It's insane how each and every one of us who went through this crap have witnessed the EXACT SAME behavior. It's like these things are all running a standardized demonic soul script.
Was in a 2.5 year relationship with one. It was torture. Hot and cold. Fights over nothing. Nothings ever good enough. They are entitled brats. She actually thought she was a 10/10.
congrats on your escape! theres so many variants of them too. some would gaslight you into believing you are the narc, by giving you bread crumbs and the bare minimum. You then proceed to fight with them over "seemingly nothing" because in reality, yes you don't have proof of them committing any "crime" like cheating or stealing from you; but asking for accountability and more than the breadcrumbs looks like "fighting over nothing" and then they gaslight you into feeling like you're a brat and how nothing they do is enough (but they do nothing past saying "sorry" on the rare occasion). in the end she discarded me because I kept grilling her for not being accountable and her actions not matching her words. Can't be more thankful.
They always think they’re a 10/10 while doing the bare minimum. They’ll put mad effort into tryin to ruin you but no effort in bettering themselves or the people around them. Useless mfrs waste of time. They’ll drop you like a hot potato and pretend you’re the problem 🤦🏽♀️
@@SSJ1Igor dude this sounds exactly like what I've been going through. I ended things Friday. We haven't spoken since. Last night at 1 am she sent me some article about radical change in men by showing the love of Jesus. I'm like wtf are you even talking about.
I made a vow to myself that nobody is ever gonna do that type of shit to me ever again till the day I die. My hobbies, My daily routines, basically I come first. As long as I am at my best version everyday I do not care about the world...I'm ruthless about it to the point where I'm selfish with my 24 hours. You will be lucky for me to find you at the side of the road and greet you it doesn't matter if I knew you from my past. Thats how you protect yourself from these wild animals...
Amen same here never again they will have you change so much of yourself and they say they never ask you and make you appear crazy ex anytime I was invited out they would make it seem like I’m always going somewhere and then would say okay don’t say anything when I start going out tf is manipulation or I wouldn’t even mention being invited out just not to hear the bs but hey if I mention my side to anyone they know they would make it seem like they would never screw them I had enough and snapped and went the heck off and now I look like the crazy one it’s cool because they will never get that reaction again me and my kids are always waiting on the smear campaign the flying monkey she gonna try to rip me apart on sm I’ll hear this thru hear say why because thru out our entire time I was never their friend on sm 😅
i used to want everyone to like me. it's a fine line walking the razor's edge. can't force it . go to church to worship God , not to make friends, go on a hunt with different people . just organic stuff. like u said , if u at ur best self, it gonna be all good
@@mohamoudadan390 Yes bro you should never let satan prevail on earth. Get knowledge, experience, wisdom and also get physically strong incase satan wants to intimidate you, you can break his nose. Become God's soldier on earth so that when you die one day you gonna chill with other chosen ones in heaven sipping on cold beverages laughing....
@@justkellan that is all good for you, I'm happy to know that you have interesting hobbies that makes you your best self. The issue I have is anything involving a group of people there is always bad apples. People be jealous of others doing better than them. Say for instance church, I don't go to church anymore because there are envious and jealous people even the pastor gets jealous. Why? because I come across like I have more resources then them. But how? because I change new suits every sunday and all the women give me attention including their wives...its not my fault I'm that privileged
Was in a relationship with a covert narcissist for 9 years and it took me 8 to realize what was going on. What this dude is saying is spot on. Begging for a wedding ring from me while cheating behind my back. The whole time I was planning for our future and she was lying about me to her family and smearing my name. Everything she did to me, she told everyone its what I was doing to her. I didn't even know people like this existed. It's so fckd up! These people are soul takers and don't care. When u realize your life was a complete lie. Everything on your end was real, but nothing from them ever was.
The lies unraveling was a painful revelation, but on the other side of that coin is the divine truth. How could I possibly be upset that the devil attacked me and FAILED. Even God endured this betrayal, but so what? Destroy the witch and move on. Exodus 22:18
Yeah, it's sad she saw you as a beta male, which women don't respect.. and went to go get clapped by the alphas.. you were her resources, and they were her fun.. never put a woman first and always chose the one who chooses you..
Brother, this is so spot on for a comment. Why would you smear my name to your family? Why do you want me looking bad? It’s made me feel like I’m the crazy one. They literally push you to your breaking point and then act like we’re bad for feeling so hurt all the fucking time.
You have to know them. Then it's fine. I know my two dream girls running around. Like, I literally shake my head at them. I'm not worried about anything this clawn says because I've already been put to the test.
oh this is so true. the sad part is you feel so stupid later once you realize that statistically it's next to impossible to have 999 excuses for every time you catch them next to the cookie jar. but you believe them anyway because of the games they play to manipulate you.
@@SSJ1Igor.yes and they are always giving you clues and hints plus they are always being seen out with groups of men then afterwards they gaslight you into oblivion and trick you,nothing confirmed no confessions just more evidence
It is all unfortunately true my friends. Unless you have personally dealt with a discard from someone you are emotionally & more attached too, people will never ever understand. It is horrific deep pain, and I cannot relive that ever again. I do not wish it on anybody. The psychology war inside your head on the emotional rollercoaster, will make you want to tap out. My mind will never understand how somebody can do that to me, someone I loved so deeply. I am not perfect but the discard is unjustified. Total nightmare and it's not over yet. 9 months since ground zero.
Same here. I feel you. I know. I experienced this. So f ing painful. Disgusting how shallow and soulless they are. Dam. What a waste! Hang in there brother. We are out here and know
2 years later, I'm starting to feel pretty good. These people are doomed, literally. Moral zombies. "Like these peculiar demons who dwell in matter but in whom no light may be found."
Was in a narcissist relationship for almost a year and it was lovey dovey like it was too good to be true said she was christian went well than trials and things started to happen she kept blaming them all on me. she said she was always right and said if i wernt to change she would leave find someone better. She said that a dozen times than. she than proceeds to add dudes on snap that i don’t like i confront her she starts to rage even more things happening from cheating to going to other dudes house and a lot more things that just were flipped back onto me on what i did to her and the things she did was okay last 3 months of the relationship were hell but now been about a month and slowly healing from jt your videos have most definitely gave me a bunch of clarification and knowing that it really wasn’t my fault it’s the demons gave me so much relief thank you terry.
All women are the same. Gobble gobble gobble. Once they see something you have that they want again, you'll be lined up like Terry was for your chance again. Pointless circular talk. The funny part is Terry won't get the female awarded validation he is looking for now that they know he has nothing lined up and has been brought down to 0 and put in a negative.
It is insane bro! I commend you for sharing your story my friend it is so wild how your story is legitimately the same as mine for the most part. Was in a 10 month relationship and yup. In the beginning so lovey dovey like everything is amazing, now all of a sudden there are problems in the relationship and they all get blamed on you. You realize that it does not matter the topic, the scenario, who brought up what, they always find a way to flip every scenario onto you and make themselves be the victim.
yeah at the end of us dating she had a shirtless dude on her background i saw it walked off i got mad and she raged and filipped out on me for what i did in the past by lieing she also went over to another dudes house. i was basically the puppy dog when she didn’t have anyone she would love bomb me and than leave for someone else
A demon pretending to be a Christian - nice! I’ve seen it all man. The Jezebel demon has no soul so of course it was going to gain new supply from snapchat. The Jezebel demon gets bored quickly, it’s what they do. All you can do is heal and become a better version of you!
The part about people not understanding who haven’t been through it. I could never have imagined what this is like before experiencing it, even if someone had explained every small thing that happened. You just don’t understand what it does to you mentally, psychically, spiritually. The level of deception feels like something out of a film. I knew that there were bad people, I just didn’t know bad people could masquerade for so long and then leach off your soul and then discard you in the coldest way, with their cold black dead eyes staring at you whilst they list off everything they hate about you (which is normally projection anyway) it’s chilling. It’s funny because mine described my behaviour as ‘disturbing’ which was perfect projection. This whole thing has been so disturbing
Recovery from a narcissistic relationship is one of the hardest things that we deal with in this life. It's an indescribable feeling of deep inner suffering, furthermore being misunderstood and judged by those who don't understand what has happened, the aftermath of hell and the slow process of healing.
They're all narcs. Yes, we get put in the woodchipper. Hear me out, this Terry is awful. All women are narcs, they play the role of overt or covert based on your personality type and extroverison/introversion. They only know to mirror. However, if she did this right with Terry, he would give his life up and everything he's got for it. And that, "ironically", is the price. Her price. It is HER game. This clawn thinks he has a game. He's very damaged. But yeah, I'm healing now. Ran the course of her game, discovered the #1 reality theory. It's her that allows you to drop or hold tears. It's her that gets you to do what she wants, and if not, she will make Terry hold his tears for a lifetime. He is describing his mother over and over. She got him and his dad that day when she discarded him.
This was the hardest breakup I’ve ever had. I didn’t know who I was by the end of it. Had 0 confidence left. Was confused. Lived in brain fog for 4 months. I’m on about month 9 and finally starting to come back down to earth. Looking back, that shit was pure evil. My brain still has cognitive dissonance between the love bombing, sweet, near perfect acting lady in the beginning, compared to the devil at the end. WTF Terry keep doing God’s work. Thank you for the videos brother, they have helped many. The world needs more genuine, straight shooting people like you.
This man explains this to a scary detail it's almost like they are all the same demon same behavior it's crazy when you see it..... I wish I knew everything he explained earlier would of saved me years of everything he described. He's saving lives man listen.
They are the same. Even the male narcissists. My cousin is a woman and she experienced a male, I experienced a female. Our stories are so similar. It really is a personality disorder these people have.
This is something that's hard to believe unless you've experienced that stuff yourself. 3 years ago I would laugh at anyone telling my my wife is narcissistic, manipulative, toxic, cheating creature. Now that I know the truth and I, together my with private investigators, caught her red-handed in the act of cheating on me WITH A 15 Y.O. MINOR (her own student) she started to claim that the's been a victim of my abuse for over 8 years. She's doing anything to smear me. And she collected a group of obedient, deranged flying monkeys that help her with smearing me. Unbelievable.
He is 100% right. I was married to one for 10 years. Listen to him and learn about how to recognize these people. They will ruin your life at every turn.
They will do good things so that they don't get blamed later on. Its dirty trick getting you to feel sorry for them, its mind control. Great video Terry
I made the mistake of marrying a covert narcissist. The mask came off on the honeymoon. She couldn’t have been sweeter, more feminine or submissive, etc and that all changed as soon as her name did. I got financially destroyed in the divorce. Eight years later and I’m still trying to recover
It’s crazy to me how what was said in this video triggered me with the flashbacks and anger like I was there again. Tells you how real this really is. The whole nine yards. Everything.
I enjoy this channel. You speak from a place of experience with a female narcissist, but as a woman, the traits, characteristics, and antics you talk about are the same ones I experienced with a man.
Agreed. I have met some sick people. This is by far the sickest I've met in my lifetime. It's a bait and switch perfection. They are so sick in how they slowly start turning the screw. Total head game. I've never felt so betrayed. You hand them your heart and everything that's vulnerable. I can't believe I fell for the victim, victim, victim she claimed to be. She is so full of shit. Smoke and mirrors. I pray daily to wash me of this anger. It's using a person to their fullest extent. Not just your time,money, emotionally, physically and most disgusting heart and spirit.
99 percent of sweet talkers are covert narcissists. Be cautious of them. See the actions and not the words. Genuine people don't sugar-coat things. They let their actions do all the talking.
💯 the truth. Shit happened exactly to me. She played me for almost 4 years. What a painful and wasteful experience. They don’t love only use. The only care about themselves
Please guys give me words of encouragement!! I exposed my narc wife of over 20 yearsand regretted it when my daughter found out. I didnt think about the pain i caused my children. My wife on the other hand doesn't give two shits about the pain and hurt she is causing all of us. I'm currently in the process I'm getting a bigger place where I can take my kids with me. Pray for me that this woman will let us be since she has no desire to care for our kids.
It's better that you exposed her first instead of keeping things secret from your daughter because at some point your narc wife will start creating lies on you to your daughter at least now you have the advantage and your daughter considers you the genuine one hopefully. Good luck!
If given the opportunity, expose these people. She would (and probably will try) ruin your image to your kids. It’s best they know who she really is even if it hurts.
Bless You. What If You Make It. Short story: I had the exact same thought. What If I Would Make It. I went to write the Super Scolar Exam. I Won 1st. Out Of Like 300 kids(my age) District Level. As A Child All I Thought Is What If I Make It. The Entire Morning, All I did Is Change The Thought From If Not to What If.
Good job Terry, I'll vouch for this! This is real and you don’t realize what happened until you find the courage to free yourself, we need more people speaking out for the victims.
He opened my eyes to evil. It is not just a word. I cannot unsee what I saw and felt by this entity disguised as a man. They walk amongst us! You are so wise for your age Mr.
I just kind of broke down crying... it just really hit me. All these videos, NPD in the DSM5, all the reading... I had to go to therapy bro. I was broken... empty. Seeing all these videos and reading, they are written in textbooks; WORD for WORD. My life was almost destroyed by a creature I can't explain. I look in reflection, in the mirror... I don't even know what happened. I just thank God I was able to pull away, maybe I can rebuild my life now. How do they get away with such evil?
It took years to find out what was going on,, the pretending to be my friend but all the while there was the drama, schemes ,,flippant comments waiting for a reaction just to get a rise, then say" oh I'm just jokin, it had become overly obvious and you finally see right through. How they can be so sincere but not mean a thing they say. So sick. I cant.
I am 68. Man I wish I knew about this sickness & dysfunction mind numbing monsters when I was younger. Ive been hip to what narcissism is and the damage caused as a result of for a few years now. I appreciate the things you have said your intensity behind it and conviction it’s all true man. It’s all true every bit of it. Like I said, I wish I was here to it when I was younger, but it’s OK down here in Idaho man keep up the good work.
My narc ex left me so drained. I was so tired, didn’t eat, didn’t sleep and walked like a zombie questioning my existence on this earth. But I am not gonna let him keep destroying me like that. I am on a healing journey, but need to move to another place to have a new beginning.
I thought I could make it work with her. No matter how hard I tried to be patient and to avoid the unnecessary arguments with her, at times she just made it impossible. To the point where I had to check her on her disrespect the moment she would do it again. And I told her to watch that disrespect after the first two times we broke up. I'm actually shocked about hearing other people having experienced this as well. The unnecessary arguments she would always start that never needed to happen. In the heat of our last fight she actually called me a narcissist. I calmly told her, "You and I both know that you're the narcissist in this relationship."
brainwash is the correct word, i have seen it with my own eyes, experienced it and also seen it being done... i escaped just because the narcissist found 2 or 3 richer persons and discarded me, only then could I see it, n no one believed me for over 7/8;years until all the 3 richer guys got entangled financially almost to ruin
It still confuses me how a person could pretend to be someone and love me but at the same time do disloyal acts with their mother, their girl and guy friends and date openly without having the guts to tell me anything unless I investigate or accidentally stumble upon it. i felt like both vital in her life but at the same time an accessory. DISHONEST. only honest when guilty, would have crocodile tears. Immature. obsessed with me, not in love but pretended to be in love no matter how much I questioned it and shone a light on it. i was confused way too often, like how do you love me yet be like this, how can you expect me, (she requested me) to keep you in control 24/7 so she doesn't make mistakes and wrongdoings whilst anting attention all the time, I would be tied to her schedule and had to compromise my own so fucking often because I just loved her but it was taking a toll on my health and my relations with life, like focusing on my own errands, hobbies, uni education, working towards career and other people around. I was trying to regulate my stress so often I'd become the stress man super hero. It was as if i'm a babysitter or her father or something. her relations with her father was terrible unfortunately, he was fucked up, very likely a narcissist, a savage.
As a 53 yo wife/mother I’m currently living this nightmare. I feel so broken & have lost myself. My 25 yo daughter doesn’t understand. She is in such denial. Never thought I would be dealing w/this after 30 yrs of marriage. Two yrs ago his mask slipped terribly & has been demonic. It’s scary. What really stinks is not everyone believes me when I tell them he’s abusive. Pls pray for me & a way out! 🙏
You are so right bro. I’m an empath too. Once you have been through it we can see right through them. Almost all the women in the west are turning this way. Luckily we haven’t married one yet.
I understand you 100% and I know you don't have a script... Is literally like that, that's really scare !!! Thank you for the videos and give clarity of the matter of narcissism 🙏✨
Thanks for speaking about these Sick Narcissist Parasite people. I was dupped by a Covert Narc myself. I really don't feel bad though, she should have been on TV with there acting. Even professional therapist say they are hard to figure out. Im lucky I was in a long distance relationship with one for 5years, so I wasn't around her everyday, I didn't lose myself thank God. She left me for another guy and thought I was gonna chase her for her ego boost, but I didn't. I don't know why they don't start teaching even just a couple hours in school?
Was in a 9-year relationship with one. Includes 8 years of marriage. Didn't know what hit me until the ashes of the relationship settled. Bait & switch, hoovering, gaslighting, discard....textbook case. TJJ speaks the truth. It's been a decade since things went all to h3ll, and 4 years after said narc passed away. I'm free of this person, but the damage has been done. Godspeed everyone.
I love you, man and I really appreciate your time and effort putting this content out. It’s sadly only for those who have already been abused, but hopefully random people will see it and try to understand it and use it to help them keep from getting too badly abused, or maybe even avoid it all together but again it’s really only something you could truly appreciate and fully understand. Having once been entangled with these types
Mine took me to church every Saturday night when I was the most depressed I had ever been in my life! Just go to the bar if you are going to be a snake!
I'm currently the most depressed I've ever been in my life, and lonely AF, and about to do the saturday night church thing. I really hope I meet a truly good woman. My last GF broke my heart horribly and is trying to keep the line to me open to come back to later In life, even tho she wants nothing to do with me right now.
She's only got her eye on the thing that she sees and wants from you, so, that's what her act is for. Once you're in a relationship, her mask will be off because she got commitment which means everything. She can do anything to you.
I wish we could all post pictures of our narc exes so we can protect each other lol. Mine discarded me for a 60 year old married man (we are in our mid 30’s) but once that train wreck ends then she can find some innocent man who thinks he found gold. I just wish men could protect each other from these demons. We are lucky in a way guys. We have the ability to watch out for this now. We’ve been through hell. We’ve gained wisdom. Always remember they are TRASH. I mean mine used to sleep with her cousin. Always see them for who they are.
You must be an introverted alpha male personality type. It was a woman who played the role of "covert" to mime you, like they do to all men. However, we tend to be more intelligent and they gobble us up as they light up. There's really no winning. Look how scared this guy is to crack a smile. He's very damaged.
I understand you I just move back from escaping narc husband I have a baby and my narc mom told everyone she will help us and she started throwing furniture and attacking my dad telling him to not help us anymore! What the fck?? She is screaming and scaring my baby!!! She telling him not to help me or my son!! She telling me to start paying them to babysit them!! What other explanation but this is a demon!! My mother tricked me and everyone once we got under her roof it’s a hell and she’s doing this to my son!! I am remaining calm only because of my son. She knows we escaped abuse and she’s causing a scary environment.. Please pray for my son Your videos and other videos are the only way I don’t feel alone You don’t know unless you been through!!! I wish and pray to meet a man like you one day
I'm pretty sure my ex-girlfriend was a narcissist. She constantly demanded my attention and got angry when I left her to hang out with guy friends or to meet people. She would even follow me around and spy on me from a distance. it was exhausting dealing with all of it. So I don't know if that's a narcissist, a sociopath, or just a crazy girl but its definitely not a good situation.
yep went through that a few years ago. it sill confuses me how a person could pretend to be someone and love me but at the same time do disloyal acts with their mother, their girl and guy friends and date openly without having the guts to tell me anything unless I investigate or accidentally stumble upon it. i felt like both vital in her life but at the same time an accessory. DISHONEST. only honest when guilty, would have crocodile tears. Immature. obsessed with me, not in love but pretended to be in love no matter how much I questioned it and shone a light on it. i was confused way too often, like how do you love me yet be like this, how can you expect me to keep you in control 24/7 and wanting attention all the time as if i'm a babysitter or her father or something. her relations with her father was terrible unfortunately, he was fucked up, very likely a narcissist, a savage.
Hahaha didn't fool me. I ran the course of their game and hemmed it up for my one opportunity. I have no clue what you guys did with yours lol. But I put the work in. Discovered the #1 reality theory and the girl sees a future with me, so, she let me drop three empty pools worth of my joyous tears.
I hope one day that you can experience a love that is not from a narcissistic woman if you haven’t already….I hope to learn from this video but am grateful to-that I have balanced experiences enough to have healthy perspectives with women….nonetheless it’s important to learn discernment so that you don’t date a woman or man with covert narcissism
The men do it just as much if not more. Been there, done that. I'm a seasoned vet. They come in all shapes and sizes, family, friends, romantic partners.....we're all free game in this game of life.
No way. I think a female covert narcissist is the worst. They can play victim. People always think women are the victims. They can cause so much harm and get away with it.
3 rd time is a charm they say. So make sure your teaching the younger generation coming up under you correctly. One day soon. We all will be accountable to what we said and did in this life. Like starting with that hoodie I mean keep it real. If you want answers i"d go straight to the source.
I Get validation all the time from GangStalkers and Narcs, you want to pretend like you are indifferent but you know you effing love that parasitism!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Matthew 18:18 “Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” King James Version (KJV)
It's insane how each and every one of us who went through this crap have witnessed the EXACT SAME behavior. It's like these things are all running a standardized demonic soul script.
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial familiar spirit go look it up in the bible!
It is truly, unabashedly, as fantastical as it sounds: Demonic possession.
Was in a 2.5 year relationship with one. It was torture. Hot and cold. Fights over nothing. Nothings ever good enough. They are entitled brats. She actually thought she was a 10/10.
Same and I have a daughter with mines 💔
congrats on your escape! theres so many variants of them too. some would gaslight you into believing you are the narc, by giving you bread crumbs and the bare minimum. You then proceed to fight with them over "seemingly nothing" because in reality, yes you don't have proof of them committing any "crime" like cheating or stealing from you; but asking for accountability and more than the breadcrumbs looks like "fighting over nothing" and then they gaslight you into feeling like you're a brat and how nothing they do is enough (but they do nothing past saying "sorry" on the rare occasion). in the end she discarded me because I kept grilling her for not being accountable and her actions not matching her words. Can't be more thankful.
Literally, thank God she's gone. @@SSJ1Igor
They always think they’re a 10/10 while doing the bare minimum. They’ll put mad effort into tryin to ruin you but no effort in bettering themselves or the people around them. Useless mfrs waste of time. They’ll drop you like a hot potato and pretend you’re the problem 🤦🏽♀️
@@SSJ1Igor dude this sounds exactly like what I've been going through. I ended things Friday. We haven't spoken since. Last night at 1 am she sent me some article about radical change in men by showing the love of Jesus.
I'm like wtf are you even talking about.
I made a vow to myself that nobody is ever gonna do that type of shit to me ever again till the day I die. My hobbies, My daily routines, basically I come first. As long as I am at my best version everyday I do not care about the world...I'm ruthless about it to the point where I'm selfish with my 24 hours. You will be lucky for me to find you at the side of the road and greet you it doesn't matter if I knew you from my past. Thats how you protect yourself from these wild animals...
Amen same here never again they will have you change so much of yourself and they say they never ask you and make you appear crazy ex anytime I was invited out they would make it seem like I’m always going somewhere and then would say okay don’t say anything when I start going out tf is manipulation or I wouldn’t even mention being invited out just not to hear the bs but hey if I mention my side to anyone they know they would make it seem like they would never screw them I had enough and snapped and went the heck off and now I look like the crazy one it’s cool because they will never get that reaction again me and my kids are always waiting on the smear campaign the flying monkey she gonna try to rip me apart on sm I’ll hear this thru hear say why because thru out our entire time I was never their friend on sm 😅
100% Real.talk !!!!!
i used to want everyone to like me. it's a fine line walking the razor's edge. can't force it . go to church to worship God , not to make friends, go on a hunt with different people . just organic stuff. like u said , if u at ur best self, it gonna be all good
@@mohamoudadan390 Yes bro you should never let satan prevail on earth. Get knowledge, experience, wisdom and also get physically strong incase satan wants to intimidate you, you can break his nose. Become God's soldier on earth so that when you die one day you gonna chill with other chosen ones in heaven sipping on cold beverages laughing....
@@justkellan that is all good for you, I'm happy to know that you have interesting hobbies that makes you your best self. The issue I have is anything involving a group of people there is always bad apples. People be jealous of others doing better than them. Say for instance church, I don't go to church anymore because there are envious and jealous people even the pastor gets jealous. Why? because I come across like I have more resources then them. But how? because I change new suits every sunday and all the women give me attention including their wives...its not my fault I'm that privileged
Was in a relationship with a covert narcissist for 9 years and it took me 8 to realize what was going on. What this dude is saying is spot on. Begging for a wedding ring from me while cheating behind my back. The whole time I was planning for our future and she was lying about me to her family and smearing my name. Everything she did to me, she told everyone its what I was doing to her. I didn't even know people like this existed. It's so fckd up! These people are soul takers and don't care. When u realize your life was a complete lie. Everything on your end was real, but nothing from them ever was.
The lies unraveling was a painful revelation, but on the other side of that coin is the divine truth.
How could I possibly be upset that the devil attacked me and FAILED.
Even God endured this betrayal, but so what? Destroy the witch and move on.
Exodus 22:18
@hyperteleXii Thank you. I really needed to hear that.
Yeah, it's sad she saw you as a beta male, which women don't respect.. and went to go get clapped by the alphas.. you were her resources, and they were her fun.. never put a woman first and always chose the one who chooses you..
Brother, this is so spot on for a comment. Why would you smear my name to your family? Why do you want me looking bad? It’s made me feel like I’m the crazy one. They literally push you to your breaking point and then act like we’re bad for feeling so hurt all the fucking time.
The scary thing is they will never admit to anything! Leaves you with a permanent mystery!
You have to know them. Then it's fine. I know my two dream girls running around. Like, I literally shake my head at them. I'm not worried about anything this clawn says because I've already been put to the test.
No mystery here. Their actions are your closure.
oh this is so true. the sad part is you feel so stupid later once you realize that statistically it's next to impossible to have 999 excuses for every time you catch them next to the cookie jar. but you believe them anyway because of the games they play to manipulate you.
@@SSJ1Igor.yes and they are always giving you clues and hints plus they are always being seen out with groups of men then afterwards they gaslight you into oblivion and trick you,nothing confirmed no confessions just more evidence
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial their actions are their own disclosure they cheat and leave
It is all unfortunately true my friends. Unless you have personally dealt with a discard from someone you are emotionally & more attached too, people will never ever understand. It is horrific deep pain, and I cannot relive that ever again. I do not wish it on anybody. The psychology war inside your head on the emotional rollercoaster, will make you want to tap out. My mind will never understand how somebody can do that to me, someone I loved so deeply. I am not perfect but the discard is unjustified. Total nightmare and it's not over yet. 9 months since ground zero.
Same here. I feel you. I know. I experienced this. So f ing painful. Disgusting how shallow and soulless they are. Dam. What a waste! Hang in there brother. We are out here and know
2 years later, I'm starting to feel pretty good. These people are doomed, literally. Moral zombies. "Like these peculiar demons who dwell in matter but in whom no light may be found."
You're getting much better at explaining the narcissist.
it sounded like a spaceship landed in your kitchen
Narcissists LOVE to teach on narcissism.
Was in a narcissist relationship for almost a year and it was lovey dovey like it was too good to be true said she was christian went well than trials and things started to happen she kept blaming them all on me. she said she was always right and said if i wernt to change she would leave find someone better. She said that a dozen times than. she than proceeds to add dudes on snap that i don’t like i confront her she starts to rage even more things happening from cheating to going to other dudes house and a lot more things that just were flipped back onto me on what i did to her and the things she did was okay last 3 months of the relationship were hell but now been about a month and slowly healing from jt your videos have most definitely gave me a bunch of clarification and knowing that it really wasn’t my fault it’s the demons gave me so much relief thank you terry.
All women are the same. Gobble gobble gobble. Once they see something you have that they want again, you'll be lined up like Terry was for your chance again. Pointless circular talk. The funny part is Terry won't get the female awarded validation he is looking for now that they know he has nothing lined up and has been brought down to 0 and put in a negative.
It is insane bro! I commend you for sharing your story my friend it is so wild how your story is legitimately the same as mine for the most part. Was in a 10 month relationship and yup. In the beginning so lovey dovey like everything is amazing, now all of a sudden there are problems in the relationship and they all get blamed on you. You realize that it does not matter the topic, the scenario, who brought up what, they always find a way to flip every scenario onto you and make themselves be the victim.
yeah at the end of us dating she had a shirtless dude on her background i saw it walked off i got mad and she raged and filipped out on me for what i did in the past by lieing she also went over to another dudes house. i was basically the puppy dog when she didn’t have anyone she would love bomb me and than leave for someone else
A demon pretending to be a Christian - nice! I’ve seen it all man. The Jezebel demon has no soul so of course it was going to gain new supply from snapchat. The Jezebel demon gets bored quickly, it’s what they do. All you can do is heal and become a better version of you!
Same same. These people are soulless and so disturbed. They nearly destroy us! Screw then. Done
The part about people not understanding who haven’t been through it. I could never have imagined what this is like before experiencing it, even if someone had explained every small thing that happened. You just don’t understand what it does to you mentally, psychically, spiritually. The level of deception feels like something out of a film. I knew that there were bad people, I just didn’t know bad people could masquerade for so long and then leach off your soul and then discard you in the coldest way, with their cold black dead eyes staring at you whilst they list off everything they hate about you (which is normally projection anyway) it’s chilling. It’s funny because mine described my behaviour as ‘disturbing’ which was perfect projection. This whole thing has been so disturbing
But now you know the truth. Imagine living in this world not knowing. Plan accordingly. Good always triumphs.
Recovery from a narcissistic relationship is one of the hardest things that we deal with in this life. It's an indescribable feeling of deep inner suffering, furthermore being misunderstood and judged by those who don't understand what has happened, the aftermath of hell and the slow process of healing.
They're all narcs. Yes, we get put in the woodchipper. Hear me out, this Terry is awful. All women are narcs, they play the role of overt or covert based on your personality type and extroverison/introversion. They only know to mirror. However, if she did this right with Terry, he would give his life up and everything he's got for it. And that, "ironically", is the price. Her price. It is HER game. This clawn thinks he has a game. He's very damaged. But yeah, I'm healing now. Ran the course of her game, discovered the #1 reality theory. It's her that allows you to drop or hold tears. It's her that gets you to do what she wants, and if not, she will make Terry hold his tears for a lifetime. He is describing his mother over and over. She got him and his dad that day when she discarded him.
Wut
This was the hardest breakup I’ve ever had. I didn’t know who I was by the end of it. Had 0 confidence left. Was confused. Lived in brain fog for 4 months. I’m on about month 9 and finally starting to come back down to earth. Looking back, that shit was pure evil.
My brain still has cognitive dissonance between the love bombing, sweet, near perfect acting lady in the beginning, compared to the devil at the end. WTF
Terry keep doing God’s work. Thank you for the videos brother, they have helped many. The world needs more genuine, straight shooting people like you.
My ex of 9 years discarded me 9 months ago on March 10th 2024. Worst experience ever.
She was the devil from the start. I was blind, now I can see.
@@David-nu6kwFeb 11, 2024. 3 children, 11 years. May God cover and protect you in this new chapter, in Jesus name.
Spot on video , was the worst thing to have ever met her in first place It's difficult for an empath to work through this
A clever empath finds God, and prevails.
This man explains this to a scary detail it's almost like they are all the same demon same behavior it's crazy when you see it..... I wish I knew everything he explained earlier would of saved me years of everything he described. He's saving lives man listen.
They are the same. Even the male narcissists. My cousin is a woman and she experienced a male, I experienced a female. Our stories are so similar. It really is a personality disorder these people have.
They're all puppets drawing from the same demonic spirit.
Coverts are the worst of the worst, while presenting themselves as the pillars of society and your best friend.
If we didnt go through it we would not be here and wouldn't understand half of it
God went through it
This is something that's hard to believe unless you've experienced that stuff yourself.
3 years ago I would laugh at anyone telling my my wife is narcissistic, manipulative, toxic, cheating creature.
Now that I know the truth and I, together my with private investigators, caught her red-handed in the act of cheating on me WITH A 15 Y.O. MINOR (her own student) she started to claim that the's been a victim of my abuse for over 8 years. She's doing anything to smear me. And she collected a group of obedient, deranged flying monkeys that help her with smearing me.
Unbelievable.
Keep laughing.
I wonder how many male friends you betrayed laughing, really, not for 3 years, but, your whole life. You clawn. Keep laughing.
He is 100% right. I was married to one for 10 years. Listen to him and learn about how to recognize these people. They will ruin your life at every turn.
Once you know these things you’re safe from the narcissist
Been through it twice. Came out the other side.
They will do good things so that they don't get blamed later on. Its dirty trick getting you to feel sorry for them, its mind control. Great video Terry
It's terrible that beeing in this kind of relationship changes you for ever.I was with my narsisist 7 years.
It is terrible
I made the mistake of marrying a covert narcissist. The mask came off on the honeymoon. She couldn’t have been sweeter, more feminine or submissive, etc and that all changed as soon as her name did. I got financially destroyed in the divorce. Eight years later and I’m still trying to recover
It’s crazy to me how what was said in this video triggered me with the flashbacks and anger like I was there again. Tells you how real this really is. The whole nine yards. Everything.
I enjoy this channel. You speak from a place of experience with a female narcissist, but as a woman, the traits, characteristics, and antics you talk about are the same ones I experienced with a man.
ppl either end up dead or going to jail because of these folks
Homeless. You see them outside with a can.
@dorianlawson6791 big facts too!
Scary but true
This is real and you don’t realize what happened until you find the courage to free yourself
I realized what had been happening the whole time after surviving an illnes that almost cost me my life. It is very real and it is not pleasant.
@@antonkomel9337 Facts, these ppl will go above & beyond to kill you if you are a true profit of christ sake!
Agreed. I have met some sick people. This is by far the sickest I've met in my lifetime. It's a bait and switch perfection. They are so sick in how they slowly start turning the screw. Total head game. I've never felt so betrayed. You hand them your heart and everything that's vulnerable. I can't believe I fell for the victim, victim, victim she claimed to be. She is so full of shit. Smoke and mirrors. I pray daily to wash me of this anger. It's using a person to their fullest extent. Not just your time,money, emotionally, physically and most disgusting heart and spirit.
99 percent of sweet talkers are covert narcissists. Be cautious of them. See the actions and not the words.
Genuine people don't sugar-coat things. They let their actions do all the talking.
💯 the truth. Shit happened exactly to me. She played me for almost 4 years. What a painful and wasteful experience. They don’t love only use. The only care about themselves
Please guys give me words of encouragement!! I exposed my narc wife of over 20 yearsand regretted it when my daughter found out. I didnt think about the pain i caused my children. My wife on the other hand doesn't give two shits about the pain and hurt she is causing all of us. I'm currently in the process I'm getting a bigger place where I can take my kids with me. Pray for me that this woman will let us be since she has no desire to care for our kids.
It's better that you exposed her first instead of keeping things secret from your daughter because at some point your narc wife will start creating lies on you to your daughter at least now you have the advantage and your daughter considers you the genuine one hopefully. Good luck!
If given the opportunity, expose these people. She would (and probably will try) ruin your image to your kids. It’s best they know who she really is even if it hurts.
Bless You.
What If You Make It.
Short story:
I had the exact same thought.
What If I Would Make It.
I went to write the
Super Scolar Exam.
I Won 1st.
Out Of Like 300 kids(my age)
District Level.
As A Child
All I Thought Is
What If I Make It.
The Entire Morning,
All I did Is
Change The Thought
From If Not to What If.
@m4w5 yes my older kids know the truth and are also damaged from her. The narc is losing control and we will heal. Thank you
Your children may have inherited their traits. It's very important they know how to cope, an example set by you; otherwise mistakes will be repeated.
Good job Terry, I'll vouch for this! This is real and you don’t realize what happened until you find the courage to free yourself, we need more people speaking out for the victims.
He opened my eyes to evil. It is not just a word. I cannot unsee what I saw and felt by this entity disguised as a man. They walk amongst us! You are so wise for your age Mr.
You saved me from a covert narcissist thank you Terry you the best ever God bless 💖
Man you explain so clearly & precise on Narcissits amazing! ❤
I just kind of broke down crying... it just really hit me. All these videos, NPD in the DSM5, all the reading... I had to go to therapy bro. I was broken... empty. Seeing all these videos and reading, they are written in textbooks; WORD for WORD. My life was almost destroyed by a creature I can't explain. I look in reflection, in the mirror... I don't even know what happened. I just thank God I was able to pull away, maybe I can rebuild my life now. How do they get away with such evil?
.These people are dangerous, they don't mean you well.
It took years to find out what was going on,, the pretending to be my friend but all the while there was the drama, schemes ,,flippant comments waiting for a reaction just to get a rise, then say" oh I'm just jokin, it had become overly obvious and you finally see right through. How they can be so sincere but not mean a thing they say. So sick. I cant.
thumbs up¡¡¡¡ You said it right, Terry. Greetings from Mexico.
I am 68. Man I wish I knew about this sickness & dysfunction mind numbing monsters when I was younger. Ive been hip to what narcissism is and the damage caused as a result of for a few years now. I appreciate the things you have said your intensity behind it and conviction it’s all true man. It’s all true every bit of it. Like I said, I wish I was here to it when I was younger, but it’s OK down here in Idaho man keep up the good work.
My narc ex left me so drained. I was so tired, didn’t eat, didn’t sleep and walked like a zombie questioning my existence on this earth. But I am not gonna let him keep destroying me like that. I am on a healing journey, but need to move to another place to have a new beginning.
I thought I could make it work with her. No matter how hard I tried to be patient and to avoid the unnecessary arguments with her, at times she just made it impossible.
To the point where I had to check her on her disrespect the moment she would do it again. And I told her to watch that disrespect after the first two times we broke up. I'm actually shocked about hearing other people having experienced this as well. The
unnecessary arguments she would always start that never needed to happen. In the heat of our last fight she actually called me a narcissist. I calmly told her, "You and I both know that you're the narcissist in this relationship."
brainwash is the correct word, i have seen it with my own eyes, experienced it and also seen it being done... i escaped just because the narcissist found 2 or 3 richer persons and discarded me, only then could I see it, n no one believed me for over 7/8;years until all the 3 richer guys got entangled financially almost to ruin
When a person shows you who they really are ? Believe them. They can never be satisfied
It still confuses me how a person could pretend to be someone and love me but at the same time do disloyal acts with their mother, their girl and guy friends and date openly without having the guts to tell me anything unless I investigate or accidentally stumble upon it. i felt like both vital in her life but at the same time an accessory. DISHONEST. only honest when guilty, would have crocodile tears. Immature. obsessed with me, not in love but pretended to be in love no matter how much I questioned it and shone a light on it. i was confused way too often, like how do you love me yet be like this, how can you expect me, (she requested me) to keep you in control 24/7 so she doesn't make mistakes and wrongdoings whilst anting attention all the time,
I would be tied to her schedule and had to compromise my own so fucking often because I just loved her but it was taking a toll on my health and my relations with life, like focusing on my own errands, hobbies, uni education, working towards career and other people around. I was trying to regulate my stress so often I'd become the stress man super hero. It was as if i'm a babysitter or her father or something. her relations with her father was terrible unfortunately, he was fucked up, very likely a narcissist, a savage.
Oh sheeet Terry Joel on a whole nother level of truth right now. 🔥💪👑
Oh man, spot ON!
As a 53 yo wife/mother I’m currently living this nightmare. I feel so broken & have lost myself. My 25 yo daughter doesn’t understand. She is in such denial. Never thought I would be dealing w/this after 30 yrs of marriage. Two yrs ago his mask slipped terribly & has been demonic. It’s scary. What really stinks is not everyone believes me when I tell them he’s abusive. Pls pray for me & a way out! 🙏
You are so right bro. I’m an empath too. Once you have been through it we can see right through them. Almost all the women in the west are turning this way. Luckily we haven’t married one yet.
I understand you 100% and I know you don't have a script... Is literally like that, that's really scare !!! Thank you for the videos and give clarity of the matter of narcissism 🙏✨
Everybody plays the fool. Getting out of a situation like this is like destroying a part of yourself, but it must be done.
Yeah my narcissist ironically always said he will forever protect me from evil people😅
so true the MORE U do for them the worse they treat U
Thanks for speaking about these Sick Narcissist Parasite people. I was dupped by a Covert Narc myself. I really don't feel bad though, she should have been on TV with there acting. Even professional therapist say they are hard to figure out. Im lucky I was in a long distance relationship with one for 5years, so I wasn't around her everyday, I didn't lose myself thank God. She left me for another guy and thought I was gonna chase her for her ego boost, but I didn't. I don't know why they don't start teaching even just a couple hours in school?
It's been over 3 yrs. He uses ppl, sending gifts,, burrning his bridges with everyone else and telling them I'm coming back.😂😂
I got addicted to alcohol , and was in high debt..which made the situation it worst .... And lost self images and self respect
Was in a 9-year relationship with one. Includes 8 years of marriage. Didn't know what hit me until the ashes of the relationship settled. Bait & switch, hoovering, gaslighting, discard....textbook case. TJJ speaks the truth. It's been a decade since things went all to h3ll, and 4 years after said narc passed away. I'm free of this person, but the damage has been done. Godspeed everyone.
Dude that is definitely sick!
I love you, man and I really appreciate your time and effort putting this content out. It’s sadly only for those who have already been abused, but hopefully random people will see it and try to understand it and use it to help them keep from getting too badly abused, or maybe even avoid it all together but again it’s really only something you could truly appreciate and fully understand. Having once been entangled with these types
We're all gonna make it brahs 👍
Yeah, just keep repeating it as you tremble and get taken out without a second thought by one of our future fine ladies. We have no choice.
This is also applicable to friends as well, imo at least.
So true...i saw it
My friends took her side haha
Mine took me to church every Saturday night when I was the most depressed I had ever been in my life! Just go to the bar if you are going to be a snake!
I'm currently the most depressed I've ever been in my life, and lonely AF, and about to do the saturday night church thing. I really hope I meet a truly good woman. My last GF broke my heart horribly and is trying to keep the line to me open to come back to later In life, even tho she wants nothing to do with me right now.
She's only got her eye on the thing that she sees and wants from you, so, that's what her act is for. Once you're in a relationship, her mask will be off because she got commitment which means everything. She can do anything to you.
What is wrong with going to church? I am confused.
@ nothing. Just when you are a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Don’t pretend to be holy and then gaslight everyone else in your life when you are evil.
@@blakefuechtmann nobody said there was anything wrong with going to church, at least I didn't mean it that way.
I wish we could all post pictures of our narc exes so we can protect each other lol. Mine discarded me for a 60 year old married man (we are in our mid 30’s) but once that train wreck ends then she can find some innocent man who thinks he found gold. I just wish men could protect each other from these demons. We are lucky in a way guys. We have the ability to watch out for this now. We’ve been through hell. We’ve gained wisdom. Always remember they are TRASH. I mean mine used to sleep with her cousin. Always see them for who they are.
Narcissistic parent is the worst... you don't have safe zone in your life... you need to lock the door and regulate yourself
@@piotrk29 man especially church ppl my mom was possess by demons at her previous church now she in a proper one now!
You’re best video yet! Hit the nail on the head brother. Thank you!
I've dated at least 2. I can spot them instantly now.
You must be an introverted alpha male personality type. It was a woman who played the role of "covert" to mime you, like they do to all men. However, we tend to be more intelligent and they gobble us up as they light up. There's really no winning. Look how scared this guy is to crack a smile. He's very damaged.
All women are the same.
owwww debby did me dirty
When they think emotions and empathy are the same things🙄
They're like a drug. Just like drugs, they're only amazing in the beginning and horrifying shortly after.
bro its crazy makes me want to start my youtube channel and also explain
bro, your are spot on
I understand you I just move back from escaping narc husband I have a baby and my narc mom told everyone she will help us and she started throwing furniture and attacking my dad telling him to not help us anymore! What the fck?? She is screaming and scaring my baby!!! She telling him not to help me or my son!! She telling me to start paying them to babysit them!!
What other explanation but this is a demon!! My mother tricked me and everyone once we got under her roof it’s a hell and she’s doing this to my son!! I am remaining calm only because of my son. She knows we escaped abuse and she’s causing a scary environment..
Please pray for my son
Your videos and other videos are the only way I don’t feel alone
You don’t know unless you been through!!!
I wish and pray to meet a man like you one day
I'm pretty sure my ex-girlfriend was a narcissist. She constantly demanded my attention and got angry when I left her to hang out with guy friends or to meet people. She would even follow me around and spy on me from a distance. it was exhausting dealing with all of it. So I don't know if that's a narcissist, a sociopath, or just a crazy girl but its definitely not a good situation.
yep went through that a few years ago. it sill confuses me how a person could pretend to be someone and love me but at the same time do disloyal acts with their mother, their girl and guy friends and date openly without having the guts to tell me anything unless I investigate or accidentally stumble upon it. i felt like both vital in her life but at the same time an accessory. DISHONEST. only honest when guilty, would have crocodile tears. Immature. obsessed with me, not in love but pretended to be in love no matter how much I questioned it and shone a light on it. i was confused way too often, like how do you love me yet be like this, how can you expect me to keep you in control 24/7 and wanting attention all the time as if i'm a babysitter or her father or something. her relations with her father was terrible unfortunately, he was fucked up, very likely a narcissist, a savage.
Sounds more like anxious attachment. Maybe she felt alone, neglected and didn't feel like her emotional needs were met...
15:55 narcs are energy vampires draining you of your happiness, self respect and good energy.
don't forget all the money you're gonna lose
all in on fooling you 😹😹😹😹 thats sick
My ex girlfriend said we was soulmates until I see her lies.
Thank you sir for your guidance 🙏🙏🙏
Hahaha didn't fool me. I ran the course of their game and hemmed it up for my one opportunity. I have no clue what you guys did with yours lol. But I put the work in. Discovered the #1 reality theory and the girl sees a future with me, so, she let me drop three empty pools worth of my joyous tears.
end game they dont belive you should have your own independant autonmy
Love the sweatshirt 😅 no joke though
I hope one day that you can experience a love that is not from a narcissistic woman if you haven’t already….I hope to learn from this video but am grateful to-that I have balanced experiences enough to have healthy perspectives with women….nonetheless it’s important to learn discernment so that you don’t date a woman or man with covert narcissism
I got just discarded dealt with some
You are Based...
On what? 🤔
@@digital_wafflesthey don’t even know 😂
The men do it just as much if not more. Been there, done that. I'm a seasoned vet. They come in all shapes and sizes, family, friends, romantic partners.....we're all free game in this game of life.
We all know it's your game. You blaming men for your game is just the icing.
No way. I think a female covert narcissist is the worst. They can play victim. People always think women are the victims. They can cause so much harm and get away with it.
3 rd time is a charm they say. So make sure your teaching the younger generation coming up under you correctly. One day soon. We all will be accountable to what we said and did in this life. Like starting with that hoodie I mean keep it real. If you want answers i"d go straight to the source.
one of my so called friend deceived me....
It's as if you're describing what is done to men during & after divorce.
I Get validation all the time from GangStalkers and Narcs, you want to pretend like you are indifferent but you know you effing love that parasitism!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Try having one for a mother.
Like Kid Rock says....I can smell a pig from a mile away. This is The Swine Generation as titled by Motley Crue.....coincidentally.
Matthew 18:18
“Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.”
King James Version (KJV)
Lost Angeles, so true.
It's the name of a song (that's not 🚫 on Spotify 🎶)
@digital_waffles Kewel
I can teach you the secrets of this world, but would you believe me? And if not, would i have told you that i would? -Chapter john 14
Okay, bet. Finna get cappd shiiiiiii I bz talkin' too much and shiiiiiiiiiiiii
U iz a true poet mang!
❤🎉!
Oh it’s real….
whats that noise
Thank God I really needed a video on covert narcissist.
I've missed these videos... Nobody delivers like Terry... 👏🏾👍🏾👌🏾🙌🏾
preparest a table
Thank you Terry!
Please how ?
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
It's Elizabeth Ann Hanson doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....
Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!