WHEN THEY SAY "YOU DESERVE BETTER" | Why You Deserve Better Than What Your Ex Had To Offer

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Комментарии • 58

  • @heartfulinsightspod
    @heartfulinsightspod Год назад +15

    My ex jumped straight to saying that I deserved better after I caught him talking to another girl. Didn’t even fight it.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Год назад +4

      Signs of guilt for sure. Thank you for watching.

  • @Propercornishmaid
    @Propercornishmaid 9 месяцев назад +7

    Been there and done it. I'm an empath and he was a full on narcissist. I ended up so fked up, I was acting as if I was mentally broke and i almost commited suicide. It took alot for me to realise I deserved better and that there is nothing wrong with me at all..... The issue was them and their fked up mind. My scars are now a reminder to always watch and listen because there is always warning signs. My problem was falling in live and being totally blind to their treatment of me, I made excuses, kept thinking he'd change etc etc but nope. Thankfully I'd built myself back up, dragged my ass out that dark place for my kids and got stronger. I'd had a lifetime of abuse as a child, even dv where I was almost killed 3-4 times and almost had my baby kicked out of me.... He was good, we'd been best freinds 7yrs, he knew everything and for the 1st time I 100% trusted someone. We got together, I'd let my guard down thinking I'd be safe but he destroyed me more than any physical abuse ever did.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  9 месяцев назад +1

      Stay strong! 🙏🏾

    • @Propercornishmaid
      @Propercornishmaid 9 месяцев назад

      @@WeavToldMe I will do Thankyou. Your videos help so much, they're what kept me here and made me realise there's nothing wrong with me.

  • @graceperryman5263
    @graceperryman5263 3 года назад +13

    hardest part is not knowing for sure why??? Because even when you feel like you did most things right it’s still hurts

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад +3

      Hindsight is always 20/20. Giving yourself more credit is an important part of moving forward. Thanks for watching!

  • @vixter28
    @vixter28 21 день назад

    Thank you - I wanted to know the why but you’re right I don’t want to hear what he has to say about that because it would just hurt more

  • @Flagstone12
    @Flagstone12 Год назад +5

    You have a way of clearly articulating knotted emotional BS from a relationship to make it understandable. Well done Weave.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Год назад

      Thank you for checking out the video! 🙏🏾🫡

  • @kay7lon1
    @kay7lon1 3 года назад +17

    I think it is getting to the point of self love that you don't need an answer as to why. It doesn't matter why. I know who I am and what I have to offer and I never needed your validation so you leaving is all I need to know. Most people need that validation. "what is wrong with me" "why am I not enough" The only thing that is wrong is that you think you need anything outside of yourself to prove your worth. Great content as usual! Thank you!

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад

      Above all, self worth is key! Appreciate the insight and the love! Thank you! 💯

  • @henryalfaro2908
    @henryalfaro2908 2 года назад +11

    Just broke up with a girl an hour ago. She kept telling me that I deserve better, she cannot be my wife. I'm too good for her so it's best I break up with her. This is hurting me so much but I guess this is better. It's sad that she sees her self so low. I'm not perfect either but I just did my best to love.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  2 года назад +5

      Its better for you to know now, then waste more valuable time! Thanks for checking out the video! Stay inspired!

    • @Tesseslife2342
      @Tesseslife2342 2 года назад +2

      I’m in this situation it’s shite 😢

  • @getthebagt5964
    @getthebagt5964 3 года назад +8

    I know that's right.. The best... You deserve whatever you are willing to put up with... Which is why I'm still single lol

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад

      Haha to each their own! Thanks for watching!

  • @julianreyes8531
    @julianreyes8531 3 года назад +14

    You are absolutely right. Its always 1000% some lame ass excuse. Something is always better on the horizon thank you for the reminder. 💯

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад

      Always! Appreciate the love!

  • @everythingearned430
    @everythingearned430 3 года назад +16

    The excuses are always the easy way out for them.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад

      Always! Thanks for checking out the video!

  • @manzanitaverde5455
    @manzanitaverde5455 4 месяца назад +1

    I made the error of breaking contact. And the stupidity of telling him that I still loved him...yes, pathetic. His response: "I did love you but not anymore." This is a really tough pill to swallow.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  4 месяца назад

      Stay strong!

    • @vixter28
      @vixter28 21 день назад

      Oh man I’m sorry
      That’s why I’m not reaching out to my ex
      Because I think he would say the same thing 😢

  • @orvelorten5586
    @orvelorten5586 2 месяца назад +2

    This empath is refusing a ticket to the shit show, Weav. Been there, got the shirt, moving my wounded ass forward.

    • @vixter28
      @vixter28 21 день назад +1

      I love that not taking the ticket to the shit show !
      There’s a country song that has those exact words !
      Matter of fact, my ex used to say that to me all the time ! wtf I’m saying you’re the shit show ! Not me ! Bye

    • @orvelorten5586
      @orvelorten5586 21 день назад +1

      @@vixter28 A song that's helping me a lot is The Door by Teddy Swims...powerful truths, just like Weav.

  • @melissalavrisa4055
    @melissalavrisa4055 Месяц назад

    Amen. Happened to me. His loss.

  • @iamjoshuahoward3132
    @iamjoshuahoward3132 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this, I'm still struggling but building myself back up everyday, finding good things and people to help me see blessings I have around me

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  2 года назад +1

      Keep growing and stay inspired!

  • @davidclawson5000
    @davidclawson5000 Год назад +1

    I’ve heard this from at least 4 different girls, my girlfriend just broke up with me earlier today and said the same thing. It was a relatively short lived relationship but I thought it was going to last for a while. Nice vid tho.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Год назад

      Live and learn, right? Thanks for checking out the video.

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 Год назад +1

    Fantastic wisdom Coach Weav!
    I appreciate you sir. 🙏

  • @TexanforHarrisWalz
    @TexanforHarrisWalz 2 года назад +1

    So, to me sounds about the same as "find someone better than me". He said I was still the love of his life, but that he doesn't feel strong enough to continue our LDR and that it's not moving forward as he'd hoped (he keeps getting denied a Visa and he's not financially stable). He did say he doesn't want to end the relationship but that he wants me to be open to finding someone else in case we can't close the gap. TBH it has been a really long LDR due to many factors and I don't want to hold him back either, I want him to be happy, even if it means being with someone else. I just can't stop wondering if his "find someone better than me" means he truly wants to go ahead and end this now. He's admitted to being recently "tempted" by a woman in his country who is very interested in him and she's pursuing him. He said he told her he's in a relationship but she keeps on. I find it funny how literally 2 months ago he was calling daily, like usual, making plans to try for Visa again, discussing me traveling there again to see him and now suddenly less phone calls and this new temptation.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  2 года назад +2

      The words mean nothing. His actions will always express who and what the priority truly is. Good luck on the journey. Thank you for watching!

  • @tajbasehore8531
    @tajbasehore8531 3 года назад +1

    You hit this 1 out of the park sir 🔥

  • @denisselee6544
    @denisselee6544 Год назад +2

    My ex told me the same lame excuse 💀.

  • @arielelmejor1
    @arielelmejor1 3 года назад

    God bless you brother 🙌🏽

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  3 года назад

      Thank you! Same to you! 🙏🏾

  • @parasharchoudhury
    @parasharchoudhury 6 дней назад

    She said the same thing 😔

  • @sulala1749
    @sulala1749 Год назад

    Bf just broke up with me said he has not felt
    Happy that i deserve better and he admit he had emotionally cheated with someone at work that’s when our relationship went down hill. I was so blindsided I always love him. I am so heart broken

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Год назад +1

      Let it be a blessing than a detriment to your growth. Stay inspired!

  • @chinwewedaniel-ozumba6440
    @chinwewedaniel-ozumba6440 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @rosalindelise
    @rosalindelise 3 года назад

    Love your videos……

  • @dannycheatham5988
    @dannycheatham5988 Год назад

    An really enjoyed your vid thanks

  • @ladyd5751
    @ladyd5751 2 года назад

    🎯💯❗️❗️

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  2 года назад

      Thank you for watching! 🙏🏾💯

  • @BabyFaceRose
    @BabyFaceRose 2 года назад

    😞

  • @elle9633
    @elle9633 2 года назад +1

    My ex said that it was him, not me. That he (DA) had a lot of work to do to feel worthy of my love since he wasn’t capable of receiving my warm heart. 🤦‍♀️ at #next #BYEBYE

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  2 года назад +1

      On the the next for sure! Thanks for watching! 🙏🏾