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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • This is Gautam buddha motivational story from life of buddha in which buddha tells king Ajatshatru that why some times bad things happen to good people. In this inspirational story you will come to know that how you can stop others to take disadvantage of your goodness.
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  • @TooLooze
    @TooLooze 3 года назад +2718

    People took advantage of me for 70 years. Because I let them. When I started taking care of myself, I began to lose "friends". It is a difficult transition, but even as an old man, there is time for me to enjoy my growth. I have never been happier and my life has become more simple and at one with myself and the universe. Namste friends....

    • @sayantikaghosh4240
      @sayantikaghosh4240 3 года назад +61

      I can relate with you

    • @stockmarketnewsUpdate
      @stockmarketnewsUpdate 3 года назад +28

      You mean , taking care of himself is better than others !! Become selfish ?
      I never used rude behaviour to anyone nor become angry . I prayed for everyone except myself. Yes people , subordinate staff also humiliated they never understood , I tried to not hurt anyone . Results it's disturb my inner peace also outer disciplines .
      I can't change myself better to loose anything.

    • @TooLooze
      @TooLooze 3 года назад +92

      @@stockmarketnewsUpdate Friend, what matters is that YOU know how you act and how you feel. It is not selfish to take care of yourself, it is the path to growth.
      The one thing that we know about the future is that everything changes. Love yourself and you will have more love for others. How you act is who you are. Your words are those of compassion, and kindness is never wasted. In the end, you will have few regrets in life, which is peace and contentment. I respect you.

    • @samuelwong1596
      @samuelwong1596 3 года назад +37

      I never considered anyone a friend after the age of 12. Its only ex classmates or colleagues, or neighbours. Ever since I have not catagorised/classify anyone as a friend.

    • @chaikien2081
      @chaikien2081 3 года назад +16

      Yes i also started lose friend because my school also a problem teacher cannot control student and then family poor i cannot migrate other school for better study i suffer until now until quit school because got bully teacher cannot care his student only scold not punish until i quit and when in lesson teacher tell us do some classwork stuff with them run a away from me other studentmate who in same class with me u know why i quit because his problem cannot take good study got bully all time i must stop them for bully me it i dont revenge still same cannot change the school is worst cannot control student stop bully😢 i need justice and love and fair important

  • @Ellie-rp8bh
    @Ellie-rp8bh 3 года назад +463

    In other words be kind but set boundaries and stand up for yourself!

    • @sanmilis
      @sanmilis 2 года назад +5

      Always !

    • @therecluse1361
      @therecluse1361 2 года назад +5

      So true

    • @sindhumani4416
      @sindhumani4416 2 года назад +3

      Correct

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +2

      Exactly!

    • @king-ghost1027
      @king-ghost1027 2 года назад +2

      In other words ,,,, "be kind to others but don't let anyone take advantage of your kindness because the evil side will come out",, everyone has two sides

  • @jaankuus3063
    @jaankuus3063 3 года назад +1290

    Bad things happen to everyone, only good people suffer injustice.

    • @haohao-f3h
      @haohao-f3h 2 года назад +87

      No matter how many bad people and adversity, l still choose to be a good person! I will know how to protect myself and not let others hurt myself! I want to be a good person til the end of my life, l hope to successfully reach heaven!

    • @vskahlah7497
      @vskahlah7497 2 года назад +15

      Today when a single woman took her upper hands and chopped down 5 of my 30 years old trees to make way for her car porch i asked God why my trees? God tests nature more than he tests humans. Dharma or karma?

    • @haohao-f3h
      @haohao-f3h 2 года назад +10

      @@vskahlah7497 Religion teaches the truth of being a human being, but some people do not learn it 'cos it's difficult to be a good person and it's easy to be a bad person!

    • @haohao-f3h
      @haohao-f3h 2 года назад +11

      @@vskahlah7497 l know that it is very difficult to be a good person, because of being bullied by the wicked! In this world for example give me at most 100 years to live, just treat me as a good person and suffer for 100 years! If l have done evil, will l go to a place where my soul is tormented after l leave the world? Is that place will live longer than the world? Or is the pain worse than the human world?So l have to choose whether it is better to be a good person or bad person! If that place is more terrifying than the human world and suffers more pain than the human world, l would rather choose to be a good person, for my future to be more secure, this is what l think!

    • @vskahlah7497
      @vskahlah7497 2 года назад +3

      HOW TRUE YOU ARE. .

  • @sunidhis7646
    @sunidhis7646 3 года назад +229

    It clearly says that Buddhism is all about mind and inner peace 🌼

    • @rayaramaga
      @rayaramaga 2 года назад +1

      So is Hinduism

    • @shewhathaile1011
      @shewhathaile1011 Год назад +3

      Buddhism doesn’t answer life after death. Christianity does. Real eternal life. Jesus is the way

    • @maybmyat8601
      @maybmyat8601 Год назад +11

      Buddhism has always answers for all question. As a Theravada Buddhism, I can answer there's answers for life after death. I can't explain cuse it's too many details to explain but I'm not good at English. If you want to know, you can learn and examine as much as yourself. Buddha always said Don't believe blindly and learn, examine and explore by yourself. Thanks 🙏🏼 from Myanmar, Sorry for my English

    • @TheDeepening718
      @TheDeepening718 Год назад

      The fool is not the one who gets bad fruit from planting bad seeds, the fool is the one who thinks he can save himself by gardening.

  • @Artofkarma
    @Artofkarma 3 года назад +1995

    When you’re happy,
    Don’t forget dharma.
    When you’re sad,
    Don’t forget karma.

  • @haohao-f3h
    @haohao-f3h 2 года назад +69

    In this era, people who can transform bad moods into good ones,maintain a beautiful hearts and minds, achieve a state of mind balance, are people with great wisdom and great blessing!

  • @lamjay5189
    @lamjay5189 3 года назад +765

    Don’t bully others but also don’t let others bully you. Live life with Wisdom n Compassion🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I named my son with these two values in mind.

    • @anigerisor6952
      @anigerisor6952 3 года назад +8

      Wonderful! Eu amei este vídeo! Pela primeira vez pude entender como devo me comportar diante as pessoas. Eu quero ter paz e viver em paz mas o meu comportamento amigável só me trouxe problemas. Agora sei que devo manter limites para evitar que pessoas mal intencionadas tentem obter vantagens indevidas devida a minha educação e bondade. Thanks! Thanks!

    • @lindarosen53
      @lindarosen53 3 года назад +12

      If you don't want to be bullied don't go car shopping 😄

    • @ishtasalvat4768
      @ishtasalvat4768 3 года назад +15

      ᴛʜᴇɴ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪꜱ ᴜʀ ꜱᴏɴ'ꜱ ɴᴀᴍᴇ ?😃ᴄᴀɴ ɪ ᴋɴᴏᴡ . ɪᴍ ᴄᴜʀɪᴏᴜꜱ ʙᴏᴜᴛ ɪᴛ

    • @glennlopez6772
      @glennlopez6772 3 года назад +8

      If you observe the comments, you will find most being compliant with your message. But judge the smart comments!
      The example of a king seeking guidance, when he has had the best training beginning with his childhood, is perhaps to instill humility.
      Today's problems concern marginalising some people and preventing their progress , creating submissiveness.
      Many of those who have the means to do by their high contacts this will strangely be quoting scripture and and clamber for leadership in a community doing "good" works.
      Also in spite of knowing the cases of bullying will take pleasure watching the misery.
      Those who have compassion cannot fight such organised history sheeters!

    • @MM-ql5ji
      @MM-ql5ji 3 года назад +9

      What's your sons name?

  • @lesabeaty7415
    @lesabeaty7415 Год назад +37

    This story has shown me the error of my ways. I now see that giving in to people all the time doesn't make them happy; it makes them manipulative. I am not being kind by allowing others to trample over me. I am enabling them to act on the dark side of their nature. I wish I had learned this years ago, but am grateful to see the wisdom of this at age 58. Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @MeenAk.
    @MeenAk. 3 года назад +182

    Stop being too good to people.. just control your life to live a successful life.. People always take advantage of you so stop worrying and move forward. Love yourself never let anyone to mistreat you or take advantage out of you..

    • @Bharathi0009
      @Bharathi0009 Год назад

      @Mohan Sai Don't worry brother😇

    • @buddhaexhumed9922
      @buddhaexhumed9922 4 месяца назад

      I have been to some of the villages in Bihar where the Buddha taught the four noble truths. One of them is Bhatgawan mispronounounced as Bandagawan in the Mahaparinirvana story. Very educative. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @eddineelharran5730
    @eddineelharran5730 2 года назад +15

    Bad things happen to everyone, all of us we’re in the same circle. Good people suffer a lot from complaining to themselves because they don’t know how to say no to others, thinking they’ll be rejected, and that brings them always down. You have to be out of your comfort zone, you gotta fight for your right, you must say stop to everything that annoys you, be you, love yourself, and people will love you as well, believe me, this is my story with all people, I used to be kind to everyone and give a lot without receiving anything, since I started travelling by myself, I meet soo much people and I learned a lot, now I’m so proud of myself, i have cool and good friends, and most of people respect me cuz of the way I treat them too, I left toxic things and say no to any poisonous energy, and I treat people how I wanted to be treated, Believe in yourself and love yourself first❤️❤️🙏🏽

  • @lakshanarughn
    @lakshanarughn 2 года назад +13

    I was only 5 when my Mom narrated the story of the snake and the monk to me. There is a great moral behind it which I never forgot. Hearing you recount this story brought back all those memories. Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @tacoandcatto7248
    @tacoandcatto7248 2 года назад +147

    The fact that RUclips recommended this, and yes it has answered one of my oldest questions about certain things in life. As an INFJ, I really like learning and gaining new knowledge and wisdom.. I really admire this

    • @ellymaz2187
      @ellymaz2187 2 года назад +1

      Sorry, what is INFJ

    • @Taha_A
      @Taha_A 2 года назад +3

      @@ellymaz2187 the world’s rarest personality type.

    • @lonewolf8644
      @lonewolf8644 2 года назад +2

      I am INFP

    • @moulika5302
      @moulika5302 2 года назад +2

      Iam INFP

    • @lonewolf8644
      @lonewolf8644 2 года назад +1

      @@moulika5302 don't suffered in life like me. Helping others and taken for granted. Lol

  • @blackheartgaming6121
    @blackheartgaming6121 3 года назад +186

    Finally a video that answers one of my oldest questions thank you I can’t wait to become a monk myself you all be blessed

    • @kishorelaishram3784
      @kishorelaishram3784 3 года назад +8

      Become one. Good luck. They can see ghost and spirits. They have supernatural powers

    • @blackheartgaming6121
      @blackheartgaming6121 3 года назад +8

      @@kishorelaishram3784 Buddhist monks can do a whole lot that normal people can’t do and it is amazing

    • @awesomedpgallery996
      @awesomedpgallery996 3 года назад +1

      👍

    • @santanthonysecondary1178
      @santanthonysecondary1178 3 года назад +1

      I liked your comment

    • @angryguy4643
      @angryguy4643 2 года назад +6

      @@kishorelaishram3784 not every monks have supernatural power. In today world some monk misleading people but there are still intelligent & good monks. Help others much as posible even its an animal. Be kind. Good luck with your life. Hope we will find peace someday

  • @mackenshaw8169
    @mackenshaw8169 Год назад +8

    This is a great story which I think explains why the mindful compassion taught by Buddhism is healthier than the inherently unconditional love of Christianity.

  • @trishnadas3539
    @trishnadas3539 3 года назад +180

    This question has been hitting my mind for a very long time. I am very happy to find the answer and hope I implement it wisely. In this violent era, I think Principles of Buddhism should spread around the world to cater peace in the minds of people struggling hard.

    • @smokeypotter5876
      @smokeypotter5876 2 года назад +8

      I agree Trisha Das, Buddhism is still new to me,but being lied to ,and even groping from a priest,I knew I would be searching for answers else where, Buddhism has opened my eyes ,I have studied other religions as well,most with admiration, people I think are mostly good on their intentions,they need to be reminded they are good,thats what upsets me,it's very easy to be angry or mad, it's our human nature,being a good person is easy too,it just seems like some people need more practice ✌️👈

    • @TooLooze
      @TooLooze 2 года назад +6

      There are many paths to enlightenment. This demonstrates that Buddhism is a quantum acceptance philosophy. I am not Buddhist but i am buddhist.

    • @riddhibarua7037
      @riddhibarua7037 2 года назад

      @@smokeypotter5876 Wait!? Groped by what priest?

  • @arun1693
    @arun1693 3 года назад +73

    Everyone took advantage of my goodness,my patients especially cheated me,never returned my money which was due,no gratitude, no discipline
    But few things in this video i have learnt
    Thank u

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 2 года назад +5

      When people treat me like that I remember that Jesus healed 10 lepers in one day & only one of them came back to thank him.
      If people can treat the son of God so indifferently then I shouldn't expect any better.

    • @kixinmaddick7424
      @kixinmaddick7424 Год назад

      @@carpathianken maybe that story is to teach you the way of man…not for you to
      ACCEPT it. The son of god got nailed to a cross. You aren’t going to do things to be nailed to a cross right? So why do things to be taken advantage of? Learn from. Don’t repeat.

    • @sunkijayloppaa3037
      @sunkijayloppaa3037 Год назад

      @@carpathianken wtf 😭 how can they didn't say thankyou omg

  • @whitepeony2703
    @whitepeony2703 3 года назад +167

    This is really accurate. Buddha is the greatest person in the world.

    • @whitepeony2703
      @whitepeony2703 3 года назад +1

      @@Lightshining1122 what?

    • @whitepeony2703
      @whitepeony2703 3 года назад +1

      @@Lightshining1122 what actually did you mean? I'm not good at english

    • @RJ-ch9zf
      @RJ-ch9zf 3 года назад +6

      @@Lightshining1122 He is indeed, I learned it on the hardest of the times. He preached nothing but good.
      Who else have taught to learn to calm our minds, rest all just taught to blindly believe in some magical mystical entities.
      On the other hand, Buddha preached kindness, mindfulness and lots of other good philosophical stuff

    • @soonhengng1919
      @soonhengng1919 3 года назад +3

      How great buddha is when buddha can't even protect his worshippers from covid 19.

    • @whitepeony2703
      @whitepeony2703 3 года назад +15

      @@soonhengng1919 Ha ha ha..... You know what he sympathizes with people like you. Idiot if you don't know his teachings just shut up and go away mind your own business. But you know what, people who actually believe in Buddha and respect him, they are still alive... being a buddhist for name isn't working. he never said he will save people. He just show the truth of this world. People like u, who are born without brain will never be able to understand. He said this world is sad. People who do good things will save by their own karma. Not by god or any stupid stuffs. Even scientists believe that only religion is going with science is buddhists. Most believable religion. If you don't know buddhism just don't say anything. Not buddhism, everything... if you never learn that subject before just don't comment it will make u look like a fool.

  • @TreeGreenOak
    @TreeGreenOak 3 года назад +38

    Thank you my brother I have grown soft over the years of mediation and practice and I didn't realize that sometimes we need to get angry and put people in their place. I realize now that if people take advantage of your good nature you need to put them in the right place. Thank you brother for these words of wisdom.

    • @rathodbhavna4413
      @rathodbhavna4413 2 года назад +1

      Same people take advantage of my good nature but now I don't give them attention and love my self more I wasted 4 years of my life but now I am happy with my parents and love myself

  • @kruthianu6464
    @kruthianu6464 3 года назад +106

    I saw this vedio from recomendation, but this is perfect for my present situation. I am so good at others, even they are cruel at me. But now onwards i will show my dark side if they continue to do this.

    • @lathikalathika8092
      @lathikalathika8092 3 года назад +13

      Same to you sis , you said exactly my present situation too

    • @user-gt8kg4wn5k
      @user-gt8kg4wn5k 3 года назад +15

      Me too I always be nice to my family and take much care for them but they always hate me I don't know even my sis shout at me when I just speak to her

    • @tusharingle332
      @tusharingle332 3 года назад +4

      @@lathikalathika8092 right

    • @albklbk4664
      @albklbk4664 3 года назад +2

      Me ro same

    • @bombtubejamz739
      @bombtubejamz739 3 года назад +3

      much love your ways positive vibes

  • @dogs.ofyoutube
    @dogs.ofyoutube 2 года назад +18

    Thank you for this video. I was always in doubt because I didn't know what to do if someone treats me badly, I thought if I react Karma would punish me. But now I do understand that if I am treated badly, I do have to react, not as revenge, but as self-defense. From now on I will still never take revenge, but always protect myself. Thanks, I've learned a very useful lesson.

  • @sparky6996
    @sparky6996 3 года назад +86

    This appeared just now. In an extremely bad position in my life. I waont talk of it. But gave me some kind of peace as I search to rebuild myself after having all of me destroyed and my whole life destroyed. Thank you

    • @tisonly143
      @tisonly143 3 года назад +3

      sending prayers, I know what ever it is that has destroyed the stone you walked on can be rebuilt through love and kindness, and your determination.. don't give up... positive vibes to you.....

    • @SungSam-qw8tn
      @SungSam-qw8tn 3 года назад

      Toi.khong tinnai nua

    • @SungSam-qw8tn
      @SungSam-qw8tn 3 года назад

      No go my

    • @JacK-qn4zh
      @JacK-qn4zh 3 года назад +1

      Keep reading all. You will be greater than you were!

    • @SungSam-qw8tn
      @SungSam-qw8tn 3 года назад

      Goodbey

  • @Music4Life2
    @Music4Life2 Год назад +12

    This story has a great and deep meaning to learn...be a king from outside and be a monk which is full of calmness from inside....thanks brother

  • @thokchommadonadevi8074
    @thokchommadonadevi8074 3 года назад +26

    To keep ourself peace and to keep ourself protect from outer world we should follow this Buddha's great story

  • @wecandobettertheworldiswat9022
    @wecandobettertheworldiswat9022 2 года назад +127

    At 61 years old, I’ve never lost a friend in my entire life.
    Because I’ve never had a friend, I walk my path alone, and I am one of the most peaceful persons I know.
    🙏🏻

    • @shrivenkita6328
      @shrivenkita6328 2 года назад +5

      Very true....

    • @ShamayaDevi
      @ShamayaDevi 2 года назад +3

      Amen.

    • @Nicole-dj3jf
      @Nicole-dj3jf 2 года назад +7

      Kinda lonely you must have family or you wouldn't be here

    • @jamesmack3314
      @jamesmack3314 2 года назад +7

      Never had a friend?! Huh,nothing to be proud of and I hope you’re not entirely serious in the end we are all our own best friends but for me friendship was essential in place of family

    • @joolzhillman4385
      @joolzhillman4385 2 года назад +2

      Very true, it's taken me 55yrs to learn this.

  • @Eeveeswhimsicalwonders
    @Eeveeswhimsicalwonders 3 года назад +49

    “Strive to act with compassion and empathy towards all creatures in accordance to nature within reason”

  • @piscesmoon0909
    @piscesmoon0909 2 года назад +17

    What I'm learning currently is to say NO. And it's such a very difficult thing ever to do. I came to realize that I've been the cruelest person to myself that I always put others first before me. I didn't take after myself well. At the end of the day, I am the only best friend for myself.

    • @eddineelharran5730
      @eddineelharran5730 2 года назад

      Bad things happen to everyone, all of us we’re in the same circle. Good people suffer a lot from complaining to themselves because they don’t know how to say no to others, thinking they’ll be rejected, and that brings them always down. You have to be out of your comfort zone, you gotta fight for your right, you must say stop to everything that annoys you, be you, love yourself, and people will love you as well, believe me, this is my story with all people, I used to be kind to everyone and give a lot without receiving anything, since I started travelling by myself, I meet soo much people and I learned a lot, now I’m so proud of myself, i have cool and good friends, and most of people respect me cuz of the way I treat them too, I left toxic things and say no to any poisonous energy, and I treat people how I wanted to be treated, Believe in yourself and love yourself first❤️❤️🙏🏽

    • @piscesmoon0909
      @piscesmoon0909 2 года назад

      @@eddineelharran5730 much appreciated. I wish I could learn this lesson sooner.

  • @AK-bm2qt
    @AK-bm2qt 3 года назад +120

    Wow, amazing story and message. It is difficult to keep calm composure when someone else does you wrong. But the main thing is not to fall into evilness and try to do vengeful stuff or turn bitter.....forgive /forget and moving on is one of hardest life lesson in my opinion

    • @micheledulude8548
      @micheledulude8548 3 года назад

      Yp

    • @micheledulude8548
      @micheledulude8548 3 года назад +11

      You should forgive to be at peace with yourself but do not forget for fear that you put yourself in a same situation .You need to learn the lesson .You do not need to make friend with your offender .

    • @donnapierangeli6216
      @donnapierangeli6216 2 года назад +7

      I agree. Take care of yourself and love yourself and give yourself some time.

  • @prajwalgaikwad6048
    @prajwalgaikwad6048 2 года назад +14

    Such a simple story but these 8 minutes has strength to change someone's life.

  • @danmosby7980
    @danmosby7980 3 года назад +40

    Thank you for this story, it provides much needed balance and clarity.

  • @angelwings5136
    @angelwings5136 2 года назад +12

    So true I have being going through all this... I am so blessed to be here on this Channel... Today I am totally a different person... Always alone and in peace.... Thank you so much for sharing... Appreciate... With Love And Gratitude... Blessings Love And Light 🌌🌎🕊️🙏❤️😇🕉️....

  • @enlightpath6487
    @enlightpath6487 2 года назад +19

    Peace comes From Within '
    Don't seek it out 🌺

  • @cutecell2798
    @cutecell2798 Год назад +6

    "Don't be way too much kind, it gives an advantage for others to hurt you, act tough a bit, you will be even more kind"

  • @furqansayeed9118
    @furqansayeed9118 2 года назад +4

    Praise be to god who sent a man of wisdom (Buddha) and many more righteous ones like him to guide us and let we all be blessed amen

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 2 года назад +4

    Why bad things happen to good people. This is an understatement. Thank you for these Buddhist quotes and wisdom.

  • @anoopps6207
    @anoopps6207 3 года назад +33

    The truth behind every calm and good peoples struggle life. 🙂

  • @nimanamgyalbhutia8942
    @nimanamgyalbhutia8942 3 года назад +11

    I really need this, was going through this situation, a long time back i used to be in combat sports, so i know about self defence as well as attacking, but in my real life i was not able to differentiate between self defence n aggression,so most of the time i was exploited because of my innocent goodness👍🌳

  • @plsstopusingmyname
    @plsstopusingmyname 2 года назад +21

    Balance is virtual in every aspect of our life.

  • @Licenciadopedro
    @Licenciadopedro Год назад +2

    At last I have been explained what has happened to me. Some time ago I started to put in practice a defense technique which is similar to your story of the snake, I call this defense technique "the slap" and it consist: if you bully me, you will get from me a strong hurting speech which is like a slap which will calm you and stop messing with me; and if you continue the harassment, then I unleash the tiger within me though my eyes and voice. This has helped me a lot to get rid of the bullies who have been men, women, younger and older. Namaste.

    • @apryoutube
      @apryoutube Год назад +1

      Yes i use the same exact technique. It's amazing how you are soo far away from me and in different community and environment, yet we share same concept🥹🙏

  • @khundrakpammanshi915
    @khundrakpammanshi915 3 года назад +42

    Wow it is a good advice for all people to become a good person
    Thank you for spreading good advice for peace and doing ur work in good way without descriminate other peoples

  • @kaymannsakorn370
    @kaymannsakorn370 2 года назад +2

    Because good people are silent , Refuses to respond...afraid of bad people...!!

  • @dreamyartist2311
    @dreamyartist2311 2 года назад +6

    There was a time when I was used and tortured in a bad way by my own old classmates (thank goodness I am in a girls school till now). Then at the age of 12, I came to find out that I was too much good. So till today, I am trying to be an extreme bold but soft from inside. Just because of this story. Namaste.!

  • @James-bc2oh
    @James-bc2oh Год назад +3

    Bad things happen to good people ,being a good kind person others take advantage of your generosity your kindness your sympathy for others,sad but true🙏

  • @transformyourlyfe9085
    @transformyourlyfe9085 3 года назад +15

    It's a mind blowing video with beautiful advice. No doubt so many times due to my soft heart I gave space to others n they took advantage.

  • @angelbeing2240
    @angelbeing2240 2 года назад +5

    True and amazing story. If you become angry by others behaviour than become like ducks, Who indulge in a sudden reaction or fight with whoever bothers them and than float away in peace like nothing happened. Never let anybody invade your peace of being always respond and be in your power.
    After that don't run that experience in your mind ever. Be at peace ☮️

  • @tonyagonzales3719
    @tonyagonzales3719 3 года назад +18

    Many blessings to you
    Thanks for this story of encouragement filled with lessons I have been all 3 Characters at different stages in my life

  • @shyna.
    @shyna. 2 года назад +6

    This is such a lesson for everyone☺ people bully me bcz of my soft nature and patience but now i act accordingly ☺now am happy thank you

  • @rawindrareddy5578
    @rawindrareddy5578 3 года назад +21

    Thank You for sharing this story 🙏
    Blessed to find your channel

  • @timothyrush7647
    @timothyrush7647 2 года назад +4

    Live like a monk on the inside and a king on the out. I like that. Thank you for the video.

  • @billytanner1693
    @billytanner1693 3 года назад +5

    Sadhu!Sadhu!Sadhu!🧡🧡🧡
    Be kind in nature but be strong when requires.

  • @Abhichetry007
    @Abhichetry007 2 года назад +3

    JAI SHREE BUDDHA 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️...

  • @johneligio113
    @johneligio113 3 года назад +12

    I completely identify with this video and you opened my eyes to my misunderstanding. Thank you for this video!

  • @sanjuktabarman5249
    @sanjuktabarman5249 3 года назад

    Pronam Nio Thakur 🙏🙏🌼🌼Sobaike Vlo Rekho Thakur 🙏🙏🌼🌼

  • @brendalopez3377
    @brendalopez3377 3 года назад +18

    Beautiful words of wisdom! Thank you 🙏🏻! A beautiful listen to share! ❤️

  • @troytomohenjodaro
    @troytomohenjodaro 2 года назад +1

    Amazing. Buddha is ocean of spirituality

  • @sofiagoudaropoulou2392
    @sofiagoudaropoulou2392 3 года назад +6

    Inspiring story and a story showing the truth of the world!!be disciplined inside and out side to bring the balance and peace in the world!!behave according to the situation!!👍👍

  • @waruni2639
    @waruni2639 2 года назад +3

    IAM proud to be a Buddha follower 🙏

  • @maneeshanand618
    @maneeshanand618 3 года назад +9

    Bhaaai you are very intelligent in explaining the whole story and you did it and kept on motivating me. Thank you thank you thank you so much for this awesome peaceful story of Buddha 😊😊😊😊🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍

  • @emardeen8534
    @emardeen8534 2 года назад +1

    I am willing to give infinitive likes, comments & thumbs up to this beautiful example which shown by lord Buddha...... 🙏... 🙏....... 🙏

  • @npsuresh449
    @npsuresh449 2 года назад +3

    Simply put, your life is in your hands. 🙏Happiness is in you. Love all n serve all. God is love. Love is God.🙏

  • @marcusbines7965
    @marcusbines7965 3 года назад +1

    I have found myself people who live to hurt Ave people so now I will keep my self to my spiritual life and understand my feelings and emotions and walk my spiritual road and see way it takes me thanks for your help

  • @Karadiofficial
    @Karadiofficial 3 года назад +13

    Peace ☮️ .

  • @saikumarroyyala7985
    @saikumarroyyala7985 2 года назад +1

    Gautama Buddha, best personality in the universe!
    Maybe Buddha's teachings are tough to be incorporate, but truth is always bitter.

  • @mehdiveisi6338
    @mehdiveisi6338 3 года назад +13

    Thank you for teaching me this at the age of 20 and many more.

  • @sumatit6335
    @sumatit6335 2 года назад +2

    🌹🌹🌹 .
    Lord God 👑👑👑 Shri Shakya Maha Muni Buddha 🔔🔔🔔 is always Great 💎💎💎 !
    We are getting Full Kind of Love 💖💖💖 from His Holy Teachings ! 🙏🙏🙏 💐💐💐

  • @ag-asmr3173
    @ag-asmr3173 2 года назад +4

    People always took advantage of my kindness.😊

  • @vickybarnett6434
    @vickybarnett6434 Год назад +1

    I love this, something I will try to put in to practice, this I will listen to again and again.....

  • @leandrobaluyotjr5181
    @leandrobaluyotjr5181 2 года назад +27

    Very good video ! The underlying principle is in harmony with the Bible's Old Testament such as "There is time for peace and a time for war ".We can be kind to our fellow men but we should not allow being taken advantage of by people .Thank you very much for affirming what i' ve been pondering on for a long time! More success to your personal & professional endeavirs sir .

  • @catherinebulusan1036
    @catherinebulusan1036 2 года назад +2

    Friendship come and go..
    I never seek them but they find their way into mine, so do i to them..
    I grew mentally and spirituality.. And as time passes, one by one, we have gone separate ways but i meet new people, few become a new friends, and i grow again,
    There is so many hello's and good byes and very few came back and stay being a friend, and thats what i call soulmate regardless of their gender..
    I learned to be selfish at a young age, but my world grew wider as i experience many things. Life is cruel but its not bad entirely..
    Just like how i was, i will cry, but not for a long time.. I will take care of myself and learned so i will not cry over for the same reasons.. And slowly, colors come back to me slowly because thats how i take care of myself..
    It may sounds selfish if i have to leave someone i used to know, but, this would be better, after all, i, my life, is how i design to be and so do them..
    I don't know if I'll become the hero or a villain of their life or some extra side character of their story and so do am i..
    But i know this..
    I don't want to be in a same miserable state as i was because of a person who broke my heart so much it can kill me into nothingness.
    But i want for the both of us to be treated equal, and if cannot... Time will tell what will become of us.. But i refused to be bound by somebody else other than me.. Because too much love can blind a person's rationality
    Maybe, i still can't move on and it reminds me of these..
    I was a fool for being kind and generous before.. But it hit me the hard way that i have to learn like this.

  • @persiafranklin1969
    @persiafranklin1969 3 года назад +6

    Bad things happen to good people because in life everything it's a learning experience, but fear not evil will never prevail.

    • @soslothful
      @soslothful 2 года назад

      Cancer. Starvation. Abuse. Murder. These are learning experiences?

  • @rathneshkaru9154
    @rathneshkaru9154 2 года назад +2

    Hatred could overcome through love only your right this is the Buddha's teachings which no other Religious leader had preached.

  • @carlosp.3330
    @carlosp.3330 3 года назад +25

    I love hearing all spiritual story's.

  • @damembaye9811
    @damembaye9811 4 месяца назад

    Kindest is a selfish act. It fills your heart with warmth and joy. What a wonderful feeling. ❤

  • @greenwave2450
    @greenwave2450 2 года назад +5

    Be a good actor
    Maintain loving kindness
    Do what needs to be done
    Protect your domain, family and kingdom

  • @ourfamily9397
    @ourfamily9397 2 года назад +1

    To chant Buddha is to plant "good roots and good fortune", and its merits and virtues are inconceivable.
    There are ten specific benefits of reciting "Amitabha Buddha" regularly, as follows:
    1. Automatically realize every thought of your own heart, every cell of your body, and make yourself in a state of peace and happiness.
    2. A single Buddha’s name can make us let go of all karmic conditions, recite single-mindedness, recite emptiness, and eliminate distracting thoughts.
    3. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" allows us to mention "contemplation", to connect with the highest wisdom of life in the universe; to communicate with the instinct of the self, and to bring out the potential of human beings.
    Fourth, reciting "Amitabha Buddha" allows us to communicate with the Buddha, that is, the mind is a Buddha, that is, the body is a Buddha; not confused, not delusional, not stupid; away from mistakes and inversions.
    5. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" can enable us to recite the goodness of our nature and achieve perfection; the pure and good nature of others can also be brought out.
    6. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" can eliminate evil and cut off bad thoughts, and it is also effective for others; it can stop others' evil thoughts and evil actions, and eliminate demons and evils.
    7. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" can eliminate omissions and suffering; comprehensive thinking and empathy; all six sense organs, self and others.
    Eight, reciting "Amitabha" can recite transcendence, recite light; recite immeasurable and boundless enlightenment and sobriety.
    9. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" can recall that the self-nature embraces all things in the universe, illuminates the entire space of the dharma world, and all the dharmas.
    10. Reciting "Amitabha Buddha" can have full precepts, concentration, and wisdom; awakening, righteousness, and purity; all actions and aspirations are fulfilled, and merit is achieved. .

  • @RahuPal_goldlion123
    @RahuPal_goldlion123 3 года назад +6

    Truly Inspiring. ❤️ Thankyou very very very much for Sharing this Knowledge. 🙏🏻

  • @buddhaexhumed9922
    @buddhaexhumed9922 4 месяца назад

    I have been to some of the villages in Bihar where the Buddha taught the four noble truths. One of them is Bhatgawan mispronounounced as Bandagawan in the Mahaparinirvana story. Very educative. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @glowlyworld6190
    @glowlyworld6190 2 года назад +4

    Just because you are
    suffering don't loose Hope you are learning how to deal tomorrow
    Be stong

  • @Lion_King_Date_Swain
    @Lion_King_Date_Swain Год назад

    Great advice by The Buddha! It clearly says that buddhism is all about mind and inner peace and inner happiness. Be kind and smart in good-bad times.

  • @rajanbharathan718
    @rajanbharathan718 3 года назад +3

    This is life changing example thank u so much it will help me a lot.

  • @luchingpurenagent7712
    @luchingpurenagent7712 2 года назад +1

    This story has great influence on me. Many people are taking undue advantage of me for my calmness and silent nature.

  • @irenemakoni1151
    @irenemakoni1151 3 года назад +8

    Great story. I'm so grateful

  • @mariamtalon7771
    @mariamtalon7771 2 года назад +1

    I passed a very bad Alergies yesterday I should travel since a year I plan to travel.. But I got denied.. I was very sad.. But this is out of my control.. I'm listening your message I feel good.. I would like to thank you.. I really need to hear your message.. Thank you and God bless you..

  • @shraddhaaasne3915
    @shraddhaaasne3915 2 года назад +6

    The Story was very good man! I just loved it and this is such a informative and inspiring story.Thank you bringing this story.

  • @gothama7522
    @gothama7522 2 года назад +1

    Buddhism is the only path that tally with modern day science

  • @lahirumadushanka5756
    @lahirumadushanka5756 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for this motivation. May the triple gems bless you, my dear friend.

  • @jeandescamps1542
    @jeandescamps1542 2 года назад +1

    Precious teaching of Buddhism. I really appreciate it. It's really happening to me.Taking advantage of the goodness of someone.Thank you for this wonderful video...

  • @hxpnotic3527
    @hxpnotic3527 2 года назад +6

    live your life how you want without needing to change for other people.

  • @niduplhamo693
    @niduplhamo693 2 года назад +1

    Really inspirational 👏🙌🙏 thank you so much Buddha 💓

  • @ishtasalvat4768
    @ishtasalvat4768 3 года назад +4

    SIR IM SO GLAD TO SEE THIS , HONESTLY THIS IS MY 1ST VID FROM UR CHANNEL , I M SO MUCH INSPIRED FROM THIS AND I WILL TRY MY BEST TO IMPLEMENT ALL THESE THINGS IN MY LIFE . PEACE BE WITH U SIR . 😃🥺

  • @shashiramdaursingh8866
    @shashiramdaursingh8866 2 года назад +1

    Very true. Love it and apply it. Thank you

  • @charleshurstreinvention3959
    @charleshurstreinvention3959 2 года назад +7

    Bad things as I tell subscribers--Known as bad luck--or overcoming adversity. The truth is that the universe dishes out the same bad luck to everyone. Even those born with a trust fund. The difference between someone who never seems to have anything good happen and the one who everything seems to always work out is reaction to bad luck and prior planning. Do you have a plan if your spouse were to die or if you lost everything in the stock market? Another example--I had a plan in advance when I bought oil stocks already halfway to the bottom--then they got crushed again. I already had another fund that was equally crushed but looked promising, much more so in the future recovery. I not only survived but profited a year later. Because my technique is simple--I picture worst case scenario and then plan for it. In advance. You can't control this ruthless universe but you can control what you will do if it throws that meteor at you. And that is the difference between those who crumble and those who succeed no matter what happens. Hope that helps someone out there--Charles

  • @thestrangestudy
    @thestrangestudy Год назад +1

    Your voice is very sweet. You thought us great lesson that's why i am very thankful to you from the bottom of my heart. Keep it up and spread the light of your wisdom

  • @s.i.1348
    @s.i.1348 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing these wise words!

  • @nalinil.v8125
    @nalinil.v8125 2 года назад +2

    Yes...truely said....so, don't give a chance to others like a snake...atleast we should maintain as it is in your own way...that's correct...😊🐰moral of story is 100% correct in a day to-day life...nice story.....

  • @kubalontozinde2770
    @kubalontozinde2770 2 года назад +3

    Wow!!! this is greatest wisdom indeed 🙏🙏💕

  • @vishnaik1624
    @vishnaik1624 2 года назад +1

    I was aboard member of the Hindu temple in my community. Unfortunately, persons with money and/or power, exercised what they felt as their prerogative, that is when I quit. I have given up on religion. I feel that God and I are one and the same. I am now a philosopher and very happy with who I am.

  • @tomteh1
    @tomteh1 3 года назад +17

    For God so love the world that he gave his only son, Jesus, whoever believes in him shall not die but have eternal life.

  • @harinadh7690
    @harinadh7690 2 года назад +1

    Behave likes what you are .. with your own limits. Such a good story. Thank you for sharing this with us. 🤝

  • @kashyapparmar789
    @kashyapparmar789 3 года назад +4

    God bless U lot 😇 Thanks a lot for giving True Inspiration 🙏💛❤️✨✨

  • @motivatorswarran
    @motivatorswarran Год назад +1

    Hey Brother 🙏
    I always watch your videos but I never get bored of watching all your videos.
    Thank you for creating such wonderful videos for us.
    We have learned a lot from your channel.
    Keep creating and also teach us more to be excellent 💯👍👏 .
    Thanks ❤🌹🙏