JESSE TRIGGERS WACK DATING COACH. DIVORCED TWICE PLUS FEMINISM ACTIVIST

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @johnmoore2056
    @johnmoore2056 3 месяца назад +272

    2 failed marriages, and a kid outside of marriage, and talks about, ... 'doing the work'. Huh?? "My 2 year old son is not a weak man." Huh? ×2 "Love is emotion." Male love: provides, protects, leads , and provides a framework of integrity for a marriage and family to thrive within.

    • @Valuvsn
      @Valuvsn 3 месяца назад +10

      You're not have you been on any dating app in like the last 3 years. The women are the most entitled privileged despicable demographic of women that have ever walked the planet. Every time I get on a dating app I feel like I'm sifting through trash. It's pathetic. Americans won't be a thing in 50 years because there will be no American babies that's how bad it is

    • @Jiidwag
      @Jiidwag 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Valuvsn AmeriKKKan babies are RACIST. If it's half WHITE and half whatever race, the BIRACIAL child is groomed by society to HATE/ SELF-RACIST of their non-white heritage and people. Who wants to marry a half-WHITE RACIST, there is only so many white men in USA, too many delusional RACIST AmeriKKKan women of all races and mix-race competing for the same WHITE male doosh bags

    • @totalbullion5882
      @totalbullion5882 3 месяца назад +8

      @@Jiidwag You've never been to the USA and it's painfully obvious.

    • @totalbullion5882
      @totalbullion5882 3 месяца назад +2

      @@Valuvsn 100% But guys are also the problem. On one hand you've got a bunch of simps putting the average chic on a pedestal and on the other a bunch of clowns sending these women messages like "DTF" and sht like that. This makes it impossible for a genuine connection to happen.

    • @cuztm1500
      @cuztm1500 3 месяца назад +8

      If ya had a kid outta wedlock you don’t believe in marriage. The delusion is real.

  • @geezerscreen7936
    @geezerscreen7936 3 месяца назад +660

    Let me get this straight...twice divorced and a child with a rando, and now absentee father, wants to tell us how to live??? Am I being punk'd here?

    • @AlexLA007
      @AlexLA007 3 месяца назад +86

      😂 Here is another one for you. My wife's father is twice divorced, has 5 kids from 4 different women, two of the kids from different mothers were born the same month. He is now married for a 3rd time and his wife is younger than my wife/his daughter. Well, take a wild guess what his job is. He is a Family and Marriage Therapist who teaches relationships to people while never having a successful relationship in his life. You can't make this stuff up 😂😂😂

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 3 месяца назад +40

      She’s just a scammer trying to make a living

    • @BennyMcGibbon
      @BennyMcGibbon 3 месяца назад +19

      ​@@AlexLA007Like therapists and psychologists , they all need therapy themselves.

    • @DennisKonopka-nx5yo
      @DennisKonopka-nx5yo 3 месяца назад +2

      Who better to tell you how to live, he’s been through it all man. Mr Kutchner isn’t going to pop out around the corner. Funny reference though

    • @NFT_TX
      @NFT_TX 3 месяца назад +17

      A M A Z I N G .. 😂

  • @bigdipper2480
    @bigdipper2480 3 месяца назад +17

    Listening to this unmarried single mom giving "dating" advice is like listening to a bankrupt person giving financial advice, or a carpenter with no fingers talking about skill-saw safety. Run gentlemen!!!

  •  3 месяца назад +14

    2x divorces, 1x illegitimate son, 1x feminsist ideology. shouldn't be advising on dating and relationships.

    • @edzamper5803
      @edzamper5803 2 месяца назад

      Maybe she advices on how to fail it,

  • @Zebra66
    @Zebra66 3 месяца назад +14

    I've been married 20 years. My parents 50+ years. Every kid in my son's class lives with both parents. They should ask someone from my community instead.
    BTW my advice is: Forget diversity. Marry someone from the same background, same religion etc.
    Find someone with similar goals in life. Don't expect anyone to change.
    Get married with the intention of having children. Then put them before yourself. Stop bleating about your happiness to therapists. It's pathetic.
    Most importantly... stop trying to live like a single person after you're married. No more going out drinking with your single friends. Move to the suburbs, live in a house and live like a grown-up.
    If you can't leave your single life behind then your marriage will fail. There's nothing for you in a bar at 1am.

  • @anatolyloegering547
    @anatolyloegering547 3 месяца назад +9

    At the end of the day these women have no idea what they are actually doing.

  • @Ariel-sv9de
    @Ariel-sv9de 3 месяца назад +9

    39 year old twiced divorced single mother telling you how to marry makes sense if you hate life

  • @pablogimenez8369
    @pablogimenez8369 3 месяца назад +7

    What could possibly go wrong marrying her?

  • @Schimelpfenig-zp7ou
    @Schimelpfenig-zp7ou 3 месяца назад +10

    She is going to ruin her kid. Without a father she is just going to unleash another messed up kid into society. I pray for her son.

  • @Hope_Boat
    @Hope_Boat 3 месяца назад +18

    Single mom twice divorced. A specialist in failure gives advice. The lack of self awareness is staggering.

    • @russianbot1779
      @russianbot1779 3 месяца назад

      She said "no" to 5 other men who proposed. Think about that for a second. Imagine dating a women for years the getting up the nerve to purpose because you think everything is going well and she says no.... 😬 I believe this lady is just a sloot who thinks shes not.

  • @pmoney4986
    @pmoney4986 3 месяца назад +11

    Makes Sense why she’s single

  • @TruthIsLikePoetry
    @TruthIsLikePoetry 3 месяца назад +9

    She said “different but equal” which is nonsensical and then proceeds to say “we are the same” negating her comment about how we’re different but confirming her belief that we are equal. Tyranny of words at play.

  • @joeg6347
    @joeg6347 2 месяца назад +9

    Honey your longest relationship is 3 years and your telling us men how we are. Please

  • @50scap3
    @50scap3 3 месяца назад +7

    a divorced woman will advise other women on how to become divorced, she doesn’t know anything else! How can she possibly advise others on successful marriages when she’s never been in one?

  • @shawnj1843
    @shawnj1843 3 месяца назад +6

    She is 39 she must think 🤔 she is getting younger. No 1 is good enough for her. Men will choose a younger woman without all that baggage. Beware of this type of a counselor

  • @lopezmj7
    @lopezmj7 3 месяца назад +5

    I really enjoy Jesse’s analysis and interviewing process. He speaks the truth and gets right to business, where these individuals cannot confront the truth without being offended.

  • @IamCordelia-qn2dj
    @IamCordelia-qn2dj 3 месяца назад +6

    Her tone alone tells me all I need to know about this lady.

    • @Goth1que
      @Goth1que 3 месяца назад

      Yea, like:
      - "I’m successful and independent, you hear me peasants? Now shut up and sit down, I’ll tell you how feminine I am.”

  • @mufuliramark
    @mufuliramark 3 месяца назад +7

    So she’s been married twice but says marriages have to be worked on. She clearly did no work in either of her marriages, then got pumped and impregnated by a ‘nobody’, but has the audacity to tell us what to do.
    And if she wants us to believe that she’s the quiet type when off social media….well, good luck with that one. !!

    • @TommyGunz327
      @TommyGunz327 3 месяца назад

      She is clueless and the last person anyone should be taking advice from.

  • @R.H.1965
    @R.H.1965 3 месяца назад +8

    1. Never take weight loss advice from someone who is overweight.
    2. Never take financial advice from someone who is broke.
    3. Never take marriage advice from someone who is divorced.
    This lady seems sweet, but she never mentioned Christ being the center of marriage and the home. I'm 59 yrs old and I have been married for 36 years, my husband doesn't complete me and I don't complete him. The Lord is the one who completes us. The husband or the wife will never satisfy your every need...only the Lord can do that...Marriage takes three. God, husband and wife. Read scripture and take advice from successful marriages who have worked through the ups and downs and where Christ is the head of the home first...God bless.
    Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; and in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. ❤

    • @jdaniels1313
      @jdaniels1313 3 месяца назад

      Great advice!! Couldn't agree more!! "The husband or the wife will never satisfy your every need...only the Lord can do that...Marriage takes three. God, husband and wife."

    • @ExpectantHarvest
      @ExpectantHarvest 3 месяца назад

      This is excellent and would seem to be such common sense but the world loves to pay 10k to anyone who will give them advice

  • @suzannewieler5384
    @suzannewieler5384 3 месяца назад +6

    If I want marriage advice I go to someone that has a successful marriage. Not someone that can’t stay in a marriage or any relationship. 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @danbarry9323
    @danbarry9323 3 месяца назад +6

    I saw this whole interview. Jlp just had to let her talk to make herself look like an absolute lunatic.

  • @parapelegicBUD
    @parapelegicBUD 2 месяца назад +4

    Hahaha married and divorced twice and she's giving dating advice ... Amazing 😂

  • @Visual_Writer
    @Visual_Writer 2 месяца назад +4

    When you turn your cognitive dissonance into a career.

  • @JohnnyBeeDawg
    @JohnnyBeeDawg 3 месяца назад +5

    She is wrong about the nature of a man and of a woman.

  • @ericaglez8784
    @ericaglez8784 3 месяца назад +4

    Cat lady in the making...feel sorry for the cats... she hasn't learned a damn thing! 😂

  • @t-nutz3370
    @t-nutz3370 3 месяца назад +7

    She found her prince charming twice an had a kid with the side dude. Walking red flag.

  • @nevadaminer5977
    @nevadaminer5977 3 месяца назад +6

    Leftover women.

  • @MacawAviculture
    @MacawAviculture 4 месяца назад +9

    Stay far away from this one.

  • @robbiewatson3525
    @robbiewatson3525 3 месяца назад +4

    I pray women can rediscover their value. It’s very sad to see them want to compete and be like men “.

  • @americanpatriot8402
    @americanpatriot8402 3 месяца назад +3

    Lol… she is clueless and has no business being a dating coach. She is a warning sign on what not to date. Makes poor decisions.

  • @carbonfiberfan
    @carbonfiberfan 3 месяца назад +5

    She talks a lot and says nothing.

    • @jessegerard5752
      @jessegerard5752 3 месяца назад +1

      Women love word salads. It's like a health food

    • @Si-Re444
      @Si-Re444 3 месяца назад

      Glorifying herself with delusional nonsense.

  • @rodneygalbraith4793
    @rodneygalbraith4793 3 месяца назад +6

    OK. a lot of words very little to say.

  • @yayayaokoksure
    @yayayaokoksure 2 месяца назад +4

    Talks for 15min straight, "iM aN inTroVert."

  • @Snippersly
    @Snippersly 2 месяца назад +4

    A dating coach who cant keep a marriage together and got run through and is a single mom... she is a hypocrite of the highest degree. So lost.

  • @BurdBl
    @BurdBl 2 месяца назад +5

    The most delusional “expert” ever.
    I feel sorry for anyone who is being coached by this woman.
    She needs more therapy from male therapist and needs to take notes from Kevin Samuels. Kevin is and will always be the real deal.

  • @brianfletcher819
    @brianfletcher819 2 месяца назад +4

    Twice divorced and proposed to 7 times and is still a single mother because the man she claims to want is not who she is attracted to. No man should ever be with a woman who is not willing to submit him. This is a lack of trust, respect and ultimately attraction

  • @jmc6940
    @jmc6940 2 месяца назад +4

    Single moms make absolutely horrible fathers.

  • @danzrodriguez2091
    @danzrodriguez2091 3 месяца назад +6

    I couldn't make it past 5 minutes.

  • @andrewstadterman329
    @andrewstadterman329 3 месяца назад +7

    If you want her results then listen to her advice 😏

    • @IamCordelia-qn2dj
      @IamCordelia-qn2dj 3 месяца назад

      She's telling a man what it is to be a man. Then she gets emotional and shuts down the conversation.

  • @EJ-ye7wg
    @EJ-ye7wg 2 месяца назад +4

    She has too much “Hand Action”

  • @Dziaji
    @Dziaji 4 месяца назад +25

    She can’t find a husband? Shocker! She’s so pretty and capable, she should have ZERO problem finding a husband. She needs to find a good man and submit to him.

    • @izzycrybaby1164
      @izzycrybaby1164 3 месяца назад +9

      Except she's almost 40, and no one is checking for 40-year-old women. Men that age are established, why would they now want the added risk of making a less than 100% baby. Realistically, no one does. But that's just another problem that women created for themselves. Back in the day, two people couldn't young and stay together forever. But young women now are largely promiscuous doo-doo that ain't building with the man they want all the benefits from. It's really a joke.

    • @gabrielfranco1899
      @gabrielfranco1899 3 месяца назад +6

      Not happening she has too much pride

    • @poliziagrammaticale9430
      @poliziagrammaticale9430 3 месяца назад +3

      Maybe 20 years ago she was pretty.

    • @bigglilwayne7050
      @bigglilwayne7050 3 месяца назад +1

      Why don't women change lightbulbs when they go out??? Because they'd rather sit in the dark and bitch....

    • @Alleycat6922
      @Alleycat6922 3 месяца назад +2

      She's your typical modern woman. Strong-minded, prideful, difficult & wants to be the leader. She's educated, but doesn't understand her way doesn't work. 39 with a 2 year old & 7 other guys have purpose to her. She said in the beginning about her first & second marriage that she didn't "Do the work" 🤦, & she still hasn't done the work. 🤦
      Even when he asked her if she was difficult to live with, she laughed 🤣 after she said she wasn't. She knows she's full of 💩.

  • @cannonfodder9853
    @cannonfodder9853 2 месяца назад +6

    Damn she's annoying

  • @AutoMotoMechanic
    @AutoMotoMechanic 2 месяца назад +5

    She said she "introvert" ya bs... total liar.. she wants all the attention.

  • @Brynden-Rivers
    @Brynden-Rivers 3 месяца назад +4

    This woman would be an absolute headache in a relationship. Im sure she has good qualities also but what trumps all of her potential good qualities is the "shes an absolute headache."

  • @nealwagner3729
    @nealwagner3729 3 месяца назад +5

    A two year old isn’t a man what is she talking about

  • @teresaflorida
    @teresaflorida 3 месяца назад +4

    Within the first 3 minutes I was cringing at how she says "AAKKCESS" good grief she's a nutcase

  • @sierralima712
    @sierralima712 2 месяца назад +4

    The most dangerous human is an emotional man. This is why men have to teach boys to keep their emotions in check.

  • @TheJohmac
    @TheJohmac 3 месяца назад +5

    I can see now why people tear her apart in the comments of her videos.

  • @markhall6306
    @markhall6306 2 месяца назад +3

    She has been ran through by Chad and Tyrone and has passed up many men

    • @peacelove6632
      @peacelove6632 2 месяца назад +2

      yup the only reason she is single is because she is too gassed up in herself and is insanely selfish.

  • @aldow8761
    @aldow8761 2 месяца назад +3

    😂😂😂😂 delusion at its finest.

  • @carlreys180
    @carlreys180 2 месяца назад +2

    She's creating another simp.

  • @RasaanJ
    @RasaanJ 3 месяца назад +3

    Let'em speak ling enough and they will always tell on themselves.... this woman is insufferable and destined to be single 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @VladMewingMaster
    @VladMewingMaster 3 месяца назад +3

    This was funny 😂 She get mad every single tine her views are challenge

    • @bitfo
      @bitfo 3 месяца назад

      Exactly. She’s a narcissist, or should I state, a typical woman?

  • @RAtMW88
    @RAtMW88 3 месяца назад +4

    She doesn't seem crazy at all.

  • @jakevincent3057
    @jakevincent3057 2 месяца назад +5

    She sounds difficult.

  • @albertoencinas3352
    @albertoencinas3352 2 месяца назад +3

    she is a ball of arguments, hence why she is single and will stay like that...she's like your friend that just won't get out of swimming in the Florida swamps because "there are no alligators in here."

  • @danielguerrero5474
    @danielguerrero5474 3 месяца назад +3

    She's lost , another cirus

  • @tonybooth1759
    @tonybooth1759 2 месяца назад +2

    2 single parents arguing about how to be in a relationship 😂😂😂 couldn't make this up haha

  • @DavidRothe-tc4gh
    @DavidRothe-tc4gh 2 месяца назад +4

    9:19 Right about here she accidentally let it be known why she is a failure.

  • @Francisco-Danconia
    @Francisco-Danconia 2 месяца назад +3

    A proper marriage is absolutely a partnership. Both people lead with their strengths. You both build each other up

  • @jojojordan5557
    @jojojordan5557 3 месяца назад +182

    Imagine homeless men giving you financial and homeownership advice. That's what this lady is doing!!!

    • @russianbot1779
      @russianbot1779 3 месяца назад +6

      Exactly! Can she not see her own hypocrisy!? That lady is delulu and going to trun her son into a flaming 🌈

    • @ThePhenom72586
      @ThePhenom72586 3 месяца назад +6

      I was just thinking this exact comment!!!! EXCELLENT!

    • @russellwatkins4261
      @russellwatkins4261 3 месяца назад +6

      Exactly

    • @Lilpokeball
      @Lilpokeball 3 месяца назад +5

      Not a good analogy. A homeless man can tell you what not to do and what got him there. There are lawyers, teachers and all kinds of homeless people. Alot of them have addictions and mental illnesses. Someone who lost his home and maybe there business or livelihood good give you invaluable advice

    • @kintaro817oegaming9
      @kintaro817oegaming9 3 месяца назад +3

      And society telling her “you go girl” instead of telling her to be accountable if her own life lol

  • @jjl8906
    @jjl8906 3 месяца назад +57

    Single mother, twice divorced giving relationship advice. What could possibly go wrong 👌

    • @diamonddave16
      @diamonddave16 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂

    • @oldmansportsog2514
      @oldmansportsog2514 3 месяца назад +2

      Her ego is why every man left her but don't worry enough simp men out there to scoop her up, one man's trash is another man's treasure

    • @thelibtards1682
      @thelibtards1682 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @ticoworld7195
    @ticoworld7195 3 месяца назад +14

    Two failed marriages, single mom with two kids giving relationship advice 😂 you can't make this shit up.

    • @Insert.Name.Here.
      @Insert.Name.Here. 3 месяца назад +3

      Don't forget the 9+ failed marriage proposals 😅😂

    • @ticoworld7195
      @ticoworld7195 3 месяца назад

      @@Insert.Name.Here. 😆

  • @redgegraves8749
    @redgegraves8749 3 месяца назад +39

    She's saying how she wants the world to be, he's saying how it is.

    • @brandonmartin8270
      @brandonmartin8270 3 месяца назад +1

      Yup, classic. 😂 She’s 39! Holy fuck it’s been over for quite some time my dear.

    • @robertdakic6503
      @robertdakic6503 3 месяца назад +1

      Its Thanos

    • @Markmatthewlukenjohn
      @Markmatthewlukenjohn 3 месяца назад

      @@redgegraves8749 neither of those statements are true.

  • @yhwhismywh
    @yhwhismywh 3 месяца назад +10

    Pretty deluded. Minimum 9 failed relationships relationship coach. The arrogance of this woman.

  • @Tubeman777
    @Tubeman777 3 месяца назад +22

    Jezebel spirit in the West

  • @EricJGonzalez
    @EricJGonzalez 2 месяца назад +23

    What a disaster. Avoid her and her advice at all cost.
    Feel so bad for that little boy. 😞

  • @mvseven9438
    @mvseven9438 3 месяца назад +12

    She clearly misleads! She must be avoided.

  • @jesterarts734
    @jesterarts734 3 месяца назад +9

    She’s creating and raising the next problem. She’s trying to Buck against nature…and teach others to do so as well.

  • @bigbuck6219
    @bigbuck6219 2 месяца назад +7

    I've been married for 40 years and this lady is clueless! She's a relationship coach? No wonder our society so screwed up! 😳

  • @shamstar1811
    @shamstar1811 3 месяца назад +22

    She talks a lot to hide her insecurities.😂😂😂

  • @kokonanana1
    @kokonanana1 3 месяца назад +11

    Her son will be raised as a girl! No male influence to teach him!!!

  • @LghTsKnJames
    @LghTsKnJames 3 месяца назад +10

    SHE is the PROBLEM

  • @SleepyUncleSam
    @SleepyUncleSam 3 месяца назад +10

    This lady is the definition of a hypocrite

  • @processfitness
    @processfitness 3 месяца назад +23

    I couldn't even stand her as a friend.

  • @SiahNide7
    @SiahNide7 3 месяца назад +10

    She cant even get a successful relationship herself😂

  • @Kyle-o5u
    @Kyle-o5u 3 месяца назад +10

    Nobody got time for a single mom

  • @phirstaide
    @phirstaide 3 месяца назад +14

    No accountability at all. She's not difficult to get along with. The men just weren't strong enough.

  • @gspadeo87
    @gspadeo87 3 месяца назад +10

    Never trust a person whose laugh is as fake as hers, like damn you can't even laugh without lying wtf lol

  • @marcrose3403
    @marcrose3403 3 месяца назад +14

    😂😂😂 relationship expert n coach can’t keep a relationship

  • @mariozamora5419
    @mariozamora5419 3 месяца назад +30

    I feel horrible for her son...

  • @mcdthedev
    @mcdthedev 3 месяца назад +9

    hahahaha dating coach with 2 divorces 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mrboombastic8369
      @mrboombastic8369 3 месяца назад +2

      For me the worst is to be proposed 7 times... that means she was at least in 9 relationships that she didn't like.

  • @erickscribani4025
    @erickscribani4025 3 месяца назад +16

    Feel bad for the son already

  • @sheikh1906
    @sheikh1906 3 месяца назад +9

    HOLY MOSES.
    Her son is TWO YEARS OLD, and he's an emotional man?????
    She knows absolutely nothing.

  • @rockierok3899
    @rockierok3899 3 месяца назад +10

    Who is this woman? And who in their right mind is actually paying for her 'advice'??

    • @Unduplicatable
      @Unduplicatable 2 месяца назад

      Cities are full of delusional people and, they're also full of lonely single men who will never have a steady marriage so they've become sharks paying for any bite they can possibly get. Society isn't collapsing... it has already collapsed. We cannot recover from this based on current birthrates.

  • @bigdaddybtc2935
    @bigdaddybtc2935 3 месяца назад +14

    Single mom dating coach lmao

  • @adambekier4054
    @adambekier4054 2 месяца назад +7

    A twice divorced woman, who got pregnant by a guy who didn't stick around.... WHO is she coaching 😅😅

  • @erickfcc
    @erickfcc 3 месяца назад +15

    This woman should not be speaking on relationships at all, yikes

  • @kevinkennedy8451
    @kevinkennedy8451 3 месяца назад +18

    walking red flag

  • @josephbrown9685
    @josephbrown9685 3 месяца назад +9

    It’s amazing how many delusional, self-proclaimed dating coaches exist. Imagine taking advice from a twice-divorced, 39 year old single mother.

  • @csh9853
    @csh9853 2 месяца назад +7

    A woman that pretty at that age and still single? Yes she's hard to deal with.

  • @MrTactics26
    @MrTactics26 3 месяца назад +10

    A woman telling a man what a man is supposed to be. Make it make sense.

  • @darrenjohnson2912
    @darrenjohnson2912 3 месяца назад +23

    No wonder she is divorced twice

  • @OGBPTV
    @OGBPTV 3 месяца назад +9

    No wonder she single..

  • @metroplex666
    @metroplex666 3 месяца назад +10

    Says someone, who can't keep a man....😂😂😂

  • @vagus2147
    @vagus2147 3 месяца назад +14

    Is she trying to land a plane?

    • @pmoney4986
      @pmoney4986 3 месяца назад +2

      They never land the plane they crash the plane then dont take accountability for it and then blame men

    • @BloodyBuddy7
      @BloodyBuddy7 3 месяца назад

      God damn brother :))))))))

  • @darylgonzalez5666
    @darylgonzalez5666 3 месяца назад +9

    you learn how to fish from the fisherman , not the fish

  • @ThatGypsyBoy
    @ThatGypsyBoy 3 месяца назад +9

    What I get from her is she drinks box wine, and smoke cigarettes real late at night and watch CNN👎🏼

    • @PFCMelvinPeterson
      @PFCMelvinPeterson 3 месяца назад

      Spot on… not sure about the CNN. I’d say P-Hub.

  • @robcandiani6355
    @robcandiani6355 3 месяца назад +11

    Shes divorced ,no kidding.

  • @markmoses7300
    @markmoses7300 3 месяца назад +11

    She defined her self as an introvert can't even describe her self right