He is right, I payed child support to my eldest sons mother off 9 years early, after courts sent her notice that her support was over she dropped him off at my house wanting nothing else to do with our son, he's 35 years old now to this day he still doesn't speak to his trifling mother
I feel for you and your son. Just stay in his life and be a good father/mentor. And definitely show him videos like this so he knows about how the game is.
she is evil, gold digger and not worth to be a mother ...........Thanks for taking that test pastor , you make us see a different perspective of child support.
I worked on a project for Earthquake last year. He was the kindest, most professional, generous and humble person. So many people were given opportunities to work because of him! Even some of his children were there working. I wish him all the best! Thanks for the opportunity and the job Earthquake! God bless!
I was dropping my son back off and baby momma tells me she shouldn't be catching the bus to get around. I should give her my car or buy her one,told her she can work just like I do so she can buy her own....walked straight to my car and drove off.
She was mad cause he wasnt the one drained and helpless after paying that support. Women get bitter when their ex's life get better and their own gets worse.
Hes the only black man I've ever heard admit to saying his mom issues played a part of the sorry ass women he chose in his life. It seemed like he teared up. But let the healing began. My hat off to you sir.
@@katybrown9205 You're right. I apologize. You said "It's the only black man you've ever heard"....... Again, I apologize. You were clearly speaking for yourself. I misread your post and thought it said it was the only black man that has ever admitted it.
“I wish the woman of my dreams was the mother of my children” something I have thought a million times but have never said aloud. This man is a genius!!!!!
💯. At some point we have to acknowledge that many men desire and are better equipped to be the primary custodial parent than their child’s mother. If she’s getting constant eviction letters and struggling, the kids need to be with their dad.
Man some of these women would fall all the way out. Hand over the child to the parent who can take care of ALL of their needs without waiting on a check? Some of these folks would drop like flies. Too much like right.
That's a real comment, " when it comes to the financial aspect of parenting, I am the sole parent. Every other decision, we co-parent". Wow!! this a true gem of a statement.
@Christopher Briscoe The double standards in women today are ridiculous. They want to have a voice and authority like men in relationships but when it comes to taking on the responsibilities a good husband/father has they don't want any of that.
@@nonyabidness5454 They you go putting down the so called black man. It's no wonder that the so called black women, statistically is the last to get married, compared to other ethnic groups. It goes both ways sis we each have to play our roles and know our roles.
Why we always blaming each other. Men say women want bums and yall women say we want bums. Why cant we just love and give each other a chance to work together
I would have saved up a lot of money, if I was a single woman getting an extra 3,500 a month , you could have saved a lot a month .... , 2 story house mortgage around 800 a month . Car insurance 140 amonth . Food about 200 a week . Light / gas 70 a month . clothes , 300 a month . Gas each week 40 . How you almost homeless ???
Hold up. He paid a year early? She acted like he paid 10 years early and she still has to take care of their child by herself. Girl, bye. She should’ve planned better.
@mizzmolly u have absolutely no idea of what ur talking about when it comes to economics. Even if cost of living has increased everyone knows wages for the most part has remained stagnant
@mizzmolly I can only speak on my case. My child support was the same rate for 18 years. I received raises and had good paying jobs over those 18 years. I'm in California the worst state for child support.
Lol. At court, my daughter's mother cried and played victim when the judge told her the child support order will end. My daughter was out of the house and married (20 years old). Her mother said she thought I should continue to pay. Judge didn't even respond.
My daughter’s father and I NEVER had to deal with financial issues through child support, THANK GOD!! There was a time he was laid off for 4 years and I just bit the dust Because I knew he was struggling because of work issues, when he got back on his feet, there was no back child support issues when he was out of work because he was a great dad not just financially, he picked her up from school, he got her extra weekends or what ever it took for us to raise her!! He died on Father’s Day from ALS!! And til this day his kids love him and I am grateful that he and I was able to work together as coparents to raise our daughter!! I love you Andre Hunter RIP☀️🌙💯🔥💕❤️💪🏾
crystal gee my condolences to you and your daughter. You picked a great one!! I say it time and time again your presence is more important than your presents.
@@jayhardin3259 , James Hardin , he worked odd jobs but not in the field he was in, he also got sick, lost his car, it was a combination bad luck and the struggles of life
He’s a good dude that wears his emotions on his sleeve. You can see the hurt in his eyes. Keep doing the right thing, everything will workout in your favor.
@@TheSunshineplace10 WTF DO YOU MEAN. Yall get patted on the back in the media all the freakin time. tf? The entire system encourages single motherhood. and no, nobody is gonna congratulate you for picking the wrong guy to have a kid with. and if the man HANDLES HIS RESPONSIBILITY FULLY, then you are not a single mother, you're an unmarried mother or coparent.
@@TheSunshineplace10 see but this is your problem. WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE NOT THE SUBJECT OF THE VIDEO. but thats a woman for you, ALWAYS HAS TO MAKE IF ABOUT HER. WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT HIS BABYMOM DID. sit your goofy ass in the corner
@@TheSunshineplace10 it's both parents "responsibility" you tard! He paid off early to get that leach out of his life. Now she's fucked in the game!!! Standing ovation for Quake!!! 🍻
Listen to this. He paid all of his child support off early...18 years of money. And handles all of their expenses on top of that including college tuition. Everyone stand up and give this man a well deserved pat on the back. Well done sir. You have gone beyond the normal.
Men should be fed up done with the shenanigans. Men should be men. Period point blank!!! THE man is SUPPOSED TO SET THE TONE AND THE STANDARDS FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. When are you guy's going to do this? We would NOT HAVE TO GO THROUGH ANY OF THIS IF YOU GUY'S WOULD JUST BE A MAN!!!
Setting the tone doesn't mean babysitting your feelings... y'all are grown ass women, not petulant children... we are leaving y'all behind because of your "my shit don't stink, you're the man so it's your fault" attitude in the dust... stay bitter
@@stevenpea6458 not bitter at all. Just want a man to be a man. Certainly, we're adults (women). Setting the tone...if done right, dear sir there wouldn't be the need to babysit ANYONE'S FEELINGS. Setting the tone does not mean mistreatment of ANY kind. The man should treat the woman, as he treats HIMSELF. All $#!+ stinks kind sir...if the man sets the tone of the relationship, stuff goes awry...who should we blame, kind sir? It's obvious something went wrong for you. Align yourself with PEOPLE who have the same standards as YOURSELF (or your "expected" standards) DON'T FORGET TO SET THE TONE. Good day to YOU!!!!
@BlackHawk 66 you're sick. That's obvious from your HIGHLY, DISRESPECTFUL REPLY/COMMENT. Somewhere between babyhood and adolescence you weren't TAUGHT to LOVE YOU!!!! Ya momma is a bonafide trick! If black women are traitors, what does that make you? A spineless, trick?! Grow up. Please don't trust yourself...not until you grow some ⚾️🥎🏀🏐
I paid support for 21 years in NYS. We had 1 daughter. One day my daughter called and said her car was shot and need another used car. She was in college. I still owed $3500,00. Remaining on the support. I put a check in the mail for the $3500.00 to my daughter. I was done. My X hit the roof. I told my X what's the difference? It all goes to my daughter. She was pissed. She didn't have a leg to stand on. I got the last laugh. She was living on that money. I'm so glad it's over.
@B.S. MBA You're trolling right? Like you don't get what he means somehow? Here's why child support sucks and is flawed. It's based off a percentage of your income, and not the child's basic monthly needs. Now why does this suck? Because what in the heck is your child getting every month that warrants more than $500-600/a month. You don't get a say or any proof of what's it's actually used for. Once that money is gone from you, it's gone. When the custodial parent is willingly unemployed, or on state assistance, they charge you more. This one tricky, because if the financially responsible parent cannot or will not take physical custody of the child then it makes sense, but if the financially responsible parent is willing and able to take primary custody of the child then why can't they? My child is never be at risk of being homeless, my child has a home here with me, "you" run the risk of being homeless, and that's on you. A lot people (because men be trifling too) try to use child support as a primary form of income (or spousal support and other forms of fiscally irresponsible nonsense) and not what it's intended to be, child support. So yes child support does suck.
This man's heart is in pain bringing this up. The secret guys is to find a woman with too much pride to beg, but enough humbleness to be led. Stay away from arrogant gullible women
@GrimWare Freddie got a point you don't want a woman you have to think for. She should be self sufficient for the most part. You don't really "lead" them so much it's more making sure she understands what a man is accepts it. If she understands that she is good. Just make sure she's not rebellious to a man's nature. Most American women are foolish rebels without a cause.
If a woman has an ex that paid his child support and she STILL mad at dude, don't get with her. She still got feelings for that man. I wouldn't date ANY woman that still has a mouthful of bad things to say about an ex boyfriend or husband. If she didn't lose anything, why is she complaining? Move on, bruh. She hasn't gotten over that dude.
@LoyaltyOverEveryting We'll said. Good luck with the 20-30% that don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that. Better yet, get money and make sure she is getting money. Make sure her parents have their own or your money will be going to help them too. Guys need to quit selling short and dating broke females that are LIABILITIES. If you're getting money, you don't mess with liabilities; she has to be an ASSET.
@LoyaltyOverEveryting Exactly. If I'm gonna have a woman that has my back, I'm picking a strong one. I'll take the girl with the brains. They can keep the ones at the gym working on asses and titties. I can buy an ass and tits lol.
Why would a man have a child with a woman who has that mentality? To me, if a man and/or woman is irresponsible enough not to take birth control or use condoms expect the consequence of creating a life.
@sour airhead My son's father tried to put me on child support before he had a stroke. I divorce him but decided not to pursue CS because he had him majority of the time. A low life man, didn't paid CS for his twin boys and have the nerve talking about putting me on. That stroke stop him.
Ex-“I haven’t received the child support payment yet for this month.” Earthquake-“I know. I paid it all off early. I fulfilled my financial obligation to my child. I’m done.” Ex-“WHAT?!?! Why in the hell would you do something like that?!?! You ain’t sh!t, Earthquake!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I used to have terrible self esteem because Im not an attractive guy, grey hair, balding, short, chubby, shitty teeth, make a sub par living, my car is 20 years old, and a whole laundry list of these stuff. I’m in my mid thirties now and I gotta say It has taken me a long time to come to grips with all of those things and just be happy with myself. I didnt have much of a hand in what I am just just being a natural born woman repellant but after many years on this earth, Ill take it! Aside from “finding love” my life is and always has been pretty good actually. Out of all of the things that can go wrong in this life, for some reason I was spared in many avenues. I sleep easy and there’s nothing in my life that causes me any stress as big as the lives of people around me and I take that as a blessing. If I sit down and count my blessings... Im actually a pretty rich motherfucker.
Well said, Earthquake and well done, VladTV. Over 15 years, I paid my court ordered child support with little extra in case my daughter needed cash to go out, in case of medical insurance copays, or if I ever got a pay raise at work. Just before my daughter turned 18, my ex took me back to court to get my last 9 payments raised and retro increase for 4 years - an extra 14K. Instead of going to court pro se, I hired a lawyer who showed the judge that i had overpaid the court ordered amount in total by about 5K. Not only did he not order a raise in support or retropayments, I was ordered to stop paying and she had to cover court fees.
Dee Hubb not all men are the same. Some say one thing and do the opposite. That’s why women go to the courts. If it’s so unfair men have gone too and gotten child support changed.
@@shellypmorgan5170 facts say one thing and don’t do anything. You say let’s go half on this or that and never hear anything then they say oh I’ll put myself on child support but never do. They don’t my clothes shoes diaper formula or even spend time or have a bond with the child. But get mad when you wanna put them on cs but they don’t mind trying to get in your pants
He's telling the truth. As a 45 year old woman without children it angers me to see how women use their own children. She needs better money management skills.
Me and my son were watching TV and he asked me "dad, if you won the lottery what would you do with it"? I said "i don't know",then he said "would you give mommy some of the money"? I just looked at him... because I'm like hell your mom is already getting Child support from me... anything I accumulate is mine...
@@andrelewis774 three words ....Pay It Off, after that she can get outta my ear lol,to be honest I don't deal with her now and he's 12 yrs old I'm counting down the days until he's 18
Everette Riddley I would have saved up a lot of money, if I was a single woman getting an extra 3,500 a month , you could have saved a lot a month .... , 2 story house mortgage around 800 a month . Car insurance 140 amonth . Food about 200 a week . Light / gas 70 a month . clothes , 300 a month . Gas each week 40 . How you almost homeless ???
Where are you staying at with bills that cheap? In Georgia, one story single family homes are $1000+ 2 bedrooms apartments are $800+ and don’t forget a car note $400+. Before anyone comment... I have never had a man on child support.
These chicks need to take some responsibility and accountability. Get your money management together and stop trying to live about your means. Be humble.
I’m a 35 year old black man with zero baby mommas. My focus is finishing my MBA in the coming months and continuing to build my career. I refused to have children until I am 100% ready and I know that I’m with the woman I intend to spend the rest of my life with. Every time I hear these co-parenting horror stories I feel more justified in that decision.
not always, just like alot of subjects in relationship situations, its never talked about, alot of time women receive little to nothing, i will give you a personal example, the sperm donor of my two nieces paid a grand total for the year of 2019 of $17....you do the math, i know women who have to pay child support, but like Women who abuse men, men who are sexually molested or raped...it isnt talked about because it doesnt make a good headline.... "Man Pays 100K child support" makes you mad, "Woman Charged With Beating Husband With Iron" makes you laugh...hence the problem...if we gonna talk about one thing, we need to talk about EVERYTHING.
@Midwest Kandi if a sucker as dude goes for that. That doesn't apply to me personally ma'am. My bread is more important than ANY woman. Point blank period
I would support the system if they didn't take 20% for a single child. Researchers has shown throughout history that a kid only requires 12%. Federal incentives is the evil
No, it's for the judges and for the woman's lavish lifestyle. If it was for the children, there would be no court costs deduction and richer men wouldn't be required to pay more than what's necessary for a modest life. There is no way anyone can justify 5-6 figure+ monthly child support payments. That's for the bum bitches.
@@brothernabrick-wall410 you should elaborate more. The state if they are collecting that amt out of child support payments it's due to the mom being on welfare/fitap. Which the father should be responsible to pay the state back? Why should taxpayers have to pay to take care of someone else kid?
Kory Green judges don’t get money from support. My husband got his support lowered by $250 where his ex gets scrapes bc he fought for it and proved the money wasn’t needed and he provide for his child
Do you know what resentment means? 😃😃😃😃 When a man feels an overwhelming amount of negativity towards a woman, more than he wants her, he is now wise? Is your neighbor a gay man?
I AGREE WITH HIM 100%%!!!! my brothers and I had what we needed way beyond 18-yrs-old... matter -of-fact im in my 30s I still have CDs and Savings bonds my mom invested with our child support (Catholic Schools to Bachelor's to Master's Degree no loans needed). She and dad both made sure that money didnt go to bullshit. She had her 35 year teacher career and my dad chemical Engineer until he died when i was 18 yr. Thx GOD I didnt have a mom that depended on a man and she didn't waste anything . 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@H1GHD3FF I HIGHLY EXPRESSED GRATITUDE TOWARD BOTH OF PARENTS! DONT FUCKING PLAY WITH ME. THE POINT IS IN DIRECT CORRELATION OF WHAT EARTHQUAKE WAS EXPRESSING about the mother of his son.. that she needs to get her own without him supporting her ass too Therefore, I was saying after my dad died my mom continued to carry the torch they both created and carried together instead of breaking down and not being able to provide for myself and my brothers.
This statement is like bragging ; oh my daddy bought us pampers and you know what? My mom used them on our bottoms!” Wow, so what .... that’s what they’re supposed to do! It’s a reflection of how far gone this community is.... Real parenting is an implied expectation???
The thing is. The woman is allowed to fall off.the woman is allowed to be broke. But if something happens to the man u not only has to take care of himself and his children the child support never stops and you end up in jail or in some serious debt.
Funny thing abt that child support issue,I only seen ONE WOMAN on “worldstarhiphop.com” who spoke up for men saying that “child support is a broke bitch’s hustle”
Are you saying that men should create children yet have no financial or relational responsibility/ties to the child? I don't have children, but I'm genuinely interested in how ppl feel about this topic.
delicate jewel when you have a child/kids that’s when you’re ELIGIBLE to ask me that question.You said you didn’t have a child but now saying you do? Mentality I see how immature you are.For your satisfaction I’ll give you this,It all stims from bitterness in a female from a relationship that is no more.....#1-Show me a NARRATIVE that gives the perception or stigma that women are deadbeats....#2-Show me any FACTS that there are as many women on child support that it is men.....last but not least #3-How many men have put women on child support after an ending relationship while a child is involved?.......I’ll wait.......... If you can’t hurt the man,your next action is to hurt their pockets......if that doesn’t work,your next step is to keep the child away from the father......As a mother,would you not have to work regardless to having a child or not? As a mother,would you not bust your ass to provide for your child or not even if the father doesn’t contribute? Again, child support is broke bitch hustle......another thing,why is it that if it takes TWO to make a child why is it the mother is the only one can make the decision to abort the child,decide if she can carry the child on her income tax or GIVE PERMISSION to the father when he’s providing for the child all year long while being on child support?....
@@KtotheG I agree with this point. If the woman has the ultimate say on if the child is born or not, the father should have a say on if he wants to finance the child - It's fair. But, only if the 2 CAN'T come to an agreement on if they should keep the child or abort.
@@complexblackness Did you see what they did to Paul mooney ? Absolutely nothing was resolved. They destroyed That man for views . he couldn't even come to John Witherspoons funeral.
The old sayings hold true: "You can never satisfy a woman" "Give a woman the world, she will ask for the moon" Pay child support on time, every time......you still a "deadbeat"
If money wasn't the motivation then why ever time a man and woman pro create together child support is the first thing talked about? Time is of the essence yet let's talk about how we going to raise this child with both energy not just the woman.
She will never give him his dues. Some women hate the mindset and nature of true men. And when u leave them they try to castrate u by destroying your finances. Great men leave financial freedom for their children when they die. A bitter woman tries to destroy that same great man that she laid down to have children with. It's a sad real world
If you're in 2020 and you don't have children you may be better off not having them at all. Women are trained to put their children's fathers in the system as soon as the relationship doesn't work out. It's a financial trap
I agree.. alot them do it just to have another way to make ends meet.. they will then brain wash the child into thinking you are a bad father.. they will pay for this in the end though cause it is wrong
@@rogerblewett5595 I agree. Trust me I have been through and going through it now. These women really don't care for the children they are used as pawns in there sick twisted game.
I actually lived with my Dad after the divorce. I remember hearing all the time "I can't wait until you turn 18 and decide not to go to college" from my Mother. Even when I was 12 yrs old.
Women are too quick to take successful dudes to court for child support after a break up. When my mom and dad split up, they worked it out between themselves. The first few years, she did the heavy lifting because he was building his business and she had a steady job. When his business became more successful, he did it. Private schools from elementary to college were all paid by him in cash, along with standard child support. No lawyers got involved and there where no hard feelings. A big part of that was the fact that my mom had her own career and wasn't trying to use a baby with my dad as a come-up.
It was still the definition of child support it just wasn't court mandated. Your father understood the responsibility of your care and came to an amicable agreement with your mother and helped your mother support you financially.
I have male family members who love their children, spend time raising them and take care of them financially. Yet, the child support system, a component of the criminal justice system, labels and criminalizes them. And if the mother says it, it must be true. It is simply not a fair system because it slanted toward the mother who knows she can use it vindictive ways to get back at an ex. "Child support is supposed to be for the children, not failed relationships" should be on bumper stickers, hats and t-shirts along with "Child support is not adult support."
I think the issue is some men need to be made to take care of their children but it is also used for men who just linked up without protection with someone who is looking for a way to make money off of a man. But, some women need to be made to take care of their children also. When I thought I was going to become a lawyer, I intended to become a family/child support court judge and would find a way to put some type of mandatory job security in for the women. Some of these women sit and live on child support or child support and welfare. When women are on welfare or have kids on Medicaid the government has been known to seek reimbursement from the father years later. Have an uncle who has his liscense suspended because he can't afford the balance of what they want back in Medicaid charges even though he had insurance from his job on the child, the mother just chose to keep him on Medicaid instead.
You are completely right about the injustice court system. But it doesn’t just fuck over men #1 The best lawyer wins. #2 The lawyer that submits lies in court documents first gets those lies accepted as facts. #3 The court wants all the lawyers, and everyone else in their system, to get paid. So the parent with the better income will lose and have to pay. That is frequently happening to women now since some of us are so stupidly settling for losers.
If him paying off the child support 6 months early gonna cause you to be homeless you was in bad shape anyway.... & comedy hype was dead wrong for giving that bitter woman a platform in the first place!!!! Smh💯💯💯
This is another example of females being child like by expecting a man to take care of them because they had a child together even after breaking up SMH. They have child like minds as well.
Amanda Kurtz how is it “spousal support” if they were never a spouse?? 🤔 “she can’t get her p***y back”, did you actually say that? So every man she ever slept with owes her? Just something to think about 😉
Earthquake is sooooooo right..my ex wife tried to use csp to fund her lifestyle as well..when csp was over she got super angry and starting being even more deceitful..she deleted my number and withheld important info about my daughter's college plans..I understand him exactly... That money is a killer when it's over bruh
So she is mad at him for being responsible (by making sure payments were made in case he couldn't work) because of her being irresponsible (by spending all the money).
Jojos Mom Because women quit working when they get child support, same with people on welfare, if they get a job, the government will lower the support so they just don’t work so their income shows zero and payments increase. But after living like that for years with no education or job skills when the money runs out they are left with nothing and facing homelessness.
@@TiVo2Go U really feel that way? Surely that can't account for all women. I don't know a single mom who doesn't work and I don't know anyone whose child support allotment is so great that it could afford them to not work. According to Census, the average amount that men pay for child support is $430. I don't actually see how one can take care of a child with that amount let alone not work. But Im sure Earthquakes wife had a different amount and from what he says, he was the sole provider which is alot. She has to be terribly irresponsible if him paying off the CS 6 months early leads to her being potentially homeless...
It had this one female, cool chick I was dating tell me.. “Even if we live together and have kids, she will still put me on child support!” Welp that was the last time we talk lmao
No matter how a relationship ends,if a man truly feels like his girl is deserving of money,he will gladly give her some. Just look at Michael Jordan of Chris Rock. Women do their best to ruin a man with child support due to resentment or bitterness because deep down they know that they ain't shit.
Can someone tell me why a woman can choose to get rid of a baby without father's permission but a man can't leave and choose not to help raise them? I'm not for either type of person at all but it's messed up one can choose to kill but other can't leave.
My father believed my mother would have him arrested for back child support if he came to the state we lived in. So I grew up without a father and I never saw him. Now I have a tendency to over-involve myself in the lives of my kids (adults now except for 1) as a result and they don't understand what it does to a little boy to cry himself to sleep on his birthday or Christmas when he doesn't get a call or card from his father. And I am glad they don't understand. My mother nearly drove that man mad, and she failed to take care of me. Growing up without parents is a lonely hole that nothing can ever fill. But all you can do as a man is try to live up to your own code and be the only judge of yourself. My brother gets upset with me because my oldest boy is in medical school and I still provide some support to him (he is very independent and doesn't want help from me, but sometimes gets that it is necessary). My son doesn't like me at all. Yet, I still would do anything to help him succeed. I have tried to explain to my brother that my duties as a father spring from my code and my beliefs and that is an obligation and responsibility that never ends. I want to see my son fly as high as he can. My duty to my son doesn't change just because he is upset with me. I don't know. Being a man and a father is just a really, really hard job a lot of times. All you can do is the best you can do.
Men need to come together to petition a change to the child support laws. Just like the “MeTooMoveMent” we need our own movement and march on Washington to get some changes made!
@@s1dubbzz751I agree with you 100%. Social media platforms like this one is helping. Based on comments I have read on different threads online, some men are waking up and trying to make better choices.
Take care if the child. Meaning you're providing the roof. I'll pay child support for that. Just so I can roam freely. When the baby get sick I don't have to go in the middle if the night rushing to the hospital.
According to one witness he said that the sound of the impact was not that loud so I doubt it (bunch of people probably just saw the smoke afterwards and smelled it. The helicopter was already very low prior to the crash and the rotor was hardly turning.
" child support is supposed to be for the children, not failed relationships " someone needed to hear that
Nate Hardy m.ruclips.net/video/UX4pgVxCwNI/видео.html
Exactly
Darius McCray's statement would be more profound if he paid child support on time or didn't choke out his ex-wife.
Say it louder... Thanks
@@abennett3118 Proof?
He is right, I payed child support to my eldest sons mother off 9 years early, after courts sent her notice that her support was over she dropped him off at my house wanting nothing else to do with our son, he's 35 years old now to this day he still doesn't speak to his trifling mother
I feel for you and your son. Just stay in his life and be a good father/mentor. And definitely show him videos like this so he knows about how the game is.
That shady af
she is evil, gold digger and not worth to be a mother ...........Thanks for taking that test pastor , you make us see a different perspective of child support.
How can I do that!?
What a bitch
I worked on a project for Earthquake last year. He was the kindest, most professional, generous and humble person. So many people were given opportunities to work because of him! Even some of his children were there working. I wish him all the best! Thanks for the opportunity and the job Earthquake! God bless!
L. Ford I’ve worked with him years ago...perfect gentleman.
Good stuff!👍
L. Ford
My sister met him one night while she was bar tending and said he was cool as well.
WOW..you are beautiful.
@@jefffrazier6046 ditto
I was dropping my son back off and baby momma tells me she shouldn't be catching the bus to get around. I should give her my car or buy her one,told her she can work just like I do so she can buy her own....walked straight to my car and drove off.
Now!!!!
Carl Minor Sr wow she was bold 😐
Dianne Thompson Bold and stupid 🙄 how the fuck does your EX owe you a car? Somebody please make that make sense.
Lol crazy
She on that dope
She was mad cause he wasnt the one drained and helpless after paying that support. Women get bitter when their ex's life get better and their own gets worse.
that’s so true . some people can’t handle the ex growing and flourishing without them 🤯
I'm dealing with that right now
Ted Brown stay strong 💯✊🏾
She wasn't bitter she sounds lazy.
Dynamic Reacts that’s people in general, but you right
Hes the only black man I've ever heard admit to saying his mom issues played a part of the sorry ass women he chose in his life. It seemed like he teared up. But let the healing began. My hat off to you sir.
@TheNUBLKMAN creator of sin
@TheNUBLKMAN You're lying
@@katybrown9205 That's a lie
@@GeorgiaWhisper no its not
@@katybrown9205 You're right. I apologize. You said "It's the only black man you've ever heard".......
Again, I apologize. You were clearly speaking for yourself. I misread your post and thought it said it was the only black man that has ever admitted it.
they hate when a man has his shit together and can’t be finessed. Lol
keeb is king BEST COMMENT OF JAN 2020
Once they can’t control u ur a “narcissist”
This is straight facts
Bingo my brother!! No lies here!
@@javilt1 Fuck, I literally just heard that
He said " my son is 17, but in child support years he's 18😂😂😂😂😂😂I like him
Home girl should of established a career all those years she was collecting that money.
Or start a business
facts
I agree
That’s what a real one would do
She saw her box as a money maker.
“I wish the woman of my dreams was the mother of my children” something I have thought a million times but have never said aloud. This man is a genius!!!!!
Me too 😭😭😭😭but another nigga fucking her now.
Dream Chasers for sure
He spoke the real 💯
straigt factss
Facts 💯
Send the child with parent that can take care of them, simple and plain.
This right here would solve everything in the system.
I agree 100%
💯. At some point we have to acknowledge that many men desire and are better equipped to be the primary custodial parent than their child’s mother. If she’s getting constant eviction letters and struggling, the kids need to be with their dad.
If they did that, it would upset the special interest groups that worked hard to place that dead beat dad stigma in the minds of so many people.
Man some of these women would fall all the way out. Hand over the child to the parent who can take care of ALL of their needs without waiting on a check? Some of these folks would drop like flies. Too much like right.
That's a real comment, " when it comes to the financial aspect of parenting, I am the sole parent. Every other decision, we co-parent". Wow!! this a true gem of a statement.
@Christopher Briscoe The double standards in women today are ridiculous. They want to have a voice and authority like men in relationships but when it comes to taking on the responsibilities a good husband/father has they don't want any of that.
Married or not, man or woman always ESTABLISH your own identity & secure your own future/ financial status! NEVER DEPEND ON ANYONE!!
#MFSCIENTIFICFACTS❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'mBlack&I'mProud X NEVER
@@nonyabidness5454 They you go putting down the so called black man. It's no wonder that the so called black women, statistically is the last to get married, compared to other ethnic groups. It goes both ways sis we each have to play our roles and know our roles.
Why we always blaming each other. Men say women want bums and yall women say we want bums. Why cant we just love and give each other a chance to work together
Nonya Bidness That is not true. Black men marry successful women who have their own but more importantly have great hearts and minds.
This interview should be required viewing for all young men.
I would have saved up a lot of money, if I was a single woman getting an extra 3,500 a month , you could have saved a lot a month .... , 2 story house mortgage around 800 a month . Car insurance 140 amonth . Food about 200 a week . Light / gas 70 a month . clothes , 300 a month . Gas each week 40 . How you almost homeless ???
All young men and women should view this interview. The cycle of living off of child support has to stop.
Most definitely!!
@@sueann9065💯
Hold up. He paid a year early? She acted like he paid 10 years early and she still has to take care of their child by herself. Girl, bye. She should’ve planned better.
Even had he paid it off 10 years early. He paid it. This sounds more like she wanting him to suffer. Not about the kid.
A real Man and Father
@mizzmolly u have absolutely no idea of what ur talking about when it comes to economics. Even if cost of living has increased everyone knows wages for the most part has remained stagnant
@mizzmolly maybe because he already takes care of the children's financial needs and she just wants.more.money for herself so she can live scot free
@mizzmolly I can only speak on my case. My child support was the same rate for 18 years. I received raises and had good paying jobs over those 18 years. I'm in California the worst state for child support.
Lol. At court, my daughter's mother cried and played victim when the judge told her the child support order will end. My daughter was out of the house and married (20 years old). Her mother said she thought I should continue to pay. Judge didn't even respond.
I would've paid to been in the courtroom to see that. Would've laughed at that bitch and treated you to a beer afterwards
That's so messed up. Very good for the judge.
Wait...what?!
Hahahaha👍
That makes no sense whatsoever.
My daughter’s father and I NEVER had to deal with financial issues through child support, THANK GOD!! There was a time he was laid off for 4 years and I just bit the dust Because I knew he was struggling because of work issues, when he got back on his feet, there was no back child support issues when he was out of work because he was a great dad not just financially, he picked her up from school, he got her extra weekends or what ever it took for us to raise her!! He died on Father’s Day from ALS!! And til this day his kids love him and I am grateful that he and I was able to work together as coparents to raise our daughter!! I love you Andre Hunter RIP☀️🌙💯🔥💕❤️💪🏾
crystal gee my condolences to you and your daughter. You picked a great one!! I say it time and time again your presence is more important than your presents.
Just a great explanation. You honored his actions.
crystal gee
how can you not find a job in four years ?
@@jayhardin3259 , James Hardin , he worked odd jobs but not in the field he was in, he also got sick, lost his car, it was a combination bad luck and the struggles of life
Sorry 4 ya loss much love and respect on not kicking him when he was down!!! You a real 1 that's why you stay blessed!!!
His ex wife admitted he was paying $3,500 a month in her interview. So $3,500 x 12 months = $42,000 a year. $42,000 x 18 years = $756,000!!!
Mad math facts.. bless u...
Now you get it
Let’s not forget....THAT SHIT IS TAX FREE!!!!
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That kid should have a house and his full education should be paid for with a couple hundred thousand left
Over 6 thousand fathers approved this interview.
over 6 thousand and 1🖐
More Than 6,000. Say A Million
I have no kids and still approve the message.
Some females who aren't bias against men like myself also approved.
Every decent human being should approve of this. Hes being honest and accountable...
He’s a good dude that wears his emotions on his sleeve. You can see the hurt in his eyes. Keep doing the right thing, everything will workout in your favor.
It mostly doesn’t for men.
That is sooooooooooooo true, child support is such a dirty hustle.
Doward Washington and yet niggas still fall for it.
@@BTCBlizzy everyday
Doward Washington don't have kids
Justin Seward you really sound dumb, like white men don’t leave out on their kids. Y’all practically invented it
Beware,whitey justin Seward decided your culture is ratchet, you or your entire race's existence may be in jeopardy now.
this man needs a freaking standing ovation. Man paid it off EARLY and he did MORE than he needed to do for the WHOLE 18 YEARS
Ovation? ...It's his responsibility to take care of his child....
Single moms don't get an ovation. ..we do what we must do....periodt
@@TheSunshineplace10 WTF DO YOU MEAN. Yall get patted on the back in the media all the freakin time. tf? The entire system encourages single motherhood. and no, nobody is gonna congratulate you for picking the wrong guy to have a kid with. and if the man HANDLES HIS RESPONSIBILITY FULLY, then you are not a single mother, you're an unmarried mother or coparent.
@@TheSunshineplace10 see but this is your problem. WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE NOT THE SUBJECT OF THE VIDEO. but thats a woman for you, ALWAYS HAS TO MAKE IF ABOUT HER. WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT HIS BABYMOM DID. sit your goofy ass in the corner
married parents dont often buy their kids private school and a Cadillac to drive to college they also paid for....
@@TheSunshineplace10 it's both parents "responsibility" you tard! He paid off early to get that leach out of his life. Now she's fucked in the game!!! Standing ovation for Quake!!! 🍻
Damn dudes out here struggling to pay and he paid it off early and she still got upset about it. Smh
she could have learn a skill get a degree find work or something
Greedy bitch
@J. Carson goes to tell you everybody ain't shit
It goes to show you it’s no getting ahead or doing the right thing when you have a baby mama, it’s a different type of spite
I paid mine off almost 3 months early unknowingly and got that money back in checks.
I am a black woman & I approve this message & interview 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Amen my lady. Amen!!!!!!!
Men ain't shit and women ain't shit. There's welfare Queens and then there's deadbeats as well. Respect and care for one another.
What does black has to do with it?
@@shimeicareaves I'm describing myself sis....I agree with what he's sayin....we have to do better period...All of us.
@@angellg25 sorry ok :)
Listen to this. He paid all of his child support off early...18 years of money. And handles all of their expenses on top of that including college tuition. Everyone stand up and give this man a well deserved pat on the back. Well done sir. You have gone beyond the normal.
Paid his taxes too. This guy covered his ass.
There's a shift going on, men are getting fed up.
Men should be fed up done with the shenanigans. Men should be men. Period point blank!!! THE man is SUPPOSED TO SET THE TONE AND THE STANDARDS FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. When are you guy's going to do this? We would NOT HAVE TO GO THROUGH ANY OF THIS IF YOU GUY'S WOULD JUST BE A MAN!!!
Setting the tone doesn't mean babysitting your feelings... y'all are grown ass women, not petulant children... we are leaving y'all behind because of your "my shit don't stink, you're the man so it's your fault" attitude in the dust... stay bitter
@@stevenpea6458 not bitter at all. Just want a man to be a man. Certainly, we're adults (women). Setting the tone...if done right, dear sir there wouldn't be the need to babysit ANYONE'S FEELINGS. Setting the tone does not mean mistreatment of ANY kind. The man should treat the woman, as he treats HIMSELF. All $#!+ stinks kind sir...if the man sets the tone of the relationship, stuff goes awry...who should we blame, kind sir? It's obvious something went wrong for you. Align yourself with PEOPLE who have the same standards as YOURSELF (or your "expected" standards) DON'T FORGET TO SET THE TONE. Good day to YOU!!!!
@BlackHawk 66 you're sick. That's obvious from your HIGHLY, DISRESPECTFUL REPLY/COMMENT. Somewhere between babyhood and adolescence you weren't TAUGHT to LOVE YOU!!!! Ya momma is a bonafide trick! If black women are traitors, what does that make you? A spineless, trick?! Grow up. Please don't trust yourself...not until you grow some ⚾️🥎🏀🏐
@@wanZ... -👏👏👏👏💯💛💯
He’s doing more than some rich dads and he still taking care off his son she just want him to take care off her
I paid support for 21 years in NYS. We had 1 daughter. One day my daughter called and said her car was shot and need another used car. She was in college. I still owed $3500,00. Remaining on the support. I put a check in the mail for the $3500.00 to my daughter. I was done. My X hit the roof. I told my X what's the difference? It all goes to my daughter. She was pissed. She didn't have a leg to stand on. I got the last laugh. She was living on that money. I'm so glad it's over.
Big ups to him man.. child support sucks
Sheldon Allison m.ruclips.net/video/UX4pgVxCwNI/видео.html
I'm so happy I'm done.
@B.S. MBA You're trolling right? Like you don't get what he means somehow?
Here's why child support sucks and is flawed.
It's based off a percentage of your income, and not the child's basic monthly needs. Now why does this suck? Because what in the heck is your child getting every month that warrants more than $500-600/a month.
You don't get a say or any proof of what's it's actually used for. Once that money is gone from you, it's gone.
When the custodial parent is willingly unemployed, or on state assistance, they charge you more. This one tricky, because if the financially responsible parent cannot or will not take physical custody of the child then it makes sense, but if the financially responsible parent is willing and able to take primary custody of the child then why can't they? My child is never be at risk of being homeless, my child has a home here with me, "you" run the risk of being homeless, and that's on you.
A lot people (because men be trifling too) try to use child support as a primary form of income (or spousal support and other forms of fiscally irresponsible nonsense) and not what it's intended to be, child support.
So yes child support does suck.
Fr
@@OGMDr LMAO you broke that analogy down like a over cooked neckbone, in the retirement home for the toothless! ✊😁👍 For Real! 🍻
Salute to the real fathers who actually take care of their kids and aren’t just a sperm donor despite the foolishness of “some” women
It isn't easy,we get the shit on all hands
Day Night true
Roy_Thousand 🤣🤣🤣 true
Olga Williams I find zero lies in your logic
This man's heart is in pain bringing this up. The secret guys is to find a woman with too much pride to beg, but enough humbleness to be led. Stay away from arrogant gullible women
That's hard cause majority of them are that way.
Women are women
@GrimWare Freddie got a point you don't want a woman you have to think for. She should be self sufficient for the most part. You don't really "lead" them so much it's more making sure she understands what a man is accepts it. If she understands that she is good. Just make sure she's not rebellious to a man's nature. Most American women are foolish rebels without a cause.
@GrimWare he caping a lil 😂
If a woman has an ex that paid his child support and she STILL mad at dude, don't get with her. She still got feelings for that man. I wouldn't date ANY woman that still has a mouthful of bad things to say about an ex boyfriend or husband. If she didn't lose anything, why is she complaining? Move on, bruh. She hasn't gotten over that dude.
Preach
@LoyaltyOverEveryting We'll said. Good luck with the 20-30% that don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that. Better yet, get money and make sure she is getting money. Make sure her parents have their own or your money will be going to help them too. Guys need to quit selling short and dating broke females that are LIABILITIES. If you're getting money, you don't mess with liabilities; she has to be an ASSET.
@LoyaltyOverEveryting Exactly. If I'm gonna have a woman that has my back, I'm picking a strong one. I'll take the girl with the brains. They can keep the ones at the gym working on asses and titties. I can buy an ass and tits lol.
I just told a nigga this yesterday 💯
Lesson learnt
some women think once she have a child for a man she's set for life.
Why would a man have a child with a woman who has that mentality? To me, if a man and/or woman is irresponsible enough not to take birth control or use condoms expect the consequence of creating a life.
A Bennett exactly!
I aint? 😩
@sour airhead that's a good point
@sour airhead My son's father tried to put me on child support before he had a stroke. I divorce him but decided not to pursue CS because he had him majority of the time. A low life man, didn't paid CS for his twin boys and have the nerve talking about putting me on. That stroke stop him.
Ex-“I haven’t received the child support payment yet for this month.”
Earthquake-“I know. I paid it all off early. I fulfilled my financial obligation to my child. I’m done.”
Ex-“WHAT?!?! Why in the hell would you do something like that?!?! You ain’t sh!t, Earthquake!”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Earthquake: "I ain't shit?? Well I'm paid in full and I WON'T be homeless. Adios b!tch!"✌🏾😂
j t Yes but they don’t have the mental or emotional capabilities to fully be in control
exactly its not his fault she didn't ration the money right over them years but that shows you she must of used some of the money for herself
@@khalilwilliams1818 most of the money*
ME: Huh??????????? lbvs
That child support shouldn’t have anything to do with her living situation.
🗣🗣THAT PART!!!!
Exactly
What did she do with the child support
I dont see how it dont.
It's called Child Support for a reason, it's for The Child.
I used to have terrible self esteem because Im not an attractive guy, grey hair, balding, short, chubby, shitty teeth, make a sub par living, my car is 20 years old, and a whole laundry list of these stuff.
I’m in my mid thirties now and I gotta say It has taken me a long time to come to grips with all of those things and just be happy with myself.
I didnt have much of a hand in what I am just just being a natural born woman repellant but after many years on this earth, Ill take it!
Aside from “finding love” my life is and always has been pretty good actually. Out of all of the things that can go wrong in this life, for some reason I was spared in many avenues. I sleep easy and there’s nothing in my life that causes me any stress as big as the lives of people around me and I take that as a blessing.
If I sit down and count my blessings... Im actually a pretty rich motherfucker.
Rock on.....🤘
Well said, Earthquake and well done, VladTV. Over 15 years, I paid my court ordered child support with little extra in case my daughter needed cash to go out, in case of medical insurance copays, or if I ever got a pay raise at work. Just before my daughter turned 18, my ex took me back to court to get my last 9 payments raised and retro increase for 4 years - an extra 14K. Instead of going to court pro se, I hired a lawyer who showed the judge that i had overpaid the court ordered amount in total by about 5K. Not only did he not order a raise in support or retropayments, I was ordered to stop paying and she had to cover court fees.
Right on, brother...you played your cards right and came right out on top and the judge had you stop the payments...that's thinking with your head...👍
Congratulations, this is the type of happy stories I like to read
She probably still hates you to this day for that. Smart move on your part.
"I woulda gave you more had you come and talk to me" I felt him on that. Ive tell my BM this all the time smh
Facts.. I think every male has this convo wit the bms. Ik i had it bout 40 times btwn both my sons mother's..
Dee Hubb not all men are the same. Some say one thing and do the opposite. That’s why women go to the courts. If it’s so unfair men have gone too and gotten child support changed.
@@shellypmorgan5170 could just off the mother. It’s cheaper and time efficient
@@shellypmorgan5170 facts say one thing and don’t do anything. You say let’s go half on this or that and never hear anything then they say oh I’ll put myself on child support but never do. They don’t my clothes shoes diaper formula or even spend time or have a bond with the child. But get mad when you wanna put them on cs but they don’t mind trying to get in your pants
@@shellypmorgan5170 some don't make the majority. Women like to use "some" as the general lol exceptions don't make the rule
He's telling the truth. As a 45 year old woman without children it angers me to see how women use their own children. She needs better money management skills.
45 and fine!
Do you regret not having any kids yourself, Chaunda?
She needs character and accountability.
I completely agree with Earthquake. This woman is buggin. She should be ashamed of herself.
My son asked me the other day " daddy do mom still get child support" ? I said no. Why you think I am able to give you extra money now. lol
Me and my son were watching TV and he asked me "dad, if you won the lottery what would you do with it"? I said "i don't know",then he said "would you give mommy some of the money"? I just looked at him... because I'm like hell your mom is already getting Child support from me... anything I accumulate is mine...
Lol
@@anthonyarmstrong1423 if you won the lottery the first thing she would do is go to court to get more money.
@@andrelewis774 three words ....Pay It Off, after that she can get outta my ear lol,to be honest I don't deal with her now and he's 12 yrs old I'm counting down the days until he's 18
“ how am I making you homeless, when I finish my legal obligations to you “.
Everette Riddley I would have saved up a lot of money, if I was a single woman getting an extra 3,500 a month , you could have saved a lot a month .... , 2 story house mortgage around 800 a month . Car insurance 140 amonth . Food about 200 a week . Light / gas 70 a month . clothes , 300 a month . Gas each week 40 . How you almost homeless ???
Where are you staying at with bills that cheap? In Georgia, one story single family homes are $1000+ 2 bedrooms apartments are $800+ and don’t forget a car note $400+. Before anyone comment... I have never had a man on child support.
Georgia Doll 88 of yo car note 400 hunnid get a cheaper car
@@mykiea5156 the costing of living here in Florida is much higher than that.
300 a month on clothes?
These chicks need to take some responsibility and accountability. Get your money management together and stop trying to live about your means. Be humble.
Now your generation learned from this ok sis
At least you get it...
@@ultimatums1 remember what TFM said? We must take away women's rights.
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baby nemo I agree..
I’m a 35 year old black man with zero baby mommas. My focus is finishing my MBA in the coming months and continuing to build my career. I refused to have children until I am 100% ready and I know that I’m with the woman I intend to spend the rest of my life with. Every time I hear these co-parenting horror stories I feel more justified in that decision.
Same
I salute you!! Stay focused!!
@@t.shandrielblogs thank you. Only 3.5 months to go 👍🏾
@@dasupastar4lyfe 👏👏🎉🎊
AWESOME 👏 FOR YOU!! GOOD LUCK 🍀!!
Men always get the short end of the stick in court
David Miller m.ruclips.net/video/UX4pgVxCwNI/видео.html
Bro...my co worker just told me he was ordered to pay child support to his ex wife even though the kids live with him.
@@jrthe2nd494 wow im not surprised
not always, just like alot of subjects in relationship situations, its never talked about, alot of time women receive little to nothing, i will give you a personal example, the sperm donor of my two nieces paid a grand total for the year of 2019 of $17....you do the math, i know women who have to pay child support, but like Women who abuse men, men who are sexually molested or raped...it isnt talked about because it doesnt make a good headline.... "Man Pays 100K child support" makes you mad, "Woman Charged With Beating Husband With Iron" makes you laugh...hence the problem...if we gonna talk about one thing, we need to talk about EVERYTHING.
last of a dying breed not necessarily. I’ve seen it before. Child support system is f’d up
She got upset cause he got the last laugh 😂
Earthquake has a valid point. She needs to get a job.
Every time dude tilts his head back he turns into Bishop TD Jakes.
😂😂😂😂
I'm dead!
NomadiqGentz 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bruh
Lmfaoooo
IT IS HARD FOR MOST MEN TO ADMIT THAT THEY WERE BEING USED AS A MEAL TICKET
When you're dealing with a woman, EVERY man is a meal ticket. For some odd reason, they think the world is about them.
Also sometimes they pick women who would never even look their way if they didn’t have money.
@Midwest Kandi if a sucker as dude goes for that. That doesn't apply to me personally ma'am. My bread is more important than ANY woman. Point blank period
@Midwest Kandi call it want you want. That's the problem women thinking somebody needs them.
@Midwest Kandi my bread over a woman is the most rational thing ever
"my son is 17, but in child support years he's 18" 💀🤣
It’s a cold world. Be careful who you skeet in fellas...
DJ IE no doubt
Word!!!!
😭 too late
Easier said than done. When you’re about to bust that nut, the mind doesn’t think clearly🤷🏾♂️
A Bottle of Lotion is $3.95. You will still get that Bust Nut. Lol
This man is smart. He basically paid more in child support thus he's paid up. Child Support is about children, not failed relationships.
I worked in family court for 10 years, I respect his experience and point of view. Child support is for the support of the child/ children. Period.
I would support the system if they didn't take 20% for a single child. Researchers has shown throughout history that a kid only requires 12%. Federal incentives is the evil
No, it's for the judges and for the woman's lavish lifestyle. If it was for the children, there would be no court costs deduction and richer men wouldn't be required to pay more than what's necessary for a modest life. There is no way anyone can justify 5-6 figure+ monthly child support payments. That's for the bum bitches.
MMJ Properties also the state takes at minimum 66% of each dollar collected in some cases more the system is effed up 🤦🏽♂️
@@brothernabrick-wall410 you should elaborate more. The state if they are collecting that amt out of child support payments it's due to the mom being on welfare/fitap. Which the father should be responsible to pay the state back? Why should taxpayers have to pay to take care of someone else kid?
Kory Green judges don’t get money from support. My husband got his support lowered by $250 where his ex gets scrapes bc he fought for it and proved the money wasn’t needed and he provide for his child
She’s blessed to have him pay child support some fathers never pay
Mariah Gary exactly
RIGHT!
Mariah Gary There are some children that have never received one cent from their father!😒
@@aleasemontgomery7845 There are more children who never receive one cent from their mothers.... how sway?
Yup would know wouldn't you
Boy i was waiting on him to respond on any platform that gave him an interview....👩🏾💻
Also a lot of hurt ass niggas on child support in the comment section..🔻
@@mechelle230 u must be a single mother lol hurting ass bitches crying about support tho lol
@Markus Harris these bitches are jokes lol I cant take them serious at all they are nothing but entitled ass brats
"When a Mans resentment toward Women exceeds His lust He then becomes Wise"
Where'd you here that quote?
@@PineappledoesnotbelongonPizza2 My Neighbor told Me whn I was a Kid Playeristic Guy Westside Chicago Who knows where He heard it
@@BlaccSuave It encourages being resentful towards all women? Saying that it's wise?
@@nightgoggles9931 No it means dnt let tht Pussy make U dizzy knw the difference between a Woman being an asset or a potential liability
Do you know what resentment means? 😃😃😃😃 When a man feels an overwhelming amount of negativity towards a woman, more than he wants her, he is now wise? Is your neighbor a gay man?
I AGREE WITH HIM 100%%!!!! my brothers and I had what we needed way beyond 18-yrs-old... matter -of-fact im in my 30s I still have CDs and Savings bonds my mom invested with our child support (Catholic Schools to Bachelor's to Master's Degree no loans needed). She and dad both made sure that money didnt go to bullshit. She had her 35 year teacher career and my dad chemical Engineer until he died when i was 18 yr. Thx GOD I didnt have a mom that depended on a man and she didn't waste anything . 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks dad too
@@H1GHD3FF I HIGHLY EXPRESSED GRATITUDE TOWARD BOTH OF PARENTS! DONT FUCKING PLAY WITH ME. THE POINT IS IN DIRECT CORRELATION OF WHAT EARTHQUAKE WAS EXPRESSING about the mother of his son.. that she needs to get her own without him supporting her ass too
Therefore, I was saying after my dad died my mom continued to carry the torch they both created and carried together instead of breaking down and not being able to provide for myself and my brothers.
@Akan Ewe I want u to create your own post so u can say whatever u want to say. Because i stand firm AF on my post.
This statement is like bragging ; oh my daddy bought us pampers and you know what? My mom used them on our bottoms!”
Wow, so what .... that’s what they’re supposed to do! It’s a reflection of how far gone this community is....
Real parenting is an implied expectation???
Kudos to your mom.... she a real 1
The thing is. The woman is allowed to fall off.the woman is allowed to be broke. But if something happens to the man u not only has to take care of himself and his children the child support never stops and you end up in jail or in some serious debt.
Funny thing abt that child support issue,I only seen ONE WOMAN on “worldstarhiphop.com” who spoke up for men saying that “child support is a broke bitch’s hustle”
Are you saying that men should create children yet have no financial or relational responsibility/ties to the child?
I don't have children, but I'm genuinely interested in how ppl feel about this topic.
delicate jewel when you have a child/kids that’s when you’re ELIGIBLE to ask me that question.You said you didn’t have a child but now saying you do? Mentality I see how immature you are.For your satisfaction I’ll give you this,It all stims from bitterness in a female from a relationship that is no more.....#1-Show me a NARRATIVE that gives the perception or stigma that women are deadbeats....#2-Show me any FACTS that there are as many women on child support that it is men.....last but not least #3-How many men have put women on child support after an ending relationship while a child is involved?.......I’ll wait.......... If you can’t hurt the man,your next action is to hurt their pockets......if that doesn’t work,your next step is to keep the child away from the father......As a mother,would you not have to work regardless to having a child or not? As a mother,would you not bust your ass to provide for your child or not even if the father doesn’t contribute? Again, child support is broke bitch hustle......another thing,why is it that if it takes TWO to make a child why is it the mother is the only one can make the decision to abort the child,decide if she can carry the child on her income tax or GIVE PERMISSION to the father when he’s providing for the child all year long while being on child support?....
@@CrystalReneeMusic Child support shouldn't be legal if abortion is legal. If it's "your body, your choice," then it's "my money, my choice.".
@@southeastd.c5636 Okay, I have kids. So can you go ahead and answer now. Thx hun.
@@KtotheG I agree with this point. If the woman has the ultimate say on if the child is born or not, the father should have a say on if he wants to finance the child - It's fair. But, only if the 2 CAN'T come to an agreement on if they should keep the child or abort.
I wish i had 10 dollars for every time i told my baby moms "child support is for the child, not you" i swear I'd have paid mine off early too.💯
Cory Benjamin lol😂
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@Christopher Briscoe yes, but then we should call it 'failed relationship support' not child support.
Comedy Hype gets the "L" for interviewing the ex-wife.
FACTS
Man stop bigging up this white boy Vlad.
@@complexblackness you bigging him up by watching his vids how you think RUclips work dumb ass nigga
@@jeffreybratton6186 barz
@@complexblackness Did you see what they did to Paul mooney ? Absolutely nothing was resolved. They destroyed That man for views . he couldn't even come to John Witherspoons funeral.
I almost died because of this Man in a Comedy Club in Houston.. I couldn't breathe! and I seen the best of the best!
The old sayings hold true:
"You can never satisfy a woman"
"Give a woman the world, she will ask for the moon"
Pay child support on time, every time......you still a "deadbeat"
You cant satisfy a black woman at all.
C J can you satisfy a white one?
@@alyciacooper2 No he cannot. He can't even satisfy himself. All the black women turned him down because he is a bum.
When you believe those “old sayings,,” that’s what you attract.
@@beautydiore3428 and how do u know all that?
She's mad because he paid off the child support early. She was bitter
She should be giving him accolades more for being close to his child instead of the money. The money is needed but a great relationship is priceless
Rfreeman Sometimes the child gets neither.
Indeed,Indeed
If money wasn't the motivation then why ever time a man and woman pro create together child support is the first thing talked about? Time is of the essence yet let's talk about how we going to raise this child with both energy not just the woman.
THAT! No amount of money can substitute the TIME any parent spends nurturing their child. You can make up the money, but not the love.
She will never give him his dues. Some women hate the mindset and nature of true men. And when u leave them they try to castrate u by destroying your finances. Great men leave financial freedom for their children when they die. A bitter woman tries to destroy that same great man that she laid down to have children with. It's a sad real world
If you're in 2020 and you don't have children you may be better off not having them at all. Women are trained to put their children's fathers in the system as soon as the relationship doesn't work out. It's a financial trap
I agree.. alot them do it just to have another way to make ends meet.. they will then brain wash the child into thinking you are a bad father.. they will pay for this in the end though cause it is wrong
@@rogerblewett5595 I agree. Trust me I have been through and going through it now. These women really don't care for the children they are used as pawns in there sick twisted game.
I don’t know the women you run into, but that is not the case for all women. I hope you heal . 💕
So true, im 37 with no kids and my nephew is like mines so im fine with doing for him like he is my son.
@@VolleyballAddict521 its the case of all women. You aint never shit to a bitch but a lick to a bitch.
Marry the woman of your dreams meaning her character, values and how she treats you.
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I agree with you people wanna go around sleeping wit everybody without protection. It's like damn yo family teach you anything. Or just common sense
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I actually lived with my Dad after the divorce. I remember hearing all the time "I can't wait until you turn 18 and decide not to go to college" from my Mother. Even when I was 12 yrs old.
Women are too quick to take successful dudes to court for child support after a break up. When my mom and dad split up, they worked it out between themselves. The first few years, she did the heavy lifting because he was building his business and she had a steady job. When his business became more successful, he did it. Private schools from elementary to college were all paid by him in cash, along with standard child support. No lawyers got involved and there where no hard feelings.
A big part of that was the fact that my mom had her own career and wasn't trying to use a baby with my dad as a come-up.
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mcjon77 good for u
It was still the definition of child support it just wasn't court mandated. Your father understood the responsibility of your care and came to an amicable agreement with your mother and helped your mother support you financially.
The exception
It happens. Only dumb or mad women takes the man to court.
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I have male family members who love their children, spend time raising them and take care of them financially. Yet, the child support system, a component of the criminal justice system, labels and criminalizes them. And if the mother says it, it must be true. It is simply not a fair system because it slanted toward the mother who knows she can use it vindictive ways to get back at an ex. "Child support is supposed to be for the children, not failed relationships" should be on bumper stickers, hats and t-shirts along with "Child support is not adult support."
I think the issue is some men need to be made to take care of their children but it is also used for men who just linked up without protection with someone who is looking for a way to make money off of a man. But, some women need to be made to take care of their children also. When I thought I was going to become a lawyer, I intended to become a family/child support court judge and would find a way to put some type of mandatory job security in for the women. Some of these women sit and live on child support or child support and welfare. When women are on welfare or have kids on Medicaid the government has been known to seek reimbursement from the father years later. Have an uncle who has his liscense suspended because he can't afford the balance of what they want back in Medicaid charges even though he had insurance from his job on the child, the mother just chose to keep him on Medicaid instead.
You are completely right about the injustice court system. But it doesn’t just fuck over men
#1 The best lawyer wins.
#2 The lawyer that submits lies in court documents first gets those lies accepted as facts.
#3 The court wants all the lawyers, and everyone else in their system, to get paid. So the parent with the better income will lose and have to pay. That is frequently happening to women now since some of us are so stupidly settling for losers.
@@andread8251 This. 100%
I so respect this interview
"I just want the woman of my dreams to be the mother of my kids" I feel that
I feel this, my job is not taking care of her it's taking care of my kids. The shit is so wrong for men who do for their kids.
Hate when mothers hate on fathers
This guy comes across as sincere. Never seen this side of him
He comes off as a good man also father. Just saying
If him paying off the child support 6 months early gonna cause you to be homeless you was in bad shape anyway.... & comedy hype was dead wrong for giving that bitter woman a platform in the first place!!!! Smh💯💯💯
Real Talk!
That's gospel! Child support most of the time is just a hustle for women who are angry the relationship is over even when it's their fault.
Preach
This is another example of females being child like by expecting a man to take care of them because they had a child together even after breaking up SMH.
They have child like minds as well.
Hold up! Females can’t get their p***y back so he can support her for helping him get where he is . Just something to think about.
It’s called spousal support !!! You keep saying baby mommaS !! Stop making children with various woman!!!!!
@@amandakurtz7732 That comment is stupid. What's wrong with you?
@@amandakurtz7732 WHAT???
Amanda Kurtz how is it “spousal support” if they were never a spouse?? 🤔 “she can’t get her p***y back”, did you actually say that? So every man she ever slept with owes her? Just something to think about 😉
This man is a great human being
Every married brotha I know says the same thing, if I ever get divorced I'll never get married again.
I'll add- all the married men I know look tired, depressed, and worn out with life . and by "life" I mean their wives
That's because they shouldn't have gotten married to begin with....#So many frontin ppl out here...sad and lonely in relationships...smh
My big brother is getting married for the SECOND time this summer.
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F. A. C. T. S
@@SylentONE lol!
Everything has a expiration date always remember THAT!
Toilet paper has no expiration date always remember that
They should make shirts and hats that say that,
Love it,,,,
Earthquake is sooooooo right..my ex wife tried to use csp to fund her lifestyle as well..when csp was over she got super angry and starting being even more deceitful..she deleted my number and withheld important info about my daughter's college plans..I understand him exactly... That money is a killer when it's over bruh
So damn true, going through it myself.
Why didn't you get your daughters college plans from your daughter?
I did but I rather have had more input from her mom
So she is mad at him for being responsible (by making sure payments were made in case he couldn't work) because of her being irresponsible
(by spending all the money).
Im confused. How was the wife gonna be homeless if he paid off the support early?
Jojos Mom she was buying hair and bags as opposed to buying a house and working on her own for herself.
Jojos Mom
Because women quit working when they get child support, same with people on welfare, if they get a job, the government will lower the support so they just don’t work so their income shows zero and payments increase.
But after living like that for years with no education or job skills when the money runs out they are left with nothing and facing homelessness.
@@TiVo2Go U really feel that way? Surely that can't account for all women. I don't know a single mom who doesn't work and I don't know anyone whose child support allotment is so great that it could afford them to not work. According to Census, the average amount that men pay for child support is $430. I don't actually see how one can take care of a child with that amount let alone not work. But Im sure Earthquakes wife had a different amount and from what he says, he was the sole provider which is alot. She has to be terribly irresponsible if him paying off the CS 6 months early leads to her being potentially homeless...
Because she's a bum who sat on her ass all day, probably buying weed, alcohol and hair weaves.
@@jojosmom8819 makes sense. This lady was more than likely getting more than the average single parent on CS & lived off of it w/o having a plan B.
It had this one female, cool chick I was dating tell me.. “Even if we live together and have kids, she will still put me on child support!” Welp that was the last time we talk lmao
Lol yes she was.
@Love Less come on bro. This is a woman problem. Not a specific race problem. I understand what you are saying but we can't be like them.
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Definitely hood
S. Harri right just like they tell us 🤷🏼♀️
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Child support kills family relations.. everytime
Robb holmes only when u can’t see your child then it doesn’t
My kids mother never took me to court. She knew she didn't have too!
My mother and dad were the same. My dad continued to take care of mom after we turned 18 because she did not take him to court
No matter how a relationship ends,if a man truly feels like his girl is deserving of money,he will gladly give her some. Just look at Michael Jordan of Chris Rock. Women do their best to ruin a man with child support due to resentment or bitterness because deep down they know that they ain't shit.
That interview backfired on ol' girl big time...lol. There's a reason that bum is still alone..
Izzy Mandelbaum trust me she not alone. some dude eating that money. Tall and big everything what women like
Some of them got that mentality that child support ain’t gonna end
the longest I heard it extends to is when the kid is 21,that is if the kid isn't mentally or physically fucked up.
Can someone tell me why a woman can choose to get rid of a baby without father's permission but a man can't leave and choose not to help raise them? I'm not for either type of person at all but it's messed up one can choose to kill but other can't leave.
@ray turner naw you good. I asked so I didn't mind your opinion
Dude, I'm a black woman, and I agree.
@ray turner Excellent my friend.
@ray turner Yes, I work for the DMV. If you not paying your child support, you can't get your vehicle registration. So unfair.
Chappelle addresses this very well in his “Sticks & Stones” special.
My father believed my mother would have him arrested for back child support if he came to the state we lived in. So I grew up without a father and I never saw him. Now I have a tendency to over-involve myself in the lives of my kids (adults now except for 1) as a result and they don't understand what it does to a little boy to cry himself to sleep on his birthday or Christmas when he doesn't get a call or card from his father. And I am glad they don't understand. My mother nearly drove that man mad, and she failed to take care of me. Growing up without parents is a lonely hole that nothing can ever fill. But all you can do as a man is try to live up to your own code and be the only judge of yourself.
My brother gets upset with me because my oldest boy is in medical school and I still provide some support to him (he is very independent and doesn't want help from me, but sometimes gets that it is necessary). My son doesn't like me at all. Yet, I still would do anything to help him succeed. I have tried to explain to my brother that my duties as a father spring from my code and my beliefs and that is an obligation and responsibility that never ends. I want to see my son fly as high as he can. My duty to my son doesn't change just because he is upset with me.
I don't know. Being a man and a father is just a really, really hard job a lot of times. All you can do is the best you can do.
Do what you can and leave it at that.
Men need to come together to petition a change to the child support laws. Just like the “MeTooMoveMent” we need our own movement and march on Washington to get some changes made!
I agree with you 100%!!!! Paternity test need to be mandatory. These women need to go to jail for lying.
I agree 100% and that is a cause I will donate my money and time to
@@s1dubbzz751 I agree, but men have always been thirsty and simps and for many this will never change. After getting burned a few times, some wake up.
@@s1dubbzz751I agree with you 100%. Social media platforms like this one is helping. Based on comments I have read on different threads online, some men are waking up and trying to make better choices.
Take care if the child. Meaning you're providing the roof. I'll pay child support for that. Just so I can roam freely. When the baby get sick I don't have to go in the middle if the night rushing to the hospital.
Sounds like Earthquake son living better than he is. Bought his son a house in Callabasas California out of all places? Cool
And a Cadillac
According to one witness he said that the sound of the impact was not that loud so I doubt it (bunch of people probably just saw the smoke afterwards and smelled it. The helicopter was already very low prior to the crash and the rotor was hardly turning.
I'd rather be homeless than pay alimony. I'll burn my own money.
Give it all up and start over, betcha she’ll lose all that was given to her in no time. If you accomplish it once you should be able to do it again.
@Elizabeth Cummins Someone gets my level of petty.
Amen to dat bro.
before I lose, I will cheat!!
“Hey Rochelle, tell big man I said, BIG MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN !”
Lmaoooo
earthquake is the smartest man he played the game that continues to play us this man is an inspiration and should be immortalized god dammit
What baby mama mad the child support got paid early!?! They stay wanting things both ways
The type that don't know how to budget and now the money is all gone.
I can watch this time and time again every time I'm getting into an argument with my ex-wife I'll watch this.
I like how he's very vocal about his feelings on child support! Very articulate man