My husband left me alone in the car while I was having a baby and went on a trip with his parents.

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @raelynm3902
    @raelynm3902 7 месяцев назад +549

    Bro didn't want a wife, he wanted a maid with benefits. Disgusting.

    • @mushroommagic1697
      @mushroommagic1697 6 месяцев назад +14

      THIS!
      THIS!

    • @BjornAlands
      @BjornAlands 5 месяцев назад +10

      It's more insane she stayed all that long.

    • @oselinda174
      @oselinda174 5 месяцев назад +9

      That's my husband right now.... His mum controls him and he's taken us to live with his mum. I'm in serious debt because of him taking care of my children and I'm so done right now. I just need a little money to move out with my children. At a time this year in May he's told me he was leaving me and the children to go be with his mistress. Right now, I care not.

    • @oselinda174
      @oselinda174 5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm presently on sick bed since yesterday due to malaria, typhoid and ulcer (he's been starving me with hunger) the doctor will be coming to administer treatment till Wednesday.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +4

      @@oselinda174 SUE HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DIVORCE HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @barbaraunderwood1762
    @barbaraunderwood1762 10 месяцев назад +885

    This husband & parents knew her due date & did it on purpose. Glad she got rid of those scumbags.

    • @Icyangel10
      @Icyangel10 10 месяцев назад +42

      I wouldn't be surprised if the due date haunts them in some way since they became pariah for their actions. This is the day that led to their down fall, David(or whatever his real name is since someone pointed out this is something from Japan) to eventually lose his job/money(along the person he considered a slave) along with his & his parents' reputations going down hill.(Especially with how they kept responding which made things worse)

    • @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn
      @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn 8 месяцев назад +10

      It's true to my thoughts

    • @alipeacock3685
      @alipeacock3685 5 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely what awful people

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      @@alipeacock3685 if my parents heard about this happening to one of my friends not even me (for example) she would have been in her car with a baseball bat within 5 minutes of hearing the story 100%

  • @aliciahermansen6319
    @aliciahermansen6319 5 месяцев назад +286

    Years ago my husband made the mistake of saying “my mom does it like this”. I said well my name is Alice and I’m not Merlene. It didn’t happen again 😂😂

    • @NightFoxProductions
      @NightFoxProductions 5 месяцев назад

      I wish the idiot I'm with got this memo.

    • @Salicat99
      @Salicat99 4 месяца назад

      I'd probably have been Bruder and made some comment about, well then he can go to his mom for intimacy as well...

    • @magdad3197
      @magdad3197 4 месяца назад +3

      😅

    • @sophiahumphrey4686
      @sophiahumphrey4686 4 месяца назад +1

      @@magdad3197 😂😂😂

    • @gehtdichnixan8561
      @gehtdichnixan8561 3 месяца назад +10

      Goes both ways. When my wife suggested dinner should be prepared in another way, my "what you suggest is how my mom does it" instantly made her drop that thought. oO

  • @mariterrones3716
    @mariterrones3716 10 месяцев назад +228

    It's a no win situation as the partner like this will always find something wrong with every single situation.

    • @catalinadoinapreda3653
      @catalinadoinapreda3653 10 месяцев назад +12

      He is an example of a classic narcisist!

    • @mariterrones3716
      @mariterrones3716 10 месяцев назад

      @@catalinadoinapreda3653 true

    • @penguinZ85
      @penguinZ85 9 месяцев назад +6

      Sadly, I experienced that. I’m better off now that I don’t have to put up with that anymore.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 6 месяцев назад +2

      I was in a relationship like this. It was and is absolute hell

    • @kmkah586
      @kmkah586 6 месяцев назад +1

      After 35 years of marrige 3children he never helped out either i swear the drinkers suck Know My Give a Dams Busted iam never going to lay down for any man.Why do u have to drink so much any way?????Can you say Narrasist.😢

  • @noeleen5250
    @noeleen5250 7 месяцев назад +567

    My husband spoke to me like that once...God rest his soul 😂

    • @mianovashakira2576
      @mianovashakira2576 6 месяцев назад +15

      Hahaha same 😂 don't he dare

    • @marysanchez90
      @marysanchez90 6 месяцев назад +21

      I love your reply! God rest his soul!!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Jegarsahaduta
      @Jegarsahaduta 5 месяцев назад +16

      He would be speaking with God

    • @sarahgrajales9693
      @sarahgrajales9693 5 месяцев назад +17

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 your garden is so beautiful what kind of fertilizer do you use 😂😂

    • @liztewliztew
      @liztewliztew 5 месяцев назад +10

      18 years later and my guy has never raised his voice against me. He obviously knows better! 😅😂

  • @oldwoman5942
    @oldwoman5942 10 месяцев назад +341

    I have been married for 20 years and my husband makes me feel loved every day.

    • @sonyahardin1345
      @sonyahardin1345 10 месяцев назад +18

      I will be married 26 years March 27th 2024 and we love each other as if its the first day

    • @LMCorvinus
      @LMCorvinus 10 месяцев назад +10

      I'm very jealous, and wish you all the best for the next 20 years ❤. I thought I picked well when I met my kids father, but yet here we are lol

    • @NixBurkett1984
      @NixBurkett1984 10 месяцев назад +9

      2 days ago, my parents celebrated 40 years.

    • @victoriaryanlpcpc8075
      @victoriaryanlpcpc8075 10 месяцев назад +6

      You are very lucky!

    • @michelehofstetter4803
      @michelehofstetter4803 10 месяцев назад +7

      Thirty years here. I can't put into words how wonderful he is to me. We value each other. We weather the crummy times, we treasure the good ones. I wouldn't trade him for anything or anyone.

  • @silvermoon2281
    @silvermoon2281 10 месяцев назад +675

    “Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you get special treatment” Oh, okay, tough guy, you try it then.

    • @001Nennine
      @001Nennine 8 месяцев назад +8

      You are so wrong. You carry a 8lb baby.

    • @brittanyglodowski2477
      @brittanyglodowski2477 6 месяцев назад +8

      I worked 16 hour shift when I was pregnant. Being pregnant is not a luxury, if u can't keep up with housework and working then you really need to get your priorities straight.

    • @XiomaraReyes1
      @XiomaraReyes1 6 месяцев назад +26

      @@brittanyglodowski2477no one said it was. op was quoting the husband and made a funny remark

    • @TeaTimeTable
      @TeaTimeTable 6 месяцев назад +41

      @@brittanyglodowski2477 Working 16 hours while pregnant is the fault of your chosen partner no man / woman should let their pregnant partner do that.

    • @MsKatastrophenBarbie
      @MsKatastrophenBarbie 6 месяцев назад +45

      ​@@brittanyglodowski2477 in which barbaric country do you live? Here in Germany nightwork and working longer that 8 hours are outlawed for pregnant people. You are also not allowed to work for 6 weeks before and 8 weeks after birth.
      Pregnancy is no joke.

  • @lineeskildsen2036
    @lineeskildsen2036 10 месяцев назад +262

    Says he want to apologize then proceeds to demand an apology himself...

    • @mushroommagic1697
      @mushroommagic1697 6 месяцев назад

      Well that's how men children act.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +2

      imagine being a jerk and demanding an apology and treating your wife like a slave imagine trying to cover up the entire thing in order to perserve your sense of *Frail Ego*

  • @nothereyetlost
    @nothereyetlost 10 месяцев назад +581

    27:41 “let’s be a couple again”
    You weren’t a couple. You were her leech.

    • @Mamacat1357
      @Mamacat1357 10 месяцев назад +31

      And completely leaving out the new baby. What a piece of work.

    • @JasonPowers-rw8rf
      @JasonPowers-rw8rf 6 месяцев назад +8

      He was the leech

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +1

      nah hes a *ROACH*

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +2

      @@JasonPowers-rw8rf Parasite

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 4 месяца назад +2

      @@xOrionNebula2708 yea. Leech parasyte roach, all of the above

  • @TheDragonsDreamer
    @TheDragonsDreamer 10 месяцев назад +239

    Op's friends leap to defend their friend the very moment she finally accepted that she needed to leave this relationship. They knew that they could not force her to leave her husband, but they patiently wait to be by her side when she was ready to leave.

  • @SheliaWatson-pz3iz
    @SheliaWatson-pz3iz 10 месяцев назад +689

    I would have divorced him so fast his head would turn. I’m breaking up with my boyfriend now because he has threatened me and he always compares me to his ex wife.

    • @sandivanderwal5004
      @sandivanderwal5004 10 месяцев назад +67

      You don’t deserve to be compared to anyone else. And if his ex was so great why aren’t they still together.

    • @katvig1274
      @katvig1274 9 месяцев назад +38

      so glad you notice this now! please dont be alone with him when you do this

    • @SuryaSea
      @SuryaSea 9 месяцев назад +14

      You ok boo? Update us?!

    • @SheliaWatson-pz3iz
      @SheliaWatson-pz3iz 9 месяцев назад +37

      @@SuryaSea I’m okay I just stay as far away from him as I can. I live beside my mom and my daughter and my son in law are moving two houses down so I’m just fine. Plus I have my puppies that let me know if anything is outside. Thanks for your concern. 🙂

    • @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn
      @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn 8 месяцев назад +1

      It's true to my thoughts

  • @Holly220U
    @Holly220U 10 месяцев назад +424

    Five minutes in and I want a divorced😅

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 9 месяцев назад +4

      you want a divorced man or woman ? or just a divorce

    • @juantejada9948
      @juantejada9948 9 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly!

    • @ElleD308
      @ElleD308 9 месяцев назад +23

      ​@@jyvben1520a divorce from that man 🤣

    • @cherief926
      @cherief926 9 месяцев назад +6

      🎯

    • @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn
      @RevengeRedemption-ko8qn 8 месяцев назад +1

      It's true to my thoughts

  • @EsterKunin-zs2dw
    @EsterKunin-zs2dw 8 месяцев назад +40

    What a true friend Sara was! Thank goodness!❤

  • @bonnford9164
    @bonnford9164 9 месяцев назад +66

    Maybe David should move home to his mother, wife is better off without this baby/man.

  • @warrentreadwelljr.treadwel2694
    @warrentreadwelljr.treadwel2694 10 месяцев назад +242

    Never (IMHO) stay in a relationship with abuse. And you are carrying a kid!? Please understand that your kid will be his next victim.
    I was that next victim age 3 to 15. Running away is the only reason I could graduate high school

    • @GummyBearWA
      @GummyBearWA 8 месяцев назад +2

      Thankfully, these stories are fiction.

    • @kanikagaral7637
      @kanikagaral7637 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@GummyBearWAthis maybe but many r living this reality. The op just said it was their life story

    • @PersEndu
      @PersEndu 3 месяца назад +1

      @@GummyBearWAmy mom lived this way. Even my grandma asked my dad why he beat her if he didn’t love her he should just leave her for my grandma to take care of. My mom married young & my dad talked a big game of how he was gonna take care of her love her blah blah blah, but he ended up being drunk, out with his buddies many nights & abusive when he came home. So irl my mom’s situation seems way worse than this story.😢

  • @heatherandelvira
    @heatherandelvira 8 месяцев назад +167

    ‘Maybe he no longer sees me as family’ 9:11
    He no longer (if he ever did) sees you as human.

  • @lindasavelle1731
    @lindasavelle1731 10 месяцев назад +1546

    This story is from Japan. In Japan you can actually get divorced by mutually signed divorce papers; the trick is to get the reluctant party to sign them. Thats where the lawyer comes in. He was provided by the family friend and his job is to point out to the husband all the consequences of not signing, which means going to court and all the costs that would incur. Husband would have to get a lawyer, can he afford one? in a case that he's guaranteed to lose. OP has the upper hand especially because her husband is a fool and OP has powerful social connections. In Japan custody automatically goes to the mother, and she gets to decide whether and if the father or his family get to see the child. The scene outside the hospital were the inlaws trying to get around this and kidnap the child and his mother to get physical possession of both because neither the police or the courts will interfere in what goes on in a home. That why OPs friend hired private security for her. Also the fact that ex husband was demoted and basically forced to resign is how the Japanese deal with people who offend the boss for whatever reason. This story actually gives you a pretty good cautionary snapshot of modern Japan and tells you be careful whom you marry, because in real life there is no rescuer like Sarah to save you from a bad marraige.

    • @Arlene-j3n
      @Arlene-j3n 10 месяцев назад +84

      Thanks for explaining how divorce wthere.

    • @Cheshyre.
      @Cheshyre. 10 месяцев назад +138

      Thank you. These authors need to stop throwing on the whitest bread names they can to make them appear to be Western. It's rude.

    • @tinazimmer4304
      @tinazimmer4304 10 месяцев назад +32

      Thank you very much for this reply....you explained a lot

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo 10 месяцев назад +87

      @@Cheshyre. I have said this many times- use Japanese names for the characters and Japanese names for the locations. It automatically makes everything make much more sense when we know it is Japan (if you have any understanding of Japanese culture). There has only been one story so far that uses Japanese names, and I have read hundreds of these stories.

    • @jacquelinejohnson9447
      @jacquelinejohnson9447 10 месяцев назад +25

      Thank you so much for the explanation. It clears up a lot of confusion for me.

  • @deniseann7056
    @deniseann7056 8 месяцев назад +37

    I'm so glad she divorced this man, all I can say is what a jerk, he and his family so deserved everything they got and get, they should of raised him to be more kind caring and understanding

  • @Mickeyblue987654321
    @Mickeyblue987654321 6 месяцев назад +57

    Sarah is an incredible person I’m so happy she was such a good friend and was there for this lady she really needed such a kind person in her corner then

  • @michelletaylor8186
    @michelletaylor8186 8 месяцев назад +115

    He didn't love her.Sounds like she was just a maid and cook for him.If he had loved her and the baby he wouldn't have left. She is much better off without him!!

    • @osveliabustamante1161
      @osveliabustamante1161 7 месяцев назад +8

      She needs to love herself and know she doesn’t deserve this treatment.

    • @mushroommagic1697
      @mushroommagic1697 6 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah, many men and also women settle with kind and soft people because those people are easy to control.

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 4 месяца назад

      @@michelletaylor8186 y’all keep saying he didn’t love her like love is even an option. Men cannot love. That’s like saying someone’s skin isn’t green as a lament as though green was ever possible.

  • @paytonmarie3838
    @paytonmarie3838 10 месяцев назад +206

    I'm glad OP went into labor before she went on that trip. Being forced to go on a "trip" right before birth is sus. Something tells me they wanted the baby and to find a way to get rid of her after. Thank god nature kicked in, who knows what could have happened. Wishing her a happier life without him!

  • @darlenedelgado5936
    @darlenedelgado5936 10 месяцев назад +98

    Poor excuse of a husband.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      poor excuse? hes the biggest joke i have ever seen

  • @patriciapeters5039
    @patriciapeters5039 9 месяцев назад +66

    She was better off without that awful man for a husband and his horrible parents.

  • @nothereyetlost
    @nothereyetlost 10 месяцев назад +217

    “Just bc you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you get special treatment.”
    Sounds like he doesn’t want her to be treated better than him ?!!

    • @maryhudson8643
      @maryhudson8643 9 месяцев назад +7

      This man is not right at all and is not doing what the most high God tells a man to do, see what God tells a man, a man will leave his father and mother and he will stick to his wife and they will become one meaning that they stand as one of their decisions because God hates a divorce, Malachi 2:16., a man is to love his wife as his own body, Ephesians.5:25-33, your husband is a very weak and evil man because he is depending on his parents and should be sticking to you in everything can you see he do not love you and his baby, this man parents are evil people as well.

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 9 месяцев назад

      @@maryhudson8643 the most high is a concoction. THAT is why most men are engaged in bs. They used it to lie to women.

    • @rosamundcarpenter8718
      @rosamundcarpenter8718 9 месяцев назад +4

      Thank goodness that I was blessed with a loving human being

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@rosamundcarpenter8718 “human” being. Lol. Sure

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 9 месяцев назад

      @@maryhudson8643 I think men can do what thrh want bc there isn’t actually any god. I still can’t believe how much women fell for it. “Have faith”. What if it was all a lie? How can you be sure it’s not?

  • @roseeva3368
    @roseeva3368 5 месяцев назад +36

    If my husband spoke to me like that in the presence of my mother he would be in the hospital my mom would be in mama bear mode

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      yea same

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      even if it wasnt me if i told her this happened to my friend she would have had the exact same reaction

  • @hospitalqueen4047
    @hospitalqueen4047 10 месяцев назад +96

    Im pregnant and would never want to give birth alone. Thankfully ny grandma is going to be with ne since the dad is a deadbeat. Glad she is leaving that abuser.

    • @BjornAlands
      @BjornAlands 5 месяцев назад

      😂 why did you decide to have a baby with a deadbeat?! That's crazy

    • @Palafertiil
      @Palafertiil 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@BjornAlands Rude much?

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      @@BjornAlands tf you on about

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      @@BjornAlands stay away from drugs🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @kathydurow6814
    @kathydurow6814 10 месяцев назад +123

    What gets me about these comments is how few people take cultural context into account. I can imagine that in Japan it might be much more difficult socially to be a divorced woman than in the USA, for example. Especially if your friends & family disapprove. But having witnesses & evidence of the husband's abuse turned this around & against him instead. The OP comments that this disapproval would be harder for the in laws than any legal consequences, for example. Thanks to those who explained Japanese divorce.

    • @BjornAlands
      @BjornAlands 5 месяцев назад +5

      She still Ended up divorcing him, but now she's a single mom. It would've been easier in every sense of the word if she'd left him before that

    • @Dreamplandoradij
      @Dreamplandoradij 4 месяца назад +1

      Well as i know lots of people in japan leave lonely because they dont want to be in the family system frames , or they want career not sitting home with children . But their upbringing and social norms pressure is high still unfortunately

  • @cuentosdereddit-n5u
    @cuentosdereddit-n5u 4 месяца назад +4

    The host's voice is so calming; it's perfect for a long drive or relaxing at home.

  • @shotahunter
    @shotahunter 9 месяцев назад +86

    3 minutes in and I already want to divorce this mf.

  • @sewlok3492
    @sewlok3492 5 месяцев назад +31

    I think she ignored the red flags before marriage. So glad she woke up.

    • @itsjustme7487
      @itsjustme7487 3 месяца назад

      I ignored the red flags before marriage and ignored some WTF moments after.

  • @insiderinMask
    @insiderinMask 10 месяцев назад +83

    How did he not end up under the patio? This story is from Japan. In Japan you can actually get divorced by mutually signed divorce papers

  • @lacuna_matata_9261
    @lacuna_matata_9261 9 месяцев назад +65

    As soon as the beer conversation happened that was enough for me to leave 😅 let’s listen to the rest 😳

    • @dede4004
      @dede4004 6 месяцев назад +3

      Same. I was done then. I thought......he's found someone else. It's the same thing with many selfish people.

  • @porkypinetv9788
    @porkypinetv9788 8 месяцев назад +21

    cruelty behavior can't be accepted part of couples life, respect and care is needed specifically.

  • @pdub707
    @pdub707 10 месяцев назад +27

    Who hasn't experienced such callous indifference and disregard from their 'partners'. It seems to be an essential part of their informal education.

  • @leahk.
    @leahk. 3 месяца назад +5

    I lived this. Got triggers listening to story. Even the rudeness with each of my pregnancies. 31 and a 1/2 years of marriage endured. 10 years divorced. After grieving awhile from the loss of what could have been a decent marriage but wasnt, i finally could start to be thankful i was released from the oppression.

  • @lorihaun9956
    @lorihaun9956 9 месяцев назад +47

    My ex was a narcissistic A**h****!
    He almost chose to go fishing over taking me to the hospital. If it weren't for his mother and her boyfriend, he would have left me.
    I ended up getting a helicopter ride to another hospital because my baby was 5 weeks early.
    I ended up staying married 9 more years. It was a very rocky marriage.
    My daughter is an amazing awesome person! ❤

  • @suzannemuliolis6066
    @suzannemuliolis6066 5 месяцев назад +25

    Lol...I would have ditched that narcissist before even getting pregnant...sheez

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +2

      well yea sure but ever heard of *"Master Manipulators"* yea some are so good at it you cant even NOTICE there narcisistic behavioral patterns

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 3 месяца назад

      so in other words when your in you dont even know untill you its either pointed OUT TO YOU or you are able to to step away and examine the behavioral patterns of the said partner and not everyone is gonna know how to spot a narcisist i wasn't *"in a relationship"* but rather i was close friends with one

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 3 месяца назад

      for over a year i had no idea i was tricked by the narcisistic (close friend) i had she was using me as a punching bag and her *"healing tree"* the entire time because of my special gift of being able to heal others long story short i cut ties with her 1 and a half years later its been 2 years and she STILL wants me back

  • @nanettehauk2660
    @nanettehauk2660 3 месяца назад +2

    This was a very heartfelt story. I’m glad that the ending was done.

  • @tribalroselr
    @tribalroselr 10 месяцев назад +32

    Sounds like what I went through except giving birth alone to my son.
    My mother was watching my daughter and I was left at the hospital by my son's father.

    • @Lufu2
      @Lufu2 9 месяцев назад +1

      How sad, I hope you ended up ok. Did you stay or leave?

  • @CLance-mo7bo
    @CLance-mo7bo 10 месяцев назад +23

    😢😢He is a horrible person!!

  • @goldanne100
    @goldanne100 9 месяцев назад +14

    I would tell him to move there permanently. You don’t need him

  • @pinkchilldivestmentor
    @pinkchilldivestmentor 10 месяцев назад +97

    The husband is a cheating, alcoholic narcissist. The wife is a victim of his abuse, and it will take her years to recover from that.
    She’s fortunate to have parents and good friends to help.

  • @clarew8794
    @clarew8794 9 месяцев назад +24

    But why did he call in a panic and say, "help me"? It sounds like he started blowing up her phone soon after OP got to the hospital, just after her parents arrived, too soon for Lisa to have even called her husband, much less for Lisa's husband to have called OP's husband while traveling and fired him.

    • @southernflight5078
      @southernflight5078 9 месяцев назад +4

      It never stated when exactly Sarah posted. So it wouldn't be surprising if she posted the same day they got her to the hospital. While Lisa talked to her husband about OP's husband's job prospects at the company.

  • @jillmortlock8439
    @jillmortlock8439 10 месяцев назад +70

    How did he not end up under the patio?

    • @sondrajohnson2564
      @sondrajohnson2564 10 месяцев назад +11

      I have to admit a similar thought occurred to me! If nothing else getting the s**t kicked out of him! Or, having him arrested. That would have been good!

    • @sandragilleland724
      @sandragilleland724 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@sondrajohnson2564
      Under the porch was too nice for him!

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      @@sandragilleland724 dont throw him into shark infested waters they wont even want to take him

  • @lesleygiles8924
    @lesleygiles8924 10 месяцев назад +25

    The background is absolutely beautiful!

  • @Redenial
    @Redenial 5 месяцев назад +7

    "Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you get special treatment."
    I agree... but the husband does not treat his wife with respect or love... she deserve much better.

  • @janecameron9337
    @janecameron9337 9 месяцев назад +15

    I am so sorry for her - but I know the feeling I have been there myself - it hurts to do what needs to be done but in the end you find a strengh you never thought you can have

  • @keshiathompson9296
    @keshiathompson9296 10 месяцев назад +58

    I'm so glad I'm not this weak. I could never imagine being treated like this on a daily basis

    • @kimberleyschreurs3127
      @kimberleyschreurs3127 10 месяцев назад

      I don’t think it’s okay to call OP weak. It’s obviously a different culture and I think she might have learned from a young age a wife is supposed to be agreeable towards her husband. She just tried to be a good wife despite her husband being an Ahole.

    • @kimberleyschreurs3127
      @kimberleyschreurs3127 10 месяцев назад +7

      Also; are you, by extent, saying victims of domestic abuse are weak?

    • @immaseahorse24
      @immaseahorse24 10 месяцев назад +3

      It's not weakness

    • @keshiathompson9296
      @keshiathompson9296 10 месяцев назад +1

      To answer both comments yes

    • @jazminejames3835
      @jazminejames3835 9 месяцев назад +5

      Actually some abusers don't go after weak people they go after strong willed people they see them as a challenge to break them and make them weak. Op might not have always been that way. So yes she became weak but it probably took years of dealing with his bs to break her down. Thankfully OP had so many friends with high social statuses she was planning her escape without even realizing it. 😅

  • @veronicaklinkenberg
    @veronicaklinkenberg 9 месяцев назад +15

    She was officily married to her husband but practically she married her inlaws. Who are blaming everyone else but themself, problebly by trauma from growing up. Its so sad, its a way of surviving. Unless they choose to change, nothing can help them...

  • @Mrbetvr
    @Mrbetvr 6 месяцев назад +16

    Wierd, he must be cheating... no husband of a pregnant woman, goes awsy every weekend to parents house.

    • @TheMurlocKeeper
      @TheMurlocKeeper 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not necessarily.
      This happens in a lot of wet behind the ears men, who never cut the umbilical cord, as it were.
      They often have VERY close ties to their mother.
      It's sickening.
      This happens SO often, there's even a name for it.
      It's called "emotional incest".
      Pretty grose, huh?

  • @SandraNelson063
    @SandraNelson063 10 месяцев назад +60

    No, David has a deep bond with his PARENTS, not HER parents.

  • @dianaverschure3360
    @dianaverschure3360 3 месяца назад +6

    What a monster. Run from this guy. Are you sure he goes to his parents house?? Sounds too suspicious to me he has another

  • @StoryofPayback
    @StoryofPayback 8 месяцев назад +11

    Shocking abandonment. Husband leaves wife alone in labor for a trip with his parents. Unbelievable

  • @catherinehanson1106
    @catherinehanson1106 10 месяцев назад +129

    my ex forced me to drive to the hospital alone while i was having a miscarriage.....he didnt believe me....

    • @penguinZ85
      @penguinZ85 9 месяцев назад +27

      I’m sorry that you went through that.

    • @Lufu2
      @Lufu2 9 месяцев назад +24

      Wow, I can understand how he is now your EX !

    • @sheridarnell5542
      @sheridarnell5542 7 месяцев назад +12

      That's awful! I'm glad he's your ex now. You deserve so much better. So deeply sorry for your loss. ❤

    • @lindaojo3062
      @lindaojo3062 7 месяцев назад +13

      He knew you were telling the truth.He was just being mean.

    • @traceyjackson4470
      @traceyjackson4470 6 месяцев назад +6

      How freaking HEART LESS CAN ONE BE!??
      💔💔🖤💔💔🖤💔💔

  • @tiffanyhammond3103
    @tiffanyhammond3103 6 месяцев назад +28

    I can't identify. I'll keep my opinion to myself, but she sure makes being single a highly favored status.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      100% true

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      and a friend i used to know was a bad enough person that it would make you want to STAY AWAY from anywhere she was

  • @lesa6399
    @lesa6399 10 месяцев назад +27

    Proof reading prior to publishing adds cred to the channel…

  • @aliciaacuna2948
    @aliciaacuna2948 8 месяцев назад +20

    He should stay single, hope shes living a happier life

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      his parents shouldn't have had a kid in the first place look at how this one turned out?

  • @julzguess2253
    @julzguess2253 5 месяцев назад +6

    The only thing missing was the knight in shining armor to meet her at the end. Good fantasy

  • @jennc.9099
    @jennc.9099 5 месяцев назад +5

    OMG... I'm only 6 minutes in, and all I can think of is: RUN.
    Divorce and RUN. This guy is highly toxic toward you and ypur self esteem. This is not a typical man. You can totally find someone who will appreciate you. This is NOT normal. GO... now.

  • @silvermoon2281
    @silvermoon2281 10 месяцев назад +19

    9:43 “Oh, because you were drunk you wanted special treatment?”

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      likely this same idiot: *you cant blame me for knocking you out cold and giving you a concussion while i was drunk*
      Guess what?
      A jail cell is just a room
      Yea and the electric chair is just a *"Chair"*

  • @Frank-rx8ch
    @Frank-rx8ch 8 месяцев назад +7

    Laziness of mind, attitude and no consideration at all. The tongue is only a small part of the body, but it can boast evil words of hate and anger. It also shouts and swear ugly words so the whole neighbourhood can hear. God bless you Lisa and your little angel🧚 and another guardian angel Sarah being by your side to see you through. May the Lord God also lead guide and direct you and your little one safely through lifes journey❤

  • @laurenkalibat357
    @laurenkalibat357 10 месяцев назад +29

    She needs to grow a backbone and tell her husband and his mother to get lost!!!!!

    • @pinkchilldivestmentor
      @pinkchilldivestmentor 10 месяцев назад +6

      I don’t know if you listen to the whole thing she’s a victim of abuse by a narcissist and his flying monkey parents it takes years to get over that.

    • @penguinZ85
      @penguinZ85 9 месяцев назад +3

      As a victim of narcissistic abuse, I can verify that it’s difficult to get over it and you don’t really see it as abuse until looking back because I kept thinking that if only I had been perfect, things would improve. I blamed myself for everything. It was only after some time away and counseling that I could see what was really going on. Unless someone been through it, it’s difficult to understand.

  • @evelynwright
    @evelynwright 9 месяцев назад +18

    Divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce~!

  • @lovinavargas-carriedo2698
    @lovinavargas-carriedo2698 6 месяцев назад +9

    This was written exactly like an Asian drama!!!

  • @Golden.Delight
    @Golden.Delight 10 месяцев назад +23

    Ohhh how this gave me flashbacks to being with my ex-husband.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      uhh are you okay now that you have moved on from him

    • @Golden.Delight
      @Golden.Delight 4 месяца назад

      @@xOrionNebula2708 present life is amazing. I live in a better city and home now. I make more money than when i was married. The dude i’ve been seeing treats me like i’m the most precious person in his life after his daughter. He’s so attentive to things i want & say.
      Example:in passing i texted sloppy joes sound so tasty. I wish the food court sold some. When he picked me up from work, that day, he had bought all the stuff for sloppy joes and had flowers laying on my bed for me. & we cooked the food together cause i love cooking & he’s learning.
      The ex is miserable at his mom’s house. & when my mini spends time with his dad is all video game/steam time cause i don’t have wifi at home. Only internet is my cell. No netflix or hulu at “real home”(what my mini calls my place).
      Life is soooo much better in the now. Despite me thinking it was over when my divorce happened.

  • @shawndione
    @shawndione 7 месяцев назад +5

    I cannot. She is a doormat. Because, both him and his mother would have gotten the business from me.

  • @diannemarcantonio5954
    @diannemarcantonio5954 10 месяцев назад +42

    She call David’s parents his in-laws but they are not in-laws. They are his parents.

  • @EsterKunin-zs2dw
    @EsterKunin-zs2dw 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is super creepy! It reminds me of the film "Rosemary's Baby", from the 1960's!😢

  • @connieelflett8048
    @connieelflett8048 10 месяцев назад +48

    They are NOT his “in-laws”. They are his parents and her in-laws.

    • @drieuxkoeppel8152
      @drieuxkoeppel8152 10 месяцев назад

      Please. Tell me. How many languages do you read and speak? Do you write in other languages? I’ve lived in Asia. English is a pretty tough language to learn, since it has rules-and then those rules are broken. I think perhaps this is an ESL poster-so when YOU can post this same content IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE, you can complain. Until then, kindly, STFU.

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 10 месяцев назад +5

      They are not her in laws. They are the parents of her captor

    • @ladylily
      @ladylily 8 месяцев назад +2

      It's a fake story from Japan that's been poorly translated.

  • @traceyjackson4470
    @traceyjackson4470 6 месяцев назад +8

    Seriously…a family trip when she is due any day now???
    Seriously…THROWING her out of the car while in LABOR???
    Seriously…disowning your own child and refusing child support???
    I can’t believe ANY of that so I definitely don’t believe she had sexual relations with that demon ten months ago that resulted in a pregnancy 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TheMurlocKeeper
      @TheMurlocKeeper 5 месяцев назад

      Oh, I believe it!
      He's obviously a narcissist, and narcissists can be VERY charming at first to bag themselves a wife.
      Once the woman is "trapped" and can't go anywhere, the mask comes right off and they don't bother hiding their inner ugliness anymore, and they are cold and cruel to their wives.
      That is how she got into this predicament.
      Once she was baby trapped, he thought he had complete control over her.
      Oh how wrong he was, lol!

  • @krisangamulo1895
    @krisangamulo1895 6 месяцев назад +7

    Moms, if you baby your son, they will expect their gf/wife will baby them too

  • @foxywolf2009
    @foxywolf2009 6 месяцев назад +6

    Wow divorce an restraining orders immediately if I was her omg

  • @cariciaangela3052
    @cariciaangela3052 10 месяцев назад +13

    If you say : David goes back to his parents on weekends. The next phrase would be: he has a deep bond with his parents. Not " in- laws". Because David's parents are YOUR in- laws. And YOUR parents are his in laws.
    But i enjoy the story.
    Would like for the revenge to be as long as the suffering. To give readers satisfaction, that is😅

    • @hayleyz1703
      @hayleyz1703 5 месяцев назад

      The story is being poorly translated from Japanese

  • @Obironnkenobi
    @Obironnkenobi 6 месяцев назад +6

    28.34 - Just wanted to share what a friend of mine said when his Ex said "I can't live without you." and he said "Good!" and hung up the phone.

  • @nooneofimportance2110
    @nooneofimportance2110 10 месяцев назад +31

    Incorrigible is not the word I would have used to describe this villain. Idiotic or insane seem like a better choices.

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 10 месяцев назад +4

      Creature is the word

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 3 месяца назад

      @@nothereyetlost **Animal*

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 3 месяца назад

      @@xOrionNebula2708 not quite animal. I actually think they are less than that. They are more like a virus. And the mixture of that into a human corporeal is the creature.

  • @zk6019
    @zk6019 6 месяцев назад +8

    1:56 so he hasn’t been kind for 3 years and instead of leaving she has his baby??

  • @KimberlyKuehne
    @KimberlyKuehne 9 месяцев назад +12

    The story was interesting but the delivery was lacking a bit.

    • @TheMurlocKeeper
      @TheMurlocKeeper 5 месяцев назад

      Yeah, but it probably wasn't translated the best, being originally Japanese.

    • @KimberlyKuehne
      @KimberlyKuehne 5 месяцев назад

      @@TheMurlocKeeper true.

  • @bluestartears6405
    @bluestartears6405 5 месяцев назад +3

    David's the kind of husband that's very selfish and all he cares about is himself. That's pretty obvious That you're his servant built in maid. I feel very sorry for you to be married to that😢 You're actually better off to get a divorce because obviously he don't care about you as much as you think he does

  • @Poisonwc
    @Poisonwc 7 месяцев назад +6

    I'm sorry, but this woman was a fool for letting this go on as long as she did.

    • @TheMurlocKeeper
      @TheMurlocKeeper 5 месяцев назад

      It's narcissistic abuse.
      I've lived it too.
      The abuse starts off slow, and by the time it gets to ridiculous level, you're so ground down from it, daily, that you think nothing of it, and you think it's normal.
      All you can think about is not to make them angry at you.
      It messes you up a lot. You can't even think straight and are constantly in a state of confusion, due to the narcissists' abuses. They do it to you deliberately, so you don't have time to think clearly about what is being done to you.
      Look up the effects narcissistic abuse has on someone.
      It is truly devastating and causes lifelong damage.

  • @RissaGrrArg
    @RissaGrrArg 5 месяцев назад +4

    David's mom needs an intervention.

  • @Storyline-jl3je
    @Storyline-jl3je 10 месяцев назад +16

    Nice story. I’ve always dreamed of visiting Japan, it was interesting to listen❤

  • @Miriam-eb2iu
    @Miriam-eb2iu 4 месяца назад +2

    What the F!? That us extremely toxic! How can anyone stay even 5 minutes in such a relationship, pregnant or not, in the 21 st century!? 😮

  • @evamondragon5225
    @evamondragon5225 5 месяцев назад +3

    I wonder how long she’s known him before getting married. Behavior like this cannot be hidden, or maybe she just ignored it.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад +1

      some people are so manipulative they are like cameleons camoflaging ther abusive behaviors

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 4 месяца назад

      so by the time you are being manipulated you dont even know you are so you arent even able to see any red flags sometimes the manipulation is very slow and insidious and almost IMPOSSIBLE to dectect

  • @janetrisner5814
    @janetrisner5814 9 месяцев назад +8

    It's called DIVORCE HIS BEHIND ,

  • @MsSlimFace
    @MsSlimFace 10 месяцев назад +8

    David's parents should not be called his "in-laws". They are Lisa's in-laws.

  • @nyneeveanya8861
    @nyneeveanya8861 3 месяца назад +2

    I wondered where this was from. I’m in America when rice is sold in one to two pound bags. Then I seen the comment saying it was from Japan. I know they eat more rice than we do so I can see buying it in large bulk. Thank you.

  • @ashleygomez9332
    @ashleygomez9332 10 месяцев назад +6

    She doesn’t make sense. Starts off by saying he spends weekends at his parents house bc he’s close to his in laws…ummm what

  • @catspaw3092
    @catspaw3092 9 месяцев назад +17

    Why did OP marry a guy like this much less have a kid with him.

    • @diannesmith2249
      @diannesmith2249 8 месяцев назад +16

      Because blokes like him put on an act until they marry you.

    • @traceyjackson4470
      @traceyjackson4470 6 месяцев назад

      🤷🏾‍♀️ 😮🤦🏽‍♀️😝🤨🤮🤢🤪

    • @mushroommagic1697
      @mushroommagic1697 6 месяцев назад +6

      At first he pretended he was everything she needed, when she got pregnant and was actually trapped, he showed his real face because he wanted a mommy with benefits for himself.

  • @clarissagafoor5222
    @clarissagafoor5222 9 месяцев назад +14

    David's in-laws would be the wife's family!!😂😅

    • @itsmexena4727
      @itsmexena4727 9 месяцев назад +2

      They meant her in laws

    • @rositchi5889
      @rositchi5889 5 месяцев назад

      I heard that too lol🤣

  • @GillianBergh
    @GillianBergh 5 месяцев назад +4

    'David has a deep bond with his inlaws.' His in-laws are YOUR parents. I give up!

    • @Palafertiil
      @Palafertiil 5 месяцев назад +1

      Pretty sure that was a typo.

    • @hayleyz1703
      @hayleyz1703 5 месяцев назад +2

      When english isn't someone's first language, they're going to make mistakes.

  • @ChrisAndCats
    @ChrisAndCats 9 месяцев назад +7

    Sounds more like a creative writing exercise.

  • @delmahnori1582
    @delmahnori1582 5 месяцев назад +4

    The wife should left David the sooner. To be treated his wife as slave during pregnancy is cruel. Worst still to left the wife during the birth is like murdering. Good the wife left him.

  • @EsterKunin-zs2dw
    @EsterKunin-zs2dw 7 месяцев назад +4

    Good Riddens, David!😢😢😮

  • @dunababe
    @dunababe 5 месяцев назад +2

    If David lived in my country... he would live.

    • @xOrionNebula2708
      @xOrionNebula2708 3 месяца назад

      well same here well thats if he gets thrown in jail which he 100% would if he was not then my moms going to make him eat the asphalt

  • @Ameer9061
    @Ameer9061 3 месяца назад +2

    Since you are pregnant and this is how your husband and mother in law treating you leave the house and go back to your parents home. Tell him and his mother that you are not their maid.

  • @timmclaughlin7196
    @timmclaughlin7196 4 месяца назад

    I would've investigated these people to see why court freaked them out so much. There has to be a reason they'd fold like that.

  • @MsTERRY4658
    @MsTERRY4658 6 месяцев назад +4

    Divorced all those people. You deserve better .

  • @lynnchi1
    @lynnchi1 3 месяца назад +2

    Better off without him. He has a lot of growing up to do.

  • @LaurieHicks-g3g
    @LaurieHicks-g3g 9 месяцев назад +10

    Hes cheating

  • @Stevie66ful
    @Stevie66ful 4 месяца назад +2

    Why didn't she call the police after being thrown out of a car while in labor. WTF.