I love this Chengi ❤️ I was dating a generous, attractive man and I thought he was an amazing man but he had a lot of life trauma 💔 and I'm grateful he told me this on our first date. He cared about me enough to let me know and let me go. It hurt, but it would have been worse for me if he had been dishonest.
Thank you for this. I was told this recently by a man I’ve known for a long while now and due to my time and exposure in the Black Swan community, I already knew the answer but your confirmation was reassuring Mama Swan. 😊 I am so much better equipped after connecting with BSRA. ❤
Chengi, I urge you to consider much more carefully some of the wording you use. To describe any woman as neurotic is at best ill informed, and at its worse, abuse. You are absolutely correct in terms of the fluctuating relationship we have with ourselves. Our emotions, our bodies, and the varying things that may influence those fluctuations. However, the term neurotic or neurosis is often used in psychiatry to weaponise women. I know this because im a mental health practitioner. Fortunately most psychiatrists have steered away from this awful label, and are now much more aware and compassionate in these things. Also, the term you used could also be applied to the man who uses it as a way to hurt and minimise the valid feelings of the woman he professes to love. The term is void. Its never a compliment and, as i said it is often used to weaponise womens emotions, most of which are entirely understandable , and not in the least 'neurotic'. You have a platform where women look to you for some guidance. The term you used has no place in language of love and support for women. It is the term of oppression, one I would expect to hear from a misogynist male. I understand this was most likely simply due to lack of awareness. However, as a woman who works with women in Psychiatry, I cannot stand silent on this. I have heard you reference in at least one other video mental health , and I also commented on that.
Very good video 👍 I told my ex many times to break up with me because she was superior to me and I didn’t want her to settle with someone that’s below her standards. She even told me she had to lower her standards to go out with someone like me many times. I gave up too easily but I knew I was a feminine man and she was a masculine woman. Extroverted woman and an introverted man are not a good combination
I disagree. I loved my ex but I knew I wasn’t good enough because she kept comparing me to other men and ex’s, and I didn’t know what to do as a man to be a great partner. I asked her to dump me on many occasions because I felt I was inferior to her and she refused. She was an extrovert who people liked and I was an introvert that no one liked. She was my first gf at 41 and she never told me her age or allowed me to meet her friends and family. When I decided to end it out of love, she told me I was never her bf and only in a situationship
I love this Chengi ❤️ I was dating a generous, attractive man and I thought he was an amazing man but he had a lot of life trauma 💔 and I'm grateful he told me this on our first date. He cared about me enough to let me know and let me go. It hurt, but it would have been worse for me if he had been dishonest.
This was extremely helpful!! 👏
Thank you for this. I was told this recently by a man I’ve known for a long while now and due to my time and exposure in the Black Swan community, I already knew the answer but your confirmation was reassuring Mama Swan. 😊 I am so much better equipped after connecting with BSRA. ❤
So glad to hear it Swan 🖤🦢
Chengi, I urge you to consider much more carefully some of the wording you use. To describe any woman as neurotic is at best ill informed, and at its worse, abuse. You are absolutely correct in terms of the fluctuating relationship we have with ourselves. Our emotions, our bodies, and the varying things that may influence those fluctuations. However, the term neurotic or neurosis is often used in psychiatry to weaponise women. I know this because im a mental health practitioner. Fortunately most psychiatrists have steered away from this awful label, and are now much more aware and compassionate in these things. Also, the term you used could also be applied to the man who uses it as a way to hurt and minimise the valid feelings of the woman he professes to love. The term is void. Its never a compliment and, as i said it is often used to weaponise womens emotions, most of which are entirely understandable , and not in the least 'neurotic'. You have a platform where women look to you for some guidance. The term you used has no place in language of love and support for women. It is the term of oppression, one I would expect to hear from a misogynist male. I understand this was most likely simply due to lack of awareness. However, as a woman who works with women in Psychiatry, I cannot stand silent on this. I have heard you reference in at least one other video mental health , and I also commented on that.
I've just landed on this channel ❤, last week he told me I deserve better and we ended the engagement
I’m so sorry to hear it and I know it will be the best thing for you in the end🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy exactly it was straining me , I think he knew i loved him so much ,he took me for granted, i painfully let him go
Thank you for this video. The truth shall set you free.
Very good video 👍 I told my ex many times to break up with me because she was superior to me and I didn’t want her to settle with someone that’s below her standards. She even told me she had to lower her standards to go out with someone like me many times.
I gave up too easily but I knew I was a feminine man and she was a masculine woman. Extroverted woman and an introverted man are not a good combination
What a revelation and great you have come to this place of self awareness
He doesn't love you
I disagree. I loved my ex but I knew I wasn’t good enough because she kept comparing me to other men and ex’s, and I didn’t know what to do as a man to be a great partner. I asked her to dump me on many occasions because I felt I was inferior to her and she refused. She was an extrovert who people liked and I was an introvert that no one liked. She was my first gf at 41 and she never told me her age or allowed me to meet her friends and family.
When I decided to end it out of love, she told me I was never her bf and only in a situationship