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Hey Julien :D long follower here. How would authenticity work in media/politics ? I'm an aspiring politician right now, president of the party in my city actually, But I'm thinking how can I get more regotnition. Sending Hugs and love
This stuff is great, I feel like I've tried explaining this sort of stuff to some of my friends & hell, even people I don't know that well. Where do you hold these? Ever in Las Vegas? I really dig the whole vibe.
@@cap1804 no way. Maybe that works for a certain type I person, but political is the last thing I wanna hear from someone, cause it's also the last thing I'm gonna give, if at all.
@@MP-oj6zo l hope you got in touch with Julien directly, it sounds really good you are interested in this while being a politician , l bet you will get far! l see he didn't reply so hope you didn't give up getting in touch or tried his newer videos where he is very active on the comments. l wonder if because of the number of insulting comments on this video from people who didn't understand the work or what he was trying to teach through this video, that he has lost interest in answering comments on here 9well, at least if l had been in a similar situation it would have been my reason for the silence!)
I dont understand these, could you please explain it more? So if your confidence was built up, it means it is not really a confidence? Thanks in advance for answering.
@@arthurpalermo8395 i think what he is saying is many mistake their front as confidence since it is this mask you wear in front of others to hide your true self. Your authentic self is true confidence because you aren't trying to conform yourself to the image you imagine others want to see but instead saying this is who I am and if you don't like it so what, your opinion on me is nothing more than a false projection.
@@atyusriggins3824 I think you are your authentic self most of the time internally, so it ends up being much easier to be congruent when you finally allow yourself to take down the front.
I literally started crying and imagined I was on stage and wanting all the emotions to come out when it feels like they don’t want to I got the transformation mastery program and it felt like there was a front I was putting on myself but here felt real
Exactly the same, I imagined myself up there too and I got frustrated at how I want to feel but there’s like a wall that stops me from showing my true emotion
This tall kid in the glasses is such a boss! He was so brave to stand up and go through this. Whatever you think is the “perfect image “ doesn’t really exist and you’re pretty awesome yourself and you only have to realize it. You can see he’s willing to do whatever it takes to learn and grow and be his best self. Congrats man and good luck
I was here. I remember the whole vibe in the room changed and it was some of the most intense atmosphere I've ever felt. I still talk about this shit to my friends to this day. Respect to Julien and all of RSD for their great work 🔥
It's extremely effective psychotherapy. This video is old, but it impacted my life without me realizing it. I've done this exact same thing with certain people. The problem is that when you need to do a cognitive task it puts you back inside your head. So you constantly need to remind yourself to let it go when you're done with the mental tasks
@@klasp100 yes, the mind is a tool. Nothing else. Only bring it out when it's needed. And many times intuition and spontaniety will let you know anyway so the mind is needed even less than one might assume.
I wouldn't believe he was acting. That was way to real feeling. So either he was absolutely saying the truth that that guy disgusts him( which I could totally see especially if he was him in the past) or if he can make me feel so effectively that he absolutely was disgusted by the guy and wasn't nothing else he says it does can be trusted.
I started shaking just watching this video. I felt numerous of child hood memories just pierce my gut as he made them talk in front of everyone. Then I got up and pretended to talk in front of a crowd and felt like I could talk for hours. It felt so natural.
The key to the exercise is to learn to be comfortable with yourself. In the exercise its julian who actually has the issue of being disgusted, but that's not your problem. In this exercise the focus should have been redirected to julian and attempt to explore why he is uncomfortable around the individual. Again this is a role playing experience. Understanding that it's you who give others authority over you, or it's you who allows a feeling to be experienced. It's all you who has the ability to control who you are. You make your self afraid, you make yourself to feel happy, you create and allow the feelings you experience. You are the creator.
It actually has. There even is an old saying: “Be yourself” You want a light version? Watch the movie “The Peaceful Warrior” You want the heavy philosophical and practical version? Get into Gurdjieff’s work. Mind-blowing!!!
@chocolate pudding If they just went through this single "release" on stage, yes. Nothing permanent will happen. However, there are people out there who are willing to work on themselves. Who are not looking for a quick fix and give up after one attempt. If the did stick to this type of work they will have changed. I went throguh this for years and it is unbelievable what this type of work does.
@chocolate pudding emotional experiences are the closest to permanent we can get to. Memories that aren't emotionally charged disappears, while the other ones stay forever.
@chocolatepudding6146Everything you do makes new connections. So it's not going to be some giant change overnight but I'm sure this made a tiny permanent change in them.
When you started raising your voice at the first guy, it genuinely made me tighten up like he did. But it instantly made me think of how I was verbally abused as a child and how I’d always get extremely hot, and shaky and have to try to hold in and choke on my tears to try and not show that I was extremely hurt by it
I learned to take off the front when I was cornered at work and this buff couldn’t worker slapped me across the head and said hey, stop smiling bro. He said to be real and that’s when I realized it’s ok to show your true emotions. Even if they are not positive. Just be respectful on how you deliver those emotions onto others. Don’t hide them or make things up. Express how you really feel in a polite manner. And you will be respected.
You're giving me "Dead Poets Society" vibes when Robin Williams put so much pressure on Ethan Hawke in front of the class and he broke him into being authentic with emotions. Love this. Much needed especially for times like this where everyone is in a cacoon not socializing. I personally need this myself
Funny, in another comment I mentioned a scene from Good Will Hunting, where Robin Williams got the same result but with more compassionate approach that was still just as unrelenting at breaking down that wall.
Funny how the key to authenticity is to be in your body and not in your head. Everyone always preaches the importance of constantly thinking and it’s not always good!
I don’t think that’s necessarily true. If you look at Arthur Fleck in the joker, his dominant nature is Authenticity and the way he approaches everything is with metaphysical ideation. INFP personality types like Keanu Reeves and Johnny Deep are stuck in their heads but true to themselves no matter what.
I've never seen this kind of human behavior before. This seems like cheating the laws of physics. It seems like destroying a wall which took 20 years to get build in only 2 minutes. I can't believe how Julien got this behavior and traits, I feel like he's opening a door to new possibilities of human life
A lot of experimenting. Just imagine meeting new people nearly everyday for years on end. Always in social circles always surrounded by women bla bla bla. Always in your feelings
@@tommycaffrey191 Well not really considering confidence is something you realize, not something you build up to!!! Once you realize it, it’s already there! No need to build up to it!!!
It's true and it's awesome! Also remember what he said, this will come back over and over again because the roots of it our subconscious and it takes continued intensity of this nature to actually pull out the roots of this shit
When he started to be authentic about how he thinks he fucked up I immediately started tearing up, cause I've been there and know exactly how he feels and we feel connection to a person u never met. Thank you for being so brave ❤❤❤
This was such a eye opener. We don’t realize how much we suppress our real self every single day. ‘When you’re authentic, there’s a certain excitement and light in the eyes that kinda kicks in’ - This resonated deep! I feel authentic sometimes and I notice the impact it has on others, they become so friendly to me and strangers even just stare. This tells me they see authenticity and want to be friendly to me.. Amazed! Glad I stumbled to your channel ❤️
İ love the realness so damn much. You never see this much rawness out there. İ thought i was authentic but now i realize I'm putting on a show too like the second guy. Too reserved, too scared of saying the wrong thing... Still like you said, no matter how "fucked up" someone may be, it's almost impossible to not validate and respect authenticity when it shows it's head
Thanks for the comment because reading it made me realise the same thing about me lol. I felt like I'm pretty authentic as well but now I'm questioning the way I act and show up. I've learned to be charismatic and magnetic from RSD but inside I feel like I'm always holding back because I don't want to lose the approval. I get the quick win and I exit, it's like a dirty high that I'm protecting. And I feel so dumb because I'm using so much of my energy on what? Wanting others to like me? Micromanaging myself to be accepted by people I don't give a f about? So dumb
Past couple days I broke down and have felt a lot more in tune with my emotions. Feels amazing, and freeing. But remembering to keep an anchor on them when necessary
You put the best content online that I’ve ever seen, one day I’ll grow the balls to buy your course, I get closer ever year. I would love/hate being that guy at the front, this was absolutely incredible, I need my ass kicking like this, I wish I could throw away all the useless conditioning I’ve learned all my life xx
Interesting that he put him in a paradox because the guy wants to please him, and to do that he feels he needs to put up a front and hide authenticity, but to please him he needs to be authentic. It's like it doesn't compute in the way he's become programmed. He's done a great job of showing that. Hat off to the courage and vulnerability going up there!
I've been watching this everyday since I found it. Something clicked, I saw my inner self, and I had a great day. I found this after I purchased TM mentoring and started on the TM academy. After seeing myself and running through the first month I do have alot of fear of slipping up. Either way, this is great stuff. Thanks for the free content aswell.
Seeing the process is pure gold. The level of skill, tact and tenacity for Julian to stay in the fire and really encourage these guys to move past their resistance is next level. I've seen a lot of gurus in my day, but the reframing, the grounding, and the awareness transfer for these guys to get a breakthrough is a lesson in on-stage brilliance. Bravo!
When I feel sad I sometimes just look for the exact word/concept/idea that makes me feel the most pain and just repeat it over to myself until I felt it enough that I can embrace it.
@@JulienHimself I let go of it when I acknowledge and accept it, so hence I search the most painful thing and feel it all the way so the pain doesn't hurt me afterwards. Then I let it go 😁
somehow this hit harder than a lot of stuff you've put out. not to downplay anything you've previously done at all, but I really think the harsh truth is what needs to be heard right now. tough Love. it just resonates, because everything in society is trying to baby us and comfort us. Hearing the true harsh reality goes right to the soul.
Look at this man standing half naked in front of all these guys expressing his true feelings and still thinking he did not climb the wall! Massive respect to both, that was awesome.
the moment the guy with the glasses started saying how he felt like a fuck up an how he felt like he wasn’t doing what the guy was telling him to do correctly is the moment he succeeded felt the authenticity in the words an how he was breathing damn near made me drop a tear
@@JulienHimself ay man i understand almost all of this but i don't understand two things: lets just say i am fully authentic all of the time, woudn't i end up disrespecting somebody or hurting somebody's feelings, also another thing i understand that these people broke from their front a couple of times but how do they make this permanent, the feel-good affects of this exercise are temporary but the wall will still be their, any tips to be constantly comfortable in my own skin permanently?
Nobody is doing this work. Everyone's damaged, we have to face it. This is fantastic work from Julien. Been watching him for 10+ years since RSD-type stuff....this is amazing work.
This video made me realise that I've put a front a lot more often than I thought. Also, a few years ago, when I began to improve myself, I bought into a fake it until you make it -mindset. A lot of fronts and acting out, especially in the beginning. It did help me to battle my social anxiety and in finding my inner confidence, BUT... what Julien said about confidence, that you must REALISE it, hit hard. Looking back at my own past experiences, I'm realising that it is true.
Crazy man Really Courageous from your side too! Crazy thing to host this kind of seminar 🙏, just watching it i started to freak out. You can sense the energy from the video itself. Don't know what to say, grateful for yours and Owen's videos. Much love
To the first one: I think that in the back of his head he thought something like: "you HAVE to say what he expects... what he wants to hear... only then it's ok and you can congratulate yourself on dodging this". And in reality he would wanted to say "i don't understand... what do you mean? How do i do that? I don't get it!" ... over and over again until it clicks. He reminds me of my former self.
That first 10 minutes must have felt like an hour for that second guy lmao hahahaha. This is an interesting way of exsposing our deepest insecurities. But honestly, I just think this would make me even more anxious getting up on a stage in front of people in the future. I agree yes, after being up there feeling uncomfortable for a while you properly get used to it for the amount of time you're up there, but when you go home and sleep on it, your brain only stores that uncomfortable feeling which will trigger as soon as you have to do a similar thing again. I for example always hated doing presentations, and people always said "the more you do it, the more you get used to it". I have done it quite a few times, and it is just as uncomfortable everytime. I properly have a ton of trauma. I was always the quite type who got bullied as a kid, and I am aware of that. I have gotten better at being social and better at small talk, but presentations and stage presence is just not my thing. Also I feel exhausted when I've been social for too long. Maybe I'm autistic or some shit like that. But this would be waaay to intense for me. I would be like number 2 guy but even worse. I might even run off stage in sheer panic, shaking and then lauging my ass of in the car, of how uncomfortable I felt but at the same time feeling like a coward. It would be cool feeling total comfortable in akward situations like this.
Some girls have told me to let go of my mask. I cling to it in fear of driving people away if they saw my true self. I almost don't know myself and often try to appease to gain respect or love. Funny thing is when I have moments of inadvertent authenticity (like it happens without really trying) I feel whole and at peace with who I am, even when I have negative outbursts, like of anger or sorrow, being my true self. I'll always work to be better but I'll never apologise for being who I am. I met you years ago in London, Julien, and I hope to meet you and Owen again someday. Thanks for this
when he said "fuck your ego" i was so into it that I felt a pulse of slight pain in my chest and stomach. It was my ego and my pride. It felt so threatened that it told me to stop. And now that's exactly what I have to get rid of.
People do like authenticity, but there's still a set of social norms that you have to abide by to get along in society. You can't just be completely indifferent to everyone else and brutally honest and true to yourself ALL the time, or people will reject you. I know this from experience
Shirtless guy said there's not motivation or pull from the other side of his wall, but I think he knows that EVERYTHING is on the other side of it. He said he thinks he's not good enough so it kills his motivation thinking he will fail. Not trying feels safer, but is so much harder to sit with than a small failure or setback
Damn I just found this video This being the second video I'm watching and man this hit home My dude up there on stage, feeling the nerves, the anxiety etc... It gave me flash back to the 1st day I went to teach my 1st class (I'm a teacher) And damn I went in thinking, they are just kids I can do this And I went in n I reverted back to my highschool days n I couldn't speak, my voice disappeared, I started sweating n trembling And I ran out of the class shaking, super anxious and feeling the fear, I teared up but bit by bit as the days went by I concurred it Right now I'm taking a training and I found myself being the smart kid who responds to every question the teachers ask, when I used to be the super silent kid in class who only talks to 1 person. If you are someone who got severe social anxiety or anything like that, just face it go to the point that it makes u tear up n remember that feeling n how not as bad it was than what you thought it would be. N thanks Julien for doing what you do
I love the comments and everything, but if you’re not taking juliens advice everyday and putting in the work, it’s really useless to watch his videos, he gives you the fucking key to everything and people who watch videos get out there start doing what he says, don’t just watch the video to watch take it in and imply it to your life. Strive to be better everyday.
Always avoiding defense mechanisms that your brain gives you can be harmful to your mental health, work on yourself when opportune, listen to your body and mind, do not force stress upon yourself if it gives you no reward afterwards. Respect starts with self respect, once you become confident and/or happy others will gravitate toward you, life will reward you. We all go through trials but that’s why we must conquer infinite tribulation. Do things that lead to growth, I’m talking about what you know is growth, not what you hear is growth. If you don’t know where to start, just do something, anything, get that brain working. Become YOU 💙 much love, may we succeed
At the same time, you can manipulate anyone into being seemingly “authentic” by bullying and manipulating them. Not the best approach. I feel for that guy!
I've been thinking about this conversation since the video was streamed and I kept thinking about the problems gta players have with Rockstar Games (😁 I'm a gta player), youtubers with youtube, me and my relationship with my parents too, for some reason lol. There are things in all three of them that I agree and disagree with. With gta, there are many things like modders I hate. However, to say I hate my favorite game for that reason, I would be lying to myself. There are examples of youtube and my parents that I do not want to make an example of, but it resonates the same 😁. In that, there is nothing wrong with disagreeing with something or someone for some reason if done in and by good faith in accordance to ones moral values and or boundaries, what is most important is ones control of self emotion and the ability to communicate it respectfully and successfully!
I haven't seen too much or attended these events. But the problem with public speaking is that people aren't taught how to do it. Getting someone pumped up and telling them talk about something they're passionate about it difficult, especially given with no context. If someone told me to speak on a topic I can do that, but to make one up then also speak on it, I find it difficult to pick a topic cuz I feel there are so many or the opposite many people haven't found their life passion yet
Even now I'm wondering if these words are authentic or is this just what I think people will relate to and maybe cosign? The shyt runs deep. The tall dude's transformation was incredible. He went from mail room intern introvert to CEO or high level executive presenter before our eyes.
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Hey Julien :D long follower here. How would authenticity work in media/politics ? I'm an aspiring politician right now, president of the party in my city actually, But I'm thinking how can I get more regotnition. Sending Hugs and love
This stuff is great, I feel like I've tried explaining this sort of stuff to some of my friends & hell, even people I don't know that well. Where do you hold these? Ever in Las Vegas? I really dig the whole vibe.
@@cap1804 no way. Maybe that works for a certain type I person, but political is the last thing I wanna hear from someone, cause it's also the last thing I'm gonna give, if at all.
@@MP-oj6zo l hope you got in touch with Julien directly, it sounds really good you are interested in this while being a politician , l bet you will get far! l see he didn't reply so hope you didn't give up getting in touch or tried his newer videos where he is very active on the comments. l wonder if because of the number of insulting comments on this video from people who didn't understand the work or what he was trying to teach through this video, that he has lost interest in answering comments on here 9well, at least if l had been in a similar situation it would have been my reason for the silence!)
18:56 child p0rm whatever for real if i was said i been kicked?
"confidence isnt something you build up to , its something you realize." -Julien well said.
Yes! 🙌
I dont understand these, could you please explain it more? So if your confidence was built up, it means it is not really a confidence? Thanks in advance for answering.
@@arthurpalermo8395 i think what he is saying is many mistake their front as confidence since it is this mask you wear in front of others to hide your true self. Your authentic self is true confidence because you aren't trying to conform yourself to the image you imagine others want to see but instead saying this is who I am and if you don't like it so what, your opinion on me is nothing more than a false projection.
@@atyusriggins3824 thank you so much for helping me to understand it more clearly. I really appreciated it! :)
@@atyusriggins3824 I think you are your authentic self most of the time internally, so it ends up being much easier to be congruent when you finally allow yourself to take down the front.
When he said: "I'm afraid their going to see my pain." I felt the weight of it
Yep, what's most personal is most universal! 🙏
*they're
@@Noir0rioN lol 😂 👍🏼👍🏼
@@Noir0rioN 😂😂😂 good one dud 😐
I literally started crying and imagined I was on stage and wanting all the emotions to come out when it feels like they don’t want to I got the transformation mastery program and it felt like there was a front I was putting on myself but here felt real
Same thing here. I wasn't at my phone but could still hear when they were being authentic
Exactly the same, I imagined myself up there too and I got frustrated at how I want to feel but there’s like a wall that stops me from showing my true emotion
This guy is amazing for real
Yes bro
Same
This tall kid in the glasses is such a boss! He was so brave to stand up and go through this. Whatever you think is the “perfect image “ doesn’t really exist and you’re pretty awesome yourself and you only have to realize it. You can see he’s willing to do whatever it takes to learn and grow and be his best self. Congrats man and good luck
Yes, massive respect to both of them!
I was here. I remember the whole vibe in the room changed and it was some of the most intense atmosphere I've ever felt. I still talk about this shit to my friends to this day. Respect to Julien and all of RSD for their great work 🔥
🙏🙏🙏
Adam, are you in the states? Would be cool to chat about it
It's extremely effective psychotherapy. This video is old, but it impacted my life without me realizing it. I've done this exact same thing with certain people. The problem is that when you need to do a cognitive task it puts you back inside your head. So you constantly need to remind yourself to let it go when you're done with the mental tasks
@@klasp100 yes, the mind is a tool. Nothing else. Only bring it out when it's needed.
And many times intuition and spontaniety will let you know anyway so the mind is needed even less than one might assume.
I wouldn't believe he was acting. That was way to real feeling. So either he was absolutely saying the truth that that guy disgusts him( which I could totally see especially if he was him in the past) or if he can make me feel so effectively that he absolutely was disgusted by the guy and wasn't nothing else he says it does can be trusted.
“Confidence isn’t something you get, it’s something you realize” 🤯
Legendary
YES! 🙌
I started shaking just watching this video. I felt numerous of child hood memories just pierce my gut as he made them talk in front of everyone. Then I got up and pretended to talk in front of a crowd and felt like I could talk for hours. It felt so natural.
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The key to the exercise is to learn to be comfortable with yourself. In the exercise its julian who actually has the issue of being disgusted, but that's not your problem. In this exercise the focus should have been redirected to julian and attempt to explore why he is uncomfortable around the individual.
Again this is a role playing experience.
Understanding that it's you who give others authority over you, or it's you who allows a feeling to be experienced. It's all you who has the ability to control who you are. You make your self afraid, you make yourself to feel happy, you create and allow the feelings you experience.
You are the creator.
It's so crazy that nothing like this has ever existed besides what Julien and Owen put out. This is important. Thank you
Nobody? What you mean
It actually has. There even is an old saying: “Be yourself” You want a light version? Watch the movie “The Peaceful Warrior” You want the heavy philosophical and practical version? Get into Gurdjieff’s work. Mind-blowing!!!
Wrong lol
The famous breakdown scene from Good Will Hunting basically encapsulated all of this.
Yes it has existed 50 years ago.primal therapy.
If you can somehow manage to get these two guys to record an update on how they are doing now, it would be amazing. I'd love to see them thriving.
@chocolate pudding If they just went through this single "release" on stage, yes. Nothing permanent will happen.
However, there are people out there who are willing to work on themselves. Who are not looking for a quick fix and give up after one attempt.
If the did stick to this type of work they will have changed. I went throguh this for years and it is unbelievable what this type of work does.
@chocolate pudding so are sad or negative emotions, it’s all temporary
@chocolate pudding He did put some subconscious commands in there with some anchors. We definitely need to see a review to tell what happened.
@chocolate pudding emotional experiences are the closest to permanent we can get to. Memories that aren't emotionally charged disappears, while the other ones stay forever.
@chocolatepudding6146Everything you do makes new connections. So it's not going to be some giant change overnight but I'm sure this made a tiny permanent change in them.
When you started raising your voice at the first guy, it genuinely made me tighten up like he did. But it instantly made me think of how I was verbally abused as a child and how I’d always get extremely hot, and shaky and have to try to hold in and choke on my tears to try and not show that I was extremely hurt by it
So relatable.
That big ass smile when the room affirmed their connection to the first person’s authentic feelings. My heart melted.
I learned to take off the front when I was cornered at work and this buff couldn’t worker slapped me across the head and said hey, stop smiling bro. He said to be real and that’s when I realized it’s ok to show your true emotions. Even if they are not positive. Just be respectful on how you deliver those emotions onto others. Don’t hide them or make things up. Express how you really feel in a polite manner. And you will be respected.
You're giving me "Dead Poets Society" vibes when Robin Williams put so much pressure on Ethan Hawke in front of the class and he broke him into being authentic with emotions. Love this. Much needed especially for times like this where everyone is in a cacoon not socializing. I personally need this myself
Funny, in another comment I mentioned a scene from Good Will Hunting, where Robin Williams got the same result but with more compassionate approach that was still just as unrelenting at breaking down that wall.
Funny how the key to authenticity is to be in your body and not in your head. Everyone always preaches the importance of constantly thinking and it’s not always good!
Well said!
I don’t think that’s necessarily true. If you look at Arthur Fleck in the joker, his dominant nature is Authenticity and the way he approaches everything is with metaphysical ideation. INFP personality types like Keanu Reeves and Johnny Deep are stuck in their heads but true to themselves no matter what.
I appreciate the sentiment but I haven't heard anyone talk about the importance of constantly thinking.
@@itaintova8309 they express tho
I've never seen this kind of human behavior before. This seems like cheating the laws of physics. It seems like destroying a wall which took 20 years to get build in only 2 minutes.
I can't believe how Julien got this behavior and traits, I feel like he's opening a door to new possibilities of human life
A lot of experimenting. Just imagine meeting new people nearly everyday for years on end. Always in social circles always surrounded by women bla bla bla. Always in your feelings
@@tommycaffrey191 Well not really considering confidence is something you realize, not something you build up to!!! Once you realize it, it’s already there! No need to build up to it!!!
It's true and it's awesome! Also remember what he said, this will come back over and over again because the roots of it our subconscious and it takes continued intensity of this nature to actually pull out the roots of this shit
10:30 dude in blue in the audience with the glasses broke character and returned to being serious simultaneously 🤣
When he started to be authentic about how he thinks he fucked up I immediately started tearing up, cause I've been there and know exactly how he feels and we feel connection to a person u never met. Thank you for being so brave ❤❤❤
This was such a eye opener. We don’t realize how much we suppress our real self every single day.
‘When you’re authentic, there’s a certain excitement and light in the eyes that kinda kicks in’ - This resonated deep! I feel authentic sometimes and I notice the impact it has on others, they become so friendly to me and strangers even just stare. This tells me they see authenticity and want to be friendly to me.. Amazed! Glad I stumbled to your channel ❤️
YES! Welcome to the channel! 🙏
İ love the realness so damn much. You never see this much rawness out there. İ thought i was authentic but now i realize I'm putting on a show too like the second guy. Too reserved, too scared of saying the wrong thing...
Still like you said, no matter how "fucked up" someone may be, it's almost impossible to not validate and respect authenticity when it shows it's head
Amen brother well said!
Thanks for the comment because reading it made me realise the same thing about me lol.
I felt like I'm pretty authentic as well but now I'm questioning the way I act and show up.
I've learned to be charismatic and magnetic from RSD but inside I feel like I'm always holding back because I don't want to lose the approval.
I get the quick win and I exit, it's like a dirty high that I'm protecting.
And I feel so dumb because I'm using so much of my energy on what? Wanting others to like me? Micromanaging myself to be accepted by people I don't give a f about?
So dumb
Past couple days I broke down and have felt a lot more in tune with my emotions. Feels amazing, and freeing. But remembering to keep an anchor on them when necessary
Haven’t watched your new videos for a while, glad to watch you again, this is very valuable
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You put the best content online that I’ve ever seen, one day I’ll grow the balls to buy your course, I get closer ever year. I would love/hate being that guy at the front, this was absolutely incredible, I need my ass kicking like this, I wish I could throw away all the useless conditioning I’ve learned all my life xx
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Interesting that he put him in a paradox because the guy wants to please him, and to do that he feels he needs to put up a front and hide authenticity, but to please him he needs to be authentic. It's like it doesn't compute in the way he's become programmed. He's done a great job of showing that. Hat off to the courage and vulnerability going up there!
I've been watching this everyday since I found it. Something clicked, I saw my inner self, and I had a great day. I found this after I purchased TM mentoring and started on the TM academy. After seeing myself and running through the first month I do have alot of fear of slipping up. Either way, this is great stuff. Thanks for the free content aswell.
Amazing to hear!! We’ll work on this together in the mentoring! 🙏
Seeing the process is pure gold. The level of skill, tact and tenacity for Julian to stay in the fire and really encourage these guys to move past their resistance is next level. I've seen a lot of gurus in my day, but the reframing, the grounding, and the awareness transfer for these guys to get a breakthrough is a lesson in on-stage brilliance. Bravo!
At 8:34 he literally lets go with his right hand. He’d been holding it the entire time. Amazing moment.
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Julien, I want to hug you. Thank you for helping me in my journey to free myself. You're giving people their lives back. You're the man.💪👍🤗
Omg! I used to search authenticity videos on youtube and i never really grasped what it meant, but today, you made it so clear to me! Thank you much!
Just when i thought I was out.. Julien pulls me back in. This is exactly what i needed too, wow
Glad this resonates!! Check out Transformation Mastery for more btw! 👊
It's so trippy watching myself in the outro every time.
I love what you're doing Julien. This stuff is so powerful. This is it
Thanks man!! Proud of your journey through the mentoring! 🙌
@@JulienHimself you didn't see a quarter of it ;)
How everything is going Man?
When I feel sad I sometimes just look for the exact word/concept/idea that makes me feel the most pain and just repeat it over to myself until I felt it enough that I can embrace it.
Have you tried letting go instead? julienhimself.com/self-help 😉
@@JulienHimself I let go of it when I acknowledge and accept it, so hence I search the most painful thing and feel it all the way so the pain doesn't hurt me afterwards. Then I let it go 😁
somehow this hit harder than a lot of stuff you've put out. not to downplay anything you've previously done at all, but I really think the harsh truth is what needs to be heard right now. tough Love. it just resonates, because everything in society is trying to baby us and comfort us. Hearing the true harsh reality goes right to the soul.
Look at this man standing half naked in front of all these guys expressing his true feelings and still thinking he did not climb the wall! Massive respect to both, that was awesome.
the moment the guy with the glasses started saying how he felt like a fuck up an how he felt like he wasn’t doing what the guy was telling him to do correctly is the moment he succeeded felt the authenticity in the words an how he was breathing damn near made me drop a tear
YES! 🙏
@@JulienHimself ay man i understand almost all of this but i don't understand two things: lets just say i am fully authentic all of the time, woudn't i end up disrespecting somebody or hurting somebody's feelings, also another thing i understand that these people broke from their front a couple of times but how do they make this permanent, the feel-good affects of this exercise are temporary but the wall will still be their, any tips to be constantly comfortable in my own skin permanently?
TO THE SHIRTLESS GUY WE LOVE YOU! YOU DID A GREAT JOB AND WE WISH WE COULDVE BEEN IN YOUR POSITION
22:30 I seen and felt the wall crumble, hes voice was real, his body language was real, his honesty was truth and he was glowing.
Yes! The power of AUTHENTICITY! 🙏
Nobody is doing this work. Everyone's damaged, we have to face it. This is fantastic work from Julien. Been watching him for 10+ years since RSD-type stuff....this is amazing work.
Thank you for your longtime support!! 🙏
Healing begins when you look at these insecurities instead of coping.
This video made me realise that I've put a front a lot more often than I thought. Also, a few years ago, when I began to improve myself, I bought into a fake it until you make it -mindset. A lot of fronts and acting out, especially in the beginning.
It did help me to battle my social anxiety and in finding my inner confidence, BUT... what Julien said about confidence, that you must REALISE it, hit hard. Looking back at my own past experiences, I'm realising that it is true.
Same here!
This video is super introspective... this made me cry. Julien you are huge inspiration.
Like a dog on a bone brother, you sniffed the front and got deep as F. The world is in dire need of more authenticity - amazing work Julien 🔥
Ayyy Rubin suprised tosee you here! Would love to know more cntent you think is valuable for curing SA
@@yandhi4202 For sure brother, is there any topics or anything specific you are dealing with that you would like to see on my channel?
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 weird triggers would be a good topic , like uncontrollably blushing for no reason
I noticed nofap has helped with social anxiety, not watching xxx content
Oh that first guy... I feel your pain man, but you look better than you think! Keep going, you can get really far
The energy and encouraging vibe felt like being front row seat at a solid men’s Bible study group minus the cussing 😂
Crazy man Really Courageous from your side too! Crazy thing to host this kind of seminar 🙏, just watching it i started to freak out. You can sense the energy from the video itself. Don't know what to say, grateful for yours and Owen's videos. Much love
Glad this resonates! Pick up a copy of TM (50% right now) if you want more this btw: bit.ly/3mWYBMc 🙏
Wow, here’s a guy doing some actual good work for men everywhere.
Watching this I am crying. Love you Julien❤️
Am I the only one who wants to try this? I want to be in their place and see how I would come off and how things would go
Go for it then! 🤘
I can’t lie Julian your tactics are phenomenally bad ass!!!
Man, love these vids. This one reminded me of when I did acting. We'd have to get out of our head and perform something right away.
Nice! Glad this resonates!
This is content that really We can relate rather than lectures ... That's the Content i have Really learnt a lot 😎
Thank you! Glad this is so helpful!! 🙏
So glad god brought me to your channel I’m really realizing who I am thank you so much
To the first one: I think that in the back of his head he thought something like: "you HAVE to say what he expects... what he wants to hear... only then it's ok and you can congratulate yourself on dodging this".
And in reality he would wanted to say "i don't understand... what do you mean? How do i do that? I don't get it!" ... over and over again until it clicks.
He reminds me of my former self.
I grew up in Jersey bro. Telling people what I think isn't a big deal. When your ever in the Phila area I'd gladly volunteer.
That first 10 minutes must have felt like an hour for that second guy lmao hahahaha. This is an interesting way of exsposing our deepest insecurities. But honestly, I just think this would make me even more anxious getting up on a stage in front of people in the future. I agree yes, after being up there feeling uncomfortable for a while you properly get used to it for the amount of time you're up there, but when you go home and sleep on it, your brain only stores that uncomfortable feeling which will trigger as soon as you have to do a similar thing again. I for example always hated doing presentations, and people always said "the more you do it, the more you get used to it". I have done it quite a few times, and it is just as uncomfortable everytime. I properly have a ton of trauma. I was always the quite type who got bullied as a kid, and I am aware of that. I have gotten better at being social and better at small talk, but presentations and stage presence is just not my thing. Also I feel exhausted when I've been social for too long. Maybe I'm autistic or some shit like that. But this would be waaay to intense for me. I would be like number 2 guy but even worse. I might even run off stage in sheer panic, shaking and then lauging my ass of in the car, of how uncomfortable I felt but at the same time feeling like a coward. It would be cool feeling total comfortable in akward situations like this.
Some girls have told me to let go of my mask. I cling to it in fear of driving people away if they saw my true self.
I almost don't know myself and often try to appease to gain respect or love.
Funny thing is when I have moments of inadvertent authenticity (like it happens without really trying) I feel whole and at peace with who I am, even when I have negative outbursts, like of anger or sorrow, being my true self.
I'll always work to be better but I'll never apologise for being who I am.
I met you years ago in London, Julien, and I hope to meet you and Owen again someday. Thanks for this
I can’t put into words how meaningful this is to me, (or I just did) haha thanks for making these videos
when he said "fuck your ego" i was so into it that I felt a pulse of slight pain in my chest and stomach. It was my ego and my pride. It felt so threatened that it told me to stop. And now that's exactly what I have to get rid of.
People do like authenticity, but there's still a set of social norms that you have to abide by to get along in society. You can't just be completely indifferent to everyone else and brutally honest and true to yourself ALL the time, or people will reject you. I know this from experience
Don’t you also know from experience that people will reject you no matter what?
@@danielwells774 people won't reject you no matter what lmfao..who told you that
Exactly because people get offended too easily also
This channel is amazing, just listening people being real while i work 🤣
Me screaming We are Warriors👊🏽 in my deepest tone activates my manliness and try speaking after that your voice got louder and deeper
Wish I could cry.
You can, everyone can
i think this concept of actually demonstration is alot more powerful and entertaining to watch
Glad this resonates! A LOT more of this in Transformation Mastery btw, 50% off right now: bit.ly/3mWYBMc
Shit ngl I started crying when thr second guy stood there silently. You could really tell he was fighting a whole battle inside of him
Glad this resonated so deeply! 🙏
Shirtless guy said there's not motivation or pull from the other side of his wall, but I think he knows that EVERYTHING is on the other side of it.
He said he thinks he's not good enough so it kills his motivation thinking he will fail.
Not trying feels safer, but is so much harder to sit with than a small failure or setback
Man thumbs up for how quickly u notice the fraud and call it ..👏👏👏
Thank you! Glad this resonated!
You can see the light in the guys eyes when he hugs him
When the shirtless guy finally did it..
Man, i started crying
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Same, got teary eyed.
This was amazing. Thank you so much for sharing this.
You're very welcome! Glad this was helpful!
That is so brutal, it is corrosive in the best possible way
It can be harsh yes, but it works... 🙏
i think the first man needed some more supportive rebuilding. Or more time with you for more guidance in order to actually get something out of it.
This is great to watch and feel apart of. I need to start being me, without the front. 🙏
Damn I just found this video
This being the second video I'm watching and man this hit home
My dude up there on stage, feeling the nerves, the anxiety etc...
It gave me flash back to the 1st day I went to teach my 1st class (I'm a teacher)
And damn I went in thinking, they are just kids I can do this
And I went in n I reverted back to my highschool days n I couldn't speak, my voice disappeared, I started sweating n trembling
And I ran out of the class shaking, super anxious and feeling the fear, I teared up but bit by bit as the days went by I concurred it
Right now I'm taking a training and I found myself being the smart kid who responds to every question the teachers ask, when I used to be the super silent kid in class who only talks to 1 person.
If you are someone who got severe social anxiety or anything like that, just face it go to the point that it makes u tear up n remember that feeling n how not as bad it was than what you thought it would be.
N thanks Julien for doing what you do
2:51 That actually sent me laughing😂. "Don't even fucking laugh, cuz I'm serious"
Love it, keep on keepin' on man. 💙
Blue shirt guy's voice changed when he was authentic. Wow.
he will never forget this experience
Its funny how just watching these dudes be awkward and how id probably react makes it more real. Their reactions make them more relateable
this is how fight club starts up again
thank you for this
You're very welcome!
This is some deep work youre doing bro Salute 💯💯💯👍👍👍
I love the comments and everything, but if you’re not taking juliens advice everyday and putting in the work, it’s really useless to watch his videos, he gives you the fucking key to everything and people who watch videos get out there start doing what he says, don’t just watch the video to watch take it in and imply it to your life. Strive to be better everyday.
Julian is basically a spiritual guy, love this dude
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I don't know how I ended up in this corner of the RUclips but damn, this is better than magic!
Lol, glad this resonates! Welcome to the channel! 🙏
Always avoiding defense mechanisms that your brain gives you can be harmful to your mental health, work on yourself when opportune, listen to your body and mind, do not force stress upon yourself if it gives you no reward afterwards. Respect starts with self respect, once you become confident and/or happy others will gravitate toward you, life will reward you. We all go through trials but that’s why we must conquer infinite tribulation. Do things that lead to growth, I’m talking about what you know is growth, not what you hear is growth. If you don’t know where to start, just do something, anything, get that brain working. Become YOU 💙 much love, may we succeed
amazing!!! just amazing
But literally the best content along with the transformation mastery meditation
At the same time, you can manipulate anyone into being seemingly “authentic” by bullying and manipulating them. Not the best approach. I feel for that guy!
Im so proud of you guys.
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Transformational infield footage video is back! Nice
A LOT more in Transformation Mastery!!
@@JulienHimself yes I have to get back to the practice! Haven’t logged in since the new website!
Really great content julien!!
Thx! PS: This is NOTHING compared to what you'll find inside Transformation Mastery btw - 50% off right now: bit.ly/3mWYBMc
I've been thinking about this conversation since the video was streamed and I kept thinking about the problems gta players have with Rockstar Games (😁 I'm a gta player), youtubers with youtube, me and my relationship with my parents too, for some reason lol. There are things in all three of them that I agree and disagree with. With gta, there are many things like modders I hate. However, to say I hate my favorite game for that reason, I would be lying to myself. There are examples of youtube and my parents that I do not want to make an example of, but it resonates the same 😁. In that, there is nothing wrong with disagreeing with something or someone for some reason if done in and by good faith in accordance to ones moral values and or boundaries, what is most important is ones control of self emotion and the ability to communicate it respectfully and successfully!
I think I get the point now!
I haven't seen too much or attended these events. But the problem with public speaking is that people aren't taught how to do it. Getting someone pumped up and telling them talk about something they're passionate about it difficult, especially given with no context.
If someone told me to speak on a topic I can do that, but to make one up then also speak on it, I find it difficult to pick a topic cuz I feel there are so many or the opposite many people haven't found their life passion yet
Sounds like there's a lot of work to be done then! One should easily be able to do this... 👌
The human has 100 emotions , you can´t run/hide them all , it´s human real and even if you see crying as weakness, it´s YOU and everyone feels
Authenticity above all else! 🙏
@@JulienHimself Exactly
Even now I'm wondering if these words are authentic or is this just what I think people will relate to and maybe cosign? The shyt runs deep. The tall dude's transformation was incredible. He went from mail room intern introvert to CEO or high level executive presenter before our eyes.
Follow the signs of relief. Simply be honest, to yourself and to others. Sometimes it takes time and resistance to find the truth.
Yes 🙏
The second kid is sweating just waiting flr his turn lol
Julian is a hero!
Dude this was intense
A lot of people have problems with extreme anxiety that's hard to get rid of
This dude is straight up doing culty shit. Literally cult reprogramming