I wish my parents were this cool… oh wait 😅 You’re making such brave decisions and I love how honestly you’re sharing the process! This was so well made and an incredible reminder on the importance of checking in with our relationship to our possessions.
Haha. Thanks, your words mean a lot. Even though we talk about all this all the time, there's something special about reading your comment here. And more so on Father's Day. 😊
that is the first time I saw parents following the steps of their son. Ya I would like to have such parents... what makes me have more admiration is how supportive you all are with each other
@@nemmmm2208 mother here. I already planned to follow my daughter when I will be retired and she will have her child (which of course will take years from now, but anyway...). And yes, she knows about my plan and loves it. :-) She lives 1 hour away now but the universe knows where she will be going after university, so ... it might be anywhere! :-D
These ARE some VERY cool parents! Thanks for the recommendation, and I will continue to watch. At some point I hope we hear more about the composer part...one composer to another of course...
I’m a 61 year old single woman who just sold her dream home to move to Belize. Rather than selling everything, which was completely overwhelming, I decided to donate it to charity. I did keep a few special, sentimental pieces and put those in storage. At the end of six months I will make a final decision of whether I want to dispose of those things, give it to Family, or ship it to Belize. I’m only taking three suitcases to a furnished house. I’m spending the next few weeks visiting family in the US before I fly to Belize in July. Portugal was my second choice, if I’m unhappy I take comfort in knowing that I can always move on to another country. But my life has to be about continuing to grow and having adventures and international living is the solution for me.
so it's been a month. How are things going? I haven't make that huge of a leap yet, but I have compressed all my belongings to one bedroom and rent out the rest of my house to a long time friend to 'house sit' on a permanent basis. I just can't give up the security of my home just yet.
"Attachment is a bitch." Truer words have never been spoken. My wife and I are nearing our 50s and are planning to take the leap and move back to Germany where she's from. It's refreshing to see others do it and succeed. You are an inspiration to many!!
I don't think that attachment is a bitch... I don't understand why they got rid of family photos and music sheets! That's what makes yourself you! Clothes and furnitures, you can buy anywhere, but other things are priceless!
I got rid of 99% of my belongings (car included) in my 60's and moved to Florence, Italy, BY MYSELF, in 2017. I acquired my Italian citizenship last year and I have NEVER been happier. Stuff is just that, STUFF. I had come here for college in 2015, studied two years, then returned to California with an empty check in bag. If I couldn't get things in that bag or the ones I carried on the plane, it was goodbye. I had a storage unit FILLED with all my stuff - furniture, kitchen ware, electronics, etc.. My mantra was "when in doubt - throw it out"!
Question: What are your retirement and end of life plans? Who will take care of you in Florence when you are too old to take care of yourself, and make all your major life decisions?
My children and grandchildren also live overseas. I’m 71, recently widowed and facing some of the issues you raise in this incredibly inspiring, yet down to earth video. I’m wanting anew start nearer to them, so a big Thank you for sharing your move with the world. I’ve been ‘here’ before, but now I’m doing it on my own - which is at the core of my new adventure. Fifteen years ago, when my late husband retired we moved from California to the East Coast. I well remember that period of letting go of so much stuff in and surging forth to rebuild a life that I now am getting ready to free myself from. Some of it left with my husband’s death and now I want to re-embrace whatever my new life will bring. I’d mistakenly thought that I’d made our ‘forever’ home in a lovely community near the kids, but it all changed. I’m doing this step cautiously, because I suspect radical independent moves don’t get repeated too often at my age. Whatever the days ahead bring, I’m grateful for the knowledge that others are doing this sort of thing too. Whether the motivation is a feeling of being stuck or a full stop like illness and death; if you’re the one still standing, it’s never too late to get going again.
I remember reading once that “life ends when you put the slippers on”… meaning comfort can dampen the magic in life, so this is refreshing to see an honest window into inviting that magic back in
Comfort might be yr magic. Its all dependent on yr outlook i suppose. I'm always looking for things that give me comfort. I wish i was more adaptable but its not who i am.
This is why every year or every other year I go through every room and closet and declutter. I cannot imagine going through 40 years of "stuff" all at once
What a great idea! I'm going thru 16 years of stuff right now. I read a book about Swedish Death Cleaning. Once I finish, I'll go thru yearly.... And in the meantime, I'll be a lot more careful about what I purchase!
This resonated with me quite a bit and I will admit I shed some tears watching this. My husband and I just moved from the west coast to back east, and we threw out two truck loads of possessions. We tried to donate a lot of it but thrift stores are overflowing with crap and no one would take stuff without a great amount of negotiating, so we finally just called up one of those junk pick up services and let them throw it all in a truck and drive off with it. It was such a liberating feeling to let go of things we have clung onto for years. You said "Attachment is a bitch" and you aren't kidding. It literally robs us of our freedom and our lives. If we measured the value of things by the time we put into researching, buying, maintaining, moving and using our things instead of just the dollar amount it cost to buy them, I doubt we would buy and own as much as we do. Having said all that, I admire you greatly for taking such a risk at this stage of your lives and I am totally envious. I think you've made a great decision and I look forward following your adventures.
Thank you, Lane. :) Can you believe how hard it is these days to donate?? It's maddening. Good on you to get rid of so much. There's so much to learn about possessions. I think it's a lifetime's process.
@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT - it's near impossible to donate anything, the world is becoming full of everything. I'm from Eastern Europe but I can't take anything to my country, people seem to have it all ! Apart from money, that is, so, the lesson here is simple, let's think twice before buying on impulse. As a woman, I would like to buy some new clothes but...where would I store them and when would I wear them. The same goes for everything else. So, airplane and train tickets seem a better investment in our 'golden years'.
Never seen your channel, wasn't very interested in your lives or moving to Portugal but you managed to turn this video about moving into a masterpiece.
Oh my! This video brought back so many memories. 3 years ago, at age 67, I sold my house and business in South Africa to move with 3 suitcases and my dog to Panama 🇵🇦. And I was still working full time until 6 weeks before I left. Doing all the sorting and clearing of 50 years of living.... getting rid of photos and my kids' "art work" was the hardest. I now live a simple quiet life (with my aged dog) and have learned so many lessons. Particularly about Attachment to STUFF!!! Good luck in your relocation. Glad there were 2 of you doing the clearing.... it helps!!!
Once again. Love the video. I've had to move my parents 3 times this year for different reasons. My father is wonderful but a complete hoarder. Everyday was a never ending challenge. I could not see the end but kept plugging away. They are now finally settled and happy in a 2 bedroom apartment. The end is finally in site! The little angels you mentioned are so true. They. appear when you need them for sure.
You made me laugh re: your Dad, although I know there's really nothing funny about it. Glad you made it! Again! Hope they stay settled for a while now. 🙂 All the best.
So I'm living the opposite process, of moving from Portugal to the US and despite being younger, I still relate with so many things in this video. The chaos, the stress, but ultimately the belief that everything will turn out ok. Looking forward to seeing more of your adventures in my country and I hope it's everything you hope for and more. Also a tip, try to look at smaller locations for your permanent home, because Portugal being so small has this advantage: even a remote village that will be cheaper and more "homely" will still potentially be just 30 mins away from other bigger cities. You have a lot of that near Coimbra, places that will be halfway between Aveiro, Coimbra, Porto but won't be too crowded or busy. Anyway, great video, loved to watch it!
This story resonates with me. Four years ago, my husband and I relocated 2000 miles away from Seattle. We only brought 2 suitcases, our electronics, important documents and of course our beloved beautiful mini schnauzers and a car full of stuff. It was very liberating to donate, sell, gift and throw away stuff. The amazing thing was that it ocurred to me to advertise on Craigslist "all house contents for sale for a flat fee". Incredible as it sounds, a nice gentleman shows up with $3,000 USD and a moving truck to free us from all our furniture, kitchen gadgets (pots and pans included). If you do the math, it is cheaper and infinitely simpler to buy things again than it is to haul your stuff 2000 miles away. Doing this saved us a lot of work, stress and a variety of logistic nightmares. It was also very exciting to go shopping for new furniture and have all new decor!!! We took our time to furnish our new home. It was fun to score great bargains via classified ads. It is unbelievable the number of great quality items your can get for pennies on the dollar (or free!)if you are patient. Good luck to all who read this! 👍
This resonated with me so hard. It's truly unbelievable how much stuff and clutter we accumulate over the years. Getting rid of some stuff is easy, but those "memory boxes" like you said are the most difficult. Moving does suck, but what comes after can be awesome!
Sounds like Portugal is getting filled up with Americans. Hope they will adapt and respect, instead of imposing and opportunistic monetizing, and not ruin the culture.
@@KristynaStefanova Have they not moved back since 2008? Still, I dont think it was a mass exodus. May Portugal remain intact. It was once a hidden remote corner of Europe that remained pristine.
@@ana419 I met a lot of Portuguese in France back in 2018 and they told me this. Since then they might move back for more job opportunities, I don’t know.
Your video made me cry with the story about earth angels assisting you into having everything fall into place. Such a powerful message of trust and belief! Wow.
Wow! This video was suggested randomly out of nowhere at exactly the right time, as I am currently completely overwhelmed by the idea of moving, how to move, where to move, what to do with all my stuff.. I cried tears of relief and joy listening to your advice - you are my random angel today! 🥰🙏
Wow, I’m really happy for your guys and this video is awesome, the clips, the rhythm! I also feel so inspired by your storytelling skills 💫 Greetings from France 🇫🇷
I am so impressed that you managed to do all of that in 40 days. I moved from a larger house to a tiny cottage that I built and got rid of most of my things as well.I will never accumulate a lot of stuff again.Becoming minimalist is so freeing! My space feels so open and fresh and there is now room for me to grow.Congratulations on your exciting journey.I love this channel and your Butter is one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen.
My last day, here on a small island in the north atlantic, on my way to Spain. This was a great video , thank you...selling , donating and the hardest was having yo throw things away. Im a single woman almost 68 yrs old, and had to go through, by myself, years of stuff, that the ppl who lived with me, just walk away, my children, my ex husband, businesses, charities, all the things that were stored in my house. Its hard, its sad, but also rewarding and relief, to dis attach from all these things. Onward to my new adventure
We moved from Cali to Portugal with my partner 3 months into pregnancy with 2 massive dogs (so had to do kennel training on top of it). Same thing, sold all our things, our cars, and got on the plane with only 2 suitcases each (we wanted to start fresh and the cost of containers was equivalent to re-buying everything new on the other side). Can so relate to this video. Doing all this while my partner was having morning sickness (which doesn't stop in the morning btw), was A LOT. Continuing the journey on the other side in Portugal was a lot too! We airbnb'd for months before we finally found a stable long term lease. But now we're so grateful for tour new life and so proud of ourselves for having cleared so much energetically for the arrival of our tiny baby 🙂 PS: your journey with paperwork is not over once you're in Portugal. Adminstration was a real pain in the butt for months after our arrival. It is a beautiful country but get ready for some of the most mismanaged administrations in the developed world. Some processes have delays of up to 2 years. Safe travels and many blessings.
Thank you! And wow, what a story of your own. I know exactly what you mean by a whole other approach to administration here. Oh boy. Anyway, you mentioning how it all really paid off in the end, in spite of (and because of?) all the hard work, put a big smile on my face. All the best to you guys. 😊
One of the most mismanaged administrations of d. world? How do you know? Have you been in a similar situation in other countries which would enable you to make a fair comparison? In fact, I have seen written by several people that emigrants have to face very complicated bureaucracy when moving to the States.
I'm not planning on moving in the foreseeable future-nor do I have the means to do so-but thank you for your video. Your perspective on life and how to face and deal with stressful situations and unknowns hit home with me. I wish you, your wife, and your little dog the best in Europe.
You two are so inspiring! I’m in my 50’s as well. Building up my copywriting business so that I can make the move to Portugal. I love Portugal so much. The landscapes, the people, the food, the weather…everything. ❤️
Hi Jacqueline, I'm a copywriter in my 50s looking to move to Italy 😀 I've started connecting with RUclipsrs based in Italy (mostly North Americans and Italians) who are marketing services to English speakers looking to buy property and/or move there. It's a way to start building my network there before I move. If you haven't done so yet, you could do the same in Portugal! If you don't mind, I'd love to connect with you on LI 🙏🏼
A truly inspiring video! Thank you for being so open sharing your wisdom around life, its challenges and solutions when we both "pluck" ourselves and trust the process. I'm glad I found your channel a couple months ago (there are no coincidences). The best wishes moving to Portugal! It is a beautiful country! 🤩
When I decided to go long-term to Japan, I just told myself from the beginning that if something works out, it was meant to be. If not, I just needed to sit down and figure out what went wrong and why. Fortunately, I started long before I set an actual date. My miracle was when my niece’s husband (whom I barely knew) told his uncle (whom I didn’t know at all), who had been in the Peace Corps, about my plan. This uncle knew some Japanese people from his Peace Corps days who had an online newsletter. They invited me to submit a little article telling where I wanted to go, what I wanted to do, and why, and to invite English-speaking Japanese people to write to me. I ended up with six pen pals with whom I exchanged emails for six months before I went. I was able to meet three of them, stayed with two for short periods, and one became a very good friend. Serendipity!
When I saw the title, I immediately thought about my memory boxes. I plan on moving to Australia next year, and getting rid of those boxes will probably be the hardest part for me. I know that technically you can take photos and still keep them with you, but it is not the same, right?. In any case, it's nice seeing you going through the process. I hope you keep on sharing this journey. This channel is amazing!
I love your video! The home and property you left behind was so beautiful, but what an adventure you embarked upon! My husband and I left the home of 30years in Southern California and so many happy memories there. We relinquished about 75% of our stuff. OK maybe 65%. We parked our 5th wheel in a campground for 7 months until we found a home without wheels. We love living in wine country!! Sonoma is more beautiful than I could ever imagine. And I live on the same large property as my daughter and grandson. I have a small well lit art studio and large garden. Life can be a dream if you’re willing to make changes and let go. Just go!
Love your story! How brave you are! Taking a leap of faith and surrendering to the universe. Divine intervention! 💖🙏. Wishing you all the best! 💖🙏 Inspirational!! 💖🙏🇨🇦
It’s amazing to me to see how I’m so different. I moved many times and I ALWAYS get rid of everything. And start fresh. I have ZERO attachment to photos any kind of memorabilia.
We went through a similar process a few years back (just prior to COVID). It was so hard to go from 2 homes (with acreage & a horse) to a small pod. But worth it! We are very comfortable with less "stuff" and I know it sounds weird but we also had a sense of "liberation" once the process was complete. One of our angels (in the process) adopted my geriatric horse. What a gift! We are now happily retired in Mexico. Best of luck to you and your wife.
Beautiful! I became disabled in my 40's and so my dreams like these have been on hold for 15 years.Not sure if a disabled person would be welcomed to immigrate to another country. Never wait. You never know your future
Loved this video! I’m 65 and a single woman. I’m planning my move to Portugal end of October, so I’m in the purge pack stage to determine what to take with me. I also have a little dog, so I’ve gone through the USDA process before when I last traveled to Portugal. I especially loved your message about getting rid of “stuff”! It make life very freeing when you can travel light. Good for you!
What a story! It must be so hard to make a decision like this! I feel very inspired and wish a lot of happiness for you both in this new life in Europe. I can't wait to see your adventures there.
As others have also said, this resonated with me. I am in the process of final packing (shipping has already left) to move to Spain. Same issues with the memory stuff, especially piles of music scores of unfinished work I keep thinking I will get back to. Very artfully edited as well. Great video.
The amount of possessions that you are keeping is astronomical. I’m 66, when I move, all books are donated, furniture sold or given away. Clothes fit in a small suitcase and a medium moving box. No photos, albums or chatchkes
I am really loving your content. We too are in our 50s having lived in 7 countries around the world. We fell in love with Portugal many years ago and planned on buyIng a propery. there and spending part of every year there, and unfortunately life has taken us out of that dream for now. It will happen but videos and reflections like yours put it all into perspective. I love hearing you share your thoughts. Keep up the great work. Greetings from Australia!
Thank you Eldon! Will continue sharing our journey and discoveries. Wish for you guys to make your dream come true. Just keep your focus and intention on it. Take care and all the best!
So many people want to visit Australia! My 20 year old cockatiel is sitting on my lap as I type this, lol. Greetings from Canada! Hopefully, one day, you will travel to Canada or have you already visited?
I love this channel! I’m also in my 50s with 2 sons and a RUclips channel. It’s great to see a successful family enjoying the victory lap of there lives. Best of luck to you guys.
Thank you. I needed this. I am going through this myself, except without the move out of country . It is A LOT, HUGE. I am older than you, and my husband passed 2 years ago. Still, I will do this... it will be ok.
Just yesterday I was trying to get rid of some of the tons of stuff we have that we don't really need or use. I managed to box up box up some Christmas mugs and candle holders to donate. And I was exhausted in the end by all the memories and choices to be made. But it's a start. One step at a time. I have to keep telling myself that "it's only stuff."
I am facing a big decision whether to move to a country I truly feel at home, but recently got a bit scared and discouraged. This video might just be the push I needed. Thank you, wishing you all the best, looking forward to your Portuguese journey!
Hi. My husband and I are both from Los Angeles. The San Fernando Valley. He also went to Grant HS. Anyway, We moved to Merida Yucatán almost 8 years ago. We absolutely love it. We totally understand everything you talk about in your videos. What a process it was. Our children are still in Los Angeles but love visiting us here. Good for you guys. It’s a wonderful experience!! Bueno suerte!!
Welcome to Portugal! 😃Congratulations and wishing you all the best with what's next in the process. I just recently moved as well and can resonate a lot with what you talked about (even though for me it was just from one street to another 😂). It's a lot of stress but somehow everything seems to come together by the end if you trust your plan and show resilience. Awesome to know that Nathaniel's parents are wandering around here on the northern coast of Portugal. You'll certainly have time to get to know more and more of our beautiful country, but I really have to recommend you visit the Douro Valley region 👀❤ Abraços!
This is truly an inspiring video. Thank you for sharing. When you said you soon realised that this was more than you, l knew exactly what you meant. My husband and are in our fifties and planning to travel for 3 to 6 months of the year. Travel or picking up and starting again is not just for the younger ones. We got this 💪🏾. I look forward to your future videos. I wish you all the very best 👊🏾
Thanks for sharing the emotional complexities of your experience. Your whole family’s introspection and intentionality resonates with me so much. I’m an American who has been living in Brazil for 3 years. I’m struggling deeply with not knowing where I’m supposed to be in the world. There are so many people and aspects of living here that would break my heart to leave, but I feel inherently incompatible with Brazilian culture, coupled with the growing weight of all the inconveniences of living in a developing country. I feel an attachment to Brazil, an unexpectedly strong calling to my hometown in Northern California, and a persistent desire to return to Buenos Aires, a city that was like a soulmate to me in a way no other place has ever been. Excited to keep following your journey.
Thank you so much for your very kind words. Sounds like you have your heart in different places, but where you feel the most connected is Buenos Aires. I would head back there and spend some time and see how that goes! It’s all an adventure anyway, right?
its true when we let go of our resistance and allow space for miracles, big and small, it works out, eventually. Like you i have seen this first-hand many times it doesn't only change our course its changes us, feeling blessed and grateful. thanks for posting this video and speaking from the heart. i too see myself in Portugal one day, soon. Thankfully I've never been a hoarder of any type and now I own just enough to fit one normal size lock-up. My life feels lighter because of this. I'm not attached not even to my house and I own it. Love, life and laughter are my jewels. xx
I very much look forward to following your journey here. It’s clear you put a lot of thought into each word you express, while also creating visually beautiful content. A few years ago, I chose to leave a lifetime in Michigan to relocate to my son’s family’s driveway in L.A. with my travel trailer. Being close to my two grandsons is priceless. Family and community ties usually play a big part in making these life-altering decisions, but culture, values, and lifestyle are no less important. In the end, we weigh all the factors and make the best choice for us. Always, at any age or stage of life, it is our choice. Thank you for reminding us of this. More, please!
So glad I came across this channel! I leave for South Korea in two weeks, and I still have so much packing and discarding to do. You showed me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Everything will work out. So excited to follow your adventures!!!
It's amazing how life works in your favor! This video resonated with me. Too many times in my life when things that seem to be impossible becomes possible, then you realize you are being guided, watched over, and loved! It just brings about an unbelievable joy!!
100% everything you say about moving. Have done many moves domestically (often to be near adult children) and they all worked out in the end, despite the ongoing stress and anxiety. Looking back, you wonder how. Good luck in Portugal and being close to your children must be very exciting for you. In the end, it is all that matters.
Hello I just found you again somehow RUclips took me off of following you, but anyways I am so happy that you have accomplished your goal and you are now in your country of choice that’s for my mother‘s family came from, I do wish to go travel and see this part of the world one day as well, so keep on having a beautiful life and may your two beautiful sons be safe as well and thank you for introducing your beautiful pup honey. When I decide to move I have to take my pets to I have two pups and one kitten and My Other Son has one kitty as well. Happy traveling and happy new life. Rosemary Hoffman from Long Beach, Calif.
I am a single, 62 year old woman preparing to move to Ireland from Portland, OR this year. I have been dreaming of doing this for a few years now and just decided last month to take the plunge. Wheee! Thanks for your videos which have been so inspiring.
@@jojo-pq5lo No, I don't, but my mother did and both sides of my family trace all of their roots in Ireland. I have spent many years going back spending a month or more at a time and have made good friends. It is scary, but you only live once!
I happened to find your video by chance this morning as I sat here worried about my upcoming sale of our house and move that we still have no apartment for. I've been in my head for weeks and this is what I needed. God works in mysterious ways. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight. Absolutely amazing. I actually feel better now.
Ran across this video today as I was trying to answer the question what next. Thank you. This was exactly what I needed to see. I look forward to following your adventures.
I’m amazed by all of the comments of others who are moving abroad. That is part of my future plans and listening to your story was a wonderful reminder of why I shouldn’t be scared or listen to what others think about my plans. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Much love and respect to you both.
Josh you have a beautiful family and a really special gift of sharing stories. You are also a magnet for amazing experiences. I am so happy that everything has worked out for the good and am cheering for you success in prospering in Portugal! Thanks for showing us that this type of vision is possible with determination, will and a prayer 🙏🏾! “Stay Peaceful, Stay Healthy and Stay Nature’al” ~ ✌🏾🌲
I've been lucky to travel all over the world. Some places impacted me in a way that "changed" me -albeit temporarily-but what I learned is that "Wherever You Go, There You Are" ~John Kabat-Zinn.
Hello! I've been nwatching your son's anventures for a couple of years now and I must say that I'm flattered that you guys would choose our lovely Coimbra over any other place for the time being! I'm actually a student and lived in coimbra my entire life, it has it's flaws but it's still a great place to be, hope your enjoy ur time here and if anything just ask, people are usually very nice!
Wow. Looking at your absolutely gorgeous home, I’m really impressed you could leave it. Your new home in Europe will be so amazing. I hope you show us a video of the end result!
I am a nomad with 4 t-shirts, 1 jean, and discovering the world so far 27 countries. My travel partner born below a tree in the Moroccan desert, and he is from a nomadic Berber family! Life brought us together, and since then everything has become more magic! Exploring Africa at the moment 😃 We definitely understand you guys, and keep going! Everything manifest in life not the way we want it, but what it is meant to be Love&light ✨🙏🏻🤍
Thank you my fellow Matadors! Your story inspires me to get rid of the comic books, Star Wars collection, sell the houses, water toys etc. I know it’s easier said than done, feels so overwhelming….especially being alone and trying to figure out how to bring my dog.
Bring your dog!! The process seems complicated but its simpler then it seems. However you do need 6 months for the microchip, rabies shot, post rabies test and paperwork and passport.
I am in the process of ridding all items including wasteful storage costs… Decided to keep the memories and live my life only. Hopeful to relo to NZ with my kids and build a tiny home. Purging is so Zen and cleansing.
My husband and I just watched your video; LOVED IT!!!!! We too are in our 50's, and are planning to retire early in 2024 and live outside the US. You and your wife are lovely, and we look forward to seeing more of your adventures.
Really nice video. We are right in the thick of it now. We are also from Portland. We are currently getting rid of most of our stuff-selling some and giving away car loads every day. Our plan is to travel full time so we don’t have the moving issues. Both my wife and I are still working full time as corporate attorneys so it is a bit stressful. I really appreciated your showing the reality, which includes stress and uncertainty. It reinforces that even with the struggle there is light at the end.
So many memories for me in this video. In 1993, at 40, I resigned my position of 21 years, sold my home, cleared away everything I had managed to acquire in only 20 years; still a lot with a growing son who had been putting trash bags of his unwanted items in the attic-Surprise!! I moved to St Croix with only suitcases and twenty boxes. And in 2019 I moved once again back stateside and kept only a few larger items in a storage shed which I paid for upfront. And in August 2021 went back and cleared out all the remaining items. Put together a pallet for shipping to TN, where I had a Tiny built. To this day I continue to live as small and with as little as possible. Only what’s needed! And it is perfect. A 19’ travel trailer in a RV resort in FL and a Tiny escape in TN. And in two months taking off for Barcelona. And my end of November I will be in Barbados. From there thr plans are evolving. I’ve loved to travel and plan to do so for a very long time. Congratulations on your Portugal move. It is the country I have chosen should I decide to move further away from states again. Blessings.
I have never commented on any you tube video, but had to comment on yours. Wonderful videos! Please do more! Have a great deal of admiration for all you both have accomplished and will accomplish in Portugal. Loved the part of how the mind thinks a certain way based on past data, but that is limited and we can’t let ourselves succumb to this. That resonated a lot with me. The truth is there are endless wonderful possibilities that await us in any given situation.
"Stuff will own you" - Thanks so much - I'm going through similar thing, selling my house (family home of 18 years) so i can live and travel in a van. I am having a very similar experience. Enjoy your new life in Portugal!
We moved from California to Scotland and shipped our homes contents at a great expense it was worth it as all my furniture and home items are unique,we also brought our rescue dog with us and it was easy I had researched one year before we travelled so had plenty time to have all the relevant documents and vaccines done ,it wouldn’t put me off doing it again ,life is all about experiences ,hope you are enjoying your adventures xx
your video popped up on my roku with am coffee at just the right time...so inspiring...thanks for the honesty , the nitty gritty the sharing of the stress. presented in a way that gives hope and calmness and support. Thank you!!
I’m taking notes, MANY notes. My husband and I will be doing this once we are retired. I could relate to everything in your video. You are helping so many people by uploading this. Keep em coming!!!💞🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience. It is already so stressful enough and here you are doing a video. We are planning on retiring in Spain where my brother and his family live. We have already sold most of our “stuff”. Now it’s just the personal things. Yes we have to trust the universe. We wish you the best. Taking deep breaths will be our habit.
Thanks for sharing your story. Please keep it up. I watched each of your videos by myself and then again with my husband. We are two years behind you, so I'm taking notes and making plans. Wishing you continued joy even during the hard bits as you lean into this new life.
OMG!!! Moving sure does SUCK, MAJORLY! You never know how much stuff you have until you have to move. I sold my home and I'm currently going through the exact same process RIGHT NOW! Posting things online to sell, trying to figure out what to keep, what to throw away and what to donate. It's a COMPLETE mess. My house right now looks like a war zone. I can't take it but I know it must get done. Boxes and containers are piled up everywhere. Now having to find a storage, not to mention a good place to lay my head next! LORD HELP ME 🙏🙏🥺🥺
Great video! My husband and I have moved to different countries and we know about all the stress, excitement, and expectations that are felt all at once.
I freaking love your energy and spirit! You and your wife are amazing! Love the truths of the struggles in your journey but adore your positive attitude. I clearly don't know you at all, but instantly see you and your wife's kind heart and ability to see the bigger picture in life. Experiences are worth ten times the physical possessions. So excited to watch your journey. Thank you for sharing such intimate aspects of your personal life. For the true travel addicts like myself, I am grateful for the open door you provide and all the work and energy that goes into it. I truly wish many blessings on your new chapter and the greatest happiness for your whole family!
Thank you for sharing! for some reason your vlog brought me tears because even being a psychotherapist / counselor / life coach myself I feel the process of downsizing has been much slower than I was hoping for and at times daunting, although liberating when it is successful... love your storytelling style.
I wish my parents were this cool… oh wait 😅 You’re making such brave decisions and I love how honestly you’re sharing the process! This was so well made and an incredible reminder on the importance of checking in with our relationship to our possessions.
Haha. Thanks, your words mean a lot. Even though we talk about all this all the time, there's something special about reading your comment here. And more so on Father's Day. 😊
that is the first time I saw parents following the steps of their son. Ya I would like to have such parents...
what makes me have more admiration is how supportive you all are with each other
@@nemmmm2208 mother here. I already planned to follow my daughter when I will be retired and she will have her child (which of course will take years from now, but anyway...). And yes, she knows about my plan and loves it. :-) She lives 1 hour away now but the universe knows where she will be going after university, so ... it might be anywhere! :-D
I love how you comment, and every time I wonder "who is this guy" until I realize who you are. :-)
These ARE some VERY cool parents! Thanks for the recommendation, and I will continue to watch. At some point I hope we hear more about the composer part...one composer to another of course...
I’m a 61 year old single woman who just sold her dream home to move to Belize. Rather than selling everything, which was completely overwhelming, I decided to donate it to charity. I did keep a few special, sentimental pieces and put those in storage. At the end of six months I will make a final decision of whether I want to dispose of those things, give it to Family, or ship it to Belize. I’m only taking three suitcases to a furnished house. I’m spending the next few weeks visiting family in the US before I fly to Belize in July. Portugal was my second choice, if I’m unhappy I take comfort in knowing that I can always move on to another country. But my life has to be about continuing to grow and having adventures and international living is the solution for me.
Sounds excellent to me! Wishing you all the very best.
Good luck! I’m sure you will find the place that fits you well.
so it's been a month. How are things going? I haven't make that huge of a leap yet, but I have compressed all my belongings to one bedroom and rent out the rest of my house to a long time friend to 'house sit' on a permanent basis. I just can't give up the security of my home just yet.
Good for you! I hope you enjoy your new home!!
Wow that is a brave move
Well it's all about planning well
Best wishes mate
"Attachment is a bitch." Truer words have never been spoken. My wife and I are nearing our 50s and are planning to take the leap and move back to Germany where she's from. It's refreshing to see others do it and succeed. You are an inspiration to many!!
Sehr schön. Willkommen in Deutschland💕
DO.IT.
Oh my goodness we are trying to do the same thing... good luck and keep us posted 👍
I don't think that attachment is a bitch... I don't understand why they got rid of family photos and music sheets! That's what makes yourself you! Clothes and furnitures, you can buy anywhere, but other things are priceless!
I got rid of 99% of my belongings (car included) in my 60's and moved to Florence, Italy, BY MYSELF, in 2017. I acquired my Italian citizenship last year and I have NEVER been happier. Stuff is just that, STUFF. I had come here for college in 2015, studied two years, then returned to California with an empty check in bag. If I couldn't get things in that bag or the ones I carried on the plane, it was goodbye. I had a storage unit FILLED with all my stuff - furniture, kitchen ware, electronics, etc.. My mantra was "when in doubt - throw it out"!
Wow
Good one!
You can't take is with you and it free's up your life !!!
Question: What are your retirement and end of life plans? Who will take care of you in Florence when you are too old to take care of yourself, and make all your major life decisions?
How many years were you required to live in Italy for citizenship?
My children and grandchildren also live overseas. I’m 71, recently widowed and facing some of the issues you raise in this incredibly inspiring, yet down to earth video. I’m wanting anew start nearer to them, so a big Thank you for sharing your move with the world.
I’ve been ‘here’ before, but now I’m doing it on my own - which is at the core of my new adventure. Fifteen years ago, when my late husband retired we moved from California to the East Coast. I well remember that period of letting go of so much stuff in and surging forth to rebuild a life that I now am getting ready to free myself from. Some of it left with my husband’s death and now I want to re-embrace whatever my new life will bring. I’d mistakenly thought that I’d made our ‘forever’ home in a lovely community near the kids, but it all changed. I’m doing this step cautiously, because I suspect radical independent moves don’t get repeated too often at my age.
Whatever the days ahead bring, I’m grateful for the knowledge that others are doing this sort of thing too. Whether the motivation is a feeling of being stuck or a full stop like illness and death; if you’re the one still standing, it’s never too late to get going again.
I know this post was from a year ago. Just wondering how things worked out for you, and if you ended up making the move. Wishing you all the best
I remember reading once that “life ends when you put the slippers on”… meaning comfort can dampen the magic in life, so this is refreshing to see an honest window into inviting that magic back in
Nicely put :)
Comfort might be yr magic. Its all dependent on yr outlook i suppose. I'm always looking for things that give me comfort. I wish i was more adaptable but its not who i am.
This is why every year or every other year I go through every room and closet and declutter. I cannot imagine going through 40 years of "stuff" all at once
What a great idea! I'm going thru 16 years of stuff right now. I read a book about Swedish Death Cleaning. Once I finish, I'll go thru yearly.... And in the meantime, I'll be a lot more careful about what I purchase!
This resonated with me quite a bit and I will admit I shed some tears watching this. My husband and I just moved from the west coast to back east, and we threw out two truck loads of possessions. We tried to donate a lot of it but thrift stores are overflowing with crap and no one would take stuff without a great amount of negotiating, so we finally just called up one of those junk pick up services and let them throw it all in a truck and drive off with it. It was such a liberating feeling to let go of things we have clung onto for years. You said "Attachment is a bitch" and you aren't kidding. It literally robs us of our freedom and our lives. If we measured the value of things by the time we put into researching, buying, maintaining, moving and using our things instead of just the dollar amount it cost to buy them, I doubt we would buy and own as much as we do. Having said all that, I admire you greatly for taking such a risk at this stage of your lives and I am totally envious. I think you've made a great decision and I look forward following your adventures.
Thank you, Lane. :) Can you believe how hard it is these days to donate?? It's maddening. Good on you to get rid of so much. There's so much to learn about possessions. I think it's a lifetime's process.
@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT - it's near impossible to donate anything, the world is becoming full of everything. I'm from Eastern Europe but I can't take anything to my country, people seem to have it all ! Apart from money, that is, so, the lesson here is simple, let's think twice before buying on impulse. As a woman, I would like to buy some new clothes but...where would I store them and when would I wear them. The same goes for everything else. So, airplane and train tickets seem a better investment in our 'golden years'.
Never seen your channel, wasn't very interested in your lives or moving to Portugal but you managed to turn this video about moving into a masterpiece.
Same... downsized from a 4 bedroom house in the UK to 4 suitcases and moved to Portugal. BEST decision.
Oh my! This video brought back so many memories. 3 years ago, at age 67, I sold my house and business in South Africa to move with 3 suitcases and my dog to Panama 🇵🇦. And I was still working full time until 6 weeks before I left. Doing all the sorting and clearing of 50 years of living.... getting rid of photos and my kids' "art work" was the hardest.
I now live a simple quiet life (with my aged dog) and have learned so many lessons. Particularly about Attachment to STUFF!!! Good luck in your relocation. Glad there were 2 of you doing the clearing.... it helps!!!
My hubby and I moved from SA To Germany with 5 suitcases and our kitty Sid
Congrats. How is it going in Panama? I plan to move there also but this stuff, omg. Don't know where to begin to get rid of this stuff.
Wow Joy! I’m impressed. Making this type of move alone is no joke! Good for you!
Once again. Love the video. I've had to move my parents 3 times this year for different reasons. My father is wonderful but a complete hoarder. Everyday was a never ending challenge. I could not see the end but kept plugging away. They are now finally settled and happy in a 2 bedroom apartment. The end is finally in site! The little angels you mentioned are so true. They. appear when you need them for sure.
You made me laugh re: your Dad, although I know there's really nothing funny about it. Glad you made it! Again! Hope they stay settled for a while now. 🙂 All the best.
So I'm living the opposite process, of moving from Portugal to the US and despite being younger, I still relate with so many things in this video. The chaos, the stress, but ultimately the belief that everything will turn out ok. Looking forward to seeing more of your adventures in my country and I hope it's everything you hope for and more. Also a tip, try to look at smaller locations for your permanent home, because Portugal being so small has this advantage: even a remote village that will be cheaper and more "homely" will still potentially be just 30 mins away from other bigger cities. You have a lot of that near Coimbra, places that will be halfway between Aveiro, Coimbra, Porto but won't be too crowded or busy. Anyway, great video, loved to watch it!
Thanks so much, Kat! And for the great tip. Stay tuned for more. :)
This story resonates with me. Four years ago, my husband and I relocated 2000 miles away from Seattle. We only brought 2 suitcases, our electronics, important documents and of course our beloved beautiful mini schnauzers and a car full of stuff. It was very liberating to donate, sell, gift and throw away stuff. The amazing thing was that it ocurred to me to advertise on Craigslist "all house contents for sale for a flat fee". Incredible as it sounds, a nice gentleman shows up with $3,000 USD and a moving truck to free us from all our furniture, kitchen gadgets (pots and pans included). If you do the math, it is cheaper and infinitely simpler to buy things again than it is to haul your stuff 2000 miles away. Doing this saved us a lot of work, stress and a variety of logistic nightmares. It was also very exciting to go shopping for new furniture and have all new decor!!! We took our time to furnish our new home. It was fun to score great bargains via classified ads. It is unbelievable the number of great quality items your can get for pennies on the dollar (or free!)if you are patient. Good luck to all who read this! 👍
This resonated with me so hard. It's truly unbelievable how much stuff and clutter we accumulate over the years. Getting rid of some stuff is easy, but those "memory boxes" like you said are the most difficult. Moving does suck, but what comes after can be awesome!
What stuff does to us, huh? Reminds me of George Carlin talking about it, haha. If you've never seen/heard it, check it out. 🤣
It can be awesome so long as you dont start accumulating stuff again!
I'm planning on leaving the US next year for Portugal as well! I cannot wait to follow y'alls journey! Thank you or sharing such beautiful videos!
Sounds wonderful, best of luck. And thanks for the kind words!
Sounds like Portugal is getting filled up with Americans. Hope they will adapt and respect, instead of imposing and opportunistic monetizing, and not ruin the culture.
@@ana419 Yep, I am afraid this won’t happen. But a lot of Portuguese already move out the country because of the financial crises from 2008.
@@KristynaStefanova Have they not moved back since 2008? Still, I dont think it was a mass exodus. May Portugal remain intact. It was once a hidden remote corner of Europe that remained pristine.
@@ana419 I met a lot of Portuguese in France back in 2018 and they told me this. Since then they might move back for more job opportunities, I don’t know.
Your video made me cry with the story about earth angels assisting you into having everything fall into place. Such a powerful message of trust and belief! Wow.
Wow! This video was suggested randomly out of nowhere at exactly the right time, as I am currently completely overwhelmed by the idea of moving, how to move, where to move, what to do with all my stuff.. I cried tears of relief and joy listening to your advice - you are my random angel today! 🥰🙏
Wow, I’m really happy for your guys and this video is awesome, the clips, the rhythm! I also feel so inspired by your storytelling skills 💫 Greetings from France 🇫🇷
Thank you, Adrianne! :)
I am so impressed that you managed to do all of that in 40 days. I moved from a larger house to a tiny cottage that I built and got rid of most of my things as well.I will never accumulate a lot of stuff again.Becoming minimalist is so freeing! My space feels so open and fresh and there is now room for me to grow.Congratulations on your exciting journey.I love this channel and your Butter is one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen.
My last day, here on a small island in the north atlantic, on my way to Spain. This was a great video , thank you...selling , donating and the hardest was having yo throw things away. Im a single woman almost 68 yrs old, and had to go through, by myself, years of stuff, that the ppl who lived with me, just walk away, my children, my ex husband, businesses, charities, all the things that were stored in my house. Its hard, its sad, but also rewarding and relief, to dis attach from all these things. Onward to my new adventure
We moved from Cali to Portugal with my partner 3 months into pregnancy with 2 massive dogs (so had to do kennel training on top of it). Same thing, sold all our things, our cars, and got on the plane with only 2 suitcases each (we wanted to start fresh and the cost of containers was equivalent to re-buying everything new on the other side). Can so relate to this video. Doing all this while my partner was having morning sickness (which doesn't stop in the morning btw), was A LOT. Continuing the journey on the other side in Portugal was a lot too! We airbnb'd for months before we finally found a stable long term lease. But now we're so grateful for tour new life and so proud of ourselves for having cleared so much energetically for the arrival of our tiny baby 🙂
PS: your journey with paperwork is not over once you're in Portugal. Adminstration was a real pain in the butt for months after our arrival. It is a beautiful country but get ready for some of the most mismanaged administrations in the developed world. Some processes have delays of up to 2 years. Safe travels and many blessings.
Thank you! And wow, what a story of your own. I know exactly what you mean by a whole other approach to administration here. Oh boy. Anyway, you mentioning how it all really paid off in the end, in spite of (and because of?) all the hard work, put a big smile on my face. All the best to you guys. 😊
why Portugal?
@@bernadettebohan5822 You can live there for cheap with good quality of life.
@@bernadettebohan5822 Do you know Portugal?
One of the most mismanaged administrations of d. world? How do you know? Have you been in a similar situation in other countries which would enable you to make a fair comparison? In fact, I have seen written by several people that emigrants have to face very complicated bureaucracy when moving to the States.
I'm not planning on moving in the foreseeable future-nor do I have the means to do so-but thank you for your video. Your perspective on life and how to face and deal with stressful situations and unknowns hit home with me. I wish you, your wife, and your little dog the best in Europe.
You two are so inspiring! I’m in my 50’s as well. Building up my copywriting business so that I can make the move to Portugal. I love Portugal so much. The landscapes, the people, the food, the weather…everything. ❤️
Hi Jacqueline, I'm a copywriter in my 50s looking to move to Italy 😀 I've started connecting with RUclipsrs based in Italy (mostly North Americans and Italians) who are marketing services to English speakers looking to buy property and/or move there. It's a way to start building my network there before I move. If you haven't done so yet, you could do the same in Portugal! If you don't mind, I'd love to connect with you on LI 🙏🏼
Thank you for the nice words and for loving my country! 😊
For anyone out there who needs to hear this - rest is not a distraction, it is absolutely necessary
A truly inspiring video! Thank you for being so open sharing your wisdom around life, its challenges and solutions when we both "pluck" ourselves and trust the process. I'm glad I found your channel a couple months ago (there are no coincidences). The best wishes moving to Portugal! It is a beautiful country! 🤩
Thank you so much!! ❤️
When I decided to go long-term to Japan, I just told myself from the beginning that if something works out, it was meant to be. If not, I just needed to sit down and figure out what went wrong and why. Fortunately, I started long before I set an actual date. My miracle was when my niece’s husband (whom I barely knew) told his uncle (whom I didn’t know at all), who had been in the Peace Corps, about my plan. This uncle knew some Japanese people from his Peace Corps days who had an online newsletter. They invited me to submit a little article telling where I wanted to go, what I wanted to do, and why, and to invite English-speaking Japanese people to write to me. I ended up with six pen pals with whom I exchanged emails for six months before I went. I was able to meet three of them, stayed with two for short periods, and one became a very good friend. Serendipity!
When I saw the title, I immediately thought about my memory boxes. I plan on moving to Australia next year, and getting rid of those boxes will probably be the hardest part for me. I know that technically you can take photos and still keep them with you, but it is not the same, right?. In any case, it's nice seeing you going through the process. I hope you keep on sharing this journey. This channel is amazing!
Thank you so much for your support, Natalia! 🙏
I love your video! The home and property you left behind was so beautiful, but what an adventure you embarked upon! My husband and I left the home of 30years in Southern California and so many happy memories there. We relinquished about 75% of our stuff. OK maybe 65%. We parked our 5th wheel in a campground for 7 months until we found a home without wheels. We love living in wine country!! Sonoma is more beautiful than I could ever imagine. And I live on the same large property as my daughter and grandson. I have a small well lit art studio and large garden. Life can be a dream if you’re willing to make changes and let go. Just go!
How absolutely refreshingly fearlessly humorously lovingly really spiritually candid!!! An original. Thank you!!!
Love your story! How brave you are! Taking a leap of faith and surrendering to the universe. Divine intervention! 💖🙏. Wishing you all the best! 💖🙏 Inspirational!! 💖🙏🇨🇦
“Attachment is a bitch” should be your first merch line on a T-shirt. Brilliant!!!
It’s amazing to me to see how I’m so different. I moved many times and I ALWAYS get rid of everything. And start fresh. I have ZERO attachment to photos any kind of memorabilia.
We went through a similar process a few years back (just prior to COVID). It was so hard to go from 2 homes (with acreage & a horse) to a small pod. But worth it! We are very comfortable with less "stuff" and I know it sounds weird but we also had a sense of "liberation" once the process was complete. One of our angels (in the process) adopted my geriatric horse. What a gift! We are now happily retired in Mexico. Best of luck to you and your wife.
Please keep the content coming 👏 Watching your journey is giving me a boost of energy.
Will do! Thank you so much. :)
Beautiful! I became disabled in my 40's and so my dreams like these have been on hold for 15 years.Not sure if a disabled person would be welcomed to immigrate to another country. Never wait. You never know your future
I just can't imagine leaving such a beautiful , cozy & picturesque home. I do understand it, but wow the sacrifice is admirable.
Tough but necessary. :) Don't worry, we'll recreate it here in France... Stay tuned!
Loved this video! I’m 65 and a single woman. I’m planning my move to Portugal end of October, so I’m in the purge pack stage to determine what to take with me. I also have a little dog, so I’ve gone through the USDA process before when I last traveled to Portugal.
I especially loved your message about getting rid of “stuff”! It make life very freeing when you can travel light. Good for you!
What a story! It must be so hard to make a decision like this! I feel very inspired and wish a lot of happiness for you both in this new life in Europe. I can't wait to see your adventures there.
Thank you. :)
As others have also said, this resonated with me. I am in the process of final packing (shipping has already left) to move to Spain. Same issues with the memory stuff, especially piles of music scores of unfinished work I keep thinking I will get back to. Very artfully edited as well. Great video.
Another composer, I see. :) Indeed, all the stuff we will eventually get back to that we never do. Thank you so much for the kind words! 🙏
The amount of possessions that you are keeping is astronomical. I’m 66, when I move, all books are donated, furniture sold or given away. Clothes fit in a small suitcase and a medium moving box. No photos, albums or chatchkes
This video is so well done. The home you had in Portland was gorgeous!
I am really loving your content. We too are in our 50s having lived in 7 countries around the world. We fell in love with Portugal many years ago and planned on buyIng a propery. there and spending part of every year there, and unfortunately life has taken us out of that dream for now. It will happen but videos and reflections like yours put it all into perspective. I love hearing you share your thoughts. Keep up the great work. Greetings from Australia!
Thank you Eldon! Will continue sharing our journey and discoveries. Wish for you guys to make your dream come true. Just keep your focus and intention on it. Take care and all the best!
So many people want to visit Australia! My 20 year old cockatiel is sitting on my lap as I type this, lol. Greetings from Canada! Hopefully, one day, you will travel to Canada or have you already visited?
So many gems in this video! Thank you for taking us with you! Looking forward to the next one. Safe travels!
Thank you so much! More soon, I promise.
I love this channel! I’m also in my 50s with 2 sons and a RUclips channel. It’s great to see a successful family enjoying the victory lap of there lives. Best of luck to you guys.
Thank you. I needed this.
I am going through this myself, except without the move out of country . It is A LOT, HUGE.
I am older than you, and my husband passed 2 years ago.
Still, I will do this... it will be ok.
Good luck!
We did that! We were 57 and moved with no attachments whatsoever to Tenerife. Revitalising. We are happy and healthy mid seventies now!
Just yesterday I was trying to get rid of some of the tons of stuff we have that we don't really need or use. I managed to box up box up some Christmas mugs and candle holders to donate. And I was exhausted in the end by all the memories and choices to be made. But it's a start. One step at a time. I have to keep telling myself that "it's only stuff."
I am facing a big decision whether to move to a country I truly feel at home, but recently got a bit scared and discouraged. This video might just be the push I needed. Thank you, wishing you all the best, looking forward to your Portuguese journey!
Thank you, and likewise! All the best to you on your next big move! Much love to you. 😄
Hi. My husband and I are both from Los Angeles. The San Fernando Valley. He also went to Grant HS. Anyway, We moved to Merida Yucatán almost 8 years ago. We absolutely love it. We totally understand everything you talk about in your videos. What a process it was. Our children are still in Los Angeles but love visiting us here. Good for you guys. It’s a wonderful experience!! Bueno suerte!!
Welcome to Portugal! 😃Congratulations and wishing you all the best with what's next in the process. I just recently moved as well and can resonate a lot with what you talked about (even though for me it was just from one street to another 😂). It's a lot of stress but somehow everything seems to come together by the end if you trust your plan and show resilience. Awesome to know that Nathaniel's parents are wandering around here on the northern coast of Portugal. You'll certainly have time to get to know more and more of our beautiful country, but I really have to recommend you visit the Douro Valley region 👀❤ Abraços!
Thank you, my friend!
You can't imagine how timely this all is. You both are only 50, relax and enjoy the ride.
This is truly an inspiring video. Thank you for sharing. When you said you soon realised that this was more than you, l knew exactly what you meant. My husband and are in our fifties and planning to travel for 3 to 6 months of the year. Travel or picking up and starting again is not just for the younger ones. We got this 💪🏾. I look forward to your future videos. I wish you all the very best 👊🏾
Dang right we can do this! Haha. Thank you, and likewise. :)
The narration of this experience is exceptionally good & concise!
Thanks for sharing the emotional complexities of your experience. Your whole family’s introspection and intentionality resonates with me so much. I’m an American who has been living in Brazil for 3 years. I’m struggling deeply with not knowing where I’m supposed to be in the world. There are so many people and aspects of living here that would break my heart to leave, but I feel inherently incompatible with Brazilian culture, coupled with the growing weight of all the inconveniences of living in a developing country. I feel an attachment to Brazil, an unexpectedly strong calling to my hometown in Northern California, and a persistent desire to return to Buenos Aires, a city that was like a soulmate to me in a way no other place has ever been. Excited to keep following your journey.
Thank you so much for your very kind words. Sounds like you have your heart in different places, but where you feel the most connected is Buenos Aires. I would head back there and spend some time and see how that goes! It’s all an adventure anyway, right?
its true when we let go of our resistance and allow space for miracles, big and small, it works out, eventually. Like you i have seen this first-hand many times it doesn't only change our course its changes us, feeling blessed and grateful. thanks for posting this video and speaking from the heart. i too see myself in Portugal one day, soon. Thankfully I've never been a hoarder of any type and now I own just enough to fit one normal size lock-up. My life feels lighter because of this. I'm not attached not even to my house and I own it. Love, life and laughter are my jewels. xx
I very much look forward to following your journey here. It’s clear you put a lot of thought into each word you express, while also creating visually beautiful content. A few years ago, I chose to leave a lifetime in Michigan to relocate to my son’s family’s driveway in L.A. with my travel trailer. Being close to my two grandsons is priceless. Family and community ties usually play a big part in making these life-altering decisions, but culture, values, and lifestyle are no less important. In the end, we weigh all the factors and make the best choice for us. Always, at any age or stage of life, it is our choice. Thank you for reminding us of this. More, please!
Thank you, Julie! Wise words. And absolutely, will do. 😊👍
So glad I came across this channel! I leave for South Korea in two weeks, and I still have so much packing and discarding to do. You showed me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Everything will work out. So excited to follow your adventures!!!
It's amazing how life works in your favor! This video resonated with me. Too many times in my life when things that seem to be impossible becomes possible, then you realize you are being guided, watched over, and loved! It just brings about an unbelievable joy!!
100% everything you say about moving. Have done many moves domestically (often to be near adult children) and they all worked out in the end, despite the ongoing stress and anxiety. Looking back, you wonder how. Good luck in Portugal and being close to your children must be very exciting for you. In the end, it is all that matters.
We could not live without them. ❤️ Thank you, and all the best to you.
Hello I just found you again somehow RUclips took me off of following you, but anyways I am so happy that you have accomplished your goal and you are now in your country of choice that’s for my mother‘s family came from, I do wish to go travel and see this part of the world one day as well, so keep on having a beautiful life and may your two beautiful sons be safe as well and thank you for introducing your beautiful pup honey. When I decide to move I have to take my pets to I have two pups and one kitten and My Other Son has one kitty as well. Happy traveling and happy new life.
Rosemary Hoffman from Long Beach, Calif.
Love your thinking .. we've never felt settled, just going through the same early process. Nice to know we're not alone. Great videos, thank you.
I am a single, 62 year old woman preparing to move to Ireland from Portland, OR this year. I have been dreaming of doing this for a few years now and just decided last month to take the plunge. Wheee! Thanks for your videos which have been so inspiring.
Do you have relatives in Ireland ?
@@jojo-pq5lo No, I don't, but my mother did and both sides of my family trace all of their roots in Ireland. I have spent many years going back spending a month or more at a time and have made good friends. It is scary, but you only live once!
I happened to find your video by chance this morning as I sat here worried about my upcoming sale of our house and move that we still have no apartment for. I've been in my head for weeks and this is what I needed. God works in mysterious ways. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight. Absolutely amazing. I actually feel better now.
Ran across this video today as I was trying to answer the question what next.
Thank you. This was exactly what I needed to see. I look forward to following your adventures.
Cant wait to see more of your experiences. You are going to have a great channel.
Thank you, Scott!! 🙏
I’m amazed by all of the comments of others who are moving abroad. That is part of my future plans and listening to your story was a wonderful reminder of why I shouldn’t be scared or listen to what others think about my plans. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Much love and respect to you both.
Josh you have a beautiful family and a really special gift of sharing stories. You are also a magnet for amazing experiences. I am so happy that everything has worked out for the good and am cheering for you success in prospering in Portugal! Thanks for showing us that this type of vision is possible with determination, will and a prayer 🙏🏾! “Stay Peaceful, Stay Healthy and Stay Nature’al” ~ ✌🏾🌲
Thank you, my friend! 🙏
I've been lucky to travel all over the world. Some places impacted me in a way that "changed" me -albeit temporarily-but what I learned is that "Wherever You Go, There You Are" ~John Kabat-Zinn.
How wonderful that you will not allow your dream to make the big move remain a dream deferred. All the very best
Indeed. Thanks, Eugene. I hope all is well with you and your family.
Hello! I've been nwatching your son's anventures for a couple of years now and I must say that I'm flattered that you guys would choose our lovely Coimbra over any other place for the time being! I'm actually a student and lived in coimbra my entire life, it has it's flaws but it's still a great place to be, hope your enjoy ur time here and if anything just ask, people are usually very nice!
Wow. Looking at your absolutely gorgeous home, I’m really impressed you could leave it. Your new home in Europe will be so amazing. I hope you show us a video of the end result!
Hey P! Thanks so much for all your support. And yes, absolutely will do! 😁❤️
I am a nomad with 4 t-shirts, 1 jean, and discovering the world so far 27 countries. My travel partner born below a tree in the Moroccan desert, and he is from a nomadic Berber family! Life brought us together, and since then everything has become more magic! Exploring Africa at the moment 😃
We definitely understand you guys, and keep going! Everything manifest in life not the way we want it, but what it is meant to be
Love&light ✨🙏🏻🤍
Nice! Thanks for your support. 🙏😁
Thank you my fellow Matadors! Your story inspires me to get rid of the comic books, Star Wars collection, sell the houses, water toys etc. I know it’s easier said than done, feels so overwhelming….especially being alone and trying to figure out how to bring my dog.
Bring your dog!! The process seems complicated but its simpler then it seems. However you do need 6 months for the microchip, rabies shot, post rabies test and paperwork and passport.
I am in the process of ridding all items including wasteful storage costs… Decided to keep the memories and live my life only. Hopeful to relo to NZ with my kids and build a tiny home. Purging is so Zen and cleansing.
I love following your stories! I keep telling my husband about you. We've got about 10 more years and we'll be downsizing to travel.
Thanks, and nice! Good luck planning for what's next.
I just moved house and I wholeheartedly relate to this!! I had to throw away so many cherished objects and leave my beloved home town.
My husband and I just watched your video; LOVED IT!!!!! We too are in our 50's, and are planning to retire early in 2024 and live outside the US. You and your wife are lovely, and we look forward to seeing more of your adventures.
Really nice video. We are right in the thick of it now. We are also from Portland. We are currently getting rid of most of our stuff-selling some and giving away car loads every day. Our plan is to travel full time so we don’t have the moving issues. Both my wife and I are still working full time as corporate attorneys so it is a bit stressful. I really appreciated your showing the reality, which includes stress and uncertainty. It reinforces that even with the struggle there is light at the end.
😊 Best of luck to you guys.
So many memories for me in this video. In 1993, at 40, I resigned my position of 21 years, sold my home, cleared away everything I had managed to acquire in only 20 years; still a lot with a growing son who had been putting trash bags of his unwanted items in the attic-Surprise!! I moved to St Croix with only suitcases and twenty boxes. And in 2019 I moved once again back stateside and kept only a few larger items in a storage shed which I paid for upfront. And in August 2021 went back and cleared out all the remaining items. Put together a pallet for shipping to TN, where I had a Tiny built. To this day I continue to live as small and with as little as possible. Only what’s needed! And it is perfect. A 19’ travel trailer in a RV resort in FL and a Tiny escape in TN. And in two months taking off for Barcelona. And my end of November I will be in Barbados. From there thr plans are evolving. I’ve loved to travel and plan to do so for a very long time.
Congratulations on your Portugal move. It is the country I have chosen should I decide to move further away from states again. Blessings.
I have never commented on any you tube video, but had to comment on yours. Wonderful videos! Please do more! Have a great deal of admiration for all you both have accomplished and will accomplish in Portugal. Loved the part of how the mind thinks a certain way based on past data, but that is limited and we can’t let ourselves succumb to this. That resonated a lot with me. The truth is there are endless wonderful possibilities that await us in any given situation.
"Stuff will own you" - Thanks so much - I'm going through similar thing, selling my house (family home of 18 years) so i can live and travel in a van. I am having a very similar experience. Enjoy your new life in Portugal!
Your philosophy is spot on imo. Be calm and carry on. Let the magic happen. I love that.
We moved from California to Scotland and shipped our homes contents at a great expense it was worth it as all my furniture and home items are unique,we also brought our rescue dog with us and it was easy I had researched one year before we travelled so had plenty time to have all the relevant documents and vaccines done ,it wouldn’t put me off doing it again ,life is all about experiences ,hope you are enjoying your adventures xx
your video popped up on my roku with am coffee at just the right time...so inspiring...thanks for the honesty , the nitty gritty the sharing of the stress. presented in a way that gives hope and calmness and support. Thank you!!
I take it you’re a fellow Paulo Coelho fan. Thanks for your content. Very timely as an inspiration for where I’m at on my journey.
I’m taking notes, MANY notes. My husband and I will be doing this once we are retired. I could relate to everything in your video. You are helping so many people by uploading this. Keep em coming!!!💞🥰
"Don't be afraid to be picky and go for what you want. If people are uncomfortable with it. That's their problem." ❤❤❤
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Thank you for sharing your experience. It is already so stressful enough and here you are doing a video. We are planning on retiring in Spain where my brother and his family live. We have already sold most of our “stuff”. Now it’s just the personal things. Yes we have to trust the universe. We wish you the best. Taking deep breaths will be our habit.
Thanks for sharing your story. Please keep it up. I watched each of your videos by myself and then again with my husband. We are two years behind you, so I'm taking notes and making plans. Wishing you continued joy even during the hard bits as you lean into this new life.
OMG!!! Moving sure does SUCK, MAJORLY! You never know how much stuff you have until you have to move. I sold my home and I'm currently going through the exact same process RIGHT NOW! Posting things online to sell, trying to figure out what to keep, what to throw away and what to donate. It's a COMPLETE mess. My house right now looks like a war zone. I can't take it but I know it must get done. Boxes and containers are piled up everywhere. Now having to find a storage, not to mention a good place to lay my head next! LORD HELP ME 🙏🙏🥺🥺
Yup. You’ve encapsulated it all so well in your comment. Hang in there! As I say in the video, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Always.
Wow. You are doing what I can only dream of. Have a wonderful adventure!!!
Portugal will welcome you into it's arms. You have been very courageous. I wish you all good things, you are lovely people ☺💜🌱💜🌱🐕
Great video! My husband and I have moved to different countries and we know about all the stress, excitement, and expectations that are felt all at once.
I freaking love your energy and spirit! You and your wife are amazing! Love the truths of the struggles in your journey but adore your positive attitude. I clearly don't know you at all, but instantly see you and your wife's kind heart and ability to see the bigger picture in life. Experiences are worth ten times the physical possessions. So excited to watch your journey. Thank you for sharing such intimate aspects of your personal life. For the true travel addicts like myself, I am grateful for the open door you provide and all the work and energy that goes into it. I truly wish many blessings on your new chapter and the greatest happiness for your whole family!
what a lovely comment. And I agree wholeheartedly!
Very high production quality - and wonderful storytelling. Thank you
Thank you for sharing! for some reason your vlog brought me tears because even being a psychotherapist / counselor / life coach myself I feel the process of downsizing has been much slower than I was hoping for and at times daunting, although liberating when it is successful... love your storytelling style.
I needed this video today. Thank you for making the effort.
This was such a great video. You are an amazing storyteller. Love how inspiring everything is. Waiting for the next vlog or video. 💛💛💛💛
Thank you, thank you. ❤️ Working on a shorter one that should be out much sooner than the others!
Hello.
Thank you for sharing.
Wishing you all the best. ❤️