There's an old quote, " Becareful with the bond between mother and son, where they conspire to cheat others and life." It freezes his development, and he never becomes a man.
my brother was Golden Child... everything was 100% him.. and yes, she hates his wife... And my brother moved away and only returns alone for funerals.. I was the scapegoat. the Troubled child. I've been with a psychiatrist helping me disconnect from her completely. I was her caregiver since age seven... always inadequate.. Duh, I was a child. my brother hasn't had a relationship with me because he doesn't need my drama.. and upsetting my mother.. And he has become a Narcissist himself.. he has a family, good job, big house, etc but hundreds of thousands of debt to keep up with the neighbors and coworkers. ❤
Whew, happy to be experiencing the opposite with my son. I am more than okay taking the backseat in his life so that he can make his future wife the priority. My joy comes from seeing him fly.
FYI, if you want more people to go to the longer form video, there is a way to link long form video or even other RUclips shorts to right above where you would usually see tags! ❤❤❤
She tore us apart. I dropped my narc for him, but he could not dump his for me and our son. She DEMANDED he put her over me. Well, fine. Bye. Keep her.
They always interfere with their son’s relationships. There is no way any other woman can be more important in his life than her! She will let him know how much his love interest is failing him.
I lived this and though she ended up passing away the damage had been done. He went full out narc mania after and I'm still trying to get out of the marriage. She's gone and he no longer has her to run to. I kind of feel sorry but quickly get ahold of myself bc there is no feeling sorry for me or what i dealt w via my own narc mother. He's literally trying to destroy me and now i have to respond in kind and i hate it.
A mom with NPD, or a mom who's just narcissistic? Well, I do know that many men who are psychopaths had highly narcissistic mothers, especially if they were the Golden Child. And yes, if that's the case, the narc mom will make him feel guilty for wanting a wife or a girlfriend. She may profoundly dislike his girlfriend or wife, too, regardless of what his girlfriend is actually like. If a man does not set healthy boundaries with his mom, run. Get the heck out of there. Nothing you do will fix it.
For my brothers and sisters in Christ: this mother-son dynamic goes back to the story of the Tower of Babel. Noah’s grandson “Nimrod” married a woman (she goes by many names. In the Bible she’s called Ashteroth) whom started their own version of pagan worship where Nimrod was called a god when he died. His wife claimed that she was a virgin who had a child that she called the reincarnation of Nimrod (the child is called Tammuz in the Bible). She became a goddess and was known as the wife of her son. Do you see the parallel to Mary in this counterfeit religion? The Catholic faith replicated Tammuz worship and calls Ashteroth “the Virgin Mary”.
I cut mumzie off 2009, she cut dad off in 70s and put my brother in her bed. Hope shes gone so he can start to live. Sad. Hes 61 I don't know. Maybe too late.
My ex mother in law believed her son was christ and enjoyed recounting his birth as well as how she "enjoyed herself" in the living room floor while he watched TV needless to say they are both terrible alcoholics at 36 he vomited everyday from all the vodka he drank I've come across some seriously messed up ppl but they always take the cake he now lives alone in a run down garage
What happened to respect? Honor your mother and father. 🤷🤷 No, lets use words like, codependent, narcissism... WTH is going on when all we do is analyze other peoples behavior, instead of our own behavior. Your responsible for you! I hate these videos, its just give us more ammunition to dislike our parents, Excuses! I fought depression for years, whining about my situation never helped, it just made me feel more yucky!
There's an old quote, " Becareful with the bond between mother and son, where they conspire to cheat others and life." It freezes his development, and he never becomes a man.
my brother was Golden Child... everything was 100% him.. and yes, she hates his wife... And my brother moved away and only returns alone for funerals.. I was the scapegoat. the Troubled child. I've been with a psychiatrist helping me disconnect from her completely. I was her caregiver since age seven... always inadequate.. Duh, I was a child. my brother hasn't had a relationship with me because he doesn't need my drama.. and upsetting my mother.. And he has become a Narcissist himself.. he has a family, good job, big house, etc but hundreds of thousands of debt to keep up with the neighbors and coworkers. ❤
My ex husband 100%😢😢😢 she sabotaged our Marriage and made sure he treated me badly..
Whew, happy to be experiencing the opposite with my son. I am more than okay taking the backseat in his life so that he can make his future wife the priority. My joy comes from seeing him fly.
Like him trying to move away from her and she moves across country to be next to him again.... 😬
Oh this is so my brother. Thank you for explaining it this way.
FYI, if you want more people to go to the longer form video, there is a way to link long form video or even other RUclips shorts to right above where you would usually see tags! ❤❤❤
I was looking for the link too
You explain so well!!!!!
She tore us apart. I dropped my narc for him, but he could not dump his for me and our son. She DEMANDED he put her over me. Well, fine. Bye. Keep her.
My brother was idolized since age 3. Even his sisters treated him as more important.
I'm the DIL, you just described my husband's life exactly.
When a mother abuses their son, his wife gets abused. It's what they wanted to do to their mother they do to their wife.
Realy good explained, its posible to heal after battle but posible. Peace
They always interfere with their son’s relationships. There is no way any other woman can be more important in his life than her! She will let him know how much his love interest is failing him.
That's my mother with my brother she is sick. He lives with her I know he is sick of her.
What about a daughter growing up with a narcissistic father?
This sounds like what my family does to me
Mostly my brother
Not my Mother, she put her foot on the neck of me and my Brother to lift up my Sister, who also was a middle child
Sounds like a raging f3mini5t, sorry you went through that
True❤
Then throw in a codependent, alcoholic relationship. Her party buddy!
I lived this and though she ended up passing away the damage had been done. He went full out narc mania after and I'm still trying to get out of the marriage. She's gone and he no longer has her to run to. I kind of feel sorry but quickly get ahold of myself bc there is no feeling sorry for me or what i dealt w via my own narc mother. He's literally trying to destroy me and now i have to respond in kind and i hate it.
Do you have a segment on how narcissistic mothers treat their daughters?
A mom with NPD, or a mom who's just narcissistic? Well, I do know that many men who are psychopaths had highly narcissistic mothers, especially if they were the Golden Child. And yes, if that's the case, the narc mom will make him feel guilty for wanting a wife or a girlfriend. She may profoundly dislike his girlfriend or wife, too, regardless of what his girlfriend is actually like. If a man does not set healthy boundaries with his mom, run. Get the heck out of there. Nothing you do will fix it.
For my brothers and sisters in Christ: this mother-son dynamic goes back to the story of the Tower of Babel. Noah’s grandson “Nimrod” married a woman (she goes by many names. In the Bible she’s called Ashteroth) whom started their own version of pagan worship where Nimrod was called a god when he died. His wife claimed that she was a virgin who had a child that she called the reincarnation of Nimrod (the child is called Tammuz in the Bible). She became a goddess and was known as the wife of her son.
Do you see the parallel to Mary in this counterfeit religion? The Catholic faith replicated Tammuz worship and calls Ashteroth “the Virgin Mary”.
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I cut mumzie off 2009, she cut dad off in 70s and put my brother
in her bed. Hope shes gone so he can start to live. Sad. Hes 61 I don't know. Maybe too late.
My ex mother in law believed her son was christ and enjoyed recounting his birth as well as how she "enjoyed herself" in the living room floor while he watched TV needless to say they are both terrible alcoholics at 36 he vomited everyday from all the vodka he drank I've come across some seriously messed up ppl but they always take the cake he now lives alone in a run down garage
What if the roles are reversed and your the oldest daughter, cause i feel like this is me
What happened to respect? Honor your mother and father. 🤷🤷
No, lets use words like, codependent, narcissism... WTH is going on when all we do is analyze other peoples behavior, instead of our own behavior. Your responsible for you!
I hate these videos, its just give us more ammunition to dislike our parents, Excuses!
I fought depression for years, whining about my situation never helped, it just made me feel more yucky!
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