10. TWO HOT TAKES on Dating: Red Flags & Never Put Up with These 5 Things
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- Опубликовано: 2 янв 2024
- Is This Relationship GOOD, not GREAT? Morgan from Two Hot Takes is BACKKK for the first episode of 2024!!!!
We cracked into the ol' past dating life memories to help you NOT make the same mistakes we did. What 5 red flags did we miss that we now see super clearly? How did we know our boys were different? What 3 things should you ask yourself if you think he a GOOD guy, but it just doesn't feel right? How do you know if you let them go for the right reasons?
We've got you - I promise we speak from our hearts, we give CALL SYD advice, we read a Reddit write-in, & we laugh our butts off. Might be time to call your fling quits & spend some time with YOU!
So much to come in 2024 - this is only the beginning!!!
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You KNOW when a guy is interested in you. You don´t wonder, you aren´t insecure about what they want from you, they make their intentions really clear when they like you
the way that cat is just draped over morgan 😂 i can’t !!!
I literally told my partner today "I have no idea why I am mad I'm just mad at you" and he was laughing like "okay babe whatever. When you find a reason to be mad just let me know" and we just laughed about it cause I haven't been able to sleep and we are moving in less than a month so I'm just overly stressed and I know I'm not really mad at him but I feel safe enough to have somewhere that anxious and upset energy can go without being scared of the repercussions. 😅 It's really nice feeling so secure and loved. ❤
THANK YOU MORGANNN 👏 I was literally just saying something like that, that you can’t open up to everyone because it shows a standard of what you’re willing to handle. I realized that’s the correlation between people who have the same problems happen again and again
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In regards to talking about past relationships with a potential partner, I did the whole “he was great, treated me amazingly” thing and I still got treated like shit by the next one 💀 I don’t think it really matters. They’re gonna treat you how they wanna treat you.
Great podcast! I just subscribed. :)
If there's anything I've learned about closure it's that anyone who tells you that you need to sit down with the ex-partner(s) and talk to them to get it, they're wrong. Closure comes from within! It's acceptance that the relationship is over & moving on, self-healing from the pain, relying on your community, and then growing from it on your own. Closure cannot be found by moving backward and going back to the people who caused it, even if you may never have all the answers. Even if you were to talk to them you'd never get all the answers anyway, you'd just cause yourself more pain.
The opening segment came right when I needed it. Recently ended a situationship even though we had an amazing time on every date, he would leave me on delivered for DAYS despite being active on messenger daily. He tried to say that we just have “different communication styles” which I just know is BS at this point. It’s so frustrating because I gave him multiple outs and said it was okay if he wasn’t interested but he insisted he was. We had only been seeing each other for under two months and I already found myself going through this emotional cycle with him so I finally cut it off. It’s not easy but at least I can use the situation as fuel for the gym 🙃
The only thing I’ll add with the “if he wanted to, he would”, be clear to him about what you want and expect from him rather than hoping he’ll read your mind. Sounds obvious, but I’ve been guilty of it in the past. Now, if he knows your expectations and needs and is still low effort, you shouldn’t have to nag, perhaps have a calm talk about it first, but be ready to leave.
Anyone who disagrees with the "If he wanted to he would" thing are people who want a 5 star relationship with 2 star effort.
Try dealing with a dude who disappeared for 2 weeks no contact and blocked on social........and then comes back asking if you cheated 😭
Your cat is the absolute sweetest, I can NOT GET OVER HIS LITTLE FACE AT
I'm a 100% believer of "if he wanted to he would". I never realized how shitty I was treated and what I put up with from my ex (who I thought I was going to marry of course) until I met my current fiancé. I've NEVER had to question if I'm loved or felt bad about being myself around him. My ex on the other hand, I was constantly walking on eggshells because I never knew what mood he would be in and how I would get yelled at for the dumbest things. He would always make me feel stupid and insecure, and I just put up with it because I "loved" him. And I CAN confirm that the asshole exes DO come crawling back. Don't fall for it. Like you girls were talking about, when I met my fiancé I was super confused like, "is this how I'm supposed to be treated!?". I NEVER not once felt unloved or unwanted by my fiancé. I can 100% be myself around him and he makes me so damn happy. Again ladies, IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD. Actions speak louder than words. Don't settle or make excuses for dumb dudes, you deserve better. psssst...get yourself a nerd. The nerds are the best lol
A huge example of what not to do is Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, she was so stuck in the fog of a toxic relationship with a guy that didnt care about her to the point she even convinced herself it was a fairytale😵💫😵💫😵💫
I wish I would have found your channels when I was younger. Maybe I wouldn't have gone through so many hard times and found my self respect sooner. Thank you for sharing how people should be treated.
The animals love Morgan! Kitty kept looking at her like "I love you, pet me!"
I’m in the middle of a divorce after 10 years and I’ve been really feeling guilty about it (mainly because of my kids) and only remembering the happy times… after listening to this though it was so affirming. That relationship had a small bit of almost every red flag or horseman that y’all spoke of.. it’s so hard to change your mindset but this did help hearing it in different ways than I have or to see it through other peoples eyes.. Thank you guys for this pod episode!
this just made single me very happy…24 feeling like i’m missing out but honestly i’m taking this time AND new year to focus on me and what I deserve..🥳 thank you both, ladies!!!!❤️
If he wanted to he would: