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I might sound contraversial but wamama wacheni hii ujinga ya eti kimwanamume kinaleta wanawake wanalala hapo na wewe hapo kando...and yet you are paying all bills. Are you for real? Being single is never a crime.
Gai!the first time my ex husband alinichapa was after 5months in marriage and after we had a big wedding,I left and never looked back!i really suffered at first but am doing so much better and happier now
Choose yourself always dear. Marriage isn't an achievement. You are beautiful and can always find someone who adores you. Never stay in an abusive marriage because of children. God will provide. You are better alone and with peace of mind than married and frastrated.
Dear women I beg you.... Don't get married at age of below 29.......build yourself first........ Also if first marriage doesn't work and you have children please forget about this sons of women and concentrate on your children only!!!!!! Thank me later............. Please MEN your names all over social media isn't good... Something community need to deal ith for boy child up bring... It's tolerating everyday
How now!? If you could afford to settle your bills, why let a man misuse your emotions and resources in the name of marriage, is a marriage an achievement!? Better leave a single life than Torrance an abusive relationship , this was desperately of imaginary love, Let others learn from this. Ladies never let this happen to you run before you get exploited. Thanks mrembo for educationing many
It really breaks my heart listening to women who go through such brutality by men. I say that a man who hits a woman is a coward. When will this ever end?? Thank God you are alive to tell the story. Why do we persevere all these pain???
Just remembered my sisters husband with this story ya kufunga mlanga na akatupa kifungu njee na aka fungulia gas marion my sister l love you , you are a strong woman.
This is such a beauty This Lady doesn't know how beautiful she is !You don't need to go through this !! You can live peacefully alone !! You don't need such a Man in your life !! Why do you have to go through all this ? What is life ? This Man is an animal .
most beautiful ladies are not self aware and when a man comes along and tells them how beautiful they are...they fall in love with their all and in the midst they are hurt alot...
So sorry for what she went through with her kids. But why stay or keep going back, especially if someone shows you he's a monster and you can support yourself? I'm starting to feel weary of hearing about yet another woman who stayed or kept going back hoping someone would change. And worse is the trauma the kids undergo because of the choices their mothers make.
I THINK THE BIG PROBLEM OF MOST LADIES, THEY MUST TO BE MARRIED OR TO HAVE A STUPID MEN IN THERE LIFE. DON'T FORCE MARRIAGE LADIES. TOKAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!! AM A MOTHER OF 4 ALONE!!!!!! I HAVE BEST LIFE. T
Never be fooled that you can change a person,I wish ungevumulia after the first marriage utesewe Kwa ndoa ya kwanza na uende direct ya pili,is best you take your time first,the next person is always worse than the first person
@@luckydubebello1131 some can change but others can't,u heard her story she kept on going back to that evil man thinking he will change how now? somebody wants to kill you and you still go back to him,instead of protecting your kids,u chose a man over your kids,yet she was in good position to take care of herself but still she would stay with that abusive man,what kind of desperation is that,my heart feels for those poor babies,they are exposed to such violence in a tender age😭my babies will always come first,I want them always to be happy and protected am always willing to sercrifice my own happiness for them
How about taking legal Action against that beast of a man coz he's also responsible of taking care of his kids?? My pple we really have to like invest in awareness and conscious living as a prevantive measure coz this case is one out of thousands and even if we're urged to help especially when it comes to kids, maybe pple can't help in all the cases..
Women who stay in such abusive relationships to such a point have an inferioriority complex, they are very agreeable in personality and this makes them easy prey for abusers because then it's easier to control and manipulate them. Domestic violence should be treated like crime equivalent to big crimes like murder, so an abuser can get a good many years behind bars without bail, that might teach others not to violate another human being!
Domestic cases are overwhelming. This should be added in curriculum to educate children, the youth and adults. Clearly independence is not the solution to the root cause of why domestic violence is still on the rise. Broken families= broken society.
very sorry for this but ...those trials were so many, you could have escaped from the first one, u could afford to pay your bills, leave him alone, God will help you take care of these children.
Am 21 years old , the biggest problem I have is not being able to speak my mind,am going through alot right now I just wish I could get someone to talk to😔😔
Oo God have mercy on women and children who suffer in abusive relationships...reward all persevering spouses Ijmn... But it is not fair to remain in such relationships when there is an option
Some of this stories all over RUclips are like horror movies... And most women are going through this in the hands of psycho social paths......... And running to police or chiefs is another intimidation by another group of psychopaths in those offices.....in whose hands are we safe
Mimi ..siwezi niliona wafrika ni washenzi niliona niende kupinga umalaya na wanzungu ,saa hii nilitoka kenya nikapata mzungu akanileta ujerumani na watoto wangu,now we are citizens for the last 28 yrs,and lpraise the lord .
I am happy for you dear Patricia. Though sio waafrica wote wabaya, but majority wanatesa wanawake sana. Ukiona ka red flag, cbomoka ukienda games na usiangalie nyuma kama bibi ya Lot, otherwise utakuwa nguzo ya chumvi na ungepata mzungu ukaponea na watoto wako. Wanawake tuache ujinga, eti mwanamume ata change. Mtu anakupiga, anapiga watoto hadi wana faint🙄, chunga hata maybe hiyo ugonjwa ya mtoto imetokana na hiyo kichapo.Hata hivyo pole Milka, Mungu akuonekanie 🙏
Milka pole kwa matatizo,vita nyingi ni za kiroho jaribu kumtafuta Yesu muweza wa yote pekeyako huwezi na yamkini nguvu zako na juhudi zisikufae mkabidhi Kristo apigane!
Wow she really needed to leave him maybe not the first I would’ve but the second and third fourth time heck no. No one deserves to be beaten no one deserves to have to watch their kids be beaten no man should beat and kick his own kids not even his step kids this guy is an ass. You would think after they broke his arms and beat him up the first time he would learn his lesson but obviously he is not a good human. I keep saying when I read the stories you guys need to be married legally with a piece of paper so that you can take this to the courts so they can take you seriously. Sleeping with a man and claiming you are husband and wife hey that’s not a fact. I’m sorry for your downfall here this is terrible at least you got away from that idiot.I hope you can have success in your future you seem to be talented.
Women you can fail to understand why hoilding to a man how is so abusive especially that this lady went through a lot,ladies please marriage is not an achievement you can do something better than marriage&sometimes ladies like forcing men to marry them. Marriage its a blessing from God do please lets not force a man to marry you. Following from Zambia.
Milka God will be your father and mother...ni no lady deserves to go through hell as this....may that toxic man never have peace in his life ....then a woman who goes into another woman's house that's lack of manners
May God give u strength. U r a strong woman paying rent for a man and he goes ahead to bring women in a matrimonial bed. Mum run for your life and hustle for your children
Ladies please kindly don't wait for your death in a man's house in the name of marriage, love and children. Read red flags and take off before it's worse, life is so precious and not reversible .
The reason I love myself..Maggy francis I love you so much mwaaah ,I'm blessed,I am healthy I am beautiful I will by present for me dear .....si wanawake mjipende
Mimi ile kitu sielewi ni siwezi kuzaa kama mbwa,na nikiona Nairobi imenishinda na hamia mombasa , Mombasa ikinishinda na hamia machakos ...mpaka nilihamia Germany period
This all happen coz your like,,what will my family say,,,and so on. I separated with a man and my family and everyone came to know about it after an year plus. The same way nobody was there as I meet him..let nobody be there as we separate.
🤔.....i dont know why African women value marriage so much that they chose to suffer like this....its high time they shine their eyes and realise marriage is not an achievement....
Really nice beautiful hadworking woman treated like trash shida ya wanaume ni nini serious? Nd if you settle your bills and provide for your children why stay in that marriage? For me i just looked at a photo of a lady on the phone, it took me 4 months to convince my lady to come back 😄
When the sprit of divorce and rejection is in you hata ubadilishe wanaume kumi you will never settle you need a higher alter to break the course for the sake of your children
I don't know why would a woman stay in the abusive marriage for the sake of the children while the children are the one suffering even more. Am sorry for what you have gone through but you shouldn't have wait that long to walk away... Your are a strong woman
In marriage if your spouse is arrogant n does not care abt your feelings n he is hurting you either emotionally or dody wise run for your life. Marriage is n ll never b an achievement wen you r abused
I choose being a single mother of my two kids badala ya kuoleka tena, nimelea watoto wangu, nime wasomesha vizuri, they now grownups, doing well and am still a succesful single mother. Now that they are mature and have their own families, ..... am yet to decide ama nitafutwe na mtu tuzeeka pamoja ama niedelee kukaa single. 🤔 but whichever, life nikuelewana.
Life is all that you make it . The Ugali you cook while married and while single is the same _ but better when you are single _ it tastes even better _ and you are peaceful ! You don't need to suffer in a toxic marriage !!
@@nahyialetomia9284 Must a Woman go through this hell to be seen to be married ? What is Marriage ? As much as I pity her _ I am sorry to say _ find her quite naive !! What was in this that compelled her to stay ? Women _ wake up !! No Man should be allowed to enslave and humiliate you in any way !!
I have the same story like this mimi Kwa mwili yangu zile alama Niko nazo juu tu ya kind of love😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 to be honest I hate men to much ,l thanks God now I am working Saudi Arabia and taking all respossibility to my kid 3😭😭😭😭so shiko be strong hakuna kitu haina end
Love yourself and always put yourself first so that you don’t have to relay on someone else. If someone beats your child and they pass out and you don’t leave? It’s all on you. Marriage is not an achievement. You are a hardworking woman and didn’t have to go through all this. May God see you through
This is why women should not stay with an abusive man, may be the beatings he gave to your first daughter until she could faint caused the heart problem she is suffering from right now + the stress she experienced as a young kid. Aki Mimi mtu haezi nigongea mtoto, I will forget even his own name. Shame on that man!
I do kneel on my knees praying for a Man but wen i hear wat women go through in those marriages i fear 😢 my our Lord see us through as women nd iur children...Amen
But she has a beautiful house what took you long to quit,ulivumilia but u still ended up single this time round focus on rebuilding your life and that of your kids,all shall be well again
When you see me single at this age after two relationships attempts,just know I can’t take such trash and life risks all in the name of being married Women, you can stay alive and happy with your kids alone than go through such trauma
Yaani hii story last tym niliskia uyu eti alichapwa na babake akavunjwa mkono tena saa hii eti alichapwa na watu...hii story km haujacopy place ingine unadanganya na siezi endelea
Pls let mind our comments. My mom went under hell coz of my Dad. She Never run away but she acted quick by filing a case a against my dad. Thats how he changed. He was to kill my mom. But God is great!
As a Tuko fan am appealing to everyone who will watch this video,kindly let's come through for this woman. Kindly let's aid her,be it 100,200,500 or even a thousand. I believe we can and our good Lord will command blessings upon our lives.
Ladaies please stop thinking a toxic man can ever change love yourself first alafu hata mwanaume akue mzuri aje ukiwa na watoto hile time utamzalia atakugeuka na watoto wako.. If you are able to pay your bills stay single
You did not protect your children from them monsters. So many time you left why didn’t you stay gone. I wonder if your children are going to forgive you.
Being such a beautiful girl and what you have gone through it's pity 😢 But you kept a good fight with all respect for your kids You'll make it but please don't fall for this guys easily because I won't cheat you are so so beautiful girl you deserve better.
true and I feel she was also desperate,the moment you show a man that your desperate he will do anything to you that he feels,she would still go back to that abusive man,,plus making all those innocent kids suffer like that it's even more heartbreaking 😭
Women encounter and endure alot of pain and agony in their marriage. May the Almighty God grant her peace of mind and inner healing. May He elevate her and let her live an independent life.
Women when will you learn your lessons I mean learn from mistakes..ndoa ya kwanza ikikushinda Bora ubakie na mahusiano tu yaani Lea wtt wko uwapende sio kila mahali ukifika unazaa jamani.. marriage is not an achievement...kua single sio ajabu wala huanzi ww hope kwa ss utatulia ulee wtt your so beautiful my dear wacha Mungu akupiganie vita yko Lea wtt wko u look hard working lady pole sana my dear
I am currently trying to talk someone out of moving in with someone they have known for just over a month... She won't budge... I can see such a testimony soon. Ladies, we can do better. Am dissapointed.
Kodi unalipa wewe chakula wewe kila kitu wewe hana msaada kwa nini usiame kimnya kimnya muende sehemu hajui au kakae kwenu au mpk akuue bora wewe umekula chumvi watoto je bado wadogo watakufa kwa kupenda kwako acha ujinga sisi tupo peke yetu mwaka wa 10 sasa na maisha safi acha ujinga kuna siku utakufa au watoto watakufa
Am a man but this makes me sooo sick why do this beautiful ladies have to go through such horrors, i have watched countless videoes from many bloggers dipicting such incidents please fellow men lets not subject this lovely creature through such unbearable pain please i beg.
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No 👎 ni una buena siesta 🛏 que 😨 y 😊😊😊😊. La. 😊😊😮😊😮
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I might sound contraversial but wamama wacheni hii ujinga ya eti kimwanamume kinaleta wanawake wanalala hapo na wewe hapo kando...and yet you are paying all bills. Are you for real?
Being single is never a crime.
Gai!the first time my ex husband alinichapa was after 5months in marriage and after we had a big wedding,I left and never looked back!i really suffered at first but am doing so much better and happier now
Mm ushidwa how big heart Cox mm siongei bt mwanaume Kaa huyu a nakuanga amekuona unapakweda hapo ndio ladies ukosea
What did you do that helped you move on,I’m in this situation
I am glad you're in a better place now that is the most important thing, self love.
Wengine tuichapwa na matendo mpaka tukajitoa walai, may God intervene and guide us ladies.
Sarah njo uweke iyi comment Kwa Kiswahili plz
Choose yourself always dear. Marriage isn't an achievement. You are beautiful and can always find someone who adores you. Never stay in an abusive marriage because of children. God will provide. You are better alone and with peace of mind than married and frastrated.
Yes mama bear😍
Yes mama bear ulipotea RUclips
@charity wainaina kumbe wewe uko among wale hawakupress notification bell😅. Niko Sana tena Sana. Run there utapata mazuri
Amen
Mama bear🤡 miss u
I know her and she's a hardworking woman thank God she has spoken out
May God see her through and heal her first born son🙏🙏
Very hardworking. Amen God is able.
Dear women I beg you.... Don't get married at age of below 29.......build yourself first........ Also if first marriage doesn't work and you have children please forget about this sons of women and concentrate on your children only!!!!!! Thank me later............. Please MEN your names all over social media isn't good... Something community need to deal ith for boy child up bring... It's tolerating everyday
You don't understand how te devill work's.
Wow so I have four more years
How now!? If you could afford to settle your bills, why let a man misuse your emotions and resources in the name of marriage, is a marriage an achievement!? Better leave a single life than Torrance an abusive relationship , this was desperately of imaginary love, Let others learn from this. Ladies never let this happen to you run before you get exploited. Thanks mrembo for educationing many
Am asking myself the same question how? Who said lazima uwe kwa marriage ? I wld rather value my children first before a man. Kaa single bana aaii?
tell them
Maybe watu hurokwa, this is not real.
As long as i hustle pay bills,and God given me the brain to hustle..hakuna mwanaume anaweza niambie gwee'
Oh my! This lady has been through alot.. And she is so beautiful and resilient. May God see her through
Also stupid
Very beautiful and she is strong and hopeful
When you see me single with my 4 children , don't judge me leave me alone. Just live on your own God will see you through.
Me too my dear single with 4 boys
@@rebsjoy6892 mj
who judges single mum's? why do you listen to gossip?
Am raising my two boys alone
God is seeing us through
Good luck to all of you for staying. I hope you all the best.
It really breaks my heart listening to women who go through such brutality by men. I say that a man who hits a woman is a coward. When will this ever end?? Thank God you are alive to tell the story.
Why do we persevere all these pain???
Just remembered my sisters husband with this story ya kufunga mlanga na akatupa kifungu njee na aka fungulia gas marion my sister l love you , you are a strong woman.
This has become an epidemic in Kenya. What happened to the dignity of our women?
Very few women live happily in marriage.
Sad but very true 😔
Very true
True
This is such a beauty This Lady doesn't know how beautiful she is !You don't need to go through this !! You can live peacefully alone !! You don't need such a Man in your life !!
Why do you have to go through all this ?
What is life ?
This Man is an animal .
Mama jipee Raha mwenyewe mungu Yuko ni wa wajane na mayatima na single mothers.
most beautiful ladies are not self aware and when a man comes along and tells them how beautiful they are...they fall in love with their all and in the midst they are hurt alot...
So sorry for what she went through with her kids. But why stay or keep going back, especially if someone shows you he's a monster and you can support yourself? I'm starting to feel weary of hearing about yet another woman who stayed or kept going back hoping someone would change. And worse is the trauma the kids undergo because of the choices their mothers make.
I appreciate the fact that you defend your kids, you did not allow him to abuse them.Also when he try to beat you up you defend your self.
She loves her children so much that is the last thing she wants for them
You will fight for God God will make you powerful and caring you had the strength you can does
You beautiful you strong
I THINK THE BIG PROBLEM OF MOST LADIES, THEY MUST TO BE MARRIED OR TO HAVE A STUPID MEN IN THERE LIFE. DON'T FORCE MARRIAGE LADIES. TOKAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!! AM A MOTHER OF 4 ALONE!!!!!! I HAVE BEST LIFE. T
Never be fooled that you can change a person,I wish ungevumulia after the first marriage utesewe Kwa ndoa ya kwanza na uende direct ya pili,is best you take your time first,the next person is always worse than the first person
Lies not all ok kila mtu na tabia yake
@@luckydubebello1131 some can change but others can't,u heard her story she kept on going back to that evil man thinking he will change how now? somebody wants to kill you and you still go back to him,instead of protecting your kids,u chose a man over your kids,yet she was in good position to take care of herself but still she would stay with that abusive man,what kind of desperation is that,my heart feels for those poor babies,they are exposed to such violence in a tender age😭my babies will always come first,I want them always to be happy and protected am always willing to sercrifice my own happiness for them
@@ceciliawambua2293 she was desperate she needed love bt God tried yo open her eyes 👀 bt wapi but good thing she is ok now
I want her WhatsApp number please cecillia
Uuuuuiiiii
Choosing to stay when you can leave is the new shame
Waaah hii nayo ni gani God protect all women's and innocent kids.
How about taking legal Action against that beast of a man coz he's also responsible of taking care of his kids?? My pple we really have to like invest in awareness and conscious living as a prevantive measure coz this case is one out of thousands and even if we're urged to help especially when it comes to kids, maybe pple can't help in all the cases..
Women who stay in such abusive relationships to such a point have an inferioriority complex, they are very agreeable in personality and this makes them easy prey for abusers because then it's easier to control and manipulate them. Domestic violence should be treated like crime equivalent to big crimes like murder, so an abuser can get a good many years behind bars without bail, that might teach others not to violate another human being!
Domestic cases are overwhelming. This should be added in curriculum to educate children, the youth and adults. Clearly independence is not the solution to the root cause of why domestic violence is still on the rise. Broken families= broken society.
Say that again👏
Very true and very tough measures should be enforced against domestic violence. It has been normalized.
I agree with you
very sorry for this but ...those trials were so many, you could have escaped from the first one, u could afford to pay your bills, leave him alone, God will help you take care of these children.
Am 21 years old , the biggest problem I have is not being able to speak my mind,am going through alot right now I just wish I could get someone to talk to😔😔
Talk dear
Right it. Here dear
Talk to someone you can trust ,and pray God to lead you .
Dear , don't hesitate to speak up . Just have a positive mind and you will find out how easy it is to communicate with people . Stay happy !
Feel free to share please,a word of encouragement will be of use.
Oo God have mercy on women and children who suffer in abusive relationships...reward all persevering spouses Ijmn...
But it is not fair to remain in such relationships when there is an option
Some of this stories all over RUclips are like horror movies... And most women are going through this in the hands of psycho social paths......... And running to police or chiefs is another intimidation by another group of psychopaths in those offices.....in whose hands are we safe
Soo,..... Sorry for what you have gone through dear. God will see you through. You will come back and give a testimony of what God has done for you.
Watoto wanachapwa unakaa, wanachapwa kuzimia unakaa, wewe ukaombewe uwekewe miguu na mikono ndio utajitambua
Mimi ..siwezi niliona wafrika ni washenzi niliona niende kupinga umalaya na wanzungu ,saa hii nilitoka kenya nikapata mzungu akanileta ujerumani na watoto wangu,now we are citizens for the last 28 yrs,and lpraise the lord .
Connection please
Connect even for job please
I am happy for you dear Patricia. Though sio waafrica wote wabaya, but majority wanatesa wanawake sana. Ukiona ka red flag, cbomoka ukienda games na usiangalie nyuma kama bibi ya Lot, otherwise utakuwa nguzo ya chumvi na ungepata mzungu ukaponea na watoto wako.
Wanawake tuache ujinga, eti mwanamume ata change. Mtu anakupiga, anapiga watoto hadi wana faint🙄, chunga hata maybe hiyo ugonjwa ya mtoto imetokana na hiyo kichapo.Hata hivyo pole Milka, Mungu akuonekanie 🙏
But wazungubnibwanyama kuliko Africans if U are lucky say thanks to God all men are same
Wazungus pia ni wanyama
Milka pole kwa matatizo,vita nyingi ni za kiroho jaribu kumtafuta Yesu muweza wa yote pekeyako huwezi na yamkini nguvu zako na juhudi zisikufae mkabidhi Kristo apigane!
Wow she really needed to leave him maybe not the first I would’ve but the second and third fourth time heck no. No one deserves to be beaten no one deserves to have to watch their kids be beaten no man should beat and kick his own kids not even his step kids this guy is an ass. You would think after they broke his arms and beat him up the first time he would learn his lesson but obviously he is not a good human. I keep saying when I read the stories you guys need to be married legally with a piece of paper so that you can take this to the courts so they can take you seriously. Sleeping with a man and claiming you are husband and wife hey that’s not a fact. I’m sorry for your downfall here this is terrible at least you got away from that idiot.I hope you can have success in your future you seem to be talented.
Women you can fail to understand why hoilding to a man how is so abusive especially that this lady went through a lot,ladies please marriage is not an achievement you can do something better than marriage&sometimes ladies like forcing men to marry them. Marriage its a blessing from God do please lets not force a man to marry you. Following from Zambia.
Milka God will be your father and mother...ni no lady deserves to go through hell as this....may that toxic man never have peace in his life ....then a woman who goes into another woman's house that's lack of manners
May God give u strength. U r a strong woman paying rent for a man and he goes ahead to bring women in a matrimonial bed. Mum run for your life and hustle for your children
Ladies please kindly don't wait for your death in a man's house in the name of marriage, love and children. Read red flags and take off before it's worse, life is so precious and not reversible .
You are right.if it was me.Nigetoka kitambo sana
Mimi siwezi ngojea kichapo mara ya pili
The reason I love myself..Maggy francis I love you so much mwaaah ,I'm blessed,I am healthy I am beautiful I will by present for me dear .....si wanawake mjipende
Mimi ile kitu sielewi ni siwezi kuzaa kama mbwa,na nikiona Nairobi imenishinda na hamia mombasa , Mombasa ikinishinda na hamia machakos ...mpaka nilihamia Germany period
True
Ukweli uko Germany 🤣
This all happen coz your like,,what will my family say,,,and so on.
I separated with a man and my family and everyone came to know about it after an year plus.
The same way nobody was there as I meet him..let nobody be there as we separate.
Mwanaume anapiga mtoto wako hadi ana faint why would you stay with him ??I’m sorry I don’t mean to sound judgmental but why ?
🤔.....i dont know why African women value marriage so much that they chose to suffer like this....its high time they shine their eyes and realise marriage is not an achievement....
True..,ujinga ya some ladies ni too much.,in the name of marriage
Leave!!!!!;
Me ata slap swezi vumilia ju it never gets better...a lady who goes to another lady's house is mannerless
Volume pliz hata hawana akili
I wonder alafu you see vile your boyfriend is treating the wife.what makes you think you will be different 🙄
Mm akinislap nmslap back kwan iko nini alaa
Really nice beautiful hadworking woman treated like trash shida ya wanaume ni nini serious? Nd if you settle your bills and provide for your children why stay in that marriage? For me i just looked at a photo of a lady on the phone, it took me 4 months to convince my lady to come back 😄
I love the host so calm and collected kudos..
Yeah she's soo welcoming..n has nice voice
So sad, women let's be careful
When a marriage fails take time before getting into another...
Get married properly come we stay is just fornication.
Getting married "properly" doesn't change an abusive man
@@mjzimani tell her dear ... seems churches have brain washed them 🙄
@@mjzimani true
When the sprit of divorce and rejection is in you hata ubadilishe wanaume kumi you will never settle you need a higher alter to break the course for the sake of your children
Very true....
exactly sis
Pastor Ezekiel talking
ITS NOT EVEN ABOUT ALTARS ITS PURE FOOLISHNESS.
I don't know why would a woman stay in the abusive marriage for the sake of the children while the children are the one suffering even more. Am sorry for what you have gone through but you shouldn't have wait that long to walk away... Your are a strong woman
In marriage if your spouse is arrogant n does not care abt your feelings n he is hurting you either emotionally or dody wise run for your life. Marriage is n ll never b an achievement wen you r abused
Woiyee,,hugs Mamie aki wamama tujipende,,why pass through all this for the sake of being named married" 😔😔
I choose being a single mother of my two kids badala ya kuoleka tena, nimelea watoto wangu, nime wasomesha vizuri, they now grownups, doing well and am still a succesful single mother. Now that they are mature and have their own families, ..... am yet to decide ama nitafutwe na mtu tuzeeka pamoja ama niedelee kukaa single. 🤔 but whichever, life nikuelewana.
Life is all that you make it . The Ugali you cook while married and while single is the same _ but better when you are single _ it tastes even better _ and you are peaceful !
You don't need to suffer in a toxic marriage !!
Tuko wengi!
@@nahyialetomia9284 Must a Woman go through this hell to be seen to be married ? What is Marriage ? As much as I pity her _ I am sorry to say _ find her quite naive !! What was in this that compelled her to stay ? Women _ wake up !! No Man should be allowed to enslave and humiliate you in any way !!
@@lillianmasinza1787, don’t misinterpret me pse! I was there, some mistreatment, walked away, brought up my two boys single handed
Omba mungu sana, utapata usijali.
I have the same story like this mimi Kwa mwili yangu zile alama Niko nazo juu tu ya kind of love😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 to be honest I hate men to much ,l thanks God now I am working Saudi Arabia and taking all respossibility to my kid 3😭😭😭😭so shiko be strong hakuna kitu haina end
she is such a beautiful lady..may Godgive her strength
akachapa mtoto mpaka akafaint mukaogea ukapata mimba ingine.ladies ladies iyo siku nigetoka wacha nikateseke na mtoto wangu.
Hakujua ameconcieve shiet happen ata mtu akiwa under contraceptive I think you are a lady so don't judge
Waah May God see you through 🙏 Hugs mommy
Love yourself and always put yourself first so that you don’t have to relay on someone else. If someone beats your child and they pass out and you don’t leave? It’s all on you. Marriage is not an achievement. You are a hardworking woman and didn’t have to go through all this. May God see you through
Mm Ile nilipitia wah only God knows nitakufa single
Me at my late 30s single n beautiful
Usiulize mbona..thank God my boys wamegrow ...men ....yesu ni bwana
Am also proud to me single,men are stress tupu
Silly! How are you getting your conjugal rights? Get married and respect your husband.
@@paulinemillicent3903 my gal see an idiot calling me silly anaumwa na nini???
Proud of ma self
@@irenemwende794 get married you fool and be patient kwa ndoa yako
Walk away ladies after first red flags
This is why women should not stay with an abusive man, may be the beatings he gave to your first daughter until she could faint caused the heart problem she is suffering from right now + the stress she experienced as a young kid. Aki Mimi mtu haezi nigongea mtoto, I will forget even his own name. Shame on that man!
Mm naeza mtandika pia vibaya Sana na niende
Tujaribuni kuchangia hyu mum apeleke mtoi Kwa prophet kakande atapona
I do kneel on my knees praying for a Man but wen i hear wat women go through in those marriages i fear 😢 my our Lord see us through as women nd iur children...Amen
But she has a beautiful house what took you long to quit,ulivumilia but u still ended up single this time round focus on rebuilding your life and that of your kids,all shall be well again
Waah this lady suffered, though there are some gaps in the story
Kabisa.....
When you see me single at this age after two relationships attempts,just know I can’t take such trash and life risks all in the name of being married
Women, you can stay alive and happy with your kids alone than go through such trauma
doreen we are on the same boat i prefer happiness me n my handsome boys than go back to toxic marriage like i had
i wonder why ladies entertain nonsense. Being married aint an achievement.
@@talesofjeanyKE 😂😂😂😂😂😂right now cant wait for that crap
Neither can I, nonsense vile I hustle for me and my boy can't let no man take away my freedom il always choose me and my son
I don't believe this story nimeiskia n watu watatu sasa but cjui ama wanaskia story na wao wanauda cjui
Hata sisi Gas ilikuwa inawashwa halafu anajifanya kasinzia ilifika mahali tulikuwa tunakesha akiingia mimi na kijana wangu
Yaani hii story last tym niliskia uyu eti alichapwa na babake akavunjwa mkono tena saa hii eti alichapwa na watu...hii story km haujacopy place ingine unadanganya na siezi endelea
Pls let mind our comments. My mom went under hell coz of my Dad. She Never run away but she acted quick by filing a case a against my dad. Thats how he changed. He was to kill my mom. But God is great!
As a Tuko fan am appealing to everyone who will watch this video,kindly let's come through for this woman. Kindly let's aid her,be it 100,200,500 or even a thousand. I believe we can and our good Lord will command blessings upon our lives.
Why? She sacrificed her children's well being for an abusive husband. She also wasted her mom's inheritance to a man who was ungrateful and hated her.
@@SWiseman Be gentle dear she was naive
Ako na nguvu wacha aende vibarua kama sisi. Sio rahisi
@@maureenmiriti3199 Kindly put yourself in her shoes.This woman has four kids,and one of them is ailing, if you can't help just leave her.
@@SWiseman I was asking myself why ?imagine mtoto wako anapigwa ana faint she clearly doesn’t care about her kids
May God provide for you na mtoto apate matibabu
Ladaies please stop thinking a toxic man can ever change love yourself first alafu hata mwanaume akue mzuri aje ukiwa na watoto hile time utamzalia atakugeuka na watoto wako.. If you are able to pay your bills stay single
You did not protect your children from them monsters. So many time you left why didn’t you stay gone. I wonder if your children are going to forgive you.
Let God judge her
@Gogo Griff: I love rare expressions. Thank you for 'stay gone'.
Kweli kuna Shetani watu lakini Mungu hijibu kwa Moto we mwache Mungu afanye kazi yake malipo ni hapa hapa Duniani na mtu husahau lakini Karma haisahau
You had a choice to leave but you chose to stay.
True
Being such a beautiful girl and what you have gone through it's pity 😢
But you kept a good fight with all respect for your kids
You'll make it but please don't fall for this guys easily because I won't cheat you are so so beautiful girl you deserve better.
Onces umeonesha mwanaume unaweza lipa bills utaumia
I second you on this one
true and I feel she was also desperate,the moment you show a man that your desperate he will do anything to you that he feels,she would still go back to that abusive man,,plus making all those innocent kids suffer like that it's even more heartbreaking 😭
True nilivumilia ujinga kama huu wa kulea mwanaume na watoto bt niligutuka nikajitoa mapema bt nayo hakua ananichapa lakini matusi🤭
Tuko kimoja mummy hapo nilijitoa lkn matusi yakikua kama 🔥🤣🤣
We need a topic on what's going on or why are we having teen moms in Kenya. Like why are our kids cohabiting so young cos this is not marriage
Shetani 🐉🐉 ni binadamu mwenzako.
Women encounter and endure alot of pain and agony in their marriage. May the Almighty God grant her peace of mind and inner healing. May He elevate her and let her live an independent life.
Oh my God.why now beating a child like that.?police fio wageamua io.
nimefika mahali nikakosa kuhurumia this kind of stories juu anasema yeye ndio kila kitu na nateswa aiiiiii
Kuna shida na wanawake, must you be married? Tena unaona bwana sii mzuri mbona unaendelea kuzaa?
Inaitwa mapenzi moto moto
Mungu wangu unaroho lakini usijidhalilishe kiasi hiki na nyumba unalipa wewe kwanini usimfukuze na umshtaki polisi usitese nafsi yako kuishi na adui
A psychologist to please explain to me why people don't run from abuse?
This girl is pretty..nini husumbua wanaume lakini
Good days are coming... Take heart mammah.. 🙏 🙏
Sorry sister for the suffering.
Women when will you learn your lessons I mean learn from mistakes..ndoa ya kwanza ikikushinda Bora ubakie na mahusiano tu yaani Lea wtt wko uwapende sio kila mahali ukifika unazaa jamani.. marriage is not an achievement...kua single sio ajabu wala huanzi ww hope kwa ss utatulia ulee wtt your so beautiful my dear wacha Mungu akupiganie vita yko Lea wtt wko u look hard working lady pole sana my dear
Too beautiful to be mistreated.
Lakini my fellow women uwa mnanishangaza mkisema hamkujua mko na mimba mpaka Hadi 2,3,4....months.Aje Sasa?
Same, I was almost 4 months. I was doing two jobs at the time , for months. I was too tired to stop and think about myself. I believe her.
They could even cut off his hands. God forgive innocent people outside there.
I am currently trying to talk someone out of moving in with someone they have known for just over a month... She won't budge... I can see such a testimony soon. Ladies, we can do better. Am dissapointed.
It is sad that it took her that long to leave.
Kodi unalipa wewe chakula wewe kila kitu wewe hana msaada kwa nini usiame kimnya kimnya muende sehemu hajui au kakae kwenu au mpk akuue bora wewe umekula chumvi watoto je bado wadogo watakufa kwa kupenda kwako acha ujinga sisi tupo peke yetu mwaka wa 10 sasa na maisha safi acha ujinga kuna siku utakufa au watoto watakufa
I wish u would ve valued ur children 1st it could ve gotten to this but sorry God will do u fevour
Am a man but this makes me sooo sick why do this beautiful ladies have to go through such horrors, i have watched countless videoes from many bloggers dipicting such incidents please fellow men lets not subject this lovely creature through such unbearable pain please i beg.
Pole mama mtoto atapona katika Jina la yesu
mummy si you are beautiful and strong hugs
Huyo Mzee ningemwacha time alikuwa msickashugulikiwe na hao Malaya
This is so sad men should style up
Ukiona mwanaume ameanza matharau kuleta wanawake kwa nyumba kanyaga kubwakubwa c lazima mtu uolewe maisha yako fast