Arie is such a stand up guy. He’s going to heal Lauren’s heart so fast through this. Thinking of you guys and all of the other parents who have gone through this!
I love how Arie is always searching for the positive for Lauren. “We know that the baby is in the right place so that’s good.” They will overcome all of life’s painful moments.
Hey Arie and Lauren, my husband and I went through this November of last year. We had a very similar experience, measuring small at first, hcg rising, measuring small the second time but seeing a heartbeat, and our third ultrasound we found out we had a missed miscarriage. It was very hard for my husband especially not having anyone to relate to. He said this is the first video he has seen with a guy actually going through it with his wife and sharing his emotions. We are so sorry for your loss. Our story has a happy ending, we are now pregnant with our rainbow baby, due on the exact day in November we lost our first. Everything happens for a reason, and we pray you get your rainbow too. God has a plan for us all. Thank you for sharing your story, it means a lot.
J Brown hi, the same thing happened to my husband and I in November- December. Your rainbow baby has given me a little more hope. Thank you for sharing your story.
Kelley i had one with my first pregnancy and now have 2 teenage boys. A high percentage of women experience at least one miscarriage. It doesnt mean it will happem again. Glad Lauren put this video out instead of hiding it.
This literally just happened to us this November/December. First ultrasound was not definitive, measuring small, but hcg level was good, second ultrasound 10 days later we got the bad news, not viable not heart beat & hcg went down. Missed miscarriages are common people say & I'm glad more people are sharing & make so we don't feel alone bit definitely doesn't make it any easier. Hoping we have a rainbow baby in our near future. 🤞🌈🙏
I remember when Shawn Johnson and Andrew East posted their miscarriage story a few years back and how emotional that was to watch too. I can’t imagine how your heart hurts or what Lauren will go through processing the hormones. I wanted to say thank you for sharing for others to know they aren’t alone. For telling us and letting us pray for you. 🤗
I absolutely cried at the end, was so nice of you to mention how things like this happen to other people. When it happens to yourself for the first time you feel so alone. I've been through 2 missed miscarriages at 9 weeks and one at 5 weeks - thinking I was 11 weeks along. I also had a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks + 2. I've still not had my rainbow baby, however I find comfort in watching videos like this. Not because other people have lost babies too but because it makes me feel less alone. I hope you both get your rainbow baby 🌈👶
I’ve had two miscarriages in five months. 3 months after the second loss I became pregnant with our double rainbow baby. He is 7 weeks tomorrow. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s never easy.
“Bribe her with food”-Arie to Alessi is me everyday making decisions. But, Lauren, Arie & Alessi I am so sorry for your guys loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all during this difficult time❤️🥺
Lauren is the best combination of hilarious, humble, mumbly, motherly, sweet, smiley, and of course beautiful. Preggo or not, ain't hard to girlcrush. Arie showing us that men are so much more than just their sperm. Grow in your grief. Big Love.
This is tough. With a miscarriage, especially if there’s any uncertainty, the days are super long and emotional. We lost our first at 9 weeks. My second pregnancy, I had a missed miscarriage at 14 weeks. It was twins and it wasn’t complete so I needed a D&C which lengthened the recovery process physically and emotionally. After a miscarriage, no future pregnancies are ever the same. When I was pregnant with my daughter (my rainbow baby) I was super emotional and very scared until one day I was driving my car and I noticed two tiny clouds in a very open clear blue sky. The two tiny clouds were connected by a thin rainbow and it gave me hope. The most important thing is to keep hope alive in your heart and even though you’ll never forget the pain of your loss, time will heal your heartbreak. I’m now mom to a 6 year old girl and 3 year old boy and 32 weeks pregnant with baby #3. This is my 7th pregnancy and I think the low points we’ve been through have made the bright moments brighter. My experience reminds me to love fiercely and appreciate all I’ve been given.
Lauren, I could tell your hurting and that Arie is too. Hang in there. I follow Shawn Johnson and she has a similar story to yours. You guys should connect. It took my husband and I more than 10 years to get pregnant. My heart goes out to you.
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious baby. I had a missed miscarriage in 2018 and it was a similar, drawn out, excruciating experience. Prayers for peace.
Watching this means so much more to me now. I lost my baby this week. I was suppose to be 10 w and was only measuring 5 w. Waited one week to see if baby would grow but ended up finding out the baby didn’t have a heartbeat anymore. I had a missed miscarriage. No matter how common it is… it doesn’t make it hurt any less. Praying for a rainbow baby in the future just like how you both got yours ❤️
This exactly happened to me, I was supposed to be 9 weeks but my baby measured only 6 weeks and 4 days , a week passed and my baby didn’t grow or had a heartbeat, I had to have an induced miscarriage. It was devastating and heartbreaking. I pray for all women that has gone through this , for healing and comfort and For God to give us all rainbow babies ❤️
I was literally tearing up so many times throughout this video. I'm so sorry this happened. Thank you for sharing this with us. I know it'll help so many others to feel less alone if this has happened to them. On a lighter note, Arie can detect when Lauren is pregnant which is pretty cool. ❤️ Sending love
My aunt and grandma have been through multiple miscarriages, we’re here for y’all. Thank you for sharing, and being brave to let other know that they’re not alone. ❤️
The only “positive” thing for me, and for you too it seems, that we have supportive and caring husbands that can help us get through how emotional the loss process is
So so so sorry guys, there’s no pain like losing a baby no matter how far along. You are not alone, and you are making others who are going through this feel less alone too ❤️
I had a loss exactly like this a year ago. My hormones levels were always off, each ultrasound baby wasn’t measuring where it should, but each time there was progress, so wait and see. I was 10 weeks, baby measuring about 6, when I finally miscarries. It was definitely a roller coaster. You try to stay so hopeful. People think it’s comforting to tell you something was probably wrong with the baby, but that wasn’t comforting at all. My miscarriage came after my pregnancy with my daughter who is missing a chromosome and shouldn’t have lived. If the baby we lost had something wrong, then it means 2 chromosome issues in a row. I am 25 weeks now with a healthy baby. Repeat loss is less common, and while I know that doesn’t help now because you wanted that baby you had, not another one, hopefully you find some peace that you will likely have a healthy pregnancy next time.
This is wonderfully documented and portrayed, you guys are doing an amazing thing being so open about it. I have such respect for you both. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔
Arie you are so tender and sweet with Lauren, I love how you comfort her. You two are unbelievably strong, I wish for you hearts to heal soon, and the stress subsides! Very proud of both. Best wishes. xoxo❤
That’s such a hard thing to go through. I went through the same thing and the amazing thing was just the next month I became pregnant again with my daughter who’s now 1.5 yrs old! Sending you guys lots of love
Hey Lauren. Trust me when I say I know what you’re going through & I know it’s really difficult for others to understand the pain. I’ve had a few myself-first one was exactly like yours which was a missed miscarriage (8 weeks). My second one was worse at 12 and the 3rd I got to 25 weeks. This is my first time ever admitting that publicly. I know it’s just comments in RUclips that will never been seen but still, I get extremely choked up just trying to find the courage to actually type this out right now so I guess that’s some amount of progress right? I know you probably want someone to say or do something that just makes it go away-even just for a moment but I think we both know that can’t happen so I will say that time; like anything does help make it just a little bit easier. You guys are absolutely right that it isn’t talked about enough so I am soooooo super proud of you for finding that courage on top of everything else. Arie, you should be incredibly proud of her-seriously. I send you both lots of ❤️ and many prayers. Everything does happen for a reason and just remember to trust in that fact. You have a beautiful baby girl who just turned 1 year old and I know you guys will continue to grow your amazing family someday! Sending blessings! ❤️ , Ash & kiddos
As a medical student, I know how common miscarriages are and getting through a successful pregnancy is physiologically VERY hard. Don’t worry Lauren and Arie and thank you for sharing your story. If more people spoke about miscarriages, coping with them would be easier. Thank you for this 💕
hey guys! this video really hit home for me. i had a miscarriage 2 years ago, and even tho i was no where near being ready to bring a baby into this world, i was devastated. i had names picked out, and a theme for the room. nobody wants to hear the word miscarriage & u are not alone! there’s good and bad days, but everything gets better with time. sending love and praying for ur little family 🤍
Arie I love how supportive of Lauren you are. It took alot of courage for you both to share this very vulnerable moment with us your video audience. Take care. Praying for better days ahead for your family.
So much respect for Arie I knew from the day you and Lauren went on your first date that you both made each other stronger 🧡Arie you are a amazing husband and father. And Lauren being a mommy just comes natural for you. Thank you for sharing your happily ever after with us. The next couple of years are going to fly by. I know we all here it, but my son turned 18 in October and my husband and I will celebrate our 20 year wedding anniversary, I was 19 and he was 25 ... God definitely has a plan for the two of you and always remember when ever things seem to be a struggle. Together you make it through ❤The love between Lauren and Arie is truly a blessing that was meant to be ❤
I didn’t like Arie and Lauren when they first ended up together..well just shows that The Bachelor gave them a bad edit. This couple is adorable and in love. I didn’t realize that Lauren was so sweet and beautiful. Now we know why he picked her.
No it has nothing to do with The Bachelor giviing them a bad edit. It's called perception. I personally love the fact he left Becca to follow his heart which was and is Lauren. I was pissed when he sent Lauren home
I didn't like them either but now that Becca's personality is more exposed, I definitely see what he saw in Lauren. She's adorable and makes for a much better partner.
Agree. At first I was really upset that Erie proposed a buckeye and then took a proposal back. More than a couple years down the line lol I just discovered their RUclips page and these two are absolutely adorable they are so in love and it has been a lot of fun watching their family grow and their relationship grow. 💜💜💜💜
I am so sorry. I keep thinking to your recent interview with US Weekly where you were asked about baby number 2 and when that’s happening for you guys. That would have been difficult to talk about. Thank you for sharing your story and all the wonderful videos of your family. You guys are the best parents ever
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I've lost a pregnancy and it was so hard to talk about at the time. People like you make it easier to be open about something that's so personal and hurtful but also so common. I definitely feel less alone
My husband and I went through a miscarriage in July last year 1 day after our daughter's 3rd birthday. It was an absolutely heartbreaking time for us and when we got pregnant a couple of months later we were terrified of being heartbroken again but we just had our beautiful baby boy on May 4th so just stay strong and know that good things will come in the future. Everything happens for a reason. Lots of love! We ate lots of ice cream and went to puppy stores when we were hurting and it definitely helped us get through the tough times! ❤
My husband and I tried for 2 years to get pregnant. We finally got a positive sign and we were beyond happy and so excited for the future, only to go to the first ultrasound and hear the same news as you received. It was heart breaking. Soul crushing. I can’t even explain it, but people who have gone through the same thing know that feeling. But exactly 2 months later, yet another positive pregnancy test. At the ultrasound Appointment we finally saw that tiny glimmer of light through all The darkness. And now, we have a 2 year old little girl, AND our little baby boy. Good things are in your future. Don’t loose hope❤️
I’ve been through this, Arie. I understand this pain as a guy who was going to be a dad once. Hugs to you both. And thank you for being so transparent. It helps people to know that they aren’t alone.
I totally agree. I don't think I've seen such an up-front presentation of it... I'm so thankful they let us into their journey. I think people need to know this can happen. It's weird that it's been rarely talked about until recently.
My heart breaks for you. I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I wouldn’t wish the emotional pain of them on anyone. Prayers to you two that you get your rainbow baby soon. ❤️🌈
so sorry y'all are going through this. I too went through this exactly. I also tried to prank my husband and it ended up being a real positive. A week later I miscarried and its something that has always stayed with me, always. We did end up getting pregnant again about a month or month and a half later and now I have a beautiful 13 1/2 month old. Please don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. this was a baby, YOUR baby and it mattered so you are allowed to 'think about it' and cry. However, Don't lose hope! Prayers for you three! xx
This is almost my exact same story. Had an emergency ultrasound when I started spotting at 6 weeks 2 days. Baby was measuring at 5w3d. Had another ultrasound 9 days later, and baby was measuring at 6w1d, but had a heartbeat. I should've been almost 8 weeks. That was May 27th. I miscarried on May 28th. It is heartbreaking. I will keep your family in my prayers. I start testing this week to figure out what is going wrong since I have lost three babies to miscarriage. I pray you don't have to endure the same.
Thank you for being so open about this. After trying for 9 months, my husband and I finally found ourselves pregnant, but soon lost the baby. A few months later we found ourselves losing our second baby. It's something that happens often, but isn't talked about. Love you guys sharing your pain and experience when I know it's not easy. ❤ praying we both have our rainbows soon. 🌈
I experienced a missed miscarriage-the baby stopped growing at 10 weeks 2 days. We were devastated. Fast forward and I have had two healthy babies. I have found I am even MORE grateful for the gift of my babies after experiencing the pain of miscarriage. There is always light after a storm-Praying for you to find peace until your rainbow comes 🤍
I’m so sorry your going through this. I had a missed miscarriage 2 years ago... when we went in for our first ultrasound I should have been 10 weeks and I was only measuring 6 and I knew right away I had lost the baby because we had been doing fertility treatments and I knew exactly when I got pregnant. One of the hardest things I have ever gone through. Best wishes to you all during this difficult time.
This is so heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine the pain that you two are going through. I’m so sorry that that you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you❤️ thank you for being so courageous and sharing this with the world.
I just found out today at 6+1 weeks that my pregnancy was unviable and it was the hardest more surreal experience I’ve ever had. I am still processing it and heartbroken but I immediately thought of you guys and how you had your happy ending and wanted to watch this video again after experiencing this because you guys really do give me hope ❤️
This is my 1st time ever commenting on a youtube video and I just want to say Thank You for sharing your story with us! There are so many women, families who go through the same, though no one really talks about it and women are not really prepared for this to happen. I'm sorry for your loss, I absolutely feel you! Love from Hungary!
Lauren and Arie, I am so sorry. 🥺 I almost cried watching this. I pray you two can heal from this, I’m not a parent but I hope you can find comfort through this platform knowing you are not alone and others can share their stories with you. There is hope and happiness ahead❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. We have four children however has experienced two stillbirths and three miscarriages. No matter what stage it isn’t easy. I will keep you in prayers!
I had a miscarriage three months ago and it was my first pregnancy. I feel like it will change how i feel about my future pregnancies forever. Thank you for sharing this. I found a lot of comfort in it 💗
It feels weird “liking” this video, but I love you guys and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can’t begin to understand, but my thoughts and prayers are with you both ❤️
We just went through this last March. March 21, 2019 I lost my baby at 8w3d - they believe my baby stopped growing around 5-6 weeks. It was a missed miscarriage. But I got pregnant with my sweet rainbow baby girl at the end of May 2019 and she’s now 4 months. Sending you tons of love. I cried so much and it was so hard. I completely understand your pain. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing. Before I had my miscarriage I didn’t know anyone who had had one,..... no one talked about it, so my husband and I grieved and mourned all alone for months before I finally told someone and then the outpouring of support was HUGE!! I found out SO many of my relatives and friends had lost their babies too, but no one talked about it!!!! I think it is important to talk about it so no one feels alone, so thank you for sharing your story, and heartbreak
Hi Lauren and Arie it is very very normal after a woman has a baby that her hormone levels drop down to almost nothing. They even created a disorder around its called postpartum yet hardly any doctors ever address this!! If you get a hormone panel test including progesterone, cortisol estrogen There are natural creams no chemicals you can use once you know which levels are low. The uterus requires progesterone to be able to grow the fetus. It is so easy to bypass postpartum if the mama when she is ready to take a hormonal test to stay balanced she would not be experiencing uncontrolled mood swings or miscarriages if she just checked her hormone levels. It’s best if you have a naturopath guiding you. I am not a doctor but I have been a hands on healer for 36 years and have dealt with this with so many of my female clients in the years. Why oh why doctors do not discuss this with both parents I just do not understand why this is it’s really so simple. A woman becomes plump with lots of hormones while pregnant giving her that glow and that life force. Also it it a great thing if both partners do a colon and liver detox while trying to get pregnant since the hormones start being produced in the liver. I know you did not ask for this help but I felt so compelled to share this with both of you! Many blessings I so love you guys together it was the right move Arie!
Thank you for sharing. I went through this in January, and then got pregnant in February and am now 5 months along. Best of luck to you and Arie, sorry for your loss. 💚
U should start a channel when u get your baby and also congrats. If u have Instagram I would love to follow u. Have a great day know your beautiful. Don't change for anyone. Ps I'm a girl not a creep.
My heart absolutely breaks for the both of you. I’m so sorry. I love how you both are so real and how you are sharing your story. You guys are my favorite to watch on RUclips. I’m praying for you.
I had a miscarriage 2 years ago. I was also around 8 weeks along. I had just had an ultrasound and had seen the babies heart beating. Going through my miscarriage was hands down one of the hardest things I have ever been through. I hadn’t really told anyone besides my soon to be husband about the pregnancy until the miscarriage had already started. I quickly realized I couldn’t go through it alone, and I couldn’t be real with people unless I showed the heartbreak I was suffering. Don’t be afraid to feel your pain, and to share your heartache, and to lean where you find support...that’s how you will move through this. I also found a pregnancy app that had a support community for those going through miscarriage, it was a tremendous help to know I was not alone in the process. It takes time, but after awhile each day will slowly feel better. Hugs and love to you both 💗🌧🌈
Thanks for sharing this video! I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and two months later I got pregnant with my now 2 year old daughter. Take this month to mourn for your loss, it IS okay to feel that way you are feeling and to have your thoughts consumed by this, it WILL get better♥️
Such a hard time in the world- I can’t imagine going through this too 😔 I’m so sorry Arie and Lauren! Sending you two lots of healing, and hoping you find solice knowing your story is helping many other couples feel a little less alone. My friends and I loved your guys season- I will make sure we keep your little family in our thoughts and prayers ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss, but try and focus on the positive-you guys have a great marriage it seems and Alessi is healthy. I miscarried with my 4th child at 5 months, but I dwelled on my healthy kids. It would bother me when I saw small feet at first and thought what could have been, but thought back on the positive. Another one will come your way-I promise!!
I had a chemical pregnancy and a miscarriage before having our daughter. Even though she is here and healthy I still think about the “what if’s” all the time. I believe she is the baby that was meant to make it to us but it doesn’t make the hurt any less. I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. From the bottom of my heart I wish there was something I could do to help ease the pain 💕
I cried watching this because my husband and I went through the same exact thing 😭 after hearing that they couldn't hear a heartbeat after 8 weeks was so heartbreaking. I was a mess for months but my husband took it even harder. We already had a son but was looking forward to a daughter. Long story short, I got pregnant again within a year and now we have a daughter. That situation was very hard but it did make us stronger and so grateful for what we have now. God bless you both and your family
Wow, I cried reading your comment. Your story is exactly like my husband’s and mine. We also have a son who is a little over 2 now and we desperately wanted a daughter. We are pregnant again! It’s a girl! I still find myself getting emotional over the baby that could have been, but we wouldn’t have this special little girl coming into the world. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry for the loss and the heartbreak you have gone through. God bless you and your family.
I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I found out about all of them during my ultrasound appointments so I know the sick feeling of going in there hopeful only to have it slowly become clear something is wrong by the techs questions... thanks for sharing your vulnerable story. It’s such an emotional roller coaster. Praying for your healing from this and more beautiful babies in the future for your family ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss Lauren and Arie! I’ve been there and saying “don’t think about it” isn’t fair. The grief might hit you at different moments moving forward. I especially found guilt in my initial stress that the pregnancy was too soon after my first child and felt almost like I wished the baby away. I quickly learned that those feelings were not real, not helpful and not true. This is just part of your story and you can honour this baby through your love of Alessi and any future children. My advice: is let yourself feel those feelings, don’t try to forget or not think about it, and just appreciate the love that you can share with each other and Alessi. 💕
Such a hard thing to share :( i experienced a miscarriage before i had my son last year. it is such a horrible heartbreak but it gets better eventually and you are so strong Lauren.
Me and my husband just went through this the last 2 weeks and I get your pain 💕 I'm sorry y'all are going through this. No one should ever have to experience this.
Arie was totally right as a man I never think about these things ,-._.-.. Makes me respect Lauren and other women so much more for what they go through in trying to conceive._.-. A sincere thank you for documenting this as it will help so many people understand this topic and the associated emotions so much better._.. Lauren shows so much courage and as always is beautiful on so many levels._.-. I hope that it helps knowing that you have so many people behind you even down under here in Australia
@@joyce7369 Her body hasn't "expelled" the baby yet. She had a "missed miscarriage". Where she still has the hormones thinking she's pregnant (so no blood), but there's no heartbeat. I had one in 2014 at 10 weeks, baby measured 8 with no heartbeat. She will most likely start bleeding soon unfortunately.
Thank you so much for sharing , I feel I went through a similar experience . I battled infertility and went through Ivf. lost the baby at 18 weeks , had to deliver him naturally , had many complications during birth and afterwards . Took another 3 years before I became pregnant with my daughter. Had a very complicated pregnancy , pulmonary embolisms , very high risk pregnancy . Delivered at 37 weeks . When she turned one, I did a pregnancy test for fun and was extremely surprised it was positive , but I miscarried 4 days later . The next month I also had a positive pregnancy test . At the 7 week mark , went to get the ultrasound and baby was measuring 5 weeks . Then 2 weeks later baby was measuring 6 weeks ( I was supposed to Be 9 weeks ) miscarried à couple days later . I felt very lonely . The loss still hurts but time heals . Thinking of you mama ❤️
So soo much love for you guys. I especially love how positive arie is throughout-reassuring lauren that it’s going to be okay. You can tell you guys work v well together. I believe you will see that little baby again on the other side. You are still it’s momma, lauren! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I’m so sorry for your loss, but thank you so much for sharing. I really learned a lot from your experience. You all are so uplifting even during the hard times. It’s so refreshing to see.
My husband and I went through this exact same thing a few months ago. A lot of highs and lows throughout the whole process. It’s something no one will understand until they have experienced it. Lean on each other, take care of yourself and hug that sweet baby girl of yours.
Thanks for sharing your story. I’ve experienced this same timeline 2 times and an additional 2 early miscarriages and it is soul crushing. Holding my rainbow baby in my arms and so thrilled to hear of your recent pregnancy announcement it’s important to normalize miscarriage and to start conversations about it and the fear and anxiety that goes into subsequent pregnancies. Thank you for using your platform for that! ❣️
I know exactly how you feel and the roller coaster of emotions. And at this moment i still feel lost and cant believeI went through somethinglike this with our first baby. On February 24 my husband Austin and I got the best news ever. Something we had been praying and hoping for. We found out we were pregnant. We were so happy and ecstatic as we had been trying since September 2019. But with that came concern because I found out in the ER when I came in with abdominal pain. With a week a tests to make sure it was a healthy pregnancy. We kept getting great news with all my level going up normally. The only thing they could not see was that the baby was not where it needed to be. So on March 3rd, 2020 we were sent back to the hospital to double check to make sure things were okay. Well an hour after being in the ER we were told we had an ectopic pregnancy! Something we never wanted to hear. Our world shattered for a moment. This was going to be our first baby. How did this happen, why did this happen and can we keep on trying, ran through our minds. I never knew we would go through something like this with us being on 24 years old we never thought this would happen to us. I never knew we could feel loss like this. But at the same time this most incredible power (only a God thing) came over me and made me feel like everything was going to be okay and that one day we will have a miracle baby because if we did it once we could do it again. I am 1 in 2% of women that at an embryo implant on the outside of my ovary. Which was the best case to happen because I still have both my fallopian tubes and I still have both my ovaries. All they did was take part of my ovary where the pregnancy was which than allows that ovary to heal itself and eventually start to work like normal again. I want women to know that they are not alone. That the journey to become a mom is one of the most difficult journey's out there but at the end you get the most amazing reward! I share this story to help inspire people to start sharing more of their story because your story is what makes you "you!"
My heart goes out to both of you! My husband and I have gone through 3 loses one barley finding out and two other miscarriages that lasted till 7ish weeks. After 6 months or so we fell pregnant again and praise God I’m 26 weeks pregnant. There’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Having faith helps a lot! -God bless
My heart hurts for the 3 of you. I know your daughter doesn't understand what was going on, but she is a part of it also. I had 2 miscarriages. People think they are being supportive when they told me that at least it wasn't like I was showing yet or I wasn't feeling it move yet so I wouldn't miss the baby because it wasn't real yet. Trust me, you do still miss it. So, if someone says things like that to you two, don't listen and know that a miscarriage at 6 weeks or 6 months is stil painful. It will get easier. God bless.
I went through this at eight weeks... I had gone to my 6 week appointment alone, my husband at the time couldn’t make it. I saw the heartbeat, the baby looked great, everything measured fine. We announced the pregnancy to the family Thanksgiving weekend one a cute way... the next day I started spotting. We went to the ER. They checked, said maybe I was just really early, I said no, I know how far along I was because I had already seen a heartbeat. They did an external infrasound which didn’t pick up much anyways that early and I was sent home to follow up with my doctor. She confirmed I was losing the baby. I lost the baby naturally almost a week later. The hardest thing a mother can go through... as well as a father. You already feel love for your baby no matter how far along. I lost my the baby Dec 3, we got pregnant with our rainbow baby in late January following year. Thank you for sharing your story.
Lauren & Arie, You are by far two for the most incredible people. My heart goes out to you. Just know that millions love you and will support you both.
I went through the same thing about 10 years ago. I already had two healthy girls and realized that things happen for a reason. Saying that doesn’t make it any easier! You will have more kids and always have a spot in your heart for this one. ❤️ thanks for sharing!
I will admit I was angry when Arie did what he did but after watching this video I have to admit that they are a better couple and belong together. Seems like Lauren has come out of her shell and showing her personality more. They are very cute together so things worked out the way they were supposed to.
Shanna Champnoise I was very surprised when Arie didn’t pick Lauren. They seemed like such a natural fit. We all make mistakes in relationships. Unfortunately theirs was very public
I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a miscarriage in September and it was one of the toughest things to go through. You are so strong. I will be keeping you in my thoughts ❤️
I've been thru it. Overwhelming depression, and Arie be patient with her hormone fall. It'll take a while to recover. For both of you. I will pray. Hold on to God. You will see that baby in Heaven if you are saved.
I can't even imagine how tough this is especially with everything going on in the world right now I will be sending prayers but whatever happens the subscribers are supportive
I had two miscarriages before I went on to have twins. My husband was NOT understanding/supportive at all so it is so nice to see how you are supporting each other during this time. I know how hurt I was going through it, so I can only imagine how you both are feeling. Stay positive and continue to support one another and you'll find a way through it all.
I had this happen twice consecutively before our first child was born. It was heartbreaking. It is a very isolated pain, so I’m glad you’re talking about it. I feel like it’s a conversation that we need to normalize because it is just as bad as any other death. I’m praying for you! Biggest hugs!❤️
We suffered a miscarried 4 months before falling with our second daughter and I don't think anything in life actually ever prepares you for something like that. This was pre covid but at our local hospital the early pregnancy unit is on a women only ward so my husband wasn't able to come to any of the appointments with me. I felt guilty being the one who had to come out and tell him whenever we had bad news. Lots of love, self care and time and it will get easier. You will never forget your baby, but i found it did give me a whole new perspective on what around me was actually important. I've been open and honest to friends and family, and now my eldest is 5 I had told her (a dialled down kids version of course) what happened to the baby that never arrived when she asked. There is too much stigma and too many hushed conversations about something that affects women and their families on a day to day basis. Even if it doesn't feel right now, it it does get easier, and sending you all the love when you need it xxxx
Lauren and Arie, I went through the same thing! It is so difficult to comprehend and a rollercoaster of emotions. You are not alone and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! God bless you and your beautiful family. ❤🙏
I appreciate the raw, and vulnerable content. I went though the same thing. It’s definitely one of the hardest thing I went through, you guys are not alone ♥️
I went through this last year and it broke our heart. It’s was mine and my husbands first child. Nothing prepares you for the news when you are so hopeful and excited. Hopefully you guys have a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Much love
I went through the same thing . The waiting and Hoping is the worst part. Your not alone - I think times like this make you realise just how much this happens everyday. I feel your pain and know exactly how are feeling. So I’m sending my love. The positive thing out of this is that you WILL fall pregnant again and that baby that comes was meant to be here on this planet. A true rainbow baby. Xxx
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The fact that this happened just a few days ago- so in awe of you guys for choosing to share this at this time, and so grateful for your transparency!
Arie is such a stand up guy. He’s going to heal Lauren’s heart so fast through this. Thinking of you guys and all of the other parents who have gone through this!
I love how Arie is always searching for the positive for Lauren. “We know that the baby is in the right place so that’s good.” They will overcome all of life’s painful moments.
Oh my godess when your husband knows your pregnant before you. that's how you know how much he loves you
AND NOW THEY ARE BLESSED WITH TWINS!!! 😭❤️❤️
Jejjj, twins!!! 😃❤️❤️❤️🙏🍀🤗💕👍
They lost one baby so God said let me give them twins to make up for it
Proves that God never closes one door without opening another since you have twins now.
@@Cats_are_the_best_no_joke The other girl is named Senna.
@@mottom2657 that was 2 years ago obviously I would know now
Hey Arie and Lauren, my husband and I went through this November of last year. We had a very similar experience, measuring small at first, hcg rising, measuring small the second time but seeing a heartbeat, and our third ultrasound we found out we had a missed miscarriage. It was very hard for my husband especially not having anyone to relate to. He said this is the first video he has seen with a guy actually going through it with his wife and sharing his emotions. We are so sorry for your loss.
Our story has a happy ending, we are now pregnant with our rainbow baby, due on the exact day in November we lost our first. Everything happens for a reason, and we pray you get your rainbow too. God has a plan for us all. Thank you for sharing your story, it means a lot.
J Brown hi, the same thing happened to my husband and I in November- December. Your rainbow baby has given me a little more hope. Thank you for sharing your story.
Kelley i had one with my first pregnancy and now have 2 teenage boys. A high percentage of women experience at least one miscarriage. It doesnt mean it will happem again. Glad Lauren put this video out instead of hiding it.
My aunt had a miscarriage once
I’m so sorry for all of you
This literally just happened to us this November/December. First ultrasound was not definitive, measuring small, but hcg level was good, second ultrasound 10 days later we got the bad news, not viable not heart beat & hcg went down. Missed miscarriages are common people say & I'm glad more people are sharing & make so we don't feel alone bit definitely doesn't make it any easier. Hoping we have a rainbow baby in our near future. 🤞🌈🙏
Arie was such a helpful and optimistic light for Lauren through this. It was sweet to see him keep continuing to reassure her despite the outcome 😢
I remember when Shawn Johnson and Andrew East posted their miscarriage story a few years back and how emotional that was to watch too. I can’t imagine how your heart hurts or what Lauren will go through processing the hormones. I wanted to say thank you for sharing for others to know they aren’t alone. For telling us and letting us pray for you. 🤗
I absolutely cried at the end, was so nice of you to mention how things like this happen to other people. When it happens to yourself for the first time you feel so alone.
I've been through 2 missed miscarriages at 9 weeks and one at 5 weeks - thinking I was 11 weeks along. I also had a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks + 2. I've still not had my rainbow baby, however I find comfort in watching videos like this.
Not because other people have lost babies too but because it makes me feel less alone. I hope you both get your rainbow baby 🌈👶
I’ve had two miscarriages in five months. 3 months after the second loss I became pregnant with our double rainbow baby. He is 7 weeks tomorrow. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s never easy.
“Bribe her with food”-Arie to Alessi is me everyday making decisions. But, Lauren, Arie & Alessi I am so sorry for your guys loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all during this difficult time❤️🥺
Lauren is the best combination of hilarious, humble, mumbly, motherly, sweet, smiley, and of course beautiful. Preggo or not, ain't hard to girlcrush. Arie showing us that men are so much more than just their sperm. Grow in your grief. Big Love.
Lauren and Arie I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain that your felling right now. Love you guys ❤️❤️
This is tough. With a miscarriage, especially if there’s any uncertainty, the days are super long and emotional. We lost our first at 9 weeks. My second pregnancy, I had a missed miscarriage at 14 weeks. It was twins and it wasn’t complete so I needed a D&C which lengthened the recovery process physically and emotionally. After a miscarriage, no future pregnancies are ever the same. When I was pregnant with my daughter (my rainbow baby) I was super emotional and very scared until one day I was driving my car and I noticed two tiny clouds in a very open clear blue sky. The two tiny clouds were connected by a thin rainbow and it gave me hope. The most important thing is to keep hope alive in your heart and even though you’ll never forget the pain of your loss, time will heal your heartbreak. I’m now mom to a 6 year old girl and 3 year old boy and 32 weeks pregnant with baby #3. This is my 7th pregnancy and I think the low points we’ve been through have made the bright moments brighter. My experience reminds me to love fiercely and appreciate all I’ve been given.
Thank you for sharing. My pregnancy story was much like theirs. Waiting for my rainbows 🌈 trying to keep the hope and really feel it.
Your twins are now definitely a blessing! They will be the best of friends and they’ll love you unconditionally! I’m so happy for you two!
Lauren, I could tell your hurting and that Arie is too. Hang in there. I follow Shawn Johnson and she has a similar story to yours. You guys should connect. It took my husband and I more than 10 years to get pregnant. My heart goes out to you.
I’m so sorry Lauren and Arie. I can’t imagine the pain you’re feeling but you will get through it.
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious baby. I had a missed miscarriage in 2018 and it was a similar, drawn out, excruciating experience. Prayers for peace.
Watching this means so much more to me now. I lost my baby this week. I was suppose to be 10 w and was only measuring 5 w. Waited one week to see if baby would grow but ended up finding out the baby didn’t have a heartbeat anymore. I had a missed miscarriage. No matter how common it is… it doesn’t make it hurt any less. Praying for a rainbow baby in the future just like how you both got yours ❤️
This exactly happened to me, I was supposed to be 9 weeks but my baby measured only 6 weeks and 4 days , a week passed and my baby didn’t grow or had a heartbeat, I had to have an induced miscarriage. It was devastating and heartbreaking. I pray for all women that has gone through this , for healing and comfort and For God to give us all rainbow babies ❤️
Don't worry, we will ALL meet our lost babies in heaven, no matter when they past on, God takes care of ALL his children.
So true. I'm waiting to meet all 9 of mine.
Want it be a Wonderful Day Too! I can't wait to see my 4 little Angels.. Children are such a Blessing!
Very true
I was literally tearing up so many times throughout this video. I'm so sorry this happened. Thank you for sharing this with us. I know it'll help so many others to feel less alone if this has happened to them.
On a lighter note, Arie can detect when Lauren is pregnant which is pretty cool. ❤️ Sending love
My aunt and grandma have been through multiple miscarriages, we’re here for y’all.
Thank you for sharing, and being brave to let other know that they’re not alone. ❤️
The only “positive” thing for me, and for you too it seems, that we have supportive and caring husbands that can help us get through how emotional the loss process is
I love how Arie is so supportive and so positive. He’s such an amazing husband
So so so sorry guys, there’s no pain like losing a baby no matter how far along. You are not alone, and you are making others who are going through this feel less alone too ❤️
You’re teaching people a lot by sharing this. Thank you and from the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry for your loss❤️
I had a loss exactly like this a year ago. My hormones levels were always off, each ultrasound baby wasn’t measuring where it should, but each time there was progress, so wait and see. I was 10 weeks, baby measuring about 6, when I finally miscarries. It was definitely a roller coaster. You try to stay so hopeful. People think it’s comforting to tell you something was probably wrong with the baby, but that wasn’t comforting at all. My miscarriage came after my pregnancy with my daughter who is missing a chromosome and shouldn’t have lived. If the baby we lost had something wrong, then it means 2 chromosome issues in a row. I am 25 weeks now with a healthy baby. Repeat loss is less common, and while I know that doesn’t help now because you wanted that baby you had, not another one, hopefully you find some peace that you will likely have a healthy pregnancy next time.
This is wonderfully documented and portrayed, you guys are doing an amazing thing being so open about it. I have such respect for you both. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔
Gone thru this twice. And ended up having 3 kids. You'll get pregnant again, believe me. Sending hugs your way.
Lauren is such an angel. And Arie is such a sweet, precious nurturing soul. Wishing you two the very best always.
Arie you are so tender and sweet with Lauren, I love how you comfort her. You two are unbelievably strong, I wish for you hearts to heal soon, and the stress subsides! Very proud of both. Best wishes. xoxo❤
That’s such a hard thing to go through. I went through the same thing and the amazing thing was just the next month I became pregnant again with my daughter who’s now 1.5 yrs old! Sending you guys lots of love
Arie:you going to have a brother or a sister...
Months later...Or BOTH
love you guys
Hey Lauren. Trust me when I say I know what you’re going through & I know it’s really difficult for others to understand the pain. I’ve had a few myself-first one was exactly like yours which was a missed miscarriage (8 weeks). My second one was worse at 12 and the 3rd I got to 25 weeks. This is my first time ever admitting that publicly. I know it’s just comments in RUclips that will never been seen but still, I get extremely choked up just trying to find the courage to actually type this out right now so I guess that’s some amount of progress right? I know you probably want someone to say or do something that just makes it go away-even just for a moment but I think we both know that can’t happen so I will say that time; like anything does help make it just a little bit easier. You guys are absolutely right that it isn’t talked about enough so I am soooooo super proud of you for finding that courage on top of everything else. Arie, you should be incredibly proud of her-seriously. I send you both lots of ❤️ and many prayers. Everything does happen for a reason and just remember to trust in that fact. You have a beautiful baby girl who just turned 1 year old and I know you guys will continue to grow your amazing family someday! Sending blessings! ❤️ , Ash & kiddos
As a medical student, I know how common miscarriages are and getting through a successful pregnancy is physiologically VERY hard. Don’t worry Lauren and Arie and thank you for sharing your story. If more people spoke about miscarriages, coping with them would be easier. Thank you for this 💕
hey guys! this video really hit home for me. i had a miscarriage 2 years ago, and even tho i was no where near being ready to bring a baby into this world, i was devastated. i had names picked out, and a theme for the room. nobody wants to hear the word miscarriage & u are not alone! there’s good and bad days, but everything gets better with time. sending love and praying for ur little family 🤍
Arie I love how supportive of Lauren you are. It took alot of courage for you both to share this very vulnerable moment with us your video audience. Take care. Praying for better days ahead for your family.
So much respect for Arie I knew from the day you and Lauren went on your first date that you both made each other stronger 🧡Arie you are a amazing husband and father. And Lauren being a mommy just comes natural for you. Thank you for sharing your happily ever after with us. The next couple of years are going to fly by. I know we all here it, but my son turned 18 in October and my husband and I will celebrate our 20 year wedding anniversary, I was 19 and he was 25 ... God definitely has a plan for the two of you and always remember when ever things seem to be a struggle. Together you make it through ❤The love between Lauren and Arie is truly a blessing that was meant to be ❤
I didn’t like Arie and Lauren when they first ended up together..well just shows that The Bachelor gave them a bad edit. This couple is adorable and in love. I didn’t realize that Lauren was so sweet and beautiful. Now we know why he picked her.
@@geegeelast3206 the other girl becca broke up with her fiancé so chances are her and arie wouldn’t have lasted either
@@geegeelast3206 yeah arie and becca wouldn’t have lasted
No it has nothing to do with The Bachelor giviing them a bad edit. It's called perception. I personally love the fact he left Becca to follow his heart which was and is Lauren. I was pissed when he sent Lauren home
I didn't like them either but now that Becca's personality is more exposed, I definitely see what he saw in Lauren. She's adorable and makes for a much better partner.
Agree. At first I was really upset that Erie proposed a buckeye and then took a proposal back. More than a couple years down the line lol I just discovered their RUclips page and these two are absolutely adorable they are so in love and it has been a lot of fun watching their family grow and their relationship grow. 💜💜💜💜
Arie and Alessi waving at each other SO CUTE!
I am so sorry. I keep thinking to your recent interview with US Weekly where you were asked about baby number 2 and when that’s happening for you guys. That would have been difficult to talk about.
Thank you for sharing your story and all the wonderful videos of your family. You guys are the best parents ever
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I've lost a pregnancy and it was so hard to talk about at the time. People like you make it easier to be open about something that's so personal and hurtful but also so common. I definitely feel less alone
You’re going to have the most beautiful rainbow baby one day. Prayers for y’all 💜
What’s a rainbow 🌈 baby? A gay 👶🏻?
Now they just had twins boy and A girl wow God is good!!!!!
My husband and I went through a miscarriage in July last year 1 day after our daughter's 3rd birthday. It was an absolutely heartbreaking time for us and when we got pregnant a couple of months later we were terrified of being heartbroken again but we just had our beautiful baby boy on May 4th so just stay strong and know that good things will come in the future. Everything happens for a reason. Lots of love! We ate lots of ice cream and went to puppy stores when we were hurting and it definitely helped us get through the tough times! ❤
My husband and I tried for 2 years to get pregnant. We finally got a positive sign and we were beyond happy and so excited for the future, only to go to the first ultrasound and hear the same news as you received. It was heart breaking. Soul crushing. I can’t even explain it, but people who have gone through the same thing know that feeling. But exactly 2 months later, yet another positive pregnancy test. At the ultrasound Appointment we finally saw that tiny glimmer of light through all
The darkness. And now, we have a 2 year old little girl, AND our little baby boy. Good things are in your future. Don’t loose hope❤️
I’ve been through this, Arie. I understand this pain as a guy who was going to be a dad once. Hugs to you both. And thank you for being so transparent. It helps people to know that they aren’t alone.
I totally agree. I don't think I've seen such an up-front presentation of it... I'm so thankful they let us into their journey. I think people need to know this can happen. It's weird that it's been rarely talked about until recently.
My heart breaks for you. I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I wouldn’t wish the emotional pain of them on anyone. Prayers to you two that you get your rainbow baby soon. ❤️🌈
so sorry y'all are going through this. I too went through this exactly. I also tried to prank my husband and it ended up being a real positive. A week later I miscarried and its something that has always stayed with me, always. We did end up getting pregnant again about a month or month and a half later and now I have a beautiful 13 1/2 month old.
Please don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. this was a baby, YOUR baby and it mattered so you are allowed to 'think about it' and cry. However, Don't lose hope! Prayers for you three! xx
Omg congratulations gives me hope since I had a miscarriage last month!! I pray I get pregnant months after.
Jasmine Simmons so sorry to hear that but YES it is possible to get pregnant soon after. don't lose hope!! sending baby vibes your way!!!❤️
This is almost my exact same story. Had an emergency ultrasound when I started spotting at 6 weeks 2 days. Baby was measuring at 5w3d. Had another ultrasound 9 days later, and baby was measuring at 6w1d, but had a heartbeat. I should've been almost 8 weeks. That was May 27th. I miscarried on May 28th. It is heartbreaking. I will keep your family in my prayers. I start testing this week to figure out what is going wrong since I have lost three babies to miscarriage. I pray you don't have to endure the same.
Thank you for being so open about this. After trying for 9 months, my husband and I finally found ourselves pregnant, but soon lost the baby. A few months later we found ourselves losing our second baby. It's something that happens often, but isn't talked about. Love you guys sharing your pain and experience when I know it's not easy. ❤ praying we both have our rainbows soon. 🌈
I experienced a missed miscarriage-the baby stopped growing at 10 weeks 2 days. We were devastated. Fast forward and I have had two healthy babies. I have found I am even MORE grateful for the gift of my babies after experiencing the pain of miscarriage. There is always light after a storm-Praying for you to find peace until your rainbow comes 🤍
I’m so sorry your going through this. I had a missed miscarriage 2 years ago... when we went in for our first ultrasound I should have been 10 weeks and I was only measuring 6 and I knew right away I had lost the baby because we had been doing fertility treatments and I knew exactly when I got pregnant. One of the hardest things I have ever gone through. Best wishes to you all during this difficult time.
Sorry for your loss Marcie 💗
This is so heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine the pain that you two are going through. I’m so sorry that that you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you❤️ thank you for being so courageous and sharing this with the world.
I just found out today at 6+1 weeks that my pregnancy was unviable and it was the hardest more surreal experience I’ve ever had. I am still processing it and heartbroken but I immediately thought of you guys and how you had your happy ending and wanted to watch this video again after experiencing this because you guys really do give me hope ❤️
This is my 1st time ever commenting on a youtube video and I just want to say Thank You for sharing your story with us! There are so many women, families who go through the same, though no one really talks about it and women are not really prepared for this to happen. I'm sorry for your loss, I absolutely feel you! Love from Hungary!
Lauren and Arie, I am so sorry. 🥺 I almost cried watching this. I pray you two can heal from this, I’m not a parent but I hope you can find comfort through this platform knowing you are not alone and others can share their stories with you. There is hope and happiness ahead❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. We have four children however has experienced two stillbirths and three miscarriages. No matter what stage it isn’t easy.
I will keep you in prayers!
I had a miscarriage three months ago and it was my first pregnancy. I feel like it will change how i feel about my future pregnancies forever. Thank you for sharing this. I found a lot of comfort in it 💗
It feels weird “liking” this video, but I love you guys and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can’t begin to understand, but my thoughts and prayers are with you both ❤️
We just went through this last March. March 21, 2019 I lost my baby at 8w3d - they believe my baby stopped growing around 5-6 weeks. It was a missed miscarriage. But I got pregnant with my sweet rainbow baby girl at the end of May 2019 and she’s now 4 months. Sending you tons of love. I cried so much and it was so hard. I completely understand your pain. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing. Before I had my miscarriage I didn’t know anyone who had had one,..... no one talked about it, so my husband and I grieved and mourned all alone for months before I finally told someone and then the outpouring of support was HUGE!! I found out SO many of my relatives and friends had lost their babies too, but no one talked about it!!!! I think it is important to talk about it so no one feels alone, so thank you for sharing your story, and heartbreak
My soul felt punched when Lauren said “you can be blunt with me” 😢 my heart breaks for you, I’m so so sorry!
Hi Lauren and Arie it is very very normal after a woman has a baby that her hormone levels drop down to almost nothing. They even created a disorder around its called postpartum yet hardly any doctors ever address this!! If you get a hormone panel test including progesterone, cortisol estrogen There are natural creams no chemicals you can use once you know which levels are low. The uterus requires progesterone to be able to grow the fetus. It is so easy to bypass postpartum if the mama when she is ready to take a hormonal test to stay balanced she would not be experiencing uncontrolled mood swings or miscarriages if she just checked her hormone levels. It’s best if you have a naturopath guiding you. I am not a doctor but I have been a hands on healer for 36 years and have dealt with this with so many of my female clients in the years. Why oh why doctors do not discuss this with both parents I just do not understand why this is it’s really so simple. A woman becomes plump with lots of hormones while pregnant giving her that glow and that life force. Also it it a great thing if both partners do a colon and liver detox while trying to get pregnant since the hormones start being produced in the liver. I know you did not ask for this help but I felt so compelled to share this with both of you! Many blessings I so love you guys together it was the right move Arie!
Thank you for sharing. I went through this in January, and then got pregnant in February and am now 5 months along. Best of luck to you and Arie, sorry for your loss. 💚
U should start a channel when u get your baby and also congrats. If u have Instagram I would love to follow u.
Have a great day know your beautiful. Don't change for anyone.
Ps I'm a girl not a creep.
My heart absolutely breaks for the both of you. I’m so sorry. I love how you both are so real and how you are sharing your story. You guys are my favorite to watch on RUclips. I’m praying for you.
I had a miscarriage 2 years ago. I was also around 8 weeks along. I had just had an ultrasound and had seen the babies heart beating. Going through my miscarriage was hands down one of the hardest things I have ever been through. I hadn’t really told anyone besides my soon to be husband about the pregnancy until the miscarriage had already started. I quickly realized I couldn’t go through it alone, and I couldn’t be real with people unless I showed the heartbreak I was suffering. Don’t be afraid to feel your pain, and to share your heartache, and to lean where you find support...that’s how you will move through this. I also found a pregnancy app that had a support community for those going through miscarriage, it was a tremendous help to know I was not alone in the process. It takes time, but after awhile each day will slowly feel better. Hugs and love to you both 💗🌧🌈
Thanks for sharing this video! I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and two months later I got pregnant with my now 2 year old daughter. Take this month to mourn for your loss, it IS okay to feel that way you are feeling and to have your thoughts consumed by this, it WILL get better♥️
Such a hard time in the world- I can’t imagine going through this too 😔 I’m so sorry Arie and Lauren! Sending you two lots of healing, and hoping you find solice knowing your story is helping many other couples feel a little less alone. My friends and I loved your guys season- I will make sure we keep your little family in our thoughts and prayers ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss, but try and focus on the positive-you guys have a great marriage it seems and Alessi is healthy. I miscarried with my 4th child at 5 months, but I dwelled on my healthy kids. It would bother me when I saw small feet at first and thought what could have been, but thought back on the positive. Another one will come your way-I promise!!
I had a chemical pregnancy and a miscarriage before having our daughter. Even though she is here and healthy I still think about the “what if’s” all the time. I believe she is the baby that was meant to make it to us but it doesn’t make the hurt any less. I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. From the bottom of my heart I wish there was something I could do to help ease the pain 💕
I cried watching this because my husband and I went through the same exact thing 😭 after hearing that they couldn't hear a heartbeat after 8 weeks was so heartbreaking. I was a mess for months but my husband took it even harder. We already had a son but was looking forward to a daughter. Long story short, I got pregnant again within a year and now we have a daughter. That situation was very hard but it did make us stronger and so grateful for what we have now. God bless you both and your family
Wow, I cried reading your comment. Your story is exactly like my husband’s and mine. We also have a son who is a little over 2 now and we desperately wanted a daughter. We are pregnant again! It’s a girl! I still find myself getting emotional over the baby that could have been, but we wouldn’t have this special little girl coming into the world. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry for the loss and the heartbreak you have gone through. God bless you and your family.
I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I found out about all of them during my ultrasound appointments so I know the sick feeling of going in there hopeful only to have it slowly become clear something is wrong by the techs questions... thanks for sharing your vulnerable story. It’s such an emotional roller coaster. Praying for your healing from this and more beautiful babies in the future for your family ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss Lauren and Arie! I’ve been there and saying “don’t think about it” isn’t fair. The grief might hit you at different moments moving forward. I especially found guilt in my initial stress that the pregnancy was too soon after my first child and felt almost like I wished the baby away. I quickly learned that those feelings were not real, not helpful and not true. This is just part of your story and you can honour this baby through your love of Alessi and any future children. My advice: is let yourself feel those feelings, don’t try to forget or not think about it, and just appreciate the love that you can share with each other and Alessi. 💕
Such a hard thing to share :( i experienced a miscarriage before i had my son last year. it is such a horrible heartbreak but it gets better eventually and you are so strong Lauren.
Me and my husband just went through this the last 2 weeks and I get your pain 💕 I'm sorry y'all are going through this. No one should ever have to experience this.
Arie was totally right as a man I never think about these things ,-._.-.. Makes me respect Lauren and other women so much more for what they go through in trying to conceive._.-. A sincere thank you for documenting this as it will help so many people understand this topic and the associated emotions so much better._.. Lauren shows so much courage and as always is beautiful on so many levels._.-. I hope that it helps knowing that you have so many people behind you even down under here in Australia
Im not really understanding this video. Are they going to lose the baby ? or waiting?
@@joyce7369 Her body hasn't "expelled" the baby yet. She had a "missed miscarriage". Where she still has the hormones thinking she's pregnant (so no blood), but there's no heartbeat. I had one in 2014 at 10 weeks, baby measured 8 with no heartbeat. She will most likely start bleeding soon unfortunately.
Thank you so much for sharing , I feel I went through a similar experience . I battled infertility and went through Ivf. lost the baby at 18 weeks , had to deliver him naturally , had many complications during birth and afterwards . Took another 3 years before I became pregnant with my daughter. Had a very complicated pregnancy , pulmonary embolisms , very high risk pregnancy . Delivered at 37 weeks . When she turned one, I did a pregnancy test for fun and was extremely surprised it was positive , but I miscarried 4 days later . The next month I also had a positive pregnancy test . At the 7 week mark , went to get the ultrasound and baby was measuring 5 weeks . Then 2 weeks later baby was measuring 6 weeks ( I was supposed to
Be 9 weeks ) miscarried à couple days later . I felt very lonely . The loss still hurts but time heals . Thinking of you mama ❤️
Lauren and Arie my heart breaks for you both 😞 Keep you chin up and talk with God. Your next little bean will be SUCH a blessing! Love you guys!!!
Reading your comment A year later and they just had twins boy and girl so happy for them
So soo much love for you guys. I especially love how positive arie is throughout-reassuring lauren that it’s going to be okay. You can tell you guys work v well together. I believe you will see that little baby again on the other side. You are still it’s momma, lauren! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I’m so sorry for your loss, but thank you so much for sharing. I really learned a lot from your experience. You all are so uplifting even during the hard times. It’s so refreshing to see.
Thoughts & prayers are with you ! Cannot imagine how heartbreaking that must have been for you , but you’ll get through it , stay strong ❤️❤️❤️
My husband and I went through this exact same thing a few months ago. A lot of highs and lows throughout the whole process. It’s something no one will understand until they have experienced it. Lean on each other, take care of yourself and hug that sweet baby girl of yours.
Thanks for sharing your story. I’ve experienced this same timeline 2 times and an additional 2 early miscarriages and it is soul crushing. Holding my rainbow baby in my arms and so thrilled to hear of your recent pregnancy announcement it’s important to normalize miscarriage and to start conversations about it and the fear and anxiety that goes into subsequent pregnancies. Thank you for using your platform for that! ❣️
I know exactly how you feel and the roller coaster of emotions. And at this moment i still feel lost and cant believeI went through somethinglike this with our first baby.
On February 24 my husband Austin and I got the best news ever. Something we had been praying and hoping for. We found out we were pregnant. We were so happy and ecstatic as we had been trying since September 2019.
But with that came concern because I found out in the ER when I came in with abdominal pain. With a week a tests to make sure it was a healthy pregnancy. We kept getting great news with all my level going up normally. The only thing they could not see was that the baby was not where it needed to be.
So on March 3rd, 2020 we were sent back to the hospital to double check to make sure things were okay. Well an hour after being in the ER we were told we had an ectopic pregnancy! Something we never wanted to hear.
Our world shattered for a moment. This was going to be our first baby. How did this happen, why did this happen and can we keep on trying, ran through our minds. I never knew we would go through something like this with us being on 24 years old we never thought this would happen to us. I never knew we could feel loss like this. But at the same time this most incredible power (only a God thing) came over me and made me feel like everything was going to be okay and that one day we will have a miracle baby because if we did it once we could do it again.
I am 1 in 2% of women that at an embryo implant on the outside of my ovary. Which was the best case to happen because I still have both my fallopian tubes and I still have both my ovaries. All they did was take part of my ovary where the pregnancy was which than allows that ovary to heal itself and eventually start to work like normal again.
I want women to know that they are not alone. That the journey to become a mom is one of the most difficult journey's out there but at the end you get the most amazing reward! I share this story to help inspire people to start sharing more of their story because your story is what makes you "you!"
My heart goes out to both of you! My husband and I have gone through 3 loses one barley finding out and two other miscarriages that lasted till 7ish weeks. After 6 months or so we fell pregnant again and praise God I’m 26 weeks pregnant. There’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Having faith helps a lot!
-God bless
My heart hurts for the 3 of you. I know your daughter doesn't understand what was going on, but she is a part of it also. I had 2 miscarriages. People think they are being supportive when they told me that at least it wasn't like I was showing yet or I wasn't feeling it move yet so I wouldn't miss the baby because it wasn't real yet. Trust me, you do still miss it. So, if someone says things like that to you two, don't listen and know that a miscarriage at 6 weeks or 6 months is stil painful. It will get easier. God bless.
This was such a beautiful way to share this journey and connect with those going through the same. You’re not alone and so brave for sharing.
I went through this at eight weeks... I had gone to my 6 week appointment alone, my husband at the time couldn’t make it. I saw the heartbeat, the baby looked great, everything measured fine. We announced the pregnancy to the family Thanksgiving weekend one a cute way... the next day I started spotting. We went to the ER. They checked, said maybe I was just really early, I said no, I know how far along I was because I had already seen a heartbeat. They did an external infrasound which didn’t pick up much anyways that early and I was sent home to follow up with my doctor. She confirmed I was losing the baby. I lost the baby naturally almost a week later. The hardest thing a mother can go through... as well as a father. You already feel love for your baby no matter how far along. I lost my the baby Dec 3, we got pregnant with our rainbow baby in late January following year. Thank you for sharing your story.
Lauren & Arie, You are by far two for the most incredible people. My heart goes out to you. Just know that millions love you and will support you both.
I’m so sorry. Lauren, your having to go to those appointments alone is terrible. Praying for you both.
Lauren looks beautiful when she got the good news in her green outfit with her wavy hair I love that look!
Raquel Weinstein yes! So stunning!
I feel for you. I can see you’ve been through so much. I send my condolences for your loss.
I went through the same thing about 10 years ago. I already had two healthy girls and realized that things happen for a reason. Saying that doesn’t make it any easier! You will have more kids and always have a spot in your heart for this one. ❤️ thanks for sharing!
Amazing video. If I've said it once I've said it a million times: this is the best Bachelor couple of all time and it's not even close.
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Ccx congratulation God 1less your family darla Miller from Oklahoma
I will admit I was angry when Arie did what he did but after watching this video I have to admit that they are a better couple and belong together. Seems like Lauren has come out of her shell and showing her personality more. They are very cute together so things worked out the way they were supposed to.
Shanna Champnoise I was very surprised when Arie didn’t pick Lauren. They seemed like such a natural fit. We all make mistakes in relationships. Unfortunately theirs was very public
Is it just me or does Lauren look even more beautiful than ever?
I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a miscarriage in September and it was one of the toughest things to go through. You are so strong. I will be keeping you in my thoughts ❤️
I've been thru it. Overwhelming depression, and Arie be patient with her hormone fall. It'll take a while to recover. For both of you. I will pray. Hold on to God. You will see that baby in Heaven if you are saved.
I can't even imagine how tough this is especially with everything going on in the world right now I will be sending prayers but whatever happens the subscribers are supportive
I had two miscarriages before I went on to have twins. My husband was NOT understanding/supportive at all so it is so nice to see how you are supporting each other during this time. I know how hurt I was going through it, so I can only imagine how you both are feeling. Stay positive and continue to support one another and you'll find a way through it all.
I had this happen twice consecutively before our first child was born. It was heartbreaking. It is a very isolated pain, so I’m glad you’re talking about it. I feel like it’s a conversation that we need to normalize because it is just as bad as any other death. I’m praying for you! Biggest hugs!❤️
We suffered a miscarried 4 months before falling with our second daughter and I don't think anything in life actually ever prepares you for something like that. This was pre covid but at our local hospital the early pregnancy unit is on a women only ward so my husband wasn't able to come to any of the appointments with me. I felt guilty being the one who had to come out and tell him whenever we had bad news. Lots of love, self care and time and it will get easier. You will never forget your baby, but i found it did give me a whole new perspective on what around me was actually important. I've been open and honest to friends and family, and now my eldest is 5 I had told her (a dialled down kids version of course) what happened to the baby that never arrived when she asked. There is too much stigma and too many hushed conversations about something that affects women and their families on a day to day basis. Even if it doesn't feel right now, it it does get easier, and sending you all the love when you need it xxxx
Lauren and Arie, I went through the same thing! It is so difficult to comprehend and a rollercoaster of emotions. You are not alone and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! God bless you and your beautiful family. ❤🙏
I appreciate the raw, and vulnerable content. I went though the same thing. It’s definitely one of the hardest thing I went through, you guys are not alone ♥️
I went through this last year and it broke our heart. It’s was mine and my husbands first child. Nothing prepares you for the news when you are so hopeful and excited. Hopefully you guys have a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Much love
I went through the same thing . The waiting and Hoping is the worst part. Your not alone - I think times like this make you realise just how much this happens everyday. I feel your pain and know exactly how are feeling. So I’m sending my love. The positive thing out of this is that you WILL fall pregnant again and that baby that comes was meant to be here on this planet. A true rainbow baby. Xxx