Its horrible, been thru college just to find out i hate my field.. and i can barely just pay my rent. Worst of all is that i am so tired every day. U are doing good bro i bet ur family is on your mind all the time while working your jobs…. To keep you sane and gain strength to continue. Goodluck my brother
I feel this video with my whole soul!! I’m a full time adjuster, two part time jobs and trying to get customers for my business. It’s hard out here!! I’m praying that things get better for you!
Thank you for your support and prayers. God bless your family and self. God will bless your hard work and will be praying for you. What’s your business?
Its crazy how many comments are saying get a better job when your working for million dollar companies and still barely naking ends meat like that says more about them than you. I'm 22 and live with my parents and my job as a custodian wears me out i can't imagine getting another job. I really want kids but everything is so expensive. I pray to get a better job or win the lottery as I always wanted to be a dad.
I understand and it’s possible you’re already making a plan which is great. Keep God first and follow the plan you will be blessed with kids and not worry too much about it like myself worse case scenario. Im proof that you can still get through whatever life presents you.
@ChosenLondon Thank you sir I really appreciate that your video randomly popped on my feed yesterday but your videos are inspiring. I'm trying my best to keep the faith and believe in God, I definitely need a wife first before having kids and that part is a little difficult as I've never had a relationship.
@dannyphantom3090 I’m so glad and you inspire and motivate me so thank you. And remember to pray pray pray and follow God / Jesus. He will give you your hearts desires. You are on the right track don’t get overwhelmed or ever feel like it’s not possible or won’t happen for you. 💪🏾❤️💯
@ChosenLondon Thank you man. I've been praying and keeping my heart on God, I've been working on becoming more social and gaining more confidence by working out. I'm trying not to be discouraged even though 2 women rejected me for wanting to wait til marriage but they just weren't for me. Also your welcome glad I could help 😊.
@@ChosenLondonthe military will pay and train you to learn it and do it and you’ll keep the licenses going back into civilian world.. hmu we can figure out what branch for you and your family..every job in the military doesn’t partake in war so just lmk
@@ChosenLondon don't know much about IT sales, I started at the help desk then moved into system administration in windows and linux all learned from the military. If you have a family go reserve or national guard. If the military isn't going to work start learning computer basics like general hardware and software, it's a lot of free training on youtube to get you started.
I hear you man. Jobs used to be dignified when you earned a living wage and were treated with some respect. I work a corporate job and it's just as toxic, paying people pennies while working them the role of 3 people while only paying for a single person's salary. It's madness what we've allowed to go on. It used to be that a clerk at a grocery store could make enough money to buy a home, car, and raise a few kids while his wife stayed at home. Companies don't even try to hide their disdain for their employees and their uncontrollable greed anymore.
So true and I appreciate you for being apart of this Kingdom family community. You really understand the purpose of the messages I’m trying to raise awareness about. Things will get better for us though. Make a plan to get out of your situation for the better. Stay blessed and encouraged man.
Nothing is more admirable than a father working hard to provide for his family. Hope you can invest as much of your hard earned money into the stock market, too. That is the best long term plan. Props!
Thank you for the support and your props it really means a lot to me because I don’t hear this often unfortunately. And God bless your family and self.
Not only that, you end up trapping them in the vicious cycle of jobs they hate when they turn adults. This madness needs to stop. Either the system comes correct, or we take it down. We gotta stop quarreling and fight back!
@Trisof88 I agree but most people are to scared to take a stand so when I do it I learned companies just find ways to make me want to leave because I say the truth and it can be uncomfortable for them most the time.
That’s not true… It’s just that people use delivery services for their convenience. When in reality these services were designed for people with money. So if you’re not receiving good tips get out of low income areas and go out into the suburbs where there’s million dollar houses and I promise you you will make tips…. There are some of us that make 1000+ a week doing just gig work…
@@NoobSimmerKP Everything you just said 1000% and stay out of communities that want the convenience but can’t pay for it. Conveniences cost. Or you have to go get it yourself!
Words like this mean a lot to me because part of my dreams are to serve help build and inspire people for the better. Always moving forward and improving. I appreciate you more than you know. God bless your family and self Kyle. 💯
This is what I did. I joined the military did four years. Got out and got a VA Loan 0 down and brought a house. I used my GI bill and went to school full time which pays me $2500 a month to go to school. I worked full time and stayed in school and make 5,500 a month with the GI bill included . The house built equity so I’m using the equity to buy another home. Once you get your degree or trade use that to make more money. Plus you learn a trade in the military and it looks great on your resume. I join the Air Force which is a cake walk. Good luck on your journey and keep pushing 💪🏽
Crazy bro I literally did the same thing except I already had my degree. Just looking to buy a house now. Luckily I found a full time job overseas in Amsterdam through a military transition program. I’m not saying the military is the way but it deff helped by giving a big push
Not even worth busting your ass anymore just to be a month away from not being able to pay bills. You have a great attitude brother. I don't know where you're headed in life or what's next for you, byt God is with you because I'm here which means I now like and subscribe. I could have been dead a few years ago after a blood clot, so yeah God can get you and will get you where you are supposed to be at the end of the day.
@@ChosenLondon All will be well. Everything good takes time. Keep it up. I’ll support you by subscribing to your channel and following your journey. hopefully someday will bring you my podcast to talk about your journey to freedom.
Damn brutha this video just popped up when I needed it the most got two jobs serving jobs a little 2 year old boy and I take care of all the bills thank you for the motivation!!
You’re welcome and thank you for your motivation. Comments like these really help keep me moving forward. God bless your family and self. You got this.
Hey- RUclips suggested your video to me. I was in your shoes almost a decade ago, working 3 jobs, sleeping in my car. Reading some of these comments makes my heart hurt. It's not weak for a man to share how he's feeling; it's super frustrating to feel like you're busting your butt and still barely keeping your head above water. Just because he's being vulnerable doesn't mean he doesn't have "pride" or isn't a "man". In fact, I think it is one of the truest markers of a man to be able to be genuine in how he is struggling. Bro is going through a rough time but is still trying his best. That's all any of us can do, right? You got this. I'm rooting for you. It's a hard climb but some day you're going to be able to look back on this time and say never again. Your daughter is going to grow up watching her mother and father hustle and learn the value of hard work. You are AMAZING.
@@BRIANDER100 I'm in graduate school now (work full time while going through school!) I basically just hustled hard, saved everything I had, paid down debt aggressively. I could only do 3 jobs for about a year (2015-2016), and then I dropped down to 2 jobs which I worked 2016-2023. It was hard but I was also single/childless and didn't have to take care of anyone except myself. I made a LOT of mistakes when I was younger and I basically just had to put my head down and pay the price for them. There's no shortcut.
Love your content. I’m sorry that your compensation is down right now. Relying on tips sucks because everyone is broke now. Your attitude is golden. That will attract and maintain whatever you need. Keep “leveling up.” :)
Thank you so much for this lovely comment it really gave me the confidence and motivation for my video today. I will never give up God willing I will live out my dreams with my family.
Hey bro. I’m 28 married and have a kid too. I started working for USPS at 21 as a mail carrier. I stuck it out long term and now i’m a maintenance supervisor making $91k a year or $45/hr. You get retirement, 3 raises a year, union protection, unlimited overtime and great health insurance. My wife does the same job as me as well. I just put on 2 of my friends to apply. Apply for maintenance mechanic, take the 955 test and pass, and your starting pay will be $30/hr with unlimited OT. Maintenance mechanics with overtime take home $3500 every 2 weeks after taxes. Just food for thought man. I’ve changed multiple people’s lives applying into maintenance for USPS.
@@ChosenLondon Basically our job is to make sure the machines that process the mail and packages stay running. If they break down we have to fix them. Also we handle all the building maintenance too like HVAC, electrical, plumbing etc. They send you to trade school for free as well and you get the certificate under your belt.
@dapperdino1996 that is a blessing for sure. And how would you describe the work as it relates to the west and tear on your body? I have been hearing some of the untold stories. As people get older in that field.
@@ChosenLondon Mail carriers take a beating. Eventually they need hip, and shoulder replacements, back and knee surgeries and skin cancer treatments from years of walking with a satchel. For maintenance mechanics not really. We just had a 78 year old retire after being a maintenance mechanic for 45 years and he was in great shape. Being a mail carrier is the most physically demanding job in USPS. That’s why I switched to maintenance so my body wouldn’t break down.
When I was 48 years old, I became unemployed, and was unemployed for two years. When my unemployment ran out, I worked three jobs. I was also going to college. I survived, and working three jobs is not easy.
Get a job as a cable installer or something in the cable industry. I’ve been in the cable industry for 15 years . Pay is excellent and pretty fair for even beginners. The trade u learn is pretty important and leads to many other things In the industry I’ve done installs, service calls , underground construction, burying drops / driveway bores , fiber splicing ect . It can be hard work but it’s never boring. On occasion I can get tips but ur already making a pretty good wage from get go . Overtime is easily obtained if u want and most places will give u free cable / net ect if u work for them .
Man, im a freshly graduated high school student and work full time right now. I am pretty unhappy but My biggest fear is getting stuck in that loop of working multiple jobs and I’ve seen it happen to the people i love. I noticed we are being completely fucked over and the work life balance is unstable for most individuals because the cost of living is so high. i plan to do something i love for work in future. Big ups to you it takes a big man to work multiple jobs. Keep that grind up you’re gonna get to where you wanna go.🙏
Congratulations on graduating you will do great things for God and your support and motivation means a lot to me. Thank you for taking the time to share this with me. God bless your family and self.
God will bless you for your hard work. He sees your consistency and dedication and it will come a time when he will give you rest. So keep doing good because your reward will be great🙂.
God bless you man I hope he blesses your family and you with everything you guys ever needed, I pray you get a lot more time with your family too and have everything in abundance…..
All these comments talking about "what skills do you have" or "bruh just get a job in whatever job". No one should be working three jobs to survive PERIOD! You're working three jobs, while the companies you are working for are making millions if not billions off of your hard work. It's so sad that we all have one life here on Earth, and the majority of it, you're working. Keep going homie, we all gotta work to survive unfortunately.
I appreciate you and thank you for understanding the message behind the video and why I share my real life experiences for people to learn from. I will always keep moving forward and blessings to your family and self.
Thank you for that and know that your support doesn’t go unnoticed here. I will continue to post real life raw content about relatable topics. God bless your family and self brother.
Yo that’s me. I’m working two jobs though. But I am only doing it to pay off my debt. I should be done paying off debt in about 6months but I hate not having time for myself, it’s hella stressful but I keep telling myself this is only temporary.
New follower just because I feel you. Seems like most of us are going through the same thing. Continue to push and strive forward. Better days will come.
@@ChosenLondondepends what kind and they don’t pay either. If you think these other jobs are bad getting a government job I hope you get therapy also. They treat you 1000x worse
@@ChosenLondondepends what kind and they don’t pay either. If you think these other jobs are bad getting a government job I hope you get therapy also. They treat you 1000x worse
Keep pushing bro I recently graduated and I'm applying for alot of jobs nothing seems to be falling through but something has fall through all love may god watch over you and your family.
I definitely appreciate your support bro I will never give up and you will do great you following through and graduating shows that you’re on the right track stay strong and encourage. God has great plans for us bro.
GOOD MAN! I’m speaking that your spirit, rewrites your money agreements and beliefs about money so that you can get down to one job that will provide everything that you need. And will be one that you love. MONEY IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT! But I’m so impressed that you are a black man that is willing to go out and to do this type of labor for your family. That says a lot about what you’re made of and your character!❤❤❤❤
I appreciate your support and kind words a lot because I don’t hear this much positivity at once. And yes I will break this generational curse of being broke. Blessings to your family and self from God. ❤️
Mad respect for you man. I hate my job too but we gotta make a living. But if you keep up with your channel, your youtube ad revenue will be enough to go full time and thrive.
That is my goal to be relatable and I wish I could find a job that fit me that would offer some overtime. But then I know about how taxes work with the overtime. Hang in there things will get better or make them better for yourself. God bless your family and self.
I work three jobs and I damn near hate it. I should just be doing one job and chill. I want a girlfriend so bad but the way my life is set up currently not possible. So I understand your frustration. Trying to pay the off the mortgage fast so I can be free just turn 29 didn’t think I’d be here
Man I just did a video saying the same thing, I want to get to a point where my wife and 3 girls don't have a need for nothing! I'm trusting God gonna make a way because I gotta start a business and become an entrepreneur man! I pray that God bless you brother and your success
I’m working on accepting and listening to other authorities God places in my life. Yall don’t understand how much yall help me out and I appreciate you. 💯
I’m single, no wife, no kids and moved back in with my pops. I had a job and didn’t like and said I was done with it. If you have mouths to feed then you have to be responsible and dependable. That’s the life you chose though. There’s losers like me who can’t even get a date so look on the bright side. You got offspring and woman who loves you through hard times.
Facts and you stay encouraged young man you have a lot of life so learn from my mistakes and build your self up and you will have plenty of women that will love you for you and create a blessed family. Keep God first and do it the right way it’s much easier. I did choose this but I was ignorant lacking all of the knowledge though. I’m still blessed like you so take something positive from this and apply it to your life. 💯
As a woman this is real. I hate that he is in this position but having a loving family is such a blessing. I am 25 chronically single - would kill for a man like this
man I’m 19 I’m at Amazon too I work 12 hrs and 3 days this shit so draining and my body be aching and I hate it so much I’ve been trying to look into trades and shit but all of them been saying pay tuition and I don’t even have a car like it’s hard out here but hopefully I make it but I feel you may god bless you g PS: im seasonal not blue badge so I don’t even get all the full benefits and I’ve been here for about 2 months and I always hit my rate and work good so idk
You are young and motivated so figuring out what you are passionate about and want to do for work in this season of life is key. You got this. This position is temporary and things will get better if you keep putting in the work and trust God. And God bless your family and self.
I’m so tired of spending my life doing things I don’t wanto do. I feel like I’m forced to work. The fact that my life is like this is really depressing. I’ve been working for 38 years. 38 years wasted
@@ChosenLondon I’ve just realized lately at 53 that I’m not able to actually enjoy my life. I’m at work so much then family duties on top of that. I don’t think life is supposed to be work based. There must be a balance. I know there are people without hobbies or interests that fill their time by going to work. I’m the opposite. I’m not left with enough time to ride my bike long distance or enduldge in a video game for hours. I have a boring office job that has become extremely repetetive. I won’t be truly happy until I can either cut down my work hours by a large margin or fully retire. If I was informed during my birth and could comprehend what the doctors were saying when they told me I’d basically be a slave to a currency for about 50 years then I would have crawled back inside
@scottymaczayda9531 have you thought about perusing something that you are actually passionate about? And I can relate to of what you said as well. That’s why I’m doing everything I can to change it.
@@ChosenLondon I think work is work and at 53 it’s probably too late to becone a pro cyclist or game designer. Most of us these days are in the same boat. Working to pay the bills and the government and take care of our loved ones. It’s just too bad that living is based upon a currency.
We don’t have money for tips! It’s the same reason you have to work 3 jobs bro. Seriously go to school at night and learn a trade. 4 hours of sleep max until you get to where you need to be. Blessings on your journey
Are you or you & your wife opposed to joining the military? I would suggest the USAF. There are lots of bonuses, programs, and different opportunities to take advantage of that no one talks about. If you have any questions, you can ask me anytime. Me and my wife went from enlisted at 17 to officers. Then, I became a military physician. Now, my wife is planning to retire at 37 and I will be transitioning into civilian medicine. We have rental properties, zero debt outside of mortgage, multi millions in retirement accounts, and kids/future kids are set for college all because of taking advantage of everything the military has to offer.
I know the struggle. Both my parents work. My mom is a school bus driver & floral designer, and my dad is a warehouse worker. They struggle every month just to live and are still considered the working poor.
What do you do for work and I’m praying their situation gets better unless they are truly happy content and at peace with their lives. Some people don’t need a lot so remember that too. They probably care more about you at this point.
@@ChosenLondon I start a new job very soon! It’s a retail position at a store. I’m used to working in food service, so getting my 1st ever retail position excites me. I’m only working part time, but at least I have some way to keep my mind busy
It’s honorable that u are working ur ass off to provide for your family . Like many others have said tip expectation has gotten out of control. What ur doing is based on tips for sure and either Amazon should compensate to better hourly rate if not getting appropriate tips or just bill automatic gratuity. I think what many have a problem with is tip expectation and pushing for it everywhere. It’s getting crazy. Tips for delivery, amazing work in my home , restaurant server , bar tending , taxi / Uber ect makes sense …..tips for a cashier at chipotle, tips at subway …..hell tips and a damn circle k is insane . It’s everywhere and it’s hurting those who work jobs that classically get tips .
I say this to people all the time. Companies that sever coffee and basic services all asking for tips especially during this economic crisis just made it worse for people who actually survive from the tips. Sad situation. I made a video about tips.
you sound like a friend of mine, he works 3 jobs.... all he does is work... that's not living and I don't want to go down the same route. right now I have a chance to go to school and i am in school right now but I'm really not fit for school but this is my only choice.... I never had a father or mother to teach me anything and I'm slow already so it sucks even more but even though Im struggling with school I'm not going to give up. Good luck bro and keep doing your thing, hope the best !
Keep at it, man. I'm in university and trying to get into law school. If all goes to plan, I should hopefully get into the law field in 5 years from now. Luckily, I get good financial aid at the university I'm going to, and I'm only paying like a couple hundred bucks a semester. If you're poor like me, go to where they're willing to help you out and avoid student loans as best you can.
I respect the hustle and work ethic especially since you're doing it for you and your family. I would recommend you do a less is more approach. Consolidate the 3 jobs into 1 job that has good benefits, decent pay, etc. Then using the time you would have to work a second or third job, I would skill up and find trades/skills that are highly paid: coding, digital marketing, seo, data science. There are so many online resources and courses/certifications (many of which are free) that you can utilize. It won't be easy but the pay off will be tremendous when you are earning a six figure and above salary. You got this! 👍
This is wicked. No one should have to work 3 jobs to survive. Sadly, working multiple jobs is the norm. Extreme Capitalism and inflation is killing us. I wish you and your family peace. I hope that the time will come soon where you don’t have to work 3 jobs. Your family is blessed to have you.
@@ChosenLondon That’s a nice outlook. I believe in God too. I believe that when Yeshua returns he will restore everything. There will no longer be any exploitation, poverty, sickness, death, etc. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish” Jn 3:16 I look forward to The King returning, despite no one knowing when it would happen.
I can’t stand when managers start trying to “set you up” at your full time job lol. You just get a gut feeling that they’re about to let you go or try their best to get rid of you.
Is the survival of the fittest out here. You got to support your family and yourself. At least you got a job. Money doesn’t grow on trees. Go get a trade. Start side hustle. Complaining won’t do any good. You got to change your mindset and situation. Pray to God🙏. I know is not easy for a black man out here. A lot of racism and hatred. Fight for yourself and family.
I work two full time jobs and it's brutal dude. Sometimes I'll be working 90+hrs a week. Why am I working so hard? I'm paying off all my debt. I owe almost $18k, trying to get it all done in less than a year
I work at amazon as a process assistant. If you are still interested in being an delivery driver, i should recommend applying to UPS, Fedex, or postal service as a driver. They pay alot more per hour than the DSP do.
I appreciate your support and honesty. And yes one of my options is working for FedEx if that’s God plan for me. And how long did it take for you to get into that position? What was the process?
@ChosenLondon I work for amazon for two years and when I got the opportunity to get into a higher position, I apply for it. Plus me and the interviewer knew each other which made it easier lol.
Usually I get at least 6 I been making sleep more a priority now though. And don’t get me wrong I take more breaks and naps than I need to personally. I want to work at least 19 hours a day to get to my next goal money wise.
@liyahs1energy I did once and I dislike the feeling of waking up and having to act like you were not just sleeping and looking around to see who noticed.
People usually start their videos whilst sitting in the vehicle You had an innovative approach in walking then getting into your car Interesting cinematography dude
Yes I’m adding in my own creativity but not trying to venture too far away from what’s working. I’m just grateful I’m finally getting a true community filled with amazing and wonderful blessed people.
God bless u brother. JESUS is with u. I moved from az to a cheaper place down south. Its just gonna get more expensive bro. I have a wife and 3 kids and i live in a 5 br 3br mini mansion down south. Good luck and blessings to u. U r indeed a hustler
You’re mad at regular people for not tipping instead of being mad at the billionaire CEO that’s exploiting you and not paying you nearly enough 🥴. Make it make sense.
If you listen and he’s letting you know what life is like for a normal person he didn’t say he’s mad about anything stop trying to go against the people that look like you have more understanding and try to help find the solution. That’s the problem with black men now just lost and want to debate about everything
If you listen and he’s letting you know what life is like for a normal person he didn’t say he’s mad about anything stop trying to go against the people that look like you have more understanding and try to help find the solution. That’s the problem with black men now just lost and want to debate about everything
@jkrystal11 you make a really great point and that’s why one of my missions is to help change our community and culture. I grew up around blacks fighting and mainly killing each other. Evil in this world are tricking us to fight each other instead of working together because if we do black men and women will be very powerful especially if we have God first. Believe me they don’t ever want to see this day come true. Just know I truly appreciate you and God bless your family and self.
@@ChosenLondon of course no problem, just learn to trade it may take you a few months to a few years to get it but once you do, no one can take that away from you. As far as Black people go like the Bible says 2/3 will be cut off. That’s a sad reality. Focus on the good Black people. There’s a few out there and focus on your happiness and your family, and God will always make away.
I have always liked being a generous tipper…. But TIP CULTURE has caused me to do a COMPLETE REVERSE.. if I’m not being waited on at a sit down restaurant.., I have stopped leaving tips across the board, and don’t care how they look back at me!!! Whoever you’re working for needs to pay you properly… tipping has exploded into insanity.., and people have finally had enough.., including me.., I’m unapologetically done with the tipping.., except for to an actual server in a sit down establishment!!! … AND… if they add a tip.., without my permission.., although I always over tip.., if they add gratuity automatically of 20- 25% etc.., plus other miscellaneous fees .., I outright decline the fees.., and don’t leave a penny extra over the added amount! I am OFFICIALLY DONE with tip culture in America.., done I say!!!….
That’s mentality’s is messed up. Especially, the grocery orders like ship, instacart, spark. Even DoorDash or Uber. The grocery orders is what I’m referring to. Shopping, waiting in line, and having to bag the items myself. I would hope people tip. Being as that is so many steps we have to do. N yes, most people don’t realize for shipt, DoorDash, and Uber, from what I’ve seen and done, these stores make us bag these groceries ourselves. Messed up no tip😢
I appreciate you so much for that and He did. You being here supporting me is a blessing and just don’t forget I actually do appreciate you and your support and taking the time to let me know this sir. ❤️
That's why I'm glad I joined the military at a young age, what young people don't know is that little time in the military,I did 3 and1/2 years, can equal a life time of financial payments.If you learn the VA claims process.
Understood and we are making the best plan. Just have to get myself right first with God and everything will work out for sure. And I appreciate your support bruh.
Man I did Uber eats to test it out man people were giving me 1$ tips 😂😂😂 no joke. Right now I’m working for Amazon warehouse and about to get back into doing Uber eats to bring in some extra cash. My goal right now is to eliminate rent. I’m thinking about buying some land and slapping a trailer on it and calling it a day.
That's my worker git going on, he got lucky, her parents gave him land after they passed and he got a trailer, he only pay for wifi. Companies are offering him.big bread for the land but he not giving up his freedom
I will and I hope you find work that your passion about. Don’t be afraid for years to change don’t be loyal to a company that most the time doesn’t care about you most the time.
@@ChosenLondon I'm actually okay I work with a lot of women so there will always be chaos I'm 41 make decent money as a tech I will stick it out I'm guessing you are in your 20s make wise decisions on a daily basis and everything will come together god bless
I’m sorry you goin through this. It’s not too late. You gotta find a career that pays you enough and comes with a good benefit package including pension. Luckily I started very young and believed in the vision. I can tell you can do it too
@@ChosenLondon can’t really say I have a favorite experience other then the different cultures I get to be around. Other than that the pay is dope especially where I live with the low cost of living ( Missouri) and my healthcare is free. It has its ups n downs ofcourse.
I have had so many jobs in the last few months but as of right now I do valet for gold crown, I cover shifts at Planet fitness and my main job i work as a concierge, I’m taking a risk with little to no money to a job position in Colorado I hope it’s worth it, and wishing you the best man it gets tough but your a fucking warrior man💪
I feel you on the heat. It's like 98 degrees everyday here in my city. Now, when it only got up to like 80 degrees a day. I was not bothered. But these 98 degrees days feels more like 105 degrees. You will sweat so much, and/or run all your gas out using the AC. Is it like a summer slowdown or something. Because many people do not tip here either.
If you decide to quit the three jobs, what job and/or career will you choose to get an income ? How old are you ? God's continued best to you and your treasured family always !
Hey look into being a Heavy Equipment Operator which is a trade. I don’t know where you are located but they have schools everywhere. Stick with it because that trade you will always have a job and your pay increases by the job the more on the job experience you have. I am in the military and transitioning out and one of my retired military friends work a job for about 3 months and be off the next 3 or so however long he wants. He picks his job he wants to work and locations and also controls how long he wants to be off after he has worked on a location. This will give you flexibility with family and you will feel more in charge of your family time. Best of luck and blessings to you 🙏🏽
God bless your family and self and thank you for serving. I appreciate this option so much because it checks a lot of the boxes for me. Thank you so much. 🙏🏾
Im not even 20 and i kinda started to give up on the "dream job" . I never worked but what im seeing here is: 1. Have no kids 2. If you can work from your parents home do it. 3. Find your purpose in life, or else why live? I really just want a job at this point that pays enough for my art materials. Very low expectations.
I would say that you have to work on your mindset. You can do anything you put your mind and time and all into. Keep God first and He will give you the desires of your heart and keep everything aligned with God. Raise your expectations. I appreciate your support and God bless your family and self.
Stay home- work 2 jobs and do your art. Save a crap ton of money, drop the 2nd job. Focus on your art, learning a valuable skill like a trade/CDL/tech wise and one job. Do this- stay out of trouble, try not to have any kids and you’ll be fine. Your dream job could be making art. Set yourself up good. Learn to balance work and play. Don’t be afraid to fail and ask yourself why did I fail ? Take risk. Save 10k and get some secured credit cards- go find some roommates. Don’t take these videos as the end of the world. This is just his situation. If you could stay home for another 5 years comfortably and work really hard- you’ll be good. Don’t goof off in your 20s either. Worse time to do it.
Look into trades bro, it’s very hard work, but if you put the time in you find the right place to work and you gain the knowledge you need you can go very far and you could even start your own thing. That’s what has helped me. God bless Big Homie I hope you find a better avenue for you and your family! At the end of the day you’re still grinding and providing for you family rn! Ion know anybody who works 3 jobs. It sounds like you have the right mindset to find a trade you like and work your way up the ladder.
Thank you so much for this encouragement and I’m looking for the next best move or option now. Thank you for your prayers and support as well it means a lot to me.💪🏾
If you start your own business get a business coach or someone to guide you. Your competitors are established companies that have been around 60 years plus. Their leaders have gone to college for business. The people with money usually go to the bigger companies that know what theyr doing, so you’re gonna end up with price shoppers. But thats just my experience do whatever you want
This is why who you vote for as president matters. I don’t know why people claim it doesn’t but my neighbor worked at Amazon! As a delivery driver! We are in CALIFORNIA & he bought his house 4.5 years ago. He told me, he would be homeless if he is where we are at 4.5 years ago. His house is worth $200k more now and the interest is 7% so there’s no way he could afford his own home today. Idk what job he has now (the uniform was a dead giveaway before) but now he works and then I see he does over driving. This is NOT normal. People could buy homes off of low wage jobs before. Don’t forget.
@@ChosenLondon don’t be ashamed to rent a room to cut costs. Or share a 2bd with someone. Even share a 1 bd with someone you are okay living with. Living with parents. Don’t be ashamed of any of that in this economy. Inflation is going to get worse with these new wars popping off. Even if we’re not directly in them, we fund them. Ride it out. Save money and get your credit right. Eventually, costs will start to drop because people won’t be prepared and with that interest will drop to bring in buyers. That’s when you take the leap. BUT that timing is very dependent upon who’s the next president. A decent interest is under 4% don’t start looking until then unless you have a lot saved up to put down.
I work 2 full time jobs, and I cannot say I hate it. Because it will drain my motivation. I have to keep on working until I get my debts paid off. And, I have an expensive car loan I pay every month. I have a lot of mexicans work during the daytime and my other job I work at night there are a lot of black people working there.
I agree its best to stay positive because being negative wont get you anywhere. I pray that you are able to get your debt paid off. I will be starting on doing that again soon God willing. Just trying to get the rent paid now.
What skills, talents, and abilities do you possess that you could monetize? That's the next wave me and my friend were just talking about. Especially with the planet Pluto taking us through this next wave in the sign of Aquarius. The regular 9 to 5 jobs are over. I'd like to start a group to help my people discover this. You're gonna make it bruh. Just take some time out to find out what works best for you.
@@ChosenLondon I use astrology to pinpoint what your strengths are. And help you to discover which areas would be best for you to channel your energy into. By your natural abilities, gifts and talents.
Its horrible, been thru college just to find out i hate my field.. and i can barely just pay my rent. Worst of all is that i am so tired every day. U are doing good bro i bet ur family is on your mind all the time while working your jobs…. To keep you sane and gain strength to continue. Goodluck my brother
Yes we will figure out a way to make money doing things that we love. Stay blessed and encouraged brother.
I appreciate you putting your feelings out on this man. Men don’t talk about stuff like this enough. Keep doing you and it’ll pay off my man. 🤙
Thank you so much for your support and I will continue to create content for sure. What do you do for work?
I feel this video with my whole soul!! I’m a full time adjuster, two part time jobs and trying to get customers for my business. It’s hard out here!!
I’m praying that things get better for you!
Thank you for your support and prayers. God bless your family and self. God will bless your hard work and will be praying for you. What’s your business?
Its crazy how many comments are saying get a better job when your working for million dollar companies and still barely naking ends meat like that says more about them than you.
I'm 22 and live with my parents and my job as a custodian wears me out i can't imagine getting another job. I really want kids but everything is so expensive. I pray to get a better job or win the lottery as I always wanted to be a dad.
I understand and it’s possible you’re already making a plan which is great. Keep God first and follow the plan you will be blessed with kids and not worry too much about it like myself worse case scenario. Im proof that you can still get through whatever life presents you.
@ChosenLondon Thank you sir I really appreciate that your video randomly popped on my feed yesterday but your videos are inspiring. I'm trying my best to keep the faith and believe in God, I definitely need a wife first before having kids and that part is a little difficult as I've never had a relationship.
@dannyphantom3090 I’m so glad and you inspire and motivate me so thank you. And remember to pray pray pray and follow God / Jesus. He will give you your hearts desires. You are on the right track don’t get overwhelmed or ever feel like it’s not possible or won’t happen for you. 💪🏾❤️💯
@ChosenLondon Thank you man. I've been praying and keeping my heart on God, I've been working on becoming more social and gaining more confidence by working out. I'm trying not to be discouraged even though 2 women rejected me for wanting to wait til marriage but they just weren't for me.
Also your welcome glad I could help 😊.
@dannyphantom3090 You have the right mindset by doing things right. Be patient and you will be blessed with what is suppose to be for you. 💯
I've been there brother, i got out of the multiple job grind by joining the military then getting into IT. keep on pushin
I want to get into IT sales so bad right now.
@@ChosenLondonthe military will pay and train you to learn it and do it and you’ll keep the licenses going back into civilian world.. hmu we can figure out what branch for you and your family..every job in the military doesn’t partake in war so just lmk
National Guard
@@ChosenLondon don't know much about IT sales, I started at the help desk then moved into system administration in windows and linux all learned from the military. If you have a family go reserve or national guard. If the military isn't going to work start learning computer basics like general hardware and software, it's a lot of free training on youtube to get you started.
@hey_mr_ash I’m on it now and thank you so much for your support and taking the time out of your day to help me out. God bless your family and self.
I hear you man. Jobs used to be dignified when you earned a living wage and were treated with some respect. I work a corporate job and it's just as toxic, paying people pennies while working them the role of 3 people while only paying for a single person's salary. It's madness what we've allowed to go on. It used to be that a clerk at a grocery store could make enough money to buy a home, car, and raise a few kids while his wife stayed at home. Companies don't even try to hide their disdain for their employees and their uncontrollable greed anymore.
So true and I appreciate you for being apart of this Kingdom family community. You really understand the purpose of the messages I’m trying to raise awareness about. Things will get better for us though. Make a plan to get out of your situation for the better. Stay blessed and encouraged man.
Nothing is more admirable than a father working hard to provide for his family. Hope you can invest as much of your hard earned money into the stock market, too. That is the best long term plan. Props!
Thank you for the support and your props it really means a lot to me because I don’t hear this often unfortunately. And God bless your family and self.
This is why I don’t have kids. When you have children, you end up trapped forever in jobs you hate.
I understand but me having a child has nothing to do with it. I just didn’t have the knowledge.
Not only that, you end up trapping them in the vicious cycle of jobs they hate when they turn adults. This madness needs to stop. Either the system comes correct, or we take it down. We gotta stop quarreling and fight back!
@Trisof88 I agree but most people are to scared to take a stand so when I do it I learned companies just find ways to make me want to leave because I say the truth and it can be uncomfortable for them most the time.
Whatever excuse makes you feel better
@dannyphantom3090 No excuses. God bless your family and self.
People can't afford tips anymore. Me included
I understand for sure. I do a lot of take out now.
Yeah I hate to say it but I really cut down on my ride sharing tips.
That’s not true… It’s just that people use delivery services for their convenience. When in reality these services were designed for people with money. So if you’re not receiving good tips get out of low income areas and go out into the suburbs where there’s million dollar houses and I promise you you will make tips…. There are some of us that make 1000+ a week doing just gig work…
@@NoobSimmerKP Everything you just said 1000% and stay out of communities that want the convenience but can’t pay for it. Conveniences cost. Or you have to go get it yourself!
@eyesofanomadictrucker9208 just be grateful that you at least get them and blessings to your family and self.
I wish you nothing but the best. I know words don’t have much meaning, but just know that people like you are my inspiration.
Words like this mean a lot to me because part of my dreams are to serve help build and inspire people for the better. Always moving forward and improving. I appreciate you more than you know. God bless your family and self Kyle. 💯
This is what I did. I joined the military did four years. Got out and got a VA Loan 0 down and brought a house. I used my GI bill and went to school full time which pays me $2500 a month to go to school. I worked full time and stayed in school and make 5,500 a month with the GI bill included . The house built equity so I’m using the equity to buy another home. Once you get your degree or trade use that to make more money. Plus you learn a trade in the military and it looks great on your resume. I join the Air Force which is a cake walk. Good luck on your journey and keep pushing 💪🏽
Crazy bro I literally did the same thing except I already had my degree. Just looking to buy a house now. Luckily I found a full time job overseas in Amsterdam through a military transition program. I’m not saying the military is the way but it deff helped by giving a big push
@@AlwaysA3 Yep the military is just a hack to get ahead in life.
Yes I might really need to consider this with my family.
A big push is exactly what I need backed up with support.
I need to see if this is the best move for us now.
Not even worth busting your ass anymore just to be a month away from not being able to pay bills. You have a great attitude brother. I don't know where you're headed in life or what's next for you, byt God is with you because I'm here which means I now like and subscribe. I could have been dead a few years ago after a blood clot, so yeah God can get you and will get you where you are supposed to be at the end of the day.
Amen and praise God for your miracle and I definitely appreciate you and need you here. I hope God continues to bless your family and self.
Keep working hard everyday, you’d never miss a lucky day. You will never miss a lucky if you keep working hard everyday. Keep it up young king.
I appreciate your support. And you are right. I just feel like everything is trying to stack up against me.
@@ChosenLondon All will be well. Everything good takes time. Keep it up. I’ll support you by subscribing to your channel and following your journey. hopefully someday will bring you my podcast to talk about your journey to freedom.
Damn brutha this video just popped up when I needed it the most got two jobs serving jobs a little 2 year old boy and I take care of all the bills thank you for the motivation!!
You’re welcome and thank you for your motivation. Comments like these really help keep me moving forward. God bless your family and self. You got this.
Hey- RUclips suggested your video to me. I was in your shoes almost a decade ago, working 3 jobs, sleeping in my car. Reading some of these comments makes my heart hurt. It's not weak for a man to share how he's feeling; it's super frustrating to feel like you're busting your butt and still barely keeping your head above water. Just because he's being vulnerable doesn't mean he doesn't have "pride" or isn't a "man". In fact, I think it is one of the truest markers of a man to be able to be genuine in how he is struggling. Bro is going through a rough time but is still trying his best. That's all any of us can do, right?
You got this. I'm rooting for you. It's a hard climb but some day you're going to be able to look back on this time and say never again. Your daughter is going to grow up watching her mother and father hustle and learn the value of hard work. You are AMAZING.
You are amazing to and thank you so much for taking the time to share wonderful feedback with me. And God bless your family and self.
where are you today ? how long and how did you get out of working 3 jobs and sleeping in your car. ?
@@BRIANDER100 I'm in graduate school now (work full time while going through school!) I basically just hustled hard, saved everything I had, paid down debt aggressively. I could only do 3 jobs for about a year (2015-2016), and then I dropped down to 2 jobs which I worked 2016-2023. It was hard but I was also single/childless and didn't have to take care of anyone except myself. I made a LOT of mistakes when I was younger and I basically just had to put my head down and pay the price for them. There's no shortcut.
Good questions.
That’s what I’m doing now.
Love your content. I’m sorry that your compensation is down right now. Relying on tips sucks because everyone is broke now. Your attitude is golden. That will attract and maintain whatever you need.
Keep “leveling up.” :)
Thank you so much for this lovely comment it really gave me the confidence and motivation for my video today. I will never give up God willing I will live out my dreams with my family.
Hey bro. I’m 28 married and have a kid too. I started working for USPS at 21 as a mail carrier. I stuck it out long term and now i’m a maintenance supervisor making $91k a year or $45/hr. You get retirement, 3 raises a year, union protection, unlimited overtime and great health insurance. My wife does the same job as me as well. I just put on 2 of my friends to apply. Apply for maintenance mechanic, take the 955 test and pass, and your starting pay will be $30/hr with unlimited OT. Maintenance mechanics with overtime take home $3500 every 2 weeks after taxes. Just food for thought man. I’ve changed multiple people’s lives applying into maintenance for USPS.
Thank you for this information and opportunity bro. God bless your family and self. And what are you doing exactly on the maintenance side?
@@ChosenLondon Basically our job is to make sure the machines that process the mail and packages stay running. If they break down we have to fix them. Also we handle all the building maintenance too like HVAC, electrical, plumbing etc. They send you to trade school for free as well and you get the certificate under your belt.
@dapperdino1996 that is a blessing for sure. And how would you describe the work as it relates to the west and tear on your body? I have been hearing some of the untold stories. As people get older in that field.
@@ChosenLondon Mail carriers take a beating. Eventually they need hip, and shoulder replacements, back and knee surgeries and skin cancer treatments from years of walking with a satchel. For maintenance mechanics not really. We just had a 78 year old retire after being a maintenance mechanic for 45 years and he was in great shape. Being a mail carrier is the most physically demanding job in USPS. That’s why I switched to maintenance so my body wouldn’t break down.
@dapperdino1996 thank you so much for this information and were or are you passionate about your job or trades in general?
I salute you, from someone who does 2 jobs to pay off my debts, don’t overwork yourself bro
I’m not I try my best to keep a life work balance. And what do you do for work?
Praying you land a perfect job & get the big break you need.
Amen thank you so much for that and I appreciate you.
@@ChosenLondon don’t give up just keep persevering 🙏🏾
@eyesb3911 always will keep moving forward improving each day and will never give up. God bless your family and self.
in Jesus name. Lord come through for this family & give them favor. 🙏🏾
@shannon8715 amen 🙏🏾 and I appreciate you more than you know. God bless your family and self.
When I was 48 years old, I became unemployed, and was unemployed for two years. When my unemployment ran out, I worked three jobs. I was also going to college. I survived, and working three jobs is not easy.
Man, I feel you. Keep focus and as you've already said: keep improving yourself!!!
Yes that’s the goal and I appreciate your support so much. God bless your family and self.
Wish u the best bro! Grind till u get it
Thank you for your support I really appreciate it and I will be grinding for sure. God bless your family and self. And what do you do for work?
Get a job as a cable installer or something in the cable industry. I’ve been in the cable industry for 15 years . Pay is excellent and pretty fair for even beginners. The trade u learn is pretty important and leads to many other things
In the industry I’ve done installs, service calls , underground construction, burying drops / driveway bores , fiber splicing ect . It can be hard work but it’s never boring. On occasion I can get tips but ur already making a pretty good wage from get go . Overtime is easily obtained if u want and most places will give u free cable / net ect if u work for them .
What is the best way to get started ?
Man, im a freshly graduated high school student and work full time right now. I am pretty unhappy but My biggest fear is getting stuck in that loop of working multiple jobs and I’ve seen it happen to the people i love. I noticed we are being completely fucked over and the work life balance is unstable for most individuals because the cost of living is so high. i plan to do something i love for work in future. Big ups to you it takes a big man to work multiple jobs. Keep that grind up you’re gonna get to where you wanna go.🙏
Congratulations on graduating you will do great things for God and your support and motivation means a lot to me. Thank you for taking the time to share this with me. God bless your family and self.
God will bless you for your hard work. He sees your consistency and dedication and it will come a time when he will give you rest. So keep doing good because your reward will be great🙂.
Amen and thank you I really needed to hear this simple message.🙂
God bless you man I hope he blesses your family and you with everything you guys ever needed, I pray you get a lot more time with your family too and have everything in abundance…..
God bless your family and self too. I appreciate you pouring out blessings and it’s much needed. Welcome to the family and how’s your day?
All these comments talking about "what skills do you have" or "bruh just get a job in whatever job". No one should be working three jobs to survive PERIOD! You're working three jobs, while the companies you are working for are making millions if not billions off of your hard work.
It's so sad that we all have one life here on Earth, and the majority of it, you're working. Keep going homie, we all gotta work to survive unfortunately.
I appreciate you and thank you for understanding the message behind the video and why I share my real life experiences for people to learn from. I will always keep moving forward and blessings to your family and self.
Thank God you are healthy and alive .We are in the boat ,praying for you bro.
Yes thankful and grateful everyday. And I appreciate you. God bless your family and self.
I work at amazon amd do a side hustle and this the 2nd month i cant even make rent.
I think I will be doing one of my next videos about this topic. If my wife doesn’t do a video with me.
I appreciate you posting. Always seeking more in promotions, in knowledge, in savings, and in different jobs that pay more
Thank you for that and know that your support doesn’t go unnoticed here. I will continue to post real life raw content about relatable topics. God bless your family and self brother.
Just stay strong and be safe Man. You’re on the right path!!!!
Thank you for the encouragement and God bless your family and self. I appreciate you.
Yo that’s me. I’m working two jobs though. But I am only doing it to pay off my debt. I should be done paying off debt in about 6months but I hate not having time for myself, it’s hella stressful but I keep telling myself this is only temporary.
Congratulations bro. I respect your grind and God bless your family and self.
Got recommended this video. Stay healthy and strong brother, hoping you make it through ☝🏾
I will and thank you so much for your support and taking the time to encourage me. I means more to me than you probably think. 💯
stay hydrated, brother. praying for you.
I will and I appreciate your support a lot. God bless your family and self.
Keep pushing Papa. You'll get to where you want to be.❤❤❤
Thank you I appreciate your support and God bless your family and self. ❤️
@@ChosenLondon ❤️
@KJ-he6hf ❤️
New follower just because I feel you. Seems like most of us are going through the same thing. Continue to push and strive forward. Better days will come.
Thank you so much for your support I really do appreciate it and you’re right things will get better for us and better days coming soon.
This, too, shall pass.
Get a government job, work for your local city and get the pension and benefits. 7am-4:30pm. Great pay
Thank you so much for this advice
What is a Government Job?
@juicemeltdown5820 a job working for the government in some type of way.
@@ChosenLondondepends what kind and they don’t pay either. If you think these other jobs are bad getting a government job I hope you get therapy also. They treat you 1000x worse
@@ChosenLondondepends what kind and they don’t pay either. If you think these other jobs are bad getting a government job I hope you get therapy also. They treat you 1000x worse
Keep pushing bro I recently graduated and I'm applying for alot of jobs nothing seems to be falling through but something has fall through all love may god watch over you and your family.
I definitely appreciate your support bro I will never give up and you will do great you following through and graduating shows that you’re on the right track stay strong and encourage. God has great plans for us bro.
@@ChosenLondon amen I trying to start strong and find a sense of purpose
@vokillerbee seek God and the kingdom first and the rest will come brother.
GOOD MAN!
I’m speaking that your spirit, rewrites your money agreements and beliefs about money so that you can get down to one job that will provide everything that you need. And will be one that you love. MONEY IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT!
But I’m so impressed that you are a black man that is willing to go out and to do this type of labor for your family. That says a lot about what you’re made of and your character!❤❤❤❤
I appreciate your support and kind words a lot because I don’t hear this much positivity at once. And yes I will break this generational curse of being broke. Blessings to your family and self from God. ❤️
I love your mindset, and I'm optimistic about your future. Keep grinding 💪🏽!!!
Thank you for your support and motivation. I will keep grinding for sure and what do you do for work?
This is literal modern day slavery. I’m so sorry you’re having to endure this
Things will improve and I appreciate your support. God bless your family and self.
This broke my heart. I wish you nothing but the best on your future endeavours sir. May God truly bless you soon 🙏🏾
He will and I appreciate your support. God bless your family and self as well.
Mad respect for you man. I hate my job too but we gotta make a living. But if you keep up with your channel, your youtube ad revenue will be enough to go full time and thrive.
That’s one of the goals. I appreciate you and remember to keep moving forward during your grind.
This is so relatable. I work overtime and I barely stay afloat. Work life balance feels nonexistent.
My country Malaysia is friggin overworked. I feel ya. 🇲🇾
That is my goal to be relatable and I wish I could find a job that fit me that would offer some overtime. But then I know about how taxes work with the overtime. Hang in there things will get better or make them better for yourself. God bless your family and self.
We must improve ourselves and make our own paths sometimes and it won’t be easy. God bless your family and self.
I work three jobs and I damn near hate it. I should just be doing one job and chill. I want a girlfriend so bad but the way my life is set up currently not possible. So I understand your frustration. Trying to pay the off the mortgage fast so I can be free just turn 29 didn’t think I’d be here
Stay motivated your doing it the right way. God bless you and your family.
Man I just did a video saying the same thing, I want to get to a point where my wife and 3 girls don't have a need for nothing! I'm trusting God gonna make a way because I gotta start a business and become an entrepreneur man! I pray that God bless you brother and your success
Thank you for your support and God bless your family and self. Praying for your business that it’s everything your family could ever want and some.
Whether you're a business owner or an entrepreneur, you're still going to have a boss. Prestigious titles means nothing.
I’m working on accepting and listening to other authorities God places in my life. Yall don’t understand how much yall help me out and I appreciate you. 💯
I used to work two jobs and I hated it. Glad I no longer work. GL
How did you do it and thank you.
Saw that Amazon vest and instantly had ptsd 😂😂 200 stops 300+ packages in the same neighborhood of Texas everyday.
😂 my bad for the ptsd and what do you do now?
I’m single, no wife, no kids and moved back in with my pops.
I had a job and didn’t like and said I was done with it.
If you have mouths to feed then you have to be responsible and dependable. That’s the life you chose though.
There’s losers like me who can’t even get a date so look on the bright side. You got offspring and woman who loves you through hard times.
Facts and you stay encouraged young man you have a lot of life so learn from my mistakes and build your self up and you will have plenty of women that will love you for you and create a blessed family. Keep God first and do it the right way it’s much easier. I did choose this but I was ignorant lacking all of the knowledge though. I’m still blessed like you so take something positive from this and apply it to your life. 💯
As a woman this is real. I hate that he is in this position but having a loving family is such a blessing. I am 25 chronically single - would kill for a man like this
@Justauri-asdfghjkl I appreciate your words a lot and God bless your family and self.
man I’m 19 I’m at Amazon too I work 12 hrs and 3 days this shit so draining and my body be aching and I hate it so much I’ve been trying to look into trades and shit but all of them been saying pay tuition and I don’t even have a car like it’s hard out here but hopefully I make it but I feel you may god bless you g
PS: im seasonal not blue badge so I don’t even get all the full benefits and I’ve been here for about 2 months and I always hit my rate and work good so idk
You are young and motivated so figuring out what you are passionate about and want to do for work in this season of life is key. You got this. This position is temporary and things will get better if you keep putting in the work and trust God. And God bless your family and self.
@@ChosenLondon ik im late to this comment but thanks man I’ve been doing good so far
@ynsmoov that’s great news to hear. And better later than ever.
I’m so tired of spending my life doing things I don’t wanto do. I feel like I’m forced to work. The fact that my life is like this is really depressing. I’ve been working for 38 years. 38 years wasted
Yea Scott I’m not trying to have any feelings close to this anymore for sure. And what do you do for work?
@@ChosenLondon I’ve just realized lately at 53 that I’m not able to actually enjoy my life. I’m at work so much then family duties on top of that.
I don’t think life is supposed to be work based. There must be a balance. I know there are people without hobbies or interests that fill their time by going to work. I’m the opposite. I’m not left with enough time to ride my bike long distance or enduldge in a video game for hours. I have a boring office job that has become extremely repetetive. I won’t be truly happy until I can either cut down my work hours by a large margin or fully retire. If I was informed during my birth and could comprehend what the doctors were saying when they told me I’d basically be a slave to a currency for about 50 years then I would have crawled back inside
@scottymaczayda9531 have you thought about perusing something that you are actually passionate about? And I can relate to of what you said as well. That’s why I’m doing everything I can to change it.
@@ChosenLondon I think work is work and at 53 it’s probably too late to becone a pro cyclist or game designer.
Most of us these days are in the same boat. Working to pay the bills and the government and take care of our loved ones. It’s just too bad that living is based upon a currency.
@scottymaczayda9531 it’s definitely not to late. You have to get your passion and drive back. You can still do both.
We don’t have money for tips! It’s the same reason you have to work 3 jobs bro. Seriously go to school at night and learn a trade. 4 hours of sleep max until you get to where you need to be. Blessings on your journey
I understand both sides and your right I might need to sleep less until I get further ahead.
@@ChosenLondon God will give you the strength, trust Him🖤
@MoPerspective Amén 🙏🏾 🖤
Are you or you & your wife opposed to joining the military? I would suggest the USAF. There are lots of bonuses, programs, and different opportunities to take advantage of that no one talks about.
If you have any questions, you can ask me anytime. Me and my wife went from enlisted at 17 to officers. Then, I became a military physician. Now, my wife is planning to retire at 37 and I will be transitioning into civilian medicine. We have rental properties, zero debt outside of mortgage, multi millions in retirement accounts, and kids/future kids are set for college all because of taking advantage of everything the military has to offer.
No I haven’t thought of both going but yes me for sure. We have questions as well.
I'm So Glad That I'm Going Back To School In The Fall. I'm SICK OF Just Having A Job Myself.
Congratulations what are you going to be studying?
@@ChosenLondon Fine Arts In Theater
Sending blessings your way on your journey.
I know the struggle. Both my parents work. My mom is a school bus driver & floral designer, and my dad is a warehouse worker. They struggle every month just to live and are still considered the working poor.
What do you do for work and I’m praying their situation gets better unless they are truly happy content and at peace with their lives. Some people don’t need a lot so remember that too. They probably care more about you at this point.
@@ChosenLondon I start a new job very soon! It’s a retail position at a store. I’m used to working in food service, so getting my 1st ever retail position excites me. I’m only working part time, but at least I have some way to keep my mind busy
@TheNathanielPatterson that is great and congratulations. Let me know about your experience.
You got this! Keep grinding bro!
Yes, Always moving forward and grinding. I appreciate you bro!
It’s honorable that u are working ur ass off to provide for your family .
Like many others have said tip expectation has gotten out of control. What ur doing is based on tips for sure and either Amazon should compensate to better hourly rate if not getting appropriate tips or just bill automatic gratuity.
I think what many have a problem with is tip expectation and pushing for it everywhere. It’s getting crazy. Tips for delivery, amazing work in my home , restaurant server , bar tending , taxi / Uber ect makes sense …..tips for a cashier at chipotle, tips at subway …..hell tips and a damn circle k is insane .
It’s everywhere and it’s hurting those who work jobs that classically get tips .
I say this to people all the time. Companies that sever coffee and basic services all asking for tips especially during this economic crisis just made it worse for people who actually survive from the tips. Sad situation. I made a video about tips.
you sound like a friend of mine, he works 3 jobs.... all he does is work... that's not living and I don't want to go down the same route. right now I have a chance to go to school and i am in school right now but I'm really not fit for school but this is my only choice.... I never had a father or mother to teach me anything and I'm slow already so it sucks even more but even though Im struggling with school I'm not going to give up. Good luck bro and keep doing your thing, hope the best !
God bless your family and self too bro along with your journey through school you got this. What are you going to school for?
Keep at it, man. I'm in university and trying to get into law school. If all goes to plan, I should hopefully get into the law field in 5 years from now. Luckily, I get good financial aid at the university I'm going to, and I'm only paying like a couple hundred bucks a semester. If you're poor like me, go to where they're willing to help you out and avoid student loans as best you can.
@christianpimentel1426 congratulations bro and trust me I will taking your advice on this for sure.
You sound like an outstanding dude. Keep grinding but keep your mind open.
Thank you I appreciate you and it is learning to keep God first.
The rat race doesn't end. As long as you're in the US anyway. You're young though, so work and save and do what you have to do.
Im in the process of getting it done now.
I respect the hustle and work ethic especially since you're doing it for you and your family. I would recommend you do a less is more approach. Consolidate the 3 jobs into 1 job that has good benefits, decent pay, etc. Then using the time you would have to work a second or third job, I would skill up and find trades/skills that are highly paid: coding, digital marketing, seo, data science. There are so many online resources and courses/certifications (many of which are free) that you can utilize. It won't be easy but the pay off will be tremendous when you are earning a six figure and above salary. You got this! 👍
Where does he find time with 3 jobs?
How do you have time for your family?
Im trying to do something like this now. I just need to find a place to teach me or give me an opportunity in tech. IT sales. Or I would do coding.
24 hours in a day.
That’s the balance it’s not easy and partly why I made this video to highlight that point .
Stay strong brother
I will and I appreciate your support. And God bless your family and self.
God has a plan for you. keep going, don't quit.
Amen and I’m not quitting just searching for something that I can grow in. And thank you for your support.
This is wicked. No one should have to work 3 jobs to survive. Sadly, working multiple jobs is the norm. Extreme Capitalism and inflation is killing us. I wish you and your family peace. I hope that the time will come soon where you don’t have to work 3 jobs. Your family is blessed to have you.
Amen and every thing will come together for us for sure in God time. I appreciate you and God bless your family and self.
@@ChosenLondon That’s a nice outlook. I believe in God too. I believe that when Yeshua returns he will restore everything. There will no longer be any exploitation, poverty, sickness, death, etc. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish” Jn 3:16 I look forward to The King returning, despite no one knowing when it would happen.
@Topg1 Amen TopG!
Iam with you brother. I work three jobs as well I pray for all the people in our situation 🙏
God bless your family and self.
I can’t stand when managers start trying to “set you up” at your full time job lol. You just get a gut feeling that they’re about to let you go or try their best to get rid of you.
Yes it’s so sad to realize your just another butt in the seat seat to them when it’s all said and done.
Is the survival of the fittest out here. You got to support your family and yourself. At least you got a job. Money doesn’t grow on trees. Go get a trade. Start side hustle. Complaining won’t do any good. You got to change your mindset and situation. Pray to God🙏. I know is not easy for a black man out here. A lot of racism and hatred. Fight for yourself and family.
Amen thank you so much for this inspiration it’s means a lot to me. I appreciate you and God bless your family and self.
@@ChosenLondon you too. Keep be strong for you and your family. Your family needs you. Keep fighting.
@yllamadavenport8339 I will never stop fighting and thank you for reminding me of this.
I work two full time jobs and it's brutal dude. Sometimes I'll be working 90+hrs a week.
Why am I working so hard? I'm paying off all my debt. I owe almost $18k, trying to get it all done in less than a year
That’s awesome bro keep up the grind. I will be doing the same just have way more debt though….
How much debt do you have if I may ask?
I haven’t added it all up in a while but could be close to possibly 100k
@@ChosenLondonsheeshhh bro how you in debt so much you don’t even look over 27
@qsboyz319_ bad money management is the short answer. But I am getting through it.
I work at amazon as a process assistant. If you are still interested in being an delivery driver, i should recommend applying to UPS, Fedex, or postal service as a driver. They pay alot more per hour than the DSP do.
I appreciate your support and honesty. And yes one of my options is working for FedEx if that’s God plan for me. And how long did it take for you to get into that position? What was the process?
@ChosenLondon I work for amazon for two years and when I got the opportunity to get into a higher position, I apply for it. Plus me and the interviewer knew each other which made it easier lol.
@Bigmil242 okay I understand and congratulations. What it like working that position? What all do you like or dislike?
@ChosenLondon It stressful when dealing with associates that don't want to listen sometimes but i like it.
@Bigmil242 is the pay well worth it and some?
How many hours of sleep do you get a night? I always wonder this when people say they have 3 jobs. Are you running on 4 hours of sleep a day?
Yes. I fell asleep on the floor at one of my jobs
Usually I get at least 6 I been making sleep more a priority now though. And don’t get me wrong I take more breaks and naps than I need to personally. I want to work at least 19 hours a day to get to my next goal money wise.
I always think about curling up under my desk and get a good nap in. Some sleep at their desks.
@liyahs1energy I did once and I dislike the feeling of waking up and having to act like you were not just sleeping and looking around to see who noticed.
Respect the hustle - Subscribed.
Thank you so much for supporting me and subscribing. And God bless your family and self.
your health,energy, and mental is important...prayers to you and family...gg😔
Thank you for your support and I appreciate the blessings. God bless your family and self.
People usually start their videos whilst sitting in the vehicle
You had an innovative approach in walking then getting into your car
Interesting cinematography dude
Yes I’m adding in my own creativity but not trying to venture too far away from what’s working. I’m just grateful I’m finally getting a true community filled with amazing and wonderful blessed people.
God bless u brother. JESUS is with u. I moved from az to a cheaper place down south. Its just gonna get more expensive bro. I have a wife and 3 kids and i live in a 5 br 3br mini mansion down south. Good luck and blessings to u. U r indeed a hustler
Congratulations on the move and thank you for the blessings. God bless your family and self.
You’re mad at regular people for not tipping instead of being mad at the billionaire CEO that’s exploiting you and not paying you nearly enough 🥴. Make it make sense.
I agree and I’m not mad at people just the set up in general but you hit nail on the head brother. Mislead frustrations.
If you listen and he’s letting you know what life is like for a normal person he didn’t say he’s mad about anything stop trying to go against the people that look like you have more understanding and try to help find the solution. That’s the problem with black men now just lost and want to debate about everything
If you listen and he’s letting you know what life is like for a normal person he didn’t say he’s mad about anything stop trying to go against the people that look like you have more understanding and try to help find the solution. That’s the problem with black men now just lost and want to debate about everything
@jkrystal11 you make a really great point and that’s why one of my missions is to help change our community and culture. I grew up around blacks fighting and mainly killing each other. Evil in this world are tricking us to fight each other instead of working together because if we do black men and women will be very powerful especially if we have God first. Believe me they don’t ever want to see this day come true. Just know I truly appreciate you and God bless your family and self.
@@ChosenLondon of course no problem, just learn to trade it may take you a few months to a few years to get it but once you do, no one can take that away from you. As far as Black people go like the Bible says 2/3 will be cut off. That’s a sad reality. Focus on the good Black people. There’s a few out there and focus on your happiness and your family, and God will always make away.
I have always liked being a generous tipper…. But TIP CULTURE has caused me to do a COMPLETE REVERSE.. if I’m not being waited on at a sit down restaurant.., I have stopped leaving tips across the board, and don’t care how they look back at me!!! Whoever you’re working for needs to pay you properly… tipping has exploded into insanity.., and people have finally had enough.., including me.., I’m unapologetically done with the tipping.., except for to an actual server in a sit down establishment!!!
… AND… if they add a tip.., without my permission.., although I always over tip.., if they add gratuity automatically of 20- 25% etc.., plus other miscellaneous fees .., I outright decline the fees.., and don’t leave a penny extra over the added amount! I am OFFICIALLY DONE with tip culture in America.., done I say!!!….
I understand exactly where you’re coming from for real it’s just a messed up vicious cycle now.
That’s mentality’s is messed up.
Especially, the grocery orders like ship, instacart, spark. Even DoorDash or Uber. The grocery orders is what I’m referring to. Shopping, waiting in line, and having to bag the items myself. I would hope people tip. Being as that is so many steps we have to do.
N yes, most people don’t realize for shipt, DoorDash, and Uber, from what I’ve seen and done, these stores make us bag these groceries ourselves.
Messed up no tip😢
@Mommyvisions things will get better for us and our hard work will pay off for us in the end. Stay encouraged.
@@Mommyvisions I agree.. I would DEFINITELY tip in any form of true personalized service like instacart etc…
@jatall2797 you have a good great and God will bless you for giving. And God bless your family and self.
bro i work 3 days a week. This week i'll work only 2 days and i still hate my job. Damn bro... Stay hard and strong! wish you all the best!
Brother you're lucky working only 3 days
What do you do for work and why do you dislike it?
That’s love assuming it’s not 40 hours cramped into 3 days.
I appreciate the honesty
You’re welcome all the time here. And I appreciate your support. God bless your family and self.
It's rough yes I work 3 jobs but I can't complain because if it wasn't for all 3 I wouldn't have a nice car.
Same. I can relate and I appreciate your support.
I've been there it won't be like this for ever things will get Better my brother don't give up.
Thank you so much for this encouragement I appreciate you.
Hang in there bro. It'll get better!!✊
Facts it will and I appreciate you bro.
@@ChosenLondon You're welcome
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I pray for you and your family and I hope god blessed you sir ❤
I appreciate you so much for that and He did. You being here supporting me is a blessing and just don’t forget I actually do appreciate you and your support and taking the time to let me know this sir. ❤️
That's why I'm glad I joined the military at a young age, what young people don't know is that little time in the military,I did 3 and1/2 years, can equal a life time of financial payments.If you learn the VA claims process.
Thank you for serving and you learned how to take advantage of many earned blessings. How was your experience like?
Very intelligent.Im about to get out to
@eViLbUnNY545 what will you be doing?
@@ChosenLondon cyber security analyst
Congratulations and do you have a job lined up already?
You’re definitely grinding. Make sure your wife grind and get that bag too. Don’t let her sit back and watch you suffer, bruh.
Understood and we are making the best plan. Just have to get myself right first with God and everything will work out for sure. And I appreciate your support bruh.
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Man I did Uber eats to test it out man people were giving me 1$ tips 😂😂😂 no joke. Right now I’m working for Amazon warehouse and about to get back into doing Uber eats to bring in some extra cash.
My goal right now is to eliminate rent. I’m thinking about buying some land and slapping a trailer on it and calling it a day.
That's my worker git going on, he got lucky, her parents gave him land after they passed and he got a trailer, he only pay for wifi. Companies are offering him.big bread for the land but he not giving up his freedom
Be grateful because sometimes they won’t even give you the dollar. 🤦🏾♂️ And I am trying to get my wife to be okay with a plan like that.
True blessing.
@@Stay-safe-on-the-internet only paying for WiFi.. man that’s the dream! I’ll get there soon 💪🏾
We will get there God willing.
I work 1 and I hate it I can’t imagine 3!! Omg 😱
It’s a blessing that you only have to work one job.
i feel you man i have 1 job and i hate it narcissists trying to set you up keep your head up
I will and I hope you find work that your passion about. Don’t be afraid for years to change don’t be loyal to a company that most the time doesn’t care about you most the time.
@@ChosenLondon I'm actually okay I work with a lot of women so there will always be chaos I'm 41 make decent money as a tech I will stick it out I'm guessing you are in your 20s make wise decisions on a daily basis and everything will come together god bless
Im learning to make better decisions and choices now. But paying for my past every day it feels like.
@@ChosenLondon its all about discipline you will be surprised on what you can accomplish with discipline
@AlexSanchez-cs9fq learning to apply it now. So true.
Be sure to reward yourself when you reach a goal.
We have been talking about this now. Celebrate the small victories as well with the blessings. Thank you for this reminder. And welcome to the family.
I’m sorry you goin through this. It’s not too late. You gotta find a career that pays you enough and comes with a good benefit package including pension. Luckily I started very young and believed in the vision. I can tell you can do it too
Thank you for the motivation and inspiration I needed this encouragement and congratulations. What’s your career?
@@ChosenLondon Airforce
@Doomziy thank you for serving and what are your favorite experiences on the job?
@@ChosenLondon can’t really say I have a favorite experience other then the different cultures I get to be around. Other than that the pay is dope especially where I live with the low cost of living ( Missouri) and my healthcare is free. It has its ups n downs ofcourse.
@Doomziy I understand. Do you like it in Missouri?
I feel your pain brother
What do you do for work?
I have had so many jobs in the last few months but as of right now I do valet for gold crown, I cover shifts at Planet fitness and my main job i work as a concierge, I’m taking a risk with little to no money to a job position in Colorado I hope it’s worth it, and wishing you the best man it gets tough but your a fucking warrior man💪
@trickylegacy4663 amen your a warrior as well brother. I pray that it works out for you and if not God will open up the right door for you.
I feel you on the heat. It's like 98 degrees everyday here in my city. Now, when it only got up to like 80 degrees a day. I was not bothered. But these 98 degrees days feels more like 105 degrees. You will sweat so much, and/or run all your gas out using the AC. Is it like a summer slowdown or something. Because many people do not tip here either.
You gotta have ac
Facts but things will get better just continue to keep improving yourself.
Facts.
If you decide to quit the three jobs, what job and/or career will you choose to get an income ? How old are you ? God's continued best to you and your treasured family always !
Looking to get into IT sales and thank you for your support and kind words. God bless your family and self always.
Hey look into being a Heavy Equipment Operator which is a trade. I don’t know where you are located but they have schools everywhere. Stick with it because that trade you will always have a job and your pay increases by the job the more on the job experience you have. I am in the military and transitioning out and one of my retired military friends work a job for about 3 months and be off the next 3 or so however long he wants. He picks his job he wants to work and locations and also controls how long he wants to be off after he has worked on a location. This will give you flexibility with family and you will feel more in charge of your family time. Best of luck and blessings to you 🙏🏽
God bless your family and self and thank you for serving. I appreciate this option so much because it checks a lot of the boxes for me. Thank you so much. 🙏🏾
@@ChosenLondon you’re so welcome 👍🏽.
Im not even 20 and i kinda started to give up on the "dream job" .
I never worked but what im seeing here is:
1. Have no kids
2. If you can work from your parents home do it.
3. Find your purpose in life, or else why live?
I really just want a job at this point that pays enough for my art materials.
Very low expectations.
I would say that you have to work on your mindset. You can do anything you put your mind and time and all into. Keep God first and He will give you the desires of your heart and keep everything aligned with God. Raise your expectations. I appreciate your support and God bless your family and self.
Stay home- work 2 jobs and do your art. Save a crap ton of money, drop the 2nd job. Focus on your art, learning a valuable skill like a trade/CDL/tech wise and one job. Do this- stay out of trouble, try not to have any kids and you’ll be fine. Your dream job could be making art. Set yourself up good. Learn to balance work and play. Don’t be afraid to fail and ask yourself why did I fail ? Take risk. Save 10k and get some secured credit cards- go find some roommates. Don’t take these videos as the end of the world. This is just his situation. If you could stay home for another 5 years comfortably and work really hard- you’ll be good. Don’t goof off in your 20s either. Worse time to do it.
@renebleu8711 solid advice welcome to the kingdom family. I will be applying this advice for sure. And what do you do for work?
This is why im innschool for nursing.. i also have kids. When it comes to a job you gotta make it make sense.
Blessings to your family and self and yes I’m learning to do that as we speak.
Look into trades bro, it’s very hard work, but if you put the time in you find the right place to work and you gain the knowledge you need you can go very far and you could even start your own thing. That’s what has helped me. God bless Big Homie I hope you find a better avenue for you and your family! At the end of the day you’re still grinding and providing for you family rn! Ion know anybody who works 3 jobs. It sounds like you have the right mindset to find a trade you like and work your way up the ladder.
I can’t afford tips really, but I still tip people way more than I should when I can because I know how hard it is out here
Thank you so much for this encouragement and I’m looking for the next best move or option now. Thank you for your prayers and support as well it means a lot to me.💪🏾
God will bless you for doing that especially when you don’t have much yourself. You are a great person. And God bless your family and self.
Electrical and plumbing seem to be the most lucrative. Id go with electrical
If you start your own business get a business coach or someone to guide you. Your competitors are established companies that have been around 60 years plus. Their leaders have gone to college for business. The people with money usually go to the bigger companies that know what theyr doing, so you’re gonna end up with price shoppers. But thats just my experience do whatever you want
I’m off that 3 jobs biz ! That’s crazy bro .. your time into yourself who supersede any of your expectations
What are some best practices with the time that you put into yourself?
@@ChosenLondon meditating and mostly just sitting and thinking to myself . My approach is just to be calm cool and collective
@NashTheKing1 i really do like and will embrace this myself.
@@ChosenLondon inshallah. We can make money but can’t make ourselves happy . Tapping into you will set you on the right path .
@NashTheKing1 that you so much for this message it was right on time.
This is why who you vote for as president matters. I don’t know why people claim it doesn’t but my neighbor worked at Amazon! As a delivery driver! We are in CALIFORNIA & he bought his house 4.5 years ago. He told me, he would be homeless if he is where we are at 4.5 years ago. His house is worth $200k more now and the interest is 7% so there’s no way he could afford his own home today. Idk what job he has now (the uniform was a dead giveaway before) but now he works and then I see he does over driving.
This is NOT normal. People could buy homes off of low wage jobs before. Don’t forget.
Im tired of these overpriced apartments and ready for a house but quickly realythe market is so high right now.
@@ChosenLondon don’t be ashamed to rent a room to cut costs. Or share a 2bd with someone. Even share a 1 bd with someone you are okay living with. Living with parents. Don’t be ashamed of any of that in this economy.
Inflation is going to get worse with these new wars popping off. Even if we’re not directly in them, we fund them. Ride it out. Save money and get your credit right. Eventually, costs will start to drop because people won’t be prepared and with that interest will drop to bring in buyers. That’s when you take the leap.
BUT that timing is very dependent upon who’s the next president. A decent interest is under 4% don’t start looking until then unless you have a lot saved up to put down.
I work 2 full time jobs, and I cannot say I hate it. Because it will drain my motivation. I have to keep on working until I get my debts paid off. And, I have an expensive car loan I pay every month. I have a lot of mexicans work during the daytime and my other job I work at night there are a lot of black people working there.
I agree its best to stay positive because being negative wont get you anywhere. I pray that you are able to get your debt paid off. I will be starting on doing that again soon God willing. Just trying to get the rent paid now.
What skills, talents, and abilities do you possess that you could monetize? That's the next wave me and my friend were just talking about. Especially with the planet Pluto taking us through this next wave in the sign of Aquarius. The regular 9 to 5 jobs are over. I'd like to start a group to help my people discover this. You're gonna make it bruh. Just take some time out to find out what works best for you.
That’s amazing and I’m trying to build similar group but most important help and give back to the community.
@@ChosenLondon that’s good. I hope that you do it. If you need help in figuring it out and pinpointing which areas to focus in. Then just let me know.
@kochayeo I will definitely accept your help. What all do you do?
@@ChosenLondon I use astrology to pinpoint what your strengths are. And help you to discover which areas would be best for you to channel your energy into. By your natural abilities, gifts and talents.