How to not fight or argue with a narcissist but still win

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • You win with a narcissist when you get to the point that you totally don’t care what they say back to you #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic
    For 1-on-1 narcissistic abuse recovery coaching email me: danielle.radin@gmail.com
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Комментарии • 31

  • @stefangebhard7074
    @stefangebhard7074 Год назад +1

    Don’t checkmate them-stalemate them!

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat Год назад +22

    Dynamite Advice. And keep in mind the entire time that it's OK fine and dandy that they've won all the battles it's OK...Every boxer knows he can lose all 14 rounds of a prizefight but still come back and win big by knockout in the 15th and win the war. To the malignant narcissist, No Contact is like getting hit by George Foreman, Mike Tyson, and Ernie Shavers, all at the same time. The goblins goin down hard and they ain't gettin back up...

    • @morganchristmas6299
      @morganchristmas6299 Год назад +1

      Ty 4 this Charlotte 💜

    • @josereyes1148
      @josereyes1148 7 месяцев назад +2

      I actually like this analogy. All the times he gaslit me and made me out to be the problem was like taking little jabs. I hit the knockout punch w my no contact.

    • @Imnotyourdoormat
      @Imnotyourdoormat 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@josereyes1148 😎😎😎

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 Год назад +1

    I’ve been watching RUclips’s of drunks arguing and joking around with police officers who are trying to conduct a DUI field sobriety test.
    Arguing with a narcissist is so much like that!!!
    Senseless dramahhhhh!
    Thank you!!!!

  • @davidemm829
    @davidemm829 Год назад +4

    I'd rather be happy than right..

  • @theyrekrnations8990
    @theyrekrnations8990 Год назад +6

    They turn my stomach bad

  • @davidemm829
    @davidemm829 Год назад +8

    Laugh at them...cause ya gotta at some some point realize their reality is not one of this earth..

  • @quest2782
    @quest2782 Год назад +5

    Basically treat them like everybody acts on online gaming 🤣

  • @miriam100ful
    @miriam100ful Год назад +2

    correct, there is just NO point arguing with a narc, they just don't get your point. If you DO argue they will just use that as more fuel, and use it against you to be the victim.

  • @ssing7113
    @ssing7113 Год назад +19

    Only way to move forward is leave… all bartering or interaction is pointless. .
    I remember when I was paying all bills along with luxury items ( jewelry. Bags. Trips ) Managing 80% of life load. And said to the lazy cluster B. You’ve laid around the house for four days. Can you do the dishes. Argument for an hour and attitude the rest of the day 😂 😂 😂
    It ain’t worth it people. Watching videos how to deal with them is a waste of time. Leave, that’s the only solution
    Why do you want to put up with someone who treats you like 💩. This is your wake up call. And it’s said you needed to leave months ago. Take the steps and do it. Thank yourself later

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 19 дней назад

      that's a pest who wants to rest

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Год назад +8

    Yes, true. Thank you.

  • @user-qf2jw2ju6p
    @user-qf2jw2ju6p Год назад +2

    Only fact s - this is the answer. Facts of soul - is also facts.

  • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
    @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Год назад +10

    Don't defend and don't engage has worked best for me~!~!~! Last phone call I had with my dad... Used a tiny tiny whisper voice and he goes "CALM DOWN! STOP BEING SOOO ANGERY!!!" If I talked any softer... I couldn't hear my own voice... lol

    • @ellylovely205
      @ellylovely205 Год назад +3

      Good one! 💬🥰👏

    • @n0426
      @n0426 Год назад

      Lol. I blocked him.

    • @ghdodo
      @ghdodo Год назад +3

      Yeah. They always tell people to calm down. Look who's talking 🙄

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Год назад +3

      @@ghdodo Gaslighting... I'm in therapy...

  • @Den-pf5wz
    @Den-pf5wz Год назад +1

    Once again Danielle the videos like this provide a shifting of our perspective when dealing with these entitled self absorbed vampires. Great strategies to keep the focus on moving on and not playing or be played by the narcissists. Thanks.

  • @sharonparis8916
    @sharonparis8916 Год назад

    This was absolutely awesome. Fantastic!Thank you.

  • @rayyar3380
    @rayyar3380 Год назад

    oh..thts true nowdys families heads are on wall.from all this domestic shit or outside.nvr show ur weakness and info.rite said💎

  • @rileahangelaweston
    @rileahangelaweston Месяц назад

    What if your boss is the narcissist? And you can't avoid them because you have bills to pay

  • @kTorres007
    @kTorres007 Год назад +2

    I think I married a narcissist. 🥺 Either that or I'm the narcissist? Or both? But I can honestly express my emotions. And I'm just flat out sad and hurt by most of the things he says or doesn't do.

    • @morganchristmas6299
      @morganchristmas6299 Год назад +1

      Watch Richard g something .... He will explain about this confusion.. dead on and you'll understand

    • @TheOtherSlipper
      @TheOtherSlipper Год назад +2

      if u were the narcissist you wouldn’t wonder if you are one

    • @TheOtherSlipper
      @TheOtherSlipper Год назад +1

      ur too self aware to be one lol

    • @kTorres007
      @kTorres007 Год назад

      @@morganchristmas6299 do you have a link?

    • @kTorres007
      @kTorres007 Год назад

      I don't even remember watching this video 😢