
Have I told you that I love you
Marriage is a great thing to do when both parties are sincere. In the West, marriage is practically worthless or unattainable because of the availability of sexual openness and women delaying relationships due to career development.
You know in Asia it’s a taboo to divorce and that’s even worse because a lot of times people are being forced to be together rather than actually staying because they love each other. Having a toxic marriage is FAR worse than a divorce. This happens In Asian countries like India, Pakistan and many middle eastern countries. It’s a horrible thing.
Why only women? We have every right to do a career just like men do
@@Dragondude30i m from India, here most man r in a failed relationship but can’t give divorce.
Only remain unhappy or some go to Sx works but can’t divorce.
Man practically can’t divorce without valid reasons! Not compatible is not a reason !!!
All I can say is THANK GOD THAT WE LIVE IN AMERICA where we have the freedom to choose how we live our lives! Men are not legally required to get married and reproduce. Even most religious leaders admit that marriage is not for everyone.
Nonetheless, it takes courage and strength to take a stand against radical feminism, against gender role expectations, against the system itself; and to be your own man, not a puppet on a string. But we can do all things with the strength that God gives us (Philippians 4:13). I am not advocating that men should withdraw from society, or practice the sin of homosexuality. Nor am I advocating that we should hold malice towards women, or avoid having close female friends. But as men, we cannot wait for women and society to change their way of relating to us; we need to do something for ourselves. The blatant truth is that for men, nowadays, the only way to level the field, in the area of male-female relations, is to GET A VASECTOMY and STAY SINGLE. I made this decision many years ago, and I have no regrets. I encourage all men to follow my example. In doing so, we are not only practicing personal responsibility; but we are making use of our God-given freedom and boldly declaring "My life! My body! My choice!" Besides, we have over 7 billion people in this world, most of whom are impoverished and/or spiritually misguided. Do we really need to make any more? My four bits of advice for young single men are: Trust in God; Work hard; Stay healthy; and Stay single. Don't let your parents persuade you with any sentimental hogwash about wanting to be grandparents. Parents who do this aren't concerned with your welfare, they are only looking out for their own personal interests. Consider the words of St. Paul: "Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you single? DO NOT SEEK A WIFE."(1Corinthians 7:27). Therefore, if you are single, and you choose to stay single, then STAND YOUR GROUND and know that YOU HAVE GOD'S APPROVAL. And if God is for you, no one can be against you (Romans 8:31). What's more, being single means having more time and energy to give to friends, to family, to hobbies, and to God. And this will lead to men having healthier, happier lives.
There is still the propensity for romance. But by remaining single and childless, men and women have the ability to relate to each other for companionship, as friends and lovers, NOT AS RELATIONSHIP OBJECTS. Codependency of gender role expectations is replaced by mutual acceptance, love, respect, and appreciation of each other as unique individuals. Instead of relating to each other as GENDER IMAGES, where men exude only "masculine" qualities and women exude only "feminine" qualities, both can relate to each other as whole persons. This will help free men from the rigid gender roles and gender stereotypes that have been destroying our lives for so long. And, this will also help women by making them stronger, more self-reliant, and more secure in themselves; as well as giving them a more positive attitude. In doing so, they may come to appreciate us men as people, and as individuals; NOT AS SUCCESS OBJECTS. I believe that all of this will lead to more positive relations between men and women.
We've had women's liberation, NOW IT'S TIME FOR MEN'S LIBERATION. It is time that men left the slave plantation of gender roles and gender stereotypes altogether; and that we claimed our God-given freedom. And if God has made us free, then we are free indeed (John 8:36); regardless of what women and society have to say. So let's cast these three demons out of our lives: marriage, cohabitation, and reproduction. And let us "Stand fast in the liberty by which God has made us free, and not be entangled again with the yoke of bondage."(Galatians 5:1). I, personally, would rather die a free man than to live life enslaved or imprisoned. We should heed the immortal words of Patrick Henry: "Is life so dear, or is peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of CHAINS and SLAVERY? FORBID IT, ALMIGHTY GOD! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, GIVE ME LIBERTY or GIVE ME DEATH!"🗡
Ppl that want to be married have issues. For one, happiness is fleeting. Two, shit gets OLD and ppl get comfortable. Lastly, you will eventually become roommates because the sex will be virtually non existent. That’s a LOT OF TRUST to believe your partner will never cheat on you. All it takes is ONE TIME
I see marriage as a huge waste of money and an even bigger liability. If marriage dictates someones love, then it isn't love. Marriage is just another chain restricting your freedom. A marriage free relationship is the best kind.
Marriage is a commitment, and love is an action. It is not just a feeling. It is a choice.
@@jncon8013 a couple papers doesn't mean anything.
@@Tyrannosaurus_rex. if marriage was nothing more than paperwork then I would agree
@@jncon8013well it is paper work and and don’t forget the SHIT TON OF MONEY ON THE LINE LMFAO
@@nirogalactoid8398 yes, I agree it does involve paperwork and money lol
I'm 52m never married and no children. Being in control of your time, space and freedom are positives. Additionally, having no stress in your life is an added benefit. Sure, I get lonely at times, but that's what the Internet is for.
Being unmarried is just like using an android phone 📱 as being more customisable but secure.
Iphone users might be aware of this fact as well.
Congrats on the 1000 bro!! That was fast!! 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🌕
Thanks for helping to make that happen for me.
Marriage is the opposite of stable.
How so?
No marriage No cohabitation No children.
I wish i could tell my 15 year old self to stay single. I would have been retired and happy at 35. Dont fall for the lie of love. Its nothing more that a chemical imbalance that will heal in time.
If two people love each other, then they will desire to be together. No legally binding contract required. If the relationship goes badly after a while then you can easily go your separate ways. Never bind yourself to someone for life who might end up making you miserable.
When you meet someone, fall in love, and decide to tie the knot, you and your partner are merely settling for a snapshot of your personas at certain point in time. The issue with any relationship is that human beings are dynamic beings and constantly subjected to all sorts of influences, impulses, emotions. Someone will change during the course of the relationship.....it's human nature and not some character flaw. So making a lifelong with ONE person is the domain of the naive. Perhaps I'm a little too perceptive but I realized it all in my teens. Guys....stay single like me; I've got more money in my checking account than my divorced, and some married, peers have in their 401k.
Marriage is a contract and god? Yeah whether god is real or not neither can be assumed as it is beyond our imagination and comprehension with that out of the way,why can't man and woman live in a house together without getting married.what's the difference?Nothing except promises that you probably can keep everything depends on consequences.whether you lose patience over a child which by the way is not necessary to have one.Because when you create life,you also create death for them.Without indoctrination from parents of both partners about "marry that guy for money and security" or "marry that girl because she's worth it and will make you look good" well l say they would live happliy ever after.Both partner get their privacy and no need for sentimental judgement from society.
Congrats on 1000+ subs!! New sub here thanks to Andrei. Time to binge your channel as well haha
I can't thank you and everyone else enough. Means a lot. Thanks
Marriage is the worst choice any man can make. You might as well sign your death away
And my mum is going nuts to see me married,i’m 33 and proudly single 😂❤
Your mum's a predator. Don't listen to her. Men who are actually men with self respect don't get married. Don't listen to the Catholic church. They straight up don't live in reality. You can get with a man, even have babies with a man but you have to earn his trust and take the lead. You have all the power in the relationship. I call it the power if the snitch.
Hopefully you have a partner and child. It's ok to be unmarried at your age but you need a family of your own. Parents will die and we need children and partners to keep living.
@@nickchkheidze9189Let hin do his own thing,and fuck off with that stupid reasoning
@@nickchkheidze9189You don't need a partner and you certainly don't need to concede a child as l once said."when you create life you also create death".a pathway of pleasure that has pain and suffering coming your way. is it really worth it?
I know it's a year too late but shut your face @@nickchkheidze9189
Marriage is the effort to solve problems together, You'd never have being alone
It's not marriage that makes people live longer. It's simply that healthy people are more likely to be chosen for marriage. They were going to live longer anyway. People aren't attracted to unhealthy attributes.
I agreed 7 seconds in
Steadiness at work is often likely because many are stuck at a job they hate because they need that money to sustain their family.
Ever seen two people in a marriage that are truly happy if you ask them to be Honest behind closed doors? No? Didn’t think so
Great video! 👍
I was going to get married when I was 21 years old. But my fiancée and me weren’t getting along and I knew we were going to break up. When it actually happened I wasn’t crying to my fiancée, I didn’t tell her please take me back, none of that. My former fiancée emailed me out of the blue and I thought we were going to get back together. But she acted like she was still pissed with me. So the emails stopped I never called her again. My homeboy told me you got over your ex-fiancée pretty feet. I told my parents that I will never get engaged again, I’m done. I would rather live with someone. And if it doesn’t work out I’m just going to move out of her place and go get a a apartment of my own.
Especially when you're YOUNG, arguing and ABUSE can happen in marriage making the children or child WONDER if their parents still love each other and if they will ever get back together. 😑
Marriage is a con.
Congrats on reaching the 1,000+ tonight!!!!
Thanks. I'm insanely grateful
Nothing lasts forever, people. Especially relationships. People change. Variety is the spice of life. 😶
Kramer's (seinfeld) views on marriage is the reason why don't want to get married
The reason husband's live longer than bachelors is because generally speaking, the guys with the best genetics are the ones who get picked for marriage. Thus, they we're going to live longer anyway
It’s because married men are stressed more thus visit the doctor more often. They have more small health problems but that leads to doctors catching the big problems earlier.
I was married only 3 years. My wife made more money than I did so I didn't lose much. I only spent a few thousand on my divorce. There is no incentive for wives to keep themselves up physically or give you sex regularly once you marry them. Don't fall for the trap gentleman. You having the option to always leave keeps them honest. Much better than trying to have a guarantee for life or so they thought. I divorced my wife and have not been happier.
Marriage is an old fashioned concept. It clearly doesn't work the way it's designed. It's not necessary. I can say I'm a better person though. In no longer nice and naive. Men don't appreciate niceness
. I have learned from my husband to be more selfish like him, and I have learned from his dismissiveness that I no longer need validation from anyone. I have also learned how to set boundaries, so that I'm not getting played anymore because men like to play games. They are competitive by nature. So in that respect it is good but there are many headaches that come with these lessons
The "married men live longer than unmarried men" is all of two extra years of life from average 82 to 84. My divorced dad lived to be 87, trust me, that 80th decade is not filled with wild adventure. That "benefit" is no such thing.
Similarly all the other "benefits" married men have over unmarried men have hidden caveats that negate the supposed benefit.
Congrats on the new subs!
Wow. Thanks for helping make that happen. just wow
Love your channel
Most guys will probably enjoy this; I think kids are the biggest reason ladies insist on the father's presence; I think the statistics on the effect of father figure on kids are biased. I've seen single parented kids being less pampered and more on a survival mode which can make them more resilient in life, a bit of struggle is good in life;
I think those government statistics cannot be trusted as the government itself benefits tremendously from marriages.
@Kitty Kate I don't personally think marriage is necessary in life. I'm usually sceptical about anything promoted by society, making it an obligation and more or less removing freedom of choice for other options. Religion is another area that can be more or less forced on somebody and education is yet another. It's like you dont have a choice but to spend so much money and energy and get yourself into deep debt to get educated! I'm always sceptical of this 'lack' of a different option. Also, anything that society makes necessary becomes a good area for various exploitations.
Get rid of this alimony , child support stuff and stop reallocating men’s resources it wouldn’t be so bad
Hebrews 13:4 says 'marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefined. But fornicators and adulterers God will judge.' I am single, never married, no children, but I know that not everyone is cut out to lead the kind of lifestyle I lead, a celibate one.
divorce rate 50pct nationwide nuff said
Terrible decision man it's terrible not signing a prenup is really the next terrible decision outside of not signing a prenup and not doing marriage counseling...
I cant deal with nagging someone that tries to undermine me once u start that bullshit u gotta go
I get wat u saying it's true how just bcz m not married doesn't mean I have options men out here are already married so single women dnt really have choices like u put it in this video men ain't waiting thy are Flippin moving on dnt settleling down which means choices are getting lesser lesser I tell u so single women will die single parents with no marriage by choice ofcos😊
You’re about as naive as I was at 25
Added from the stream of Andrei
Thanks for doing that for me
What about Green Cards?
Yeah. I’ve heard of them.
I don't get married because I do not submit to women. I also do not submit to a government that writes the laws the way it does. I will be rebellious to this culture and laws to death because they are genuinely oppressive and discriminatory.
Bravo! Spend those moneys in things that actually bring you happyness and Alcohol!
Great video
MY EYES!!
Are you saying that the pink was a bit too much? my bad
Haha noooo!! Ur good Tyas it's a spongebob reference haha
With these laws, I really don’t see why ppl get married, I guess many get s**kered in.
Ppl getting married becuz they cant cope with loneliness and fear dying alone😂
Being alone and loneliness are two different things.
Everybody dies alone. Doubt you are least concerned whose around on your deathbed. 😶
I sit here wondering the role of commitment towards a human being’s happiness. There are lots of commitments one can make in his or her life that bring happiness. I google “commitment makes you happy”. So interesting. Marriage is one that continues to bring me happiness. Regardless of relational conflict that may arise, I’ve chosen to align myself with staying committed to my spouse. Marriage can ride like the ups and downs of a stock but similarly while assessing and risks and rewards of such a commitment, I’m holding on with diamond hands ;). Thanks for the thought provoking video.
The thing is, marriage has absolutely nothing to do with commitment.
I am NOT married and that continues to bring me happiness just as much. I am committed to high quality health routine: healthy diet&sleep regime and to my dreams. I am committed to myself, my happiness and see great rewards from such life with NO RISKS AT ALL!
What am I risking- finances?stress?sexless life? Childlessness? ....none of that. The only thing I risk is losing a chance of losing everything only to become homeless 🤣🤣 , but I don't mind to never have such a chance 🤣
Simp mentality this is how you get bamboozled. "She would never do that"
*looks at my parents, friends and relatives arguing 24/7 with their spouse*
"Yep, looks like happiness to me"
Probably because you met your sweetheart and is not a deformed sperm and has a cheating mindset.good for you enjoy the ride while you can because it won't last forever
less goo
from andrei
Thanks
Bro im 29 unmarried sexless . Living average life ;)
On Marriage: ignorance is rampant.
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Me: I love my marriage and my kids.
Tyas: No, actually your dumb and you just think your happy because you have less choices that you have to make and therefore less stress of making choices.
Me: Oh, okay, well that sounds like I like the stability.
Tyas: Actually, your dumb again. You've given up on your dreams, your flexibility, your chance to live something exiting.
Me: Actually, I did some crazy, exciting stuff in my twenties and I'm ready for some stability and routine to my life.
Tyas: Uh, it doesn't matter anyway because half of marriages end in divorce and those that don't are probably unhappy marriages anyway.
Me: Well, you're not wrong. I was previously married before I met my current wife. It was a bitter divorce and I lost my house, savings and everything but my beat up car.
Tyas: See, I KNOW, I was married once, and because my marriage failed, I got to tell everyone about how marriages are terrible.
Me: Um, it was rough, but taking what I learned from my failed marriage has made my marriage to my wife now much better and successful.
Tyas: But the kids! Think of the children! Statistically, all marriages are terrible, I would have had a much happier childhood if my parent had divorced instead of wait till I turned 18.
Me: I mean, ok, I don't know your family, that might be true, but didn't you just say that children without a father figure are more likely to turn to suicide and have long term trouble?
Tyas: Yeah, the courts are biased towards the mother and fathers get the shaft.
Me: Well, that sounds like a problem with the court system and not really an argument against marriages.
Tyas: But the courts! The government! Religion, why ruin a relationship by stamping the word marriage on it!
Me: Well, if I'm happy and proud of something, why not celebrate it, honor it, make is special. I look forward to my wedding anniversary, my kids' birthdays, I like having a family.
Tyas: Oh, you just THINK you're happy.
Me: Well, happiness is subjective to what you, yourself think, so yeah, I do.
Tyas: You're delusional, you're just telling yourself that.
Me: I dunno, maybe. Maybe you're just telling EVERYONE that ALL marriage IS BAD because it didn't work out for you. It's like you're desperately trying to tell yourself that it wasn't YOUR failure but the failure of MARRIAGE as an institution.
I definitely don't think anyone is dumb. Hope it didn't come off that way. Anyways, thanks for watching and for the comment.
@@LifeofTyas @Life of Tyas Perhaps you didn't mean to call married people dumb, but you are literally trying to make the argument that either A) psychologically people are unaware that the comfort of marriage is inherent to the lack of "freedom" to see other people and pursue your dreams and B) you infer than most people lie about how happy they actually are being married by citing a single, very biased sounding source. (At least flat earthers try to use scientific instruments, math and physics to prove their point. Because marriage satisfaction is intrinsic and changes, even within the individual day by day, moment by moment, you think it can be quantified into meaningful data to prove marriage bad, freedom good? You even break the awkwardness of this assertion by "cracking open a cold one" of sparking water and making a joke.
I mean, maybe you weren't calling all married people dumb, but does that mean you were calling them A) ignorant and/or delusional, and B) too cowardly to admit their own feelings to their partners.
I suppose you could deny that that's what you meant, but that's definitely what you're implying. That would be double speak, double speech, BTW. Trump was a master of skirting the subject, "saying something" without actually saying it. Being so vague and roundabout that you knew what he was implying without coming out and saying it. It was frustrating to listen to, because his supporters would comeback and say "well, that's NOT what he actually said, it's taken out of context!" But we all knew what he meant to say.
@@samtrue1 Cry
He's basically saying, You don't need a contract to verify you love someone...
@@reelkfisher The title of the video is "Marriage is Bad" NOT "you don't need a contract to verity you love someone." And the message of the video isn't ironic or sarcastic. He is LITERALLY telling you why he thinks MARRIAGE IS BAD.
My rebuttal is, "don't take life advice from someone who gave up on marriage." This video is like listening to someone who says, "Don't take vaccines! I took the vaccine and ended up feeling sick the next day! More than half of people who take vaccines experience fever, chills, body-ache, and fatigue afterwards!"
And my rebuttal is, "yes, but that's you're body having an immune response which means the vaccine activated your immune system successfully."
Just because you have a bad experience doesn't mean you should shoot something down for all people.
Marriage is the fundamental building block of society, instituted by God. It is a good thing.
According to actual history, you're wrong. God never wanted us to sign a contract and be legally bound by authority. Love and commitment is a choice and marriage has nothing to do with either.
If an experimental island of humans existed in complete ignorance of Christianity, marriage would not occur naturally, like everything else God apparently made.
@@alexandrawinner6081 just like in the wild. The alpha lion doesn't settle down with one lioness and they live happily ever after. No the strongest, most dominant lion gets to have his way w/ any female lion he chooses
@@DocNinini Wtf, as if women wouldn‘t have a choice and just had to accept the man‘s „choice“
Oh shut up
3rd marriage over lol lol