4 TIPS for Great Parenting !

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • What i feel is good parenting. .. this definition can change from person to person.. but my take on what is great parenting is not about what the parent does but about what the environment in the home feels like...

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  • @nivedithapulikkal5820
    @nivedithapulikkal5820 3 года назад +51

    It's high time that parents should give great importance for individuality nd also give respect to their children as they r giving for any others in the house or elders..it's so bad that there was no such parenting tools or no classes or workshops..for our parents..let the coming generation has wonderful parents who can grow along with the child...lots of love nd respect for u swathy mam for sharing such contents nd ideas that really make us think...❤️

  • @ardhratk1884
    @ardhratk1884 3 года назад +20

    കുറച്ച് ദിവസങ്ങൾ മുൻപ് എന്റെ ഒരു relative auntyയും 8thഇൽ മകനും വീട്ടിൽ വന്നു. വിശേഷങ്ങൾ പറയുന്ന കൂട്ടത്തിൽ online class ഉം school ഉം ഒക്കെ കഴിഞ്ഞ് കുട്ടിയുടെ height ഇൽ വന്നെത്തി.
    Aunty പറഞ്ഞു "എന്തു പറഞ്ഞാലും കരച്ചിൽ മാത്രം ഒള്ളൂ. ആൺകുട്ടികൾ ആയാൽ ഇങ്ങനെ ആണോ വേണ്ടത്? Height ഉം ഇല്യാ. ഇവന്റെ class ലെ കുട്ടികൾ ഒക്കെ നല്ല ഉയരം ഒക്കെ ഉണ്ട്. ഇവൻ മാത്രം ആണ് ഇങ്ങനെ.. വീട്ടിൽ എല്ലാവരും അത്യാവശ്യം ഉയരം ഉള്ളവരാണ്. ഇവൻ മാത്രം എന്താണാവോ ഇങ്ങനെ ആയി പോയത്"
    Aunty ഇങ്ങനെ പറഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ കുട്ടിയുടെ മുഖം മാറിയത് ഞാൻ ശ്രദ്ധിച്ചു. "Height ഇൽ ഒക്കെ എന്തിരിക്കുന്നു aunty" എന്ന് ഞാൻ മറുപടിയായി പറയുകയും ചെയ്തു.
    ഒരു parent എങ്ങനെ ആയിരിക്കരുത് എന്ന് ആ aunty എനിക്ക് കാണിച്ചുതന്നു. ഇങ്ങനെയുള്ള കാര്യങ്ങൾ especially parents പറയുമ്പോൾ അത് കുട്ടികളുടെ confidence നെയും parents നോട്‌ ഉള്ള അവരുടെ വിശ്വാസത്തേയും വളരെ അധികം ബാധിക്കും.

    • @mayasamma-malayalam4666
      @mayasamma-malayalam4666  3 года назад +7

      It's so sad when parents body shame children. Thank you for sharing that. We all get to learn from others experiences.

    • @mymobile1054
      @mymobile1054 3 года назад +1

      കുട്ടി ഓട് തുങ്ങആന് പറയുക growing stageil തങ്ങിയആല് hight കൂട്. പിന്നെ കൂട് ഇല്ല. പിന്നെ നല്ല food കഴിക്കുക. എന്നോട് അ ageil
      ആരും തുങ്ങആന് പറഞ്ഞു തന്നു ഇല്ല.

  • @athiraathi6307
    @athiraathi6307 3 года назад +13

    Become the parent you wanted ❤

  • @sajinkurian4699
    @sajinkurian4699 3 года назад +8

    I'm just 23,but i'm always look up to your videos for these kinda topics. These are great lessons.

  • @breezypaul
    @breezypaul 3 года назад +7

    Can't agree with you more. Every night when we put our children to bed, we say to them 'you are beautiful, you are important, you are precious and we love you'. Unconditional love is important, in this very conditional world.

  • @artinhands
    @artinhands 3 года назад +9

    Parenting should be subject to learn...💕💕

  • @easyart2231
    @easyart2231 3 года назад +6

    When ever I say something about bringing up my child my mother used to say," Ethonnum areyathe njngalum makkale nokkettund".. Now we have enough resources so let us explore

  • @indulekhagauri1508
    @indulekhagauri1508 3 года назад +22

    ♥️it’s really good to hear new new enlighting things from you ma’am. Waiting for more videos .

  • @kavyanair3950
    @kavyanair3950 3 года назад +17

    I am an undergraduate student from Kerala ... actually the information in this video is very familiar to me but not familiar to my parents and I truly wish that this video shd be caught by their eyes.
    Bcz such friendly parents are really essential in this century, as it would really affect their children's future be it a boy or girl.

  • @goutham315
    @goutham315 3 года назад +4

    I can be a good dad .. and my baby will be a great human. ❤️

  • @gayathrivarrier6226
    @gayathrivarrier6226 Год назад +1

    Beautiful video...
    Thankyou so much for your valuable information

  • @sivakamilakshmanan239
    @sivakamilakshmanan239 2 года назад +1

    hi sister actually unga video tamil la paathean romba helpful romba stress la irundhean enoda paiyan romba trandrum pannumbodhu romba kovapattu satham potean he is 2 years old avan alumbodhu kovam varudhu bcoz thaniya dhan enoda household wrks ellam pannanum so wrk time la avan yedhachum trandrum panna kovam varudhu romba depressed ah feel pannean naa oru nalla mother illayanu yaarkita poi enoda prblm ah sollanu but unga video do motivating enakulla oru pudhu feel enoda baby boy side la irundhu yosika arambichean kovam kammi aagiruchu ipo avan kita shout pannuradha kammi pannitean still breast feeding my 2 yr baby

  • @radhiyaify
    @radhiyaify 3 года назад +5

    I really loved your concepts and have read a lot about it but when it comes in practicality I incline to the traditional way!!
    For example in unconditional love:
    How can I not show my disappointment if siblings are being rude
    How can I not show my bad mood for the rest of the day when they donot get ready on time or donot follow their time table?
    How I light up when they are neat n tidy, do their work and make healthy choices.
    Or probably I have not understood enough on unconditional love Please help me understand!!
    Please don't be rude when commenting✌peace!!

  • @Amal_Cochin
    @Amal_Cochin 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing this kind of topics.We will implement to our life this valuable comments when we become family

  • @godzgreat8538
    @godzgreat8538 Год назад +1

    I just noticed your channel and watching ur videos, especially parenting videos. Really good. Subscribed your channel now.
    Thank you for the videos.

  • @sivakamilakshmanan239
    @sivakamilakshmanan239 2 года назад +1

    your videos are so helpful inum idheh madhiri neraya parenting related videos podunga sister actually unga interview va aval glitz channel la paathean adhuku aparam dhan unga channel pathi therinchadhu enoda prblm ku solution kedachadhu thank you

  • @princeofdew7047
    @princeofdew7047 3 года назад +5

    Great Informations... Hope it reaches more people. Stay blessed and happy as always 🥰

  • @wrenielaabraham647
    @wrenielaabraham647 3 года назад +6

    You are such an amazing mother! Your knowledge sharing on this subject is immensely amazing and impressive!🙏🏻😊

  • @swathivenugopal8325
    @swathivenugopal8325 3 года назад +3

    I happened to read the book unconditional parenting... It was really awsome... I would like to know more about unconditional parenting... Expecting more videos on that...

  • @shobanapremkumar2709
    @shobanapremkumar2709 3 года назад +6

    I have learnt and understood a lot of things from you... I have also referred ur page to a lot of my friends who are new parents... Thank u so much for enlightening us.. Keep up the good work☺👏

  • @storyteller6542
    @storyteller6542 2 года назад +1

    Just waw! Love you for the valuable content 😍

  • @restore__life1705
    @restore__life1705 3 года назад +6

    I really hope if all parents watch this!!!🥰🙏🙏👍

  • @sayanaanandan4900
    @sayanaanandan4900 3 года назад +5

    Such an amazing talk….. thank you so much ☺️

  • @darkwarrior2712
    @darkwarrior2712 2 года назад +1

    Every parent should remember that you child isn't yours, they have the complete right to live there life as they wish no matter good or bad

  • @preesapeter9264
    @preesapeter9264 3 года назад +2

    Thanks a lot for ur great information Ma'am 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

  • @prajithavijith7188
    @prajithavijith7188 2 года назад

    Great information mam.. it's really helping me and my child.... thank you so much.. waiting for more informations

  • @alsafy5915
    @alsafy5915 2 года назад +2

    It looks great..could you please put English translation ?

  • @devisuresh81
    @devisuresh81 3 года назад +4

    Maya is so lucky to have you ❤️

  • @Sn-gy7wf
    @Sn-gy7wf 3 года назад +4

    Mam.. Work cheyuna parents ngane kuttikale care cheyum.. I am 5 months pregnant and working.. I really wanted to be a good parent. Parents koode illate namukk ngane kuttikale influence cheyan patum. Please do a video about it mam.. Plzz

  • @kavyakamal3542
    @kavyakamal3542 3 года назад +4

    Always a delight to watch ❤

  • @jayasudhakj6768
    @jayasudhakj6768 3 года назад +1

    First view 😍 waiting for dis video thanks dear... 🙏🏻

  • @aryamurali9922
    @aryamurali9922 3 года назад +3

    Your content is gold!

  • @Sarath0100
    @Sarath0100 3 года назад +4

    Always making good contents, Thank you mam 💖✨

  • @growwithbabykiatia5437
    @growwithbabykiatia5437 3 года назад +3

    Loved this. Excellent tips even I love to follow. :) I have seen some people asking for flying kiss from my daughter and when she wasn't giving they said "ayae cheeta kutti. Id kando ee kunj enik tanu flying kiss". Pointing to another kid of the same age.

  • @ardhratk1884
    @ardhratk1884 3 года назад +4

    Chechi.. Keep making videos.. We love your content ❤️

  • @rekharnair
    @rekharnair 3 года назад +2

    Hi.. Thanks for this video. I would like to know how to make a win-win situation with kids on watching videos. Can you please share your thoughts?

  • @praseeda7070
    @praseeda7070 3 года назад +1

    Mam very great and useful content ..thankyou🙏

  • @afnananwar4796
    @afnananwar4796 3 года назад

    The last info was just ❤️

  • @elinmaryroy247
    @elinmaryroy247 Год назад

    Wonderful message❤️❤️

  • @taal.haal.2434
    @taal.haal.2434 3 года назад +1

    chechi..oru suggestion anu.sredhich ingane varumpo English il sentences marumpo aa sredha maaripokum English aryathavarkk...prethyekich chila terms okke..kureeekoodi aalukalil ethanam inganathe videos ennullathukondanu..athra needed content anu..♥️thank you for existing🙏

  • @abhilash.k1162
    @abhilash.k1162 3 года назад +1

    Thank u so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @Rose-lz4kf
    @Rose-lz4kf 3 года назад +1

    Good message.
    Can you share an age wise detailed one.

  • @jumailamabi6651
    @jumailamabi6651 3 года назад

    Wow... Its superbbb

  • @minsymathai6954
    @minsymathai6954 3 года назад +7

    I'm a regular viewer of ur channel.... could you do a video on" is it okay to have a single child"....... will it affect the child's character and things like that...

    • @mylifemyrules7037
      @mylifemyrules7037 3 года назад +2

      Ente opinion it's all about you... Chilark orupaad kuttikal undakumbo pressure handle cheyyan pattila single child aanenkil koodi mattulla kuttikalumayi interact cheyyan anuvadhikuka

  • @shravanbh9997
    @shravanbh9997 3 года назад +1

    It's so nice to hear it ♥️

  • @helenandroos1370
    @helenandroos1370 3 года назад +1

    Nice content.Thanks a lot!

  • @hideandseek7606
    @hideandseek7606 2 года назад

    Kollam ...ishttai chachi

  • @aiswaryasureshbabu6550
    @aiswaryasureshbabu6550 3 года назад +1

    Useful content😊
    Thank you

  • @vinsyaswin1042
    @vinsyaswin1042 3 года назад

    Informational..keep pisting..🥰👌

  • @thetribe7603
    @thetribe7603 3 года назад +1

    This is just ❤️.

  • @ajeesh8097
    @ajeesh8097 3 года назад

    Good information mam... 👏👏👏

  • @sonis171
    @sonis171 3 года назад

    Good information 😍♥️😍 thank you.

  • @snehavanced4594
    @snehavanced4594 2 года назад +1

    Encourage cheyanam, but if we can't say good girl or boy when they do something well. So what's to say then? Well done?

  • @sajanabhaskaran9106
    @sajanabhaskaran9106 3 года назад

    Hi Maya's Amma, very useful content. Thank you :)

  • @shifaismail3121
    @shifaismail3121 2 года назад +1

    I have a doubt!! I am not a parent, but I would like to know, how should a parent approach their children when they do something really naughty, like hurting others, lying or flicking something from somewhere. And what if the child keep on doing naughty things and in no way it is possible to make them understand what is good or what is bad?

  • @atscraps7716
    @atscraps7716 3 года назад +1

    Content👏👏❤❤🔥

  • @shasreepree
    @shasreepree 3 года назад +2

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @johnvarghese9832
    @johnvarghese9832 3 года назад

    Good video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anukrishnav9270
    @anukrishnav9270 3 года назад +3

    Ente molk 3 yr kazhnju. Ellam paranjal anusarikum bt bhayankara upadravamanu ellarem apo enik valland deshyapedendi vararund chila times thalliyitum und athrak upadravamanu. Deshyapedand engne ath mati edkam . Paranj koduthoke noki aa time upadravikoola again same. What should I do?

  • @6666817
    @6666817 3 года назад

    Suggest some books relating to parenting skills.

  • @sudhicheppu1923
    @sudhicheppu1923 3 года назад +2

    Ma'am, is there any specific course which help us to become a good parent

  • @anugayathri9061
    @anugayathri9061 3 года назад +2

    Single parents nte parenting il sradiknda karyngal explain chyamo

  • @fathimahanna2961
    @fathimahanna2961 2 года назад +1

    Could you please suggest some books in malayalam or english about parenting. ?

  • @newlife7680
    @newlife7680 2 года назад +1

    Chechii I’m 20 yrs old bt my parents they are so so strict lyk the won’t allove me to go out with frnds and they restrict me from each and everything and this age i can handle this restriction love tourture Hw can I understand them this that i need freedom and i need independent in my life

  • @sherinkuruvilla9947
    @sherinkuruvilla9947 3 года назад +1

    Hello.., Mayas amma..my 5.5 year old son has extreme anger issues.. can u suggest some solutions for this? Any suggestions are welcome pls

  • @dilnasherin2386
    @dilnasherin2386 6 месяцев назад

    Okk .appol babiees Nalla behaviour kanikkuka anel namml avare engna encourage cheyynm ?

  • @akhilabalachandran3471
    @akhilabalachandran3471 2 года назад

    Good tips mam😊
    Oru doubt. Geneder equalitye kurich paranju kodukkunna oru boy child Avante sis nthukonda verepolathe dress ntha Nik ingathe dress allenkil ornaments kurichu chodikkumbol anganathe questions enganeyanu deal cheyyendathu?
    Plz reply

  • @neena3199
    @neena3199 3 года назад

    I want to become a better parent.

  • @vishnupriyar3145
    @vishnupriyar3145 2 года назад +1

    Mam ente molk 2.5yrs aayi..pettenn deshyam varukayum pinakkavum okke aan..how can this be rectified..enthelum naughtiness kanikumpo angane cheythal mol veezhille allenkil angane cheythal vedanikille ennoke chodichal polum deshyam varum pinangum..

  • @spmohan123
    @spmohan123 3 года назад

    Please give me some idea to stop addiction on mobile using, first point myself has to stop using, kindly tell me how to reduce using mobile my papa

  • @sooryapournami4873
    @sooryapournami4873 2 года назад

    Kuttikal thettaya oru karyam cheyyukayo parayukayo cheythal nammalengananu thiruthendath

  • @lavinatek512
    @lavinatek512 3 года назад +1

    Where we can listen your talk in English ?

  • @peterv.p2318
    @peterv.p2318 2 года назад

    മകൾ വലുതായതിനു ശേഷവും വീഡിയോ ചെയ്യണേ....

  • @sonasreedhar.1669
    @sonasreedhar.1669 2 года назад

    👍🏻👍🏻

  • @radhiyaify
    @radhiyaify 3 года назад

    @Mayas Amma

  • @ishu442
    @ishu442 3 года назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @fathimathfarsana8759
    @fathimathfarsana8759 3 года назад

    hii...nte molk 2yrs and 8mnths anu age..10hrs mathre urangullu..ithu normalano..breast feeding nirthiyathinu shesham urangan vilichal varunnilla..nthenkilum tips paranju tharumo

  • @anushadeepak2935
    @anushadeepak2935 3 года назад +2

    Is it possible to have an online consultation with you?

    • @mayasamma-malayalam4666
      @mayasamma-malayalam4666  3 года назад +1

      I only do consultancy for lactation issues. Rest are all workshops.. My website will be up in some time. You can check that for workshop details.

    • @anushadeepak2935
      @anushadeepak2935 3 года назад

      @@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Thank you...will wait for your website 😊

  • @sheejak415
    @sheejak415 2 года назад

    🙂❤️

  • @Chinnu12392
    @Chinnu12392 3 года назад +1

    🥰❤❤

  • @arathybt8726
    @arathybt8726 3 года назад

    Ente monu bhayankara vasi ane. Ath egane maattum...

  • @ishani.2882
    @ishani.2882 3 года назад +1

    maam pls start making videos in english :)

  • @beenan9656
    @beenan9656 3 года назад

    Good parenting work shop attend cheyyan enthu cheyyanam can u help me

  • @vijisamy9082
    @vijisamy9082 Год назад

    My child is not listening to me. I don't know to take care of her. Hitting out of anger.

  • @arjuns5384
    @arjuns5384 3 года назад

    Oru hai tharamo plzzz.

  • @shovachaudhary5231
    @shovachaudhary5231 2 года назад

    Plz make a video in English or Hindi.. can't understand 😵

  • @nithinsamuel8503
    @nithinsamuel8503 3 года назад

    നല്ല കണ്ടന്റ് ആണ്. ഒരുപാട് നല്ല അറിവുകൾ.
    പക്ഷെ, എല്ലാ വാചകങ്ങളിലും അറിഞ്ഞോ അറിയാതെയോ കയറി വരുന്ന ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് വാക്കുകൾ സംസാരത്തിന്റെ ഭംഗി കളയുന്നു. പൂർണ്ണമായി ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് അല്ലെങ്കിൽ പൂർണമായി മലയാളം എന്നതാണ് കേൾക്കാനും ശ്രദ്ധിക്കാനും നല്ലത്.