12. Alejandra: Happily Single & Self Improving

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2024
  • SINGLE GIRL ERA - but make it self improving. Two Hot Takes Alejandra is HERE! Let me just tell you.... This episode is already one of my favorites and I cannot wait for you to listen. In a world where it feels like everyone is dating & having babies - I wanted my single ladies to feel that they are seen & heard & DOING COMPLETELY FINE.
    How can I be happy when everyone around me is in a relationship? How can I be OK being single? I am so afraid of rejection - how do I get over it? We DEEP DIVE INTO IT ALL. Alejandra talks about dating mistakes she WON’T make again & how we can get blinded by the one good option in front of us.
    We discuss what causal dating is and what it REALLY means in our definition. Should I stop 'looking' so the right person will come? How do I improve myself, so I can attract the right person??? We've got an amazing episode in store for you & I cannot wait for you to get to know Alejandra. She is AMAZING.
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Комментарии • 41

  • @TwoHotTakes
    @TwoHotTakes 4 месяца назад +30

    Ayyyy that’s our girl!!! Love this duo

  • @ZMich8
    @ZMich8 4 месяца назад +85

    It’s Alejandra!!!!!!! I love and miss her on THT!!!!❤❤❤

    • @tiny.giant1
      @tiny.giant1 4 месяца назад +3

      Same 😭

    • @emiliekrahn4606
      @emiliekrahn4606 4 месяца назад +1

      wait is she not doing tht anymore??

    • @ZMich8
      @ZMich8 4 месяца назад

      @@emiliekrahn4606 I think she’s taking a break for a while because she’s moving I believe

  • @user-bh8tw1ed9l
    @user-bh8tw1ed9l 4 месяца назад +35

    Yaaaaaas we love Alejandra ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @emilysturgis364
    @emilysturgis364 4 месяца назад +19

    Honestly, I've been in relationships and been single, there's no one that is more attractive than someone who is single, and happy, and living their best life and being selective and confident. I swear, whenever my focus has eclipsed me completely, all of a sudden, guys come out of nowhere and want numbers and dates and to get to know who you are. I will say, I was having so much fun on my own that the bar was high as it should be.

    • @KatrinaJoy225
      @KatrinaJoy225 4 месяца назад +1

      LOVE this 🙌

    • @twocathome399
      @twocathome399 3 месяца назад

      i love this!! i really needed to hear all of it cause i’m barely starting to love my single life after 7 months 😭 i’m entering my single girl era and i don’t want a relationship but im not opposed to meeting new people!

  • @KatrinaJoy225
    @KatrinaJoy225 4 месяца назад +17

    Alejandra!!!💜💜💜 LOVE HER

  • @ALajProductionFilm
    @ALajProductionFilm 4 месяца назад +2

    With the being too eager - I had my absolute best time on apps when going with the approach that I just wanted to meet new people. I let guys know this when they asked what I was looking for etc and then we met with more relaxed intentions.

  • @brendamartinez5724
    @brendamartinez5724 4 месяца назад +5

    Love her ❤ Alejandra l believe you have such a potential for social media we would support you if you ever decided on your own podcast, also love your posts from your workouts/ fashion/ aesthetic 💕💕

  • @spaceinveda7408
    @spaceinveda7408 4 месяца назад +7

    I loved how motivational this episode was. All of this is so true and so important.

  • @amandareed4689
    @amandareed4689 4 месяца назад +2

    Perfect timing…just got out of an abusive relationship and entering my healing girl era 💕 miss you ale, wish you’d join the THT live in San Fran 😉

  • @twocathome399
    @twocathome399 3 месяца назад

    i’m late to this episode but i really needed to hear it.. my 4 year relationship ended 7 months ago and i’m barely starting to feel good about being single and being on my own

  • @karlagonzalvez4703
    @karlagonzalvez4703 4 месяца назад +1

    I currently have a lil crush kind of, this guy at my job. I work at an Amazon warehouse. This guy walks confidently, looks serious af but when he talks to ppl i see him laugh and smile. He seems like such a nice n friendly person. Has these broad shoulders. I spoke to him few times. Like 2 times maybe 3. We both loon at each other quite a bit. Im too scared to say anything. Have for monthsss. But finally on Jan 1st i said i thought he was cute. He smiled and said thank you. Him not saying anything back at all after gave me the indication of him possibly being in a relationship. I learned a lesson tho. Had i said something far earlier when i wanted to it might be different. Im such a chicken shit lol 😅

  • @gabbydenommee
    @gabbydenommee 4 месяца назад +1

    “I’m in it and I don’t know how to get out” is where I’m at 🥺

  • @Life_with_Maxxie
    @Life_with_Maxxie 4 месяца назад +7

    Love love love Alejandra!!! She’s so funny and has amazing points in THT! 🥰❤️

  • @brittanylynch6231
    @brittanylynch6231 4 месяца назад +6

    Omg yessss love Alejandra!! ❤️

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica 4 месяца назад

    This whole vid is facts! I’m just now learning to give myself princess treatment, by doing things that are good for me and reaffirm my self worth. I know how I deserve to be treated now; and anyone who makes me feel like I deserve less than a peaceful life, aint the man for me ✌🏻

  • @stephaniepatterson3959
    @stephaniepatterson3959 4 месяца назад +1

    Alejandra is the best!! Miss her on THT.

  • @squidley4
    @squidley4 4 месяца назад +1

    It takes 3 weeks to build a habit!!! Make yourself move your body for 3 weeks and it’ll fall in line!!!

  • @adriana27100
    @adriana27100 4 месяца назад +2

    This was an amazing and insightful episode! Some advice you gave I was just thinking about the other day and have the same advice to my best friend…. ✨Put out into the Universe WHAT YOU WANT…. Not what you don’t want! ✨💕

  • @Tomberlands
    @Tomberlands 20 дней назад

    42:30 absolutely me - great conversation ladies. ❤

  • @MariaEugeniaGroba
    @MariaEugeniaGroba 4 месяца назад +1

    Yeiii I love this !!! Alejandra ❤

  • @Shelly4.20
    @Shelly4.20 4 месяца назад

    Ale!!!!!!!!! 😁😁😁😍😍😍😍😍. Love this! I absolutely love her!!!! Tht brought me here! 😁❤

  • @leamichellemuller2173
    @leamichellemuller2173 4 месяца назад

    Just my understanding:
    Talking: Communicating through different mediums, getting to know each other but without meeting each other (calling, texting, snapchatting, dating apps, whatever)
    Dating: Actively going on dates but you´re not in a relationship
    Being exclusive: Only dating and talking to each other but not being in a relationship
    Hope that helps

  • @audreymarie1191
    @audreymarie1191 4 месяца назад +1

    Alejandra !!!!!❤❤❤ we love you queen

  • @onyx8547
    @onyx8547 4 месяца назад

    We love you Alejandra!!!!!

  • @verogarrcia7
    @verogarrcia7 4 месяца назад

    I miss Ale! So good to hear from her❤

  • @kmartinez303
    @kmartinez303 4 месяца назад

    I love Alejandra

  • @adriandaniels1
    @adriandaniels1 4 месяца назад

    I've been single for a long time ( not in a serious ltr for 10 plus years) and at this moment and for the past while, have been good with it. I have a lot of things I am working on and like doing that a relationship would get in the way of. Those moments of when I was wanting something but not looking, it did NOT happen. Like a cold winter in Antartica. Nothing. Zilch. Nada. So not sure how it happened for others, but not me lol. The only way to actually find something is to look.

  • @sjec8057
    @sjec8057 2 месяца назад

    Alejandra 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @QueenofChaos80
    @QueenofChaos80 4 месяца назад

    1st?? 🥳

  • @mr.andmrs.ceniceros859
    @mr.andmrs.ceniceros859 4 месяца назад +3

    not the starbucks cup :( the dissapoinment I had to unsubscribe

    • @jade-qi8ot
      @jade-qi8ot 4 месяца назад

      i know :/ big sigh

  • @isla2922
    @isla2922 4 месяца назад

    loved the episode but can we pleaseee not use OCD as a synonym for ‘im tidy’ OCD is about a lot more than having a clean space and it’s very invalidating

    • @wellsaid.podcast
      @wellsaid.podcast  4 месяца назад +2

      Totally get it - Thank you for that feedback for us! I am not sure who said it, but I did have OCD! Better now but still a battle!

    • @BellaLankedlanked
      @BellaLankedlanked 4 месяца назад

      ⁠@@wellsaid.podcast from someone with severe ocd, it doesn't go away.

    • @wellsaid.podcast
      @wellsaid.podcast  4 месяца назад

      I was lucky enough it mostly has. It’s turned to anxiety but - trust me, lots of therapy to get me there!