“Wyd”. Means I’m bored, probably laying across my bed, just seeing what you up too. “Wyd + tonight/this weekend”. Means I’m about to invite you somewhere
I don’t see “wyd” as an invitation to go out... I see it as a conversation starter. It’s kinda like a “what are you up to?” My issue is when they ask “wyd” 50 times a day. But this conversation just goes to show that people communicate differently & it’s important to know that when dating!
Nicole. Usually if they say “wyd” multiple times throughout the day it either means They’re bored but they wanna keep talking to you ( either for a hookup or actually trying to get to know you. Usually it’s a short link up tho tbh) They’re bored all together Or they just want a notification of some type of human communication in their phone ( to help them seem like they got it going on) But yes definitely a conversation starter or something to keep the conversation flowing but that don’t mean he into you tho
@@indigos0ul that's not their job. If you hit someone up to start a conversation, then the intent lies with you not them. You should have more to offer them in response than "cool".
Disagree with Loni. If we meet online... being asked for coffee means let’s meet in person at a public, safe place, to see if there’s chemistry and physical attraction. An actual “date” comes after the coffee meet.
“wyd” with no followup means he was texting a bunch of girls to see who was available soon for a booty call. If he doesnt follow up that means another girl he prefers responded.
Wow, they were right when they said women think differently. At times, when a man ask wyd? He just wants to have a conversation about what you are doing. He wants to know how your day is going basically. Men don't play about this; If he wants to involve you in some plans, he'll let you know up front without beating around the bush. Well, maybe we've got to listen more to women and look for other ways to converse about what they are actually doing. 😀
I dont think women have a problem with a man texting "wyd" but some men use it as their only conversation starter, and dont fall through with no action. I've had guy friends text me "wyd" (..well.. they dont hit me up like that first, but they usually say hey, how are you) but they actually care to talk about my day and build a conversation. No woman wants a man to text wyd, and have a dull convo and then stop texting. And do the same thing the next day.
@@xtelfolaj well said! I never comprehend why someone would text wyd and responded. Then they'll either ghost and try it the same thing the next day or next week really smh
I think a great way of doing that would be "I was thinking about you, what are you up to", or if they arent busy CALL, there are billion ways to have a conversation that dont involve those three letters. But I digress, Im sure ppl are just too lazy or socially limited to put in any real substance
coffee first date because its less pressure, and you can dip easier if the guys weirdo. otherwise your stuck having dinner with someone you dont connect with.
Oh my God I'm so with Jeanne on this I'm a single woman and man totally do that baiting of WYD? And then leave you hanging for hours if not days. In my world now I just ignore those men because at the end of the day they only want attention, they don't actually want you. Lessons Learned! And I'm totally happy this topic was brought up because it's totally real
GIRL SAME! I and my ex were trying to rekindle, and he would text me "WYD," and I would reply what I was doing and all he would say is "Cool," and that was it! Never "hey wanna hang out " or talk about the issues we were having to fix the relationship!
now this was a cute fun conversation. we're tired of hearing about politics and what ariahs doing in school we want THIS. thank god someone single on the panel again
Just answer with a random abbreviation back😂 Trust me my boyfriend stopped doing the „wyd“ real fast when getting a „atdtl“ as an answer😂 (about to do the laundry)
I’m so glad that the dating experience was not like this for me at all. My husband called me the very next day after we first met and directly asked me out on a proper date. There was no vague “wyd”....matter of fact, there was no texting at all. We talked on the phone and went out on dates just about every weekend.
Idk man, I'm a coffee girl. I love coffee dates. Not sure about a first date, me and my husbands first date was a jazz concert at variety playhouse in ATL and required lashes and heels and we always have really nice dates like that, but I also lovvvve my coffee dates, breakfast house dates, picnics. The cheap low-key stuff always feels more intimate to me.
Gurl that makes the two of us, i love coffee dates! I swear one of the reasons why I’m single, people don’t do that no more! And WYD bullshit i hate it i swear and people with their shallow conversation 😤
I dislike those people that ask you if your free and make plans on how we should hang out like going to the park or something but never goes through with the plan like ugh 😑
Loni understand the power of letting go. Jeannie reading too deep. If he playing, see it and dip. He playing if he texting you like that. Loni said it best. Keep it moving
There is nothing wrong with "Wyd." It can be a conversation starter to know your interests and activities throughout the day. The problem comes when you're dating and the person never plans to meet up in person. It becomes a dry, boring text conversation and a waste of your time. I think we all know what Jeanie was talking about. There are guys that will "Wyd" you to death and never ask you out. They just want a text buddy when they're bored.
A FEMALE text buddy. Seems like they're afraid of getting rejected, so they go for the small ego boost of seeing that you are willing to text back rather than going "all in" by actually meeting up and trying to start something.
Some men ask WYD to make sure you’re not going to be where they are...it’s like a tracking device. (ie: If, you’re not going to be at the party). Cool now He knows what he intends to get into at, said party.
I realize that Tamera's outfit looks like an similar outfit that Adrienne had a couple seasons ago. And both wear that type of outfit very nicely. Chic and classy never goes out of style, keep killing it ladies!
Hold the hell on... I love my Jeannie Beans but let’s not do double standards here 😂 girls whenever they bored or want something or a lil summin summin they’ll ABSOLUTELY text like : wyd too !!! Ladies am i lying ? This is the Real so let’s be REAL
Myronn Coleman I don’t think she has a problem with the “wyd”...it’s the apathetic response of “cool” after she response...like the guys don’t try to make conversation
I swear now since it's 2019 I am sick of that "WYD" text 😒 that stuff is so irritating! It's like what is your motive. If it's someone new then yea that is a good convo starter but if it's someone you been talking to and trying to meet or rekindle something with, and he hits you with the "WYD" and then reply "Cool" then I PERSONALLY feel like they're just trying to waste my time and they just want temporary attention. They're not trying to go anywhere past the conversation. So, next time if they ask "Wyd" I'll just reply "Why" or just "nothing much, why what's up" just to see their motive behind the conversation.
I’m so happy I’m not single anymore. I was so sick of this BS. Guys who aren’t ready to commit to effort, then don’t try to date. Wasting people’s time and energy.
Ok. With me, I can't stand when people ask "wyd" especially if they call me and that's the first thing they say when I answer. I feel like asking me that is a way of wanting to be nosy and get in my business. I always hit them with "Why"? Or "I'm minding my business, hbu"? I would rather hear "how was your day" or "are you busy at the moment"
"Wyd" is so annoying. There was one guy friend of mine who would text "wyd" literally 5+ times in a conversation and had nothing else to say. I even told him how much it annoys me and would rather have a meaningful conversation. Nothing changed. I completely cut him off.
A lot of people suggest coffee or cocktail as a little warm up to see how things go and then invite you to dinner afterwards. It's not a bad idea to start off small when it comes to online dating.
It definitely depends on the time of day. During the day “wyd” can start a conversation. If it’s 3 in the morning and they ask “wyd” they don’t really wanna know what you’re doing
I HATE it when someone just texts me or asks me "wyd?". It feels like they are checking up on me or trying to keep tabs on me. Like why do you need to know what I'm doing? I always need a reason as to why someone is asking me "wyd?" like "wyd, I need to ask you a question".
I hate “wyd” texts. I have the opposite problem; I almost wish they wouldn’t follow up, because they’re not trying to take me out on a proper date, they’re trying to get me to go over their house. That’s a heck no! “Hey, Jozie, what’s up? I was wondering if you’d like to meet for coffee on Friday morning?” -That’s perfectly acceptable, as I don’t mind a coffee date at first. I like men with a little bit of imagination, who take the initiative to actually plan something.
See now this is odd, I would say ‘wyd’ ALL THE TIME. But I’m a conversational person so FOR ME, I’m trying to start a good convo! But i agree with jeannie if your just doing it to be NOSEY and thats all you wanted to know I’m like 🧐
I didn't even know what Wyd meant until Jeannie explained it so I guess if a guy sent me such a message, I would think he isn't articulate and since I'm not an expert in shorthand language, I'll 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Have to agree with Loni.... I also take that phrase as a greeting and the answer would be like "nothin' much... What's up with u? (But in my Jamaican patios of course)
Now days, 1st date Dinners is fishy for a man looking for a girl that is really interested in him. A 1st Coffee date is a intro conversation leading to a 2nd "dinner" date. There's a popular tread for women that go on dates just for the meal called, Foodie Calls.
I thought the "what are you up to" kind of text was to catch you talking to other guys. The guys I talked to that did that were very insecure about me potentially talking to someone else.
In Italy when a man says to a woman let's have a coffee,don't mean is just a coffee,infact Italian has the cutest way of asking a woman,and their women don't look at your pocket when going out with you,what ever that comes out there ok with it,because when they love they love for real
Dating these days feels like a lose lose situation. Guys be really good and set in their ways meanwhile we watch talk shows, have our girl talks, read books and magazines on finding true love, and talking to our therapists, out here doing the work! US LADIES are tired 😒
I'm glad I don't have to deal with dating these days. I do feel for people though, it sounds tricky meeting people. I'm sure people want to be direct but they have a guard up to avoid getting hurt. I get it.
I would like to say to Jeanne, When I call and ask whatcha doin', and you say oh I'm running some errands, my next question is would you like some company, (why? because I want to be with you, that is why I called, I don't care if it's just running errands). And YES, I am trying to insert myself into your plans , if possible, how else am I going to be with you now, because right now I'm feeling it and I'm free... Who knows we may find something else we like about each other. Getting to know someone is like peeling back the petals on a rosebud, you may just find something else to love.....
The middle of this video to me is the prefect example of women getting together and over thinking a text a dude sent to their girl lol. I totally get it though cause I hate it when guys do that too.
Or maybe she can ask them what they’re doing too, some ppl use it as a way to talk about themselves cause they have something they’d like to share . But also I think wyd is usually Supposed to start a conversation and give y’all sumn go talk about but they’re most likely just dry if “cool” is all they respond with
"wyd" means "I'm chilling (probably) thinking about you, and I wanna know what you doing" I like to be the one sending it from time to time too, to show the guy I'm also interested in what he could be doing.
See, this is why alot of guys play games. Analyzing too much! Why can't anyone just call and say, what are you doing? They aren't interrogating. They just called to call. Just to speak to you. You were on their mind and thinking about you.....just to shoot the breeze. My daughter will call and ask this question and we just start chatting with each other. I love this kind of comfort with anyone. They can just come by and visit. You can just come by and visit. You may call just to make sure they are home before you drive over. This is why I don't do relationships well, if any. I keep to myself alot. I absolutely hate games! If anyone plays games with me once, I'm done with you. It's such a waste of time. Just let each other be and enjoy. I'm married and when my husband tries this, I just move on emotionally. I told him, I didn't play games when I was dating. I'm sure not going to play games with my own husband. It's just stupid and a turn off for me. You'll see the back of my head. And no, he didn't do this while we were dating. This is another topic: Why do people pretend while they are dating and not let their true selves show? It would probably cut down on divorce.
Loni NOOOO! Dinner is too long for meeting someone you might dislike in person. I do the coffees because I can run if I don´t feel the person after 5 mins !!!
He can’t hold a conversation. I do that but it’s not intentional I just don’t know what to say but it’s also usually because she tells me what she is doing and that’s it without asking me the same on carrying on the conversation so I just don’t really know what else to say besides asking another question 🤷🏽♂️
I feel like wyd means they were sitting there &&' I randomly popped in their head &&' they wanted to know what I was doing at the moment. However, it all depends on the type of guy. 🤷🏿
i never bring a lady out for dinner on a first date if its from online dating far to many women looking to get a free meal from men. i also dont usually do coffee either to boring a nice walk in the park or along the beach something different than awkwardness sitting at the table. poor lady needs to find a man that will ask her out assertively i think she married now good on you girl
sometimes when a man/woman saying what you do,of course from a beloved one, is to hear,I'm doing that but missing you..or thinking about you or us or the shared experience...sth that shows although we are doing different things or we are in different places,we are still doing sth lovely or sharing mutual emotional ...it's just like in the older days where tel/net communications weren't a thing..two lovers would use looking at moon as sth sooting and lovely.... of course not everyone is like that or sees these as romantic or cliche or ... but people in relationship should think about making many thing romantic in their mind at least,to strengthen their bonds and enjoy it further.
The phrase "wyd" no longer means they want to hangout anymore. Now they just being nosey. If they really want to hangout they'll actually ask. If not, then they don't but stop letting them waste your time while you're assuming& into conclusions. Just move on to who does make time for U
“Wyd”. Means I’m bored, probably laying across my bed, just seeing what you up too.
“Wyd + tonight/this weekend”. Means I’m about to invite you somewhere
It make sense.
This! Haha
K Aaron *exactly lol jeannie was overthinking it* 😂
In the dating scene and this is exact.
Uhh yea 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t see “wyd” as an invitation to go out... I see it as a conversation starter. It’s kinda like a “what are you up to?” My issue is when they ask “wyd” 50 times a day. But this conversation just goes to show that people communicate differently & it’s important to know that when dating!
Nicole. Usually if they say “wyd” multiple times throughout the day it either means
They’re bored but they wanna keep talking to you ( either for a hookup or actually trying to get to know you. Usually it’s a short link up tho tbh)
They’re bored all together
Or they just want a notification of some type of human communication in their phone ( to help them seem like they got it going on)
But yes definitely a conversation starter or something to keep the conversation flowing but that don’t mean he into you tho
Exactly!!! They will do it too until you ask them out yourself lmao! Dudes want to be courted these days. 🤦🏾♀️
Someone who says "cool" after you tell them what you're doing is not trying to start a conversation.
FilMAD Camp Well they’re obviously not trying to make plans either. 🤷🏾♀️
@@indigos0ul that's not their job. If you hit someone up to start a conversation, then the intent lies with you not them. You should have more to offer them in response than "cool".
On another note, Adrienne looks AMAAAAAAZINGGGGGG!!!!
Disagree with Loni.
If we meet online... being asked for coffee means let’s meet in person at a public, safe place, to see if there’s chemistry and physical attraction.
An actual “date” comes after the coffee meet.
Exactly. I dated online and I met every guy in a public n open space n if I liked them,dinner came afterwards
Agree
I haven't even dated before and even I knew this.
do not feed women on a first date.
K Aaron agreed
If a wyd comes at me after 9pm, you’re getting left on read 🤷♀️
Wyd?😂😂
I’m worth a full sentence. Don’t hit me with “wyd?” 🙄
Haaaatttteeee
Keep telling yourself that.
@@AV-wn7xz this is y u single
Valerie it’s how dudes talk, I’m a girl and that’s how I talk so 🤷🏽♀️ stay single ig
OK then how about.. What are you doing 🤣🤣is that better
Omg! Jeannie I’m so w/ you. I don’t mind “wyd” but after I respond the conversation dead or “wyd” me to death asking me every 2-3 hrs. 🤦🏾♀️
Lydia Renee from a guys point of view it's usually because we wanna hangout with you but we either don't have a car or we broke asf 😂
Lydia Renee my response is always, “why what’s up?”
Imani Gordon 😂😂😂😂
They be asking that question like every 5 mins and ion even think they realize that they just asked the question and I gave them a answer 💀🤦♀️.
PRINCESS K right lol.
Asking “wyd” every two seconds let’s me know that you clearly can’t hold a conversation 🤦🏽♀️
Key definitely
YES. THIS.
I’d rather a guy just ask me when I’m available to do something rather than continuously asking me wyd 🙄
“wyd” with no followup means he was texting a bunch of girls to see who was available soon for a booty call. If he doesnt follow up that means another girl he prefers responded.
Quick-Sword Ilena THANK YOU.
I was like why HAS NO ONE mentioned that yet!
Wow, they were right when they said women think differently.
At times, when a man ask wyd? He just wants to have a conversation about what you are doing. He wants to know how your day is going basically.
Men don't play about this; If he wants to involve you in some plans, he'll let you know up front without beating around the bush.
Well, maybe we've got to listen more to women and look for other ways to converse about what they are actually doing. 😀
Some guy do text wyd all day and everyday. After two weeks I stopped responding.
I dont think women have a problem with a man texting "wyd" but some men use it as their only conversation starter, and dont fall through with no action. I've had guy friends text me "wyd" (..well.. they dont hit me up like that first, but they usually say hey, how are you) but they actually care to talk about my day and build a conversation. No woman wants a man to text wyd, and have a dull convo and then stop texting. And do the same thing the next day.
@@xtelfolaj well said! I never comprehend why someone would text wyd and responded. Then they'll either ghost and try it the same thing the next day or next week really smh
Lol i think its a millennial thing and Jeannie being married for 10 yrs is late to the party
I think a great way of doing that would be "I was thinking about you, what are you up to", or if they arent busy CALL, there are billion ways to have a conversation that dont involve those three letters. But I digress, Im sure ppl are just too lazy or socially limited to put in any real substance
coffee first date because its less pressure, and you can dip easier if the guys weirdo. otherwise your stuck having dinner with someone you dont connect with.
The fat one has to have food though
Oh my God I'm so with Jeanne on this I'm a single woman and man totally do that baiting of WYD? And then leave you hanging for hours if not days. In my world now I just ignore those men because at the end of the day they only want attention, they don't actually want you. Lessons Learned! And I'm totally happy this topic was brought up because it's totally real
GIRL SAME! I and my ex were trying to rekindle, and he would text me "WYD," and I would reply what I was doing and all he would say is "Cool," and that was it! Never "hey wanna hang out " or talk about the issues we were having to fix the relationship!
”It seems like you really wanna hang out, but I need you to be assertive” brilliant! Thank you Jeannie 💙💙💙
I love it when Adrienne turns it down a bit. She's gorgeous no matter what but just a pretty t-shirt, I love it!
now this was a cute fun conversation. we're tired of hearing about politics and what ariahs doing in school we want THIS. thank god someone single on the panel again
Wyd is different.
Them: wyd?
Me: you. Pick me up.
Simple.
Oooh you feisty girl lmao
Joyce Graham 😂😜
If only more women thought like this.
I swear Loni is the dude on the panel lol she be looking like “what’s the big deal 🤷🏾♀️"
I think like Lonni. I think as we get older we understand men lingo better.
Its refreshing to know I'm not the only one going through that wit these dudes 🙄🤦🏾♀️
Just answer with a random abbreviation back😂 Trust me my boyfriend stopped doing the „wyd“ real fast when getting a „atdtl“ as an answer😂 (about to do the laundry)
I’m so glad that the dating experience was not like this for me at all. My husband called me the very next day after we first met and directly asked me out on a proper date. There was no vague “wyd”....matter of fact, there was no texting at all. We talked on the phone and went out on dates just about every weekend.
If man speak and think correct God will put the man in the correct relationship.
You gotta ask the guy “why”
💀💀
Loni be talking about her own topic sometimes lmaooo
Idk man, I'm a coffee girl. I love coffee dates. Not sure about a first date, me and my husbands first date was a jazz concert at variety playhouse in ATL and required lashes and heels and we always have really nice dates like that, but I also lovvvve my coffee dates, breakfast house dates, picnics. The cheap low-key stuff always feels more intimate to me.
Gurl that makes the two of us, i love coffee dates! I swear one of the reasons why I’m single, people don’t do that no more! And WYD bullshit i hate it i swear and people with their shallow conversation 😤
I like the way Adrienne brings dramatic perspectives into discussions.
OMG! Adrienne! I raise my hand to interrupt, too!
I dislike those people that ask you if your free and make plans on how we should hang out like going to the park or something but never goes through with the plan like ugh 😑
That’s true I hate when guys ask you how are you and your family or wyd and you tell them and either don’t say or anything or be like ok
Lonni’s outfit is a jumpsuit from forever 21 that I live for and bought and it’s amazing, I Stan an XII cutie🙌🏽🙌🏽
I agree with Jeanie. I can't deal with men who "wyd" to death
Loni understand the power of letting go. Jeannie reading too deep. If he playing, see it and dip. He playing if he texting you like that. Loni said it best. Keep it moving
Jeannie comin w the G'd up response...that was clutch ! ima use that ,...see who playin games real quick LOL!
There is nothing wrong with "Wyd." It can be a conversation starter to know your interests and activities throughout the day.
The problem comes when you're dating and the person never plans to meet up in person. It becomes a dry, boring text conversation and a waste of your time. I think we all know what Jeanie was talking about.
There are guys that will "Wyd" you to death and never ask you out. They just want a text buddy when they're bored.
A FEMALE text buddy. Seems like they're afraid of getting rejected, so they go for the small ego boost of seeing that you are willing to text back rather than going "all in" by actually meeting up and trying to start something.
@@vlo4829 Yes exactly.
Some men ask WYD to make sure you’re not going to be where they are...it’s like a tracking device. (ie: If, you’re not going to be at the party). Cool now He knows what he intends to get into at, said party.
Beauty and The Bible lol interesting
I hate when they do that... 💥 I just started ignoring it, and wait for them to ask something else
I realize that Tamera's outfit looks like an similar outfit that Adrienne had a couple seasons ago. And both wear that type of outfit very nicely. Chic and classy never goes out of style, keep killing it ladies!
Haha , I can totally relate , seems like your caught up with the young guys , too many boys not enough men. I feel you girl 😭
*jeanne..girl are u dating 17-year-old boyss??!*
Thank you somebody said it like "wyd" is such a teenage line
😭😭😭 had to be someone in their 20s talm bout some “coo”
Hold the hell on... I love my Jeannie Beans but let’s not do double standards here 😂 girls whenever they bored or want something or a lil summin summin they’ll ABSOLUTELY text like : wyd too !!! Ladies am i lying ? This is the Real so let’s be REAL
Myronn Coleman I don’t think she has a problem with the “wyd”...it’s the apathetic response of “cool” after she response...like the guys don’t try to make conversation
Like a conversation about what though it's seems like guys always have to initiate something 😂
I say "hey" lol
I like what Loni said, about testing the standard. I actually thought I had an issue. Now I am comfortable
I swear now since it's 2019 I am sick of that "WYD" text 😒 that stuff is so irritating! It's like what is your motive. If it's someone new then yea that is a good convo starter but if it's someone you been talking to and trying to meet or rekindle something with, and he hits you with the "WYD" and then reply "Cool" then I PERSONALLY feel like they're just trying to waste my time and they just want temporary attention. They're not trying to go anywhere past the conversation. So, next time if they ask "Wyd" I'll just reply "Why" or just "nothing much, why what's up" just to see their motive behind the conversation.
Long story short "wyd" is such a teenage line. Definitely 100% agree with Loni when she said to her "wyd" is basically like a greeting
I’m so happy I’m not single anymore. I was so sick of this BS. Guys who aren’t ready to commit to effort, then don’t try to date. Wasting people’s time and energy.
"He's wack" 🤣🤣 I love how Adrienne talks
Ok. With me, I can't stand when people ask "wyd" especially if they call me and that's the first thing they say when I answer. I feel like asking me that is a way of wanting to be nosy and get in my business. I always hit them with "Why"? Or "I'm minding my business, hbu"? I would rather hear "how was your day" or "are you busy at the moment"
Jeannie was so cute when she said "so good" and flipped her hair back!! 😂😂
This is why they need guys on the panel to get a different perspective. They frequently talk about men so let’s get these perspectives out there.
I’m super guilty of the if you want to. I get nervous showing too much interest because I think people will see it and run.
Tam’s whole entire look though!🙌🏽 All the ladies look wonderful though!
"Wyd" is so annoying. There was one guy friend of mine who would text "wyd" literally 5+ times in a conversation and had nothing else to say. I even told him how much it annoys me and would rather have a meaningful conversation. Nothing changed. I completely cut him off.
A lot of people suggest coffee or cocktail as a little warm up to see how things go and then invite you to dinner afterwards. It's not a bad idea to start off small when it comes to online dating.
Yes!! I Hate when guys type wyd! its the worse. the problem is that it doesn't lead anywhere.
It definitely depends on the time of day. During the day “wyd” can start a conversation. If it’s 3 in the morning and they ask “wyd” they don’t really wanna know what you’re doing
I HATE it when someone just texts me or asks me "wyd?". It feels like they are checking up on me or trying to keep tabs on me. Like why do you need to know what I'm doing? I always need a reason as to why someone is asking me "wyd?" like "wyd, I need to ask you a question".
I hate “wyd” texts. I have the opposite problem; I almost wish they wouldn’t follow up, because they’re not trying to take me out on a proper date, they’re trying to get me to go over their house. That’s a heck no! “Hey, Jozie, what’s up? I was wondering if you’d like to meet for coffee on Friday morning?” -That’s perfectly acceptable, as I don’t mind a coffee date at first. I like men with a little bit of imagination, who take the initiative to actually plan something.
Needed to hear this one ladies thanks Jeanie.
Adrienne the vegan life is treating you well, you look GOOOOOOODD 😊😘
If a guy even wrote WYD like this I would just bin him.
Loni don't give excuses. There's way more that a man, and people in general, can say than just "wyd". Have an actual CONVERSATION.
See now this is odd, I would say ‘wyd’ ALL THE TIME. But I’m a conversational person so FOR ME, I’m trying to start a good convo! But i agree with jeannie if your just doing it to be NOSEY and thats all you wanted to know I’m like 🧐
That’s cuz Loni is from the D where we say “What up doe?” as a greeting lol
Facts cause wyd doesn’t bother me. I’m from Detroit too
Same thing in Chicago
Loni dates exactly like me BTW! I take time to actually meet them in person
I didn't even know what Wyd meant until Jeannie explained it so I guess if a guy sent me such a message, I would think he isn't articulate and since I'm not an expert in shorthand language, I'll 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Have to agree with Loni.... I also take that phrase as a greeting and the answer would be like "nothin' much... What's up with u? (But in my Jamaican patios of course)
Person: WYD
Me: Chillin just ordered takeout.
Person: ...............
Me: *Blocked Person.
An easier question would be " you busy? " wyd and no text back means they bored.
Now days, 1st date Dinners is fishy for a man looking for a girl that is really interested in him. A 1st Coffee date is a intro conversation leading to a 2nd "dinner" date. There's a popular tread for women that go on dates just for the meal called, Foodie Calls.
When I send girl a WYD, it means I wanna know if you’re busy or not so we can do something. I’m all about making moves.
I thought the "what are you up to" kind of text was to catch you talking to other guys. The guys I talked to that did that were very insecure about me potentially talking to someone else.
What's wrong with coffee
Just gotta make sure u worth that dinner bill
The simple answer is the only answer man will give.
Loni is the best love her answer
I need a Jeannie and Loni guide to dating book. I need to be more like them
In Italy when a man says to a woman let's have a coffee,don't mean is just a coffee,infact Italian has the cutest way of asking a woman,and their women don't look at your pocket when going out with you,what ever that comes out there ok with it,because when they love they love for real
Lol Adrienne tryna be Tamar with putting the hand up thing and pointing to her hand😂😂
Dating these days feels like a lose lose situation. Guys be really good and set in their ways meanwhile we watch talk shows, have our girl talks, read books and magazines on finding true love, and talking to our therapists, out here doing the work! US LADIES are tired 😒
I'm glad I don't have to deal with dating these days. I do feel for people though, it sounds tricky meeting people. I'm sure people want to be direct but they have a guard up to avoid getting hurt. I get it.
I would like to say to Jeanne, When I call and ask whatcha doin', and you say oh I'm running some errands, my next question is would you like some company, (why? because I want to be with you, that is why I called, I don't care if it's just running errands). And YES, I am trying to insert myself into your plans , if possible, how else am I going to be with you now, because right now I'm feeling it and I'm free... Who knows we may find something else we like about each other. Getting to know someone is like peeling back the petals on a rosebud, you may just find something else to love.....
The middle of this video to me is the prefect example of women getting together and over thinking a text a dude sent to their girl lol. I totally get it though cause I hate it when guys do that too.
99.9% of these men ask Wyd because they’re bored and you replying validates them. Tamera is right it just feeds their ego. Dating is so exhausting
Or maybe she can ask them what they’re doing too, some ppl use it as a way to talk about themselves cause they have something they’d like to share . But also I think wyd is usually
Supposed to start a conversation and give y’all sumn go talk about but they’re most likely just dry if “cool” is all they respond with
Hate when they say that 💀💀💀
"wyd" means "I'm chilling (probably) thinking about you, and I wanna know what you doing"
I like to be the one sending it from time to time too, to show the guy I'm also interested in what he could be doing.
Adrienne answer for wyd is me when answering people. 😂😂
See, this is why alot of guys play games. Analyzing too much! Why can't anyone just call and say, what are you doing? They aren't interrogating. They just called to call. Just to speak to you. You were on their mind and thinking about you.....just to shoot the breeze. My daughter will call and ask this question and we just start chatting with each other. I love this kind of comfort with anyone. They can just come by and visit. You can just come by and visit. You may call just to make sure they are home before you drive over. This is why I don't do relationships well, if any. I keep to myself alot. I absolutely hate games! If anyone plays games with me once, I'm done with you. It's such a waste of time. Just let each other be and enjoy. I'm married and when my husband tries this, I just move on emotionally. I told him, I didn't play games when I was dating. I'm sure not going to play games with my own husband. It's just stupid and a turn off for me. You'll see the back of my head. And no, he didn't do this while we were dating. This is another topic: Why do people pretend while they are dating and not let their true selves show? It would probably cut down on divorce.
Loni gives great dating advice. Real talk. The others over think things.
Jeannie like o damn “I was talking about jeezy” I can’t let him go! Lol 😆
I can relate to Jeannie cause I had that happen to me this week so if he moved on I’m moving too 😂🤷🏻♀️
They actin like women don’t play games 😂😂😂
Loni NOOOO! Dinner is too long for meeting someone you might dislike in person. I do the coffees because I can run if I don´t feel the person after 5 mins !!!
He can’t hold a conversation. I do that but it’s not intentional I just don’t know what to say but it’s also usually because she tells me what she is doing and that’s it without asking me the same on carrying on the conversation so I just don’t really know what else to say besides asking another question 🤷🏽♂️
I feel like wyd means they were sitting there &&' I randomly popped in their head &&' they wanted to know what I was doing at the moment. However, it all depends on the type of guy. 🤷🏿
The number 1 thing women want men to stop saying is definitely gonna be "calm down/relax" 😂😂😂
i never bring a lady out for dinner on a first date if its from online dating far to many women looking to get a free meal from men. i also dont usually do coffee either to boring a nice walk in the park or along the beach something different than awkwardness sitting at the table.
poor lady needs to find a man that will ask her out assertively i think she married now good on you girl
Nooooo Lonnie. I hate that wyd bs
No ladies if a guy text you wyd means two things. Either he is bored doing nothing and want to talk or he is bored doing something and want to talk.
I wish I could go on this so one day lol. They talk about a lot of things I have experienced lol.
W.Y.D means do you have plans or are you busy. And if the woman is busy well we say "Cool" so don't appear needy
sometimes when a man/woman saying what you do,of course from a beloved one, is to hear,I'm doing that but missing you..or thinking about you or us or the shared experience...sth that shows although we are doing different things or we are in different places,we are still doing sth lovely or sharing mutual emotional ...it's just like in the older days where tel/net communications weren't a thing..two lovers would use looking at moon as sth sooting and lovely....
of course not everyone is like that or sees these as romantic or cliche or ... but people in relationship should think about making many thing romantic in their mind at least,to strengthen their bonds and enjoy it further.
The phrase "wyd" no longer means they want to hangout anymore. Now they just being nosey. If they really want to hangout they'll actually ask. If not, then they don't but stop letting them waste your time while you're assuming& into conclusions. Just move on to who does make time for U