A man will also cheat when he knows youre out of his league and you dont know your worth. After i left my ex for his filth he told me he was always afraid of losing me and would feed his ego with lessor a.k.a looser women. When youre with someone and everyones always asking you including their own family how they got you its a red flag that everyone knows he isnt worthy but you. Never dull your shine for anyone. I did this and all it did was make me feel like an even bigger fool when it was finally over. Im thankful to know my worth now and i wont be settling ever again. Its better to be alone than holding on to a fraction of a man just because you love what he could be.
@@nosugarcoating9778 girl let him go its 1 of the best things ive ever done it was hard yes but it was so so necessary!! Self love and boundaries are so important. If you stay and you allow the behaviour you are teaching him you do not love & respect yourself and so he will continue disrespecting you and violating your boundaries. we deserve better, a confident man who treats us right and he will come but focus on you. Start a business, read more, sage your space, pray, exercise and watch commedies whilst eating fruits. Surround yourself with people who truly have your best interest at heart🤗 you can do it... your peace of mind is so important you deserve to sleep peacefully ❤
I would add men or women who never healed and were not over their exes but still rushed into a new relationship. I would also add men or women who settled just to avoid being alone, then realized there were better matches out there; but still didn't have enough courage to end it and go back to being single.
My Ex gave me silent treatment when we had arguments. I found it very unattractive. so when he cheated he was blaming me... so I said "excuse me, don't blame me for your shortcomings. you made that choice on your own. if I have to use the same excuse you had I would've cheated on you not once but several times. I am an attractive woman & get hit on, but did I choose to cheat, no! so No you're not blaming for that. you did that because you wanted to. it's your sin therefore one day you will pay for it, goodbye". he tried to come back I said no.... now I am engaged with a wonderful man after a year of being cheated on. I am happy that I stood my ground.
Once i was in the hairdressers ! He called me on camera , the hairdresser was very pretty ! First thing came out of his mouth was " does she have a boy friend ? I felt embarressed i went numb !
I should of took my love interest word for it when he told me he was selfish and wanted me to himself! Your right he was both selfish and self centered.
I feel like these are also the people that gives silent treatment, because they don’t feel their spouse deserves to know anything or have any responses from them. I dated one and he’s like that
I would add; the insecure person. Goes both ways (both men and women). Insecure people, they like the validation given to them by outside attention and don't shut it down the way someone who is secure would. Eventually if opportunity presents, they will cheat.
@blahblahblah mememe Oh, so you think know the world very well to a supreme scale for you to say, "If I could guess 95% of the world is insecure or has insecurities if not 100%?" Regardless, if we all cheat or not. Or, if the majority of the world cheats or the whole wide world cheats.
My ex exactly. He also flirted with whoever just to get attention and would tell me shit like "nah we just friends she knows I'm just Jk" like srsly 🙄?
#7- Unresolved Mommy/Daddy issues, ladies walk don't run if you meet a man who has or had a bad relationship with his mother not all but most will treat you with the same disrespect.
If a man doesn't respect his mother than he will never respect a woman until he resolves the problem. You will always stand as a reflection of his momma
+island spice silent treatments are a form of psychological torture. So yeah, it is. It’s got nothing to do with not wanting to argue. Silent treatments used to make you feel like shit and give into them.
@@kateh2434 Yes I know, because I'm married to a narcissist. There are some people like myself, who will rather remain silent than argue, which could be confused with narcissistic behavior. The best way to get revenge on a narcissist, is to give them the same treatment they give you.
Get this right ladies, GROWN** MEN DO NOT CHEAT, BOYS DO. There are 18+ adult BOYS that just cheat & do not know what the fuck they want. If the guy you're talking to doesn't mention growing together and striving for greatness with each other and does not only say it but his actions prove it, has a job/career, and seems to give off the vibe that he KNOWS exactly what he wants, if he doesn't do or demonstrate all that then girl, your dealing with a grown BOY not a man.
Many guys have those same conversations with women pertaining to growing together and etc but still do wrong by you. Most guys just love to tell you what they feel you want to hear and will be telling you the same exact thing he tells to every other women that comes after you.
Asia Kemp Exactly; they just love telling us stuff we would want to hear. Thats why its best to believe him only when he shows you that he means business meaning he has his life together & is ready to somewhat commit to you; it can only be proven through actions. Words mean nothing if there is no truthfulness behind it which they can only be shown through actions.
You're absolutely right, but what I'm saying is some of these dudes truly be wolves in sheep clothing. I was dealing with a guy and he talked a good game and walked the walk, but in the end he was playing me. I believe it was because he doesn't love himself and until he finally decides to, he will only continue to ruin every good woman that comes in his path. The facades people put up is nuts...
Asia Kemp Absolutely right, I had the same thing happen to me. The shit we put up with is unbelievable. All the wasted time, effort, emotions, words etc.
True. My ex cheated on me because I was a come up for him. Other women started noticing him because I was with him. He would always say I am not used to getting all this attention from women. 🤦🏾♀️ shoulda listened to my intuition. I won't doubt me again.
The man who gives the silent treatment. He would use the treatment as step one in his selfish plans. I think he used it as a way to justify, in his mind, a reason for his behavior so he could convince himself that he was not to blame for his lust and that I somehow deserved it. This was always proceeded by never confessing a thing. But, women know. The funny thing... he never thought I had the right to protect myself by not being intimate with him anymore. Women need men who are kind enough to protect them from the ways of this world. None of the men in my family ever showed me the ropes. I had to learn the hard way about the silent treatment.
It sounds to me that you’re the insecure guy, because I’m mistaken to flirt with every guy and I never once cheated on my ex over the 10years he accused me of because it was HIM who was projecting his guilt
You were right about that girl who feels neglected because that was me at one point in my life. I was 19. Thought i had it all figured out said "i feel neglected" started talking to other dudes. That shit made me even MORE lonely than i was at first in the end. I played myself but i learned a valuable lesson & onto better things now
Same here! Except I didn’t go out trying to talk to other guys... one guy started treating me a million times better than my boyfriend did. I began to wonder how he could treat me so well but my boyfriend would either be ignoring me or making me cry. I always held my hands up to my mistakes. Now, the lesson is definitely learnt from and I’ve been able to grow from it.
That what I did started talking to other men more cause he had no time for me not home or bearly home he talking to other female and he had the nerves to bring a female home and that one hurt and crashed me
That silence type of guy... Oh yes!!!. My ex was a great example. He never wanted to talk about our issues or future together. This video really answer my question that I never knew..
Tell it tell it tell it again!! People are just selfish in this generation and dont have a clue of what love even is let alone how to maintain a relationship because morals aren't being taught no more as sad as that may sound . Smh
who is watching in 2019?. Any man or woman who always resort to silent treatment is not only childish or a cheat but has a whole lot hidden away from their partner. They are narcissists as well because, they'er sucking and draining up their partner's energy by refusing to have a dialogue! They also would do anything to keep their partner down as much as they could and that is where the abuse starts. Ladies and gentlemen, you deserve so much better rather than being bitter....'CAT walk out' Slient treatment is not only a sign of immaturity but TOXIC too! Much love guys!!
I disagree because I give the silent treatment alot bc I don't want to say anything hurtful or if I feel like there is no point in going back and forth with you I will go completely silent but my sign is CANCER TOO SO YOU KNOW.
No one has a right to cheat and hurt someone else. There is no acceptable justification for that. Those people should just be honest with themselves, be single and hook up with people who only want to mess around not mess with someone who wants a serious relationship. [***Oh, and on the other side of the coin, No respect for people who knowingly target and/or go after someone they know is taken(married or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship). That is trifling!
Crystal Frager I definitely agree with you on this one, BUT, unfortunately it happens in this world today there's no such things as morals, standards, and values. These men don't have a f&@$? clue young or old. Sad but true my husband was 52 and still a fuckboy after no longer being able to control me.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to self love. It is very essential, learning to love yourself fully and unconditionally. We are so eager for love that once or a couple times in our lives we are willing to sacrifice a part of ourselves and what we believe in, in order to attain love. Thus, losing ourselves in the process and being clueless about it until the "love" dissipates. We have to always be careful with who we entertain and share ourselves with. Not everyone will always appreciate our entirety and that is fine. We are not obligated to "hold" someone down and cater to their wants and needs when that person only holds us back, that's not loyalty. THAT IS STUPIDITY. Learn to not seek fulfillment in others but rather yourself. Make sure your mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical intact. #TeamJaxn
I can't argue with your perspective Mrs (Ms). At the end of the day, if we don't love ouselves, were going to subject to anyone, and everyones "games."
Yes! My monster-in-law ALWAYS interfered and was invited to interfere (by my husband) so it's at the point of sinking. No one will be "good enough" like his "mommy". I've tried to make it work for the better but there's no use, he's mentally immature and TOO MUCH of a momma's boy.
All men are not ready to be committed with the women real talk cause they out having too much fun right now until everything start braking down on them can't stay young forever
It's the same for women, being able to cheat is way to easy even if you tell the women you have a girlfriend or wife. They don't care! They come after you even more.
@Evelyn Brown Accountability for both the man and woman, but either way 99% of women won't take any responsibility for their actions, nobody is innocent here.
Way too much game and too much drama in the dating scene. At 40 years old this is beyond disheartening to hear! It’s like all the good ones are taken and all that’s left are man-child’s, the rejects, and leftover headaches of other women. I rather stay single! 😒
Like the guy with the pretty mugshot! He got out of prison, started making money modeling and then cheated on his wife with some rich female. Perfect example of #1
I disagree to some extend. A true person that loves you will be there for you richer or poorer. Through different seasons of life. If they aren't then they really weren't for you
I ain't gonna lie I was the neglected one. But what found out is that I was just running to other men for attention. Then They wouldn't even be what I truly wanted. Learned my lesson
Renette Jones I was also the neglected one. Went on a date with another man. He was really awesome but I was spiritually unsettled the entire time. I could not move forward with him. I realised that its just not who I am. I am faithful and honest by nature.
I was always been told been hurt people hurt people. I have dealt with guys who have I have dated you hold them down then they do a switch. Start acting like you aren't worth their time or they don't know what you talking about. #TeamJaxn
Me too. They're called users! They always try to come back because they feel like they can ALWAYS use you. I had a guy who didn't want to be in a relationship, but was mad that I wouldn't let him use me💁🏽👋🏾 Lesson learned.
True. I saw that coming and left him to his 'beautiful' self and his ex . That's all he cared about anyway. I watch what they DO. What they SAY means nothing if sh--doesn't match up.
I cheated on my narcissist husband with the paralegal when sneaking a divorce behind his back then I married the paralegal who now cheats on me 🤣 oh well, at least I got away from the narcissist.
Mine is that guy.Whenever I tell him how i feel about the relationship, wanting to fix the issues underlying it, he goes off and avoids me and tells me its all on my mind. Maybe I do overthink things but his actions are showing it all.
classy 247365 get yourself a new phrase! :-) don't let some jamoke from your past that hurt you ruin your present and your future. You look like a real princess and you deserve the very best!
THE TYPE THAT WONT CHEAT. IS THE ONE U WOULDNT WANT.. HE IS HEAD OVER HILLS IN LOVE... INFACTUATED WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO OR SAY... WILL MARRY U LESS THAN A YEAR. WILL DRIVE FAR DISTANCES JUST TO SEE YOU. NO WOMAN WANTS A MAN LIKE THAT.UNLESS SHE IS ALSO CRAZY IN LOVE
the six people most likely to cheat are the six people who want to cheat... if you want to cheat you will regardless of the situation... if it is a thought in the head then you have already cheated... just my opinion..#team jaxn
exactly. it starts in the heart and im not christian anymore but i agree w/ jesus when he said that if u already cheated in ur heart and w/ ur eyes then the deed is done
yeah they want the convenience of easy 'outside sex' with no strings, without the pressures of a relationship. They dont need to help with the house work to get it, or do the dishes to get it. They just sneak around behind ur back to get it whenever they want it and claim to be at work or the dentist... so yeah, it could be convenience...
Oh wow. As soon as he mentioned men taking massive selfies I thought to myself, "he must be gay". Men don't do that. And sure enough that's what Derrick stated.
Many of us were trained to be social workers. I did the same until I realized that all of my efforts in understanding and nuturing them raised them UP to become a better and financially stable man for another relationship. 🐦
Ashley Slay I agree. But he might do the radio first as guest before he gets a talk show spot. And before that guest host/appearance on someone else show to get his name more out there and most of all networking.
That last one cracked me up because it's so true. A guy wants to run around with whomever? At least the woman is smart enough to find a real man and do one better.
Omg....the first type of cheater described my first to a T...thats crazy! He was in college like myself when we met i stayed with him right up until he met his career goal of becoming a pilot.
I was #4/#6 before because I didn't have the self respect to walk away from a shit situation. Ladies respect yourself cuz no matter how dirty someone does you it doesn't feel good to get revenge
You really dont know how much u have given me so much advice on a marriage of 14yrs i gave my all a man i thought i really knew been with since 7th grade and he cheated and left me alone pregnant with 2 older kids and niw he wants back after being with this woman for 1yr and 4mo while i still stayed faithful and now im over it and im finding my happy ☺ #TeamJaxn
AKEBA FLOWERS Wow, the nerve of your ex husband. How does he expect you to just take him back after doing that to you? You are a strong woman and a wonderful mother to be able to still take care of your family while going through so much pain and betrayal. I wish you and your children all the best for your future.
AKEBA FLOWERS good job!! Im a single mother of 2 as well. Trying too make it on youtube. I always tell my ex.... "you got what u wanted" and "you made ur bed, go lay in it"... then I walk off and say "wit yo punk ass" 😂😂😂 #ImPetty #ButImHappyNow #teamjaxn
My ex thought that I was cheating and neglected me. I know he was cheating because of what he thought. I cheated emotionally but was keeping an eye on a really nice guy who is connected to my job and way better than my ex. Now that we broke up, this guy has stepped forward and my ex can't even compete.
I've always cheated in my relationships, for different reasons, when I was a kid, I grow up around it, ( I know sad ) but since, i lived and learned. I don't..... the relationship, i'm in now, I have NOT cheated, and I dont want to, how, i feel now, this stage in my life, I will just leave the relationship.
She's not your girl, its just your turn. And her 4 high school ex-boyfriends. And her 9 college ex-boyfriends. And that cute guy at starbucks. And your best friend. And her best friend's boyfriend. And that guy she doesn't remember his name she fucked while on a "girls night out". And two guys she works with at the office.
Love you boy...older now, wish I'd had this wisdom decades ago- I still got some time, convos are cut real short & quick if it ain't right ! thank you sweetness...hope you're being loved well !
The minute my exhus started being sneaky & lied to me about being with another woman.. even tho we were seperated.. i saw our foundation of trust was gone.. and i told him to keep her.. and i filed for divorce. If he hid the cheating and wouldn't have lied about a few things..and just "sowed-his-wold-oats".. i would never have known & wouldn't have divorced him. But my feelings for him were shattered when he lied..my love for him was diminished.. i lost all respect for him & knew it would never be the same if i tried to work it out with him. I don't believe in jealousy- if your partner pursues someone else..let your partner go.. no matter how much it hurts. It would have haunted me to stay with him & wonder if he'd lie or be sneaky in the future. A clean break to move on seemed like less future pain.
3 and 5 is my ex lol..he used to give me silent treatment or basically not message for 1 or 2 days because of some shit..and yes he love his selfies, always taking pictures feeling hes the best looking thing since slice bread. Like always go to the barber every week for what? Very childish and petty like a woman, i told him few times that hes undercover gay. Thank God it didnt last long.
MJBABYPHAT omg my ex used to go to the barber faithfully every week too! And he was very homophobic... made me wonder about him lol he spent more time in the mirror than I ever have! Drove me crazy and never made sense to me... he was always staring at himself...
As Les Brown would say: You got that right! And guess what? She finds herself single again, downgrading. How sad... I lived that. A woman would almost "court" me for I seemed to be better than her boyfriend of many years. I didn't know she had a boyfriend. So when I discovered that: disgusted... Be cautious all males out there...
Nah..He sees her as neglected and in need of protection. Men don't readily take on a woman with kids just to play. Too many desperate single and childless women to toy with.
Finally someone who knows what he's talking about, the women are cheating more than the men, Women don't believe if most men are happy at home he's not looking to cheat!
This is sooo true, but i gotta say it's those that want to cheat will do it, regardless of who they hurt because they're not thinking about anyone or anything when they cheat just themselves, I've just started watching you @DerrickJaxn and you are very inspirational...
I'm a new follower of Team Jaxn and I just wanted to say how spot-on you are about so many things. I listen your videos while I'm working, as well as when I'm at home. I think many women out there need to appreciate your messages and apply your knowledge to their own situations. I for one have been in many of the situations you talk about in your videos. To hear this advice coming from a man about how men really do think is an inside clue we were living without all these years... Thank you for looking out for us women! #Team Jaxn 😉
I totally agree with that last one....women do cheat up! i wonder why some men feel like women don't cheat simply because they don't have the opportunity to, who to cheat with etc, because that's so not the case, there is always that one guy that looks better, makes more money than the ass we sometimes choose to stay faithful to...so yes, when we are fed up, best believe it's gonna be that guy although, i'd rather leave the relationship than cheat but yes, women need love too and sometimes they just wanna feel loved even though they still in love with an ass. lol #teamjaxn
communication and honesty is key!!! but i feel like most people act like things dont really bother them....its not a big deal, or theyre too cool and pretend nothings wrong...but deep inside it IS wrong but tehy are suppressing their feelings and acting like nothings wrong....but then when they meet that person that validates what they truly feel? there u go....
Great video! Needed to add the Narcissist person because they may not be taking selfies, but they need admiration and adoration, so always in need of constant validation. They will cheat when getting their supply from anyone who will feed them, and they usually affair down.
I hope you're getting rich off of sharing your perspective...because this is pure gold. Seriously. I prayed and prayed for clarity....and here it is. Thank you, Derrick.
Yeah the selfie one is spot on...I keep getting validation for the last situation I was in...he was textbook for that description. I have had several heterosexual and several gay men validate it. Its so hard to mentally go there so you just want to not believe it... it just disgusts me! I don't understand men living on the DL. Just be with men! #getbehindmesatan
Wow. Amen on the Silent Treatment Man. My ex never wanted to work through anything, not even as friends, and spent longER periods (i.e., several days) giving me the ice cold shoulder over trivial things (e.g., my being late to his house to watch a movie) to justify his cheating lifestyle in his own mind. A friend of mine caught him on the dating site where we met approaching her and when I checked the site, it read 'Online Now'. When I approached him about it, he said he just checked the site when "shittin' on the pot at work." It was 8 o'clock at night. He got off of work at 3:30. Classic. He was a man-child type. Just not ready to grow up, commit fully or manage problems in a healthy way. Just like you said, he said he never crossed the line, but he certainly blurred the boundaries! This is an enlightening video. Thanks for classifying this type!
Number 5 is SOOO true!!! I often wondered about my ex....he was a selfie king and one time I put him out..he got a room in a motel and I saw at pic. With him and his homeboy in the room. Now I'm thinking... His homeboy didn't good put out why in the fuck was he there and how are y'all so comfortable taking a selfie together... mind you they both had on white t-shirts and khaki pants. Dress like twins..... boy stuff we choose to overlook when we think were in love...SMH
The guy who takes constant selfies...self-lust...ON POINT!!! I know a guy who posts constant selfies of himself on FB, after having cheated on his last two girlfriends with the same woman.
😂😂😂@the guy that takes a lot of selfies u know what I've always thought a grown man taking a lot of selfies is suspect so I agree with this one #teamjaxn
Spot on! Neglected and Cheated I haven’t brought it up to my sneaky silent type who gives me silent treatments then goes on binges but my ex and I talk a lot about rekindling things and marrying. As soon as he returns to this part of the world Issa wrap. He remains my placeholder until something better comes along but in my mind he’s nothing. More
I wish cheaters would just attract other cheaters. It would make everything so much easier for the rest of us
Can I get an amen!!
Umm I don't know YES!!! My ex did just that lol! They do each other and whomever else they see fit to do smh.
#AMEN!!!!!
Umm I don't know say that again!!
Umm I don't know Agreed!
A man will also cheat when he knows youre out of his league and you dont know your worth. After i left my ex for his filth he told me he was always afraid of losing me and would feed his ego with lessor a.k.a looser women. When youre with someone and everyones always asking you including their own family how they got you its a red flag that everyone knows he isnt worthy but you. Never dull your shine for anyone. I did this and all it did was make me feel like an even bigger fool when it was finally over. Im thankful to know my worth now and i wont be settling ever again. Its better to be alone than holding on to a fraction of a man just because you love what he could be.
Hort Shire Been there - this one is too true 💯
Same situation
Omg girl yesss you 1000% correct this also happened to me
So so so true I’m struggling to get out
@@nosugarcoating9778 girl let him go its 1 of the best things ive ever done it was hard yes but it was so so necessary!! Self love and boundaries are so important. If you stay and you allow the behaviour you are teaching him you do not love & respect yourself and so he will continue disrespecting you and violating your boundaries. we deserve better, a confident man who treats us right and he will come but focus on you. Start a business, read more, sage your space, pray, exercise and watch commedies whilst eating fruits. Surround yourself with people who truly have your best interest at heart🤗 you can do it... your peace of mind is so important you deserve to sleep peacefully ❤
I would add men or women who never healed and were not over their exes but still rushed into a new relationship.
I would also add men or women who settled just to avoid being alone, then realized there were better matches out there; but still didn't have enough courage to end it and go back to being single.
These are FACTS hunni so freaking TRUE
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THIS!
I’ve been the second paragraph but will never go thru it again
True! As cringey as I sound, this sounds a lot like the female protagonist in mangas and animes . No wonder I dislike them so much.
My Ex gave me silent treatment when we had arguments. I found it very unattractive. so when he cheated he was blaming me... so I said "excuse me, don't blame me for your shortcomings. you made that choice on your own. if I have to use the same excuse you had I would've cheated on you not once but several times. I am an attractive woman & get hit on, but did I choose to cheat, no! so No you're not blaming for that. you did that because you wanted to. it's your sin therefore one day you will pay for it, goodbye".
he tried to come back I said no.... now I am engaged with a wonderful man after a year of being cheated on. I am happy that I stood my ground.
Your ex was a bonafide narcissist. Glad you got away from that.
"They cheat with whoever has a pulse"😂
Alleah Fuentes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Once i was in the hairdressers ! He called me on camera , the hairdresser was very pretty ! First thing came out of his mouth was " does she have a boy friend ? I felt embarressed i went numb !
🤣🤣🤣
They are its called swingers
They got a group
People who are selfish or self centered will usually end up cheating, they're always thinking about themselves first smh
Tiffany Jones amen my husband is this way getting divorce asap
Tiffany Jones your so right
I should of took my love interest word for it when he told me he was selfish and wanted me to himself! Your right he was both selfish and self centered.
I feel like these are also the people that gives silent treatment, because they don’t feel their spouse deserves to know anything or have any responses from them. I dated one and he’s like that
Tiffany Jones so very true i met a woman who we was cool but there are so many red flags however being raised right i see through the bullcrap
I would add; the insecure person. Goes both ways (both men and women). Insecure people, they like the validation given to them by outside attention and don't shut it down the way someone who is secure would. Eventually if opportunity presents, they will cheat.
You're talking about my ex. Lol.
This is true
@blahblahblah mememe Oh, so you think know the world very well to a supreme scale for you to say, "If I could guess 95% of the world is insecure or has insecurities if not 100%?" Regardless, if we all cheat or not. Or, if the majority of the world cheats or the whole wide world cheats.
My ex exactly. He also flirted with whoever just to get attention and would tell me shit like "nah we just friends she knows I'm just Jk" like srsly 🙄?
Exactly
#7- Unresolved Mommy/Daddy issues, ladies walk don't run if you meet a man who has or had a bad relationship with his mother not all but most will treat you with the same disrespect.
Joanna Savage you are 100 percent correct
I also.know men whom treat their Mom well and treat girlfriends and wives horriibly
True, there's exceptions to every rule some men evolve and aren't victims I have a lot of respect for those men.
If a man doesn't respect his mother than he will never respect a woman until he resolves the problem. You will always stand as a reflection of his momma
Exactly Tiffany Allison . Amen to that!.
silent treatments are narcissistic characteristics! my ex narc gave them to me all the time when he didn’t like something
Or your ex just didn't like to argue?
+island spice silent treatments are a form of psychological torture. So yeah, it is. It’s got nothing to do with not wanting to argue. Silent treatments used to make you feel like shit and give into them.
@@kateh2434 Yes I know, because I'm married to a narcissist. There are some people like myself, who will rather remain silent than argue, which could be confused with narcissistic behavior. The best way to get revenge on a narcissist, is to give them the same treatment they give you.
@island spice bang on. I agree.
I just can't prove it but I my intuition tells me he did cheat.
Cheaters make marriage life soo difficult; especially, when they deny and never acknowledge it.
Get this right ladies, GROWN** MEN DO NOT CHEAT, BOYS DO. There are 18+ adult BOYS that just cheat & do not know what the fuck they want. If the guy you're talking to doesn't mention growing together and striving for greatness with each other and does not only say it but his actions prove it, has a job/career, and seems to give off the vibe that he KNOWS exactly what he wants, if he doesn't do or demonstrate all that then girl, your dealing with a grown BOY not a man.
Many guys have those same conversations with women pertaining to growing together and etc but still do wrong by you. Most guys just love to tell you what they feel you want to hear and will be telling you the same exact thing he tells to every other women that comes after you.
Asia Kemp Exactly; they just love telling us stuff we would want to hear. Thats why its best to believe him only when he shows you that he means business meaning he has his life together & is ready to somewhat commit to you; it can only be proven through actions. Words mean nothing if there is no truthfulness behind it which they can only be shown through actions.
You're absolutely right, but what I'm saying is some of these dudes truly be wolves in sheep clothing. I was dealing with a guy and he talked a good game and walked the walk, but in the end he was playing me. I believe it was because he doesn't love himself and until he finally decides to, he will only continue to ruin every good woman that comes in his path. The facades people put up is nuts...
Asia Kemp Absolutely right, I had the same thing happen to me. The shit we put up with is unbelievable. All the wasted time, effort, emotions, words etc.
All for the sake of what we think is love at the time smh. So very annoying.
True. My ex cheated on me because I was a come up for him. Other women started noticing him because I was with him. He would always say I am not used to getting all this attention from women. 🤦🏾♀️ shoulda listened to my intuition. I won't doubt me again.
U forgot one .....the narcisist
Morgan Prince Yessssss😫😫😫
Yep.
Morgan Prince that is covered by the "selfie" king
I'm a narcissist I haven't cheated
Morgan Prince Yesss girl
The man who gives the silent treatment. He would use the treatment as step one in his selfish plans. I think he used it as a way to justify, in his mind, a reason for his behavior so he could convince himself that he was not to blame for his lust and that I somehow deserved it. This was always proceeded by never confessing a thing. But, women know. The funny thing... he never thought I had the right to protect myself by not being intimate with him anymore. Women need men who are kind enough to protect them from the ways of this world. None of the men in my family ever showed me the ropes. I had to learn the hard way about the silent treatment.
Jackie Dare You sound like me. I Definitely learned the hard way as well.
Another cheater is the insecure woman who's always "innocently" flirting with everybody and needs the self esteem boost every guy she comes across
diddy boppin That goes for man as well.😊
I was cheated on by a guy and a girl both made the same excuses both broke my heart but I moved on from both of them
It sounds to me that you’re the insecure guy, because I’m mistaken to flirt with every guy and I never once cheated on my ex over the 10years he accused me of because it was HIM who was projecting his guilt
@@lunarl6172 Lol... somehow it's still the man's fault. Take accountability
You were right about that girl who feels neglected because that was me at one point in my life. I was 19. Thought i had it all figured out said "i feel neglected" started talking to other dudes. That shit made me even MORE lonely than i was at first in the end. I played myself but i learned a valuable lesson & onto better things now
Steph Liliana Excally, Yes
Steph Liliana you aren't the only one. It makes you vulnerable :( turns you into someone you never thought you'd be!
Same here! Except I didn’t go out trying to talk to other guys... one guy started treating me a million times better than my boyfriend did. I began to wonder how he could treat me so well but my boyfriend would either be ignoring me or making me cry.
I always held my hands up to my mistakes. Now, the lesson is definitely learnt from and I’ve been able to grow from it.
That what I did started talking to other men more cause he had no time for me not home or bearly home he talking to other female and he had the nerves to bring a female home and that one hurt and crashed me
That silence type of guy... Oh yes!!!. My ex was a great example. He never wanted to talk about our issues or future together. This video really answer my question that I never knew..
Moon Starz
Yep. Me too
The silent-treatment kinda guys...soo true. I'm married to one.
So true I'm in a relationship like that now..
@@coffeefiend1085 And, I am glad that he felt the exact same way about you.
Don't Care About Ignorance i forgot about Those ones though!
Anyone who doesn't respect themselves and has unresolved issues with relationships and with commitment is most likely to cheat! #teamjaxn
Perfectly You Beauty ..yes totally agree!
Perfectly You Beauty WELL SAID
Perfectly You Beauty its time for them to grow up
Tell it tell it tell it again!! People are just selfish in this generation and dont have a clue of what love even is let alone how to maintain a relationship because morals aren't being taught no more as sad as that may sound . Smh
Katy Combs
who is watching in 2019?. Any man or woman who always resort to silent treatment is not only childish or a cheat but has a whole lot hidden away from their partner. They are narcissists as well because, they'er sucking and draining up their partner's energy by refusing to have a dialogue! They also would do anything to keep their partner down as much as they could and that is where the abuse starts. Ladies and gentlemen, you deserve so much better rather than being bitter....'CAT walk out' Slient treatment is not only a sign of immaturity but TOXIC too! Much love guys!!
I disagree because I give the silent treatment alot bc I don't want to say anything hurtful or if I feel like there is no point in going back and forth with you I will go completely silent but my sign is CANCER TOO SO YOU KNOW.
Thanks. Yuo are pot on.
#7: Someone who's a follower/easily manipulated/ weak willed. I can't expect u to be loyal if you don't trust ur own judgement.
True
No one has a right to cheat and hurt someone else. There is no acceptable justification for that. Those people should just be honest with themselves, be single and hook up with people who only want to mess around not mess with someone who wants a serious relationship. [***Oh, and on the other side of the coin, No respect for people who knowingly target and/or go after someone they know is taken(married or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship). That is trifling!
Crystal Frager I definitely agree with you on this one, BUT, unfortunately it happens in this world today there's no such things as morals, standards, and values. These men don't have a f&@$? clue young or old. Sad but true my husband was 52 and still a fuckboy after no longer being able to control me.
Crystal Frager 💯
Wild Flower Also 💯
Does one time count?
I completely agree
At the end of the day, it all comes down to self love. It is very essential, learning to love yourself fully and unconditionally. We are so eager for love that once or a couple times in our lives we are willing to sacrifice a part of ourselves and what we believe in, in order to attain love. Thus, losing ourselves in the process and being clueless about it until the "love" dissipates. We have to always be careful with who we entertain and share ourselves with. Not everyone will always appreciate our entirety and that is fine. We are not obligated to "hold" someone down and cater to their wants and needs when that person only holds us back, that's not loyalty. THAT IS STUPIDITY. Learn to not seek fulfillment in others but rather yourself. Make sure your mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical intact. #TeamJaxn
Rose Hill ! Yes! You hit it out the ballpark with this!! Great post!
Catrice McGlothin thank you hun! I appreciate it, god bless.
Say that for all the mofos in the back! Yasss! 👏👏👏
Rose Hill Yes!! Say That! Say that! Say that!
I can't argue with your perspective Mrs (Ms). At the end of the day, if we don't love ouselves, were going to subject to anyone, and everyones "games."
I believe a successful relationship is with two people & two people only. When too many people get involved, it can cause your ship to sink. #TeamJaxn
videogamequeen amen
videogamequeen yeah mine did but im good now.
Yes! My monster-in-law ALWAYS interfered and was invited to interfere (by my husband) so it's at the point of sinking. No one will be "good enough" like his "mommy". I've tried to make it work for the better but there's no use, he's mentally immature and TOO MUCH of a momma's boy.
I wish I would've known this before I married him.
All men are not ready to be committed with the women real talk cause they out having too much fun right now until everything start braking down on them can't stay young forever
It's the same for women, being able to cheat is way to easy even if you tell the women you have a girlfriend or wife. They don't care! They come after you even more.
@Evelyn Brown Accountability for both the man and woman, but either way 99% of women won't take any responsibility for their actions, nobody is innocent here.
Way too much game and too much drama in the dating scene. At 40 years old this is beyond disheartening to hear! It’s like all the good ones are taken and all that’s left are man-child’s, the rejects, and leftover headaches of other women.
I rather stay single! 😒
@Kylipsso: At 55, I feel exactly the same way. I've been single for the last 12 years.
Exactly!!!!
AMEN TO THAT!!!!!
Yesss
I feel the same way life is too short for foolishness......
Like the guy with the pretty mugshot! He got out of prison, started making money modeling and then cheated on his wife with some rich female. Perfect example of #1
7xelbuaD Yes!
I disagree to some extend. A true person that loves you will be there for you richer or poorer. Through different seasons of life. If they aren't then they really weren't for you
@@ruth5316 Well, you can definitely tell that to every woman on the planet.
I ain't gonna lie I was the neglected one. But what found out is that I was just running to other men for attention. Then They wouldn't even be what I truly wanted. Learned my lesson
Renette Jones I was also the neglected one. Went on a date with another man. He was really awesome but I was spiritually unsettled the entire time. I could not move forward with him. I realised that its just not who I am. I am faithful and honest by nature.
I can relate, although it only happened ONCE..but should've never happened AT ALL. Lesson learned.
He was talking about himself 😂😂😂😂😂
I was looking for this comment lol
Sex doesn't have to be the only form of cheating. She can line somebody up to replace a man and that's what emotional affair plays
True
This is so damn true! I was married to a guy who never wanted to discuss anything in the end he cheated !
I was always been told been hurt people hurt people. I have dealt with guys who have I have dated you hold them down then they do a switch. Start acting like you aren't worth their time or they don't know what you talking about. #TeamJaxn
Me too. They're called users! They always try to come back because they feel like they can ALWAYS use you. I had a guy who didn't want to be in a relationship, but was mad that I wouldn't let him use me💁🏽👋🏾 Lesson learned.
they sound like narcissists lovebomb, devalue, discard
True. I saw that coming and left him to his 'beautiful' self and his ex . That's all he cared about anyway. I watch what they DO. What they SAY means nothing if sh--doesn't match up.
"Dipping in your woman's walls" 😂😂😂💀💀 I'm dead
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How a relationship starts is how it will end... he cheated w u he will cheat on u! #teamjaxn
Theresa Brown YEP!! Lesson learned.
I cheated on my narcissist husband with the paralegal when sneaking a divorce behind his back then I married the paralegal who now cheats on me 🤣 oh well, at least I got away from the narcissist.
Katina Marie seems like you just ended with another narcissist.
Woow never thought of that before
That silent treatment dude UGH!! Hate them speak up and be a man .
Mine lacked emotional intelligence to say the least.
Mine is that guy.Whenever I tell him how i feel about the relationship, wanting to fix the issues underlying it, he goes off and avoids me and tells me its all on my mind. Maybe I do overthink things but his actions are showing it all.
"The loyalty of a women shows when you have nothing, the loyalty of a man shows men they have everything..."
Very very true
100% on point!! Laughed a lot with the selfie guy 🤣
OMG I'ma be single forever. You can't trust no one 😭😭
classy 247365 Same😩😧
classy 247365 oh damn shit all of us is!! When he put it like that... That last point... Smh. Alot of men won't expect..
classy 247365 get yourself a new phrase! :-) don't let some jamoke from your past that hurt you ruin your present and your future. You look like a real princess and you deserve the very best!
classy 247365 I'm basically the same way.
classy 247365 I'm divorced. I refuse to get married again. Getting married would be like pulling teeth now to me.
U forgot about married ppl, they have a category of their own
+Ramonica Lavigne. He is probably not talking about married women.
Lol married women might fall into the category of “neglected” women
In fact yes, that’s usually what’s going on
Always end up in a #1 situation. How are you going to betray the girl who upgraded your entire life, TF 🤦🤦
Now what I would like to know is what types aren’t cheaters 😅💯😊🤔????
For real. I love the vids talking about good men not to pass up. Lets focus on the positive too maybe it will grow. 😂🤣🤔🤷🏼♀️
The types you ain't feeling 😂
People who havnt been cheated on yet
Okay
THE TYPE THAT WONT CHEAT. IS THE ONE U WOULDNT WANT.. HE IS HEAD OVER HILLS IN LOVE... INFACTUATED WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO OR SAY... WILL MARRY U LESS THAN A YEAR. WILL DRIVE FAR DISTANCES JUST TO SEE YOU. NO WOMAN WANTS A MAN LIKE THAT.UNLESS SHE IS ALSO CRAZY IN LOVE
I always thought a guy that posted a lot of selfies was kinda strange.
They are bitches and want someone to look at them
the six people most likely to cheat are the six people who want to cheat... if you want to cheat you will regardless of the situation... if it is a thought in the head then you have already cheated... just my opinion..#team jaxn
exactly. it starts in the heart and im not christian anymore but i agree w/ jesus when he said that if u already cheated in ur heart and w/ ur eyes then the deed is done
FullofSouthernCharm best comment so far...😎✌️
FullofSouthernCharm correct👍
FullofSouthernCharm - Exactly! Cheating doesn't discriminate, a cheater is just simply a cheater.
FullofSouthernCharm He's breaking it down in clear terms for those who walk around with blinders on.
I don't understand the men cheating because of convenience. There's nothing more of a convenience than your girl 😑
Oh thats Lauren 😂 😱
Cathee45 a cheater is a cheater, there is no explanation
yeah
they want the convenience of easy 'outside sex' with no strings, without the pressures of a relationship. They dont need to help with the house work to get it, or do the dishes to get it. They just sneak around behind ur back to get it whenever they want it and claim to be at work or the dentist... so yeah, it could be convenience...
Women cheat way more than men. As a ups delivery driver I get offers from married women so often that I've lost complete trust for you women.
No, you dont understand, its b/c she's " different " convenience, that's not
same as his regular convenience girl.
The new game on RUclips:
Go to a Derrick Jaxn video
Go to the comment section
Click on Sort By, and hit Newest First
Laugh your ass off.
I've been on RUclips all night till 7 am, my ads are ALL like "go to sleep" 🤣
LOLL
No 5 tho...he's cheating with another man 😂. #DWL
#7: a man/woman that feels like he/she settled by being with you.
Oh wow. As soon as he mentioned men taking massive selfies I thought to myself, "he must be gay". Men don't do that. And sure enough that's what Derrick stated.
Many of us were trained to be social workers. I did the same until I realized that all of my efforts in understanding and nuturing them raised them UP to become a better and financially stable man for another relationship. 🐦
Derrick Jaxn type #7.
I Need you to get a talk show and cancel that STEVE HARVEY GUY. REAL TALK PASTOR JAXKN
Ashley Slay For real. This man is real.
miapdx Portland yessss girl
Ashley Slay I concur chicka slay... 😉
Ashley Slay I agree. But he might do the radio first as guest before he gets a talk show spot. And before that guest host/appearance on someone else show to get his name more out there and most of all networking.
He's a pastor?
That last one cracked me up because it's so true. A guy wants to run around with whomever? At least the woman is smart enough to find a real man and do one better.
If you improve a man, he will cheat on you. Happened to my girlfriend
HAPPENED TO ME 2...SMH
Vana Phill soooooo true.
one word 'anna farris'😩
Whyyyy
Happened to me!
"This ain't the 1940s, I been sleeping with Sallie Mae down the street"....😂
derrick, derrick, derrick, derrick, derrick, & finally derrick😂😂😂😂
Omg....the first type of cheater described my first to a T...thats crazy! He was in college like myself when we met i stayed with him right up until he met his career goal of becoming a pilot.
Live by the sword, die by the sword. And the selfies! 😳 #Deep
Aucuria Harrison
I know right🤔🙄
Yes! The guy who takes the selfies. It used to make me SOOOOO uncomfortable how many selfies he took of HIMSELF. 😂😂😂
Grey MaryAnne yes!! All the dick pictures! Everyday a new dick picture! Why?
I was #4/#6 before because I didn't have the self respect to walk away from a shit situation. Ladies respect yourself cuz no matter how dirty someone does you it doesn't feel good to get revenge
You had me laughing with #6! Man: "I cheated." Woman: "No WE cheated." So true. I'm binge watching your videos!
EFF CHEATERS! BE REAL OR BE GONE!!!
#KEEPITINYOURPANTSORKEEPSTEPPING
#TEAMJAXN
You really dont know how much u have given me so much advice on a marriage of 14yrs i gave my all a man i thought i really knew been with since 7th grade and he cheated and left me alone pregnant with 2 older kids and niw he wants back after being with this woman for 1yr and 4mo while i still stayed faithful and now im over it and im finding my happy ☺ #TeamJaxn
AKEBA FLOWERS Wow, the nerve of your ex husband. How does he expect you to just take him back after doing that to you? You are a strong woman and a wonderful mother to be able to still take care of your family while going through so much pain and betrayal. I wish you and your children all the best for your future.
AKEBA FLOWERS good job!! Im a single mother of 2 as well. Trying too make it on youtube. I always tell my ex.... "you got what u wanted" and "you made ur bed, go lay in it"... then I walk off and say "wit yo punk ass" 😂😂😂 #ImPetty #ButImHappyNow #teamjaxn
Chiiillllleeee 😩 do we have to guess which category to place you in, DJ?🤔🤭🤦🏾♀️
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🤣🤣 talking about himself
Making me want to throw the whole relationship out lol
We need more polygomy
Throw it girl
Yo..you got deep on this. Its been a min since you put a video out this long!!! Thank you.. love these when you go in
My ex thought that I was cheating and neglected me. I know he was cheating because of what he thought. I cheated emotionally but was keeping an eye on a really nice guy who is connected to my job and way better than my ex. Now that we broke up, this guy has stepped forward and my ex can't even compete.
Jasmine McDermott and hes prob thinkin the same thing about u maybe you were just not good for eachother
I am glad for you! If he hadn't cheated on you, you would not have met the right guy for you at the end. Bless you both😉
Yes, preach!!! The silent treatment is just a grown man tantrum. You stated a lot of true facts.
MAN 2 YEARS LATER BUT I HAD TO DIG FOR THIS VIDEO JUST TO COME BACK AND SAY YOU WERE RIGHT ABOUT THE SELFIE BOYS. I'm PISSED 🤣🔫
Omg, sorry to be nosey but what happened what did you find out??
He should probably delete this video now
Well I guess he better delete all his videos then
I've always cheated in my relationships, for different reasons, when I was a kid, I grow up around it, ( I know sad ) but since, i lived and learned. I don't..... the relationship, i'm in now, I have NOT cheated, and I dont want to, how, i feel now, this stage in my life, I will just leave the relationship.
She's not your girl, its just your turn. And her 4 high school ex-boyfriends. And her 9 college ex-boyfriends. And that cute guy at starbucks. And your best friend. And her best friend's boyfriend. And that guy she doesn't remember his name she fucked while on a "girls night out". And two guys she works with at the office.
😂😂😂😂😂 agreee with the selfie statement ! Those dudes were never for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had a friend like this, cheated on a drop dead gorgeous girl, so I can confirm
You need your own talk show! You're awesome!
Love you boy...older now, wish I'd had this wisdom decades ago- I still got some time, convos are cut real short & quick if it ain't right ! thank you sweetness...hope you're being loved well !
The minute my exhus started being sneaky & lied to me about being with another woman.. even tho we were seperated.. i saw our foundation of trust was gone.. and i told him to keep her.. and i filed for divorce. If he hid the cheating and wouldn't have lied about a few things..and just "sowed-his-wold-oats".. i would never have known & wouldn't have divorced him. But my feelings for him were shattered when he lied..my love for him was diminished.. i lost all respect for him & knew it would never be the same if i tried to work it out with him. I don't believe in jealousy- if your partner pursues someone else..let your partner go.. no matter how much it hurts. It would have haunted me to stay with him & wonder if he'd lie or be sneaky in the future. A clean break to move on seemed like less future pain.
The girl one with the girl that always goes to another guy for "advice" is the exact same for guys
3 and 5 is my ex lol..he used to give me silent treatment or basically not message for 1 or 2 days because of some shit..and yes he love his selfies, always taking pictures feeling hes the best looking thing since slice bread. Like always go to the barber every week for what? Very childish and petty like a woman, i told him few times that hes undercover gay. Thank God it didnt last long.
MJBABYPHAT lol how did he react to you telling him he's "undercover gay"?
MJBABYPHAT omg my ex used to go to the barber faithfully every week too! And he was very homophobic... made me wonder about him lol he spent more time in the mirror than I ever have! Drove me crazy and never made sense to me... he was always staring at himself...
Oh yeah he is gay ladies 😄😄😄
Oh my gosh!! Mine too!!! He never denied it, just always told me he cannot be gay because his family wouldn't accept it...ummmm, that's not a no
The thing with woman cheating up is that the guy who is in a higher position will only use her for his convenience more often then not.
Everyone has to be a ho to someone
As Les Brown would say: You got that right! And guess what? She finds herself single again, downgrading. How sad...
I lived that. A woman would almost "court" me for I seemed to be better than her boyfriend of many years. I didn't know she had a boyfriend. So when I discovered that: disgusted... Be cautious all males out there...
Nah..He sees her as neglected and in need of protection. Men don't readily take on a woman with kids just to play. Too many desperate single and childless women to toy with.
Finally someone who knows what he's talking about, the women are cheating more than the men, Women don't believe if most men are happy at home he's not looking to cheat!
This aged well
This is sooo true, but i gotta say it's those that want to cheat will do it, regardless of who they hurt because they're not thinking about anyone or anything when they cheat just themselves, I've just started watching you @DerrickJaxn and you are very inspirational...
Thank you for your insight. It's helpful to hear confirmation of things one already knows intuitively. Keep doing what you do good brother.
That selfie one is so true, lol
Nailed it!!! All money is not good money!!!
I'm a new follower of Team Jaxn and I just wanted to say how spot-on you are about so many things. I listen your videos while I'm working, as well as when I'm at home. I think many women out there need to appreciate your messages and apply your knowledge to their own situations. I for one have been in many of the situations you talk about in your videos. To hear this advice coming from a man about how men really do think is an inside clue we were living without all these years... Thank you for looking out for us women! #Team Jaxn 😉
This didnt age well LMFAOO 😭😭🤣
I totally agree with that last one....women do cheat up! i wonder why some men feel like women don't cheat simply because they don't have the opportunity to, who to cheat with etc, because that's so not the case, there is always that one guy that looks better, makes more money than the ass we sometimes choose to stay faithful to...so yes, when we are fed up, best believe it's gonna be that guy although, i'd rather leave the relationship than cheat but yes, women need love too and sometimes they just wanna feel loved even though they still in love with an ass. lol #teamjaxn
communication and honesty is key!!! but i feel like most people act like things dont really bother them....its not a big deal, or theyre too cool and pretend nothings wrong...but deep inside it IS wrong but tehy are suppressing their feelings and acting like nothings wrong....but then when they meet that person that validates what they truly feel? there u go....
Soo truu 💯💯💯💯 But Sometimes in life it's better to act the same way they acting towards you 😤
Great video! Needed to add the Narcissist person because they may not be taking selfies, but they need admiration and adoration, so always in need of constant validation. They will cheat when getting their supply from anyone who will feed them, and they usually affair down.
I hope you're getting rich off of sharing your perspective...because this is pure gold. Seriously. I prayed and prayed for clarity....and here it is. Thank you, Derrick.
Yeah the selfie one is spot on...I keep getting validation for the last situation I was in...he was textbook for that description. I have had several heterosexual and several gay men validate it. Its so hard to mentally go there so you just want to not believe it... it just disgusts me! I don't understand men living on the DL. Just be with men! #getbehindmesatan
lol this is on a hundred! I'm always turned off at a dude full of selfies, they are definitely suspect in more ways than one 👀
Not dipping into the walls. lmao! good one
Wow. Amen on the Silent Treatment Man. My ex never wanted to work through anything, not even as friends, and spent longER periods (i.e., several days) giving me the ice cold shoulder over trivial things (e.g., my being late to his house to watch a movie) to justify his cheating lifestyle in his own mind. A friend of mine caught him on the dating site where we met approaching her and when I checked the site, it read 'Online Now'. When I approached him about it, he said he just checked the site when "shittin' on the pot at work." It was 8 o'clock at night. He got off of work at 3:30. Classic. He was a man-child type. Just not ready to grow up, commit fully or manage problems in a healthy way. Just like you said, he said he never crossed the line, but he certainly blurred the boundaries! This is an enlightening video. Thanks for classifying this type!
Yea this didn’t age well 😬🤣
Number 5 is SOOO true!!! I often wondered about my ex....he was a selfie king and one time I put him out..he got a room in a motel and I saw at pic. With him and his homeboy in the room. Now I'm thinking... His homeboy didn't good put out why in the fuck was he there and how are y'all so comfortable taking a selfie together... mind you they both had on white t-shirts and khaki pants. Dress like twins..... boy stuff we choose to overlook when we think were in love...SMH
The guy who takes constant selfies...self-lust...ON POINT!!! I know a guy who posts constant selfies of himself on FB, after having cheated on his last two girlfriends with the same woman.
😂😂😂@the guy that takes a lot of selfies u know what I've always thought a grown man taking a lot of selfies is suspect so I agree with this one #teamjaxn
Bbb Jaba yeah that's creepy and unattractive
ADD YOURSELF TO THE LIST 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Spot on! Neglected and Cheated I haven’t brought it up to my sneaky silent type who gives me silent treatments then goes on binges but my ex and I talk a lot about rekindling things and marrying. As soon as he returns to this part of the world Issa wrap. He remains my placeholder until something better comes along but in my mind he’s nothing. More
Yep! I have the same thing going on right now