No its not worth it since the females in developed nations have unrealistic expectations. They want a man who makes more money than them, the problem is the woman already makes alot themselves so the man has to be above average. No more room for average men. Also women make alot of money but dnt wanna spend it on their man/family.
They do. That is why they are sham4nf w4m4n into getting married. Fun fact: Ch4na has 30 million more m4n than w4m4n. Even if all the w4m4n get married, it is the m4n who will be “left over”. 😂
They do. That’s why they are sham4nf w4m4n into getting married. Fun fact: Ch4na has 30 million m3re m4n than w4m4n. Even if all the w4m4n get married, it is the m4n who will be “l4ft o4er”. 😂
I've dated Chinese women before, those girls are ice cold and calculating. The first five minutes of talking to them they have sized you up and are figuring out how they can take advantage of you.
As someone who has dated all types of Asian women, I have learned to stay away from Chinese women. They are the fakest, most boss babe divas out of all of them.
because they are. The myth of "submissive asian woman" is exactly that. Women are women, and the common denominator for the spread of feminism across the planet is MONEY. Once women get money, they discard the majority of men, and become the play thing for high status men.
That's insane 😂 I currently pay for a REAL professional escort and honestly it's the BEST!!! I never realized how much cheaper and better it us to just pay for it!
@@RickTheBoss98 You think only men from the west are flying out of their countries to date women from other countries? Stop living under a rock. It's been happening for years, nothing new.
Is not just China, most women don't want to get married unless they get Brad Pitt or the guy has all the money in the world, and yet, they'd want the freedom to do as they please. It's hard out there.
@@mikloridden8276 They will only leave a guy like Brad Pitt for someone who GIVES them more. Pitt might have the $$$ but if he ain't spending on them, then they will go gold dig elsewhere. Pretty easy to find an ugly, wealthy, simp or 3 in L.A.
Please get off the internet ....women are more likely to date disabled people way more often than men ...lots of women around the world DO NOT have those expectations let's stop generalising based on china and the US. If you are chasing an Instagram model don't be shocked if she has high standards . The average women date an average guy get on the street and look around my mom worked marriage counseling and a lot of couples were average ..
If you call women over 20 yo leftovers... Something is really wrong with you. You are probably teenager, living in the basement of your parents's home, and have no friends or social life. Understand one basic thing... Some women are better off without men. Single doesn't mean miserable or lonely. Women just chose to be alone. Marriage does no longer bring the upgrade of status, and often times brings downgrade, stress and disrespect for women.
Average height for Chinese Women is 5’3. But almost all want 5’11 or taller 🤔 They are all chasing the same men, that’s why so many become xiaosan and leftover women 😶🌫️
Facts, it's a sad world to be an average man. Average is suppose to be the normal, yet for some reason average is looked at as if it's bad. As an average man, I too feel there is something wrong with dating.
The concept of “left over women” is a fallacy. They are picky women who won’t date men of their own caliber let alone one who’s a tad lower on the totem pole. No such thing as a woman who cannot find any man.
There's an imbalance of the sex ratio in china around 120:100 Male to Female in the one child policy era. The term was created by Chinese (Gov) media to shame women to marry so there are less bachelors. Truth is the situation is even uglier as stated in this video, its leftover men, but society and Gov especially in China don't really about men.
True, but sexually frustrated men have this ego boosting that they are the one picking. They want to be women... when they are sexless for good reasons (not partner material).
The concept is created by normal people who just want to tell those women that their so called value is rapidly dropping. Of course they hate the concept. Lots of relationship influencers brag about meeting a much younger but loaded man who are willing to be their slave... And lots of women believed that sh*t.
Heterosexual dating is like a job interview, where women play the role of interviewers and men play the role of applicants. All interviewers want the top few percent of applicants. The top few percent of applicants get many offers, while the rest get no offers.
What's funny is that women treat the process as though they're the job seeker demanding all sorts of benefits from the employer. And when they see a better job on offer they monkey branch on over to it.
Hah, for my case, it was me like an interviewer. I look at the family like on my company and my investment . I’m owner and a 100% stockholder, so I decide who will work for me😉 with best options and services
I'm glad you said heterosexual. It seems like when women are interested in other women, they don't hold each other to the same standards that they hold men to. It's interesting to see. A man has to do all of this and that. But if she dates a girl, she can be on her level or lower.
People complain about American women, and they are bad too, but when you hear something like this, it's like Chinese women are saying hold my beer, cuz we're about to take this into extreme overdrive.
@@bball3048mmNot sure why people think Asian society is learning this from the West. In a traditional relationship, a woman has to be calculating to get the best provider and live a wealthy lifestyle. If you want a traditional relationship, regardless of the country, you’re gonna have to prove your worth.
@@chey6073 You are solipsistic and only seeing the parts that benefit women. Men are held to higher and higher standards, while women are held to lower and lower ones. He even said in the video the age for a 'leftover woman' used to be 25, but got gradually moved to 30...and will probably next get moved to 35. It is hypocritical to hold men to the strictest traditional rules, while women get to arbitrarily play by new rules made up by the day🤦♂
Historically this is what happens when too many resources are allocated to only a select few, This is the dying out of the middle groups and will ensure we only have peasant class and aristocracy
@Big-bob560because in poorer societies, people actually have time to care for the kids. you just open the door and there are already the neighbourhood kids waiting for your kid. nowadays, they expect women to go back to work after a few months of giving birth. Like a robot. And where is the baby supposed to stay? Grandparents are working, aunts/neighbours too. Even teenagers don't have time anymore. So you have to PAY for someone else to look for your kid while you're gone, each day of work. How is that NOT breaking average people's banks?
Would YOU want to support someone who you have NO IDEA if they make it or not for 10 years financially? If you say yes you should probably not be trusted with your own money cause you might end up homeless due to gambling.
@@LB-uo7xy this fundamentally doesn’t work because there’s only one “winner” per race which means they all share the “winner” or everyone but, two people go home happy. Fantastic outcomes 😃
It's a woman what do you expect? Now I see why woman were restricted badly from going outside and being nice fit feminine virgins married at a young age it was the best for the world now the world is going mad and haywire and woman still find a way to Blame man
Yeah 2/10s have the same requirements as a 8/10. The same shitty attitude. It's not the 80-20 rule, it's 100-5 now cos ALL women want just the top 5% or higher.
I’m 6’3” and financially very well off, and I’d never give a Chinese woman a second look. I am married to a Thai but they are far more beautiful and sweet to us. They also aren’t insane like western women in their demands. Good luck with that!
@@suziepickes702 😂This made me laugh. Men are more attracted to shorter females/same height females than taller ones. I'm a short guy myself so maybe for my children sake I should look for a tall woman.
Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
I had a Chinese friend who went to Italy, struggling with money, got an Italian GF who helped him get through difficult times, finally landed up a high paid job and he married her. He told me "A Chinese women would have never helped him the way his Italian GF did when he was in financial difficulty".
When cultures discourage men and women from forming families it's hard to call it progress. I'm 66 years old and live in the U.S . I wouldn't say everything was better back in the 70s and 80s.But the relationships between men and women certainly were. We were more romantic and far less transactional. So glad to have grown up before the internet existed.
@@Kirasfox yeah but it was not nearly this bad. It used to be that you had to be the best in your local area, but now men have to compete with guys who live 2+ states away. We're not willing to put in that amount of work just for occasional seggs, thus the joose is not worth the squeeze.
@cool08player that's the beauty of datng tho- you're trying to see if this person & you are compatible/have the same goal (or w.e ur looking for in a long/short term relationship). Trying in dating can help you feel out what didn't work with that person & moving on to the next. Just giving up bec of one factor isn't gonna help much, of course, most likely won't work out with every girl, but in my opinion, it's worth trying for.
@@Kirasfox Dating is just a euphamism for sleeping around. There's no beauty in this mating strategy because, as we can see with the declining birth rates, it is clearly not successful. Courtship, on the other hand, is done under supervision and there is no seggs before mary'age. Both parties get to know one another and, if they're compatible, can agree to mary'. But it is no longer worth trying. There are no relayshionships anymore, only situashionships. If i'm interested in short term hedonism, I'd rather hire a professional.
I saw on a different channel a women in the street type video in a big city in China . Every Chinese woman said that now that they are college educated with masters and phds that they would not settle for a country boy. Then complained that there are no men at their level. Sounds like western feminism has a firm grip on the educated class. Hilarious😂😂.
Ladies while in college or uni start looking around for a guy on your level. And if you've got a masters or Phd maybe consider a guy with a bachelors ?
@@johnballard6725 Seen this weird crap in Grad School. Girls getting Master's and PhD's in stuff that makes NOTHING, like Social Work or Sociology thinking they are 'settling' for a Mechanical Engineer making twice as much as them just because he "only has a Bachelor's Degree". Like WTF?
@@NoctLightCloud Первым в мире кому дали права женщинам был СССР. От туда ноги все и растут ) Тот же феминизм, начался там после того как дали права, но он был скрытый. У нас такие же проблемы как в Сша и Китае. Только не прям повально и явно. Но при свиданиях часто первые вопросы звучат так. - Где работаешь, квартира, машина есть ? И т.п. ТОЛЬКО о материальном. В России тоже матриархат, при чём больше стал лет когда власть сменилась. Так что если всё что вы знали о России как о патриархальной стране, забудьте, здесь к мужчинам относятся так же как к ресурсу, разводы 80%, миллионы матерей одиночек, каждый третий не биологический отец ребёнка и т.п.
@@johnballard6725 - Ever since the government-"education" system made degrees too easy to obtain for women, their value has become meaningless! As Alfred Korzybski defined such people as "superior idiots" the truth became clear - While they may have "higher" education, they have a poor grasp of reality! - Which shows the value of most degrees to be worthless! Personally, i don't have a degree & am glad. My trade is that of an Aircraft Engineering Technician; I've done many jobs on 140+ aircraft & NEVER caused a crash or an accident. That's my Empirical Evidence of my value !
Grats. You found a Unicorn. So did my friend. He's about a 5 and she is a high 7. He now has 2 jobs and spends the weekends build her a house from scratch with all the construction experience he is getting, and that' enough for her to be happy. I'm jealous of him every single day.
The older women won't choose you. They are single by choice. Women are not as desperate for men as men are for women. Women can gladly stay single and happy and that's why 4B is popular in Japan, South Korea, China and Taiwan.
@@Iamtheone-x8w The virus of feminism has spread to China, Indonesia, and Singapore. I don't have any sympathy towards these women, who demands the best male partners, without looking at themselves as would be good partners in marriage.
@@jotarothedixieboo3435 Gloria Steinem movement was started in the 60's, was this happening already in China? China had experienced Cultural Revolution of the Mao Ze Dung at the time. Wow, thanks for your comment.
I can see why women these days are giving importance to a financial security because if a woman marries a man and have children with him and he later in the line decides to cheat and abandon his family for a younger woman as many men claim the most attractive women are around the age of 18-24 (which is very common then we think nowadays) at least the woman can provide for the kids by claiming child support along with her salary. So if men doesn't wanna pay child support, instead of calling women "gold diggers" and stuff how about them 1) don't get married or create baby mamas or 2) if they wanna get married, stay loyal and honor their role as a husband and father and treat their wives as their other half not as slaves
Yeah, as if y'all don't cheat. 💀 Whom are you kidding ma'am? If Tom Brady couldn't keep her woman from cheating on him what makes you think we average men can save ourselves from getting cheated on?
I lived and worked in Shanghai for 8 years up to 2021 and I know for a fact that all you say is true. Amazing how China has quickly moved into a hookup culture in the bigger cities. Face is so important there and if you think women's expectations are ridiculous in the USA, listen to my man about what Chinese women are expecting! ... and they have very little to offer the man! Crazy! My first time coming across your channel... nice!
I’m more interested in metawoke and periwoke Chinese topics… like was I like the only foreigner in China who couldn’t get the VPN or firewall bypassers to work? Was I actually tracked by censors to prevent me from finding out important knowledge? 🤔🤔🙄🙄
Bruh you broke it down Facts Im a american😂 My dads wedding in 1999 cost $35000 They got married at hilton hotel catered food all that Thatsame wedding today would cost $60k
It’s possible for a Chinese couple to get married at home for free. But no women will agree to that, women want a wedding, one single special day for them, men want a married, a life long commitment, that’s why divorce rate is so high everywhere.
@@razzendahcuben That's true to till you try it. I really don't get it. At first you are with a woman and you are the greatest thing ever. Then over time they become unhappy with you. Is ir because they find out you are human with flaws like everyone else? Or is it boredom and always seeking the next thing.? I'm bot sure. Look at Tom Brady. Good looking and wealthy. Good to his family. It was not enough. Was it social media? Was it hollywood? Who knows. Of course sometimes it works out. But it's rare and it's impossible to know. Anyway, a lot of guys just give up due to this and bad experiences. Besides even when it does work out is it much better than being alone? A little. But when it's bad it can ruin your life.
The problem is that over 90% of women study and eventually start a career in order to find an even better-earning man. Once they are in a relationship, they stop working. The question arises: is it better to have a 30+ girl who has an very good education but will no longer use it, or an 18+ girl who will support and take care of You, kids and the house?
Education literally serves zero purpose. Most Asian countries have far longer and more grueling educational systems than in western countries and yet on average they will earn less than an American highschooler. Especially for women since they're never going to financially contribute to their family or children meaning education just makes them older and more ran through with negative value than when they were younger
@@WTHenry2023 I would rather buy a new car that suits me, meets my requirements, will bring me happiness, every ride in it will be unforgettable and with which I will live for the rest of my days, than buy a vintage car that you can be proud of, but if you have it you have to take into account expensive servicing and that it can break down at any time.
Feminism and women's empowerment is the cause. I do not blame them for trying, but it is not working in the long run unless you are lesbian, want to stay single, or want to be a single mom.
A lot of the problem is atheism. If money is the god then people don't look forward to building a family. And the relationship can't be spiritual and rewarding.
@@johnle231 It's depressing, right? I remember a Chiinese girl DM'ed me on a dating site and asked my height. 5'10". Then she cut me off. Wow. Absoulely need 6'. Even if she likes my looks she still doesn't want to get to know me cause I'm too short. She needs a robot-man just for money and sex. Mao Ze Dong was too successful in banning religion.
As a 6'1 well off married American man, I'm so fascinated by these videos. I've never thought twice about height, and when I was broke, I never felt like it devalued my social value. There were always women who desired me. Such culture shock to hear that 70% of 30yo men in China are virgins is crazy to me. 😳 Just sounds terrible for everyone involved.
As a 5'4 man in his early 20s I'm not worried about such women. Even If I have to go through 1,000 women, I will find the one for me! Raaaaaah! I only need to win once! Raaaaaah! I'll traverse the seven seas if I have to! Raaaaaah!
@jamil maybe men should stay single and alone. Just thirsty and obsessed with women. Go get an Ai robot or gf and quit whining about women not wanting you and how they should lower their standards so your entitled ssa can get them for the love of god
They term gils leftover after they are still single past there 25 birthday and they don't get to marry on the other hand young teens literal teen girls are forced or persuaded to get married regardless of their dreams and stuff . how odd and sorrowful
My man, become a passport bro like me. I moved from America to Thailand and married a young, fit, friendly, and feminine woman who cooks and cleans and didn't require any of those delusional marriage requirements.
You won. I met a lucky passport dude like you here in Hanoi (not far from ThaiLand). He's a English teacher for mostly kids (age 8-15). That dude's got 2 kids with here thorough 4 years of marriage. He lives in her house with her parents (most of us stikk live with parents after marriage). That dude just as tall as me 5'8 (173cm to be exact), not very attractive for a Aussie, but his wife looks real feminine, cute and in her prime years. She looks pretty good after giving birth to him 2 beautiful healthy babies. Definitely at least a 5, or 7 in a good day.
@@Rebecca-bz6ph when the incapability of having reasonable standarts leads to societal collapse because no children are born, it surely is the better option. women depression and anxiety is also at an all time high currently. do you think it's working well as it is right now?
We need do somtething modern women because the girl who 120kg and 150cm want a rich musculy guy 190cm 90kg....and of course he need to be handsome too :D So this is the real problem nowadays...@@Rebecca-bz6ph
@@Rebecca-bz6ph Society in China is most definitely collapsing. They have an imploding economy, bad relations between the sexes, and have lost all civil liberties.
basically every country is the same. 90% women chasing 10% men, and blaming all men because they're not as they want, while most guys literally just ask for "sweet, and not too fat"
Not true guys look for conventionally attractive women even the ones that is obese and bald while when a woman looks fir a handsome, it becomes shallow.
Not true guys look for conventionally attractive women even the ones that is obese and bald while when a woman looks fir a handsome, it becomes shallow.
I made more money than my husband. We traveled, rented a nice 3 bedroom house, ate out or cooked in together, watched live baseball or basketball since he liked sports, I had a car, he had a truck. I thought we were living a good life. I found out he cheated not once but twice. Who knows maybe more. I felt nothing for him after that. I have several friends whose husbands were horribly cruel and controlling. We just happier now. Can men and women learn to be happy lving alone? Why not.
@@Iluthra Thank you I was getting tired of men making it seems like women are the ONLY ones that cheat and they are so horrible when everybody and anybody from any gender can cheat and be a bad person
@@Iluthra , I wonder if all the bad influences had something to do with it, Hollywood in general, more more more, me me me, I'm willing to bet, the western lifestyle got the best of you guys
last year i was in serious relationship with chinese woman, from china living in US. we were even planning to get married. i had to call it off. she was 32, past prime. meanwhile i have 200k a year salary, a house, new car, new top shelf bike. 2 retirement funds. 2 college degrees. she made it feel like i have nothing. i am also 6 foot tall (which everyone in america wants) and al together with all these parameters get into 1% men in US. im 35. i had to clal it off when sex went down from once a day, to one a week, to once a month, when she stopped doing laundry, when she refused to take my last name upon marriage. im sorry, i didnt find myself in a garbage bin to get that type of disrespect.
Learn your lesson. Never date post-wall women. The older they are, they less they bring (sorry, her money is her money); but paradoxically, the higher their standards.
@@cool08player it's not from lack of trying. You bet she was doing her best to fake it to the guy. But she's so entitled that she couldn't even keep the cherade going for a year.
As an average man, i gave up already, i don't approach them, don't date, don't have dating apps and i ignore all my instincts when i see pretty women, they are not worth it anyways.
In india situation is more hard bro. But in China every data is surveyed collected by institution, govt etc. but in india in this topic no data available but we can see situation only in ground level. Here in india girls are trying to find job and so called financial stable and indipendent and study terms they use for delaying marriage . They are studying for 1000 govt job vecancy for 5 million people. I saw for this all excuses they spend and aged 28+ and then they find men.
Pehle apna spelling sahi kar le fir opinion jhadna. What’s wrong in women looking for jobs and financial stability? Bina job ke Shaadi karegi kya? Only to get abused by husband and in laws later? Pehle se hi women ki halat kharab hai society mai, job toh karne do. Do paise Kamayegi khud ki identity hogi. Who the fuck are you to say that’s an excuse? Aren’t women allowed to have ambition? Or that the only ambition is to marry young and bear children for you and your stupid family. Indian men like you can rot in hell. I pity your future wife
And given how unequal marriages are in India, it’s better women are opting for a job instead of a husband. Why spend whole life slaving for a husband that doesn’t give a shit, and care for a set of strangers that aren’t her own parents? They are finally seeing the logic of it all and how women have been getting the short end of the stick in Indian tradition and customs. It has always been designed to favour men. So better to delay marriage till one finds an intellectual equal or not marry at all. Stay alone with job, use money to spend on orphan children instead. That’s a better purpose for women in India rather than sacrificing for worthless people.
I’ve a relative who works in Intel and has adopted a child without marrying. She is extremely happy and fulfilled. Doesn’t have to deal with husband and toxic in-laws. No need to adjust or sacrifice career. Not forced to be a slave or a son producing machine for in laws. We need more women in India to opt out of this toxic culture unless it becomes equal for us. Nahi toh Atleast we have a few laws on our side but practically it’s difficult to have so much money to spend on a lawyer to get out of abusive marriages. So better not to marry at all, earn own money, help NGOS and take care of OWN aging parents. The country doesn’t need more population anyway.
@@wpizdets2640 LOL, most don't know what true suffering looks like for billions of women still go through today (AKA subsistence farming). Doing some home chores though? Now THAT's oppression.
One child policy is one reason for this problem growing up up a only child as girl and your parents put so much pressure on you to do good in school and grow up and get a career.
I would never thought Chinese woman would be like that. So theses women are happy just being a side girlfriend for some guy who has money and is tall. Women are at war with men.
THIS is also due to social media, and LOOKS , their standards havgone up not just materialistic, the women programmed by, kpop, tv anime, western shows, and dating apps make the average looking man (not just asians) much harder mixed in with toxic fmeinism - you have this cesspit of society
Highly educated women are not sought after in China. One year I worked with a beautiful girl of about 26 years old in Hohhot. She had a master's, and because of this was having a real hard time finding any man that wanted to marry her.
180+ cm? The typical height for men in Europe is 5 feet 11 inches (180 cm), but they live in China, not on the European or American continent, so the demands of Chinese women look even funnier. 🤔🤔
I mean I understand that this is ridiculous especially the height one, but please understand that when a women chases her career and education it’s hard to give it up for marriage. Especially since men consider older women “less”. We all know that the economy is shit and finding job and money is super hard so it’s really not worth it to give up for some career women nowadays. I mean if the men expects the women to do housework, give birth , move in and take care of his parents, and leave her job. For example since I am a girl I don’t have any pressure to continue family name etc , my family gives me full freedom to whatever I want in life as long as I’m healthy and happy. My dad is a scholar engineer and I’m also planning to pursue engineering and he’s much happier about that than whether or not I marry.
Those women want top-shelf men, but those men DON'T WANT THEM! The women are "left over" because the men THEY WANT typically reject them and marry younger women. Those women ARE left-over from the POINT OF VIEW OF TOP-SHELF MEN!
@@Uke2405 Sorry bro, i dont understand. Do you agree with me or not? I think it makes no sense calling women leftover when its their desicion to not date you
No one want Christmas Cakahhhh...nooooo noooo want....in Japan they give you an angry look.....nooooo.....no Christmas cakahh....in China they say no want Sheng Nuuuu....they go dating market as a last resort but no one really exchange details 😂😂
I went inside of a Chinese dating agency in San Francisco, California some years ago and they asked me if I had a house. I said no and they said the Chinese women only date a man who owns a home.
Very interesting and I've never heard anyone explain the double-edged sword of cultural expectations of Chinese daughters before. That was done well. I'm a new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
My nephew married a Chinese woman. They've been together 15 years and have 3 adorable sons. She's an incredible photographer, but her main fulltime job is a Legal Secretary. She makes the most amazing meals as well. Happiest gal I ever knew.
You are amaizing source of information about Asia - keep on doing the good work! Greetings from Thailand - I'm watching your portal or regular basis and learn a lot.
The crazy thing is there should be leftover men since there's a huge excess of men. It means u need more women than men for the world to not be dystopia
Oh my God... I thought only European women were demanding. When I checked marriage requirement for Chinese men I got the feeling that China is the land of millionaires and photo models :) Most European men do not come close to these requirements. Stay brave and don't give up.💪🙏🖖
this reminds me of a girl on the "fresh and fit podcast" awhile back a chinese girl name "daisy chen". Now imagine thousands of "daisy chen" running around expecting a millionaire lifestyle.
You are 100% Correct on your main points in this Video. I'm not biased or angry/incel. I'm currently married to my second wife. Apparently I needed some practice before I understood marriage... I don't have any answers, but ALL the problems you see are the same everywhere in the West also. It seems successful women are victims of their own instincts of finding a man better than themselves....
as a chinese person, all hes saying is true. Philippines is better place to be but they are starting to become western but filipinas are very kind and a lot more traditional. Go there while you still can
Dowry goes from wife's side to husband's. The Chinese go the other way - from husband's side to the wife's; this is called "bride price" or "bride dowry" (you must include the word "bride" otherwise it means the opposite).
There is general dating, marriage and relationship collapse in many parts of the world. What you say many young American men are also saying about American women. Your English is excellent!
It used to be, but the Western poison has spread East. On the flip side, the communist/socialist aspect of China has left the East and poisoned Western society by turning into Woke Ideology. 🫠
@@ChineseHistorian2022As a black American I feel it’s important to point this out. “Woke” isn’t the term for it. It actually meant the opposite of all of this originally. It was a Black American term that was created to spread awareness on genuine economic and social issues within the country, however In recent years it’s essentually been colonized and rebranded by the media to mean something outside of its original definition. The word has taken on a new meaning to refer to White liberal ideals on injustice and on the other hand, it’s become a substitute for “Black” by the White-Right; and naturally- it’s often used with very racist undertones. It’s now a propaganda term, devoid of its original cultural significance. Many of the topics you cover would actually be considered “Woke” by the original definition. I understand the context your referring to of course, and I absolutely agree. I just hope you take this into account because it’s important that we don’t malign other cultures by accident. Love the channel! Looking forward to more content man.
I love it How Black People like you, focus on Western. Go Search the New Marrys on Africa, This is happened on Everywhere cause 1-Nobody want Familys 2-Marrige is Expensive 3-Nobody Trust each other 4-İnternet enough for many people rather then Marrige
Wow! That’s actually a universal thing! I date a Chinese girl for a few years and those were her requirements for marriage. I ended up breaking up with her. She wanted all of those requirements and she had hundreds of thousands of dollars in student debt.
Oh jeez imagine having standards. Meanwhile men expect women to bring half of income but do 100% of house labor and childcare. Delusional. You still refuse to listen to women and understand why we don't want that bs
You said the truth about equality. We are not equal. Everyone is different. However, I think that slogan was meant "in the eyes of the law". I am a middle aged white woman but I feel sad what is happening. Things are so unbalanced. I wish that White women would better themselves so white males are less likely go to Asian females and I would love to see Asian males rise in status and thus have more options. I think Asian males are great and it's wrong how you are maligned by Asian females.
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Is the world heading for a population collapse? Even if you could afford to get married and have children, will it be worth the effort?
No
Not the world in its entirety, but it’s definitely on the uptick.
Here we go again lol
No its not worth it since the females in developed nations have unrealistic expectations. They want a man who makes more money than them, the problem is the woman already makes alot themselves so the man has to be above average. No more room for average men. Also women make alot of money but dnt wanna spend it on their man/family.
Yes, and hell no.
If there were leftover men I don’t think anyone would care
There are millions more males than females because of the one child policy. And nope. No one gives a f
Yup, men are expendable soldiers. Hunters kill bucks, but spare does. Farmers keep a few bulls, but many cows. Why don't schools teach young men this?
They do. That is why they are sham4nf w4m4n into getting married. Fun fact: Ch4na has 30 million more m4n than w4m4n. Even if all the w4m4n get married, it is the m4n who will be “left over”. 😂
They do. That’s why they are sham4nf w4m4n into getting married. Fun fact: Ch4na has 30 million m3re m4n than w4m4n. Even if all the w4m4n get married, it is the m4n who will be “l4ft o4er”. 😂
there are a lot more single men than single women in china. guess who is talked about?
I've dated Chinese women before, those girls are ice cold and calculating. The first five minutes of talking to them they have sized you up and are figuring out how they can take advantage of you.
Same many years back. I am MGTOW monk now. No way I can afford to srart again at 55.
As someone who has dated all types of Asian women, I have learned to stay away from Chinese women. They are the fakest, most boss babe divas out of all of them.
Just smarter than you are 😂😂😂
Yup they'll ask u how much $$$ you have upfront
Dating chinese women like dating a money they see u 💰 😂
Chinese women are sounding like American women.
because they are. The myth of "submissive asian woman" is exactly that. Women are women, and the common denominator for the spread of feminism across the planet is MONEY. Once women get money, they discard the majority of men, and become the play thing for high status men.
they're actually worse, when it comes to materialism
Facts
It’s spread worldwide
Women all over the world be and think the same
Imagine PAYING $23,000 for a life long headache and expense, that can possibly divorce you and take everything lol
That's insane 😂
I currently pay for a REAL professional escort and honestly it's the BEST!!!
I never realized how much cheaper and better it us to just pay for it!
Ikr lol guy can do the same to woman now too so that’s is no brainer
Real
@@aim-for-greatn3z947but but what if you get an infection ?
@@aim-for-greatn3z947am thinking of doing the same thing how much do they charge?
Sad to hear my Chinese bros going through the same bullshit men in the west are dealing with.
True
Chinese passport bros are dating Eastern Europeans, at least those with education and white collar jobs. Considered as average 30+yo dudes.
I saw an interview of a chinese lady recentlouise and vinegar and she was incredibly delusional reminded me of a western lady
@johnhg_myaus that's not happening don't lie
@@RickTheBoss98 You think only men from the west are flying out of their countries to date women from other countries? Stop living under a rock. It's been happening for years, nothing new.
Is not just China, most women don't want to get married unless they get Brad Pitt or the guy has all the money in the world, and yet, they'd want the freedom to do as they please. It's hard out there.
Funny thing is not even Brad Pitt can keep these women. Funny world we live in
@@alexdavila1356 So true, they be leaving Bradd for people that are much lower level compared to him which is baffling. Happens in real life too
@@mikloridden8276 They will only leave a guy like Brad Pitt for someone who GIVES them more. Pitt might have the $$$ but if he ain't spending on them, then they will go gold dig elsewhere. Pretty easy to find an ugly, wealthy, simp or 3 in L.A.
'', most women don't want to get married unless they get Brad Pitt or the guy has all the money in the world,''💯
Please get off the internet ....women are more likely to date disabled people way more often than men ...lots of women around the world DO NOT have those expectations let's stop generalising based on china and the US. If you are chasing an Instagram model don't be shocked if she has high standards .
The average women date an average guy get on the street and look around my mom worked marriage counseling and a lot of couples were average ..
Lack of women and still having leftovers. Something is wrong.
Women don't want to be married. We don't want to be an unpaid household servant for men anymore
Amazing to think that hypergamy is not a US- or Euro-centric problem.
If you call women over 20 yo leftovers... Something is really wrong with you. You are probably teenager, living in the basement of your parents's home, and have no friends or social life. Understand one basic thing... Some women are better off without men. Single doesn't mean miserable or lonely. Women just chose to be alone. Marriage does no longer bring the upgrade of status, and often times brings downgrade, stress and disrespect for women.
@@DaleYuzukiit is a feminist problem
They're trying to be American like the movies 😢
Why would a 4 foot tall woman demand a 6 foot tall man? The average height for men is 5'7" in China and 5'9" in the U.S.
Thats how they become "leftover" women".
Average height for Chinese Women is 5’3. But almost all want 5’11 or taller 🤔 They are all chasing the same men, that’s why so many become xiaosan and leftover women 😶🌫️
they have some sort of Nephelim / Titan fetish, probably for breeding purposes
Because the guy demands that she should be under 30 years of age.
😒 its all about genetic superiority and Youth, very scientific and very logical and biological, nothing to see here....
Facts, it's a sad world to be an average man. Average is suppose to be the normal, yet for some reason average is looked at as if it's bad. As an average man, I too feel there is something wrong with dating.
nowadays that's how women feel. average... because of the tiktok game.
Dude, not even above average is enough these days. You need to be EXCEPTIONAL, anything less and she'll make your life too difficult.
The concept of “left over women” is a fallacy. They are picky women who won’t date men of their own caliber let alone one who’s a tad lower on the totem pole. No such thing as a woman who cannot find any man.
There's an imbalance of the sex ratio in china around 120:100 Male to Female in the one child policy era.
The term was created by Chinese (Gov) media to shame women to marry so there are less bachelors.
Truth is the situation is even uglier as stated in this video, its leftover men, but society and Gov especially in China don't really about men.
What the. Comments get auto- deleted . I agree m-f 120:100. Lftovr mn. Socty Gov noone crs .dlbrte spllng.
True, but sexually frustrated men have this ego boosting that they are the one picking. They want to be women... when they are sexless for good reasons (not partner material).
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The concept is created by normal people who just want to tell those women that their so called value is rapidly dropping. Of course they hate the concept. Lots of relationship influencers brag about meeting a much younger but loaded man who are willing to be their slave... And lots of women believed that sh*t.
Heterosexual dating is like a job interview, where women play the role of interviewers and men play the role of applicants. All interviewers want the top few percent of applicants. The top few percent of applicants get many offers, while the rest get no offers.
What's funny is that women treat the process as though they're the job seeker demanding all sorts of benefits from the employer. And when they see a better job on offer they monkey branch on over to it.
Yes because w4m4n are the h4red gelp. So it’s wise to check the terms. M4st w5m4n are und4rval5ed. It all comes down to her ch44sing w5ll.
Hah, for my case, it was me like an interviewer. I look at the family like on my company and my investment . I’m owner and a 100% stockholder, so I decide who will work for me😉 with best options and services
I'm glad you said heterosexual. It seems like when women are interested in other women, they don't hold each other to the same standards that they hold men to. It's interesting to see. A man has to do all of this and that. But if she dates a girl, she can be on her level or lower.
Yeah….I’d rather buy an ai.
People complain about American women, and they are bad too, but when you hear something like this, it's like Chinese women are saying hold my beer, cuz we're about to take this into extreme overdrive.
That's been my observation of Asian/Chinese people in general. They can learn from Western society and take it to a whole new level
😂😂Modern women are terrible!
@@bball3048mmNot sure why people think Asian society is learning this from the West. In a traditional relationship, a woman has to be calculating to get the best provider and live a wealthy lifestyle. If you want a traditional relationship, regardless of the country, you’re gonna have to prove your worth.
@@chey6073hypergamy is women's nature
@@chey6073 You are solipsistic and only seeing the parts that benefit women. Men are held to higher and higher standards, while women are held to lower and lower ones. He even said in the video the age for a 'leftover woman' used to be 25, but got gradually moved to 30...and will probably next get moved to 35. It is hypocritical to hold men to the strictest traditional rules, while women get to arbitrarily play by new rules made up by the day🤦♂
The entire industrialized world is facing these problems. This is how civilizations decline and fall.
Historically this is what happens when too many resources are allocated to only a select few,
This is the dying out of the middle groups and will ensure we only have peasant class and aristocracy
You are one if not the most based channels in 2024. Good work.
I gave up my career to be a good mom. Took my son out of daycare. Best decision.
God Bless you! 🙏
You've made the right choice! God bless you!
You’re a good mother for that, don’t let the world tell you otherwise
Cool, as long as every man dosen't expect the rest of us to be like this. We're different.
GOOD FOR YOU!!
Same thing is happen in the west and Japan, people aren't getting married because they are broke, same reason for not having children.
@Big-bob560because in poorer societies, people actually have time to care for the kids. you just open the door and there are already the neighbourhood kids waiting for your kid. nowadays, they expect women to go back to work after a few months of giving birth. Like a robot. And where is the baby supposed to stay? Grandparents are working, aunts/neighbours too. Even teenagers don't have time anymore. So you have to PAY for someone else to look for your kid while you're gone, each day of work. How is that NOT breaking average people's banks?
No getting married because they're broke? That makes no sense at all
“Women don’t want to financially support their man. They just wait at the finish line.”
#brilliant
I laughed so hard 👍
They don't care about your struggles. They bang the winners at the finish line.
Would YOU want to support someone who you have NO IDEA if they make it or not for 10 years financially?
If you say yes you should probably not be trusted with your own money cause you might end up homeless due to gambling.
@@LB-uo7xy this fundamentally doesn’t work because there’s only one “winner” per race which means they all share the “winner” or everyone but, two people go home happy. Fantastic outcomes 😃
Please remove "financially" from your sentence and the sentence would become even more accurate.
That is old words of wisdom.
Even if everything in the checklist were ticked off, it would still never be enough.
of course not LOL =)
It's a woman what do you expect? Now I see why woman were restricted badly from going outside and being nice fit feminine virgins married at a young age it was the best for the world now the world is going mad and haywire and woman still find a way to Blame man
There's never enough for these princesses and if you're a prince they'll want the king anyways
That standard has been like that awhile. But now it is worse, even the old plain Jane has that standard in Chinese women.
Yeah 2/10s have the same requirements as a 8/10. The same shitty attitude. It's not the 80-20 rule, it's 100-5 now cos ALL women want just the top 5% or higher.
I’m 6’3” and financially very well off, and I’d never give a Chinese woman a second look. I am married to a Thai but they are far more beautiful and sweet to us. They also aren’t insane like western women in their demands. Good luck with that!
I know a couple of European guys that have caught with Thai women and trust me, it's always gone sour
Check out Thailand dan
You kids will be short
But good in mathematics 😂
@@suziepickes702 😂This made me laugh. Men are more attracted to shorter females/same height females than taller ones.
I'm a short guy myself so maybe for my children sake I should look for a tall woman.
Sounds like you're boasting and need to be humbled
Nothing in life is to be feared; it is only to be understood.”
Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
You got this bro, fill your life with things you like to do. Find new hobbies, friends, we are here for you!
Time to start investing in cat food and antidepresants, let's make money off leftover women
Opportunites - Pet Shop Boys 👍
how about a marriage scam buisness with Chad ?
@@SurvivalGames1lmao 😅😅😅😅
@@roodine100why would you make a business with this type of women? Lol they don't need a man
😂😂😂
I had a Chinese friend who went to Italy, struggling with money, got an Italian GF who helped him get through difficult times, finally landed up a high paid job and he married her. He told me "A Chinese women would have never helped him the way his Italian GF did when he was in financial difficulty".
I thought the west was bad with standards for men. China is loud, proud, and in your face about it. To be married you WILL pay THIS!😂
When cultures discourage men and women from forming families it's hard to call it progress. I'm 66 years old and live in the U.S . I wouldn't say everything was better back in the 70s and 80s.But the relationships between men and women certainly were. We were more romantic and far less transactional. So glad to have grown up before the internet existed.
In Mayberry RFD? Disney World?
Lol...these women existed before then 🤷🏽♀️
@@Kirasfox yeah but it was not nearly this bad. It used to be that you had to be the best in your local area, but now men have to compete with guys who live 2+ states away. We're not willing to put in that amount of work just for occasional seggs, thus the joose is not worth the squeeze.
@cool08player that's the beauty of datng tho- you're trying to see if this person & you are compatible/have the same goal (or w.e ur looking for in a long/short term relationship). Trying in dating can help you feel out what didn't work with that person & moving on to the next. Just giving up bec of one factor isn't gonna help much, of course, most likely won't work out with every girl, but in my opinion, it's worth trying for.
@@Kirasfox Dating is just a euphamism for sleeping around. There's no beauty in this mating strategy because, as we can see with the declining birth rates, it is clearly not successful. Courtship, on the other hand, is done under supervision and there is no seggs before mary'age. Both parties get to know one another and, if they're compatible, can agree to mary'.
But it is no longer worth trying. There are no relayshionships anymore, only situashionships. If i'm interested in short term hedonism, I'd rather hire a professional.
I saw on a different channel a women in the street type video in a big city in China . Every Chinese woman said that now that they are college educated with masters and phds that they would not settle for a country boy. Then complained that there are no men at their level. Sounds like western feminism has a firm grip on the educated class. Hilarious😂😂.
Ladies while in college or uni start looking around for a guy on your level. And if you've got a masters or Phd maybe consider a guy with a bachelors ?
@@johnballard6725 Seen this weird crap in Grad School. Girls getting Master's and PhD's in stuff that makes NOTHING, like Social Work or Sociology thinking they are 'settling' for a Mechanical Engineer making twice as much as them just because he "only has a Bachelor's Degree". Like WTF?
didn't feminism also start in Russia? afaik, Russia was the second nation in the world to grant women the right to vote.
@@NoctLightCloud Первым в мире кому дали права женщинам был СССР. От туда ноги все и растут ) Тот же феминизм, начался там после того как дали права, но он был скрытый. У нас такие же проблемы как в Сша и Китае. Только не прям повально и явно. Но при свиданиях часто первые вопросы звучат так. - Где работаешь, квартира, машина есть ? И т.п. ТОЛЬКО о материальном. В России тоже матриархат, при чём больше стал лет когда власть сменилась. Так что если всё что вы знали о России как о патриархальной стране, забудьте, здесь к мужчинам относятся так же как к ресурсу, разводы 80%, миллионы матерей одиночек, каждый третий не биологический отец ребёнка и т.п.
@@johnballard6725 - Ever since the government-"education" system made degrees too easy to obtain for women, their value has become meaningless! As Alfred Korzybski defined such people as "superior idiots" the truth became clear - While they may have "higher" education, they have a poor grasp of reality! - Which shows the value of most degrees to be worthless! Personally, i don't have a degree & am glad. My trade is that of an Aircraft Engineering Technician; I've done many jobs on 140+ aircraft & NEVER caused a crash or an accident. That's my Empirical Evidence of my value !
😂 and we complain about American women holy shit.
Chinese brothers need passports too
I love how every video is a little personal.
Chinese men marry vietnamese, laos, etc women, so they do this also.
I am lucky to have a wife that ride with me when I was broke. Now, we will ride into the sunset together.
Grats. You found a Unicorn. So did my friend. He's about a 5 and she is a high 7. He now has 2 jobs and spends the weekends build her a house from scratch with all the construction experience he is getting, and that' enough for her to be happy. I'm jealous of him every single day.
@@Mutiny960 you're find yours one day.
@@Mutiny960"build HER a house"? he's also going to live in it😂
If you worked hard to build yourself up!
NEVER and I mean NEVER settle for older women! Let them have a nice reality check!
The older women won't choose you. They are single by choice. Women are not as desperate for men as men are for women. Women can gladly stay single and happy and that's why 4B is popular in Japan, South Korea, China and Taiwan.
yay! if they ever dream to marry they should have not wasted their time like that.
@@E_rr_0r_404 I agree, but don't u like to be a house man its already prepared 😂
I was surprised that the Chinese women now follow the US and European women of Gloria Steinem, the queen of feminism.
It has always been there
@@Iamtheone-x8w The virus of feminism has spread to China, Indonesia, and Singapore. I don't have any sympathy towards these women, who demands the best male partners, without looking at themselves as would be good partners in marriage.
Actually the other way round. Chinese women were like this first
They have become extremely delusional about their worth.
@@jotarothedixieboo3435 Gloria Steinem movement was started in the 60's, was this happening already in China? China had experienced Cultural Revolution of the Mao Ze Dung at the time. Wow, thanks for your comment.
This is what happens when we go it alone instead of walking with God.
I'll walk with God when I can actually see him.
There is no biblical God.
No its down to corrupt and rotten governments.
I can see why women these days are giving importance to a financial security because if a woman marries a man and have children with him and he later in the line decides to cheat and abandon his family for a younger woman as many men claim the most attractive women are around the age of 18-24 (which is very common then we think nowadays) at least the woman can provide for the kids by claiming child support along with her salary. So if men doesn't wanna pay child support, instead of calling women "gold diggers" and stuff how about them 1) don't get married or create baby mamas or 2) if they wanna get married, stay loyal and honor their role as a husband and father and treat their wives as their other half not as slaves
unfortunately, men only see thing from their side not putting themselves in women's shoes.
Hypocrisy 😂, i think you've better a single or a betrayed.
In 2nd case May be its all because of you didn't find take care of your Partner !😒
Yeah, as if y'all don't cheat. 💀 Whom are you kidding ma'am? If Tom Brady couldn't keep her woman from cheating on him what makes you think we average men can save ourselves from getting cheated on?
I lived and worked in Shanghai for 8 years up to 2021 and I know for a fact that all you say is true. Amazing how China has quickly moved into a hookup culture in the bigger cities. Face is so important there and if you think women's expectations are ridiculous in the USA, listen to my man about what Chinese women are expecting! ... and they have very little to offer the man! Crazy!
My first time coming across your channel... nice!
All this delusional standards nonsense has been allowed to percolate though society and then they wonder why the Chinese population is collapsing. 🤣
I’m more interested in metawoke and periwoke Chinese topics… like was I like the only foreigner in China who couldn’t get the VPN or firewall bypassers to work? Was I actually tracked by censors to prevent me from finding out important knowledge? 🤔🤔🙄🙄
Bruh you broke it down
Facts
Im a american😂
My dads wedding in 1999 cost $35000
They got married at hilton hotel catered food all that
Thatsame wedding today would cost $60k
It’s possible for a Chinese couple to get married at home for free. But no women will agree to that, women want a wedding, one single special day for them, men want a married, a life long commitment, that’s why divorce rate is so high everywhere.
My wedding DJ was a car door speaker.
Still married to her, and still poor till this day
@@RoRo-yk4bh lol well dang
Don't call it a wedding, but a social gathering, otherwise they overcharge you.
I tried marriage. Now im living the dream life of being single free and at peace.
Sure, keep telling yourself that's the dream life.
The dream life would be marriage and a family with a high value woman.
@@razzendahcuben That's true to till you try it. I really don't get it. At first you are with a woman and you are the greatest thing ever. Then over time they become unhappy with you. Is ir because they find out you are human with flaws like everyone else? Or is it boredom and always seeking the next thing.? I'm bot sure. Look at Tom Brady. Good looking and wealthy. Good to his family. It was not enough. Was it social media? Was it hollywood? Who knows. Of course sometimes it works out. But it's rare and it's impossible to know. Anyway, a lot of guys just give up due to this and bad experiences. Besides even when it does work out is it much better than being alone? A little. But when it's bad it can ruin your life.
The problem is that over 90% of women study and eventually start a career in order to find an even better-earning man. Once they are in a relationship, they stop working. The question arises: is it better to have a 30+ girl who has an very good education but will no longer use it, or an 18+ girl who will support and take care of You, kids and the house?
Education literally serves zero purpose. Most Asian countries have far longer and more grueling educational systems than in western countries and yet on average they will earn less than an American highschooler. Especially for women since they're never going to financially contribute to their family or children meaning education just makes them older and more ran through with negative value than when they were younger
That's a rhetorical question, correct?
@@WTHenry2023 I would rather buy a new car that suits me, meets my requirements, will bring me happiness, every ride in it will be unforgettable and with which I will live for the rest of my days, than buy a vintage car that you can be proud of, but if you have it you have to take into account expensive servicing and that it can break down at any time.
Feminism and women's empowerment is the cause. I do not blame them for trying, but it is not working in the long run unless you are lesbian, want to stay single, or want to be a single mom.
Where can I find 18 year d gals if I'm over 30 plus
A lot of the problem is atheism. If money is the god then people don't look forward to building a family. And the relationship can't be spiritual and rewarding.
Money is connected to survival let's QUIT THE HYPOCRISY and get back to learning WORLD 🌎🌍 HISTORY.... I'll begin where this started
Yes you’re right. Especially true in China
@@johnle231 It's depressing, right? I remember a Chiinese girl DM'ed me on a dating site and asked my height. 5'10". Then she cut me off. Wow. Absoulely need 6'. Even if she likes my looks she still doesn't want to get to know me cause I'm too short. She needs a robot-man just for money and sex. Mao Ze Dong was too successful in banning religion.
What about the Great Pumpkin?
@@handsomeman-pm9vy I don't know that one. Something like the Flying Spaghetti Monster?
As a 6'1 well off married American man, I'm so fascinated by these videos.
I've never thought twice about height, and when I was broke, I never felt like it devalued my social value. There were always women who desired me.
Such culture shock to hear that 70% of 30yo men in China are virgins is crazy to me. 😳
Just sounds terrible for everyone involved.
As a 5'4 man in his early 20s I'm not worried about such women. Even If I have to go through 1,000 women, I will find the one for me! Raaaaaah!
I only need to win once! Raaaaaah!
I'll traverse the seven seas if I have to! Raaaaaah!
@jamilf2667 good luck brother 🙏
@@jamilf2667women can smell desperation
@jamil maybe men should stay single and alone. Just thirsty and obsessed with women. Go get an Ai robot or gf and quit whining about women not wanting you and how they should lower their standards so your entitled ssa can get them for the love of god
you mean there's always facebook
I don't understand. How could there be leftover women in a country with a shortage of girls?
Just watch the video. There would bei enough men, but most of them can't meet these womens
requirements.
At first I did not understand either but then I realized ah, they slso all wanted top 5% men 😂😂😂
@wujibifan5938 Oh, well, that definitely makes sense! Females can be hard to please these days! 😊
They term gils leftover after they are still single past there 25 birthday and they don't get to marry on the other hand young teens literal teen girls are forced or persuaded to get married regardless of their dreams and stuff .
how odd and sorrowful
Cuz most of us are not alpha male.
Been single for 16 years, marriage requirement is crap.
My man, become a passport bro like me. I moved from America to Thailand and married a young, fit, friendly, and feminine woman who cooks and cleans and didn't require any of those delusional marriage requirements.
You won. I met a lucky passport dude like you here in Hanoi (not far from ThaiLand). He's a English teacher for mostly kids (age 8-15). That dude's got 2 kids with here thorough 4 years of marriage.
He lives in her house with her parents (most of us stikk live with parents after marriage). That dude just as tall as me 5'8 (173cm to be exact), not very attractive for a Aussie, but his wife looks real feminine, cute and in her prime years. She looks pretty good after giving birth to him 2 beautiful healthy babies. Definitely at least a 5, or 7 in a good day.
That’s totally ridiculous, no wonder they’re single.
I am starting to understand why so many cultures adapted the system of arranged marriages
@@Rebecca-bz6ph when the incapability of having reasonable standarts leads to societal collapse because no children are born, it surely is the better option.
women depression and anxiety is also at an all time high currently. do you think it's working well as it is right now?
@@Rebecca-bz6phChina has a birth Rate of 1.16 rn look it up. If that is not a collapse i don't know what is.
@@Rebecca-bz6phSociety isn't falling apart. Okay bozo 🤣🤣
We need do somtething modern women because the girl who 120kg and 150cm want a rich musculy guy 190cm 90kg....and of course he need to be handsome too :D
So this is the real problem nowadays...@@Rebecca-bz6ph
@@Rebecca-bz6ph Society in China is most definitely collapsing. They have an imploding economy, bad relations between the sexes, and have lost all civil liberties.
This is not hypergamy, this is hoeflation
We in The Great dating depression
basically every country is the same. 90% women chasing 10% men, and blaming all men because they're not as they want, while most guys literally just ask for "sweet, and not too fat"
Not true guys look for conventionally attractive women even the ones that is obese and bald while when a woman looks fir a handsome, it becomes shallow.
Not true guys look for conventionally attractive women even the ones that is obese and bald while when a woman looks fir a handsome, it becomes shallow.
@@frenzybuzz3703 keep coping
@@lukebruce5234 guess who is coping the incels and misogynists here.
@@frenzybuzz3703 guys have no standards everyone knows that your gaslighting is lame
Laos is full of beautiful women and they are humble and feminine and super cheap. What do chinese men have against marrying foreign women?.
Cheap* lmao are women kind some of products to you?
@@asylnbola1445they behave like products lmao they literrally put prices on themselves.
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@@Crackerhonkeykillafacts
I agree find someone who wants you rather than someone in your ethnic group or society who doesn't ?
And she will STILL cheat on you 😅
Will always want a bigger better tastier chorizo period@
You can't win as a Chinese or western man lol.
I made more money than my husband. We traveled, rented a nice 3 bedroom house, ate out or cooked in together, watched live baseball or basketball since he liked sports, I had a car, he had a truck. I thought we were living a good life. I found out he cheated not once but twice. Who knows maybe more. I felt nothing for him after that. I have several friends whose husbands were horribly cruel and controlling. We just happier now. Can men and women learn to be happy lving alone? Why not.
@@Iluthra Thank you I was getting tired of men making it seems like women are the ONLY ones that cheat and they are so horrible when everybody and anybody from any gender can cheat and be a bad person
@@Iluthra , I wonder if all the bad influences had something to do with it, Hollywood in general, more more more, me me me, I'm willing to bet, the western lifestyle got the best of you guys
Cat litter and box wine stonk 📈📈📈
lol. Being in the company of cats is far better than being in the company of men
and pet food, I have insane profits on that
So what?
Better this way than being a caretaker mommy for a manchild.
Cats are so much more peace than men
🐈 I agree
@@sainarockz your cat will literally eat you if you die in your house
last year i was in serious relationship with chinese woman, from china living in US. we were even planning to get married. i had to call it off. she was 32, past prime. meanwhile i have 200k a year salary, a house, new car, new top shelf bike. 2 retirement funds. 2 college degrees. she made it feel like i have nothing. i am also 6 foot tall (which everyone in america wants) and al together with all these parameters get into 1% men in US. im 35. i had to clal it off when sex went down from once a day, to one a week, to once a month, when she stopped doing laundry, when she refused to take my last name upon marriage. im sorry, i didnt find myself in a garbage bin to get that type of disrespect.
Surely many women would like to marry you with those qualities so maybe choose an ethnic group who view marriage as a partnership ?
Learn your lesson. Never date post-wall women. The older they are, they less they bring (sorry, her money is her money); but paradoxically, the higher their standards.
LMFAO she couldn't even put in enough effort to keep you hooked until you put a ring on? Her life would have been set! These wmn are re ta rds 😂😂😂😂😂
@@cool08player it's not from lack of trying. You bet she was doing her best to fake it to the guy. But she's so entitled that she couldn't even keep the cherade going for a year.
As an average man, i gave up already, i don't approach them, don't date, don't have dating apps and i ignore all my instincts when i see pretty women, they are not worth it anyways.
Good, quit being obsessed with women and focus on yourself
Great work
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, ITS ABSOLUTELY PAINFUL TO BE IN THIS POSITION BUT WE CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT BUT SUFFER
In india situation is more hard bro.
But in China every data is surveyed collected by institution, govt etc. but in india in this topic no data available but we can see situation only in ground level.
Here in india girls are trying to find job and so called financial stable and indipendent and study terms they use for delaying marriage . They are studying for 1000 govt job vecancy for 5 million people.
I saw for this all excuses they spend and aged 28+ and then they find men.
Pehle apna spelling sahi kar le fir opinion jhadna.
What’s wrong in women looking for jobs and financial stability? Bina job ke Shaadi karegi kya? Only to get abused by husband and in laws later?
Pehle se hi women ki halat kharab hai society mai, job toh karne do. Do paise Kamayegi khud ki identity hogi. Who the fuck are you to say that’s an excuse? Aren’t women allowed to have ambition? Or that the only ambition is to marry young and bear children for you and your stupid family. Indian men like you can rot in hell.
I pity your future wife
And given how unequal marriages are in India, it’s better women are opting for a job instead of a husband.
Why spend whole life slaving for a husband that doesn’t give a shit, and care for a set of strangers that aren’t her own parents? They are finally seeing the logic of it all and how women have been getting the short end of the stick in Indian tradition and customs. It has always been designed to favour men. So better to delay marriage till one finds an intellectual equal or not marry at all. Stay alone with job, use money to spend on orphan children instead. That’s a better purpose for women in India rather than sacrificing for worthless people.
I’ve a relative who works in Intel and has adopted a child without marrying. She is extremely happy and fulfilled. Doesn’t have to deal with husband and toxic in-laws. No need to adjust or sacrifice career. Not forced to be a slave or a son producing machine for in laws. We need more women in India to opt out of this toxic culture unless it becomes equal for us. Nahi toh Atleast we have a few laws on our side but practically it’s difficult to have so much money to spend on a lawyer to get out of abusive marriages. So better not to marry at all, earn own money, help NGOS and take care of OWN aging parents. The country doesn’t need more population anyway.
its worldwide, the final outcome is global depopulation
@@sainarockza slave to the job instead of being happy at home with kids husband and family. She just follows ehat the gov told her to do
The women just like shopping better.
No men to date...just eternal shopping, and tire-kicking.
I just discoveredthis channel and subbed. This guy knows what is happening. He. Sees the big picture.
Great content my friend. Current situation worldwide don't get any better. As Mgt0w myself I just enjoy peace,martial arts and traveling.
As a wghow, (I went "passport sis" over a decade ago) I also enjoy my peace, martial arts and traveling ❤
The women looked at their mothers' lives and decided that they didn't want to suffer like that
It's not like their dad's had it any better. Everyone suffered equally to build a family.
Chinese women are spoiled, men are required to pay them to get married. I haven't seen anything like this around the rest of the world.
Awwww little precious cupcakes. Sweeping the floor, doing dishes, and hanging clothes to dry is so oppressive.
@@wpizdets2640 LOL, most don't know what true suffering looks like for billions of women still go through today (AKA subsistence farming). Doing some home chores though? Now THAT's oppression.
@@wpizdets2640 As if women aren't working? GTFOH
One child policy is one reason for this problem growing up up a only child as girl and your parents put so much pressure on you to do good in school and grow up and get a career.
I would never thought Chinese woman would be like that. So theses women are happy just being a side girlfriend for some guy who has money and is tall. Women are at war with men.
This is happening everywhere now.
@Royan712 so I've heard
THIS is also due to social media, and LOOKS , their standards havgone up not just materialistic, the women programmed by, kpop, tv anime, western shows, and dating apps make the average looking man (not just asians) much harder mixed in with toxic fmeinism - you have this cesspit of society
is feminism equally as big in china as in the west? who taught them they deserve nothing less than a millionair chad?
Social Media and online dating, also watching too many western TV shows like the View
It’s not feminism is capitalism. Feminism is only possible in capitalist society.
It’s same problem in the West. All the women are going for top small percentage of high value men. Most men are ignored and singled out😢
Highly educated women are not sought after in China. One year I worked with a beautiful girl of about 26 years old in Hohhot. She had a master's, and because of this was having a real hard time finding any man that wanted to marry her.
180+ cm? The typical height for men in Europe is 5 feet 11 inches (180 cm), but they live in China, not on the European or American continent, so the demands of Chinese women look even funnier. 🤔🤔
I'm 1m79
The typical height in Europe is definitely not damn near 6 feet tall 😂.
@@gutsjoestar7450 I'm 5 inches. I'm a mini man.
It is
Its 190cm requirement in Europe, around 187 in USA
I mean I understand that this is ridiculous especially the height one, but please understand that when a women chases her career and education it’s hard to give it up for marriage. Especially since men consider older women “less”. We all know that the economy is shit and finding job and money is super hard so it’s really not worth it to give up for some career women nowadays. I mean if the men expects the women to do housework, give birth , move in and take care of his parents, and leave her job. For example since I am a girl I don’t have any pressure to continue family name etc , my family gives me full freedom to whatever I want in life as long as I’m healthy and happy. My dad is a scholar engineer and I’m also planning to pursue engineering and he’s much happier about that than whether or not I marry.
stop coping calling them "leftover" when they are the ones refusing to marry
Those women want top-shelf men, but those men DON'T WANT THEM! The women are "left over" because the men THEY WANT typically reject them and marry younger women. Those women ARE left-over from the POINT OF VIEW OF TOP-SHELF MEN!
Areyou minding the fool. Like he is not making sense. They are left overs yet their men cant get a date. Make it make sense.
@@Uke2405 Sorry bro, i dont understand. Do you agree with me or not? I think it makes no sense calling women leftover when its their desicion to not date you
Sounds like you r one of them, i feel sorry for u
No one want Christmas Cakahhhh...nooooo noooo want....in Japan they give you an angry look.....nooooo.....no Christmas cakahh....in China they say no want Sheng Nuuuu....they go dating market as a last resort but no one really exchange details 😂😂
I went inside of a Chinese dating agency in San Francisco, California some years ago and they asked me if I had a house. I said no and they said the Chinese women only date a man who owns a home.
A house?? That's kinda old?? Now is the houses
Very interesting and I've never heard anyone explain the double-edged sword of cultural expectations of Chinese daughters before. That was done well. I'm a new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
My nephew married a Chinese woman. They've been together 15 years and have 3 adorable sons. She's an incredible photographer, but her main fulltime job is a Legal Secretary. She makes the most amazing meals as well. Happiest gal I ever knew.
Most Chinese dudes are about 5'9 and taller despite the lies pushed about men of asian descent being short.
You are amaizing source of information about Asia - keep on doing the good work! Greetings from Thailand - I'm watching your portal or regular basis and learn a lot.
Give any woman a whiff of being desirable and the hypergamy monster comes roaring out.
The crazy thing is there should be leftover men since there's a huge excess of men. It means u need more women than men for the world to not be dystopia
More women is what world had after the wars.
Oh my God... I thought only European women were demanding. When I checked marriage requirement for Chinese men I got the feeling that China is the land of millionaires and photo models :)
Most European men do not come close to these requirements. Stay brave and don't give up.💪🙏🖖
The true solution to the Fermi Paradox is happening to us right now.
I love your channel and binged it this morning
In this modern time chinese women living a modern woman's life yet require men to live by triditional standards. Crazy.
Chinese men that meet even two of those requirements…just go to Thailand. Don’t deal with those absurd requirements.
They did the one child rule! What do you expect? I went to Kenya 🇰🇪 for my wife 💒!
Hypergamy is getting bad in Kenya now too. Women in Nairobi and Mombasa are super promiscuous.
@@TravelLoverForLifeU CANT HIDE FROM HYPERGAMY IM SURE IT HAS SPREAD ALL AROUND THE WORLD NOW ESPECIALLY SMH THE END TIMES MUST BE HERE
You can be happy and single ladies. You just need friends and family by your side. Men too
I know. I am aro/ace. I can ONLY be happy single. Men who think we need them all the time are projecting
Awsosme informational video!
Thank you brother
this reminds me of a girl on the "fresh and fit podcast" awhile back a chinese girl name "daisy chen". Now imagine thousands of "daisy chen" running around expecting a millionaire lifestyle.
that's all true if you're just shopping for a woman. but if a woman falls in love with you, she'll do almost anything for you.
You are 100% Correct on your main points in this Video. I'm not biased or angry/incel. I'm currently married to my second wife. Apparently I needed some practice before I understood marriage... I don't have any answers, but ALL the problems you see are the same everywhere in the West also. It seems successful women are victims of their own instincts of finding a man better than themselves....
as a chinese person, all hes saying is true. Philippines is better place to be but they are starting to become western but filipinas are very kind and a lot more traditional. Go there while you still can
Vietnam is as half brutal materialistic as China. Says from a 23 yo born and grow dude here
The Philippines is a marriage gold rush right now. It won't last long at this pace (maybe 5-10 years more).
The Powers that be do want to destroy Family Unit!! Thank you for great video!!
It's the mouse utopia, an experiment they ran in the 60's or 70's. But it seems it is a problem with all animals not just mice.
Calhoun's mice utopia experiments. Others have reproduced it with same outcome every time. After the crash the population never recovered.
Dowry goes from wife's side to husband's. The Chinese go the other way - from husband's side to the wife's; this is called "bride price" or "bride dowry" (you must include the word "bride" otherwise it means the opposite).
Thank you for this information
There is general dating, marriage and relationship collapse in many parts of the world. What you say many young American men are also saying about American women. Your English is excellent!
So are you saying that china is like western countries…? All this time I was thinking china was a traditional country.
It was but not anymore.
It used to be, but the Western poison has spread East. On the flip side, the communist/socialist aspect of China has left the East and poisoned Western society by turning into Woke Ideology. 🫠
@@ChineseHistorian2022As a black American I feel it’s important to point this out. “Woke” isn’t the term for it. It actually meant the opposite of all of this originally.
It was a Black American term that was created to spread awareness on genuine economic and social issues within the country, however In recent years it’s essentually been colonized and rebranded by the media to mean something outside of its original definition.
The word has taken on a new meaning to refer to White liberal ideals on injustice and on the other hand, it’s become a substitute for “Black” by the White-Right; and naturally- it’s often used with very racist undertones.
It’s now a propaganda term, devoid of its original cultural significance. Many of the topics you cover would actually be considered “Woke” by the original definition. I understand the context your referring to of course, and I absolutely agree. I just hope you take this into account because it’s important that we don’t malign other cultures by accident.
Love the channel! Looking forward to more content man.
With the internet 🛜 social media nearly all countries are
I love it How Black People like you, focus on Western. Go Search the New Marrys on Africa, This is happened on Everywhere cause 1-Nobody want Familys 2-Marrige is Expensive 3-Nobody Trust each other 4-İnternet enough for many people rather then Marrige
wow, I love how you're so brutally honest!
❤your videos !
Keep up the great work
Greetings from miami
Wow! That’s actually a universal thing! I date a Chinese girl for a few years and those were her requirements for marriage. I ended up breaking up with her. She wanted all of those requirements and she had hundreds of thousands of dollars in student debt.
Oh jeez imagine having standards. Meanwhile men expect women to bring half of income but do 100% of house labor and childcare. Delusional. You still refuse to listen to women and understand why we don't want that bs
@@KateeAngelThe fact you think that's proportional goes to show how insanely entitled and misandrist you are.
MIT predicts that civilzation will collaspe by 2049.
Damn can’t wait 😂
Moving away from tradition invites growing pains. The hangup in woman marrying lower class men is a lot less in the West. This is a real conundrum.
You said the truth about equality. We are not equal. Everyone is different. However, I think that slogan was meant "in the eyes of the law". I am a middle aged white woman but I feel sad what is happening. Things are so unbalanced. I wish that White women would better themselves so white males are less likely go to Asian females and I would love to see Asian males rise in status and thus have more options. I think Asian males are great and it's wrong how you are maligned by Asian females.
Are you a cat lady? No offence just curious
Great video. I always admire a great candid report like this.
Men of culture choose an 18year old over a harden women who is in their 30 😂😂😂😂