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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2020
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  • @Cmtjune5
    @Cmtjune5 3 года назад +51

    They don’t like confidence in people because they have none but they try to act like it

    • @LOOTLORD605
      @LOOTLORD605 Год назад

      Yeah exactly, specifically the covert ones. All facade and fake.

  • @PradaPsychic
    @PradaPsychic 3 года назад +37

    No weapon form against me shall prosper
    No one is you and that’s your POWER
    STAY REAL AND TRUE TO YOU

  • @peacefulliving6432
    @peacefulliving6432 3 года назад +20

    They pull out all the cards to con you. We are looking for a relationship, they are looking to destroy your greatness.

  • @theseattlegreen1871
    @theseattlegreen1871 3 года назад +24

    You're a legitimate soldier Joel....

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад +4

      Appreciate that brother 🙏🏽 happy New Years to you dude! 2021 we getting after it!

  • @AlejandroSanchez-zs7pi
    @AlejandroSanchez-zs7pi 3 года назад +8

    the narcissist will change their personality according to their needs

  • @howreenieseesit9480
    @howreenieseesit9480 3 года назад +17

    At first I was actually feeling sorry for the thing I was married to for 24 years. His mother is clearly a narcissist so I can only imagine how she must have treated him. I've seen her abuse him mentally by going silent on him. Well my mother was horrible and I never knew my father
    So thats no excuse for treating anyone like they have no worth. I never did and my upbringing was NOT good at all.

  • @missrose7975
    @missrose7975 3 года назад +30

    Truth 💯 these people ( covert narcissists )can look you right in the eyes 👀 and tell you they love you so so much and can’t live with out you, while they just got done with having sex with someone else a hour before .... pure evil 💯 🔥👿👹👺

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 года назад +5

      Yep

    • @RosasResources
      @RosasResources 3 года назад +2

      Thats why I left my husband he just continued to lie and make me look like a fool

    • @cynthiamiller1983
      @cynthiamiller1983 3 года назад +1

      Even animals go into heat and breed for the purpose of repopulation. human beings can just be nasty screwing anything they can, like knotches on a headboard just to satisfy their sick perverted twisted thinking, using the head between the legs, not the head between the shoulders.

    • @jjmac1847
      @jjmac1847 3 года назад +2

      that is 100 percent the scary truth. That is their advantage over caring people...why they seek us out. Because they are counting on us not being able to fathom that anyone could ever be that evil, selfish and heartless.

    • @LOOTLORD605
      @LOOTLORD605 Год назад

      Truth theyre the fakest people Ive ever seen.

  • @dan8046
    @dan8046 3 года назад +8

    I am a confident independent grandma who, unfortunately, had to escape and move to another city to protect myself. I am the only one who had detected the narc out there. My son is still under her control. She tried to use me to have my son's house, and of course I said NO! She tought she could manipulate me. I told her NO in two other occasions with delinquent acts. I live my independent grandma life far away now, but it's so sad to know my son is voluntarily drowning himself without me being able to do anything, except getting closer and be destroyed myself... In his own destruction caused by the female narc, my son tried to drag me in it by trying to destroy me financially, emotionnally... so sad I had to cut him off to protect myself, my own son the victim... I had a good and normal relationship with my son during 30 years, and one year after being with the narc female, I could not recognize him... So I confirm narcs hate confident people and those who see clearly their game.

  • @blatevola01
    @blatevola01 3 года назад +11

    If you’re getting enough sleep and you’re still as tired as you are, you should get a physical exam possibly including an EKG to check your heart function.

    • @PradaPsychic
      @PradaPsychic 3 года назад +2

      And check your blood 🩸 could be low vitamin D

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад +1

      Thank you guys! I should definitely get to the hospital and get checked out, something is off for sure, but feeling better today and the last few, increasingly!

  • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
    @lionessroarsjohnson2684 3 года назад +10

    I have no idea why this person hates me. I did not know this person was like that. If I would have known I would have stayed away.

    • @irocwellOO3
      @irocwellOO3 3 года назад +2

      Bc they can’t be You!

    • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
      @lionessroarsjohnson2684 3 года назад

      @@irocwellOO3 Why would they want to be me? Why hate me for being myself? There isn't much to me.

    • @irocwellOO3
      @irocwellOO3 3 года назад +1

      @@lionessroarsjohnson2684 they are shyt. You on the other hand have a lot of positive traits and talents. They hate that about you bc they are completely dysfunctional and can’t fix themselves. So they hate themselves and project that on to you. So they hate you. It’s twisted.

    • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
      @lionessroarsjohnson2684 3 года назад

      @@irocwellOO3 How would they know I have positive traits and, talents? I could win the most boring person on earth every year award. I can be honest, I am not attractive. There isn't alot of positives when it comes to me. I don't get it. It looks like this person has a new supply and, wants to marry and, have a kid with. That poor girl. I don't ever want to get married and, accepted that I won't have kids a long time ago. I hope she sees through him.

    • @irocwellOO3
      @irocwellOO3 3 года назад

      @@lionessroarsjohnson2684 😁🤦‍♀️🤮

  • @venusessentials
    @venusessentials 3 года назад +5

    Confidence is the antidote. I'm seeing this more and more! Where I did the right thing instead of listening to them its where I was naturally already confident.

  • @davinajackson7590
    @davinajackson7590 3 года назад +4

    Yess thank you for still keeping the messages . Take care of yourself . Get some rest take time away . Talking about these demons can drain you! Regroup ! Prayer and Rest . Be encourage ! .1

  • @5Luckyducky
    @5Luckyducky 3 года назад +8

    On point, but use the good supply on yourself to advance. Get some rest!

  • @lanadst6745
    @lanadst6745 3 года назад +2

    Got tricked too ! Real bad i think I can beat you with my narc. 😂Well once you lay on the floor you can only stand up. Now it’s his time to fall down. Lost financially emotionally I do not even dare to go outside for the ugly smear campaign he did to me. My eyes are open. He never loved me at all

  • @marshalldominguez6113
    @marshalldominguez6113 2 года назад +1

    First off,,, Rest!!! Take care of you. No one else will look after you I am coming out of the tiredness myself. 1 year for me. I walked away from a dead end job of 8 years. Within 8 months, I lost my two pups of 10 years... Had covid for nearly 1 month and another 2-3 months to recover.
    I know I was depressed for nearly 1 year. Concentrate on you!!! Thank you for pushing through during this time. Take a nap when you must. It's OK! I do. Thank you for encouraging us to stand firm against the narks.
    Hopefully you are a man of faith. It helps so much to talk to God of the universe. He cares so much for us. Just a word of encouragement.
    I dated one for 4 years. Covid-19 was a blessing and a savior to me. She decided she did not want to see me because I might be a carrier. What about her? I took it as an exit. Nothing but hell for 4 years in and out up and down fighting fighting fighting. I called her on several of the fights because I started learning about narcissism and their practices. Thank God I did not marry her. I had given her a ring.
    So keep encouraging us. We so appreciate you.

  • @howreenieseesit9480
    @howreenieseesit9480 3 года назад +3

    Now that im aware of these people that are narcissistic I seem to be noticing them all around me. Just like the thing I was with for many years I am learning to not engage or respond to these people! I dont even look their way if I notice anything about them that makes me uncomfortable. It's ironic how I've learned things from being treated like a worthless bag of trash that's actually turned out like a good thing! Good is more powerful than evil! Always!

  • @satianuras2000
    @satianuras2000 3 года назад +3

    Always do the right thing no matter who laughs or who takes judgment of you. No matter how painful it may appear to be, in the end, all the matters is what the Universe thinks of you and not anyone else. Life is a test of your patience.

  • @alexvizaniaris8041
    @alexvizaniaris8041 3 года назад +3

    Always hitting the factz

  • @alexvizaniaris8041
    @alexvizaniaris8041 3 года назад +4

    Please rest Brother your rest 1st.Thanks as always

  • @jjmac1847
    @jjmac1847 3 года назад +2

    I appreciate your candidness and honesty. I am someone that is very hard to pull the wool over my eyes....and my ex was a PRO. She knew exactly how to pull my strings and opened my mind up to the danger of being too cocky out here. Keep it up my friend!

  • @marshalldominguez6113
    @marshalldominguez6113 2 года назад

    Great words and truth. I had a narcissist for 5 years off and on. Just like you said, she said after 3 days no contact, she blatantly told me she got back on to dating sites. I called her on her crap and she would blow up.
    I'm the one that walked away and broke the engagement off 3 times because of her rage. Wasn't going to marry a woman like that. They are so engrossed in us. That is why they ghost us.
    Thank you for sharing your hurt.

  • @lizzy5437
    @lizzy5437 3 года назад +2

    It’s a very draining topic. You are on point always! And appreciated!

  • @thespiritualsamurai2818
    @thespiritualsamurai2818 2 года назад +1

    I honestly am antisocial as fuck and don’t like the thought of people in general. You though, I’d kick it with you. You real as fuck my nigga. Keep speaking that good shit. Stay up cuz.

  • @maryface04
    @maryface04 3 года назад

    Amen means truth. Amen brother.

  • @semiramisfakhri6692
    @semiramisfakhri6692 3 года назад +2

    Yes you are very smart

  • @juliepollard8332
    @juliepollard8332 3 года назад +2

    Just remember who kicked you when you were down,( because of them),it's taken me years to get my confidence back it's a daily fight,but now the ones who enjoyed seeing me at breaking point won't even look at me,but they still have a problem with me and try and stir the shit,,your videos are so good,

  • @godschilduk1790
    @godschilduk1790 3 года назад +4

    I needed this thanks Terry .. you always say it as it is so much respect for your information!! Straight to the point bro !! Thank you 🙏💯

  • @DEADIKATED
    @DEADIKATED 3 года назад

    *They are our Enemy but will go out of their way to convince us they are Friends

  • @arisa373
    @arisa373 3 года назад +2

    You'll make some lucky lady happy one day! Thanks for helping us empaths

  • @triplekids3
    @triplekids3 3 года назад +2

    I’m learning at 56 I’ve been with narc for 55 years they are very scary

  • @iamnotthisform
    @iamnotthisform 3 года назад +1

    I hope you feel better soon and can get some rest. Eat well and take a break, you deserve it. I appreciate these videos a lot.

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      Thank you bro 🙏🏽 feeling a lot better the last few days, it’s going good now g! Happy New Years to you bro!

  • @CoppaTopPopYaTop
    @CoppaTopPopYaTop 3 года назад +1

    damn. this video definitely relates to me.
    the time i spent with my ex narc would ALWAYS pull me away from my purpose. but whenever i leave her alone and do my own thing and focus on myself i always seem to do better in all aspects in my life

  • @Real2k25
    @Real2k25 3 года назад +4

    My ex narc was unbelievably crazy when didn't get her way

    • @peacefulliving6432
      @peacefulliving6432 3 года назад

      My ex did the same. He would start raging when he wouldn't get his way.

    • @Real2k25
      @Real2k25 3 года назад

      @@peacefulliving6432 wow yea they are like adult babies

    • @peacefulliving6432
      @peacefulliving6432 3 года назад

      @@Real2k25 lol yeah.

    • @Real2k25
      @Real2k25 3 года назад

      @@peacefulliving6432 i went no contact surprisingly she lived 4 hours away she was supposed to be pregnant but when I went no contact 4 days she suddenly had miscarriage and came down here begging to speak to me

    • @peacefulliving6432
      @peacefulliving6432 3 года назад

      @@Real2k25 wow that's crazy. I can't believe these Narcs will do the most unbelievable things. My mind can't even think like that. They use these children as pons. Disgusting. I seen my sister do this to men.

  • @marylouasturias2562
    @marylouasturias2562 Год назад +1

    I'm not able to for many reasons....there must be another way....

  • @Real2k25
    @Real2k25 3 года назад +9

    That happen to me I went from beings dream man to her sleeping with my cousin smh

  • @neverloseyourself7480
    @neverloseyourself7480 3 года назад

    Your tired because they are attached to your energy! Rest brother just rest and rejuvenate your energy! Thank you for your videos. Dont work to hard.

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      Thank you man, appreciate you! Feeling much better right now

  • @scottk1174
    @scottk1174 3 года назад +2

    Most perfect accurate description of covert narcissist Rhodel Ojastro in Philippines.

  • @thomasbillie4771
    @thomasbillie4771 3 года назад

    Hey man u are great speaking your truth. You are not alone I feel the same way . I believe you will find your peace . You helped me alot today and I thank you for your truth

  • @Cmtjune5
    @Cmtjune5 3 года назад +5

    You need to take some time off for you Terry so you can bounce back. Enjoy doing something that you like to do

  • @donnicabell6888
    @donnicabell6888 3 года назад +3

    Dope video!! Nothing but the truth!!💯 I hope you feel better soon💞

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад +1

      Thank you Donnica ❤️ feeling much better the last couple days, happy New Years!

  • @imthatnigga8123
    @imthatnigga8123 3 года назад +7

    So my sisters boyfriend loves being center of attention so when i try talking hell try to ignore me is that an act of narcissist?

    • @theseattlegreen1871
      @theseattlegreen1871 3 года назад

      Tell your sister you caught him cheating on her!
      He sounds like a complete douchbag.

  • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
    @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 года назад +1

    Hey J try to get yourself some rest and stay away from these females . As a woman myself I don’t deal with females anymore !! Females are nothing drama !! So therefore that’s how it’s is I know what you mean !! Try to sleep and meditate and listen to smooth music and excerise and eat healthier don’t eat no meat keep a lot of water !! God bless you

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      Thank you Millie! It’s good to see you again haven’t seen you in a long while! Happy nears years ❤️

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 года назад

      @@terryjoeljunior I am busy working and doing alms career and other stuff you too god bless you

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад +1

      @@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 good stuff Camille! Bless you as well and happy new years!

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 года назад

      @@terryjoeljunior yep

  • @bflossthegod5370
    @bflossthegod5370 3 года назад

    This is facts bro💪🏾💯

  • @carljung9655
    @carljung9655 3 года назад

    Legit couldn't be more close to the truth xd

  • @Real2k25
    @Real2k25 3 года назад +2

    I was 20 when I was targeted smh

  • @teresascott5644
    @teresascott5644 3 года назад

    Amen

  • @carmenfarrugia3504
    @carmenfarrugia3504 3 года назад

    Hope you get better soon mate

  • @richardmeyer1837
    @richardmeyer1837 3 года назад

    2:12 Yes

  • @richardmeyer1837
    @richardmeyer1837 3 года назад

    6:50 Yes

  • @semiramisfakhri6692
    @semiramisfakhri6692 3 года назад

    Thank you, Semiramis Suzanne Fakhri,same lady

  • @cynthiamiller1983
    @cynthiamiller1983 3 года назад

    Terry just wanted to ask you about gift-giving to The narcissist I'm birthdays or holidays. is a hellish experience to the point where I bought nothing for them and didn't give a care.

  • @frksmilla5018
    @frksmilla5018 3 года назад

    I got tricket to.
    And if you tease a narcisist online? Use his own words against him, (screenshots).
    Good or is it a Really bad ideer?

  • @313thugboss
    @313thugboss 2 года назад

    Wut up playa

  • @darrinmiller1476
    @darrinmiller1476 3 года назад

    Seasonal depression??

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      It could be playing a factor, I am a summer type of guy and always feel happier in summertime but I do think the gyms closing for 2 weeks had a lot to do with it but it's back opened again and feeling better!

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 3 года назад

    You might need a spiritual cleanse...depending on who you were dealing with they could have played real dirty. All the best.

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      Thank you, happy New Years to you! I think it had to do with not eating enough since the gyms got closed here, but there back up and going again so my eating is on point again 🙏🏽

  • @misfitme9896
    @misfitme9896 3 года назад

    JEREMIAH 6:16

    • @annaheart9694
      @annaheart9694 3 года назад

      The refrigerator is overtaking the kettle, because the kettle is unplugged.❤

  • @generalleigh7387
    @generalleigh7387 3 года назад +2

    Terry, this is off topic as usual but I was curious if you believed in a literal Noah’s flood?

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      I would say I don’t disbelieve or believe it, no idea about that tbh!

    • @generalleigh7387
      @generalleigh7387 3 года назад

      @@terryjoeljunior
      Would you be open to scientific possibilities?

    • @terryjoeljunior
      @terryjoeljunior  3 года назад

      @@generalleigh7387 you mean there's science behind it? If there's proof I never knew

    • @generalleigh7387
      @generalleigh7387 3 года назад

      @@terryjoeljunior
      Are you familiar with Ian Juby?

    • @generalleigh7387
      @generalleigh7387 3 года назад

      @@terryjoeljunior
      Are you into geology ?