She’s the mother of my children. Because of that I will always love her. However the hard truth is, I’m better off without her. The reverse is not true at all. Once this divorce is finalized, she’s going to absolutely struggle without me. While at the same time I will thrive on my own. She’s gonna have to learn that lesson the hard way.
I think you have said it before, I've definitely heard it, but it was great to be reminded. The couple against the problem instead of each other is about as perfect of a way of viewing relationship conflicts.
This is a great video, and provides some really good insight. I'm in the LITE program and trying to figure things out the best I can. My biggest challenge is communication with her, in general. Just being able to initiate the conversations is tough. I can't even focus on her emotions until I overcome that hurdle. Anyway, I have to say that I've never looked at frame as "my view over hers" or as competitive. I've always thought of it as not letting myself to get pulled into reacting to things she says, or losing my cool with her. Keeping a level-headed viewpoint during discussions/conversations sort of thing. This makes me want to keep an eye on how I interact with her now and in the future because I could be doing this without realizing it. Thanks Josh!
If she is wanting me to leave the house to get space etc… do I leave in order to show her that I care about her or do I stay and let her know that I love her and it’s against what I believe? I feel it’s a test and I’ll fail if I leave. How do I incorporate the no frame mindset with collaborating and being empathetic with passing tests? I’m confused.
To answer your question, confidently give her space, whatever that looks like. Just don’t appear anxious or bothered by it and stay kind within your boundaries.
Boo your wasting your time with this guy men demand more from your women! There’s 2 sides to every story you are not all what’s wrong both sides have to compromise
Anything that challenges men to take responsibility, and push themselves to become better, and to better understand women is not a waste of time. Josh is a solid dude who is not promoting short cuts or cheap manipulative tricks but the actual hard work of transformation, which is the best chance to bringing about change in your spouse. Even if it fails, you are still a better man for it. That said, your point about women taking some responsibility is well taken. I wish there was a female equivalent to Josh to talk sense into unreasonably difficult wives
I connected with this video a lot. I think it's the key to getting 'more from your woman', at least for me. I have a great one and made the high frame mistakes. Great video
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She’s the mother of my children. Because of that I will always love her. However the hard truth is, I’m better off without her. The reverse is not true at all. Once this divorce is finalized, she’s going to absolutely struggle without me. While at the same time I will thrive on my own. She’s gonna have to learn that lesson the hard way.
That sounds like a lot of ego. Will you feel happy for her if she finds a new partner before you?
@@user-hx3kd1zn7f let her suck the life out of some other fool
I think you have said it before, I've definitely heard it, but it was great to be reminded. The couple against the problem instead of each other is about as perfect of a way of viewing relationship conflicts.
Are there any more videos going on more about the high frame man?
This is a great video, and provides some really good insight. I'm in the LITE program and trying to figure things out the best I can. My biggest challenge is communication with her, in general. Just being able to initiate the conversations is tough. I can't even focus on her emotions until I overcome that hurdle. Anyway, I have to say that I've never looked at frame as "my view over hers" or as competitive. I've always thought of it as not letting myself to get pulled into reacting to things she says, or losing my cool with her. Keeping a level-headed viewpoint during discussions/conversations sort of thing. This makes me want to keep an eye on how I interact with her now and in the future because I could be doing this without realizing it. Thanks Josh!
If she is wanting me to leave the house to get space etc… do I leave in order to show her that I care about her or do I stay and let her know that I love her and it’s against what I believe? I feel it’s a test and I’ll fail if I leave. How do I incorporate the no frame mindset with collaborating and being empathetic with passing tests? I’m confused.
I always thought holding my frame was not reacting negatively towards her emotions or is this correct?
Don’t cave to her demands like a coward but be supportive of her needs.
To answer your question, confidently give her space, whatever that looks like. Just don’t appear anxious or bothered by it and stay kind within your boundaries.
Josh I need help but am in the UK
What’s a long wolf? Lol
Boo your wasting your time with this guy men demand more from your women! There’s 2 sides to every story you are not all what’s wrong both sides have to compromise
Anything that challenges men to take responsibility, and push themselves to become better, and to better understand women is not a waste of time. Josh is a solid dude who is not promoting short cuts or cheap manipulative tricks but the actual hard work of transformation, which is the best chance to bringing about change in your spouse. Even if it fails, you are still a better man for it. That said, your point about women taking some responsibility is well taken. I wish there was a female equivalent to Josh to talk sense into unreasonably difficult wives
I connected with this video a lot. I think it's the key to getting 'more from your woman', at least for me. I have a great one and made the high frame mistakes. Great video