I will never understand why families (and sometimes friends) will beg, suggest, and push “you should reconsider this, divorce is too extreme, it was just a mistake, you can just do counseling and get through it” opinions. Especially if kids are involved. Some people cannot forgive infidelity. Many see it as a literal dealbreaker and will not stand for it. Like most times there are so many signs brought up and it gets brushed off by everyone till it comes out there’s been infidelity for a length of time, then the flying monkeys come out and coddle the “victim” while OP gets less sympathy and more criticism. Ridiculous
I think it's a mistake if you're heavily drunk. it's a bad decision to have been drinking, but it's a mistake if you act foolish when you're drunk. This one is clearly not a mistake because it's a whole Fn 6 mos, who in their right mind would cheated for more than once and claim to be a mistake, crazy people??!
The OP's sister is more insecure than she is willing to admit and and her actions have proven that down the line plus no forgiveness for any reason whatsoever because it wasn't a mistake, that was done wilfully and with no remorse, so the OP's decision to divorce her husband and go NC on her stepsister because what they both did was both unforgivable and disrespectful as well, good for her.
It makes me so mad and upset that some people say O it was just one mistake....Hell no it been going on for 6 months how is that a one mistake if it lasted that long SMH😮💨😡
Its funny how they first Gaslight you and blame you for being insecure... When they get caught they still trying act innocent and Gaslight you.... When you show them proof and they get caught then they beg and try fix it... Surprise if you leave them.
If Will had broken off the affair when she got suspicious instead of gaslighting her till she got a P.I. she would still be in tge marriage. Obviously Bella is very jealous of OP.
Oh boy! "Bella" sounds just like a stereotypical mean girl, and what is worse is that she deliberately initiated the affair. The "bikini" stunt was deliberate action. The OP has every right to divorce her "husband", but the truth is that women who deliberately seek to steal a woman's husband should face criminal charges. The step-father enabled "Bella", and that is obvious. Anyone judging the OP or saying the "why ruin things over one mistake" is just pathetic. *_A 6 month affair is not "just a mistake"!!!_*
I think the reason that a lot of friends and family members always try to get the victim of cheating to reconcile is due to the fact that they've all have committed some form of infidelity behind their significant others back and when their significant other forgave them they think I could win my significant other back why can't I convinced somebody else that I know that is going through that situation and get them you know to reconcile I think that's what happens sometimes
think it's horrible to go through a spouses phone but honestly if your instincts tell you some things is wrong or that spouse gives you good reason to question their honesty or fidelity then that's more than enough reason to justify it.
Are you sure Bella is not the insecure one? She keeps on looking down at OP and keeps on saying passive negative things about OP and keeps on one-upping OP, just to make herself (bella) feel good? Why does Bella need to compete with OP if she is so secure with herself being the pretty one?
Tell the friends and stepfather who think you should forgive your husband and stepsister “one time is a mistake and six months is a “DAMN AFFAIR” and you’re doing what’s best for you. NO ONE HAS A SAY IN HOW YOU HANDLE SUCH BLATANT DISRESPECT!!
First of all, regardless of what your stepsister is like, you should have been able to bring your husband without having to pay attention to whether she might be up to something. it's your stepsister and husband. secondly, no one would who in NO sane people be in a marriage with who has been with a family member for 6 months No. 3 seriously it is not only about infidelity but that they have lied and exposed you as envious and untrustworthy and being on the sidelines while others have said these things and the family was almost being destroyed because you were right but was produced in a different way. it is not only adultery but so much more and it was not a mistake they would continue if they were not discovered. good you stick to your feelings and gut feeling and good you have some support and the next time others say well it was a mistake forgive them then ask if they would be ok with being portrayed the way you were. funny, some are more concerned with the way they are portrayed than if your partner is cheating
The whole one he’s not respecting your wishes of him, not socializing as much with your stepsisters is not being granted that’s already a red flag that’s very disrespectful. He supposed to be your partner and support you when you’re at your lowest.
I will start by saying that I really like your voice and I love the story that you tell but you can't talk so fast it's like listening to the Chipmunks it's so hard to follow it's like one run-on sentence'
The whole one he’s not respecting your wishes of him, not socializing as much with your stepsisters is not being granted that’s already a red flag that’s very disrespectful. He supposed to be your partner and support you when you’re at your lowest.
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I think its hilarious that some people are trying to tell OP to reconsider the divorce because "you shouldve expected this" as if thats a valid excuse
A six-month affair is not "one mistake". Good for OP for pushing ahead with a divorce.
I will never understand why families (and sometimes friends) will beg, suggest, and push “you should reconsider this, divorce is too extreme, it was just a mistake, you can just do counseling and get through it” opinions. Especially if kids are involved. Some people cannot forgive infidelity. Many see it as a literal dealbreaker and will not stand for it. Like most times there are so many signs brought up and it gets brushed off by everyone till it comes out there’s been infidelity for a length of time, then the flying monkeys come out and coddle the “victim” while OP gets less sympathy and more criticism. Ridiculous
Valid hot take.
They are most likely cheaters themselves or they were cheated on and forgave their partner.
@@NourAmsterdam true
Cheating is not a mistake its a choice
This, I hate when people say cheating is a mistake. It's a bad decision, but it's definitely not a mistake or accident!
Especially when it's for months.
I think it's a mistake if you're heavily drunk. it's a bad decision to have been drinking, but it's a mistake if you act foolish when you're drunk. This one is clearly not a mistake because it's a whole Fn 6 mos, who in their right mind would cheated for more than once and claim to be a mistake, crazy people??!
The OP's sister is more insecure than she is willing to admit and and her actions have proven that down the line plus no forgiveness for any reason whatsoever because it wasn't a mistake, that was done wilfully and with no remorse, so the OP's decision to divorce her husband and go NC on her stepsister because what they both did was both unforgivable and disrespectful as well, good for her.
It makes me so mad and upset that some people say O it was just one mistake....Hell no it been going on for 6 months how is that a one mistake if it lasted that long SMH😮💨😡
Its funny how they first Gaslight you and blame you for being insecure... When they get caught they still trying act innocent and Gaslight you....
When you show them proof and they get caught then they beg and try fix it... Surprise if you leave them.
If Will had broken off the affair when she got suspicious instead of gaslighting her till she got a P.I. she would still be in tge marriage. Obviously Bella is very jealous of OP.
Oh boy! "Bella" sounds just like a stereotypical mean girl, and what is worse is that she deliberately initiated the affair. The "bikini" stunt was deliberate action. The OP has every right to divorce her "husband", but the truth is that women who deliberately seek to steal a woman's husband should face criminal charges. The step-father enabled "Bella", and that is obvious. Anyone judging the OP or saying the "why ruin things over one mistake" is just pathetic. *_A 6 month affair is not "just a mistake"!!!_*
I think the reason that a lot of friends and family members always try to get the victim of cheating to reconcile is due to the fact that they've all have committed some form of infidelity behind their significant others back and when their significant other forgave them they think I could win my significant other back why can't I convinced somebody else that I know that is going through that situation and get them you know to reconcile I think that's what happens sometimes
FIX THE GODDAMN AUDIO
Okay, one night stand could be a mistake, but not the affair, lasting for at least 6 months.
think it's horrible to go through a spouses phone but honestly if your instincts tell you some things is wrong or that spouse gives you good reason to question their honesty or fidelity then that's more than enough reason to justify it.
Are you sure Bella is not the insecure one? She keeps on looking down at OP and keeps on saying passive negative things about OP and keeps on one-upping OP, just to make herself (bella) feel good? Why does Bella need to compete with OP if she is so secure with herself being the pretty one?
Tell the friends and stepfather who think you should forgive your husband and stepsister “one time is a mistake and six months is a “DAMN AFFAIR” and you’re doing what’s best for you. NO ONE HAS A SAY IN HOW YOU HANDLE SUCH BLATANT DISRESPECT!!
Six months is not “a moment of weakness” or “one mistake.” This was a long series of decisions to lie and betray.
"It was a moment of weakness" yeah sure it's not like you did it multiple times 😁🖕
First of all, regardless of what your stepsister is like, you should have been able to bring your husband without having to pay attention to whether she might be up to something. it's your stepsister and husband. secondly, no one would who in NO sane people be in a marriage with who has been with a family member for 6 months No. 3 seriously it is not only about infidelity but that they have lied and exposed you as envious and untrustworthy and being on the sidelines while others have said these things and the family was almost being destroyed because you were right but was produced in a different way. it is not only adultery but so much more and it was not a mistake they would continue if they were not discovered. good you stick to your feelings and gut feeling and good you have some support and the next time others say well it was a mistake forgive them then ask if they would be ok with being portrayed the way you were. funny, some are more concerned with the way they are portrayed than if your partner is cheating
Me listening to this without reading the text:
“ so I hired a pie”
The whole one he’s not respecting your wishes of him, not socializing as much with your stepsisters is not being granted that’s already a red flag that’s very disrespectful. He supposed to be your partner and support you when you’re at your lowest.
LOL don't you just love when they're delicious pie as the answers to getting the information out of anybody😂
I know. What did the pie do? Inject truth serum into itself and say"eat me"? Lol.
Is on your ground and protect your safety
I know I I know I sound like a lunatic I get into rage mode when I hear incidents like this
I would tell him I'm not crazy I know what ur doing
Try not to be ai generated challenge extreme
Also, if all your friends are pure garbage
I will start by saying that I really like your voice and I love the story that you tell but you can't talk so fast it's like listening to the Chipmunks it's so hard to follow it's like one run-on sentence'
Forth?!😂
Third😅
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The whole one he’s not respecting your wishes of him, not socializing as much with your stepsisters is not being granted that’s already a red flag that’s very disrespectful. He supposed to be your partner and support you when you’re at your lowest.
Also, if all your friends are pure garbage