hey man. im currently learning english. could i ask a question? what would you mean by "its not with effort" ? you meant its not worth putting effort on making a woman? i would be really grateful for you answer
All these years, I never established boundaries in relationships. I thought attraction was enough, which was a point you made in your Understanding Women’s Nature video. You’ve exposed so many mistakes I’ve made in my relationships. Thank you.
I'm so glad you're paying attention! Live and learn and take different actions based on what we learn. Men and women are simply different in some ways and no one teaches this stuff in school. :)
WingmamTV you’re doing amazing work. I want love in my life. I’ve binge watched your videos to really listen to what you say. I want a kind, feminine lady like yourself.
@@raheemgaines3518 Then you need to be a confident and masculine gentleman. Nothing comes without effort, but it is more important to cultivate the inner qualities (self love, assertiveness, calm, high principles etc) than to hoard outer things of value (looks, money, status, fame etc). Of course external value is needed in some measure to complement the most important internal value. Men of high value don't unnecessarily brag, they let their actions speak for themselves instead. We also don't feel threatened by others who try to compete with us, because we honestly know we are better than that, so we don't need to prove it, we only need to be our authentic selves and set firm, healthy boundaries. And we dare to be genuinely vulnerable, with the right people, not caring if we get rejected, because we know we attract lots of women of high quality, thus it's their loss, not ours.
How to Handle Women's Tests | Dating Tips for Men 2020 ... Mindset steps to naturally be able to handle all her tests without thinking: WAKUP2LUV - GET & KEEP A GIRLFRIEND! members.wingmam.com/get-women/ *Don't wanna bother? Then don't. No one's forcing you to learn! ;)* More here: wingmam.com/2020/02/how-to-handle-womens-tests/
Great point Red. Don't be afraid to walk. I just did it. 2 days. Ago. I felt like she was blowing me off. I basically gave her real talk so to say. Didn't Text her the next morning. She came back and even explained. Long texts. And let me she wasn't Blowing me off. She even called me. To let me know and hear her voice. So far so good. One day at a time!! Great words of advice Red. Thanks again ❤️🙏💯👍👌✔️✔️
The great thing, now in my 50's, is I know all of this to be true, but I'm liberated from the chase and now I just sit back and watch it unfold, for I was there once and not as wise as I am now. That was rather "Yoda-esque". It's definitely a young mans game. Today I read, garden, cook and stash cash. Good luck fella's it's rough out there.
Speaking of willingness for making the effort ... I just can't see any effort from modern women these days. And if you ask, you'll get the answer: Because I'm a woman, I'm a woman, I'm a woman. And that's their justification for every immature, selfish, self-centered, hedonistic, narcissistic, anti-social and irresponsible behavior. So, today men's primary effort must be to learn how to deal with that ... before any further effort.
I know a lot of women fit your description and it's really frustrating. I think if a guy just keeps his eyes open and makes a decent effort there are good women out there to actually have a relationship with. I've been alone for just over 2years and just started looking, I admit good people are getting hard to find!
@@toddh2410 I think it depends in which age group and region of the world you are looking. But at some point feminism has even crept into my 23 year relationship/marriage and ruined it. Politics, economy, media, the social environment, the entertainment industry and even the so-called self-help industries just don't get tired of training and recruiting egocentrics by teaching ideologies like: "Love yourself first, get the most out of your life, your thoughts are creating your reality, ..." It's the 'me-me-me trap'. And that's the exact opposite of a sense for community or relationships in a broader sense. But as I said before, I think we have to tackle this problem first.
It sucks but in a way is it not nature judging you on whether or not your genes should propagate? And I agree, from a civilised intelligent human's perspective it sucks. But does it matter if it sucks or not if it is true?
@@momotheelder7124 Well, that's a good question. But if it was about reproduction only, there wouldn't be any reason to deal with all that nonsense. The effort that men have to make is for 'exclusivity'.
She's spot on. If you are secure in yourself. You are the leader. If you don't like her attitude... Leave. These tests are nothing, you are the prize. Find someone like Anna, ( rare) keep looking though. Always work on yourself find your flaws and fix them, make the good things about you better. Make yourself the prize.
I'm so grateful for the women like yourself that care enough to do this work. Even though I've got a few rough edges I'm made to feel good for being a man. I'm 59 and still growing but I'm lucky I worked at it from time to time.. again so grateful to you and many coaches I've had to enrich my life and mostly help feel good just being human.. in progress but very cool 💐♥️💫
I know a test when I see one, and 100% of the time I choose not to go along, high value or not it never ends. She can walk away if she's dissatisfied, I'll be at the table when she decides to behave like the adults we are.
I like all of these with one caveat; it's a balancing act between "letting it go" and "setting your boundary". The old cliche, give them an inch and they'll take a mile is apt here. Like you said, you teach each other what the limits are and you have to be willing to walk. Otherwise your limits mean zero.
Yes, absolutely. Brushing it off (inaction) doesn't mean putting up with it. If she continues, then appropriate action must be taken. We teach people how to treat us. You have to have standards, set boundaries and follow through on consequences. Thanks for allowing me to clarify! :)
You're still my #1 Coach. You're better than male coaches I have seen so far! I don't why but it just feels so good to say this to a woman you know is not a feminist & has not time to compare herself with men! Wish you joy.
People just test people in my opinion. The only way to avoid it is to avoid people. Besides very rarely are the tests excruciatingly difficult. If you're a good person with good intentions along with a fair mind and a solid backbone then bring it on.
Women actually will test you even if she isn't interested. She does it because it can confirm for her that she has power over you, which stokes her ego. She may also do it to show off for the guy she really likes, trying to display her high value to him.
I fell victim to a woman testing me last week. I didn't realize she was doing it till now. I just ended the friendship then and there. She's not worth it.
Hi Anna, I've found your Channel TODAY and i see you for the first time here and it's also the first time for me to hear all that stuff from a women. You make me understanding this in a helpful and positiv way :) Thanks for your videos.
How to pass her test with three words. " Nice knowing you " :) Im new to your channel but the more I look into things the more I see it as its a lot of work for little reward. If I wanted tests id go back to college. Like many I see tests as games. 1:47 " think of it as a good thing if a women is testing you " I do not think many men would see it that way. Reading the comments on this video it looks to me most men see tests the same way I do. Women never used to test decades ago or if they did it was under the radar. Now dating is like trying to get a lone as in where do you live do you own your own home how much do you earn. and men are hey hold up at least let me get out of my car and introduce my self lol. I really like your videos and lol 4:50 the way you stopped talking and thought when you said dont spank her. Not sure if you were embarrassed saying that or having a flash back. You reaction to what you said made me laugh.. The video is worth a thumbs up just for your expression.
Excellent, thanks Anna, great info yet a bit perplexing at the same time. Just have to put the effort in like you advise cause a good relationship is so worthwhile... with the right person.
You're filling the gap that many women today can't or don't care to see, Anna. The social conditioning of so many women apparently blocks their ability to discern the toxicity of extreme, radical feminism and how the third wave has lost any objective reason for advancing the cause of what healthy feminism was in the past: 1st Wave: the right to vote (which African-American men in the U.S. had before any woman) 2nd Wave: Greater equality in the workplace which still needs a bit of tweaking, though the stats do show marked improvements. 3rd Wave: Love of Power over the Power of Love. The dialectic in this dynamic will hopefully be resolved through understanding. You are a what in the Tibetan tradition is called a 'knowledge woman' who acts as consort to 'seal' the experience of union in a man's heart. Thank you for your understanding.
Wow, best video thus far about women testing you. I only wished I seen this video about 4 years ago. This has shed some much needed light on my last relationship, which lasted 4½ years. 👍👍
Your refreshing point of view has become really great for me. I've been alone for over two years now and I'm going out on my first date today. I've been watching your vids as a tune up. I was already confident but now I feel like I have a nice edge going into this. Thanks!! By the way I've already met her and talked and text a lot, I really like her!!!!
Be honest, Be Yourself (should be the same thing) If she rejects you then thank God you found out before it got expensive and painful. Do be willing to listen, learn adapt, and compromise; but only if you can be true to yourself and your values in the process.
Ok so..... how do you not get #4 and #5 mixed up. Wouldn’t making her feel like your number 1 inherently make her feel like the prize? Or when you say don’t put her on a pedestal..... do you mean don’t take step #5 TOO far?
I live in the Illinois / St.Louis area and there is one test women give and it works for them every time and it's: Where do you work / what do you do for a living? and then it's game over.
Anna thats terrific. Although I am slow, I am sincerely learning from you. However, there is a hell of a lot to learn. Its degree status. I detect you are more frank with coffee, so I advise you.........before each podcast!!!
You should flirt with many women while being you and not settling for less than you deserve. Show you are a little bit interested while truly confident, and women will be drawn to you so you can date them to find out who is good enough to happily contend with for a long time. ☺
After seeing these coaching videos, i learned a lot about women behavior, and all i can get from this is: the effort doesn't worth it, dude, if you are a independent person, a girl can't give you nothing more than sex and sometimes that sex gives you more mouths to feed. Im really dissapointed with woman, and cant believe how they play with us. This opened my eyes. Sad to be lonely, but its better learning the hard truth, than living a fantasy.
For a male im very emphatic and caring which can be seen as weak and means I can be taken advantage of. I was the type of person that would put my partners before my self and I was told to learn to say no and set boundaries and stick to them. Its hard but it works. Iv always thought it works if both people put the other person first but so many times my relationships started as them being all over me I fell for them and then the tables turns and I was taken for granted and felt like a door mat. Every one I went out with and broke up from at a later date wanted me back all saying the same thing and that was I had been the only man they felt safe with and could tell anything to. So I do have my good points. I think it was my own fault that I let people take me for granted. Iv waited for partners at a place called them as there 30 mins late to get no answer then a day later they turn up and say oh my friend called me and wanted my help etc. I did not even get a call saying hey something come up. So many times that happened it was like I was dropped for anything. No way would I drop a partner and leave her sitting in a bar waiting for me. I never used to be that way. No idea when I changed to letting my self kind of being used as a door mat. But iv change back to how I used to be as in brake any of my boundaries in out.
A Chad don't give a stuff, because he knows, if she dont like the deal, she will still chase him. As she knows other female orbiters are willing to jump in if she rocks the boat.
Simple... do not accept tests, show them the door. They are not worthy. By giving you a test, they automatically assume they are in charge. Do not allow that. You’re not equals if one assumes priority.
Only low quality woman have tested me. They’ve tried to make me jealous so I think they’re better than they are. I lose interest pretty quickly in these types of woman.
AJ this is one of your most informative videos, but you need to please change your ad to something other than St Jude. It kind of brings the mood down before an informative helpful fun dating video lol.
3:16 Number 4. Truer words have never been spoken. I can't tell you how many times I've walked away and before the week was over... my phone was ringing and is was them..... groveling their way back into my life. I may playfully tease them and then agree to meet them for lunch, dinner, a movie, picnic, a walk….. and we’ll see where it goes from there. Most of the time when I walk, it’s over. Also, I've dated very attractive women and not so attractive women but treated them all the same. When we are out I only have eyes for them, they have all my attention (which seems to annoy some other attractive girl near-by that is trying to get my attention), I treat them like they are the prettiest girl in the room, and far as I am concerned... they are. They chose to spend their time with me, and I respect that. I almost always date from a position of power but respectful to them. Always keeping on the table the concept that I can walk away from her, this must always be on the table and not just and idle threat. She knows I've done it before with others when given proper cause. Including but not limited to them being a bitchy whining shrew, controlling, whining in general, being disrespectful to me or wait staff…. Are all catalysts that’ll make me pull that trigger. I am an old "wolf" and I've been on the trail a long time.
i have a question, are women aware that they give these tests or do they come out natural? As a man, I never tested or ever thought of testing a woman, I just act (or decide) based on each response I receive whevever we are in contact
You said in 4 “don’t put her on a pedestal that she’s going to look down on you” but then after that you say to make her feel like she’s your # 1 ?? How do I make her feel like she’s my number 1 with out putting her up high on a pedestal???
Got a question concerning one of your prev vids about do's and don't on a first date (I know it's off topic, but I'd be surprised if you answer questions posted on a two year old vid, so there) ok; In regards to the "touching" on a first date, (hand , shoulder etc) in Denmark and probably the rest of Scandinavia (ja, goddag :) ) it's become fashion to give a hug to ppl you meet. Even for the first time, unless its in an official capacity. My question is; Would that count as a "touch" in regards to the step by step progression of a date i.e. would we be comfortable touching each other by now. I would think not, but I would also say it's more significant than a handshake. What are your thoughts Miss Jørgensen? Thanks for the very helpful vids btw :)
Okay I’m stuck on 15, the loyalty or trust test. I have no idea what that would look like because I’m a monogamous person. If giving the right answers aren’t enough then how would she test my loyalty if I’m not seeing anyone else?🤔
Watching every show is the only contribution i can afford at the moment, you are like a good mother who gives her sons keys to decode girl's mysteries. 🐇
I don’t get the caffeine thing I could drink a couple of espressos and go to sleep. But the I we thing I totally get as a Gemini I do it all the time.. I notice it more when doing quotes or estimates for work
Personally my RSD gets me frantic if he doesn't follow me and apologize. Off of medication it feels near impossible to regulate my emotions properly. I used to yell at him then cry til my chest hurt but now I try to leave the room. It usually takes a decent minute for my emotional state to come back down to a healthy level but when he comes to me, hugs me and apologizes it's literally like pouring a giant bucket of water onto a fire. I don't act appropriately a lot of the time but we're both trying to talk to one another with respect even through anger and usually as long as I'm reminded that I'm a wanted and valued member in the relationship my emotional state is brought back down to a healthy level pretty quickly.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Definitely stay on your meds (with doctor approval, of course), and try to use the love sammich approach (I did a video on it). You both want it to work and it seems you’re both aware of where you (both) need to grow so that’s good!
Once you realise how much effort and energy it takes to make a woman happy you’ll probably realise that it’s not with effort.
Exactly
For a warm wet hole. Ridiculous
Yes, like mom's test
hey man. im currently learning english. could i ask a question? what would you mean by "its not with effort" ? you meant its not worth putting effort on making a woman? i would be really grateful for you answer
@@user-zy7kj1si5vyou're right he meant to say "it's not worth the effort"
All these years, I never established boundaries in relationships. I thought attraction was enough, which was a point you made in your Understanding Women’s Nature video. You’ve exposed so many mistakes I’ve made in my relationships. Thank you.
I'm so glad you're paying attention! Live and learn and take different actions based on what we learn. Men and women are simply different in some ways and no one teaches this stuff in school. :)
WingmamTV you’re doing amazing work. I want love in my life. I’ve binge watched your videos to really listen to what you say. I want a kind, feminine lady like yourself.
@@raheemgaines3518 Then you need to be a confident and masculine gentleman. Nothing comes without effort, but it is more important to cultivate the inner qualities (self love, assertiveness, calm, high principles etc) than to hoard outer things of value (looks, money, status, fame etc).
Of course external value is needed in some measure to complement the most important internal value.
Men of high value don't unnecessarily brag, they let their actions speak for themselves instead. We also don't feel threatened by others who try to compete with us, because we honestly know we are better than that, so we don't need to prove it, we only need to be our authentic selves and set firm, healthy boundaries. And we dare to be genuinely vulnerable, with the right people, not caring if we get rejected, because we know we attract lots of women of high quality, thus it's their loss, not ours.
How to Handle Women's Tests | Dating Tips for Men 2020 ... Mindset steps to naturally be able to handle all her tests without thinking: WAKUP2LUV - GET & KEEP A GIRLFRIEND! members.wingmam.com/get-women/
*Don't wanna bother? Then don't. No one's forcing you to learn! ;)* More here: wingmam.com/2020/02/how-to-handle-womens-tests/
Great point Red. Don't be afraid to walk. I just did it. 2 days. Ago. I felt like she was blowing me off. I basically gave her real talk so to say. Didn't Text her the next morning. She came back and even explained. Long texts. And let me she wasn't Blowing me off. She even called me. To let me know and hear her voice. So far so good. One day at a time!! Great words of advice Red. Thanks again ❤️🙏💯👍👌✔️✔️
My pleasure ❤️
The great thing, now in my 50's, is I know all of this to be true, but I'm liberated from the chase and now I just sit back and watch it unfold, for I was there once and not as wise as I am now. That was rather "Yoda-esque". It's definitely a young mans game. Today I read, garden, cook and stash cash. Good luck fella's it's rough out there.
Speaking of willingness for making the effort ... I just can't see any effort from modern women these days. And if you ask, you'll get the answer: Because I'm a woman, I'm a woman, I'm a woman. And that's their justification for every immature, selfish, self-centered, hedonistic, narcissistic, anti-social and irresponsible behavior. So, today men's primary effort must be to learn how to deal with that ... before any further effort.
I know a lot of women fit your description and it's really frustrating. I think if a guy just keeps his eyes open and makes a decent effort there are good women out there to actually have a relationship with. I've been alone for just over 2years and just started looking, I admit good people are getting hard to find!
@@toddh2410
I think it depends in which age group and region of the world you are looking. But at some point feminism has even crept into my 23 year relationship/marriage and ruined it. Politics, economy, media, the social environment, the entertainment industry and even the so-called self-help industries just don't get tired of training and recruiting egocentrics by teaching ideologies like: "Love yourself first, get the most out of your life, your thoughts are creating your reality, ..." It's the 'me-me-me trap'. And that's the exact opposite of a sense for community or relationships in a broader sense. But as I said before, I think we have to tackle this problem first.
Alex Hörmann I totally agree with you. I’ve been threw two divorces now. You’re right the atmosphere is no where near ideal for a good relationship!
It sucks but in a way is it not nature judging you on whether or not your genes should propagate? And I agree, from a civilised intelligent human's perspective it sucks. But does it matter if it sucks or not if it is true?
@@momotheelder7124
Well, that's a good question. But if it was about reproduction only, there wouldn't be any reason to deal with all that nonsense. The effort that men have to make is for 'exclusivity'.
I know you get compliments all the time I’m sure one more wouldn’t hurt. I really admire your work ethic & consistency 😇
She's spot on. If you are secure in yourself. You are the leader. If you don't like her attitude... Leave. These tests are nothing, you are the prize. Find someone like Anna, ( rare) keep looking though. Always work on yourself find your flaws and fix them, make the good things about you better. Make yourself the prize.
I'm so grateful for the women like yourself that care enough to do this work. Even though I've got a few rough edges I'm made to feel good for being a man. I'm 59 and still growing but I'm lucky I worked at it from time to time.. again so grateful to you and many coaches I've had to enrich my life and mostly help feel good just being human.. in progress but very cool 💐♥️💫
I know a test when I see one, and 100% of the time I choose not to go along, high value or not it never ends.
She can walk away if she's dissatisfied, I'll be at the table when she decides to behave like the adults we are.
Point key, be kind but always stand your ground no matter what!
You're absolutely right!
I like all of these with one caveat; it's a balancing act between "letting it go" and "setting your boundary". The old cliche, give them an inch and they'll take a mile is apt here. Like you said, you teach each other what the limits are and you have to be willing to walk. Otherwise your limits mean zero.
Yes, absolutely. Brushing it off (inaction) doesn't mean putting up with it. If she continues, then appropriate action must be taken. We teach people how to treat us. You have to have standards, set boundaries and follow through on consequences. Thanks for allowing me to clarify! :)
nah, i'd rather be single.
#MeToo 🤣
Totally.
Haha i was just thinking the same thing...
right F all this!!!!
Me also.
You're still my #1 Coach. You're better than male coaches I have seen so far! I don't why but it just feels so good to say this to a woman you know is not a feminist & has not time to compare herself with men! Wish you joy.
So far you’re good ، I will keep watching your videos
MGTOW is the best way to go.Testing testing is a school thing.
Best way to go home alone ....Walter.
But I appreciate you watching and commenting on so many of my videos! :))
👍👍👍👍👍
People just test people in my opinion. The only way to avoid it is to avoid people. Besides very rarely are the tests excruciatingly difficult. If you're a good person with good intentions along with a fair mind and a solid backbone then bring it on.
@@YourWingmam Indeed. Actions speak louder than words. 😄
This show was a year old but you had coffee and nailed it! Very true-full. Thank you
Women actually will test you even if she isn't interested. She does it because it can confirm for her that she has power over you, which stokes her ego. She may also do it to show off for the guy she really likes, trying to display her high value to him.
Don’t get into a relationship. Just keep her in the friends with benefits zone. 🤭
S*** test her back, no amount of logic will make sense to a woman until she FEELS it too.
Edit: Love your content, keep’em coming
Totally agree!
Nothing makes the heart want like being put through a background check that you get to pay for. Want to win? Don't play!
One of your best videos by far.
I fell victim to a woman testing me last week. I didn't realize she was doing it till now. I just ended the friendship then and there. She's not worth it.
No woman is. They have the same basic software.
Hi Anna,
I've found your Channel TODAY and i see you for the first time here and it's also the first time for me to hear all that stuff from a women. You make me understanding this in a helpful and positiv way :) Thanks for your videos.
Great advice and i feel like Anna is really telling it like it is and really trying to help men understand
Always great to get a new video. I love the longer format!
Thank you, glad you enjoyed it! :))
You are really sweet, genuine, and down to earth. Thank you Anna.
Hey Anna, I love your videos! I've been binge watching and learning a lot. I feel like I have a 'woman in my corner' giving me good advice!
How to pass her test with three words. " Nice knowing you " :)
Im new to your channel but the more I look into things the more I see it as its a lot of work for little reward. If I wanted tests id go back to college. Like many I see tests as games. 1:47 " think of it as a good thing if a women is testing you " I do not think many men would see it that way. Reading the comments on this video it looks to me most men see tests the same way I do. Women never used to test decades ago or if they did it was under the radar. Now dating is like trying to get a lone as in where do you live do you own your own home how much do you earn. and men are hey hold up at least let me get out of my car and introduce my self lol. I really like your videos and lol 4:50 the way you stopped talking and thought when you said dont spank her. Not sure if you were embarrassed saying that or having a flash back. You reaction to what you said made me laugh.. The video is worth a thumbs up just for your expression.
Excellent, thanks Anna, great info yet a bit perplexing at the same time. Just have to put the effort in like you advise cause a good relationship is so worthwhile... with the right person.
Thank you
You're filling the gap that many women today can't or don't care to see, Anna.
The social conditioning of so many women apparently blocks their ability to discern the toxicity of extreme, radical feminism and how the third wave has lost any objective reason for advancing the cause of what healthy feminism was in the past:
1st Wave: the right to vote (which African-American men in the U.S. had before any woman)
2nd Wave: Greater equality in the workplace which still needs a bit of tweaking, though the stats do show marked improvements.
3rd Wave: Love of Power over the Power of Love. The dialectic in this dynamic will hopefully be resolved through understanding. You are a what in the Tibetan tradition is called a 'knowledge woman' who acts as consort to 'seal' the experience of union in a man's heart. Thank you for your understanding.
I'm listening and it seams to be working Thankyou
Wingmam tv you real nice for trying to fix things
U R Too Cute sometimes Anna.
This outro was unscripted but worked well.
God Bless you girl...
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Wow, best video thus far about women testing you. I only wished I seen this video about 4 years ago. This has shed some much needed light on my last relationship, which lasted 4½ years. 👍👍
Your refreshing point of view has become really great for me. I've been alone for over two years now and I'm going out on my first date today. I've been watching your vids as a tune up. I was already confident but now I feel like I have a nice edge going into this. Thanks!! By the way I've already met her and talked and text a lot, I really like her!!!!
I just wanted to say thankyou for helping us men be better men
I never said how pretty you are.. real nice thing about you is your smart . You help alot of people with your insight .
J'adore ! Finally a woman speaking the real things ! Thanks from Montreal
She's just setting you up to be a victim.
More good advice, 👍.. workin on that... John
Thank you for sharing, john. You got this ❤
Number 4. is why Wingmam is the prize of all dating coaches.
Haha, great play on words! Thanks! :)
Be honest, Be Yourself (should be the same thing) If she rejects you then thank God you found out before it got expensive and painful. Do be willing to listen, learn adapt, and compromise; but only if you can be true to yourself and your values in the process.
Best ending yet... excellent... and of course, such a typically real feminine a bit “flighty” disposition! Love it!
You are definitely one of the best things that has happened to men. Thank you God.
Thanks that helped me understand why my married female friends, or male friends partners test me at times.
Ok so..... how do you not get #4 and #5 mixed up. Wouldn’t making her feel like your number 1 inherently make her feel like the prize? Or when you say don’t put her on a pedestal..... do you mean don’t take step #5 TOO far?
I live in the Illinois / St.Louis area and there is one test women give and it works for them every time and it's: Where do you work / what do you do for a living? and then it's game over.
in the words of the great darius, “WOMEN CREATE THEIR OWN PROBLEMS”
Another informative, enjoyable video. Your looking radiant. 😘 Did you watch the SuperBowl? If so, wondered what you thought of halftime. Love you! 😊
"In order to proceed, you simply need to know what not to do" ... Nicola Tesla
"I have not failed. I just found 10,000 ways that don't work." -Thomas Edison
Thank you for showing what The tests are and how to handle them
Great vids 🙂. Are you by any chance from Denmark? 😊
I dig sarcastic Anna lol. Guys that can't handle it have no business messing with girls that can. Another groovy video & great advice!
Ikr? Anna’s awesome!!
Anna thats terrific. Although I am slow, I am sincerely learning from you. However, there is a hell of a lot to learn. Its degree status.
I detect you are more frank with coffee, so I advise you.........before each podcast!!!
We teach people how to treat us. Truer words.
Awesome post. Love your work. Please do a live broadcast sometime. ❤️
All your videos have helped me learn how women tick inside. I believe the right one is out there just hafta hang on until I meet her!!
Thanks again 😊
You should flirt with many women while being you and not settling for less than you deserve. Show you are a little bit interested while truly confident, and women will be drawn to you so you can date them to find out who is good enough to happily contend with for a long time. ☺
After seeing these coaching videos, i learned a lot about women behavior, and all i can get from this is: the effort doesn't worth it, dude, if you are a independent person, a girl can't give you nothing more than sex and sometimes that sex gives you more mouths to feed.
Im really dissapointed with woman, and cant believe how they play with us. This opened my eyes. Sad to be lonely, but its better learning the hard truth, than living a fantasy.
You have such a nice voice and you sound like such a smart woman. Your face is so pretty.
The wisdom of Wingmam.
Thank you, my dear.
For a male im very emphatic and caring which can be seen as weak and means I can be taken advantage of. I was the type of person that would put my partners before my self and I was told to learn to say no and set boundaries and stick to them. Its hard but it works. Iv always thought it works if both people put the other person first but so many times my relationships started as them being all over me I fell for them and then the tables turns and I was taken for granted and felt like a door mat. Every one I went out with and broke up from at a later date wanted me back all saying the same thing and that was I had been the only man they felt safe with and could tell anything to. So I do have my good points. I think it was my own fault that I let people take me for granted. Iv waited for partners at a place called them as there 30 mins late to get no answer then a day later they turn up and say oh my friend called me and wanted my help etc. I did not even get a call saying hey something come up. So many times that happened it was like I was dropped for anything. No way would I drop a partner and leave her sitting in a bar waiting for me. I never used to be that way. No idea when I changed to letting my self kind of being used as a door mat. But iv change back to how I used to be as in brake any of my boundaries in out.
Dignity will pass all of these tests, perfectly. (Bcuz, dignity is the root of masculinity).
I don't give a stuff what woman think.
Good news: you don't have to! ;)
Well no pussy for you so go be gay then lol
A Chad don't give a stuff, because he knows, if she dont like the deal, she will still chase him. As she knows other female orbiters are willing to jump in if she rocks the boat.
good for you, you big rock star, you big hero!
@Mark Zaney that's right bruh!
Simple... do not accept tests, show them the door. They are not worthy. By giving you a test, they automatically assume they are in charge. Do not allow that. You’re not equals if one assumes priority.
Love your style and sarcasm ;) and advice.
The last two that " tested " me failed they got their walking papers .
I flew Dr Phil and his sons on several occasions. The whole family is rude an arrogant.
Hm. That's what I thought.
No! The hell you say! LOL
Thank You!
A good video but point #15 left me a little confused. I'd be interested in hearing from Anna or anyone else who can elaborate some more.
Thanks
Love you Anna, keep doing your thing coz we really appreciate a lady's insight into how to handle you women. Awesome video
Cut her loose, life’s too short.
Only low quality woman have tested me. They’ve tried to make me jealous so I think they’re better than they are. I lose interest pretty quickly in these types of woman.
Hardy Harhar quite possibly! Are you beta?
Yes you are very helpful dear Anna.
AJ this is one of your most informative videos, but you need to please change your ad to something other than St Jude. It kind of brings the mood down before an informative helpful fun dating video lol.
Love the simple hair style, BUT you have a charming way to get your point across
Very sensible woman, very reasonable woman. Cheers.
Yes Ma'am
thank you sister 🌷
3:16 Number 4. Truer words have never been spoken.
I can't tell you how many times I've walked away and before
the week was over... my phone was ringing and is was them..... groveling their
way back into my life. I may playfully tease them and then agree to meet them
for lunch, dinner, a movie, picnic, a walk….. and we’ll see where it goes from
there. Most of the time when I walk, it’s over.
Also, I've dated very attractive women and not so attractive
women but treated them all the same. When we are out I only have eyes for them,
they have all my attention (which seems to annoy some other attractive girl
near-by that is trying to get my attention), I treat them like they are the
prettiest girl in the room, and far as I am concerned... they are. They chose
to spend their time with me, and I respect that.
I almost always date from a position of power but respectful
to them. Always keeping on the table the concept that I can walk away from her, this must always be on the
table and not just and idle threat. She knows I've done it before with others
when given proper cause.
Including but not limited to them being a bitchy whining shrew,
controlling, whining in general, being disrespectful to me or wait staff…. Are all
catalysts that’ll make me pull that trigger.
I am an old "wolf" and I've been on the trail a
long time.
i have a question, are women aware that they give these tests or do they come out natural?
As a man, I never tested or ever thought of testing a woman, I just act (or decide) based on each response I receive whevever we are in contact
Gemini... communicator... makes more sense now. Well done AJ.
Number 5 is where I checked out.
Great video BTW!
You said in 4 “don’t put her on a pedestal that she’s going to look down on you” but then after that you say to make her feel like she’s your # 1 ?? How do I make her feel like she’s my number 1 with out putting her up high on a pedestal???
Wait, so number 4 is Mindset (Do not put women on a pedestal) However #5 is make her feel she's No#1? Isn't that contradicting No#4?
Got a question concerning one of your prev vids about do's and don't on a first date (I know it's off topic, but I'd be surprised if you answer questions posted on a two year old vid, so there) ok; In regards to the "touching" on a first date, (hand , shoulder etc) in Denmark and probably the rest of Scandinavia (ja, goddag :) ) it's become fashion to give a hug to ppl you meet. Even for the first time, unless its in an official capacity. My question is; Would that count as a "touch" in regards to the step by step progression of a date i.e. would we be comfortable touching each other by now. I would think not, but I would also say it's more significant than a handshake. What are your thoughts Miss Jørgensen? Thanks for the very helpful vids btw :)
If a girl tests me, I am out! No games. No BS. Be who you are. If they don’t like it, then NEXT!
What do you mean by a "damaged woman"? And what should we do about it? Thank you
I am from Chicago i like your dating info plese do a vedio on a cracy woman also play gam your are a god gift to many
Great video and advice and im the same on caffine i go on these big rants so i stick to Tea😅👍
Okay I’m stuck on 15, the loyalty or trust test. I have no idea what that would look like because I’m a monogamous person. If giving the right answers aren’t enough then how would she test my loyalty if I’m not seeing anyone else?🤔
TKS for sharing sweetie
Watching every show is the only contribution i can afford at the moment, you are like a good mother who gives her sons keys to decode girl's mysteries. 🐇
Sucker like most women to judgemental far more so than men Don’t come up to my expectations out of the door you go!
The coffee effect was noticeable from the start, can you do a video after an energy drink or cappuccino? Thanks.
I don’t get the caffeine thing I could drink a couple of espressos and go to sleep. But the I we thing I totally get as a Gemini I do it all the time.. I notice it more when doing quotes or estimates for work
Nice Video!
"Life participation is not mandatory ' lol
Good one Ms. Anna !
I know, right! I caught that in the editing, but forgot to add a note about that. *Relationships* aren't mandatory, but actually, neither is life. :)
@@YourWingmam yeah life is a terminal disease
Personally my RSD gets me frantic if he doesn't follow me and apologize. Off of medication it feels near impossible to regulate my emotions properly. I used to yell at him then cry til my chest hurt but now I try to leave the room. It usually takes a decent minute for my emotional state to come back down to a healthy level but when he comes to me, hugs me and apologizes it's literally like pouring a giant bucket of water onto a fire. I don't act appropriately a lot of the time but we're both trying to talk to one another with respect even through anger and usually as long as I'm reminded that I'm a wanted and valued member in the relationship my emotional state is brought back down to a healthy level pretty quickly.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Definitely stay on your meds (with doctor approval, of course), and try to use the love sammich approach (I did a video on it). You both want it to work and it seems you’re both aware of where you (both) need to grow so that’s good!