Just this week a married guy friend told me the same sort of advice. Watching this has cemented it. Operation be a challenge accepted. Thankyou Alex for helping us women to understand men! Such a good act of public service. The world needs more love ❤
So true, the more I act like friends the more guys really like me and the more I allow them to come to me from themselves (establishing first contact, making plans with me) the more they come forward.
I'm new to this guy, I'm gay but he is universal, I like him, he knows his shit, boy meets girl, boy meets boy, girl meets girl. Thanks dude. I'm watching!
Yes...you are right...But God gave us a brain to think and behave in right thing so you need to learn some techniques in your life in every field,: love, work, friendship... Not bad to learn from people who have more experience
I want him so bad... What a wonderful sentence that remembers me to much memories ;-) And a few months later, other reflexion. I am so happy not to have him, to have focused on me, and found my own happiness. Your advices and coaching were so great that my relations never have been the same. Change habits and the words and behaviors is an other way of life on a road of a best lovelifestyle.
I like your enthusiasm. My guy is crazy about me because I feel so beautiful, feminine when I’m with him. I’m relaxed, happy to receive his love (to a certain extent), happy to show him I’m attracted to him (to a certain extent)... In other words, he’s not there yet with me. He still has more to prove before I’m totally in with him. No games, just the way it is. 🌹
This is true! Act like you don’t like him. Pretend like he’s the guy that you don’t want to be with. Because sometimes we ignore the one who chase us But we got ignore from the one we like
I think what helps in "pretend he's just a friend," it takes the anxiety off. This way, Act As IF! I think it was Dale Carnegie that said that. Wish me well., I'm 71 and about to text ( first ) "my friend." Because he had said that we are!!!
Belma Bella same he invested so heavily into for over 6 months, he made me fall in love with him. He’s hardly around much now I’m highly frustrated and dreadfully sad. How are you now Belma?
The best thing you can do is to wake up from your fantasy all desires and dreams, live your normal life, back to your sense and have your self worth with you..
He said to me: ,,I need time to think if back to you because if I back I want stay with u forever and continue my life with you but I don’t know if I want be with you forever”
Dear Alex. I ve just follow you for a couple months. Thank U so much for your advice in every video. They bring new mindset to me that changed some of my behaviour now.
I have a problem when it comes to that moment when I like a man, I show him openly that I like him and now this video has opened my eyes. I will not show my affectionate again or show him how much I like him, but I will continue to enjoy the moment when am with him, or? Thank you, I just found you few days ago and am soo glad I did!
Well thank you for this video. I am so happy that I am myself around my crush. I was so myself that I began to wonder if my words would be too much . After this I have realized to keep doing what I am doing
Thank you so much.. All your videos are very helpful.. I have always been needy in every relationship. Now am not and it really works.. My bf had been distant with me for one week and i just kept silent. He came back 😂
You are absolutely adorable and kind. 🥰 You give great guidance so women can see all sides. The “complexity” of it all really is that simple. Thank you. ❤️
Mr.Alex, dear sir, I would like to say thank you so much for your working so hard . So so HARD you work . I realize it . What I need from you. Grateful to your noble heart and your decent works. !. Please stop helping speaking or teaching anyone anything . AND PLEASE GO TO THE PLACE YOU LOVE MOST . THE FOOD YOU LOVE TO EAT MOST . MEET PERSON YOU NEED AND WANT TO MEET . JUST GO NOW . IF>>>>TODAY OR THIS Week is yr last in this planet . Pray god bless protect and give you the greatest peace , success in work and life . From Japanese girl in japan
Ladies, don’t sleep with any man until he becomes your husband. Make beautiful fun memories with him. Keep it flirty but not sexual. Don’t tell him you are not going to sleep with him. Make the commitment with yourself to not go there. Also, do not invest in him financially. Let him pay for dates. In the end, if it doesn’t work out.. YOU HAVE LOST NOTHING. 😃 If it does work out, then he will value you for your self respect and personality.
I'm dating an alpha and doesn't have to play these games with him, he gets crazy sometimes about me, we really love each other. It's really nice when you are sure of yourself and date a person who is also confident and appreciates you.
I read this thinking about my husband and i smiled. I agree. It is beautiful being loved by a man who knows it is you and is not afraid to embrace the love you give
Interesting. After a long term marriage, I find I am rusty. Men of all ages are attracted to me, (good genes) but then, now what? It is exhausting and I am considering being a single, period. Unfortunately, I like men,; had brothers and worked in a man’s career world. It’s just, I never imagined there could be bonding and heartache after the ultimate discard, but it has happened. After years of narcissistic abuse- (belittling, frightful rages) wondering about a boyfriend seems trite,.But there it is, I love your practical attitude, thank you much!
Experienced the worst pain of being helpless because if u love or really loved someone it is so difficult to hurt....For onw year just made to realise that Iam important,chased me,called me any time...but that was just a feeling...once that over humiliated,harassed.. It is better to let that person to leave if love also.....
Thank you so very much sir 🙏 Your words have the power to make anyone understand their own worth. I am highly impressed the way you convey your thoughts. It’s very very useful each and every word you say.. thanks a lot again 🙏😊
Sir..Hats off to you.. All ur videos are really great..Getting motivated by ur words now a days.. Trying to overcome from every troubles.. Thanks so much sir..
Many Many thanks from my heart Alex, May Allah bless you ❤ . After listening your lecture I have been able to relieve myself from depression. I don't know he come back or not, I will try my best as you say . Thanks again 🙂
Namaste..I'm ur New subscriber from India. .I'm biggest fan of usr and coach Natalie. .I'm a very much emotional person in nature..my love was a one-sided fr tht person..he blocked me cut off all the contact..bcoz I was acting needy and emotional depended ..nd I apologized fr this Alex sir..but I didn't gave up on myself from the same day of cut off(March 20) contact I started wayching each and every session of usr and Natalie mam. .like no contact rule,what to do if he blocks you ,how to cope with breakup how to focus on urself and many more ...and seriously I followed ur rules of no contact no chasing,how to focus on ur self etc...even today I brought a new lil change in my lifestyle too .. nd im feeling gud..once i was a very simple punjabi type of girls..last month there was his bday nd I texted a msg happy bday nd replied me thank you it was really unexpected fr me...but I'm still block on wattsaap ..but im not chasing him or poking him to get unblocked..from video of coach Natalie. .. Will he unblock me ??
deepika more girl when a man block you or don’t respond to your tests it’s either he isn’t interested in you and He is texting someone else .. move on hon , he doesn’t deserves you! I’m sure you are an amazing beautiful girl, another suitor will find you ok! Much love ❤️ from Canada 🇨🇦
He's just NOT INTO YOU. Accept it and MOVE ON please. If you still try to get his attention you will lose your self respect and lose him also of course. Men don't like WEAK women. Please, show some pride and move on with your life !!
He's still chasing me Alex and imma mess him up.he better go on and all the other men that dumped me are chasing me now...and none of them are good enough for me ❤❤❤ thank you Alex your the BEST!!!
Hellooo. I luv d way u go straight t d point, thnx. However still with d challenges ov controlling emotions wn it comes t d person you want badly hooooh
I don't know if this helps anyone. But I met someone and were somewhat together for 2 years. I found out he was basically on with someone else the whole time. I was so hurt and obsessed with getting him back... Because I thought I was being robbed of something... That this girl was getting something I never didn't. I caught up with him after a couple months and he hadn't changed. She wasn't getting a better version. He was still a liar and hurt people without care. That's when I realised I had moved on. It was my own issues that made me "want him back" 😂 Now I'm so glad he didn't pick me 🤙
Me too, you deserve so much more. Stay focused on your goals and you will find a happy and healthy relationship. Here is something that I know will help you. if interested here is the link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/findlovein60days
*And if that’s the case, that’s exactly what you want! Then you successfully filtered that fcccboy out of your life and saved your time (youth) for the one who’s worthy enough to see your value.*
He needs to chase me. He needs to pursue me. Thank you, Coach Alex!
He needs to chase and pursue me. I will practice your advice and you are on point with what I am in.
Just this week a married guy friend told me the same sort of advice. Watching this has cemented it. Operation be a challenge accepted. Thankyou Alex for helping us women to understand men! Such a good act of public service. The world needs more love ❤
So true, the more I act like friends the more guys really like me and the more I allow them to come to me from themselves (establishing first contact, making plans with me) the more they come forward.
How do you act like friends?
HE NEEDS TO CHASE ME🔈🔈🔊. No more chasing him. Much thanks Alex. I appreciate your effort of keeping us in love.
I'm new to this guy, I'm gay but he is universal, I like him, he knows his shit, boy meets girl, boy meets boy, girl meets girl. Thanks dude. I'm watching!
At the end of the day it's only God that has the final say if it works or not.....
Yes 100%. If it is His will or not.
@@ak-47intelligence75 No, it is the two people.
Our power is inside of us.
Yes...you are right...But God gave us a brain to think and behave in right thing so you need to learn some techniques in your life in every field,: love, work, friendship... Not bad to learn from people who have more experience
I concur with you
So how does commitment ever work? At some point, the chase had to stop and the games have to end.
Maybe when we get married 😂
Is it good to expend my own money to buy foods and things for your boyfriend...
@@agirl6971 NO! NEVER BUY FOR A MAN UNLESS HE HAS SPENT THOUSANDS ON YOU.
Yeah. It's terrible n nonsense
@@agirl6971 no.no. no no NO.
I want him so bad... What a wonderful sentence that remembers me to much memories ;-) And a few months later, other reflexion. I am so happy not to have him, to have focused on me, and found my own happiness. Your advices and coaching were so great that my relations never have been the same. Change habits and the words and behaviors is an other way of life on a road of a best lovelifestyle.
Focusing on yourself is very important you are right :-)
He’s so fine.. you’re doing a great job sir
Men will be men.. All are same.... No one is different, no one is unique
I like your enthusiasm. My guy is crazy about me because I feel so beautiful, feminine when I’m with him. I’m relaxed, happy to receive his love (to a certain extent), happy to show him I’m attracted to him (to a certain extent)... In other words, he’s not there yet with me. He still has more to prove before I’m totally in with him. No games, just the way it is. 🌹
Thanks for sharing!!
This is true! Act like you don’t like him. Pretend like he’s the guy that you don’t want to be with.
Because sometimes we ignore the one who chase us
But we got ignore from the one we like
I'm going to try this!
I tried it but bit difficult when we ignore the one who we like 🤨
I really need to try this. He needs to chase and pursue me now. I put enough effort in and time
it's been 4 years, what happened with thoise guys? are you married to any of them?
I really appreciate the way you r helping the women.
Its not playing games..its a way of life as a woman..we are receptive individuals so meaning, we dont need to chase...
Alex I only watch your videos just to hear your French accent! It's so smooth!
I think what helps in "pretend he's just a friend," it takes the anxiety off. This way, Act As IF! I think it was Dale Carnegie that said that. Wish me well., I'm 71 and about to text ( first ) "my friend." Because he had said that we are!!!
So he chased me so long when he got me he is so cold .. so ofc. i moved on’!
Belma Bella same girlll😩
Read the book attached by amir levine. Could help you
Did he come back ?
Belma Bella same he invested so heavily into for over 6 months, he made me fall in love with him.
He’s hardly around much now I’m highly frustrated and dreadfully sad.
How are you now Belma?
That's so bad. You were just a trophy
The best thing you can do is to wake up from your fantasy all desires and dreams, live your normal life, back to your sense and have your self worth with you..
Vivi, thank you for your support.
This is so true.
Im very thankful for changing my mind n helping me where i needed the most
Thank you so much for your support Tahreem!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I chased him. As now he's wedding today for our 25 yrs Anniversary. Finally. He's the one for me 🎂🎉🎊🎶💍💒🛐📿🙏💕💋
Congratulations!
Thank you we had a blast.💋💕
You are the exception.
You're very lucky!
Congrats 😁
Perfect advice - a wonderful reminder on how always to be your best you and a challenge ❤️
Thank you Charlene for your comment. I hope you're doing good?
Thank you Alex - all good merci
Love your frenchglish and the way you simplify fact which is complicated for us ladies. I am your new fan ♥️♥️
He said to me: ,,I need time to think if back to you because if I back I want stay with u forever and continue my life with you but I don’t know if I want be with you forever”
You make my day and life easy after I am depressed thanks you so much
Thank you for being here and for your support!
Dear Alex. I ve just follow you for a couple months. Thank U so much for your advice in every video. They bring new mindset to me that changed some of my behaviour now.
The best friend approach is a good idea
Mr. Alex, how do i make you chase after me, after all I love your accent!
You can hire him as personal coach lol. I think Alex is married and have a baby lol just speculating 🤣😂 don't make his wife chase you
@@karendavis1559 Lol!
😂😂😂😂😂
I have a problem when it comes to that moment when I like a man, I show him openly that I like him and now this video has opened my eyes. I will not show my affectionate again or show him how much I like him, but I will continue to enjoy the moment when am with him, or?
Thank you, I just found you few days ago and am soo glad I did!
I think this advice will change your love life :-)
Ooh girl that's what I'm doing with my man and now he seems trying to play my feeling no way 🙋🏽♀️💞 I love him but I love me more 🥰
Thank you Alex, nice of you give all these videos to teach us to be more confident..
My pleasure!
You are soooo right everytime I do not pay much attention to him he contacts me
Well thank you for this video. I am so happy that I am myself around my crush. I was so myself that I began to wonder if my words would be too much . After this I have realized to keep doing what I am doing
So simply and beautifully explained!
Thank you so much.. All your videos are very helpful..
I have always been needy in every relationship.
Now am not and it really works..
My bf had been distant with me for one week and i just kept silent. He came back 😂
Thank you for reminding me of my value.
You are so welcome!
Please coach can you make video about date ideas that makes beautiful and strong memories? Thank you ❤
You are absolutely adorable and kind. 🥰 You give great guidance so women can see all sides. The “complexity” of it all really is that simple. Thank you. ❤️
Thank you so much!
True Alex, he will chase me now. Role reversal now, I want him so bad from my side to I want her so bad from his side. Thank you Alex. 😇💕🙏
Thank you for your support.
Hmmm..I smiled when I watch this video😊
Thank you Mr. Alex!
Mr.Alex, dear sir,
I would like to say thank you so much for your working so hard . So so HARD you work . I realize it .
What I need from you.
Grateful to your noble heart and your decent works.
!. Please stop helping speaking or teaching anyone anything . AND PLEASE GO TO THE PLACE YOU LOVE MOST .
THE FOOD YOU LOVE TO EAT MOST .
MEET PERSON YOU NEED AND WANT TO MEET .
JUST GO NOW .
IF>>>>TODAY OR THIS Week is yr last in this planet .
Pray god bless protect and give you the greatest peace , success in work and life .
From Japanese girl in japan
Shout out to "Japan", So glad you are here!
YOU HAVE THE POWER. Yes!
I have so much respect for Alex x
You really the best Alex thank you for all ur advice 🙏
I appreciate that!
Bonjour Alex, joli message , 😙Bravo ! Mary . Paris, France 🗼
What can you do with someone new that creates exciting new memories?
Unfortunately...if he try to hunt me....he will never have me.
Ladies, don’t sleep with any man until he becomes your husband. Make beautiful fun memories with him. Keep it flirty but not sexual. Don’t tell him you are not going to sleep with him. Make the commitment with yourself to not go there. Also, do not invest in him financially. Let him pay for dates. In the end, if it doesn’t work out.. YOU HAVE LOST NOTHING. 😃
If it does work out, then he will value you for your self respect and personality.
I am back again... Need some more motivational therapy from your channel.
Alex u simplify every difficult topic/situation I like ur videos👍🏻
That’s so great Alex. And very true. I’ll get back to you soon on some one on one coaching. Thank you for getting back to me as well. G
You are so welcome. Looking forward to having a coaching session with you!
Thank you Alex for the good advice. God bless you always
Same to you!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert 😊👍🙏
I'm dating an alpha and doesn't have to play these games with him, he gets crazy sometimes about me, we really love each other. It's really nice when you are sure of yourself and date a person who is also confident and appreciates you.
I read this thinking about my husband and i smiled. I agree. It is beautiful being loved by a man who knows it is you and is not afraid to embrace the love you give
Hey Alex! I've been following your advice and you're totally right! Thanks and keep it up mate!
Thank you for your support!
When a Frenchie loses the "h" and adds "h" when it's not needed. So adorable.
First time watching
And I love your speech
It was amazing thanks for uploading
Thank you for being here:)
Interesting. After a long term marriage, I find I am rusty. Men of all ages are attracted to me, (good genes) but then, now what? It is exhausting and I am considering being a single, period. Unfortunately, I like men,; had brothers and worked in a man’s career world. It’s just, I never imagined there could be bonding and heartache after the ultimate discard, but it has happened. After years of narcissistic abuse- (belittling, frightful rages) wondering about a boyfriend seems trite,.But there it is, I love your practical attitude, thank you much!
when you do treat him like he's your best friend
Thank you,
But how to finally get out of the friend zone?
Wow. You are so cool. So nice. So helpful. And so right. Thank you!
Superlike, 👍👍 i mean you made me so confident about my situation i cany express... Thankyou thank you thank you
You are an amazing coach. Love this video :)) btw I love your accent! It's the best!
Amazing And most importantly short to the point videos ❤️
amazing tips. thanx😇
Experienced the worst pain of being helpless because if u love or really loved someone it is so difficult to hurt....For onw year just made to realise that Iam important,chased me,called me any time...but that was just a feeling...once that over humiliated,harassed..
It is better to let that person to leave if love also.....
Dearrrrr🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐always helpful
Thanks a lot
Thank you so very much sir 🙏
Your words have the power to make anyone understand their own worth.
I am highly impressed the way you convey your thoughts. It’s very very useful each and every word you say.. thanks a lot again 🙏😊
Love love love the info!!
Super fantastic advice ....Alex u r the best ..I needed to hear this
Sir..Hats off to you.. All ur videos are really great..Getting motivated by ur words now a days.. Trying to overcome from every troubles.. Thanks so much sir..
I am here to help!
Thank you sir..
Many Many thanks from my heart Alex, May Allah bless you ❤ . After listening your lecture I have been able to relieve myself from depression. I don't know he come back or not, I will try my best as you say . Thanks again 🙂
Stay strong you can do this! Thank you for your support.
You are welcome Alex
Thanks so much Alex! I really need this. Auto like and subscribe.
Thank you for subscribing, so glad you are here!
Best advice ever 👌👌
Wonderful video. Thanks!
Alex, what do you do if you know he has feelings for you but a bit scared to make the first move ?
Dealing with same problem 🙁
Same here
Same here!
If he is a Virgo you will have to make the first move!
Namaste..I'm ur New subscriber from India. .I'm biggest fan of usr and coach Natalie. .I'm a very much emotional person in nature..my love was a one-sided fr tht person..he blocked me cut off all the contact..bcoz I was acting needy and emotional depended ..nd I apologized fr this Alex sir..but I didn't gave up on myself from the same day of cut off(March 20) contact I started wayching each and every session of usr and Natalie mam. .like no contact rule,what to do if he blocks you ,how to cope with breakup how to focus on urself and many more ...and seriously I followed ur rules of no contact no chasing,how to focus on ur self etc...even today I brought a new lil change in my lifestyle too .. nd im feeling gud..once i was a very simple punjabi type of girls..last month there was his bday nd I texted a msg happy bday nd replied me thank you it was really unexpected fr me...but I'm still block on wattsaap ..but im not chasing him or poking him to get unblocked..from video of coach Natalie. ..
Will he unblock me ??
deepika more girl when a man block you or don’t respond to your tests it’s either he isn’t interested in you and He is texting someone else .. move on hon , he doesn’t deserves you! I’m sure you are an amazing beautiful girl, another suitor will find you ok!
Much love ❤️ from Canada 🇨🇦
Jaast tension nko gheus hoil thik me tula help karen
He's just NOT INTO YOU. Accept it and MOVE ON please. If you still try to get his attention you will lose your self respect and lose him also of course. Men don't like WEAK women. Please, show some pride and move on with your life !!
this is so true ! i have really analysed this thing ! i love the way you explain the things.
He's still chasing me Alex and imma mess him up.he better go on and all the other men that dumped me are chasing me now...and none of them are good enough for me ❤❤❤ thank you Alex your the BEST!!!
You're the best :-)
But man doesn't want to feel loved too?
thanks alex..your advice is really good.
Hellooo. I luv d way u go straight t d point, thnx.
However still with d challenges ov controlling emotions wn it comes t d person you want badly hooooh
I don't know if this helps anyone.
But I met someone and were somewhat together for 2 years. I found out he was basically on with someone else the whole time.
I was so hurt and obsessed with getting him back... Because I thought I was being robbed of something... That this girl was getting something I never didn't.
I caught up with him after a couple months and he hadn't changed. She wasn't getting a better version. He was still a liar and hurt people without care.
That's when I realised I had moved on.
It was my own issues that made me "want him back" 😂
Now I'm so glad he didn't pick me 🤙
Me too, you deserve so much more. Stay focused on your goals and you will find a happy and healthy relationship. Here is something that I know will help you. if interested here is the link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/findlovein60days
Great advice
Wow awesome video. Thanks Alex! So is it a good idea to text him and tell him I want a new challenge?
Thank you for your support.
Coach, I am in love with your accent ♥️
Thank You for this wonderful video
U give me courage to get him back when i feel sooo down now and almost give up 😇
Did u get him back?
Oooooh great message thanks for sharing this great example 💕💖💕👑
Nice thoughts. I like it
Guys, love doesn't exist, relationship is a game... Take it that way and you will not get hurt... L amour n existe pas
If I stop chasing him ,he will forget I exist and goes on with his life
*And if that’s the case, that’s exactly what you want! Then you successfully filtered that fcccboy out of your life and saved your time (youth) for the one who’s worthy enough to see your value.*
@@MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels true
You need to be more strategic and position yourself with him.
Please Alex how can I bring memories to our relationship?
What kind of memories
Can you give us some hints
Thanks a bunch you're doing an amzing job 😍
Thank you for being here!
Mr Alex thank you Sir 👏
You're so welcome.
I loved your advice 😘
U r awesome Alex🌸🌸🌸
What if he doesn't care ? If he does the same in return ?
And when he is telling your friends things that will hurt you , to try get to hurt you?
Wow😍really hoping that reverse is powerful I like him so much now I said to my he likes me so much😍😂
So very true! Thank you so much💋💋💋
You are welcome. Glad you are here.
Thank you Alex
I live in a small town, what activities can you suggest?
U are good in advice sir alex but its difficjlt to apply people bcoz of pride and ego..