I Want Him So Bad! #1 Thing You Must Do!
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I want him so bad, what should I do?" Hello guys, and welcome to my RUclips channel. I am Alex Cormont, your French Relationship Expert. As you know, since 2007 I've got so many women all over the world, and I heard this question at lot. "What should I do Alex? I want him so bad." You know, sometimes you met someone, and you don't know why, there is a big feeling between together. They have a strong chemistry, a strong connection. You know that you can do something with this man.
Unfortunately, most of the time it doesn't work, you don't know why. This man will be distant, he will not show enough, he will not show you that he's interested about you, and then you will lose confidence. You will maybe even be emotionally dependent. If you are watching this video I want to tell you something, something really important that I have learned from my experience as a love coach, but also as a trainer, when I study NLP with Richard Bandler. I just realized that human men and women are always attracted to the challenge, to what they don't have.
When you tell me, "Alex, I want him so bad," you are showing this man that you want him so bad, and then you killed your chance to attract this man. From now, I want you to change this voice in your head, and tell yourself, "He needs to chase me. He needs to pursue me." Because, you have the power. This is something that I teach to the women that I coach, because they need to change their habit, they need to change their voice. So, now that you have the power, how do you make this guy coming to you? Chasing you, pursue you?
You need to keep in mind something, men love challenge, they also love the attraction process. Most of the time when you love someone you will change your behavior. Look at this, it's simple. How do you act with men that you don't care about? If you don't like them how do you act? You are just yourself. You can have salad in your teeth, it's not a big deal, because you don't care about them, right? But when it comes to a man that you really like you will be stressed, you will be a little bit straight on your chair. Not really smiling, you are not enjoying the moment.
What I want you to understand, and this is the thing that I'm doing in coaching, it's not easy but it's possible. You can talk to a man that you love like if it was someone else, like if it was just a friend, or this man that you don't really have feelings for. If you can change this vision in your mind, love and seduction, attraction will be very different. You will just be yourself, and this guy who were feeling that you want him so bad, will think, "Oh, no. She's a challenge now. She changed. She's not too needy." "I have to do the job."
It's really simple, you need to change the voice inside your mind, and then you need to change your behavior, because you need to consider that this guy is like every single man. This guy is not different. The last thing that you need to do, which is for me the most important, every man will fall in love with a woman that can bring something new to their life. I want you to live the present moment, meanings, you need to surprise him, and to do new activities. My model is always the same, living memories. If you can give him some memories, oh, this man will go crazy about you.
He will be so in love that you will ask yourself, "Is is really the guy that I want?" We will change the situation, you will have this power to tell this guy, "Yes, I want to be in a relationship with you." Or, "No, finally I prefer a new challenge." Because, you are like men, you want the challenge. I think you understand my philosophy, my philosophy is always to take the best from you, and to help you realize that this guy is just a human. You can act with him like your best friend, and when you do that your charisma will not be the same.
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He needs to chase me. He needs to pursue me. Thank you, Coach Alex!
At the end of the day it's only God that has the final say if it works or not.....
Yes 100%. If it is His will or not.
@@ak-47intelligence75 No, it is the two people.
Our power is inside of us.
Yes...you are right...But God gave us a brain to think and behave in right thing so you need to learn some techniques in your life in every field,: love, work, friendship... Not bad to learn from people who have more experience
I concur with you
He needs to chase and pursue me. I will practice your advice and you are on point with what I am in.
I want him so bad... What a wonderful sentence that remembers me to much memories ;-) And a few months later, other reflexion. I am so happy not to have him, to have focused on me, and found my own happiness. Your advices and coaching were so great that my relations never have been the same. Change habits and the words and behaviors is an other way of life on a road of a best lovelifestyle.
Focusing on yourself is very important you are right :-)
So how does commitment ever work? At some point, the chase had to stop and the games have to end.
Maybe when we get married 😂
Is it good to expend my own money to buy foods and things for your boyfriend...
@@agirl6971 NO! NEVER BUY FOR A MAN UNLESS HE HAS SPENT THOUSANDS ON YOU.
Yeah. It's terrible n nonsense
@@agirl6971 no.no. no no NO.
So true, the more I act like friends the more guys really like me and the more I allow them to come to me from themselves (establishing first contact, making plans with me) the more they come forward.
How do you act like friends?
Just this week a married guy friend told me the same sort of advice. Watching this has cemented it. Operation be a challenge accepted. Thankyou Alex for helping us women to understand men! Such a good act of public service. The world needs more love ❤
So he chased me so long when he got me he is so cold .. so ofc. i moved on’!
Belma Bella same girlll😩
Read the book attached by amir levine. Could help you
Did he come back ?
Belma Bella same he invested so heavily into for over 6 months, he made me fall in love with him.
He’s hardly around much now I’m highly frustrated and dreadfully sad.
How are you now Belma?
That's so bad. You were just a trophy
HE NEEDS TO CHASE ME🔈🔈🔊. No more chasing him. Much thanks Alex. I appreciate your effort of keeping us in love.
I chased him. As now he's wedding today for our 25 yrs Anniversary. Finally. He's the one for me 🎂🎉🎊🎶💍💒🛐📿🙏💕💋
Congratulations!
Thank you we had a blast.💋💕
You are the exception.
You're very lucky!
Congrats 😁
This is true! Act like you don’t like him. Pretend like he’s the guy that you don’t want to be with.
Because sometimes we ignore the one who chase us
But we got ignore from the one we like
I'm going to try this!
I tried it but bit difficult when we ignore the one who we like 🤨
I really need to try this. He needs to chase and pursue me now. I put enough effort in and time
it's been 4 years, what happened with thoise guys? are you married to any of them?
Men will be men.. All are same.... No one is different, no one is unique
He’s so fine.. you’re doing a great job sir
I like your enthusiasm. My guy is crazy about me because I feel so beautiful, feminine when I’m with him. I’m relaxed, happy to receive his love (to a certain extent), happy to show him I’m attracted to him (to a certain extent)... In other words, he’s not there yet with me. He still has more to prove before I’m totally in with him. No games, just the way it is. 🌹
Thanks for sharing!!
Love your frenchglish and the way you simplify fact which is complicated for us ladies. I am your new fan ♥️♥️
I really appreciate the way you r helping the women.
Alex I only watch your videos just to hear your French accent! It's so smooth!
The best thing you can do is to wake up from your fantasy all desires and dreams, live your normal life, back to your sense and have your self worth with you..
Vivi, thank you for your support.
This is so true.
I'm new to this guy, I'm gay but he is universal, I like him, he knows his shit, boy meets girl, boy meets boy, girl meets girl. Thanks dude. I'm watching!
Its not playing games..its a way of life as a woman..we are receptive individuals so meaning, we dont need to chase...
Ladies, don’t sleep with any man until he becomes your husband. Make beautiful fun memories with him. Keep it flirty but not sexual. Don’t tell him you are not going to sleep with him. Make the commitment with yourself to not go there. Also, do not invest in him financially. Let him pay for dates. In the end, if it doesn’t work out.. YOU HAVE LOST NOTHING. 😃
If it does work out, then he will value you for your self respect and personality.
I have a problem when it comes to that moment when I like a man, I show him openly that I like him and now this video has opened my eyes. I will not show my affectionate again or show him how much I like him, but I will continue to enjoy the moment when am with him, or?
Thank you, I just found you few days ago and am soo glad I did!
I think this advice will change your love life :-)
Ooh girl that's what I'm doing with my man and now he seems trying to play my feeling no way 🙋🏽♀️💞 I love him but I love me more 🥰
When a Frenchie loses the "h" and adds "h" when it's not needed. So adorable.
He said to me: ,,I need time to think if back to you because if I back I want stay with u forever and continue my life with you but I don’t know if I want be with you forever”
The best friend approach is a good idea
Mr. Alex, how do i make you chase after me, after all I love your accent!
You can hire him as personal coach lol. I think Alex is married and have a baby lol just speculating 🤣😂 don't make his wife chase you
@@karendavis1559 Lol!
😂😂😂😂😂
You make my day and life easy after I am depressed thanks you so much
Thank you for being here and for your support!
So simply and beautifully explained!
I think what helps in "pretend he's just a friend," it takes the anxiety off. This way, Act As IF! I think it was Dale Carnegie that said that. Wish me well., I'm 71 and about to text ( first ) "my friend." Because he had said that we are!!!
Im very thankful for changing my mind n helping me where i needed the most
Thank you so much for your support Tahreem!
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I'm dating an alpha and doesn't have to play these games with him, he gets crazy sometimes about me, we really love each other. It's really nice when you are sure of yourself and date a person who is also confident and appreciates you.
I read this thinking about my husband and i smiled. I agree. It is beautiful being loved by a man who knows it is you and is not afraid to embrace the love you give
Thank you for reminding me of my value.
You are so welcome!
Please coach can you make video about date ideas that makes beautiful and strong memories? Thank you ❤
Mr.Alex, dear sir,
I would like to say thank you so much for your working so hard . So so HARD you work . I realize it .
What I need from you.
Grateful to your noble heart and your decent works.
!. Please stop helping speaking or teaching anyone anything . AND PLEASE GO TO THE PLACE YOU LOVE MOST .
THE FOOD YOU LOVE TO EAT MOST .
MEET PERSON YOU NEED AND WANT TO MEET .
JUST GO NOW .
IF>>>>TODAY OR THIS Week is yr last in this planet .
Pray god bless protect and give you the greatest peace , success in work and life .
From Japanese girl in japan
Shout out to "Japan", So glad you are here!
Thank you so very much sir 🙏
Your words have the power to make anyone understand their own worth.
I am highly impressed the way you convey your thoughts. It’s very very useful each and every word you say.. thanks a lot again 🙏😊
when you do treat him like he's your best friend
He's still chasing me Alex and imma mess him up.he better go on and all the other men that dumped me are chasing me now...and none of them are good enough for me ❤❤❤ thank you Alex your the BEST!!!
You're the best :-)
Hmmm..I smiled when I watch this video😊
Thank you Mr. Alex!
First time watching
And I love your speech
It was amazing thanks for uploading
Thank you for being here:)
But man doesn't want to feel loved too?
Thank you Alex, nice of you give all these videos to teach us to be more confident..
My pleasure!
Hey Alex! I've been following your advice and you're totally right! Thanks and keep it up mate!
Thank you for your support!
True Alex, he will chase me now. Role reversal now, I want him so bad from my side to I want her so bad from his side. Thank you Alex. 😇💕🙏
Thank you for your support.
You are absolutely adorable and kind. 🥰 You give great guidance so women can see all sides. The “complexity” of it all really is that simple. Thank you. ❤️
Thank you so much!
Bonjour Alex, joli message , 😙Bravo ! Mary . Paris, France 🗼
You are soooo right everytime I do not pay much attention to him he contacts me
If I stop chasing him ,he will forget I exist and goes on with his life
*And if that’s the case, that’s exactly what you want! Then you successfully filtered that fcccboy out of your life and saved your time (youth) for the one who’s worthy enough to see your value.*
@@MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels true
You need to be more strategic and position yourself with him.
You are an amazing coach. Love this video :)) btw I love your accent! It's the best!
Amazing And most importantly short to the point videos ❤️
Love love love the info!!
What can you do with someone new that creates exciting new memories?
Understand this.
Women kill the chase when they give sex freely.
Because, what is there to pursue and chase after?
He is COMFORTABLE!
You might have a reasonably happy relationship but understand this : He wont treat you like the prize let alone see you as one.
And when he is comfortable, NOW he is going to start looking for someone he really wants.
Dont play games. Have standards.
Alex u simplify every difficult topic/situation I like ur videos👍🏻
Namaste..I'm ur New subscriber from India. .I'm biggest fan of usr and coach Natalie. .I'm a very much emotional person in nature..my love was a one-sided fr tht person..he blocked me cut off all the contact..bcoz I was acting needy and emotional depended ..nd I apologized fr this Alex sir..but I didn't gave up on myself from the same day of cut off(March 20) contact I started wayching each and every session of usr and Natalie mam. .like no contact rule,what to do if he blocks you ,how to cope with breakup how to focus on urself and many more ...and seriously I followed ur rules of no contact no chasing,how to focus on ur self etc...even today I brought a new lil change in my lifestyle too .. nd im feeling gud..once i was a very simple punjabi type of girls..last month there was his bday nd I texted a msg happy bday nd replied me thank you it was really unexpected fr me...but I'm still block on wattsaap ..but im not chasing him or poking him to get unblocked..from video of coach Natalie. ..
Will he unblock me ??
deepika more girl when a man block you or don’t respond to your tests it’s either he isn’t interested in you and He is texting someone else .. move on hon , he doesn’t deserves you! I’m sure you are an amazing beautiful girl, another suitor will find you ok!
Much love ❤️ from Canada 🇨🇦
Jaast tension nko gheus hoil thik me tula help karen
He's just NOT INTO YOU. Accept it and MOVE ON please. If you still try to get his attention you will lose your self respect and lose him also of course. Men don't like WEAK women. Please, show some pride and move on with your life !!
Thank you,
But how to finally get out of the friend zone?
YOU HAVE THE POWER. Yes!
You really the best Alex thank you for all ur advice 🙏
I appreciate that!
Super fantastic advice ....Alex u r the best ..I needed to hear this
So be his friend!ok
Wow. You are so cool. So nice. So helpful. And so right. Thank you!
Wonderful video. Thanks!
Superlike, 👍👍 i mean you made me so confident about my situation i cany express... Thankyou thank you thank you
Thank you so much.. All your videos are very helpful..
I have always been needy in every relationship.
Now am not and it really works..
My bf had been distant with me for one week and i just kept silent. He came back 😂
Great advice
If we could change the vision in our mind, we would not be here 🤣
I dont know he is my boss
That’s so great Alex. And very true. I’ll get back to you soon on some one on one coaching. Thank you for getting back to me as well. G
You are so welcome. Looking forward to having a coaching session with you!
Sir..Hats off to you.. All ur videos are really great..Getting motivated by ur words now a days.. Trying to overcome from every troubles.. Thanks so much sir..
I am here to help!
Thank you sir..
Interesting. After a long term marriage, I find I am rusty. Men of all ages are attracted to me, (good genes) but then, now what? It is exhausting and I am considering being a single, period. Unfortunately, I like men,; had brothers and worked in a man’s career world. It’s just, I never imagined there could be bonding and heartache after the ultimate discard, but it has happened. After years of narcissistic abuse- (belittling, frightful rages) wondering about a boyfriend seems trite,.But there it is, I love your practical attitude, thank you much!
I wish I knew this before he left :"D
Thanks so much Alex! I really need this. Auto like and subscribe.
Thank you for subscribing, so glad you are here!
I loved your advice 😘
Oooooh great message thanks for sharing this great example 💕💖💕👑
this is so true ! i have really analysed this thing ! i love the way you explain the things.
I am back again... Need some more motivational therapy from your channel.
Experienced the worst pain of being helpless because if u love or really loved someone it is so difficult to hurt....For onw year just made to realise that Iam important,chased me,called me any time...but that was just a feeling...once that over humiliated,harassed..
It is better to let that person to leave if love also.....
I won't make him so bad, i moved on
Many Many thanks from my heart Alex, May Allah bless you ❤ . After listening your lecture I have been able to relieve myself from depression. I don't know he come back or not, I will try my best as you say . Thanks again 🙂
Stay strong you can do this! Thank you for your support.
You are welcome Alex
Best advice ever 👌👌
What’sit like to marry a love coach 😏
Everyday will be an interesting day. Stress too because they know how to play hot n cold I guess
If it's the same as marrying a doctor then you will get over treated... as in over medicated lol!
Hello Sunshine my lungs😂😂😂😂😂it will be love overdose
Dearrrrr🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐always helpful
Thanks a lot
U give me courage to get him back when i feel sooo down now and almost give up 😇
Did u get him back?
Thank you so much for your advices ☆☆☆♡♡
You are so welcome. So glad you are here!
U r awesome Alex🌸🌸🌸
Coach, I am in love with your accent ♥️
Thank You for this wonderful video
And yes that accent 🔥
thanks alex..your advice is really good.
Oh god !! Why are you sooooo handsome ??
Thank you Alex
He needs to chase you.. Girl!!!
There is nothing that makes me run away from a guy as him making statements that make him appear so emotionally needy, annoying demanding, and exhausting. I don' T say such things to men, and though I know some wish I would... I would be too proud. And I like a man who is also proud and emotionally independent. He could say other things to convey how he feels about me, but that do not sound too emotionally dependent. Ot better still, and say nothing at all. Convey his feelings of love etc with actions and the things he refrains frodoimg which might offend me if I love him ewhoring around, putting me down, and distrusting me, and control freaking, and denying me my freedom to be me, and being a tyrant or the reverse ie not caring about me, I never speaking his true mind openly with etc.
Perfect advice - a wonderful reminder on how always to be your best you and a challenge ❤️
Thank you Charlene for your comment. I hope you're doing good?
Thank you Alex - all good merci
Nice thoughts. I like it
😢😢😢😢help I'm in love he don't love me anymore 😢😢
What if I tell my man that I care about him so much.
I guess I don't understand. I'm supposed to pretend to not like someone I do? Isn't that game playing? Why can't people meet with a mutual attraction for one another and go from there?
Please Alex how can I bring memories to our relationship?
What kind of memories
Can you give us some hints
Thanks a bunch you're doing an amzing job 😍
Thank you for being here!
Alex, what do you do if you know he has feelings for you but a bit scared to make the first move ?
Dealing with same problem 🙁
Same here
Same here!
If he is a Virgo you will have to make the first move!
You are so right
Thank you for your support.
What if he doesn't care ? If he does the same in return ?