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Men Talk Honestly About Women, Sex, Dating, Marriage, God and Money
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- Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
- Jesse Lee Peterson's nonprofit organization, BOND, held its "Seventh Annual Conference on Fatherhood and Men" (Jun 18, 2016). This is the panel discussion from that event where men talked candidly and honestly about a variety of issues and challenges facing men.
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I must say, Jesse presents one of the calmest demeanors I have seen in a long time.
He never gets angry or raises his voice. He listens and usually let's people finish their thoughts. And he asks difficult, but honest, direct, concise questions.
You may not agree with all his views, but his motives and clarity reveal hesitations, uncertainties, and ambiguities in his guests.
@@kieransoregaard-utt8 I guess you didn't read my comment very carefully. I said he "PRESENTS". That means, when he's in front of a camera, this is how he behaves.
I don't go to Jesse for moral guidance, orthe answers to life's problems, and he's not my role model. I go to him for mild entertainment.
I made an observation about his actions in the video I'm watching. If you've found him to be of such consequence in your life that you decided to invest more of your time to learn more about him... 👏 Good for you.
You're right about everything except for one thing. He NEVER lets people finish talking. Here he did, but normally he doesn't.
Women fall in love with the idea of marriage not the hard work and sacrifice ...it’s not glamorous as it is on tv
Not just women. Men too
Auset Luceus ouch!!!
Not me. I’m glad I never got brainwashed into marriage like everyone else. It’s a fantasy to me.
@@therealone8628 I agree not just women, all my relationships fell apart because the men had romantic ideals of all sunshine are roses and the slightest disagreement sent them running for the door
@@alexandriacaton2054 no you just got brainwashed into a different even more lonely lifestyle, the fact you say it's a fantasy shows you have no idea what a real marriage is about, my parents have been together for 40 years so far through thick and thin rich or poor and now facing sickness and my loving father nurses my mother while she fights cancer for the second time, ask yourself when you're old and possibly sick do you want to fight it alone or with someone you love and your children by your side
Being able to submit to my husband has been a stress reliever. There are some things as a woman, that I shouldn't be concerned with. My husband has proven that he can lead and can be trusted as he submits to God. He always considers my position and feelings....we pray about it and agree. Marriage can be a beautiful thing. As women we have to be ready to be wives. It requires putting your pride aside on both parts to solidify the relationship.
I can not believe a black women is saying this. We have hope!
@@mylifeisalie6781 We’re out here! Have faith in the Lord
Only one thing, i agree 99.9 %. The 0.1 % we tend to forget is that God looks at marriage, not living together, or anything else. We should know who we are to be ( which is knowing God first), then when we search we will find a husband/wife cause we obey God’s law. Not our carnal minds which is unstable.
@@shaff7016 Amen
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It’s very simple. Both of these guys have assets. If they get Married and subsequently divorced, they lose their assets.
We've got a BINGO!!!
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This is happening more and more because men marry for looks rather than compatibility
Jemimah Kendall i think men have always went for looks or need to be attracted/their type...they say men are visual creatures. The system enables and incentives divorce...technically women don’t need men anymore...should there be a stressful period between both parties then the escape route for a man is one of financial ruin, kicked out the family home and less access to his kids and crazy payments to his ex wife. If the woman leaves she keeps the family house, Keeps the kids and controls access to them, gets paid for being with the kids and for him not to be, probably has more money at her disposal than she ever has, had her weekends off so can go out with friends as that’s his time to have the kids as he works like a nutter all week, and then she could meet a new guy and have the guy live with the kids so she can live happily ever after again with a new man as the old man watches another man play dad with his kids. Intelligent, logical, wise men (nog many of them) see all these cons and just avoid marriage like the plague...without marriage the woman isn’t as incentived to leave as the perks aren’t as a divorce deal for her...it never used to be like this...men used to be needed and they wouldn’t be destroyed in the courts or financially...the state now strong arms and takes the money and resources from the man post divorce and gifts it to the woman...men also used to like having a status (family man etc)..that is destroyed upon marriage. These are just some of the reasons why men have had enough and being far more careful. I am and it’s no wonder men are going MGTOW...Shame really as the women will lose out more in the long run than the man but everyone loses out the man, woman and children and outer family
Marriage is a one way legal obligation from a man to a woman. Fatherhood is not legally recognized. Why would a man want to marry or have children? Women lobbied to change the laws in the 70's to free them from any and all obligations that come with commitment...sickening.
The guy on the far right is a MGTOW
He really is
Gary Matlock What that stand for
He knows the shit
@@shamaneikajohnson7117 I wanna know too
MGTOW (”Men Going Their Own Way”) is a way of life which refuses to defer to women in defining the worth of men. Instead, it focuses on positive male aspects, inviting men to go their own way in life.
"If it wasn't for sex, men wouldn't want any thing to do with the woman. Is that right, doctor?" *awkward 10 second pause*
:D
STUPID MORONIC FOOLS !!!
That is not true for me because for a woman to stay with me I got to be on top qualities . I am going to need more than the treasure(her couchie)
If thats the way a man feels then dont bother just go pay for it and get what want and be done. Dont expect a woman to invest if you wont or at least compromise only in way that both are happy with instead of a one sided relationship and if you cant then move on and don't bother putting yourself thru something you already know is going to happen because its natural and be free from the woman you don't want to invest in or be with...you could just be lonely and getting involved with a mistake
I see how your full knowledge of useful advise. Why waste your time with an attempt to insult instead inform your opinion or facts that you may be able to contribute. You might be extremely smart with a useful perspective. By the I make the best cookies lol. Maybe I am clueless in some areas of life. I am I life long learner always eager to learn more. I might be wasting my time writing this but I believe it’s always worth it to share knowledge and opinions with many and learn from a perspective we never knew. I guess I should thank you for that rude comment because it allowed me to look at how I present myself and grow a little bit more. Maybe you have didn’t ideas, facts, and opinions but your priority was to insults instead of informing were you thought I was wrong and make clear.
"can you smell it" 🐸
A good wife is different to every man. I am a housewife who takes the role as wife seriously. Anything that involves the day to day life cooking, cleaning, doctor appointments,yard work, and anything that makes our house a home. I love it. Our love life is amazing and we are going on 10 years. If I could give advise to a happy marriage it is mutual respect and try doing something everyday that shows your love and appreciation.
My advice to all of you is to put God First in your life and in your marriage. I have been married for 38 years. To an American. I am a Latina. We make an awesome couple. Marry a woman that will wait until marriage. A perfect one is someone that Loves God First and you second. God bless you all.
Agreed
the idea that marriage is just a piece of paper is silly. it's a business contract as well. I'm not gonna let some women walk away with half of my rib money
jjmdirector sign a pre-nup.
PRE-NUP!!!
so your the half cup full guy. you approach life that nothing is successful. In other words your not the kind of man I should call about investing because you think everyone loses money in the stock market?
@Phillipe Steele I'm not trying to be funny here. Other than tradition or religion. What are the advantages of a man participating in a modern day marriage? Because I can quickly come up with at least 10 disadvantages effortlessly.
+Rabbit Skipper Ive been married twice no kids clean cut divorces. Im 52 now and living as a happy bachelor since 2009. Please believe I know all the 10 points. And obviously when you marry or shack up. Your going to be giving up 50% of your essences and than throw kids into the mix. It is a money game and what i mean by that is you the man have your money. which usually takes you until your 30 yrs old. no live girlfriend while in college and after until you reach your goal. Come on now we have to produce the next generation. and i dont mean squirting into a date chick you like for the moment. It is a serious thing when you bring a child into this world. They did not ask to enter. Be the head of the house, get a prenuptial agreement. You dont want to be an island onto yourself same for your wife. so host parties at your home or your close friends do the same. but the conflict comes if its fellas night out or girls night out. All I can say is you got to be the man, the shot caller and yes she will take my last name. But i agree with you these modern women. Man you got your hands full.
After the statement of putting a black woman down really hurts. My parents both black no mix married for over 30 years. Black women make good wives. It’s ashamed I have to even say that. No matter what a black man says or does I would never make a statement to bring him down. No white Man would say that about a white woman. It’s really sad.
Melissa Slade wrong white men have most definitely throw white women under the bus that's the reason all this feminist bullshit occurs that alot of you black women jumped on the bandwagon.
Black women make just as good as wives is about any other woman would. African American women on the other hand as a collective do not.
Bacardi Jr. Jr. that is definitely not a factual statement. And to categorize A.A. Mothers that way is very racist. And very wrong.
Melissa Slade what’s sad is how true it is. Black women have the lowest marriage rate. Numbers don’t lie.
Jeshurun Its because our men are incarcerated, killed, and other factors that the black woman suffers through with low percentage of men available. We are good women. Society paints another picture and I’m pretty sure you don’t know enough black women or people to realize that. Media has you blind as well.
Why not get married? Coz if it doesnt work.. you broke.
I would love to be married since my 20's. I learned that it's better to be single and available for the right woman who will love me, than be in a bad relationship and yet not be loved.
Nowadays my attitude is, as long I don't find my soulmate, I'll just enjoy my freedom.
today marriage is not about the people in the union, it is registering that with the state. it is contract law.
$$$$$
And what does that comment mean, "You've been married to a black woman for 20 years?!". YES that is possible SIR...THERE ARE MILLIONS OF BLACK MEN THAT ARE MARRIED TO BLACK WOMEN FOREVER....wow!
It means most black women are angry, bitter and impossible to live with.
Candace Tuck it also explains why jesse lee is not married
Candace Tuck take it EASY he was just joking omg
KING FUUVULA to every joke there is some sort of truth to it
Triggered 😂
The real question is "What makes a "Godly" man?
elgriego331 I think somebody who knows the truth - and that includes knowing women's hypergamous nature and differing view of love!
There aren't many Godly men out there. Most of them are out there looking for an easy woman. And I will not let a man spend money on me. I really don't need a man's money. I've had men offer to take me out for dinner , my answer is a firm no. I have food at home. That man absolutely is after something. My answer is no, not from me.
🙋🏽♂️ Jesus Christ makes a Godly man 😁
THAT'S the question!
I would say delusion makes a Godly man. Can't be godly without delusion.
This video is superb. All the men on this panel ARE real men and have not settled. They're still fighting. I relate 100% to everything they have said. The Doc is worth his weight in gold.
The "doctor" lost me when he said without sex men wouldn't care about women. I fully disagree. I also find it extremely insulting! I am not a creature of instinct. I enjoy sex as much as any man. But the feeling of being in love and being loved by the most beautiful, amazing woman in the world is 10 times better than sex. The way I feel when i see my wife and daughter taking a nap together is what reminds me of how great life can be. My daughter laughing, my wife smiling. Us going on a walk together. Watching my daughter experience new things, seeing the way my wife looks at me when I read to our daughter.... Sex has nothing on that!!
"Sex has nothing to do with that" but you mention your daughter, which is a by-product of that. If it was a lie, you'd love every woman you meet or every man you meet. Unless it's family or an unattractive woman man wouldn't be with women all like that.
The kind of love you are talking about, how can it exist without sex? The love for your wife (for example) would it still remain strong and last eternally if you and her never had sex, ever? You meet her, you marry her and you live together. No sexual contact in any way whatsoever. Would that "love", last? Please answer with a simple yes or no.
You don't lift weight until your 90, you won't work as hard until 90, you won't get paid as good until 90, etc doesn't mean these things aren't important. The sex gets you to being 90 with that person. Name 1 famous long term sexless relationship....
I went to a hostel in mexico for information and ended up staying and talking with the receptionist (who was female) and sex was never on my mind!
Forest Rivers Well how fucking rude of you
He dumped that girl in 11th grade because she
wanted him to give her 25 cents for some
bubblegum. LMBO hilarious!
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Yea, but that tells you something about him.
cheap is cheap! lol
+A Ng
It's so cheap she couldn't get/earn it by herself or wait the next day when she could bring it if she had it at home.
A man is never to spend money on a woman, she pay for her own things.
Single for 17 years and continually improving myself. Just a thoughtful picnic, eating watermelon, chatting, and watching the sunset is simple, yet perfect. It is rare to meet a man putting thought into simple dates to get to know a woman. Dating is so stressful, because males feel they need to put on a show, instead of being authentic. It is easier to be alone. Women have forgotten how to submit and do not understand it does not mean a man has ALL of the control. Things have become so confusing.
Word
You are correct. I blame all the hype created by media that have raised expectations to the N degree on both sides. If a man dare to be authentic or do something simple he gets labelled cheapskate. Nice to know they are still woman out there that want to know the man not just his assets
Miss Nonya, you spoken true words. These days young women choose to ignore the "Mr right man" and think of it as "No big deal" and put out in their teens and late 20's with the "Big bad boys". Until they reach their 30's and want to settle downwith "Mr right man", that Mr right man no longer there for her. Because he doesn't want it to be "His turn now".
Most of us men turn to MGTOW as we are sick and tired of this b.s that brainwashed young women into, it ruins what held dearly, plus the ALL systems and government support are very on the womans side when it comes to divorce and child custody. She then can leech $600 -$900 a week from the poor bloke for 18 - 25 years.
So love your comment
This is gold.
To quote Dr.Helen Smith:
"Women are told constantly by society that they are 'empowered' and this often translates into a man working, earning a living, helping with the housework and being relegated to the basement while the rest of the family enjoys the entire house. Does he get rewarded for this behavior? No, he is often second to his wife, the kids and even the dog."
From the book "Men on Strike." It's a must-read. amzn.to/2Mf6Al2
LIES!! Women do 95% of the “work” in a marriage and household. Usually, you all choose to escape to your “man cave,” complaining you want to get away from your wife who’s probably just sick of your useless behind!
MEN , do you think that you need companionship at home ? The very best move that you can make is to get a dog ! and never ever get married ! Also , don not admit that you are the father of the child . You may in fact NOT be the biological father of that child ! The voice of experience here.
How did I find out ? My eldest "son " is a grown up adult. We decided to do DNA testing for tracing our family tree. Imagine my surprise to find out that my son was NOT a blood relation to me !
Im so sorry this happened to you.but at this point,you have gsined a son Im sure yoy love very much
I am so sorry you thought that was your son for 18 - 20 odd years. It must have really fucking hurt! I can't image your pain as I do not have children, and may never have any.
I also feel sorry for the poor lad that must have felt hurt from his lying mother.
adi yaf 🤣🤣🤣
I'm so sorry to hear about that Donald. That must be one of the worst things a woman can do to a man and I can only imagine how devastating it must have been. Given what is at stake and that this is demonstrably common, paternity tests should be made mandatory before a man's name can even be written on a birth certificate let alone be liable for child support. Women should not really have a problem with this, if they are not looking to deliberately deceive anyone then it will simply not affect them in any way other than to cement their relationship further. It would only be put in place to provide checks and balances against those women who would seek to perpetrate the very real crime of paternity fraud, which is surely in the best interests of everyone concerned. It should not even be an issue in this so-called age of 'equality'.
Oh my goodness, we are in big trouble ladies 😒
yes and it hasnt started yet, wait till you realize that at 30 with a job, car, house and money that youll loose to the 21 year old who has nothing but doenst need anything.
its not a womens world anymore unelss you consider women to be gay men with uterus's, essetnailly anything with man in the title has to pay its own way today.
a mans, girls, and boys world today, women not so much unless they actualy have a meaninglful career they love, not a clerk post job like most girls get.
today is the greatest tuneing fork women have ever faced and its going to be made fully aware that women have no perch anymore in life like they used to . this is just starting to dawn on women
John Rencheck even if I had a lot of money I wouldn't even consider sex on a regular basis.
shellyray52 Yep I'm thinking of just dating women.
You better believe it. Things are going to get really ugly really soon thanks to you good little innocent girls. Eventually this will be an epic gender civil war and you fuckers are going to pay for all of the lives you've ruined. You've had your little fantasy "We are better than Men" tea party, now just shut your gossipy trap and pretend Men still give a shit about you. Karma baby, Karma. aka, retribution.
Wow... men are staring to become lovers of themselves like the Bible said.
This video was insightful. We can see that these men are afraid of being taken advantage of, hence why they are still single. It is understandable because now a days people just take advantage of one another, and there’s just no respect. I can see why many men choose not to get married.🤷🏽♀️
That was very insightful for a woman.. keep it up youll find a man that will tolerate you if your words are true
Afraid to get taken advantage of "...
More like sick and tired of getting taken advantage of...
Now don't let that be confused with the traditional married house family life one taking care of external businesses why one takes care of internal businesses... Both are there to lean on each other when times are hard and both are there to enjoy each other when times are good...
I'm confused though I'm not like the rest of these douchebags when a woman comes on to me when I first meet her generally, it doesn't do anything but turn me off it's that easy no I'm good..
I like how everything looks as it is right now no sores or anything
@My Celly Weighs a Ton Alphas are not outlaws sorry but the alpha outlaws you mentioned are actually betas and the fact that you could not tell that means that you are a beta male
Oh Lord! No wonder so many women are opting to stay single! One word for y’all... SELFISH
single.. with help from daddy government. Is that empowerment?
Works both ways booboo
Women look for men with money and status and not necessarily the person, women will keep their options open incase something better comes along and drop her man like a bad habit, women want the security of marriage but also have her fun on the side by having affairs, women get bored and decide she wants to take his money and the kids, and we're the selfish ones?
Feminism created these types of men. They are simply reacting to the selfishness in today’s women.
@@byrdmaniacsg2776 bingo
any one else was left hanging with the meatloaf thing?
I didnt get it either......keep it moving
Yeah! I was wondering the same thing and where he was going with this, but he switch it to the next.
The first guy has commitment issues and comes across afraid. The last guy is just a player...he's not marriage material anyways. The man in the middles is a mature, healthy man...he's the only man on the panel.
So manhood is tied to having a relationship with a woman. Smdh
So single women are not women?? Ummm...incorrect.
You aren't very bright are you?
Candy Smith I hear this all the time that guys are referd to as real men or not real men but don't think I've ever heard the opposite of being real women or not real women isn't this a bit of a double standard
1greatfinker ofRtimes: I've heard women refer to themselves as a "real woman" in order to imply that another woman is not "real", and therefore is inferior. I've also heard it in terms of trans women. I'm pretty sure I've never heard a man use it against a biological woman.
Why are married people not asked why they are married? People ask single people all the time, why are you single? as if there is something wrong with being single, then when they/we say we haven't found the right person or situation we are deemed to have committnent issues. Married people should be asked why they are married. I believe marriage is deemed to be more socially acceptable than singleness, yet there are so many married people that are unfaithful, unhappy and have married several times, So again I say it is important to ask the question why are you married Some people have fallen into it because it is more socially acceptable but they arent happy and don't have the foundational things that make a happy marriage.
I always recommend men marry before 39! For several reasons. TBT single men after 40 come in strange packages. Non-committal, selfish, undesirable or issue-ridden. These guys reflect this perfectly.
Mmmm wonder why they would be cautious.
Mmmm wonder why they would be cautious.
smart men dont get married
Jennylyn Chung absolutely.... it's actually scary
Jenny, You must have hit the wall.
Not finding the right girl? it might be because you are LOOKING, but NOT LISTENING for the right person.
Michæl Gilbert Clements you really think you have made a smart point, dont you?
Hahaha I think he does, but when I read the comment originally I thought, "what?" lol. What a dumbass comment
spot on
kegstand dude, yes he did 💪👍
Hmm, Trying to help, huh? Good luck, with that one.
as a gay man with 3 sisters I am very close to, I see no female mystic. I don't understand why these men say that they have a hard time understanding women...Maybe it is really about not understanding what you want and be sure about who you are...
Lost interest when host said you been married to a black women for 20 yrs. What you saying? A black women ain't worth marrying. He's part of the problem.
Actually, you don't see it, because you're gay and women probably tell you the truth, like they tell their girlfriends. They aren't constantly trying to snow you, the way they are with the objects of their desire. But I agree that women aren't all that mysterious, once you take the red pill.
As a straight man with four brothers I don't have a fuckin clue.
@@maragon9462 that was a joke😳😳😳
If the guy on the end wants a quality woman he needs to be a quality man. We attract what we are
His whole point is that the quality of women has dropped significantly in the past 100 years.
He really isn't interested tbf
Women would be so screwed (not in a good way) if all men woke up to their BS and decided to walk away (MGTOW).
Scott Matthews It’s kind of ironic that men are going their own way because they find women too independent. I think women will be fine. I hope you are also.
@@lckendel1079 lc kendel no women is happy lonely.
Never happening, men as a movement would be a meme
That’s the short sided thinking of it. Go a step further and realize that society and civilization would be “so screwed” because of lowering birth rates that our culture would disappear.
Today, marriage for men is all down side and no upside.
Really? I think men get more out of the relationship
jojomojojones for woman too please believe the money if for his kids he bring into the world woman cannot make kids alone so why do she have to raise them alone after divorce.
I pray that I'll be a blessing to my future husband .
And that he will be a blessing to you!
Best comment I've seen on this tread.
Hey 😏😉
Besides sex and intimacy, what do you have to offer to your future husband?
@@redheart30 virtuous women are rare to find they are like Ruby and diamond so precious.
If you choose marriage, you need a foundation made up besides sex. If you base on sex alone, marriage won't last. My husband is my best friend, provider for our family, lover, partner. I feel for today's single people. Some do want to stay single, but I know those who have the hardest time trying to find a partner to marry. It feels like if someone is dating and find something they don't like in a person, they just move on to the next. It's sad, people aren't perfect. Relationships takes work.
I like when they think they're being deep and the host has a look like "that's stupid" lol
Why not get married? Today marriage brings nothing for men. Absolutely nothing. Ask the question; what can't a man get in a relationship that he can with that state certificate of marriage? Also, ask the question what are the penalties to men after a marriage fails, especially after ten or twelve years?
Snarge22 it's on u buddy forget everyone else
Snarge22 well said
You should never marry someone who thinks that a marriage can fail. My husband asked me if I would stay friends with him if we got divorced. He has been married once before (she cheated and had a child by someone else during the marriage) and had a long term relationship with a very feminist women afterwards (she used him for money and tricked him into signing away his home). My mindset is that marriage is for life. I told him "no". I said that if I am marrying him it is not because I intend to fail, and that once you are married you look for solutions. There is no exit. We have been married for 10 years, fells like we got married yesterday. We take comfort in each other, knowing that we have to make it work, there is not exit, we are in it for life. We are lucky to have found each other. Marriage is not about falling in love, it is about finding someone with he mindset of never quitting. Not very many people think that way now a days.
One thing is certain. Aint one thing in life that is void of change. I am on my third official relationship and I am happy, happy. When you come to this physical plane, you better grab on to something, hold on tight while it last and savor every moment of fun and love and leave with a smile on your face.
Snarge22
Your second statement is the fundamental reason why women should have never slept with men outside of marriage. The sexual revolution and feminism has done its best to ruin marriage for all.
Lots of great humor and open honesty. I loved the show 🙂
Thank you for watching. Glad you liked it.
Jesse, you're the man. Really insightful video, as always!
The problem with marriage is that people have warped expectations of what marriage is based on tv, movies and celebrity culture. They expect a non-stop thrill ride where everyone envies them, and they get affirmation that they are living "the life".
Jesse you've helped me a lot in many ways. i listen to your radio show everyday while I'm at work. I've been living with this pent up anger and sadness inside me because of the lack of a father and a resentment towards my mother. Then you said on the radio that we need to forgive. i am looking for god and hopefully one day i can find him. Great show today too.
God Bless you, man. If you need counseling call my office at 323-782-1980. We can help you.
optic1147 are you a mouse
I feel lucky to have a perfect husband for me.
Erica Spence yeah, the state.
Miss America feel sorry for him..
nobody cares
@@franciscomonge4930 I'll give her 6 months before she files for divorce. Unless she already did but won't post it....
Yay Miss America, so glad to not be in this crazy dating and culture. What a mess on display in this segment.
All the black women in the comment section just confirms what they said. You get upset and emotional and react the same, "I stopped watching after he said this and that". Smh, try a little less pride, a little more humility, a whole lot of control over your mouths, and keep your legs closed and all will go much better for you.
"men talk honestly"--Lying from the title
1. It is disgusting to hear grown men talk about trying to find a 'girl'. They don't want women, even if the female is of legal age. Even when they are talking about finding a grown woman, they refuse to call her a 'woman'. They want a 'girl'.
2. So you dated lots of women during the week, without clearly communicating it. When women do that, you name and shame them, but we are supposed to fell sorry for your?
3. These men aren't suffering from anything. There are tons of women available, they aren't interested in being good to anyone, they don't want to commit, they were probably spoiled by their mothers and expect every woman to serve them in the same way.
4. They criticize women for not being wife material. None of these guys are husband material.
5. Women are not your fuckable doormats and maids and that is exactly what most men want.
6. The refer to themselves as 'employers'- disgusting
7. Anytime a woman does her best and works hard, men 'accuse' her of being competitive. You expect women to depend on you in a marriage, women do that and they you guys screw them over and mock them for making the stupid decision of depending on men.
These are old scrappy looking little boys. They claim to want to be the 'heads of the house'. What they really want is to be the boss of how women's labor is used They want to have the credit of being in charge. What you guys is want women to do the work for you and you guys take the credit for it and capitalize on the women's work.
8. If sex happens to soon??? It doesn't happy,.... you do it.
9. You guys take ZERO responsibility for your own behavior, claiming to have sex for no other reason than because other people are doing.
Males have sex, because they want to.
10. Women have sexual 'urges' too, you people are disgusting. Women are designed to procreate, have sex and you have no problem shaming women for wanting sex.
11. You can't get 'rid of the woman'? Most of the people who stalk are males and the people they are stalking are females.
12. If you respect your mother you would be honest with her and call out her faults? Really, because wen women do that with men, you accuse them of being disrespectful
13. " you don't tell on your mother when she is acting out". You males are fucking disgusting thinking that sons and fathers have to right to dominate the same woman.
14 "women are emotional, manipulative and controlling"? You guys are the ones talking now about controlling and dominating women, wives, mothers, etc. The mother of the guy all the way on the left, the "interviewer" needs to be strangled by the woman who pasted nine months of her life providing for him in her womb.
15 Is is normal for men to be emotional? Men are driven on pure emotion ,whether that is sexual emotion, anger, ego, etc.
These guys are so fucking disgusting. They want a slave. They want to 'employ' someone whom they will not pay.
You guys conveniently don't talk about the 'old days' of guys dominating and using women for their services.
Women are not your personal labor force and that is exactly what you think women are. You believe women are there to sexually service you, provide you with intellectual property, maid services, etc..
You all need to get dogs.
YOU ARE DISGUSTING FOR TALKING ABOUT THESE GROWN MEN HAVING SEX WITH GIRLS. YOU SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX WITH GIRLS.
Please don't be involved with females. You all are terrible human beings, degrading, disrespectful, looking for excuses as to why you want to act like dogs.
You pretend to be more independent than you are. Then stop looking for women. If you don't need them and want them, then stop looking for them.
Stop acting like some helpless victim. You males are not relationship material and having nothing positive to offer in a relationship.
Females, please listen to what these males are saying. These fucking pigs are constantly scheming to dominate you and your resources and labor.
lol u right. most men think we are nothing but baby making machines and sex objects
You are so right!
read the Bible before you speak idiot
At first I was interested in what these men had to say, but found out how immature, simple, degrading and full of bias they are towards women. The low quality questions didn't help much either.
Women should stay away from those types. Better no relationship than these 'sorry excuses for human beings'. Period!
marriage invites the state into your relationship. the government should not be involved at all. in no way. no tax crap or anything. just 2 people going before a religious leader or whomever saying I do and they choose to make it happen..... no paperwork none of that crap.
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I agree Isaac. A religious marriage has zero to do with the state or federal government. I've been with my partner for 13 years, we're not legally married. But we are committed to our family. It's difficult to make relationships successful, especially with children. But it's the most important thing in your existence to make your family strong and stay together as a mother, father with children.
I don't know. Maybe even 'going before' anyone is kind of pointless. Even though I am happily married with 12 years behind me, I don't think I would ever do it again.
When will black women ever get respect from black men?
When you stop bring feminist.
I respect mine and I have black friends that do. However, they are all Christians . True Christians not fake ones understand how to love a respect each other . 1 Corthinians 13 read if you have time . “ Love is patient and kind it’s never rude or selfish .....
NEVER and YOU YOU DON'T DESERVE IT
Don’t deal with them. It’s that simple. ☕️💅🏽
Candy Kane let's be real here, sugar - it's a market place. We all have to deal with what our sexual market value can get us. And for the most part, black women are more attractive to black men than whites! Your advice isn't helpful unless a woman HAS white options!
After watching this video I rather stay MGTOW!!!! Im lazy, selfish, and anti-drama. I WANT TO STAY FREE! The guy on the far right is awesome!
I love my freedom!
SKYRULE-49 On behalf of women everywhere, thanks!
@Louie Anderson you kiss your mother with that mouth
@@jemimahkendall6579 I'm going to have a robot maid taking care of me just like the Jetsons.
I had been holding on for years trying to do what was right by my sons But when they got involved with wicked women it destroyed our family literally!! Of course they thought I was jealous but I can see what they cannot see in a female!!!
You are a MOM/WIFE that's why your sons shook you! What you mean you been holding on trying for years trying to do right by your sons WTF!!! LMAO 😂😂😂
Put me on the panel. I'll give you some straight up answers.
It is sooooooooooo sad that this is what life offers women as partners........Too sad for words :^(
Those are not bad peaople, they are just mature man who have gone through a lot of frustration in their lives and have never been taught how to deal with that. Their parents didn't had any of the issues this guys have gone through so they lack all the necessary resources to become amotionally stable and centered.
I'm not victimizing them because that knowledge is out there and you can find it if you are brave enough to get yourself together and seek for a better life experience, but you can't deny that the enormous changes that our society has gone through for the last 50 years have never been addressed seriously, all the traditions and structures refering to couples and marriage are dead and the men and women that we live in this time we are almost all lost and unable to engage on all the responsabilities that carry creating a deep bond with someone.
That's why so many marriages fail and that's why we are having less kids and why everyday men and women hate each other more and more to the point that MGTOW and feminist groups are rising throughout all western countries. THAT is sad. Its sad that we have come to a point where no one trusts anyone, and they trust themselves even less. Those men up there could have been great and honorable people with the right trust placed on them and a proper guidance through their emotional life, but no, we are too fucking busy fighting each other and trying to overcome our love needs by enslaving the opposite sex instead of cooperating and being truthful about ourselves.
That was pretty broad minded of you; however if I had to share my life with someone, it would be with someone who had something substantial emotionally to offer. I am sure that you are probably correct in that these are not bad people, I just know that I am worth so much more and would never settle for that
Traders Friend their like this because they can't find women who want to be a wife. Woman want to be like men and it's a huge turnoff. Thus why guys are single. Woman have bigger egos than guys now days with their spandex pants and makeup.
LOL, I don't think we should have to be less than so that you guys can be more. If I have more bravado than a man then I don't want him. I am naturally a strong personality and I make no apologies for it, but I will not shrink so that some man can rise. It is truly sad that in this country Many gay women are more masculine than men
Typical female blames men for what shes done. Lol unreal. Entitled females like you have made this bed, now lay in it.
P.S it will only get worse for you
I asked my 12 and 14 bnb yr old boys , " Do you boys understand what a woman wants?"
Their answer, " That's impossible mom, all women are different and have their own their brain, just because they have woman parts doesn't mean they are all the same."
Ladies and gentlemen, my teen boys have more sense than some of the men on the panel.
Once they discover the red pill they will awake to what a woman wants and they will find women want everything while bring too little to the table themselves.
“You smell it?” Jesse is hilarious hahahah
Men that don't want to grow up. They want a "relationship for the wrong reasons. Sad they will grow old and be alone, selfish and shallow.
Companionship and dogs aren't the same, dogs simply cannot return the same level that most people require. Lonely people buy dogs because they can't attract a(enough humans) human.
typical shaming.....yawnnn
Dana D sad? For who? I reckon they'll be just fine.
They want a relationship for love. it's women that haven't grown up. Theyre too busy focusing on money and materialistic things to understand what love actually is
@@Alyssa-tu2kx I agree . Most women not all are definitly about money. I would get married if I found someone who wants to be with a person for who they are. But I havent yet.
Yah, Marriage is just a piece of paper..... A piece of paper that can seriously damage your life and financial and mental stability. 9 times out of 10 the man's financial and mental stability.
Brian Toblerone in the black community you are def right.
I think these men are why my Dad made sure none of his children dated outside our religion. Because we as Christian woman know what is expected of us in a marriage and our men know the same.it probably helps to know that divorce is not an option.
Sure, it's "just a piece of paper", but it's one which allows her to legally own you and your assets for the rest of your life, even if you have the document voided and the marriage divorced, she will still have a high probability of being automatically granted a portion of your assets.
The financial settlement is usually based on who has brought what to the relationship though right? I mean if the woman bears and raises the children and her career and earning power is stunted as a result, the man has a duty to share his assets with her and to financially support his children. It should be a fair division of assets reflecting both parties contributions in terms of salary, assets and unpaid labour.
All the men in this talk need to purify their intentions in life. Their main goal should not be to get a woman or be so weak in matters of the flesh. Self development and self reflection has to come and it needs to be consistent with age. Women are actually very much in the know. The high value ones can read the men. We are strong in keeping it together emotionally and raising a family with high morals. It's a shame to hear that we are so 'distracting ' in your lives and you develop the need to play us like toys.
It's an honour to love a man who is strong, keeps his gaze away in the presence of the females and knows how to teach these morals to children .
It certainly is not the norm to bed your partner before marriage. What you mean is that it's society's low standards that most say yes to! That's why we are living in times of high disregard of true values and true spirit. This is part of the mess in society. Mass media BS.
Don't be fooled by what is 'normal' . None of yous were created to be weak and stay weak.
Don't blame it on the biology , it's just an excuse. There's lots to work on yourselves and don't point the finger on us women. Get smart and make the changes if you want to be a king . Cos only then will you find your queen.
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I am disappointed with this conversation. The title is intriguing and promising, but the questions that were asked were embarrassing, absurd and stupid!
For example:
"What is a man?" - WHAT?! Is this "debate" on such a basic low level to ask a specialist in relationships and the two frustrated, experienced mature men just such a basic question?!
Is it a nursery/kindergarten talk with kids?!
Another absurd and stupid… i repeat and emphasise: very stupid question:
"Would the men be interested in women if there would be no sex?"
Well, here is my explanation why such "What if…?" questions are stupid, absurd and waste of our time.
'If "there would be no sex", then there would be NO women and NO men at all!
This is named in biology: "sexual dimorphism" - sex exists because women and men exist and also women and men exist only because sex exists! You cannot ever so stupidly separate the existence of the 2 distinct sexes within a species from the sexual interactions and behaviors and separate sexual roles within the species. The females and males in the pre-human species EVOLVED in the EVOLUTION because of the phenomenon in the biology of the life on the planet Earth that is named "sex".
Without SEX - there would be no mankind, no women, no men, and also there would no time wasting conversation like this one…
Such questions of the type "What if…?" are totally pointless, are waste of time and energy!
Such questions are fallacious, a fallacy, a logical ineptitude in the thinking process.
I can try to produce such hypothetical absurd and utterly stupid questions:
"If women had no breasts then would the men be interested in women?"
"If women had no legs then would the men be interested in women?"
"If planet Earth had no Moon then would the men be interested in women?"
"If the Sun would be a star 10 times bigger then would the men be interested in women?"
"If Earth's daily rotation lasted 60 hours instead of 24 hours then would the men be interested in women?"
"If men had 2 heads and a penis located on the male's back then would the women be interested in men?"
And so on and on... the number and variety of such absurd, hypothetical, useless, totally useless! fallacious questions could be invented in huge numbers!
Try to ask some USEFUL and practical questions instead! For example:
"How would you like your future wife to behave and treat you?"
"How would you like your future husband to behave and treat you?"
"What could be done in our society to mend the damaged trust between men and women?"
"What factors contributed to the miserable and frustrating state of the social and sexual relationships between men and women?"
"Who is to blame for such a social breakdown in the social structure and function of the family?"
and so on...
To answer your first question, I would like my future wife to be 1) smart enough to turn on the stove without burning the house down, but 2) not smart enough to know that at any time during our "equal" relationship she can call the state on me and force me from my ("our" haha) home. That both one and two could occur in the same woman is impossible. Use your brain to figure out what needs to be changed. Hint: it's the will of the rich; all of us middle class and working class folks bend to their will. We are their cattle; we are their sheep.
Great comment love it. Also I was annoyed when he always asked why having sex before marriage. Marriage and relationship are not equal to each other. The reason a lot of men dont get marriage is because it is a contract with the state and church too and you have to be sure. That has nothing to do with a relationship and sex.
I have heard this one: nothing exploded and created everything and a lizard came out of the primordial ooze and mated with its self and eat nothing and so on,sell your fairytale to Disney its not science
As for man and women they are living in a fallen state of Marxist big bang, no god, your worthless, nonsense of fake science fake math fake numbers fake medicine and fake bullshit laws. The truth is humans do not mate well in captivity end of story. Jesus came to set us free this life is not about what you want the sooner you get that through your thick skull the sooner you will understand and be happy. Men let the western world collapse by killing the only western society to attack and attempt to end soul crushing life killing fake science mongering communists who by the way havent invented anything but a gun albeit a good one.
Jesus AntiChristos agree 💯
Jesus AntiChristos..........I concur 100%
Chris is an amazing guest. I understand his perspective about women. He understands his role and he stays in his lane. He understands the male female relationship very well. He understands the commitment aspect of relationships and he is not ready to go there, which is better than getting married and being miserable or making another woman miserable.
You guys are meeting the WRONG women. There are plenty of us out there that are not emotional basket cases. We're independent, we work, we have money, we own our own homes and cars, we're intelligent.
Gorilla Reader maybe you’ll do that to some women , but not to all of us. We won’t allow you to do that to us. We would never date a “pump and dump” kind of man. We have plenty of friends and/or family who value us and don’t need to get married, so would only do so with a good man. I do agree with you about feminism’s destruction, though. I, myself, am not a feminist and value good, strong men.
They don't want that lol they want to be the "man's of the house, they want to feel depended on and appreciated for it but on the flip side they completely resent the role they crave lol saying we're only gold diggers and are just whores if we also agree or crazy man hating feminists losing our femininity when we don't lol. With these type of guys, women can do no right. Save your explanation for the type of guy who would actually hear it and appreciate it lol.
Funny. I’ve had a lot of experience with men, and in those experiences, it’s always the man, not me, who wants to rush into a serious relationship. They start talking about marriage right away. And they’re the ones who get emotional. I’m perfectly content to date and get to know someone, including sexually, but I think that you have to let some time pass before you even begin to start considering a serious relationship. I can’t trust a guy who rushes head on into a serious relationship. It shows they don’t really know what it means to be married.
no guy wants what you described
@@aaronmanuel6371 I just would like an answer from you (even though I don't know you in real life) what are YOU looking for? Have you ever gotton even close to what you were looking for, if so what was the exact reason to not go forward? I want to understand men and thought they were "simple" creatures...1)sex, 2)food, 3)purpose in life, 4)Freedom(leisure), but I feel confused because if a woman works hard and makes her own money(pays for her own things, car insurance, food, clothes, etc) but ALSO wants to be a wife&homemaker "she's too independent so why marry her?" And then the other side is "she works a minimum wage job, but is still No spender in any selfish way, is even saving money to hopefully HELP out her future boyfiend/husband to one day have an apartment/house together and build a life"(just pump and dump this one too just because). I'm confused--do you men want us woman to help You Out OR Not???(cause if we don't then we are just "using you" and are "gold diggers"?) Or do you want us to be a helpless homless woman waiting for a "hero"(man) to come "save her"? Which is it??? What do you men truly want then?
This host is a manipulating opportunist who didn't let these men answer honestly and freely. Not half the story was really told.
The guy on the left is honestly toxic
Someone who doesn’t show emotion has a problem
I'm a William and never asked a man for anything. They were gracious enough to buy me dinner and I always respect that
Men who don't share their feelings are seen as unrelational and we end up not wanting to be with you . There's a balance. You need to share and be strong as well. You must be human or you don't trust us.
Marriage is literally the biggest mistake a successful man can make.
And also its stupidest thing to do if you're a unsuccessful man 😅
@@Project_mayhem94 shit it's awful no matter because if you make it down the road she takes half so either way you're screwed.
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That "employee" you hired 10 years ago may now want into someone else's business. She will leave if this is the case and there's nothing you can do about it. Marriage assures nothing but financial responsibility from men towards their "employee".
Marriage was created to tie men to their children. Ancient societies and Christianity (in a rare burst of wisdom) realized that successful societies had children raised by both parents, rather than being raised communally.
The laws and conventions around marriage were created before socialism, contraception and abortion. They were designed to protect women from a man leaving, as the women, once they entered a marriage were pretty much committed to having children with him and would find it difficult to find another man willing to support her and another man's children, rather than just finding an unencumbered woman.
Nowadays, with socialism and working mothers, and abortion and contraception there needs to be protection for men who support women, who then leave with or without their kids, and then still get punished for the separation as if the woman was somehow a "victim".
Sadly, what has happened is that men are realizing that marriage is a "Bad Deal" and we now have kids growing up without 2 parents, which is a detriment to society, and the original point of marriage.
Grzegorz - simply not true. Up until the last 100 years women couldn't provide for themselves or protect themselves. Childbirth and child-rearing was very dangerous for both mother and child, and it was a terrible survival strategy for women to abandon their major source of protection and provision. Not only that but only a very rich man, would take in another man's children and waste his protection and provision on them instead of his own.
You are talking about what has happened since motherhood has become optional in a partnership and women who don't want children are struggling to be useful. They expect to be treated like a woman, and given the same respect, but that respect is awarded to them for their child-bearing, not for being a fake man.
If they are not going to have children and be a good wife, then they are expendable, just like unmarried men are.
I disagree. They were just fine providing and surviving by themselves. There was even an island of lesbos where they lived as warriors and hated men. Women were great at farming, cattle and other skills. Many were warriors like the Amazons of the past.
Grzegorz - Lesbos is a complete myth, originating only because Sappho a lesbo-erotic poet was born there.
The Amazons are also mythical.
The funniest thing is that all these Amazons and female warriors are depicted with bows. The stupid thing about this is that it takes strength to pull a bow. Even with super-efficient bows today, women shoot 10% shorter distances. This would mean that in order to get a shot women would have to get 100 yards closer than the men they fought with. This is nonsense.
Have you ever tried to plow a furrow with a horse-pulled plough? Handle a blacksmiths Hammer? Quarry stone? Shear a sheep? Erect Wood buildings and chop wood without power-tools? All these things take a lot more strength and endurance than you imagine in our modern world.
One of the reasons people in colder countries may have evolved more successfully is because, due to the harsher conditions, women were forced to rely on men, and repay them with children, more than in warmer climates.
Many thanks, I have been researching "dating advice for women by men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Honulian Fascination Inveiglement - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got excellent results with it.
I was offended by the host asking if the Doctor was married to a Black woman for 20 years? Please stop. Black women have bad apples just like every other race. Not all Black women are bad. Some are loving, supportive, sweet, and wonderful. We also know how to let our husbands lead.
Everybody Dance i wasn’t offended as much as I was turned completely off. It’s a great topic but this guy as a host seems to be working out his own chip on his shoulder..
1 real reason. Its very expensive when it doesn't work even if he isn't at fault
Most men sleep around with women and when they want to marry they want a woman who's a prude 😒 be what you expect from your future wife then I can respect you.
Stop sleeping around with men, and respect yourself.
sach kin
b**** there's not any factual data to even back that claim up
How dare you suggest these men don't identify themselves as #genderless. Formulate them stats 🐖
sach kin There are various women for various types of guys. I think as young men/women, we are generally and naturally sexually charged. As we age, we become less charged and more settled. This is also generally the time men get the incling of settling down. It's not a good idea to marry when one is still so sexually charged. That's cheating time.
winter sun your the one to talk! Lol girl you should show yourself some respect and not have to "obey men" and make your own damn decisions and be an adult instead of letting some dude take the pressure of being the "head of a household". RESPECT yourself
he said his wife was black and Asian but she took the black side...lol.... Jesse Lee I gotta love you brother you're comedian
kelcey burris sr jesse lee is a jerk off
Doright Christopher damn your late as hell to the vid from 1/2 a yr ago...and Jessie says stuff to upset ppl lol
+kelcey burris sr im never to late ok. jesse is a sellout uncle tim for wgite people
Doright Christopher what did he sale and I think u better look up uncle Tom's cabin.....
And this is Ole from June your late lol
This is good...it helps me to realize that ppl don't really think about life like ppl claim they do. As simple as the question may come off the question require some deep pondering. Good shit.
0:30Marriage 2:35Thas a Trick or SIMP3:28 6:58*Marriage 10:25ounds Correct and Fantastic 11:33Pimp 13:21Dont spend Money on Wome 13:39****n 28:05This guy is hilarious!31:45 never tell a woman your problems
Men can be expressive, but with the right woman and especially in marriage. Men cannot be whiny, crying, and over emotional, because most women will not like it, but a good wife who loves her husband will understand. Men have to know when to express, and with whom, and not "lose themselves" in the emotion.
I have submitted to my husband, he is the head of our family. We were brought together by God's good grace. There are good people out there, you just have to look carefully, and get to know them and observe their behavior.
The guy on the right looks like a poser. Trying hard to look the cool dude.
Anne Wedell he has a little dick for sure
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Lol typical shaming language, what a great tactic huh
Anne Wedell poser? What are you in highschool? Dumb bitch.
Anne Wedell Why do girls get mad at those kind of guys?? Its because you can not marry them?? Hahahha
If I proposed a business deal to you:
You put up 90% of the capital, I put up 10%.
You put up 90% of the labor, I put up 10%.
We both get paid the same salary.
We split profits 50/50.
I can renege on putting up my share of the capital with no penalty.
I can renege on doing my share of the labor with no penalty.
I can embezzle or steal from the company any amount at any time with absolutely zero penalty or obligation to pay it back.
I can quit the business at any time for any reason or no reason.
If I do quit the business,
- the business assets pay for my attorney(s)
- I get 90% of any business owned I.P.
- I get a lump sum payment of a minimum of 50% of the business assets
- The business must continue to pay my salary for 5-10+ years (in some circumstances for the rest of my life).
- If the business revenue increases, I can get a "raise"
- If the business fails or revenue falls and is unable to continue paying my salary, you get thrown in jail.
Ok, if that business contract is presented to you, do you sign it?
Well, newsflash, that's the contract you're signing when you get married.
The man on the right should not get married. He doesn't value a woman, but definitely values himself. What happened to romance with the guy on the left?
13:38 dumps his girlfriend because she asked him for a quarter LOL
If only more men would do this :P
W P it would be a giggle fest for anyone watching
W P he wanted to dump her and found the right timing.
Very funny, Riley. (yea, I know, you are NOT a Riley.)
W P -- his mother said only spend on the woman you see yourself marrying. That’s why. Funny you missed that part and his still married so 😴☕️💅🏽
Neanderthalist. I know that's not a word, BUT....................... Some of my brothers still have a long way to go towards simple adult maturity.
I don't want to loose my house. Is that a good enough reason ??
YES
I tried dating got married and now I’m single and okay just being with myself. Dating is just too much lol 😂🤣😂🤣😂 enjoying the peace within myself and I’m not eager to bet on peace right now.
I love the host. He's super funny
He is Jesse...and he is so our guy
marriage is just a peace of paper!!! A peace of paper that could cost you over half of all your shit
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All of these men keep looking at marriage as misery that’s why they can’t find a good woman.
This is a very interesting insight. I realize that the perception of the man and the woman is very different between the men on either side of the psychologist. I think values were what was missing from this conversation, like what values do they want in a partner and how they could get this. There was a lot of lingering on the cons of marrying a certain woman but I wish there were more conversation on the ideal person that is as realistic to their honest wants as much as possible. It was more a conversation in the grey area of the perception of dating and marriage, instead of about that grey are. It was interesting none the less, however.
Oh lord, the reason men and women have sex before marriage is for one reason only. Selfish self pleasure. No love or even genuine like has to be involved. So when there’s no self control which people dating today has little of, along with no real intention, is the main reason they have difficulty finding meaningful partners. Let’s just get real.
There scared to say the truth you can see it in there eyes...they will have gfs but wont make them wifes cuz they dont want them taking half there stuff
This was terrible. The host and 2 guests on the panel offered no value to the topic. The only insightful person was the doctor in the middle.
This was horrifying.
Why?
None of these men have any idea what love is. And it has nothing to do with religion.
You realized you will likely never find a sucker to leech off of? That is horrifying.
Javier Vargas
I don’t need to leech off of anyone. I take care of myself. And I’ll be damned if I’m going to depend on a man to provide for me! I don’t have to ask someone else for money. If a man can’t handle that, he’s not the man for me.
@@lisaspikes4291 Welfare is also a man providing for you. Men pay the majority of taxes and aren't eligible for most welfare programs. If you think going on welfare is you being independent, you're wrong.
WOW......
Not all woman are gold diggers..
Maybe these men are boys, not worthy of a great woman
Marriage is a contract . when it goes wrong and statistics say 50 percent fail, the state comes after men's assets. It's unfair and that's why men are not getting married.
ALL women are hypergamous. You're lying to yourself and everyone else with your statement. Would you date a cashier if you were a doctor? didn't think so. Ask a man that same question and he wants nothing from a woman except attraction.
Amen
hahaha.....all women and gold diggers and hypergamous....escpecially women who are feminist....in the name of freedom and choice, they become sluts before marriage and hate their husband after marriage...divore at 45...leave with all the money men have....anywaz this feminism is going to screw females the most....if they like to be sluts...good for men....hump and dump...who wants to marry a stinking pussy and pay for alimony later....
Beta WOMAN!
Shame, these guys have dated some "bad" women! Now all other women must pay for that! Generalizing is bad!
Some? Some bad women?
Cheryl Barry No it isn’t, it’s okay to generalise and preferably accurate accurate one, it only becomes a problem when you refuse to acknowledge individuality.
Don't take her to dinner, make dinner with her and have her pick herbs while you cook and use the knife properly.
Smoke not pick herbs lmao
I choose # 3, he looks fit, his facial features, he is in the category of a hot looking man, takes care of himself. I sense he is dressing casually well, yes his is a critical thinker
Wow... A whole conversation about how women are stupid...too emotional...crazy...difficult...and men are perfection.
How nice.
Am hello but this is what men hear every day in mainstream media, funny when the shoe is on the other foot women don't like it. Go figure
My daddy drilled that in my head.Do not accept gifts from a man unless he is your husband.This causes false expectations.The doctor is correct you may no even like him or her. But that would not apply to my last relationship he never gave me any gifts or offered .But I did not expect that of him.We were getting to know one another.People should pump their brakes slow down!!!No sex before marriage!
Clearly the hostess single. He sounds like he hates women
Monique Saldeba 😂😂😂 the "hostess"😁
He hates black women
My question is is the host married? Black or white? The restaurant owner and lawyer are looking at the host like he's a damn fool.
It's all men's fault, women have no accountability!
Nah he's just trying to be funny
This is very dangerous Narrative. Not all women are manipulative. We love and want to loved back.
Marriage Minded Men are Blessings and Blessed. Be fruitful and multiply!
Poor girls..they have been waiting to get that ring yet the guy isnt.sure of getting married.....men r just taking us for granted..sigh.
moreaboutysabella21 what are women bringing to the table in today’s time. I’ll use myself as example for year in my 20’s been that gentle men paid for girls if I went out on dates, brought drinks. Gave them rides. Yet I was this nice guy, every girl I knew was fucking sucking every other guy. Your telling me when they are done doing all that I’m supposed to believe they changed??? Western just sick jumping dicks! You women in the USA don’t need men. What you need a shack up partnership. The government has become the provider for women no wonder 61% of them can be single moms. As yet I’ve been told oh your a good guy, your a good man! But some how I’m just good enough as thugs and player types to fucked. So no I have no sympathy for western women!!
Sensing serious mommy issues from the guy on the left in blue.🤔
metalheadlass you kidding? He seems like a mama's boy. Probably has no dad. Acts like a Pussy.
Anthony Martinez that’s where mommy issues usually come from yes
Umm... He TOLD us that - what exactly is there to sense? 😂
lukemanius he was completely in denial though
He's the most truthful
Best thing i've seen in a while. Men being men, with honesty, humility, and class. 👏👏
MGTOW is not the answer guys.
Just find yourself a good woman.
It's possible, regardless of what you might think.
@Kul Pink I'm in a relationship with one. And here is how I know that she's a good woman; (unlike my exes)
-she never used any dating platforms or apps
-she doesn't use social media
-she doesn't have any body modifications
-she doesn't go to parties.
-she's pretty traditional and lives by Christian values.
@Kul Pink Not yet but I plan on marrying her. We definitely talked about it.
I brought it up once because I wanted to know how she felt about taking my name. I know that some women like to keep their maiden names so I thought it would be worth a discussion.
Well, luckily for me she is not one of them. She said that she'd gladly take my name.
We even discussed possible baby names.