@marqueslabbe1105 And Ms. Maya Angelou made a long lasting mark that many married ones have not been able attain. Her name is printed with gold on this earth.
He right! You’re not supposed to enter a covenant with a person. They are human, only with God! The words spoken during a wedding ceremony are not in agreement with God. The words are man made! Read your wedding license! You give the government permission to make decisions in your marriage. That is not what God intended. Both are traps of the devil. To always have a hand in your marriage.
@@Cateyes767 You have to Read the original Bible the Ethiopian Bible, which has 83 books not the rearranged European Bible, were the Europeans took out books. Go ahead and Google the missing books of the Bible . People love to make fun of others when you are to lazy to read. King James has the Bible reassembled that is why Only have 66 books. Google it.! The Catholic Bible has 75 books. Then go back and watch the video where he said to repeat wedding vows is a sin then if you’re old enough and smart enough to have a waiting certificate read it you’ll be surprised what you find!
I’m very familiar with old school blk men.. my grandfather cut my grandmother stomach with a knife when she came home from some place with his own sister that he didn’t approve of🔪. They were some cruel things.. many still are. Number 1 femicide of blk women and more than twice the rate of every race. You know he would’ve gone up side that head if she protested.. and I’m sure they have siblings they know nothing about lol. Sick! This shit should NOT be glorified or normalized.. that “struggle love” color purple type garbage!
He is funny as well. He is not going to come across as Gma, as they are 2 different people, genders and personalities. Let's not place sinking ships in a marriage and understanding that has proven NOT to sink in 59 years. No argument and not my truth, the truth, as is proven.
Wow!!! When you listen to Grandpa, you see why grandma feels the way she feels!! I am in total agreement with grandma!! Sounds like you met your match when you met Grandma!!! ❤
@@dattamusic3498 If y'all would stand up and be real men we wouldn't have ("PRETEND") to be equal or better then y'all! Y'all open the door to make us feel like that by not doing what y'all should do! That's what's old and lame!!
Y'all always blame your bad traits on us and act like we can't open the door up for anything gud... Y'all just be looking for any excuse to be mean to men so you won't be accountable for your bitterness...
I love his fact, saying I will, saying I do is a sin. Kind of make sense. But the funny part is if she don't like it she can get to stepping. He's in his right mind.
No way he says he didn't say "I do"..he says "I will (do what I want to)Gram is the perfect wife to him,she's to smart to get to skipping😮🤣🤣🤣@@grovedwayne390
I believe he said he will continue to do whatever he wants to do. That is why grandma said I am not worried about what any man does. You can not control anyone. The marriage lasted because she stayed out of his way
Because he had the power back in the day. Grandma best bet was to get married and then you can do whatever want like he said. No woman was dumb enough back in the day not to get married. Most women had to get married, if Grandma grew up in our era she probably would have never even got married.
She did her part he did his. They probably respected each other like my grand parents did. My granny was just like this beautiful woman. She was very, very classy. Took very good care of the house and family and made sure she was being taken care of. She was quiet but very stern when she did speak. She did what she was expected to do as a wife and woman. Gramps did what he was supposed to. Came and went as he pleased made sure she was taken care of and provided for.
They are TWO STRONG Personalities!!...❤❤ .. Some people REFUSE to Sacrifice SELF to truly be loved by someone... Old Saying>> DO I HV TO GV UP ME!...TO BE LOVED BY YOU?...
He lying. He said I do. Please. I don’t believe that one second. You broke her heart a long time ago and she tolerated him all these years. She loves him but she trusts him as far as she can throw him. Grandma is confident in who she is. A survivor.
No! Marriages were different than people married for security not necessary for love, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t care for each other deeply. My aunt told me women didn’t care what they look like as long as they had a paycheck! That doesn’t mean they didn’t care for each other.
No wonder she doesn't care much about him either. It doesn't have to be this way. But I love their honesty, so the younger generation can learn HOW NOT TO do marriage this way. Bless grandma's heart. She had to deal with this straightforwardness for years😮
Oh no I couldn’t imagine having straight forward honest people in my life. I’m scared just thinking about it imagine someone that actually said what they meant and meant what they said I can’t believe people like that exist. Monsters
Now, you see why. Looks like she went through hell, but if the women do that they call her a hoe, so what do they call him. Ladies, looks like grandma went through hell. Bless her heart. A lot a women stayed because of financial stability. Sad...
@@debbieb9324 This is sad, it seems like mom checked out of this union a long time ago and dad is ice cold. It's clear this arrangement has suited them well and they've learned to coexist during this lifetime,
He's probably a deacon in the church messing around with all the women... DISRESPECTING the vows of marriage, like he did her a favor by marrying her!!! 😞
Then you're being fooled. When people tell you who they are, believe them. What side his bread is buttered on? Like he needs her...I mean really. Thats delusional
@@charlitafoulks9373As a former counselor, this is exactly how many marriages are and were. Society doesn’t care about the quality of the marriage, but rather how long.
@@The13thGoddessAries that's NOT only in black love, it's worse in some of the other cultures. Especially, the ones who are STILL riding in horse driven buggies.
First of all she was not posting anything on social media. You did. Until now it was their private matter and it should have been respected rather than making it public for somebody else’s benefit. They deserve more respect.
Absolutely!! Anything to make a dollar 💵 🤦🏾♀️. Parents are to be cherished, not using them as money-making skeptical 😢. Just sad, plus they have no idea she's doing this at their age because they have no knowledge of the internet vloging, Instagram, RUclips, etc. Sad shame🤦🏾♀️😒
I totally 💯 agree with you. Something are better left private . This right here , shows the HELL she had to endure with this man. If he is acting like this at 95 , can you imagine what he was like in his twenties??? SMH … No wonder Grandma don’t give a damn what she say about him , apparently he doesn’t either….
This is why most of you will never get it. His I'm gonna do what I wanna do might be to make sure my family is straight by any means. No one can tell or judge me
Well, I am with Grandma. She knew the assignment and enjoyed her life. Very few women of her time had the courage to do what she did. He had a nerve, but she said, "That's all good, 😂and she took his advice and kept on stepping!!!❤
@@SunnySideup-ks7ot I've been in it 44yrs and have learned that what he says compared to what he really does are as far as the east is from the west. Don't believe the hard exterior, a lot of times it's just posturing. That's just my experience 🤷🏾♀️
Yes very sad I don’t see much old folks talk like this. My grandparents didn’t show us much affection towards each other but we knew there was love and respect. When my grandma passed my grandad was so sad. He lost his best friend of 49yrs of marriage. He adored my grandma
People stayed for 50 plus years unhappy because that’s what they were taught and they had lots of kids…. where we’re they going to go. No affection most likely meant no love. But family will tell a different fictional story.
Since this part is the way you act and the way you acted before marriage. On the day you got married and during your entire marriage. You should have kept on stepping about your business instead of having that woman trapped up all these years, not knowing that she could've/would've/should've walked away. Just like you just did and said when you said I WILL!! You should've gotten your ASS up and walked right on AWAY from that video that you just said all that foolishness on.!!
But that's not how you fixed the problem.The problem is the man that your grandma picked What saying?Good thinking woman will ever pick.A man who talks like this especially marry him.That doesn't even make sense
@@larryforeman grandma was forced to pick a man because US subjugated women and forced them to "deal" with a man because she couldn't put anything in her name .....we all saw what happen to marriages when women actually got "human rights" divorced yall abusive asses
It's sad they had to teach that. More effort should be put into teaching the next generation of girl and boys to treat each other with respect be faithful to one another.
Not at all. People didn’t marry for love. But security/ job! Not always of course. My aunt told me women didn’t care what he looked like. Times were hard!
Now I see why Grandma is so cut throat...old skool = long as he bring his check home leave him alone..smh I wonder if she's ever been in love...i see why she didn't put so much into this man I'm so glad women make decent wages now and don't have to put up with this mess
She has been in love. She talks about it all the time. Somebody be making her smile when she talks about him. Not this joker though. She always says she was in love and decided not to do that anymore. He prob hurt her real bad. 😢
A woman married for over 45 years told her own granddaughter that if she had courage she would have never married that man. She was trying to save her granddaughter from the same existence but young love never listens. His words are cruel and to attach them to God is never funny. 😢
Y'all better check for somemore children on the side from this cat. He's the type that have another family on the side. The grandmother may know or not know- wouldn't surprise me at all . At his funeral dont be surprised if 2 or 3 more kids show up - plus his other grandchildren.
Sad to say. Wives end of having to take care of Husbands with attitudes like this after they've treated them like trash all those years. Revenge is mine sayeth the Lord
WOW! Can you imagine how many men will listen to this man. Like women do have enough problems dealing with these men. Grandma you're the Strength of a woman being married to this man. Grandma You're the Best.
She also said that grandma ain’t care if he stepping out lol something these young women dont understand lol you women say yall want men but yall really Want feminine men lol men who gone listen to your demands and do everything for yall but yall won’t do everything for him lol
Well I’m glad he didn’t break her soul. She stated she never was hopelessly in love with him. She didn’t care what he did. Grandma probably had her a man on the side
@@blkqueen6201men paid for their wives to look classy while they barely gave her any attention , only children to keep her locked down and occupied, they had is other women/ children who he played with outside and his caregiver inside. That's the secret of these long term successes that no one speaks on. Today, young women want to be that "traditional" and lonely wife who calls the gardener or pool boy inside for "lemonade".
@rootstriker1618 That sounds really dumb. Different standards in marriage? 😒 Being a man doesn't give you a pass or permission to cheat. Marriage is a covenant between the husband wife and GOD. He and any man who thinks like him will have to answer to GOD one day. 💯
THIS SHOWS JUST BECAUSE YOU HAD A LONG LIFE MARRIAGE DOESN'T MEAN IT WAS RIGHTEOUS... STRAIGHT TOXIC DISRESPECTFUL TO SAY THT AFTER THT MANY YEARS TOGETHER
@@daphneobas7857 exactly! right! This is a toxic marriage. It’s giving undiagnosed trauma bond. It’s giving he is the breadwinner, so I HAVE to stay. It’s giving I’m too old to move on, so I might as well stay. It’s giving I didn’t care then, and I don’t care now. It’s giving the church taught us to stay in abusive relationships/marriages, so I’m just fulfilling my purpose 😒🙄
They seem to openly not love each other. Not sure if i saw these attitudes growing up. Id like for the daughter to tell how was it growing up @teresamarie7460
That’s why people say “marriage is what you make it.” There is no such thing as an ideal marriage. The two people make up the rules of their own marriage. They had an open marriage it sounds like and it “worked” for them.
59 years. What a blessing. Love 59 years ago and the way it expresses itself is different than 2024 love. 1964 love was commitment and security, not hearts and flowers and trips to Dubai on IG. Real love, not fake huggy kissy foolishness. I respect this couple, they remind me of my grandparents. 💜💜
Some women long ago stayed because the men were the bread winners n they had kids, why leave when all bills r being paid, he wasn’t treating her bad, she got her allowance n probably was the one controlling the finances, in her mind he can cheat have outside kids she didn’t care,I’m saying such because I grown up seeing it was happening to the women from my small Town, most of these people were not in love, they just stayed together.
BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!!! This couple found a formula that worked for both of them. Both are attractive and they understood each other in all aspects of their marriage.❤❤❤
The humiliation of allowing a man back into the home after he's going with other women. Ladies.....DO NOT FOLLOW THIS EXAMPLE!...Know your worth and send them packing. No knowing what diseases and outside children are in the mix 🤢🤮😮
@@everetthompson8300 the point I am making in which you are too slow to comprehend is that you males saying these old marriages were good and successful and that we need to go back to them is a lie.
Their so funny love it! I've been married for 31 years! And still going strong💪🏼 WE have 2 grandsons but on a very hard note we just lost our oldest daughter she was 30 years old to acute myeloid leukemia this past Halloween 2023 she's the mother to our grandsons 💔💔 We are still very heartbroken and will be for along time, God bless you all 🙏🏼🙏🏼🇲🇽
It's a sin to say "i do." Where did he get that one from, lol. Does he know it's a sin to add and to take away from the Bible. He said, "i will do what i want to do". He's too much, and too old. He thinks he's a slick one. He couldn't be married to me.
Of course none of what he saying is in SCRIPTURE. ONE THING IS THOUGH. GOD HATES DIVORCE. SO THE ONE'S THAT STAY TOGETHER ARE BLESSED UNLIKE THE ONES THAT LAY UP WITH MULTIPLE MEN. 59 YEARS. PLEASE
@@spirit13the1st6 They both were with different people and both admit it and both enjoyed the other people in their lives. Their relationship worked for each other. It might not be ideal but it was realistic and practical for both of them. It was a marriage of convenience.
@@spirit13the1st6 I very much believe in God but I do not think the dogma of religion is literal. Yes. Fidelity in any relationship is ideal but sometimes people choose differently as this couple did.. In the eyes of God there's no medal of honor for suffering in a dysfunctional relationship just for the sake of suffering as far as I can tell. He's more for growth and understanding . I don't argue with God. I talk with God. I believe Hes more concerned with balance, moderation and harmony for humans in life. As far as I can see Hes not prone to argument. :) 😊 That's why He gave us Free Will. He enjoys watching us figure it out and find our way back to Him. He rejoices in the return of the prodigal son. He's not much for us burning in Hell and gloating in the wake of our own destruction. That's our made up story. He's a pretty decent God. And He's not a " He" either He is a Universal Consciousness. But I use the term " He" as a convenience of language. I usually refer to God as "Source". Luckily God doesn't give a flying flounder about pronouns since there's no such thing as duality in the God realm. 🤠🤣😊 I do enjoy reading Scripture. The Holy Spirit pops up everywhere.
This is proof that after a certain age, u really don't give af anymore 😅
Yup. And I can’t wait. Lord willing babbyyyy my son better lace up his boots cause I’m gonna have 0 f’s to give 😂😂😂
I really don't at my age... believe me, I once did, but now in my 60s fm🤔🤷🏾♀️.
@onietaylor8997 almost 43 and I'm already there. Wish I could relive my 20s with this attitude by not worrying so much.
@@mynameiswoman So true....
@@RS4LLLMMI'm starting that now at 40 because I need practice lol...
The daughter is a instigator 😂😂
She said, "Mom has been posting videos", but it's her.
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@@user-wz2uy1tv5h Am I the only one that doesn't like this?? Throwing Parents under the bus for clicks and views 💔
Literally, what I just asked out loud. "Why is she being an instigator?"😂😂😂😂
This is why our elders told us to raise our standards. 🤣🤣 Longevity does not equal happiness.
Nah, they are setting you up.
Hapiness is from within. Dealing with human is always rife with challenges and your standards is but a drop in an ocean.
My parents married in 1964 and have been miserable the entire time. They are still alive and living together. What a waste of two lives......
EXACTLY
When someone tells you who they are, believe them.- Maya Angelou
And she wasn't married!
@marqueslabbe1105 And Ms. Maya Angelou made a long lasting mark that many married ones have not been able attain. Her name is printed with gold on this earth.
@@vcj8096 unwed!
@@vcj8096 exactly. Lot of greats were verrry single
Does this count for all the times a person did great things for you or for just the one time they made a mistake? Serious question.
He dead ass serious too and that’s why GMA don’t gaf cuz she been dealing with this bs for over 50 years
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I bet they were fun fussing for the last 59 years.
In order to not care about the bs let it go God will deal with that in the end
Lol
He talkin stuff, but he ain't left her either. 😂 ❤
😂😂 Right gramps ain’t stepped nothing but his mouth 😫
Why would he leave and he get to do what he wants.. he has his cake and eating it too
I said the same thing, he still there!😅
They dont leave,they do their bullshit,then come right back home to the wife. But, get mad as hell if the wife even thinks of doing the same.
Some women dont like to disrespect themselves jumping from man to man.
Mom found a husband and kept him.
He was a mess, that why she don't care now!
Still is a mess
He right! You’re not supposed to enter a covenant with a person. They are human, only with God! The words spoken during a wedding ceremony are not in agreement with God. The words are man made! Read your wedding license! You give the government permission to make decisions in your marriage. That is not what God intended. Both are traps of the devil. To always have a hand in your marriage.
@@TLJ88huh?! 😆
@@Cateyes767 You have to Read the original Bible the Ethiopian Bible, which has 83 books not the rearranged European Bible, were the Europeans took out books. Go ahead and Google the missing books of the Bible . People love to make fun of others when you are to lazy to read. King James has the Bible reassembled that is why Only have 66 books. Google it.! The Catholic Bible has 75 books. Then go back and watch the video where he said to repeat wedding vows is a sin then if you’re old enough and smart enough to have a waiting certificate read it you’ll be surprised what you find!
@@Cateyes767 The fact that you are willing to look ignorant on social media you could’ve googled this. Check yourself.😂
That marriage worked for so long because while he was doing what he wanted to do, she did what she wanted to do!
Nah wrong. She was faithful.
That’s a abomination
K33PINIT 💯 YAAASSS ❗
@@fracturedsolace145meaning she did what she wanted to do lol unless you’re saying she didn’t want to be faithful?
Johnnie Taylor wrote a good song about it called who’s making love
Proof of reasons to not idolize relationships or years spent. Never know what another person puts up with in the name of love & marriage.
Soooo true!!!!!!
Shut up! Smh
😂 exactly.
Right! Because he does not seem awesome at all. 🤔
That part ! Listening to him seems like she was disrespected a lot
I see why Grandma says the things she says. She speaks her truth. Grandpa isn't funny... He is serious.
I’m very familiar with old school blk men.. my grandfather cut my grandmother stomach with a knife when she came home from some place with his own sister that he didn’t approve of🔪. They were some cruel things.. many still are. Number 1 femicide of blk women and more than twice the rate of every race. You know he would’ve gone up side that head if she protested.. and I’m sure they have siblings they know nothing about lol. Sick! This shit should NOT be glorified or normalized.. that “struggle love” color purple type garbage!
He's speaks his mind 😅 love marriages that last til death do you part GB 💞
She let him know what was up. She is a beautiful woman even now as a senior. Wasn't any flies on Grandma!
Huh??? @@arianhopkins5979
He is funny as well.
He is not going to come across as Gma, as they are 2 different people, genders and personalities.
Let's not place sinking ships in a marriage and understanding that has proven NOT to sink in 59 years.
No argument and not my truth, the truth, as is proven.
Wow!!! When you listen to Grandpa, you see why grandma feels the way she feels!! I am in total agreement with grandma!! Sounds like you met your match when you met Grandma!!! ❤
😂 exactly
Thanks were different back then. People didn’t marry for Love but security. Nothing wrong with it!
Nah... But y'all love pretending like y'all our equal or better... It gets old and lame....
@@dattamusic3498 If y'all would stand up and be real men we wouldn't have ("PRETEND") to be equal or better then y'all! Y'all open the door to make us feel like that by not doing what y'all should do! That's what's old and lame!!
Y'all always blame your bad traits on us and act like we can't open the door up for anything gud... Y'all just be looking for any excuse to be mean to men so you won't be accountable for your bitterness...
If she get to steppin he will cry like a baby😅😅
I wish someone had a video of their marriage with him saying I do.. LOL because I don't believe he said I will😂😂😂😂
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He's telling the truth, cause my brother said I will at his wedding 😅
I did too😊😊😊
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This old ass man should be quiet, he’s probably lying.
Now it all makes sense...😂. She echoes what he imparted into her for years 😂
Grandpa sounds like he’s been stepping out for years 😮
Exactly
Wow 😮 rings true there is always two sides to the story
Trained her well😉
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And that’s why mom feels the way she does & she makes no secret about it😌
He’s adorable. So is she. Props for 59 years of marriage….NO MATTER WHAT♥️♥️
I love his fact, saying I will, saying I do is a sin. Kind of make sense. But the funny part is if she don't like it she can get to stepping. He's in his right mind.
Now I see why his wife is so unbothered.🤭
Now I am supporting grandma 100%.
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It went right over your head 😂.
No way he says he didn't say "I do"..he says "I will (do what I want to)Gram is the perfect wife to him,she's to smart to get to skipping😮🤣🤣🤣@@grovedwayne390
@grovedwayne390 It must have gone over mine, too. Please elaborate.
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Amazing....that is why she says the things she does.
Exactly and to say it a sin never heard of it
@@shantelsmith8763well, duh.
@@Janail123 hey dummy, your comment should be directed at the original commenter. They the person blaming him for what she says. 🙄
Two peas in a pod! It worked for them.
None of you will probably exceed or establish these folks union; so git the stepping!
I was today years old when I learned that "I do" was a sin 😆😆😆
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That old Man is just Being Cool .. He can do anything but Run his mouth and do dinners.
@@reginaldwhitaker6504, lol 😂 😂😂😂😂
I believe he said he will continue to do whatever he wants to do. That is why grandma said I am not worried about what any man does. You can not control anyone. The marriage lasted because she stayed out of his way
🤐🤐🤐 this is sad.
Because he had the power back in the day. Grandma best bet was to get married and then you can do whatever want like he said. No woman was dumb enough back in the day not to get married. Most women had to get married, if Grandma grew up in our era she probably would have never even got married.
I wouldnt be surprised if many black marriages was like that.
She did her part he did his. They probably respected each other like my grand parents did. My granny was just like this beautiful woman. She was very, very classy. Took very good care of the house and family and made sure she was being taken care of. She was quiet but very stern when she did speak. She did what she was expected to do as a wife and woman. Gramps did what he was supposed to. Came and went as he pleased made sure she was taken care of and provided for.
@@sherrylynn3304 Color likely isn't a variable. Marriages.
After seeing this im more team grandma more than ever!!! This man ain't playing 😏 im glad grandma didn't let him break her spirit 😊
How can he break her spirit? She said she wasn’t gonna follow him. He said I said I will do what I wanna do!
She matched his energy, that's how they made it work so long😉
They are TWO STRONG Personalities!!...❤❤ .. Some people REFUSE to Sacrifice SELF to truly be loved by someone... Old Saying>> DO I HV TO GV UP ME!...TO BE LOVED BY YOU?...
I prefer seeing,hearing gma across my screen
@@dbxlkevsmith787I get what th comments meant sorry u dont
He lying. He said I do. Please. I don’t believe that one second. You broke her heart a long time ago and she tolerated him all these years. She loves him but she trusts him as far as she can throw him. Grandma is confident in who she is. A survivor.
Amen...he made her a very strong woman
BS . That woman has had as many lovers as him. Listen to the things that she says? She doesn't even pretend like she was faithful to him
Don't kill grandpa. Grandma is a player, and she's nobody's fool. She's one tough cookie😂😂
She's never been in love with him
No! Marriages were different than people married for security not necessary for love, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t care for each other deeply. My aunt told me women didn’t care what they look like as long as they had a paycheck! That doesn’t mean they didn’t care for each other.
No wonder she doesn't care much about him either. It doesn't have to be this way. But I love their honesty, so the younger generation can learn HOW NOT TO do marriage this way.
Bless grandma's heart. She had to deal with this straightforwardness for years😮
Facts first sensible response I read this far
He is disrespectful
Interestingly enough, back in those days, there was community amongst understanding. Everyone knew their place.
Oh no I couldn’t imagine having straight forward honest people in my life. I’m scared just thinking about it imagine someone that actually said what they meant and meant what they said I can’t believe people like that exist. Monsters
@@RiverRat6996they're called women
Girl....we thought Mama was something. Daddy is something else😂😂❤.
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Now, you see why. Looks like she went through hell, but if the women do that they call her a hoe, so what do they call him. Ladies, looks like grandma went through hell. Bless her heart. A lot a women stayed because of financial stability. Sad...
Shameful ain’t nothing funny about this
@@debbieb9324 This is sad, it seems like mom checked out of this union a long time ago and dad is ice cold. It's clear this arrangement has suited them well and they've learned to coexist during this lifetime,
What? Now I understand why she feels the way she does about him. #teammom
Grandpa sounds like he’s been stepping out for years 😮
😮" get Wisdom, and In all thy getting, get understanding"😢😮
This man looks l good in his shirt and tie. He looks like he follows the mantra, ‘dress for success’ even if he never leaves the house! ❤❤
I'd like to see more of Dad! It's beautiful that they are both in their right mind and absolutely hilarious 😂 😃
Both are attractive looking and expressive. Mom seems like a very wise and intelligent lady... great that the daughter seems well rounded.❤
Poor grandma. She was in survival mode.
Pimping ain't easy. 😂😂😂' I will'
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Do what I wanna do
GRANDPA SAY THAT, BUT WENT GRAND MA SPEAK, HE GO SIT DOWN. LOL
BETTA!
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Bc old black women were bread winners back then?
He looked so sweet before answering that question. Lol
Your not supposed to judge a book by it's cover.
Ikr...🎯
He's probably a deacon in the church messing around with all the women... DISRESPECTING the vows of marriage, like he did her a favor by marrying her!!! 😞
😂😂😂 He innocent
🤣 didn’t he though, looks can be deceiving for sure.
Don’t let him fool you! He knows what side his bread is buttered on!!!
These people are so funny. With the comments.
Adultery is a sin!
Then you're being fooled. When people tell you who they are, believe them. What side his bread is buttered on? Like he needs her...I mean really. Thats delusional
Talk to her @@joechampion5350
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Makes more sense now why she was so adamant about saying she'd save her daughter's life and not his if she had to make a choice! 🙅🏾♀️
Most parents will save their kids lives. That is not unusual.
il like th way I think 😂😂
You’re right!!! This is so sad. Not a good example for marriage.
@@charlitafoulks9373As a former counselor, this is exactly how many marriages are and were. Society doesn’t care about the quality of the marriage, but rather how long.
@@Itsallaboutlove52I noticed that people seem to care about quantity and not the quality. Give me quality all day.
Something tells me he's the reason she says what she does. I have a feeling he's not a very good man
Typical black “luv”. We’ve all seen it growing up… you’re supposed to keep your mouth shut while he has little ninnies running all around town💀
I picked up on that also.
@@The13thGoddessAries that's NOT only in black love, it's worse in some of the other cultures. Especially, the ones who are STILL riding in horse driven buggies.
@@The13thGoddessAries nah I ain’t never seen that in my household or family and I’m black. Speak for yourself
I don't think either one of them were faithful. She probably had more men than he had women
“She’s the one who said, I Do” “I never said I Do!” 😂😂😂
First of all she was not posting anything on social media. You did. Until now it was their private matter and it should have been respected rather than making it public for somebody else’s benefit. They deserve more respect.
Absolutely!! Anything to make a dollar 💵 🤦🏾♀️. Parents are to be cherished, not using them as money-making skeptical 😢. Just sad, plus they have no idea she's doing this at their age because they have no knowledge of the internet vloging, Instagram, RUclips, etc. Sad shame🤦🏾♀️😒
Calm down, it’s not that deep
@neava9621 thank you
💯 I was thinking the same thing
I totally 💯 agree with you. Something are better left private . This right here , shows the HELL she had to endure with this man. If he is acting like this at 95 , can you imagine what he was like in his twenties??? SMH … No wonder Grandma don’t give a damn what she say about him , apparently he doesn’t either….
The sin is getting married and doing what you want to do! Saying I will means nothing 😂😂
💯💯💯💯
😂😂😂
A man not being this way is a sin.
Exactly! God is not mocked.
This is why most of you will never get it. His I'm gonna do what I wanna do might be to make sure my family is straight by any means. No one can tell or judge me
He sounds like an OLD SCHOOL, Narcissist!!!
Righttt 🤞🏽 😳 Not cool Pops....
That's why she feels the way she does.
That's how a man is supposed to be.
He sounds like an ass!
He sounds like a dictator. He should have been left at the alter or when she discovered who he was…..
Pops is dapper and Mom is still beautiful.😊
Well there you go, grandma is 100% justified in her antics. 😂
Well, I am with Grandma. She knew the assignment and enjoyed her life. Very few women of her time had the courage to do what she did. He had a nerve, but she said, "That's all good, 😂and she took his advice and kept on stepping!!!❤
It's kind of sad but what else could she do with a guy like that?
@@SunnySideup-ks7ot I've been in it 44yrs and have learned that what he says compared to what he really does are as far as the east is from the west. Don't believe the hard exterior, a lot of times it's just posturing. That's just my experience 🤷🏾♀️
@@queeniesmith1249 Now that's interesting! Thanks! That would have never occurred to me.
Stubborn azz black man. Makes me want to cry. I hope someone would love me enough to not be so brutal .
She didn't leave though🤔 they're still married so she accepted who he was and didn't run behind him, she did her own thing lol
Sad Sounds loveless. Not funny.
Yes very sad I don’t see much old folks talk like this. My grandparents didn’t show us much affection towards each other but we knew there was love and respect. When my grandma passed my grandad was so sad. He lost his best friend of 49yrs of marriage. He adored my grandma
But yet they have a better track record and produced better fruit, than the generation you are In imagine that.
@@_SugarBear_ Quality beats Quantity any time and every time!
People stayed for 50 plus years unhappy because that’s what they were taught and they had lots of kids…. where we’re they going to go. No affection most likely meant no love. But family will tell a different fictional story.
@@_SugarBear_ Someone had to do the suffering 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG, I love it!
“She the one that said, ‘I do.’ I said, ‘I will…do what I wanna do.” 🤣🤣🤣 Love them. 🥰🥰
Okay now I see why Grandma talks her ish😅❤😊
She too good for him he something else
How do u know she's too good for him?! Jeez, the things people think they have to say!
And the dude is cocky.😢
Those two are Something to behold. You gotta love,em😅
Well, I love her
Right😅😅
@@Diamondeyesshinebright my reply too!
Nope. Hes a jerk.
No one is perfect but their honesty n straight forward ness keeps the marriage together
What marriage???
You say that like it's a good thing.
You call that together?
Sounds like a loveless unhappy marriage . Sad, not funny.
Agreed
Very!!!
Notice neither one even cracks a damn smile. I guarantee you they never hugged or kissed in public.
Thats better than loveless unhappy and not married.
You ladies change partners every 59 DAYS you dont love them men you laid up with
@@spirit13the1st6 - Adultery is not the gold standard. Sleeping next to community peen is not a prize.
Grandma is blessed to have such good health. I'm thankful she wasn't in her sick bed with a husband who was out playing around.
After all these years, it's still a struggle? Why share the same space? 🤣🤣🤣 2 ppl that don't give a dam live together 😂😂😂
If you don't give a damn, it's not upsetting. It's the caring that hurts.
Eternal struggle love… all the way til death do them part🥴😩😐
Since this part is the way you act and the way you acted before marriage. On the day you got married and during your entire marriage. You should have kept on stepping about your business instead of having that woman trapped up all these years, not knowing that she could've/would've/should've walked away. Just like you just did and said when you said I WILL!! You should've gotten your ASS up and walked right on AWAY from that video that you just said all that foolishness on.!!
They may not give a care; however, the love is still there
I love them sooo much!! Thanks for sharing your parents with us!! ❤❤❤
Proof that they never change 🤦🏽♀️ Can we see them when they were young please.
That would be nice❤
You've got no clue. Clueless . PASSPORT
@@walterdanner6372With your 4USD bank balance?
😂😂😂😂😂😂 he said I will,,,,, do what I want to do🤦🏾♀️
Twice
He couldn't do anything anymore, anyway 😂
Naw, l don't think Ole Playa can DO anymore 😂❤
How you know? Put him to the test.
well what can you ladies do?
"I WILL do what I wanna do when I get married... if you don't like it, get to damn steppin" 😂😂😂
She dead wrong for this entire thing..where is her husband? All this to get your numbers up? No sir,smh
What we do for #'s . Nothing about that response is right. I do appreciate his honesty.
All uptight..Get your panties out tha bunch.. U can't take a joke
How you snitching 😂😂😂 I see why Granny said what she said he for the streets. 😂😂😂
He been a runner...got real frigid. And he's a nasty man. Can tell by his demeanor...like my Father would once say, Chip off the Old Block!
She was too sadly
This is why big mama and madear taught the next generation of girls to HAVE YOUR OWN!
But that's not how you fixed the problem.The problem is the man that your grandma picked
What saying?Good thinking woman will ever pick.A man who talks like this especially marry him.That doesn't even make sense
Exactly 💯
@@larryforeman grandma was forced to pick a man because US subjugated women and forced them to "deal" with a man because she couldn't put anything in her name .....we all saw what happen to marriages when women actually got "human rights" divorced yall abusive asses
It's sad they had to teach that. More effort should be put into teaching the next generation of girl and boys to treat each other with respect be faithful to one another.
They should have been able to teach the younger women to get off that European feminism and monogamy that's unbiblical and causing so many conflicts
Years of Dedication and still the Sarcastic Response.Ladies Don’t Waste 59 years of Your Life.
Omg they are the same! How was it being their child. Amazing people.
They have the same mannerisms 😊
He is handsome and she it cute
Lol!!! Wow, they are such beautiful individuals. I will, not I do. That's what he said. Lord Jesus, what personalities they have.😅😅😅
#Damn
😂😂😂❤
Grandpa,played & got played..😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Okay Grams ain’t say a word to him either, she said actions speak louder 😅
Words all by itself
🤠 Yes. Grandma might have said " I do" when he said " I will" but she had her fingers crossed.😂😂
Not at all. People didn’t marry for love. But security/ job! Not always of course. My aunt told me women didn’t care what he looked like. Times were hard!
Now I see why Grandma is so cut throat...old skool = long as he bring his check home leave him alone..smh
I wonder if she's ever been in love...i see why she didn't put so much into this man
I'm so glad women make decent wages now and don't have to put up with this mess
She has been in love. She talks about it all the time. Somebody be making her smile when she talks about him. Not this joker though. She always says she was in love and decided not to do that anymore. He prob hurt her real bad. 😢
Yep and look on the internet at what women have become. Especially black women. Sad!
A woman married for over 45 years told her own granddaughter that if she had courage she would have never married that man. She was trying to save her granddaughter from the same existence but young love never listens. His words are cruel and to attach them to God is never funny. 😢
And ya'll have made it a worse mess.
Y'all better check for somemore children on the side from this cat. He's the type that have another family on the side. The grandmother may know or not know- wouldn't surprise me at all . At his funeral dont be surprised if 2 or 3 more kids show up - plus his other grandchildren.
It'll be a sin not to agree with everything negative she said about him. Love you grama❤
The only old folks telling the truth. Pops ain’t ish and he know it
Ummm-hum. He's disrespectful.
That response is harsh
Very harsh.
So is hers
Different time period worked and they knew the deal !
@@delkiah6099 They both had lovers and liked it that way.
That's just ego; obviously they still together
People get on my nerves! Let the elders live in peace in their Golden Years. Some people love gossip and drama.
#Respectfully 🤞🏽
Peace, Love, and Blessings!❤❤❤
Treat my Granny wrong he would be in a nursing home drinking that coffee .tuh
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sad to say. Wives end of having to take care of Husbands with attitudes like this after they've treated them like trash all those years. Revenge is mine sayeth the Lord
Gramma will bat last....
Why revenge when she should have left him but why revenge
@@EddieRobinson-io7muThese women always talk two sides out of their mouths!!
Then what was the point of getting married❓This old dude is cold and callous towards his wife. He doesn't seem to have a caring bone for her. Sad.
What do you mean what's the point getting married, he raised a family good for him.
We need more men like this, what a role model. He raised a family and did not leave. More men should be like him.
@rolandmiller9032 Most men, even cheaters, do not leave. It's the wife who files for divorce. In their eyes, leaving would be a downgrade.
What you mean, “Ma’s been posting stuff on social media?” She speaks and YOU’RE posting.
NOTHING WORSE THAN A OLD FOOL ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Reminds me of person I was told was my dad
WOW! Can you imagine how many men will listen to this man. Like women do have enough problems dealing with these men. Grandma you're the Strength of a woman being married to this man. Grandma You're the Best.
She also said that grandma ain’t care if he stepping out lol something these young women dont understand lol you women say yall want men but yall really
Want feminine men lol men who gone listen to your demands and do everything for yall but yall won’t do everything for him lol
😅
You know men could care less what a woman thinks.
Well I’m glad he didn’t break her soul. She stated she never was hopelessly in love with him. She didn’t care what he did. Grandma probably had her a man on the side
Oh fasho she did
Which she constantly implies.
I don't think so, most of those women were very, very classy. They cared themselves at a high standards. They were classy not thrashy.
@@blkqueen6201men paid for their wives to look classy while they barely gave her any attention , only children to keep her locked down and occupied, they had is other women/ children who he played with outside and his caregiver inside. That's the secret of these long term successes that no one speaks on.
Today, young women want to be that "traditional" and lonely wife who calls the gardener or pool boy inside for "lemonade".
@blkqueen6201 Classy? Hell no! She played as hard as he did...and didn't give a damn😅
He said, "I didn't say I do. She did." He is saying she was married to him. He wasn't married to her. Sad 😮
No, he’s saying men and women are different so different standards apply. She’s with him. He’s with her and anyone else he wants
@rootstriker1618
That sounds really dumb. Different standards in marriage? 😒 Being a man doesn't give you a pass or permission to cheat. Marriage is a covenant between the husband wife and GOD. He and any man who thinks like him will have to answer to GOD one day. 💯
@@rootstriker1618That's NOT God's covenant covered marriage... makes zero sense... 👀💯
@@MrsOctober-kc5delol I was confused like huh???
THIS SHOWS JUST BECAUSE YOU HAD A LONG LIFE MARRIAGE DOESN'T MEAN IT WAS RIGHTEOUS... STRAIGHT TOXIC DISRESPECTFUL TO SAY THT AFTER THT MANY YEARS TOGETHER
I’m glad neither of them is pretending it’s been 59 happy years
Happy. It wasn’t an unhappy situation because he was marriage in name, not in deed.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I Love them Both
Because guess what
AINT NOBODY WENT NO WHERE
Doesn't mean it was a good thing
Love is real
@@daphneobas7857 exactly! right! This is a toxic marriage.
It’s giving undiagnosed trauma bond.
It’s giving he is the breadwinner, so I HAVE to stay.
It’s giving I’m too old to move on, so I might as well stay.
It’s giving I didn’t care then, and I don’t care now.
It’s giving the church taught us to stay in abusive relationships/marriages, so I’m just fulfilling my purpose 😒🙄
Right 😂
Exactly
He brainwashed her to keep that position...she probably relied on him and accepted that nonsense 😢
He’s right cut it out u modern woman you😅no wonder u still single!
Bruh you have seen the other videos. Grandma had boyfriends lol
Brainwashed? Seems like she just accepted the arrangement.
@@EmotionsRTemporary this chicks a professional victim bro
@@EmotionsRTemporary whichever...whether she was brainwashed or not she still accepted the shenanigans at some point...
Doesn't look like a good marriage tbh
It looks like the typical marriage in the black community. They are just being honest. 😂
They seem to openly not love each other. Not sure if i saw these attitudes growing up. Id like for the daughter to tell how was it growing up @teresamarie7460
This is proof. Stop glamorizing the elders dysfunction marriages. They stayed but were not happy. Mamma was a realist. She got her bills paid period.
Most marriages back them were for economic, convenience, societal reasons. My mom was in one.
That’s why people say “marriage is what you make it.” There is no such thing as an ideal marriage. The two people make up the rules of their own marriage. They had an open marriage it sounds like and it “worked” for them.
He knew she wasn't going anywhere, so he did what he did. Poor grandma, glad she didn't get some dreaded disease.
The way he talks says a lot - he can't love anyone but the street.
😂😂and th streets love no one
That's Bullsh#t ..... None if that nonsense is coming from a real, straight Man.
Omg!!!! He is so cute. I love them both. They are so adorable ❤❤❤❤
Not cute at all.
Skool was a playa in his younger days 😂😂😂
"If you don't like it get the damn stepping"
Whaaaa??? You sound REMIDIAL...🤷♀️
59 years. What a blessing. Love 59 years ago and the way it expresses itself is different than 2024 love. 1964 love was commitment and security, not hearts and flowers and trips to Dubai on IG. Real love, not fake huggy kissy foolishness. I respect this couple, they remind me of my grandparents. 💜💜
Right marriage back then was a commitment... Happiness was fleeting
Commitment was the respect
Pop looking good. Clean, well groomed, and handsome. Bring them together on one video.
I agree. Would love to see the two of them engaging with one another remembering the old days!
They definitely need a show!!! Pops a Gangsta!!! Lol
No they don’t!!
Hell no. We already see enough crap. The black community desperately needs examples of good marriages. This is really bad & painful to watch.
I had a feeling about the marriage from Momma.now it's confirmed by Pop Pop😢 WHY did they stay together!
Some women long ago stayed because the men were the bread winners n they had kids, why leave when all bills r being paid, he wasn’t treating her bad, she got her allowance n probably was the one controlling the finances, in her mind he can cheat have outside kids she didn’t care,I’m saying such because I grown up seeing it was happening to the women from my small Town, most of these people were not in love, they just stayed together.
Most Women of that age usually stay regardless of the state of their marriage
Woman hung in there for so many reasons back in the day. Many men know that they weren't right.
Oh I see PoPs is jazzy too. I understand why Mother is so Spicy! I love em both! 😂😂😂😂😂
The way I almost jumped when he said she was the one who said I do! I didn't! 😂
The daughter is Gaslighting, the response was perfect from well experienced and wise man !!!!!! 😂 😂 😂!!!!!
How is that gaslighting?
Exactly 😂. He knew what time it was!
BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!!!
This couple found a formula that worked for both of them.
Both are attractive and they understood each other in all aspects of their marriage.❤❤❤
Formula😂....yall say anything😂.
Now they do once you old like that it is what it is
They were both living parallel lives. Grandma learnt to love herself and mind her own business
The humiliation of allowing a man back into the home after he's going with other women. Ladies.....DO NOT FOLLOW THIS EXAMPLE!...Know your worth and send them packing. No knowing what diseases and outside children are in the mix 🤢🤮😮
These are the marriages that the modern male wants us to go back to…NOPE!
Two sides to a story listen carefully to what he said she did what she wanted to do too typical woman Collective listening😂
@@everetthompson8300 the point I am making in which you are too slow to comprehend is that you males saying these old marriages were good and successful and that we need to go back to them is a lie.
Fact!!!
Honestly I don't think it's funny. Why get married?
Please. Don't you can do Bad all by yourself. He blocked her life.
Their so funny love it! I've been married for 31 years! And still going strong💪🏼 WE have 2 grandsons but on a very hard note we just lost our oldest daughter she was 30 years old to acute myeloid leukemia this past Halloween 2023 she's the mother to our grandsons 💔💔 We are still very heartbroken and will be for along time, God bless you all 🙏🏼🙏🏼🇲🇽
🙏🏽
@@saygunn79 thank u 🙏🏼🙏🏼
This generation right there is the reason for the INDEPENDENT CAREER WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!
I wouldn't have married him
I'm gonna need a picture of him as a young cat daddy and her as a fox in the day....
Yes I need to see the throw back pictures too ❤
Clearly he was something else... back then & now! 😅
It's a sin to say "i do." Where did he get that one from, lol. Does he know it's a sin to add and to take away from the Bible. He said, "i will do what i want to do". He's too much, and too old. He thinks he's a slick one. He couldn't be married to me.
Of course none of what he saying is in SCRIPTURE.
ONE THING IS THOUGH.
GOD HATES DIVORCE.
SO THE ONE'S THAT STAY TOGETHER ARE BLESSED UNLIKE THE ONES THAT LAY UP WITH MULTIPLE MEN.
59 YEARS. PLEASE
@@spirit13the1st6 They both were with different people and both admit it and both enjoyed the other people in their lives. Their relationship worked for each other. It might not be ideal but it was realistic and practical for both of them. It was a marriage of convenience.
@@spirit13the1st6but it's okay for him to lay up with women for multiple years while MARRIED?!! You ppl are hypocrites and very lost
@@technana3.141 All i can say is
STUDY YOUR SCRIPTURE
ARGUE WITH GOD
@@spirit13the1st6 I very much believe in God but I do not think the dogma of religion is literal. Yes. Fidelity in any relationship is ideal but sometimes people choose differently as this couple did.. In the eyes of God there's no medal of honor for suffering in a dysfunctional relationship just for the sake of suffering as far as I can tell. He's more for growth and understanding . I don't argue with God. I talk with God. I believe Hes more concerned with balance, moderation and harmony for humans in life. As far as I can see Hes not prone to argument. :) 😊 That's why He gave us Free Will. He enjoys watching us figure it out and find our way back to Him. He rejoices in the return of the prodigal son. He's not much for us burning in Hell and gloating in the wake of our own destruction. That's our made up story. He's a pretty decent God. And He's not a " He" either He is a Universal Consciousness. But I use the term " He" as a convenience of language. I usually refer to God as "Source". Luckily God doesn't give a flying flounder about pronouns since there's no such thing as duality in the God realm. 🤠🤣😊 I do enjoy reading Scripture. The Holy Spirit pops up everywhere.
You WILL go into that living room and watch some TV… signed GrandMa. 😂🔥💛