This is cruel reality in Indian society... Child abuser always find in close relatives even father and grandfather even though society keep quit... Society ready to accept rapist but don't accept their own child as a transgender
A kid got raped and killed in Kerala 110 days before. I think the kid was killed first and then got raped. The kid (victim) and the rapist, both belonged to another state, but came here, to Kerala, for better living. Today, on Children's Day, 14th November 2023, the rapist got death sentence with 7.2 Lakh as fine.
@@catlifematters777 If that rapist appeal in high court then this death sentence will change into life imprisonment and after that the culprit will get bail. 🙄
Bro, so sorry to know that you went through so much pain, that trauma tried to changed your identity. You're who you are born as, and you are a wonderful man God created. I pray that your soul be healed.
Why parents don't accept their own child...In this situation a child need parents the most..It's not choice or fashion...It's natural.... every human being deserve to live with their real identity
It really requires lots of guts to face family and relative's bullying rather then bullied by outsiders And hats off to you miss for showing so much guts to fulfill your inner desires ❤❤
The majority of psychologists agree that gender displacement comes from underlying mental health issues. Before you spend thousands and thousands on surgeries and then maybe even regret it (so many stories about people wanting to go back after their surgeries) please, please look into getting psychotherapy for the sexual abuse you endured. Then reassess where you are with your gender identity. You can always move forward, but you can't come back. You owe it to yourself. Much love coming your way.
No one can start their hormone therapy without getting approval from psychiatrist so if they are doing so, doctors and psychiatrist ka support hai isme
Totally agree. Surgery should be last option and should be done only after you are an adult and bit mature. Then whatever your gut feeling tells you go with it.
Bro if he changes gender that means he is gay and his classmates were right and why go to girls washroom that is very funny and paying surgery to be a gril??? Nah he is supporting LGPTQ 💀💀
You really think how this works. Well now I wanna become a pencil . Think that the world will accept because that's what I wanna be or ultimately think I am mentally disturbed.
He actually gave up dear .. when he decided to chage himself just bcz of people and for his reassurance to himself deceived himself that he found his identity... Nice 🙂
May God bless you Alesha.. Aapki bhai ka support bahuth hai betta.. Ma or Papa ko tho Sabka sunna padtha hai.. Is liye wo chahkar bhi aapki sath nahi de sakthe honge..Ek din wo bhi aapko "Alesha" pukarenge...
After reading some of the comments my respect for the society has fallen he didnt feel like himself in when he was a male and its his choice what he want his gender to be the people in the comment are so disgusting. Ur beautiful Alesha❤❤
Our gender is what we are born with - but what we identify ourselves as could be totally different. It’s as normal as the rain or the wind that blows during various seasons. You are who you are so embrace it and keep looking ahead. ❤
First of all everywhere teasing or bullying should be stopped, parents must talk to their children and share everything and give support to them taking complete care.I don't understand ppl who give pain to others abusing, top of all please teach them to behave over education or studies.
I respect your choice to call this gentleman a girl. But you should also respect my choice to call as per his biological identification as a boy. So some females are not forced to share a changing room or toilet with this boy. Hope he doesn't take part in any women's competition. Since he has an unfair biological advantage. For example men have high bone density.
@@RohitSingh-pq8ss Grow up and get educated you typical toxic man, actually its wrong to call you a man. U have plenty to learn about being a man which includes respecting people and not judging someone for his choices, btw thank you for your wishes.
@@RohitSingh-pq8ss in that case, I shall raise them as per their biological gender. And not allowed to do chemical abuse, body manipulation. We need to Ban genital mutilation & puberty blockers before age 18. Treat gender dysphoria in kids as a mental health disorder. As a Parent, Protect them and build confidence till they become adults. Once they are adults, it's up to them to lead their way of life they deem fit and make an informed decision rather than regret. Fyi, More than 50% of kids with gender dysphoria have considered suicide. Are you aware of that ? I hope you do not abuse young fragile kids minds with the woke west concept LGBTQ activism.
Accept your baby the way they are , they come in our life for a purpose and no human being should be deprived of love. Humans love animal and abandon their little different kids , so cruel. You didn’t mention about your parents but request them to love your kid from heart… ❤❤❤❤
I am so proud of you that you started to embrace yourself but embracing yourself does not mean that you should go through hormone therapy and sex change operation because because embracing yourself means that you love yourself as you are and you don't have to change . Hormone therapy and sex change operation is a high risk operation so i would suggest you to reconsider your decision. Your health should be your first priority.😊
Bro it's my real life story My school friends one day called me kinnar 😂😂 and they repeated it every day ofcourse it was not bulling , you know every boy try to just insult their friends . But one day he called me kinnar infront of whole class and then whole class started laughing , but then i told him that if i was a kinnar then you wouldn't have been born and then the whole class started 😂 to laugh at him 😂😂 . And then he never told me this again . The end
Congratulations! Hope you achieve your target goal to complete your surgery! Don’t pay attention to negative emotions or people for that matter! Life is too short, you do YOU! Gay, straight, black, white, short, tall- people don’t have to be validated by others for one’s own happiness! Don’t look for approval, just do YOUR thing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your courage and determination is inspiring so many!! Life will always have ups and downs….sometimes more downs than we may think we can handle. But remember my dear friend you have everything it needs to make it to the end! Continue shining my dear friend and illuminate this world with your courage and kindness!!
I have read about it First I used to think it's just that this is all in their mind But it's natural Like sometimes the SRY gene transfer to X chromosome from Y gene That's why if XY zygote formed Even the child physically will be male but that child will not show male symptoms it will become like normal XX child 😇😇😇
i am understanding how his parents felt , feeling bad for his parents. They did all those sacrifices for their son and what they get in return, this😢😢.
You live the way you choose to in life you have rights to choice how to live own life 👍,logo ka kam h kehna wo kehte hi rahenge just listen 👂 from one side n throws from another side 😅👍
Often men who dont even identify themselves as anything just because they have feminine voice or posture they are bullied. And such a serious issue is so much less talked about.
She's a student from NIFT Delhi and she's amazing
Abhey she kyo bol rahi hain, it's he, roop badalne se koi ladki nahi ban jaati😡
@@Wonderer245L mindset
@@Wonderer245Tum yahan mooh uthakar kyun aaye,nikal jao na yahan se nahin padh saktey kuch achcha toh.
@@inmyhotgirlera4everyh
@@Wonderer245tumhe kya o kuchbi kare o uska life hen or o adult hen usko pata hen kya karna chahiye. If have any problem leave na.
So proud of you for not giving up ❤🤗
The sexual abuse trauma , people who sexually abuse kids or anyone shouldn't be allowed in the society.
This is cruel reality in Indian society... Child abuser always find in close relatives even father and grandfather even though society keep quit... Society ready to accept rapist but don't accept their own child as a transgender
True bro
A kid got raped and killed in Kerala 110 days before. I think the kid was killed first and then got raped. The kid (victim) and the rapist, both belonged to another state, but came here, to Kerala, for better living. Today, on Children's Day, 14th November 2023, the rapist got death sentence with 7.2 Lakh as fine.
@@catlifematters777
If that rapist appeal in high court then this death sentence will change into life imprisonment and after that the culprit will get bail. 🙄
Society?? Bro they should get out of the world
Bro, so sorry to know that you went through so much pain, that trauma tried to changed your identity. You're who you are born as, and you are a wonderful man God created. I pray that your soul be healed.
She’s beautiful ❤
Why parents don't accept their own child...In this situation a child need parents the most..It's not choice or fashion...It's natural.... every human being deserve to live with their real identity
Natural ...yeah i think thats what it is men and women only
It's easy to say than done , agar tumhari aulaad aisi hogi to chaar baar sochogi tum bhi
@@status_homy i m not against anything i m just saying that nature created men and women only
Thats it ..other than this thats all is created by us
@@siyalisingh716 I didn't replied to i , it's for the girl above you
U accept ur child then u come to know
Why RUclips comments are so positive than insta 😂 ( omg I'm famous)
I literally thinking about the same
Yes and it's great.💜
😂
Kyuki yt mein ghatiya comments filter ho jaate hai. Bcoz of this, you can only see positive comments.
But congrats to Alesha 🎉
Because we don't use more Insta 😂❤
"The soul in you defines you as a human, not your gender" - we all need to understand this much!!!!!!!!
All the best. Stay positive. You have had a harsh life. No one can erase the past trauma. But we hope and pray life treats you well.
It really requires lots of guts to face family and relative's bullying rather then bullied by outsiders
And hats off to you miss for showing so much guts to fulfill your inner desires ❤❤
You are gorgeous. Stay strong and live your life to the fullest.
She is so beautiful and have faith on ur god he will lead u to a good place soon may god bless people like her❤
Akhir kar hr kisi ko apni life jeene ka haq h khush rehne ka haq j
The majority of psychologists agree that gender displacement comes from underlying mental health issues. Before you spend thousands and thousands on surgeries and then maybe even regret it (so many stories about people wanting to go back after their surgeries) please, please look into getting psychotherapy for the sexual abuse you endured. Then reassess where you are with your gender identity. You can always move forward, but you can't come back. You owe it to yourself. Much love coming your way.
As a psych student, I can confirm that. I was gonna comment this. Thank you for putting it in the most concise yet informative way.❤
No one can start their hormone therapy without getting approval from psychiatrist so if they are doing so, doctors and psychiatrist ka support hai isme
Totally agree. Surgery should be last option and should be done only after you are an adult and bit mature. Then whatever your gut feeling tells you go with it.
Exactly what i was thinking . I think it was a man and now he is more comfortable around women so he wants to feel included .
Very true indeed 🫡
You stay happy however you are.. you deserve it
You have such a beautiful soul🥰🥰🥰🙌🏻god bless you
Wow!!! She is sooo beautiful and strong! She literally made me jealous of her beauty 🥲🥲
May God bless u with that Beauty....
He / she them, who ever it is don't look beautiful at all 😒
@@itspuresoul9348May god save every one from becoming a psychopath like it,he/ she transgender lgbt
We are not what the world wants us to be or how the world see us we are always what we want to be❤
Bro if he changes gender that means he is gay and his classmates were right and why go to girls washroom that is very funny and paying surgery to be a gril??? Nah he is supporting LGPTQ 💀💀
You really think how this works. Well now I wanna become a pencil . Think that the world will accept because that's what I wanna be or ultimately think I am mentally disturbed.
The most important thing is to accept yourself the way you are... For who you are actually ❤
I wish she grow in her life at her highest potential
Your best friend such a nice person who understand you feeling and supporting you 😊🎉
You are so beautiful, don't let people discourage you from embracing your feminity.
God bless you and more power to you❤❤
We are proud of you Alesha, keep going❤👍
Can we talk about how beautiful... They look...
I was feeling proud of you and in the end the name Alesha, is my name❤
He looks so good with that kurta!!!
She's so beautiful ❤
Have a beautiful life of your dreams ❤ God bless you
Mai bhi aap ki sister ki tarah hu mai bhi aapko fully support karungi . Just you live your life with out any hesitation.💗
Almighty bless u in all ways of u,re future stay strong nd look forward for u,re betterment 👍🙏
You are beautiful just the way you are ignore who do this to you remember that you are always in loved ones heart ❤😊😊
Well done for being yourself. So proud of you. It's people like you that we need in society, not others who can't accept our real identities.
Everyone is beautiful in there own way ❤❤
Everyone is :
Kind
Pretty
Beautiful
Nice
Handsome
Cool
Awsome
❤❤❤
You are amazing,never giving up. So glad your brother supported youand you had some good friends.❤well done 4 finding your identity.
He actually gave up dear .. when he decided to chage himself just bcz of people and for his reassurance to himself deceived himself that he found his identity... Nice 🙂
Just be yourself we all support you 💓🥰🥰🥰🥰
Haters gonna hate so ignore them. You are the best ❤❤
dont listen to haters,listen to ur supporters btw ur really pretty!♡
Aapko bhagwan yese he beauty muh par phek ke maare ..... swaahaa
@@itspuresoul9348 wish u the same bro🙃
There is only one life, let live everyone like they want 🙏🏻🙂
More power to you … God gave you a strength to deal with society.
I wish you achieved whatever you want .
body is just an outer covering, the soul/mind is the same for any creature. this is what our dharma teaches us.
I pray that you achieve all your dreams ❤ God Bless!
May God bless you Alesha.. Aapki bhai ka support bahuth hai betta.. Ma or Papa ko tho Sabka sunna padtha hai.. Is liye wo chahkar bhi aapki sath nahi de sakthe honge..Ek din wo bhi aapko "Alesha" pukarenge...
All the best to you gurl 👍
Abundance of strength and blessings to you
May Krishna Bless you, protect you, guide you and take care of you
I hate this society who judge people by their gender all the people have equal rights on this earth I will always respect this types of people❤❤❤
God bless you ❤ n congratulations for accepting ur true identity 💖✨🧿keep growing 💗
You are beautiful Alesha !!
No he's not
@@rajendrakumarpatel3792sahi kaha bhai,
Tu jake shaadi kar uss hijra seh 🤣🤣🤣
From which angel it is beautiful 😏
Very tough situation for you but keep smiling and keep growing 😊
Aap kinne smart dikhte Ho and you looking so beautiful 😊
After reading some of the comments my respect for the society has fallen he didnt feel like himself in when he was a male and its his choice what he want his gender to be the people in the comment are so disgusting. Ur beautiful Alesha❤❤
I hope you find happiness in whatever you do in future ❤❤
Our gender is what we are born with - but what we identify ourselves as could be totally different. It’s as normal as the rain or the wind that blows during various seasons. You are who you are so embrace it and keep looking ahead. ❤
First of all everywhere teasing or bullying should be stopped, parents must talk to their children and share everything and give support to them taking complete care.I don't understand ppl who give pain to others abusing, top of all please teach them to behave over education or studies.
Aise classmate nhi milte hai u r really lucky ❤
,😆😆😆😆
Na mile toh hi acha h!
All the best dude ❤
Honestly.. You looked handsome as a Male..
Honestly, nobody asked for your opinion
So? Should have lived as male? Why can't you people look beyond your stupid religion?
But she felt good as a female. No offense. Just wanted to put it out there.
@@posanivishnupriya that's his choice.. I respect it.. 😉
@@posanivishnupriyashe??😂😂😂
The main identity you should follow apart from everything, from where you belong is Krishna,Ram, Govind 🙏🚩
What a suggestion???
Never giving up it's the best thing you can do for yourself
I identify as a truck,
And I am contributing every single penny for my transformation from straight male to a artificial vehicle 😊😊
How can you even objectify this like tf ...
Good for you.
That would be better for the society if you became a non human ...All the very best
Thankyou for helping our society 🤝
Don't tell me this is real and not sarcasm 😂
Good luck and more power to you ❤
All the best to you beautiful girl. Be proud.
I respect your choice to call this gentleman a girl. But you should also respect my choice to call as per his biological identification as a boy. So some females are not forced to share a changing room or toilet with this boy. Hope he doesn't take part in any women's competition. Since he has an unfair biological advantage. For example men have high bone density.
May God bless you with this type of girl🙏
@@RohitSingh-pq8ss Grow up and get educated you typical toxic man, actually its wrong to call you a man. U have plenty to learn about being a man which includes respecting people and not judging someone for his choices, btw thank you for your wishes.
@@RohitSingh-pq8ss in that case, I shall raise them as per their biological gender. And not allowed to do chemical abuse, body manipulation. We need to Ban genital mutilation & puberty blockers before age 18. Treat gender dysphoria in kids as a mental health disorder. As a Parent, Protect them and build confidence till they become adults. Once they are adults, it's up to them to lead their way of life they deem fit and make an informed decision rather than regret. Fyi, More than 50% of kids with gender dysphoria have considered suicide. Are you aware of that ? I hope you do not abuse young fragile kids minds with the woke west concept LGBTQ activism.
God always bless u dear💚💖💚💖 Jay shree radhekrishna 💚💖💚👧🙏
You are amazing ❤❤
I think you should think again before doing surgery. You can be what you are even without that . Because surgery can harm your body.❤
Actually respect to the friends!!❤
Accept your baby the way they are , they come in our life for a purpose and no human being should be deprived of love. Humans love animal and abandon their little different kids , so cruel. You didn’t mention about your parents but request them to love your kid from heart… ❤❤❤❤
Proud of you aleesha
Sahi ho...❤ bahot achhe
God bless you🎉
Who thinks she is stunning ❤
❤❤❤❤ accept your self...don't think about society....❤❤❤❤
Love urself😊😊😊
You’re so beautiful and very handsome
But when he wears kurta he looks so good 😂
I am so proud of you that you started to embrace yourself but embracing yourself does not mean that you should go through hormone therapy and sex change operation because because embracing yourself means that you love yourself as you are and you don't have to change . Hormone therapy and sex change operation is a high risk operation so i would suggest you to reconsider your decision. Your health should be your first priority.😊
People who abuse others child ( daughter) May god give them extremely beautiful daughters 🙄😡....
I don't understand why people like other groups not themselves if I am a boy I will be happy as a boy
Good for you.
Bro it's my real life story
My school friends one day called me kinnar 😂😂 and they repeated it every day ofcourse it was not bulling , you know every boy try to just insult their friends .
But one day he called me kinnar infront of whole class and then whole class started laughing , but then i told him that if i was a kinnar then you wouldn't have been born and then the whole class started 😂 to laugh at him 😂😂 . And then he never told me this again .
The end
Congratulations! Hope you achieve your target goal to complete your surgery! Don’t pay attention to negative emotions or people for that matter! Life is too short, you do YOU! Gay, straight, black, white, short, tall- people don’t have to be validated by others for one’s own happiness! Don’t look for approval, just do YOUR thing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your courage and determination is inspiring so many!! Life will always have ups and downs….sometimes more downs than we may think we can handle. But remember my dear friend you have everything it needs to make it to the end! Continue shining my dear friend and illuminate this world with your courage and kindness!!
God bless you nd everyone
I have read about it
First I used to think it's just that this is all in their mind
But it's natural
Like sometimes the SRY gene transfer to X chromosome from Y gene
That's why if XY zygote formed
Even the child physically will be male but that child will not show male symptoms it will become like normal XX child
😇😇😇
i am understanding how his parents felt , feeling bad for his parents.
They did all those sacrifices for their son and what they get in return, this😢😢.
Exactly
Keep crying for someone else instead of focusing on your life
@@lj7019 another mentally ill person found lmao 🤣
Are your parents proud of you? What are they getting in return??
@@glowy-e5w mentally stable kids. They don't have to worry about mental asylum fees they have to pay later.
Love ❤😊you are very special divine soul 🎉😊 blessings
God always bless you ❤
I get inspired by you 😉 thankyou so much 🥰
Tho surgery kab kar rahe ho??
Love u truly😊
I supported this because dharma does however am against the western or urban version that bring nation down.
You live the way you choose to in life you have rights to choice how to live own life 👍,logo ka kam h kehna wo kehte hi rahenge just listen 👂 from one side n throws from another side 😅👍
Good luck to u always
Ur look don't define ur talent. Not matter u r a gay or a transgender but no one can define ur talent and u is always u
NIFT graduate wow
God will full fill your dreams
God bless you🌺🌺🌺
You are beautiful way you are❤❤❤❤❤
Often men who dont even identify themselves as anything just because they have feminine voice or posture they are bullied. And such a serious issue is so much less talked about.
You are beautiful ❤️
Much strength to you ❤️❤️
God bless u
Bless you ❤