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- Опубликовано: 24 мар 2024
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Swati Jagdish is a lot of people in one. She dons multiple roles like sexuality health educator, Lactation counsellor parenting coach, life coach, social media influencer. She is known as Maya`s Amma @mayasamma-malayalam4666 because of her social media handles in both Tamil and Malayalam. Maya is her daughter. She runs an NGO and helps many women in their breastfeeding journey. She has a master's in applied psychology & is a certified behavior analyst. She also helps couples with Intimacy in relationships. She works with organizations and teams in behavior psychology so that it helps people maneuver better in their work or personal spaces. It can also help people reduce conflict in their interpersonal relationships.
In matters specific such as Menstruation and usage of menstrual cups Swati conducts workshops. She has also been practicing as a sex educator taking classes for parents on children’s sexual development and how comprehensive sexuality education can begin in Indian households.
In this conversation we cover a wide array of topics. We talk about how became a lactation consultant. She challenges with Sex Education. The problems first time mothers face with Breastfeeding. we also cover very interesting subjects like the comparison of masculine and feminine energy the yin and yang as it is called. The relevance of sex education in the younger lot and how our values are inextricably linked is also covered.
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Agreed to all except the point about feminism... Men and women are different in physical sense.. But feminism is not that... Feminism is getting the space in the world for all women same as men... Not only on jobs, also in freedom of choices.. To get that freedom of choices, independency is required... For the independency, not everyone has the luxury of getting understanding partner always.... Doing things alone is not masculine, it is called being independent... Feminism is about equal rights, not being able to do what a man does...
Thankyou so much for this beautiful interview.
Cant wait to watch the next part! Great show more importantly brilliant content and insight shared by Swati.
Wonderful information 😊❤❤. Very engaging conversation
Loved it..😍😍 Such a great learning.
Thank you both of you .Very good interview. Informative conversation.
Truly informative episode
Wonderful and informative conversation.. Loved it... Waiting for the next part.... 😊
Thanks a lot 😊
Its amazing...really amazing to see two of my most favorite people talking together..admirable❤
Different perspective, Highly controversial... Well said👌👌👌 Thanks Dhanya...
Waiting for next part..
This entire notion that feminism forced women to chase masculinity n that being ambitious, chasing one's dreams, going out and working and wanting bigger things in life is a masculine trait is the very notion that patriarchy is centred around. This way of putting it across just sounds more sugar-coated and enticing to women. Yes, women are different biologically and deserve to choose what they want for themselves, but to suggest that socially constructed gender roles for men take away a woman's femininity sounds really foolish, problematic and ill-informed.
Exactly..this would make it more difficult for women who are already in chaos .Also, men who are yet to completely understand what women ask for in terms of equal rights n responbilities would go few steps backwards.
Amazing talk🎉🎉I am out of words
This feels so new to listen to,
Will defenitely give it thought!
Oh my God!!! This is so new! But actually amazing stuff to think about...
Great conversation!
Fantastic conversation, Dhanya Ma’am. I have always admired Swati for her immense trove of knowledge and distinct points of view. It was womderful to hear her talk about so many pertinent things.
Keep up the great work! 👏🏼👏🏼😊😊
This conversation passed a lot of information.. Thank you Dhanya.. Looking for more educative conversations like this
Glad you liked it
Truly informative episode, loved it❣️
Do share
Oh my God! What a conversation.. Beautifully narrated about a complicated topic.
Thank you kindly share
Wonderful, nice.... Thank you ❤
Whatever she said can make the homemakers who left their career feel better...but can confuse the ambitious women who would like to carry their career and family alike(or just career for that matter, and be independent..and their partners can definitely contribute by sharing the responsibilities..
I am a doctor myself and cannot agree with these 'Feminine' to 'masculine' theory she says..of course..women must be in a position such that they can choose what they really want to do at any point of time..and there comes equal rights and equal opportunities.. i dont understand the point of 'running towards masculinity' and 'surrendering to ur feminine..'
Also why should u be 'masculine' to work and earn? Really??!
And men dont know to deal with 'hyperindependent' women(dont know independence can be hypo and hyper)? They must grow up ,i say !
Perfectly said👍
True!
Pregnancy, parenting work and how you balance them is a highly individualistic thing.Never understood these kind of one size fits all advices. What works for me may not work for you.
Yes true 👍🏻
True ❤
Such a wonderful interview thankyou for getting her to ur floor and having this informative conversations ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This interview is definitely a lot to learn new things 👌
Omg!! Cant thank enough for bringing this intellingence. The way she speaks about everything is so amazing. And always dhanya u r superb.
Started watching maya’s Amma… thank you for introducing me to this person 🎉
What a beautiful conversation ❤️
Wow , enik ariyila idhin engane parayanam enn , athrak beautiful aairunnu interview, such different way of thoughts about feminine loved it ,
Yet another amazing conversation.
Wow the guts you have to speak about truth. Hats off swathi and thank you ❤
Have been waiting for this episode to come out for the last 3 days...
It's always so enlightening to hear from mayas amma...
Thank you lots Dhanya for bringing her....
The best informative interview so far... iam watching this again and again
Thanks
Always eager to learn more & more about parenting ❤
So happy to see Swati here! congrats
Wow thanks a lot ❤❤
Interesting......
Wow! What a conversation ♥️
I am a subscriber and regular viewer of this channel. I have a suggestion. It would be best to not call in doctors, psychologists, and other professionals to the show because it often leads to their perspectives being highlighted dring the chat. I am okay with professionals talking about their perspectives, like in this video where she talks about her views on masculine-feminine or in the one with Dr. Philip John where he talks about parenting styles, but it tends to remain one sided. Often there are multiple perspectives regarding certain issues especially mental health, body postivity, and other current cultural points of debate. And such points when brought on a show like yours, in my opinion needs to be rounded, so that the viewers can get a good understanding of various perspectives. One sided opinions on such matters most often do not benfit a discerning viewer. So I would suggest you bring in a panel of similar people when discussing such issues. For example I loved your panel on mental health done last year with Rose Mary and others.
When it comes to celebrity chats I totally appreciate the way you candidly handle the talk, often opening up a different side of their personality, their thought processes etc. For example, when Mithun talked about his perspective on phone usage among children, his style of parenting etc, it is possible to leave it at that and not take it seriously. But in case of professionals I would request you to either bring in a panel to discuss the issues being raised, or just stick to talking about their personal lives etc. Hope suggestions are appreciated!😊
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One take away from this interview is follow a person only to learn from their specialisation.. in Swati's case its parenting and sex ed. Rest of the part is misleading.
True, i wish she stick to her expertise 😮
The last part of this episode was just amazing Dhanyaaaa…..good job swathy..💐💐
Oh.. Its an Eye-opener
Katta waiting for part 3❤
I am no expert, but I need to debunk a couple of things. As someone who is struggling with mental health issues, the mind-body corelation is not something you can ignore. You need to listen to both your mind and body. Priortising mental health often leads to better physical health according to my therapist.
Second, as a literature/history student, I can confidently say that feminist movements did not emerge from or revolve around the need to be masculine/man. Feminist movements emerged in the late 19th century. But feminist writings have been around for ages, even as early as the 16th century, and those writings do not advocate for the need to becoming masculine, but rather strongly advocate equal rights and opportunities. I would request her to get her facts right before spewing her opinions out loud.
Completely agree! Well, she has spoken about an aspect of psychology which deals with feminine and masculine energies. That's an interesting read but what irritates me.is when they shun the feminist movement as per their convenience! Stepping out of home to work is a human right and I beleive that a person in their feminine energy can also do it and should if they loves to work.
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@marisamathew8483 thank you for saying this .As a psychiatrist I get worried when lot newagi opinions are thrown around.There is no mind body dichotomy.Even if one accepts for debate sake how will you listen to your body , by what means? We only have our mind . Secondly ,yes pregnancy can be traumatising but to pathologise everything in life will,take our agency over ourselves.we dont need therapy for every life event. Infact thats why we have co-ing skills and strategies, being prepared rather in life. C section or delivery may not be a pleasant event certainly , I agree. But to generalise will mot help either.
Women’s suffering resulted in suffragette movement and feministic views. There may be varied expressions or interpretations but one cannot ignore the positive effect of Feministic movement.
Agreed!! I often see that people are now becoming an expert on everything!! She answered the questions on her topics well but really disappointed to hear her response for Feminism. She really has not read about the history to feminism!!
I enjoyed this discussion.... Bcoz what she said that I'm following in life....life is so beautiful
Thanks so much
What a beautiful conversation..... വീണ്ടും വീണ്ടും കേള്ക്കാന് തോന്നുന്ന ഒന്ന്..... ❤❤
Oh she's good!! These conversations needs to happen more.
Is Swati suggesting that men are so shallow n egoistic that women need to pretend to be weak to make them feel better about themselves n give them a purpose in life? We owe them more credit than that. There are so many men out there who recognize this as a problem and ade trying to work on improving relationships and interactions with women.
Instead of asking women to surrender to their "yin" energy to make men feel more comfortable, why not ask men to find a newer purpose in life than merely making babies n providing for the wife n kids. Why not widen the scope of their purpose in life, their existence n even their relationships with women?
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The second half of the interview is fantastic... Swathi is so true about the Yin and Yan energy. Very brilliantly explained. I have often had the same feeling even before seeing this interview. Why should a female wear a masculine mask??? You do you!!!! Wow. Words of wisdom ❤❤❤❤
The "femininity" she described seems just philosophical and a sugar coated way to glorify gender roles.
Please interview Bhavana ❤ really wish to watch an interview of her from you ❤❤
So many new things she dlt with. Eagerly waiting for next part.
Thudakkam nallathayrnnu... but her comments on feminism and masculinity are unacceptable...
Swati is always a delight to listen to. I could feel it when she said abt connecting with the feminine energy. That's what true feminism means.
I havent met any women who felt she is a Goddess right after birth, that doesnt mean something went wrong in their pregnancy, its lot of effort mentally and physically , women feel terrible in most cases after delivering a baby, its okay if you dont feel like a Goddess, accept reality, dont mislead the thoughts.
Truly appreciable contents regarding feminine psychology ❤
Thankyou so much dhanya mam ❤
How beautifully she explains facts which we believed as a complex thing to explain. 🥰
Thank you❤... This is so new to me
I'm so glad!
Towards the endilekk ethiyapol Swathyude arivinod chernnu pokan nte conscience anuvadhikkunnilla............Bakiyoke was informative.....
Ithrayum clear vision ulla , swathy avasaanam paranja thoughtukal matu thoughtukalumaai chernnu pokaatha pole ..
I dont understand how can we always listen to what our body says..for instance my body feels to sit at home and look after my children. I dont do any other profession. But what would i do if my partner expires? How can i get into a profession with such a long gap to look after my children?
I think women who have privileges such as financial backup from partner, very good support from family, etc can follow swathy's thoughts.
Other families who struggle financially can not always sit at home as their body wishes, i think.
And what about men, many men like to have less work pressure, but they pursue it thinking about family's financial stability right.
Agree. Not sure why Dhanya is supporting it. It could be misleading to many women who is struggling to stand by themselves.
That’s what she said. She didn’t generalize. She meant that women who put masculine image infront of their husband, so obviously she meant women who have partners not the divorcees or widows.
Worth every second. 🎉❤
What a conversation 👌👌👌
This interview helps to think in a different angle. Nice one!
Glad you think so!
Its really amazing ❤❤❤
I'm a conventionally loud person, so if I'm not soft and silent, not be subservient, am I not feminine enough?😂
Hey mam, I've always loved all the interviews. Such beautiful questions and answers are shared and discussed over here. Can u please try a guest who can talk about IKIGAI? It would be a new domain for you and your followers to explore, I promise.
Wow 🤩.. I so agree with her, feminism concept 🤩👏🏼
Confused after hearing this! If a woman can do everything then men will think what's my role? Is that a valid question ?? ...men and women can co-exist doing the same thing na? By helping and supporting each other in outside and inside worlds!!!!
She's talking about gender roles in relationship, which is totally unacceptable in partnership
Exactly she says men cant deal with hyperindependent women?
Men and women must be independent and must coexist.period.
I feel she is talking about the inner feeling of every person .
If a woman wants to remain famine
- autonomously - , as per the current society conditions , people may consider her as a weak being and she will be forced to become independent by all means. But they may not be able to enjoy the moments of life because that's not what they really want.
So I think her point is that any woman can remain famine if they really want to be.
But i don't think every man will have that feeling of confusion. There are many guys out there who love to share their responsibilities and to see their partner remain independent. Being a man I personally like to see my partner as an independent individual and I am ready to do give all support to empower her when required. So it's all personal.
Said about faminin liked it ❤❤
OMG what a wonderful talk❤. Now onwards I am completely out of the regrets of leaving my IT career and being a home maker for my family.
Thanks to both of you 😊
My husban does not like to work, he likes to sit at home and relax, my body does not like to learn and prepare for the exams.. What sld we do.. I feel this statement is ridiculous..or may not be applied in al aspect.. And my take in
Well aware of the consequences as well. Don’t think your body is your enemy. May be it is trying to communicate some traumatic experience by relaxing/not preparing for exams. Try to understand yourself more.
Best wishes❤
wow.... thats alot of things to think about
Must watch parents and kids
Isn’t this what Andrew tate says too?
Exactly 😂
😂 sathyam
Loved this episode also. The way she explained the concept of feminine was surprising and at the same time thought provoking❣️!
Ithippo Andrew Tate boys and men inod masculine aayitt irikkan parayanathinte female version pole ind
What she told about feminine is beautiful ❤
The glorification of gender roles is unacceptable.
Gender is a socail condtruct , she's forcing her views on audience, that's the mistake she did, it's her personal choice how she sees gender and all, and it was a very narrow minded statement which supports the conditioned way of looking at gender , kinda modern kulasthree
Modern Kula stree 👍
i love this questions by you and insigts/responses provided by Swati. As a woman, i agree a 100% that "modern feminism" has become about "being a man" or tapping into a "masc" part of ourselves ONLY, without collabing with the body (somatic) - perhaps its because we dont have much female role-models that did the same, especially in the leadership roles. One that leads with her heart/body, like how female naturally is.. ofc, with boundaries of not treating people as "children" which can be problematic too IMO. As a result, "progressive feminism" has now become a game of "Egos", not complimenting each other, but competing/battle of the sexes (like the movie Barbie). This is disgusting and weak - when one has to abandon oneself to be "strong" or "cool" or i want to do whatever the male does because that's supposedly "worthy". In that context, its very necessary to stop and think for a minute "what do i want? what is my mind and body telling me? If so, how do i do justice to both these parts?"
The best part of the conversation so far was the feminine masculine talks
I couldn't connect with that part , why we have to surrender to the man ?
10:03 cognitive intelligence
Somatic intelligence
What the mind can forget, the body remembers
11:35 focus on the Somatic intelligence of the body
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Wowww !!!❤
Thanks pls.do share
So much love for MAYAS AMMA❤
Enjoyed the conversation until the topic shifted to Conventional Feminism.
To be not an independent working woman ( in this economy lol) is a "choice" only privileged will have.
It's easy to say don't work if you don't have to. But there are people who have no choice but to work to have their dream life.
Exactly my thoughts! In fact they are more privileged than working women.. They can cherish all their time with the family... Can serve the family happily... Can lead a balanced life seeing their children growing...things are beautiful if they have a supporting partner who will provide for her needs.But for a working women it's hard to maintain the worklife balance. But we will definitely make all our dreams come true one day❤
Hearing u speak abt body autonomy made me tear up. I think my body felt loved hearing this 😂❤️
As long as our likes ,dislikes ,feelings etc doesn't traumatize anyone around, even a Kula sthree and kula purush are okay in their own way!! ennu.. what if they don't trouble us!! The major problem people facing is simply,that we don't realise ourselves.. identify ourselves.. Kure Kure identity theories IL aanu nammal
Something new 😍
I embrace my feminine and I dont think its about surrendering to healthy masculine
She will not be trolled may be because she is saying this in this platform. If this was lena or someone else giving another interview or press meet, would have been in air now 😊
So true..
Please bring prithviraj sukumaran
Swathi mam❤
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Oooh my god I love that 🎉❤ happy to be a woman ☺️😌
Brilliant!
Plz bring sreedhanya ias,bhagyAlakshmi dubbing artist,basil joseph…
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Plethora of information
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Energy ,yin , yang,listen to body when you are not well. എവിടെയോ എന്തോ തകരാറ് പോലെ
Please bring NAYANTHARA to the show