He was never in love with Becca. But everyone loved Becca including his parents...he felt he had no option but to choose Becca. But he only loved Lauren...from their first one on one it was obvious she was going to be his final pick. Their connection was deeper and mutual...unlike Becca's
They are an amazing family couple!! Their story IS true love! While watching the season she seemed so quiet and blaaaah! But they shine together as a family with their now 3 kiddos!!
The “why did you do that?” And “I still love you” are short but powerful words from Lauren. She may not be super physical with her emotions but her eyes showed how hurt she was. I’m so glad they’re together now. I know they get a lot of shit but they’re my favorite Bachelor couple ever
Yeah. I watch their RUclips channel and I have gained a new perspective on them. They seem the most real out of all the couples. They're my favorite Bachelor couple too.
Watching this back a few years later it isn't that surprising to me that he changed his mind and went back to her. I think he looks more upset here than she does. I'm so glad that they are together now, they look so happy.
Lauren is the sweetest, most kind and most beautiful contestant the show has ever had. They make a lovely couple and I wish them the very best. Ari led with his heart and came back to the right girl.
She had 0 personality. She’s a pretty thing to look at on a shelf but I don’t think it’s possible to have a conversation with her. She looks like she’s 0 fun.
Exactly. She is such a sweet person and she dealt with the breakup well. She is quiet but a good person. She asked him earlier if he was very sure and she knew he wasn't. Even if she knew he was still in love with her she let him go here coz she is so pure. I would b furious and irate. She has that calm and gentle personality.
Lauren is completely elegant and feminine and classy...she doesn’t say much but her eyes and emotions speak volumes. And It’s clear how special and unique Lauren is after hearing so many trashy comments from angry girls.
Well I obviously disagree with you. As a man you need someone with a sincere loving kind heart, someone that will sacrifice everything for you..someone you can depend on for life. Both Lauren and Becca had those qualities.
I agree absolutely! Lauren is so demure and mysterious. The other women were overly eager and too aggressive. Even Becca was talking trash about Lauren acting like she's better than her. Lauren never once put her down.
I watched the regret in his eyes as he was proposing to Becca. I remember thinking he went completely vacant/robotic. He was thinking shiiit I’ve just made the biggest mistake of my life. He knew.
I’ll have to go back and look at the proposal but I remember specifically they were doing all of this fake laughter and showy stuff the two days they spent at the resort before they flew back. Becca was upstaging him everywhere she went and it was obvious that he was like a little mouse around her big personality. I have no clue why his family talked him into Becca.
Am I just crazy, or is this the most romantic breakup ever. it brought tears to my eyes. When Arie first hugged Lauren, I could feel the love. I really thought he would say, I just can't let you go. I change my decision. (which he did, but had to wait a few weeks).
Arie is lucky to have Lauren in his life,she is so nice and cute elegant and she loves him so much 🥺❤️even if he didn’t chose her ,she wish him the best 🥺
I agree, it must have been difficult for him. All these people judging him are being very inconsiderate. Asking for more time wouldn’t have helped either as both women would have felt he’s undecisive and might hurt them even more.
What a sad world. People are so full of hate and negativity. Reading the comments here is pure garbage... This guy made a mistake. It happens! Not everyone has everything figured out at the moment of truth. What matters is he didnt married the wrong girl in the end.
I’m with you. The judgment is so gross. If you haven’t walked a mile in someone else’s shoes... Instead we should applaud the courage it took for him to right his wrong!
Watching this over & over several times, & this is still the Best Good bye out of all Bachelorette franchise... I love Arie & Lauren.♥️♥️ All the best to your lil family..
cubomania3 Well People are different and if they choose to blog about themselves and update people about their lives then its none of our business. That’s what everyone does nowadays, it’s that generation of the internet. There’s something called being a blogger which a lot of people do.
Lauren and Becca are two nice ppl. Each break up was so smooth. No shouting no screaming. He was definitely influenced by his family and he felt like Lauren was guarded. But some ppl are like that. Quiet but loving. I don't know y he would say I love u to Lauren so many times but in his mind had picked Becca.
Are has had his heart broke before and so has Lauren. I think this was the best thing to have happen to really test a love that even they didn't know they had for one another. True love is not fake
I still cried watching this episode I feel Lauren so hurt .That’s why thank u arie u back to Lauren and now u are happy together and have a baby soon❤️
I think its funny how people comment how he is an A-hole, etc. What exactly do you expect from a show that has a man date 20 something different girls over 2-3 months and in that time, he is supposed to fall in love with one, pick one and ask her to marry him. Yea, I can see how that must be super easy when most people spend years with one person in a toxic relationship before choosing to walk away.
I would have had him do something about it right then in there! Like “oh you do love me? Then I’m not leaving” he would seriously have to admit that he didn’t love me to get rid of me.
marie R what I’m really saying is that Artie gets a sick high from making people cry for him for no reason. He probably doesn’t even love anyone, that’s why she should have made him admit that he doesn’t love her if he’s sending her home
I think that people like to give a lot of hate without actually knowing what it’s like to be in that situation. You can definitely tell that wasn’t something he was confident in doing and I think it takes a lot from people to say that they wouldn’t be confused like him.
Sometimes you don’t know what you want until it’s gone though. I think it’s easy for us to judge from the outside since we have not been in this position
I would have waited around and told Becca that her man just told me he loved me. He took Lauren to Machu Picchu and told her the story about the miscarriage...that showed he was always into her the most.
I know right. When I was watching him talk to his family about who they liked more, which is Becca, I can tell he felt like he was pressured to be with Becca. While it's quite obvious he had more feelings towards Lauren.
He did nothing wrong just following his heart easy to judge imagine in his shows and all the attention! Don't judge him at all I'm just glad he now knows 100% and is hppy
I know ppl were angry that he broke up with becca but given the shows format its evident that they never spent much time together and he must have realized that they had less in common when they did
This is the first season of the bach that I had zero interest in watching. They need to stop choosing lame ass guys. The bachelorettes are usually classy for the most part. Happy international women's day btw
Mistakes are only bad when you don't correct them. Arie corrected his. People don't even put up with a Burger that is not exactly as they had wanted and send it back to the kitchen yet they expect him to live his life with the woman that he wasn't sure about.
He is creepy and a biggest jerk. He made the situation absolutely confuse for himself and the two girls. How can you tell Lauren "I am sorry but I love you too" dumped her and then turn around to Becca and proposed to her saying "I love you I love you so much" . This guy is a confuse freak!
alicia chung you're right! What a jerk. Telling Lauren he loved her then it's bye bye, only to propose to Becca moments later saying the same thing to her, The guy has no morals or a soul.
@R g. What a dumb thing to say...so believing in God = having morals? Really now...so no religious person has ever done anything immoral? Yea, you’re an idiot.
Stop hating.... he made his choice coz he got to know Becca more ........why you acting up like we have never dumped someone for somebody else .... live both of them if entertaining or not entertaining Becca got her man too.... so guess what the cursing and everything won’t stop ... I love you Lauren it’s good he knew what he lost he came running
Yes you would. Women are all the same. Once they feel they have fallen in love they keep giving men more chances. Men can even cheat on them and they take them back because a man who cheats once or twice is desirable by other women and he becomes more desirable to the one he cheated on.
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I’m so glad he followed his heart and broke it off with Becca. Yes, it sucked. However, marrying her would have been worse
He was never in love with Becca. But everyone loved Becca including his parents...he felt he had no option but to choose Becca. But he only loved Lauren...from their first one on one it was obvious she was going to be his final pick. Their connection was deeper and mutual...unlike Becca's
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Yes it's true ❤️ We ❤️ U Arie & Lauren ❤️❤️
They are an amazing family couple!! Their story IS true love!
While watching the season she seemed so quiet and blaaaah! But they shine together as a family with their now 3 kiddos!!
The “why did you do that?” And “I still love you” are short but powerful words from Lauren. She may not be super physical with her emotions but her eyes showed how hurt she was. I’m so glad they’re together now. I know they get a lot of shit but they’re my favorite Bachelor couple ever
Girl, same. There love is so real
he’s such an asshole though
So agree definitely my faves
Yeah. I watch their RUclips channel and I have gained a new perspective on them. They seem the most real out of all the couples. They're my favorite Bachelor couple too.
*slack means that people are being easy on them. I think you mean ‘flak’ :)
Aww when she said '' I still love you'' wow I really felt that.. So glad he went back to her
Sweet Gulab aww same here :))
Same
No Arie is too old for Lauren. I wanted Lauren to be the bachelorette
Same ... they were meant for each other
Watching this back a few years later it isn't that surprising to me that he changed his mind and went back to her. I think he looks more upset here than she does. I'm so glad that they are together now, they look so happy.
3 babies later they are both really happy. I’ve run into them a bunch of times in Scottsdale and they are so nice and their children are well behaved!
Lauren is the sweetest, most kind and most beautiful contestant the show has ever had. They make a lovely couple and I wish them the very best. Ari led with his heart and came back to the right girl.
She had 0 personality. She’s a pretty thing to look at on a shelf but I don’t think it’s possible to have a conversation with her. She looks like she’s 0 fun.
@@taytayqueen7024 have you seen their RUclips? She’s totally not
@@af11911 I have, and I stand by my statement, she’s pretty but boring. Good to look at but that’s it to me, personality like a wet sponge.
Exactly. She is such a sweet person and she dealt with the breakup well. She is quiet but a good person. She asked him earlier if he was very sure and she knew he wasn't. Even if she knew he was still in love with her she let him go here coz she is so pure. I would b furious and irate. She has that calm and gentle personality.
@@taytayqueen7024 you're probably use to toxic
Lauren is completely elegant and feminine and classy...she doesn’t say much but her eyes and emotions speak volumes. And It’s clear how special and unique Lauren is after hearing so many trashy comments from angry girls.
Well I obviously disagree with you. As a man you need someone with a sincere loving kind heart, someone that will sacrifice everything for you..someone you can depend on for life. Both Lauren and Becca had those qualities.
Gary Lauren is so classy. Arie kissed, touched and looked at her different than the other girls. Did you read the people mag article?
No i haven't..
I agree absolutely! Lauren is so demure and mysterious. The other women were overly eager and too aggressive. Even Becca was talking trash about Lauren acting like she's better than her. Lauren never once put her down.
+Gary Hov "someone you can depend on for life" smh don't depend on another human. you weren't made to.
I watched the regret in his eyes as he was proposing to Becca. I remember thinking he went completely vacant/robotic. He was thinking shiiit I’ve just made the biggest mistake of my life. He knew.
I’ll have to go back and look at the proposal but I remember specifically they were doing all of this fake laughter and showy stuff the two days they spent at the resort before they flew back. Becca was upstaging him everywhere she went and it was obvious that he was like a little mouse around her big personality. I have no clue why his family talked him into Becca.
clearly he didn't like the script
Am I just crazy, or is this the most romantic breakup ever. it brought tears to my eyes. When Arie first hugged Lauren, I could feel the love. I really thought he would say, I just can't let you go. I change my decision. (which he did, but had to wait a few weeks).
Her dress is so Stunning
Yes ... their love was apparent even during that breakup
I wish I were that graceful during a breakup.
Sameeee 😂😭💔
😅
omg me too i made an absolute fool of myself 😭😭im still embarrassed about it a year later
Lauren is an angel and a GEM. ❤️ I'm so happy they ended up together and have their beautiful family now.
She is great. She took it so good, no swearing or anything. She is the best!!
now they’re married, have a babygirl and twins on the way🥺
So shocked when it aired. He's lucky Lauren took him back. So happy for them now. Beautiful family as they're meant to be.
Arie is lucky to have Lauren in his life,she is so nice and cute elegant and she loves him so much 🥺❤️even if he didn’t chose her ,she wish him the best 🥺
Her rejection reaction told him this is his how she will handle disappointment. She’s calm introspective and I let her go.
Good point
She was so graceful
He was always more into Lauren but Becca always look good on paper. The heart wants what it want.All. the best.It is not going to be easy road.
I agree
Then don’t get on Tv and lie to fans and to choice 1 that’s leading
Choice 1 on
I agree, it must have been difficult for him. All these people judging him are being very inconsiderate. Asking for more time wouldn’t have helped either as both women would have felt he’s undecisive and might hurt them even more.
And now they’re expecting twins!! I’m so happy for them! They got there in the end!❤️
It’s hopeful, isn’t it?
What a sad world. People are so full of hate and negativity. Reading the comments here is pure garbage... This guy made a mistake. It happens! Not everyone has everything figured out at the moment of truth. What matters is he didnt married the wrong girl in the end.
I agree!!!
I’m with you. The judgment is so gross. If you haven’t walked a mile in someone else’s shoes...
Instead we should applaud the courage it took for him to right his wrong!
“All I really wanted to tell Lauren was I love you, but instead I was saying goodbye”. -Arie 😢
Crazy how she’s now pregnant with their second baby and are happily married
Twins
2nd and 3rd now
They are having twins! Crazy
baby’s*
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Watching this over & over several times, & this is still the Best Good bye out of all Bachelorette franchise...
I love Arie & Lauren.♥️♥️
All the best to your lil family..
And they found their way back to each other❤️❤️❤️
What is meant to be will be.
Lauren is insanely pretty.
now they are married and have a baby and vlogs in youtube. lol my fav couple by far
Yes! It also seems to come easy for them. Their chemistry is everything!
cubomania3 Well People are different and if they choose to blog about themselves and update people about their lives then its none of our business. That’s what everyone does nowadays, it’s that generation of the internet. There’s something called being a blogger which a lot of people do.
This show just break your heart. So happy they went back and found each other.
She handled it with class , unconditional love .her : I still love you 🥺
Lauren and Becca are two nice ppl. Each break up was so smooth. No shouting no screaming. He was definitely influenced by his family and he felt like Lauren was guarded. But some ppl are like that. Quiet but loving. I don't know y he would say I love u to Lauren so many times but in his mind had picked Becca.
I think on that day of the filming, the entire crew and the producers knew this was all wrong
At the end of the day we all wanted him to find love, the issue was he went against his heart and followed his brain. Breaking hearts in the process.
He went with the safe choice aka brunette
Lauren and Arie match made from heaven!
Still hurts me to watch this, even though they are happily married with children now. Love them, and wish them the best, always.
Real love finds a way.
This is crazy to watch now knowing how they are so happy now
Becca was in his mind the "right thing to do" but Lauren was the that was actually right for him
shes too beautiful and sweet
Now they’re happily married with 3 beautiful kids!! Alessi 💗 and twins Lux & Senna 💙💗
well at least he was honest with her ,that is a sign of a true gentleman. May God bless him and his love to be.
Being in love with two people and having to choose one is one of the hardest things to do. He made the right choice by choosing her to be his wife.
Are has had his heart broke before and so has Lauren. I think this was the best thing to have happen to really test a love that even they didn't know they had for one another. True love is not fake
Lauren was the greatest "contestant" in the history of the show. I was shocked he didn't pick her originally. He's lucky he had a second chance.
The best good bye out of the whole Bachelor nation...Love you Lauren & Arie..She handled it so well, although it was brutally hurt..❤
I still cried watching this episode I feel Lauren so hurt .That’s why thank u arie u back to Lauren and now u are happy together and have a baby soon❤️
When this happened I was floored because to me it was obvious that he loved Lauren more than he did Becca.
Actually he was never in love with Becca to begin with
And that's how it was sealed ♥️ love you ..Arie l love you too. Power of the tongue. You two make a beautiful couple. All best❤️
I think its funny how people comment how he is an A-hole, etc. What exactly do you expect from a show that has a man date 20 something different girls over 2-3 months and in that time, he is supposed to fall in love with one, pick one and ask her to marry him. Yea, I can see how that must be super easy when most people spend years with one person in a toxic relationship before choosing to walk away.
I wished them the best and his kind family too . . .
Please do not kiss too much on the show ! ! !
People hate on Ari for this, but you could tell he wanted to pick Lauren the whole time and was kind of pressured by his family to pick Becca.
i hate on him for this because despite being pressured, he still did that to Becca
@@madilynschiefelbein5012 if Becca has moved on, so can we 💛
Watching this after watching their youtube channel.... Aahhh man.. So wierd... BUT LOVE THEM NOW.... 😍😍😍😍
You can actually sees how much he loves her here
Nah, I totally saw that he loved Becca because he chose her first.lauren was his second choice. he had to do a test run like he does cars.
Thank you for uploading this!
Jr
I would have had him do something about it right then in there! Like “oh you do love me? Then I’m not leaving” he would seriously have to admit that he didn’t love me to get rid of me.
Nicole Shewood true..but you also want a guy who's confident enough in his feelings to fight for you
marie R what I’m really saying is that Artie gets a sick high from making people cry for him for no reason. He probably doesn’t even love anyone, that’s why she should have made him admit that he doesn’t love her if he’s sending her home
I think that people like to give a lot of hate without actually knowing what it’s like to be in that situation. You can definitely tell that wasn’t something he was confident in doing and I think it takes a lot from people to say that they wouldn’t be confused like him.
Shouldn’t have chosen anyone until he knew
Agreed
Sometimes you don’t know what you want until it’s gone though. I think it’s easy for us to judge from the outside since we have not been in this position
He knew he loved Lauren . He was thinking not feeling . His parents said becca suited him best logically but Lauren had his heart
I would have waited around and told Becca that her man just told me he loved me. He took Lauren to Machu Picchu and told her the story about the miscarriage...that showed he was always into her the most.
Krista Roman miscarriage? Who did miscarriage 😱
Everything is scripted
Miscarriage, wha?!
Arie told Lauren on their first one-on-one about a previous girlfriend who had a miscarriage and how they eventually broke up over it.
That's why Arie went back to her, she is a good person..She clearly loved him and wanted him to be happy., Ur single right?
She also says “I think you’re making a mistake” where is that part!?
You can tell he loved her
Wow😂
And they're now living the "happily ever after" and already had three kids
Arie acted like he had to marry Becca what a weirdo
I know right. When I was watching him talk to his family about who they liked more, which is Becca, I can tell he felt like he was pressured to be with Becca. While it's quite obvious he had more feelings towards Lauren.
pressure. Shut up.
Becca wasn’t very natural. I don’t know if that’s the right word to express it though.
To me, Becca wasn’t very natural. I don’t know if that’s the right word to express it. But I would feel pressured to be with her too.
It was all staged, they just wanted drama for views he knew he was staying with lauren and producers offered becca the role for bachelorette . easy
He did nothing wrong just following his heart easy to judge imagine in his shows and all the attention! Don't judge him at all I'm just glad he now knows 100% and is hppy
Nicole B hE dId NoThInG wRoNg!
He broke someone else’s heart bc he couldn’t make up his mind, his decision hurt other people so how did he do nothing wrong?
Oh he did a lot of things wrong. But it was right for him to go with the woman he was in love with.
What's meant to be will always find its way. :)
And years later they are married with kids❤I’m so happy for them
I hate this! Am glad they ended up together. Becca was bad news.
Such a sad moment. I saw his face that he didn't want to send her home.
And now they married with 3 kids. Love it
I know ppl were angry that he broke up with becca but given the shows format its evident that they never spent much time together and he must have realized that they had less in common when they did
Dont think he was the villain e/o makes him out to me. He felt pressured by his parents, but you can see he clearly loves Lauren more
She is so much better of a choice then Bekah was. She loves him and he loves her. They are such a beautiful family..
Soulmates
They won each other’s heart’s in most Trying moments
This is the first season of the bach that I had zero interest in watching. They need to stop choosing lame ass guys. The bachelorettes are usually classy for the most part. Happy international women's day btw
Erin Guiffrida Kaitlyn was far from classy lol
Everyone shits on Ari, but I legitimately enjoyed his season. He was a bit deadpan, but the show was very real/raw.
Mistakes are only bad when you don't correct them. Arie corrected his. People don't even put up with a Burger that is not exactly as they had wanted and send it back to the kitchen yet they expect him to live his life with the woman that he wasn't sure about.
I guess they tell him what to do for ratings. You could tell he loved her. I'm glad they are now together 4ever.
now they are married with 3 beautiful babies
And now they are married and have a beautiful baby girl
Ohhhhhh alessi is gonna be so mad 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that I’m subscribed to their channel and they have a baby like it’s just weird watching this.
Mia Aston same i watch them regularly now and just think back to their journey
Syeda Nilima yea
She kept is so classy. My god.
So beautiful nature,heavenly😍😍😍😍
He is creepy and a biggest jerk. He made the situation absolutely confuse for himself and the two girls. How can you tell Lauren "I am sorry but I love you too" dumped her and then turn around to Becca and proposed to her saying "I love you I love you so much" . This guy is a confuse freak!
alicia chung you're right! What a jerk. Telling Lauren he loved her then it's bye bye, only to propose to Becca moments later saying the same thing to her, The guy has no morals or a soul.
@R g. What a dumb thing to say...so believing in God = having morals? Really now...so no religious person has ever done anything immoral? Yea, you’re an idiot.
Sierra Jones religious people are good too, but no one is perfect
It's really not as easy as we think. They don't have a lot of time and they're kinda forced to make a decision
You could tell watching Ari walk her out that he really knew then he made a huge mistake.
He knews he loves Lauren
Hahaha I can’t stop laughing at the llamas at the back of 0:46
Lauren is pure gold, just too good for Arie.
her life has completely changed from heartbroken breakup to married and child and house etc
I was really confused as to why he chose becca tbh
Same and he did seem to be in love with Becca. It’s so odd.
Congratulations on your pregnancy. They are having twins.
I cry a lots😭
Arie chose the right one. Lauren is classy,quiet,elegant. Becca is high maintenance and most men can't deal with that. The heart wants what it wants 😊
Now they have a daughter together
And twins on the way!! 😭
Stop hating.... he made his choice coz he got to know Becca more ........why you acting up like we have never dumped someone for somebody else .... live both of them if entertaining or not entertaining Becca got her man too.... so guess what the cursing and everything won’t stop ... I love you Lauren it’s good he knew what he lost he came running
That shows we're all humans. We make mistakes
Crazy how a DM changed everything
And now they’re about to have their 2nd and 3rd baby 😻
Sometimes the selfish man feels he must sacrifice his love so he can keep being a douche.
Im glad he turned into a man and realised his mistake.
I would not accept that guy if he broke up with me fuck that !!!! Embarrassing lol
Yes you would. Women are all the same. Once they feel they have fallen in love they keep giving men more chances. Men can even cheat on them and they take them back because a man who cheats once or twice is desirable by other women and he becomes more desirable to the one he cheated on.
What is meant to be will be
Here after they just had their twins 👶🏻👶🏻