I wish my parents were this cool… oh wait 😅 You’re making such brave decisions and I love how honestly you’re sharing the process! This was so well made and an incredible reminder on the importance of checking in with our relationship to our possessions.
Haha. Thanks, your words mean a lot. Even though we talk about all this all the time, there's something special about reading your comment here. And more so on Father's Day. 😊
that is the first time I saw parents following the steps of their son. Ya I would like to have such parents... what makes me have more admiration is how supportive you all are with each other
@@nemmmm2208 mother here. I already planned to follow my daughter when I will be retired and she will have her child (which of course will take years from now, but anyway...). And yes, she knows about my plan and loves it. :-) She lives 1 hour away now but the universe knows where she will be going after university, so ... it might be anywhere! :-D
These ARE some VERY cool parents! Thanks for the recommendation, and I will continue to watch. At some point I hope we hear more about the composer part...one composer to another of course...
I got rid of 99% of my belongings (car included) in my 60's and moved to Florence, Italy, BY MYSELF, in 2017. I acquired my Italian citizenship last year and I have NEVER been happier. Stuff is just that, STUFF. I had come here for college in 2015, studied two years, then returned to California with an empty check in bag. If I couldn't get things in that bag or the ones I carried on the plane, it was goodbye. I had a storage unit FILLED with all my stuff - furniture, kitchen ware, electronics, etc.. My mantra was "when in doubt - throw it out"!
Question: What are your retirement and end of life plans? Who will take care of you in Florence when you are too old to take care of yourself, and make all your major life decisions?
"Attachment is a bitch." Truer words have never been spoken. My wife and I are nearing our 50s and are planning to take the leap and move back to Germany where she's from. It's refreshing to see others do it and succeed. You are an inspiration to many!!
I don't think that attachment is a bitch... I don't understand why they got rid of family photos and music sheets! That's what makes yourself you! Clothes and furnitures, you can buy anywhere, but other things are priceless!
My children and grandchildren also live overseas. I’m 71, recently widowed and facing some of the issues you raise in this incredibly inspiring, yet down to earth video. I’m wanting anew start nearer to them, so a big Thank you for sharing your move with the world. I’ve been ‘here’ before, but now I’m doing it on my own - which is at the core of my new adventure. Fifteen years ago, when my late husband retired we moved from California to the East Coast. I well remember that period of letting go of so much stuff in and surging forth to rebuild a life that I now am getting ready to free myself from. Some of it left with my husband’s death and now I want to re-embrace whatever my new life will bring. I’d mistakenly thought that I’d made our ‘forever’ home in a lovely community near the kids, but it all changed. I’m doing this step cautiously, because I suspect radical independent moves don’t get repeated too often at my age. Whatever the days ahead bring, I’m grateful for the knowledge that others are doing this sort of thing too. Whether the motivation is a feeling of being stuck or a full stop like illness and death; if you’re the one still standing, it’s never too late to get going again.
I remember reading once that “life ends when you put the slippers on”… meaning comfort can dampen the magic in life, so this is refreshing to see an honest window into inviting that magic back in
Comfort might be yr magic. Its all dependent on yr outlook i suppose. I'm always looking for things that give me comfort. I wish i was more adaptable but its not who i am.
Never seen your channel, wasn't very interested in your lives or moving to Portugal but you managed to turn this video about moving into a masterpiece.
This story resonates with me. Four years ago, my husband and I relocated 2000 miles away from Seattle. We only brought 2 suitcases, our electronics, important documents and of course our beloved beautiful mini schnauzers and a car full of stuff. It was very liberating to donate, sell, gift and throw away stuff. The amazing thing was that it ocurred to me to advertise on Craigslist "all house contents for sale for a flat fee". Incredible as it sounds, a nice gentleman shows up with $3,000 USD and a moving truck to free us from all our furniture, kitchen gadgets (pots and pans included). If you do the math, it is cheaper and infinitely simpler to buy things again than it is to haul your stuff 2000 miles away. Doing this saved us a lot of work, stress and a variety of logistic nightmares. It was also very exciting to go shopping for new furniture and have all new decor!!! We took our time to furnish our new home. It was fun to score great bargains via classified ads. It is unbelievable the number of great quality items your can get for pennies on the dollar (or free!)if you are patient. Good luck to all who read this! 👍
We moved from Cali to Portugal with my partner 3 months into pregnancy with 2 massive dogs (so had to do kennel training on top of it). Same thing, sold all our things, our cars, and got on the plane with only 2 suitcases each (we wanted to start fresh and the cost of containers was equivalent to re-buying everything new on the other side). Can so relate to this video. Doing all this while my partner was having morning sickness (which doesn't stop in the morning btw), was A LOT. Continuing the journey on the other side in Portugal was a lot too! We airbnb'd for months before we finally found a stable long term lease. But now we're so grateful for tour new life and so proud of ourselves for having cleared so much energetically for the arrival of our tiny baby 🙂 PS: your journey with paperwork is not over once you're in Portugal. Adminstration was a real pain in the butt for months after our arrival. It is a beautiful country but get ready for some of the most mismanaged administrations in the developed world. Some processes have delays of up to 2 years. Safe travels and many blessings.
Thank you! And wow, what a story of your own. I know exactly what you mean by a whole other approach to administration here. Oh boy. Anyway, you mentioning how it all really paid off in the end, in spite of (and because of?) all the hard work, put a big smile on my face. All the best to you guys. 😊
One of the most mismanaged administrations of d. world? How do you know? Have you been in a similar situation in other countries which would enable you to make a fair comparison? In fact, I have seen written by several people that emigrants have to face very complicated bureaucracy when moving to the States.
My last day, here on a small island in the north atlantic, on my way to Spain. This was a great video , thank you...selling , donating and the hardest was having yo throw things away. Im a single woman almost 68 yrs old, and had to go through, by myself, years of stuff, that the ppl who lived with me, just walk away, my children, my ex husband, businesses, charities, all the things that were stored in my house. Its hard, its sad, but also rewarding and relief, to dis attach from all these things. Onward to my new adventure
This resonated with me so hard. It's truly unbelievable how much stuff and clutter we accumulate over the years. Getting rid of some stuff is easy, but those "memory boxes" like you said are the most difficult. Moving does suck, but what comes after can be awesome!
Wow! This video was suggested randomly out of nowhere at exactly the right time, as I am currently completely overwhelmed by the idea of moving, how to move, where to move, what to do with all my stuff.. I cried tears of relief and joy listening to your advice - you are my random angel today! 🥰🙏
I am so impressed that you managed to do all of that in 40 days. I moved from a larger house to a tiny cottage that I built and got rid of most of my things as well.I will never accumulate a lot of stuff again.Becoming minimalist is so freeing! My space feels so open and fresh and there is now room for me to grow.Congratulations on your exciting journey.I love this channel and your Butter is one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen.
Wow, I’m really happy for your guys and this video is awesome, the clips, the rhythm! I also feel so inspired by your storytelling skills 💫 Greetings from France 🇫🇷
Sounds like Portugal is getting filled up with Americans. Hope they will adapt and respect, instead of imposing and opportunistic monetizing, and not ruin the culture.
@@KristynaStefanova Have they not moved back since 2008? Still, I dont think it was a mass exodus. May Portugal remain intact. It was once a hidden remote corner of Europe that remained pristine.
@@ana419 I met a lot of Portuguese in France back in 2018 and they told me this. Since then they might move back for more job opportunities, I don’t know.
I'm not planning on moving in the foreseeable future-nor do I have the means to do so-but thank you for your video. Your perspective on life and how to face and deal with stressful situations and unknowns hit home with me. I wish you, your wife, and your little dog the best in Europe.
When I saw the title, I immediately thought about my memory boxes. I plan on moving to Australia next year, and getting rid of those boxes will probably be the hardest part for me. I know that technically you can take photos and still keep them with you, but it is not the same, right?. In any case, it's nice seeing you going through the process. I hope you keep on sharing this journey. This channel is amazing!
I love your video! The home and property you left behind was so beautiful, but what an adventure you embarked upon! My husband and I left the home of 30years in Southern California and so many happy memories there. We relinquished about 75% of our stuff. OK maybe 65%. We parked our 5th wheel in a campground for 7 months until we found a home without wheels. We love living in wine country!! Sonoma is more beautiful than I could ever imagine. And I live on the same large property as my daughter and grandson. I have a small well lit art studio and large garden. Life can be a dream if you’re willing to make changes and let go. Just go!
You two are so inspiring! I’m in my 50’s as well. Building up my copywriting business so that I can make the move to Portugal. I love Portugal so much. The landscapes, the people, the food, the weather…everything. ❤️
Hi Jacqueline, I'm a copywriter in my 50s looking to move to Italy 😀 I've started connecting with RUclipsrs based in Italy (mostly North Americans and Italians) who are marketing services to English speakers looking to buy property and/or move there. It's a way to start building my network there before I move. If you haven't done so yet, you could do the same in Portugal! If you don't mind, I'd love to connect with you on LI 🙏🏼
Your video made me cry with the story about earth angels assisting you into having everything fall into place. Such a powerful message of trust and belief! Wow.
Thank you. I needed this. I am going through this myself, except without the move out of country . It is A LOT, HUGE. I am older than you, and my husband passed 2 years ago. Still, I will do this... it will be ok.
It’s amazing to me to see how I’m so different. I moved many times and I ALWAYS get rid of everything. And start fresh. I have ZERO attachment to photos any kind of memorabilia.
A truly inspiring video! Thank you for being so open sharing your wisdom around life, its challenges and solutions when we both "pluck" ourselves and trust the process. I'm glad I found your channel a couple months ago (there are no coincidences). The best wishes moving to Portugal! It is a beautiful country! 🤩
I am really loving your content. We too are in our 50s having lived in 7 countries around the world. We fell in love with Portugal many years ago and planned on buyIng a propery. there and spending part of every year there, and unfortunately life has taken us out of that dream for now. It will happen but videos and reflections like yours put it all into perspective. I love hearing you share your thoughts. Keep up the great work. Greetings from Australia!
Thank you Eldon! Will continue sharing our journey and discoveries. Wish for you guys to make your dream come true. Just keep your focus and intention on it. Take care and all the best!
So many people want to visit Australia! My 20 year old cockatiel is sitting on my lap as I type this, lol. Greetings from Canada! Hopefully, one day, you will travel to Canada or have you already visited?
OMG!!! Moving sure does SUCK, MAJORLY! You never know how much stuff you have until you have to move. I sold my home and I'm currently going through the exact same process RIGHT NOW! Posting things online to sell, trying to figure out what to keep, what to throw away and what to donate. It's a COMPLETE mess. My house right now looks like a war zone. I can't take it but I know it must get done. Boxes and containers are piled up everywhere. Now having to find a storage, not to mention a good place to lay my head next! LORD HELP ME 🙏🙏🥺🥺
We went through a similar process a few years back (just prior to COVID). It was so hard to go from 2 homes (with acreage & a horse) to a small pod. But worth it! We are very comfortable with less "stuff" and I know it sounds weird but we also had a sense of "liberation" once the process was complete. One of our angels (in the process) adopted my geriatric horse. What a gift! We are now happily retired in Mexico. Best of luck to you and your wife.
As others have also said, this resonated with me. I am in the process of final packing (shipping has already left) to move to Spain. Same issues with the memory stuff, especially piles of music scores of unfinished work I keep thinking I will get back to. Very artfully edited as well. Great video.
100% everything you say about moving. Have done many moves domestically (often to be near adult children) and they all worked out in the end, despite the ongoing stress and anxiety. Looking back, you wonder how. Good luck in Portugal and being close to your children must be very exciting for you. In the end, it is all that matters.
Loved this video! I’m 65 and a single woman. I’m planning my move to Portugal end of October, so I’m in the purge pack stage to determine what to take with me. I also have a little dog, so I’ve gone through the USDA process before when I last traveled to Portugal. I especially loved your message about getting rid of “stuff”! It make life very freeing when you can travel light. Good for you!
I happened to find your video by chance this morning as I sat here worried about my upcoming sale of our house and move that we still have no apartment for. I've been in my head for weeks and this is what I needed. God works in mysterious ways. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight. Absolutely amazing. I actually feel better now.
Wow! Respect 🙏 I myself are selling and cleaning much of my stuff at the moment as well, but as a minimalist in a tiny home already, I own nothing compared to you 🙈 I do love the thrill of getting lighter and lighter, as days go by, when I either sell or donate stuff away. I plan on never owning much again... Because I get addicted to the feeling of lightness. I love it!!! 🤩🦅✈️
I love this channel! I’m also in my 50s with 2 sons and a RUclips channel. It’s great to see a successful family enjoying the victory lap of there lives. Best of luck to you guys.
I am facing a big decision whether to move to a country I truly feel at home, but recently got a bit scared and discouraged. This video might just be the push I needed. Thank you, wishing you all the best, looking forward to your Portuguese journey!
I retired in 2017 and went through a similar ordeal. My eureka moment was to throw out EVERYTHING that could not fit into two roller suitcases and a laptop bag. I chose not to sell, give away, or other wise delay my plan. I just tossed it all, even clothes and items I loved. In fairness, I do maintain a storage unit with personal items like documents and winter clothes since I travel in warm climates usually. But my possessions no longer own me as they once did and I am free to travel around the world as I please.
Over forty years ago I worked for a short time with a guy in his late 40s. He moved around the world a lot. Can't recall his name now but I remember him saying: What you can't fit into 2 large suitcases you don't need. Hasn't stopped me collecting a lot of junk. I just declutter the truly superfluous every few years.
What a story! It must be so hard to make a decision like this! I feel very inspired and wish a lot of happiness for you both in this new life in Europe. I can't wait to see your adventures there.
I’m amazed by all of the comments of others who are moving abroad. That is part of my future plans and listening to your story was a wonderful reminder of why I shouldn’t be scared or listen to what others think about my plans. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Much love and respect to you both.
I was surprised to find someone doing something so crazy as us. We are in our early 60s/late 50s, and we relocated from Japan to the uk. We relocated 2 years ago, but due to the COVID there were no relocation service in operation at the time, so we left everything behind, carried what we could and started a new life here. This summer we went back for 4 weeks to clear the house and bring what we needed. It was a stressful and exhausting 4 weeks, just as you show in your video. And we had angels.
Really nice video. We are right in the thick of it now. We are also from Portland. We are currently getting rid of most of our stuff-selling some and giving away car loads every day. Our plan is to travel full time so we don’t have the moving issues. Both my wife and I are still working full time as corporate attorneys so it is a bit stressful. I really appreciated your showing the reality, which includes stress and uncertainty. It reinforces that even with the struggle there is light at the end.
So many memories for me in this video. In 1993, at 40, I resigned my position of 21 years, sold my home, cleared away everything I had managed to acquire in only 20 years; still a lot with a growing son who had been putting trash bags of his unwanted items in the attic-Surprise!! I moved to St Croix with only suitcases and twenty boxes. And in 2019 I moved once again back stateside and kept only a few larger items in a storage shed which I paid for upfront. And in August 2021 went back and cleared out all the remaining items. Put together a pallet for shipping to TN, where I had a Tiny built. To this day I continue to live as small and with as little as possible. Only what’s needed! And it is perfect. A 19’ travel trailer in a RV resort in FL and a Tiny escape in TN. And in two months taking off for Barcelona. And my end of November I will be in Barbados. From there thr plans are evolving. I’ve loved to travel and plan to do so for a very long time. Congratulations on your Portugal move. It is the country I have chosen should I decide to move further away from states again. Blessings.
You are so right. We never know our limitations until tested. And yes, be picky and go for what you want! Thank you for sharing the emotions of downsizing. Can totally relate to the serial killer fears when placing ads 😂 Welcome to Portugal!
Thanks for sharing the moving experience. I became a minimalist a few years back and massively downsized on a lot of things. It is hard to let go of certain things such as photos etc, it is best to digitalize them. What really helped me was that I kept in mind that everything is temporary and will end. Nothing lasts forever. I get stuck with 3 to 5 tasks all at once sometimes and it can be very overwhelming.
So darn good. I'm in Portland myself and we are also starting to sell our possessions and our home for full time travel. So amazing to watch your family lead the way and succeed. The video footage and editing is top notch!
I have never commented on any you tube video, but had to comment on yours. Wonderful videos! Please do more! Have a great deal of admiration for all you both have accomplished and will accomplish in Portugal. Loved the part of how the mind thinks a certain way based on past data, but that is limited and we can’t let ourselves succumb to this. That resonated a lot with me. The truth is there are endless wonderful possibilities that await us in any given situation.
You are inspirational! Thank you for posting this! Your home in Portland is so beautiful! It is something I dream to live in. Too crowded in California! Good luck with your new adventure!
Josh you have a beautiful family and a really special gift of sharing stories. You are also a magnet for amazing experiences. I am so happy that everything has worked out for the good and am cheering for you success in prospering in Portugal! Thanks for showing us that this type of vision is possible with determination, will and a prayer 🙏🏾! “Stay Peaceful, Stay Healthy and Stay Nature’al” ~ ✌🏾🌲
So glad I came across this channel! I leave for South Korea in two weeks, and I still have so much packing and discarding to do. You showed me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Everything will work out. So excited to follow your adventures!!!
I very much look forward to following your journey here. It’s clear you put a lot of thought into each word you express, while also creating visually beautiful content. A few years ago, I chose to leave a lifetime in Michigan to relocate to my son’s family’s driveway in L.A. with my travel trailer. Being close to my two grandsons is priceless. Family and community ties usually play a big part in making these life-altering decisions, but culture, values, and lifestyle are no less important. In the end, we weigh all the factors and make the best choice for us. Always, at any age or stage of life, it is our choice. Thank you for reminding us of this. More, please!
Wow. Looking at your absolutely gorgeous home, I’m really impressed you could leave it. Your new home in Europe will be so amazing. I hope you show us a video of the end result!
Hi. My husband and I are both from Los Angeles. The San Fernando Valley. He also went to Grant HS. Anyway, We moved to Merida Yucatán almost 8 years ago. We absolutely love it. We totally understand everything you talk about in your videos. What a process it was. Our children are still in Los Angeles but love visiting us here. Good for you guys. It’s a wonderful experience!! Bueno suerte!!
there is a like button but I need the LOVE button!! Please, please, PLEASE post more videos. You are doing such a service to others here and I believe that good things will come back to you multiplied for your generosity of time and information. 🙂
When I left my life in Brazil behind and moved to Europe something like this happened... People and situations showing up when I needed the most in a way it seemed like I was being watched and taken care of. I started trusting that everything would be ok. I have been forgetting about this lately as life isn't as easy as it was last year but your video made me trust the process again. Thanks.
Thank you my fellow Matadors! Your story inspires me to get rid of the comic books, Star Wars collection, sell the houses, water toys etc. I know it’s easier said than done, feels so overwhelming….especially being alone and trying to figure out how to bring my dog.
Bring your dog!! The process seems complicated but its simpler then it seems. However you do need 6 months for the microchip, rabies shot, post rabies test and paperwork and passport.
I am in the process of ridding all items including wasteful storage costs… Decided to keep the memories and live my life only. Hopeful to relo to NZ with my kids and build a tiny home. Purging is so Zen and cleansing.
Some how I've come across your channel and I'm so glad I did! My wife and I are in a very similar situation as yourselves. Both hitting our 50's and feeling that there is more to life than to sit (quoting Pink Floyd) comfortably numb. We've decided to leave our very comfortable and financially stable life in Adelaide and up sticks and move to Sydney. Not exactly a massive cultural change but certainly a financial one not to mention having to accept that we'll be living in a small 2 bedroom apartment instead of a large family home! We too are starting to sell everything that we've accumulated over 30+ years of our life together. Stuff that we've both (myself more than my wife) become very emotionally attached to. It's proving far harder to do than I could have ever imagined. It's heart warming to read (in the below comments) in those moments when you start questioning the sanity of your decision that so many other people who have made the decision to take the plunge and largely have no regrets even though they have no doubt faced challenges. I look forward in following your journey both the highs the lows and the everything in between. Cheers
LOL this reminds me when my family and I moved to Germany. The Army arranged for companies to pack and ship our household goods. I can't imagine how you are doing this on your own. Kudos to you! I miss Europe very much! I'm enjoying watching your videos! 😀
Subscribed! My partner and I live in New England, are in our late 40s, with similar thoughts of retiring in Europe through Portugal. Love the content and looking forward to your journey.
My husband and I moved from our cushy life in the PNW as well to Montreal and it was difficult beyond anything we ever imagined !!! We were giddy for all of two weeks before reality set in. Moving does suck. No matter where. You can't move into a permanent vacation. Planting roots takes time and there is no easy transition. But these experiences 100% do add value and preciousness to our lives. Comfort and stability are the end point for many people but there are some of us who must move forward in order to feel alive. The goodies in life are in experience!! Enjoy !!
Thank you for sharing....I plan to retire in a few years move south...and I remember it took me 3 months as a single lady and having a 1 bedroom apartment moving into a 2 bedroom condo...30 years later and cant image all the things I have now...I find comfort knowing I have time on my side that I can go threw my things now and slowly donate to charity, get rid of useless items and give to family...but I most admit I was beginning to feel the stress of just the thought of having to pack my belongings! Lesson to me...plan ahead and pace yourself! Enjoy your new life and home!
The Globetrotter purchase saved you DAYS of waiting for ppl to show up! Fabulous. I’ve moved two hrs after discovering my refrigerator stopped working. My renters were moving in the next day, and I was ready to LEAVE! I ordered a new one, sight unseen, and left the check in the kitchen. I had to trust they would bring it early that afternoon, install the ice maker water line & take the old one away. I was below Washington DC when I called & discovered all was well. Then, another hour later I remembered I’d left a bag of freeze- dried Magic Mushrooms inside the old one! I was mortified. No one said a word about it, and I continued on my way, thoroughly embarrassed, guessing the young guys who found them quietly hid them in their own vehicle at the appliance store for the rest of their shift. Best tip ever!🙄
The amount of possessions that you are keeping is astronomical. I’m 66, when I move, all books are donated, furniture sold or given away. Clothes fit in a small suitcase and a medium moving box. No photos, albums or chatchkes
"Stuff will own you" - Thanks so much - I'm going through similar thing, selling my house (family home of 18 years) so i can live and travel in a van. I am having a very similar experience. Enjoy your new life in Portugal!
It's amazing how life works in your favor! This video resonated with me. Too many times in my life when things that seem to be impossible becomes possible, then you realize you are being guided, watched over, and loved! It just brings about an unbelievable joy!!
I freaking love your energy and spirit! You and your wife are amazing! Love the truths of the struggles in your journey but adore your positive attitude. I clearly don't know you at all, but instantly see you and your wife's kind heart and ability to see the bigger picture in life. Experiences are worth ten times the physical possessions. So excited to watch your journey. Thank you for sharing such intimate aspects of your personal life. For the true travel addicts like myself, I am grateful for the open door you provide and all the work and energy that goes into it. I truly wish many blessings on your new chapter and the greatest happiness for your whole family!
Ran across this video today as I was trying to answer the question what next. Thank you. This was exactly what I needed to see. I look forward to following your adventures.
From someone also in their 50s (our kids are a LOT younger though) and who has always wanted to try living overseas at some point, your story is inspiring. I hope the move went well and with your attitude and motivation I am sure it did. Nice choice with Coimbra. We touristed there once at it was a pleasant surprise. All of Portugal was. It went from being a country I didn't know much about to one of our favourites and top of the list to return to.
Hello! I've been nwatching your son's anventures for a couple of years now and I must say that I'm flattered that you guys would choose our lovely Coimbra over any other place for the time being! I'm actually a student and lived in coimbra my entire life, it has it's flaws but it's still a great place to be, hope your enjoy ur time here and if anything just ask, people are usually very nice!
Going through the decluttering thing right now to get ready for a big life change, not sure what it is or how it will show itself. Decluttering, sorting, it is so hard, my hat's off to you both, 40 yrs of memories and items chosen, gifted, loved and used. omg. On one hand it shows us who we are and on the other it is stuff. Your OR home is gorgeous, hope Portugal works out.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It is already so stressful enough and here you are doing a video. We are planning on retiring in Spain where my brother and his family live. We have already sold most of our “stuff”. Now it’s just the personal things. Yes we have to trust the universe. We wish you the best. Taking deep breaths will be our habit.
Really love your deep, honest, warts and all expressions of your experience. My partner and I are also in our 50's/60's and thinking of doing something similar( stagnate and grow old or let go and embrace the unknown) and your video's are inspiring and informative. Please post more your doing great and they really help 💛
New to you channel, this video was great. Thanks for the perspective, I am in my 50's too, but never owned anything remotely close to the stuff I have seen in you video. I am actually living in a tiny room with my wife, dreaming of moving to our own place. At this point, I would be happy if we could afford a separate living room and our own kitchen. It's weird and kind of disappointing looking back at my younger self and all the dreams that guy had. On a positive note, we still find ways to be happy, enjoy each other and making some kind of plans for our next chapter in life. By the way your property and house in Florida, seems amazing. Honestly I would probably want to spend my old age in a place like that. At the same time I admire your spirit of adventure and I am a bit jealous of both of you. Good and better things are just around the corner for you, I know. "Little angels", a great way to describe serendipity moments in life. Waiting to see your next steps. Cheers!
Stay with your grandbabies, I say! I know how important that is. Perhaps a move is worth considering somewhere down the line, though not for everyone. All my best to you.
Thank you for making this video. I’m 49. I see ourselves doing what you are in our early 50’s. Amazing insight that you shared. I’ve hit the subscribe button. Looking forward to learning more from you. I love what you said. ‘Stuff owns you.’ I learned my house and it’s belongings own me and put me in the Rat Race.
New subscriber here. Love your content. I moved to the Swiss Alps from the Berkshires in MA 15 years ago (after much world travel). Despite letting go of 90% of my possessions (donated to an animal shelter annual barn sale), I still had things to ship over to the tune of $7,000US. By the time the container arrived in Switzerland, I couldn't remember what was in the boxes - and I realised once unpacking that I neither wanted or needed 2/3rds of the stuff. What a waste of $7,000 (in my case). Fast forward to now - I let go of 90% of the rest (an animal charity shop in France), and am down to the bare minimum - not an extreme minimalist but on my way - I've never felt more free - plus let go of 95% of my furniture! My apartment is nothing but space and light. The only things of real value our my 16 year old Havanese dog, and my large photo collection (about 12 albums). The less I have, the more time to focus on what is really important in life. 'Posessions are in the saddle and ride mankind'. I have no regrets about letting it all go - and now only have what I absolutely need. We really need very little to be happy.
I’m just glued to your stories and experiences! Oh, I just love it! Everything you’ve both said is true. Until your next video goes up, I hope all is going well. 🌞 💕
My husband and I just watched your video; LOVED IT!!!!! We too are in our 50's, and are planning to retire early in 2024 and live outside the US. You and your wife are lovely, and we look forward to seeing more of your adventures.
I just moved to France and I'm struggling to find an apartament which is so demoralizing. This was much needed. Thanks you so much! You are very brave :)
This is all so familiar.. in 2016 we made the decision to move abroad from Seattle. So much stuff!! All of this happened at the same time as my sweet sister was nearing the end of her battle with cancer....so flying to and from Ohio....during this...my heart breaking for her and her dear husband and sons....I've never done anything so hard. After our final sale and cleanout....we attended her funeral....we then drove across country to stay in Ohio for 6 weeks until we loved to Dubai. Our new school at least handled the logistics of living and working in Dubai....thank God. So many changes....so many challenges....all of your words resonate! Peace and love to you and your wife in your adventures!!
I'm 51. My dream for years has been to travel and move to some small village in the UK someday. Even if it is just for a year or two. Just got a job that pays market rate so I can start saving towards this dream. In the meantime, I am already starting the journey of getting rid of my stuff so I'll be ready when the opportunity comes. Sometimes I get so tired and overwhelmed by it and think, "Maybe I'm just a fool to think this way. Maybe I'm too old to do something like this." Then this video popped up at the top of my RUclips feed this morning! I think it is a sign confirming I'm on the right track! I have subscribed and will be following you on your journey!
Great video! My husband and I have moved to different countries and we know about all the stress, excitement, and expectations that are felt all at once.
Wow - this was an amazing video. How you got this beautiful process and journey concisely documented in 12 minutes is a feat. I wish you sooo much happiness in your travels! Thank you for sharing this with us! May God/Source/Universe keep blessing you
I wish my parents were this cool… oh wait 😅 You’re making such brave decisions and I love how honestly you’re sharing the process! This was so well made and an incredible reminder on the importance of checking in with our relationship to our possessions.
Haha. Thanks, your words mean a lot. Even though we talk about all this all the time, there's something special about reading your comment here. And more so on Father's Day. 😊
that is the first time I saw parents following the steps of their son. Ya I would like to have such parents...
what makes me have more admiration is how supportive you all are with each other
@@nemmmm2208 mother here. I already planned to follow my daughter when I will be retired and she will have her child (which of course will take years from now, but anyway...). And yes, she knows about my plan and loves it. :-) She lives 1 hour away now but the universe knows where she will be going after university, so ... it might be anywhere! :-D
I love how you comment, and every time I wonder "who is this guy" until I realize who you are. :-)
These ARE some VERY cool parents! Thanks for the recommendation, and I will continue to watch. At some point I hope we hear more about the composer part...one composer to another of course...
I got rid of 99% of my belongings (car included) in my 60's and moved to Florence, Italy, BY MYSELF, in 2017. I acquired my Italian citizenship last year and I have NEVER been happier. Stuff is just that, STUFF. I had come here for college in 2015, studied two years, then returned to California with an empty check in bag. If I couldn't get things in that bag or the ones I carried on the plane, it was goodbye. I had a storage unit FILLED with all my stuff - furniture, kitchen ware, electronics, etc.. My mantra was "when in doubt - throw it out"!
Wow
Good one!
You can't take is with you and it free's up your life !!!
Question: What are your retirement and end of life plans? Who will take care of you in Florence when you are too old to take care of yourself, and make all your major life decisions?
How many years were you required to live in Italy for citizenship?
"Attachment is a bitch." Truer words have never been spoken. My wife and I are nearing our 50s and are planning to take the leap and move back to Germany where she's from. It's refreshing to see others do it and succeed. You are an inspiration to many!!
Sehr schön. Willkommen in Deutschland💕
DO.IT.
Oh my goodness we are trying to do the same thing... good luck and keep us posted 👍
I don't think that attachment is a bitch... I don't understand why they got rid of family photos and music sheets! That's what makes yourself you! Clothes and furnitures, you can buy anywhere, but other things are priceless!
My children and grandchildren also live overseas. I’m 71, recently widowed and facing some of the issues you raise in this incredibly inspiring, yet down to earth video. I’m wanting anew start nearer to them, so a big Thank you for sharing your move with the world.
I’ve been ‘here’ before, but now I’m doing it on my own - which is at the core of my new adventure. Fifteen years ago, when my late husband retired we moved from California to the East Coast. I well remember that period of letting go of so much stuff in and surging forth to rebuild a life that I now am getting ready to free myself from. Some of it left with my husband’s death and now I want to re-embrace whatever my new life will bring. I’d mistakenly thought that I’d made our ‘forever’ home in a lovely community near the kids, but it all changed. I’m doing this step cautiously, because I suspect radical independent moves don’t get repeated too often at my age.
Whatever the days ahead bring, I’m grateful for the knowledge that others are doing this sort of thing too. Whether the motivation is a feeling of being stuck or a full stop like illness and death; if you’re the one still standing, it’s never too late to get going again.
I know this post was from a year ago. Just wondering how things worked out for you, and if you ended up making the move. Wishing you all the best
Same... downsized from a 4 bedroom house in the UK to 4 suitcases and moved to Portugal. BEST decision.
I remember reading once that “life ends when you put the slippers on”… meaning comfort can dampen the magic in life, so this is refreshing to see an honest window into inviting that magic back in
Nicely put :)
Comfort might be yr magic. Its all dependent on yr outlook i suppose. I'm always looking for things that give me comfort. I wish i was more adaptable but its not who i am.
Never seen your channel, wasn't very interested in your lives or moving to Portugal but you managed to turn this video about moving into a masterpiece.
This story resonates with me. Four years ago, my husband and I relocated 2000 miles away from Seattle. We only brought 2 suitcases, our electronics, important documents and of course our beloved beautiful mini schnauzers and a car full of stuff. It was very liberating to donate, sell, gift and throw away stuff. The amazing thing was that it ocurred to me to advertise on Craigslist "all house contents for sale for a flat fee". Incredible as it sounds, a nice gentleman shows up with $3,000 USD and a moving truck to free us from all our furniture, kitchen gadgets (pots and pans included). If you do the math, it is cheaper and infinitely simpler to buy things again than it is to haul your stuff 2000 miles away. Doing this saved us a lot of work, stress and a variety of logistic nightmares. It was also very exciting to go shopping for new furniture and have all new decor!!! We took our time to furnish our new home. It was fun to score great bargains via classified ads. It is unbelievable the number of great quality items your can get for pennies on the dollar (or free!)if you are patient. Good luck to all who read this! 👍
We moved from Cali to Portugal with my partner 3 months into pregnancy with 2 massive dogs (so had to do kennel training on top of it). Same thing, sold all our things, our cars, and got on the plane with only 2 suitcases each (we wanted to start fresh and the cost of containers was equivalent to re-buying everything new on the other side). Can so relate to this video. Doing all this while my partner was having morning sickness (which doesn't stop in the morning btw), was A LOT. Continuing the journey on the other side in Portugal was a lot too! We airbnb'd for months before we finally found a stable long term lease. But now we're so grateful for tour new life and so proud of ourselves for having cleared so much energetically for the arrival of our tiny baby 🙂
PS: your journey with paperwork is not over once you're in Portugal. Adminstration was a real pain in the butt for months after our arrival. It is a beautiful country but get ready for some of the most mismanaged administrations in the developed world. Some processes have delays of up to 2 years. Safe travels and many blessings.
Thank you! And wow, what a story of your own. I know exactly what you mean by a whole other approach to administration here. Oh boy. Anyway, you mentioning how it all really paid off in the end, in spite of (and because of?) all the hard work, put a big smile on my face. All the best to you guys. 😊
why Portugal?
@@bernadettebohan5822 You can live there for cheap with good quality of life.
@@bernadettebohan5822 Do you know Portugal?
One of the most mismanaged administrations of d. world? How do you know? Have you been in a similar situation in other countries which would enable you to make a fair comparison? In fact, I have seen written by several people that emigrants have to face very complicated bureaucracy when moving to the States.
My last day, here on a small island in the north atlantic, on my way to Spain. This was a great video , thank you...selling , donating and the hardest was having yo throw things away. Im a single woman almost 68 yrs old, and had to go through, by myself, years of stuff, that the ppl who lived with me, just walk away, my children, my ex husband, businesses, charities, all the things that were stored in my house. Its hard, its sad, but also rewarding and relief, to dis attach from all these things. Onward to my new adventure
This resonated with me so hard. It's truly unbelievable how much stuff and clutter we accumulate over the years. Getting rid of some stuff is easy, but those "memory boxes" like you said are the most difficult. Moving does suck, but what comes after can be awesome!
What stuff does to us, huh? Reminds me of George Carlin talking about it, haha. If you've never seen/heard it, check it out. 🤣
It can be awesome so long as you dont start accumulating stuff again!
Wow! This video was suggested randomly out of nowhere at exactly the right time, as I am currently completely overwhelmed by the idea of moving, how to move, where to move, what to do with all my stuff.. I cried tears of relief and joy listening to your advice - you are my random angel today! 🥰🙏
I am so impressed that you managed to do all of that in 40 days. I moved from a larger house to a tiny cottage that I built and got rid of most of my things as well.I will never accumulate a lot of stuff again.Becoming minimalist is so freeing! My space feels so open and fresh and there is now room for me to grow.Congratulations on your exciting journey.I love this channel and your Butter is one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen.
Wow, I’m really happy for your guys and this video is awesome, the clips, the rhythm! I also feel so inspired by your storytelling skills 💫 Greetings from France 🇫🇷
Thank you, Adrianne! :)
I'm planning on leaving the US next year for Portugal as well! I cannot wait to follow y'alls journey! Thank you or sharing such beautiful videos!
Sounds wonderful, best of luck. And thanks for the kind words!
Sounds like Portugal is getting filled up with Americans. Hope they will adapt and respect, instead of imposing and opportunistic monetizing, and not ruin the culture.
@@ana419 Yep, I am afraid this won’t happen. But a lot of Portuguese already move out the country because of the financial crises from 2008.
@@KristynaStefanova Have they not moved back since 2008? Still, I dont think it was a mass exodus. May Portugal remain intact. It was once a hidden remote corner of Europe that remained pristine.
@@ana419 I met a lot of Portuguese in France back in 2018 and they told me this. Since then they might move back for more job opportunities, I don’t know.
I'm not planning on moving in the foreseeable future-nor do I have the means to do so-but thank you for your video. Your perspective on life and how to face and deal with stressful situations and unknowns hit home with me. I wish you, your wife, and your little dog the best in Europe.
When I saw the title, I immediately thought about my memory boxes. I plan on moving to Australia next year, and getting rid of those boxes will probably be the hardest part for me. I know that technically you can take photos and still keep them with you, but it is not the same, right?. In any case, it's nice seeing you going through the process. I hope you keep on sharing this journey. This channel is amazing!
Thank you so much for your support, Natalia! 🙏
I love your video! The home and property you left behind was so beautiful, but what an adventure you embarked upon! My husband and I left the home of 30years in Southern California and so many happy memories there. We relinquished about 75% of our stuff. OK maybe 65%. We parked our 5th wheel in a campground for 7 months until we found a home without wheels. We love living in wine country!! Sonoma is more beautiful than I could ever imagine. And I live on the same large property as my daughter and grandson. I have a small well lit art studio and large garden. Life can be a dream if you’re willing to make changes and let go. Just go!
You two are so inspiring! I’m in my 50’s as well. Building up my copywriting business so that I can make the move to Portugal. I love Portugal so much. The landscapes, the people, the food, the weather…everything. ❤️
Hi Jacqueline, I'm a copywriter in my 50s looking to move to Italy 😀 I've started connecting with RUclipsrs based in Italy (mostly North Americans and Italians) who are marketing services to English speakers looking to buy property and/or move there. It's a way to start building my network there before I move. If you haven't done so yet, you could do the same in Portugal! If you don't mind, I'd love to connect with you on LI 🙏🏼
Thank you for the nice words and for loving my country! 😊
“Attachment is a bitch” should be your first merch line on a T-shirt. Brilliant!!!
Your video made me cry with the story about earth angels assisting you into having everything fall into place. Such a powerful message of trust and belief! Wow.
Thank you. I needed this.
I am going through this myself, except without the move out of country . It is A LOT, HUGE.
I am older than you, and my husband passed 2 years ago.
Still, I will do this... it will be ok.
Good luck!
It’s amazing to me to see how I’m so different. I moved many times and I ALWAYS get rid of everything. And start fresh. I have ZERO attachment to photos any kind of memorabilia.
A truly inspiring video! Thank you for being so open sharing your wisdom around life, its challenges and solutions when we both "pluck" ourselves and trust the process. I'm glad I found your channel a couple months ago (there are no coincidences). The best wishes moving to Portugal! It is a beautiful country! 🤩
Thank you so much!! ❤️
I just can't imagine leaving such a beautiful , cozy & picturesque home. I do understand it, but wow the sacrifice is admirable.
Tough but necessary. :) Don't worry, we'll recreate it here in France... Stay tuned!
I am really loving your content. We too are in our 50s having lived in 7 countries around the world. We fell in love with Portugal many years ago and planned on buyIng a propery. there and spending part of every year there, and unfortunately life has taken us out of that dream for now. It will happen but videos and reflections like yours put it all into perspective. I love hearing you share your thoughts. Keep up the great work. Greetings from Australia!
Thank you Eldon! Will continue sharing our journey and discoveries. Wish for you guys to make your dream come true. Just keep your focus and intention on it. Take care and all the best!
So many people want to visit Australia! My 20 year old cockatiel is sitting on my lap as I type this, lol. Greetings from Canada! Hopefully, one day, you will travel to Canada or have you already visited?
OMG!!! Moving sure does SUCK, MAJORLY! You never know how much stuff you have until you have to move. I sold my home and I'm currently going through the exact same process RIGHT NOW! Posting things online to sell, trying to figure out what to keep, what to throw away and what to donate. It's a COMPLETE mess. My house right now looks like a war zone. I can't take it but I know it must get done. Boxes and containers are piled up everywhere. Now having to find a storage, not to mention a good place to lay my head next! LORD HELP ME 🙏🙏🥺🥺
Yup. You’ve encapsulated it all so well in your comment. Hang in there! As I say in the video, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Always.
We went through a similar process a few years back (just prior to COVID). It was so hard to go from 2 homes (with acreage & a horse) to a small pod. But worth it! We are very comfortable with less "stuff" and I know it sounds weird but we also had a sense of "liberation" once the process was complete. One of our angels (in the process) adopted my geriatric horse. What a gift! We are now happily retired in Mexico. Best of luck to you and your wife.
You can't imagine how timely this all is. You both are only 50, relax and enjoy the ride.
Love your thinking .. we've never felt settled, just going through the same early process. Nice to know we're not alone. Great videos, thank you.
How absolutely refreshingly fearlessly humorously lovingly really spiritually candid!!! An original. Thank you!!!
As others have also said, this resonated with me. I am in the process of final packing (shipping has already left) to move to Spain. Same issues with the memory stuff, especially piles of music scores of unfinished work I keep thinking I will get back to. Very artfully edited as well. Great video.
Another composer, I see. :) Indeed, all the stuff we will eventually get back to that we never do. Thank you so much for the kind words! 🙏
100% everything you say about moving. Have done many moves domestically (often to be near adult children) and they all worked out in the end, despite the ongoing stress and anxiety. Looking back, you wonder how. Good luck in Portugal and being close to your children must be very exciting for you. In the end, it is all that matters.
We could not live without them. ❤️ Thank you, and all the best to you.
Loved this video! I’m 65 and a single woman. I’m planning my move to Portugal end of October, so I’m in the purge pack stage to determine what to take with me. I also have a little dog, so I’ve gone through the USDA process before when I last traveled to Portugal.
I especially loved your message about getting rid of “stuff”! It make life very freeing when you can travel light. Good for you!
I happened to find your video by chance this morning as I sat here worried about my upcoming sale of our house and move that we still have no apartment for. I've been in my head for weeks and this is what I needed. God works in mysterious ways. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight. Absolutely amazing. I actually feel better now.
Wow! Respect 🙏
I myself are selling and cleaning much of my stuff at the moment as well, but as a minimalist in a tiny home already, I own nothing compared to you 🙈 I do love the thrill of getting lighter and lighter, as days go by, when I either sell or donate stuff away. I plan on never owning much again... Because I get addicted to the feeling of lightness. I love it!!! 🤩🦅✈️
I love this channel! I’m also in my 50s with 2 sons and a RUclips channel. It’s great to see a successful family enjoying the victory lap of there lives. Best of luck to you guys.
I am facing a big decision whether to move to a country I truly feel at home, but recently got a bit scared and discouraged. This video might just be the push I needed. Thank you, wishing you all the best, looking forward to your Portuguese journey!
Thank you, and likewise! All the best to you on your next big move! Much love to you. 😄
I retired in 2017 and went through a similar ordeal. My eureka moment was to throw out EVERYTHING that could not fit into two roller suitcases and a laptop bag. I chose not to sell, give away, or other wise delay my plan. I just tossed it all, even clothes and items I loved.
In fairness, I do maintain a storage unit with personal items like documents and winter clothes since I travel in warm climates usually. But my possessions no longer own me as they once did and I am free to travel around the world as I please.
Over forty years ago I worked for a short time with a guy in his late 40s. He moved around the world a lot. Can't recall his name now but I remember him saying: What you can't fit into 2 large suitcases you don't need.
Hasn't stopped me collecting a lot of junk. I just declutter the truly superfluous every few years.
What a story! It must be so hard to make a decision like this! I feel very inspired and wish a lot of happiness for you both in this new life in Europe. I can't wait to see your adventures there.
Thank you. :)
I’m amazed by all of the comments of others who are moving abroad. That is part of my future plans and listening to your story was a wonderful reminder of why I shouldn’t be scared or listen to what others think about my plans. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Much love and respect to you both.
I was surprised to find someone doing something so crazy as us. We are in our early 60s/late 50s, and we relocated from Japan to the uk. We relocated 2 years ago, but due to the COVID there were no relocation service in operation at the time, so we left everything behind, carried what we could and started a new life here. This summer we went back for 4 weeks to clear the house and bring what we needed. It was a stressful and exhausting 4 weeks, just as you show in your video. And we had angels.
Really nice video. We are right in the thick of it now. We are also from Portland. We are currently getting rid of most of our stuff-selling some and giving away car loads every day. Our plan is to travel full time so we don’t have the moving issues. Both my wife and I are still working full time as corporate attorneys so it is a bit stressful. I really appreciated your showing the reality, which includes stress and uncertainty. It reinforces that even with the struggle there is light at the end.
😊 Best of luck to you guys.
So many memories for me in this video. In 1993, at 40, I resigned my position of 21 years, sold my home, cleared away everything I had managed to acquire in only 20 years; still a lot with a growing son who had been putting trash bags of his unwanted items in the attic-Surprise!! I moved to St Croix with only suitcases and twenty boxes. And in 2019 I moved once again back stateside and kept only a few larger items in a storage shed which I paid for upfront. And in August 2021 went back and cleared out all the remaining items. Put together a pallet for shipping to TN, where I had a Tiny built. To this day I continue to live as small and with as little as possible. Only what’s needed! And it is perfect. A 19’ travel trailer in a RV resort in FL and a Tiny escape in TN. And in two months taking off for Barcelona. And my end of November I will be in Barbados. From there thr plans are evolving. I’ve loved to travel and plan to do so for a very long time.
Congratulations on your Portugal move. It is the country I have chosen should I decide to move further away from states again. Blessings.
So many gems in this video! Thank you for taking us with you! Looking forward to the next one. Safe travels!
Thank you so much! More soon, I promise.
You are so right. We never know our limitations until tested. And yes, be picky and go for what you want! Thank you for sharing the emotions of downsizing. Can totally relate to the serial killer fears when placing ads 😂 Welcome to Portugal!
Thank you so much. 😊
Please keep the content coming 👏 Watching your journey is giving me a boost of energy.
Will do! Thank you so much. :)
Thanks for sharing the moving experience. I became a minimalist a few years back and massively downsized on a lot of things. It is hard to let go of certain things such as photos etc, it is best to digitalize them. What really helped me was that I kept in mind that everything is temporary and will end. Nothing lasts forever. I get stuck with 3 to 5 tasks all at once sometimes and it can be very overwhelming.
So darn good. I'm in Portland myself and we are also starting to sell our possessions and our home for full time travel. So amazing to watch your family lead the way and succeed. The video footage and editing is top notch!
Thank you so much, and best of luck to you guys!
I have never commented on any you tube video, but had to comment on yours. Wonderful videos! Please do more! Have a great deal of admiration for all you both have accomplished and will accomplish in Portugal. Loved the part of how the mind thinks a certain way based on past data, but that is limited and we can’t let ourselves succumb to this. That resonated a lot with me. The truth is there are endless wonderful possibilities that await us in any given situation.
You are inspirational! Thank you for posting this! Your home in Portland is so beautiful! It is something I dream to live in. Too crowded in California! Good luck with your new adventure!
Josh you have a beautiful family and a really special gift of sharing stories. You are also a magnet for amazing experiences. I am so happy that everything has worked out for the good and am cheering for you success in prospering in Portugal! Thanks for showing us that this type of vision is possible with determination, will and a prayer 🙏🏾! “Stay Peaceful, Stay Healthy and Stay Nature’al” ~ ✌🏾🌲
Thank you, my friend! 🙏
So glad I came across this channel! I leave for South Korea in two weeks, and I still have so much packing and discarding to do. You showed me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Everything will work out. So excited to follow your adventures!!!
This video is so well done. The home you had in Portland was gorgeous!
I very much look forward to following your journey here. It’s clear you put a lot of thought into each word you express, while also creating visually beautiful content. A few years ago, I chose to leave a lifetime in Michigan to relocate to my son’s family’s driveway in L.A. with my travel trailer. Being close to my two grandsons is priceless. Family and community ties usually play a big part in making these life-altering decisions, but culture, values, and lifestyle are no less important. In the end, we weigh all the factors and make the best choice for us. Always, at any age or stage of life, it is our choice. Thank you for reminding us of this. More, please!
Thank you, Julie! Wise words. And absolutely, will do. 😊👍
Wow. Looking at your absolutely gorgeous home, I’m really impressed you could leave it. Your new home in Europe will be so amazing. I hope you show us a video of the end result!
Hey P! Thanks so much for all your support. And yes, absolutely will do! 😁❤️
Hi. My husband and I are both from Los Angeles. The San Fernando Valley. He also went to Grant HS. Anyway, We moved to Merida Yucatán almost 8 years ago. We absolutely love it. We totally understand everything you talk about in your videos. What a process it was. Our children are still in Los Angeles but love visiting us here. Good for you guys. It’s a wonderful experience!! Bueno suerte!!
there is a like button but I need the LOVE button!! Please, please, PLEASE post more videos. You are doing such a service to others here and I believe that good things will come back to you multiplied for your generosity of time and information. 🙂
You are the best, Justine, thank you so much!! ❤️
When I left my life in Brazil behind and moved to Europe something like this happened... People and situations showing up when I needed the most in a way it seemed like I was being watched and taken care of. I started trusting that everything would be ok. I have been forgetting about this lately as life isn't as easy as it was last year but your video made me trust the process again. Thanks.
This video is a little angel, a gift at the right time for me. Thanks for the reminder, as I ponder the next step for my family!
Thank you my fellow Matadors! Your story inspires me to get rid of the comic books, Star Wars collection, sell the houses, water toys etc. I know it’s easier said than done, feels so overwhelming….especially being alone and trying to figure out how to bring my dog.
Bring your dog!! The process seems complicated but its simpler then it seems. However you do need 6 months for the microchip, rabies shot, post rabies test and paperwork and passport.
I am in the process of ridding all items including wasteful storage costs… Decided to keep the memories and live my life only. Hopeful to relo to NZ with my kids and build a tiny home. Purging is so Zen and cleansing.
Thank you for sharing your journey.
Some how I've come across your channel and I'm so glad I did! My wife and I are in a very similar situation as yourselves. Both hitting our 50's and feeling that there is more to life than to sit (quoting Pink Floyd) comfortably numb. We've decided to leave our very comfortable and financially stable life in Adelaide and up sticks and move to Sydney. Not exactly a massive cultural change but certainly a financial one not to mention having to accept that we'll be living in a small 2 bedroom apartment instead of a large family home! We too are starting to sell everything that we've accumulated over 30+ years of our life together. Stuff that we've both (myself more than my wife) become very emotionally attached to. It's proving far harder to do than I could have ever imagined.
It's heart warming to read (in the below comments) in those moments when you start questioning the sanity of your decision that so many other people who have made the decision to take the plunge and largely have no regrets even though they have no doubt faced challenges.
I look forward in following your journey both the highs the lows and the everything in between.
Cheers
LOL this reminds me when my family and I moved to Germany. The Army arranged for companies to pack and ship our household goods. I can't imagine how you are doing this on your own. Kudos to you! I miss Europe very much! I'm enjoying watching your videos! 😀
Subscribed! My partner and I live in New England, are in our late 40s, with similar thoughts of retiring in Europe through Portugal. Love the content and looking forward to your journey.
Wow, you really had lots of stuff and space!!😮just for two persons? Amazing!
My husband and I moved from our cushy life in the PNW as well to Montreal and it was difficult beyond anything we ever imagined !!! We were giddy for all of two weeks before reality set in. Moving does suck. No matter where. You can't move into a permanent vacation. Planting roots takes time and there is no easy transition. But these experiences 100% do add value and preciousness to our lives. Comfort and stability are the end point for many people but there are some of us who must move forward in order to feel alive. The goodies in life are in experience!! Enjoy !!
Thank you for sharing....I plan to retire in a few years move south...and I remember it took me 3 months as a single lady and having a 1 bedroom apartment moving into a 2 bedroom condo...30 years later and cant image all the things I have now...I find comfort knowing I have time on my side that I can go threw my things now and slowly donate to charity, get rid of useless items and give to family...but I most admit I was beginning to feel the stress of just the thought of having to pack my belongings! Lesson to me...plan ahead and pace yourself! Enjoy your new life and home!
The Globetrotter purchase saved you DAYS of waiting for ppl to show up! Fabulous. I’ve moved two hrs after discovering my refrigerator stopped working. My renters were moving in the next day, and I was ready to LEAVE! I ordered a new one, sight unseen, and left the check in the kitchen. I had to trust they would bring it early that afternoon, install the ice maker water line & take the old one away. I was below Washington DC when I called & discovered all was well. Then, another hour later I remembered I’d left a bag of freeze- dried Magic Mushrooms inside the old one! I was mortified. No one said a word about it, and I continued on my way, thoroughly embarrassed, guessing the young guys who found them quietly hid them in their own vehicle at the appliance store for the rest of their shift.
Best tip ever!🙄
The amount of possessions that you are keeping is astronomical. I’m 66, when I move, all books are donated, furniture sold or given away. Clothes fit in a small suitcase and a medium moving box. No photos, albums or chatchkes
We did that! We were 57 and moved with no attachments whatsoever to Tenerife. Revitalising. We are happy and healthy mid seventies now!
"Stuff will own you" - Thanks so much - I'm going through similar thing, selling my house (family home of 18 years) so i can live and travel in a van. I am having a very similar experience. Enjoy your new life in Portugal!
It's amazing how life works in your favor! This video resonated with me. Too many times in my life when things that seem to be impossible becomes possible, then you realize you are being guided, watched over, and loved! It just brings about an unbelievable joy!!
I freaking love your energy and spirit! You and your wife are amazing! Love the truths of the struggles in your journey but adore your positive attitude. I clearly don't know you at all, but instantly see you and your wife's kind heart and ability to see the bigger picture in life. Experiences are worth ten times the physical possessions. So excited to watch your journey. Thank you for sharing such intimate aspects of your personal life. For the true travel addicts like myself, I am grateful for the open door you provide and all the work and energy that goes into it. I truly wish many blessings on your new chapter and the greatest happiness for your whole family!
what a lovely comment. And I agree wholeheartedly!
I love following your stories! I keep telling my husband about you. We've got about 10 more years and we'll be downsizing to travel.
Thanks, and nice! Good luck planning for what's next.
Ran across this video today as I was trying to answer the question what next.
Thank you. This was exactly what I needed to see. I look forward to following your adventures.
Very high production quality - and wonderful storytelling. Thank you
Thank you for this video to relate to, we just moved, and the most traumatic experience of our lives. We are trying to find our way, again.
From someone also in their 50s (our kids are a LOT younger though) and who has always wanted to try living overseas at some point, your story is inspiring. I hope the move went well and with your attitude and motivation I am sure it did.
Nice choice with Coimbra. We touristed there once at it was a pleasant surprise. All of Portugal was. It went from being a country I didn't know much about to one of our favourites and top of the list to return to.
That’s exactly what happened with us. But then imagine how that opens up a door to all of Europe. It’s crazy!
@@BeneaththeSurfaceYT Thanks! You give me hope
Hello! I've been nwatching your son's anventures for a couple of years now and I must say that I'm flattered that you guys would choose our lovely Coimbra over any other place for the time being! I'm actually a student and lived in coimbra my entire life, it has it's flaws but it's still a great place to be, hope your enjoy ur time here and if anything just ask, people are usually very nice!
Going through the decluttering thing right now to get ready for a big life change, not sure what it is or how it will show itself. Decluttering, sorting, it is so hard, my hat's off to you both, 40 yrs of memories and items chosen, gifted, loved and used. omg. On one hand it shows us who we are and on the other it is stuff. Your OR home is gorgeous, hope Portugal works out.
Cant wait to see more of your experiences. You are going to have a great channel.
Thank you, Scott!! 🙏
Thank you for sharing your experience. It is already so stressful enough and here you are doing a video. We are planning on retiring in Spain where my brother and his family live. We have already sold most of our “stuff”. Now it’s just the personal things. Yes we have to trust the universe. We wish you the best. Taking deep breaths will be our habit.
Really love your deep, honest, warts and all expressions of your experience.
My partner and I are also in our 50's/60's
and thinking of doing something similar( stagnate and grow old or let go and embrace the unknown) and your video's are inspiring and informative.
Please post more your doing great and they really help 💛
New to you channel, this video was great. Thanks for the perspective, I am in my 50's too, but never owned anything remotely close to the stuff I have seen in you video. I am actually living in a tiny room with my wife, dreaming of moving to our own place. At this point, I would be happy if we could afford a separate living room and our own kitchen. It's weird and kind of disappointing looking back at my younger self and all the dreams that guy had. On a positive note, we still find ways to be happy, enjoy each other and making some kind of plans for our next chapter in life. By the way your property and house in Florida, seems amazing. Honestly I would probably want to spend my old age in a place like that. At the same time I admire your spirit of adventure and I am a bit jealous of both of you. Good and better things are just around the corner for you, I know. "Little angels", a great way to describe serendipity moments in life. Waiting to see your next steps. Cheers!
Thank you! And all the best to you guys on your own journey.
This is so appealing,,,but….grandbabies are 20 minutes away,,,and NO way could we leave them. 🫤😢
Stay with your grandbabies, I say! I know how important that is. Perhaps a move is worth considering somewhere down the line, though not for everyone. All my best to you.
GO, go, go....pure magic!
Totally enjoying your thoughts and the process as you described the ups and downs of moving! What a relief when it's finished!! Loved this video!
Thank you for making this video. I’m 49. I see ourselves doing what you are in our early 50’s. Amazing insight that you shared. I’ve hit the subscribe button. Looking forward to learning more from you. I love what you said. ‘Stuff owns you.’ I learned my house and it’s belongings own me and put me in the Rat Race.
New subscriber here. Love your content. I moved to the Swiss Alps from the Berkshires in MA 15 years ago (after much world travel). Despite letting go of 90% of my possessions (donated to an animal shelter annual barn sale), I still had things to ship over to the tune of $7,000US. By the time the container arrived in Switzerland, I couldn't remember what was in the boxes - and I realised once unpacking that I neither wanted or needed 2/3rds of the stuff. What a waste of $7,000 (in my case). Fast forward to now - I let go of 90% of the rest (an animal charity shop in France), and am down to the bare minimum - not an extreme minimalist but on my way - I've never felt more free - plus let go of 95% of my furniture! My apartment is nothing but space and light. The only things of real value our my 16 year old Havanese dog, and my large photo collection (about 12 albums). The less I have, the more time to focus on what is really important in life. 'Posessions are in the saddle and ride mankind'. I have no regrets about letting it all go - and now only have what I absolutely need. We really need very little to be happy.
Awesome and authentic video, keep it up!
Thank you!!
I’m just glued to your stories and experiences! Oh, I just love it! Everything you’ve both said is true. Until your next video goes up, I hope all is going well. 🌞 💕
My husband and I just watched your video; LOVED IT!!!!! We too are in our 50's, and are planning to retire early in 2024 and live outside the US. You and your wife are lovely, and we look forward to seeing more of your adventures.
I just moved to France and I'm struggling to find an apartament which is so demoralizing. This was much needed. Thanks you so much! You are very brave :)
This is all so familiar.. in 2016 we made the decision to move abroad from Seattle. So much stuff!! All of this happened at the same time as my sweet sister was nearing the end of her battle with cancer....so flying to and from Ohio....during this...my heart breaking for her and her dear husband and sons....I've never done anything so hard. After our final sale and cleanout....we attended her funeral....we then drove across country to stay in Ohio for 6 weeks until we loved to Dubai. Our new school at least handled the logistics of living and working in Dubai....thank God. So many changes....so many challenges....all of your words resonate! Peace and love to you and your wife in your adventures!!
We went through this nearly a year ago when we relocated to the Czech Republic - it was all so worth it though! Best of luck to you both❣️
I'm 51. My dream for years has been to travel and move to some small village in the UK someday. Even if it is just for a year or two.
Just got a job that pays market rate so I can start saving towards this dream.
In the meantime, I am already starting the journey of getting rid of my stuff so I'll be ready when the opportunity comes.
Sometimes I get so tired and overwhelmed by it and think, "Maybe I'm just a fool to think this way. Maybe I'm too old to do something like this."
Then this video popped up at the top of my RUclips feed this morning! I think it is a sign confirming I'm on the right track!
I have subscribed and will be following you on your journey!
Great video! My husband and I have moved to different countries and we know about all the stress, excitement, and expectations that are felt all at once.
Wow - this was an amazing video. How you got this beautiful process and journey concisely documented in 12 minutes is a feat. I wish you sooo much happiness in your travels! Thank you for sharing this with us! May God/Source/Universe keep blessing you