I LIVE NEXT TO A PSYCHOPATH! (with footage) not clickbait // Story time
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“Try not to run into him...” , so now you have to tiptoe around your building, great. 😡
I've been told this too,it's really unfair.
it meant not to talk to him or contact him instead they should call the cops
I havent finished the video...but didn't he just kick a door at 3:30am...he was definitely drunk...it's not enough to call the police to act
hope the situation works out quickly for the best and he ends up leaving on his own accord or gets kicked out. the worst feeling is that you are unsafe in your own home
Yes that's true
exactly
Same
Isn't there nobody responsible for managing the building? Stay safe, Rachel
@Manisha Sinhababu Im glad things worked out for you. But yeah, I agree! Im sure that other people on her building must be bothered by the noise as well.
That’s what I thought. This is an easy problem to be solved. Rachel is being over dramatic.
@@nandinhalds oh no, i dont think she's being over dramatic at all. he kicked their door, that was basically a threat! thats a dangerous situation and i think the person or company responsible for managing the building should def do something.
@Manisha Sinhababu Yes, I agree with this comment. Other neighbours are also probably aggravated by this neighbour, it may be better to co-ordinate responses and look out for each other. Also keep a log of incidents and report it to the building manager. No landlord wants problematic tenenants. Unfortunately it takes time to fix.
Yes
Hey Rachel, is it illegal to host parties right now in South Korea because of Covid? Because if it is, then the next time the psycho hosts one, maybe you could call the police on the grounds that he is actually breaking the law. Then they can arrest him and his mates for having a party and maybe they could investigate him and help you like that?
Its not illegal per se to hold parties in S Korea rn due to Covid - it's just that the number of ppl allowed inside at a time is limited to 5? i think or 10..? So unless they invited more than that they technically didnt break the law.. n she probably doesnt have a way to tell exactly how many ppl r in his apartment in any given moment.. :/
@@davidp1017 really? Wow... Here in.germay you're allowed to have 1 visitor. And They have to be home at 9pm
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda don't force others to follow your religion.
@@KuraikoLee yeah.. S Korea also had a curfew at 9 pm but they just allowed certain establishments to be opened one extra hour because the numbers for new cases and deaths have decreased but of course, there are still a good number of restrictions put in place despite the relaxed curfew restriction
Hopefully we all get through this pandemic safely and i pray for all those who lost their loved ones due to this fucking virus 😭🙏🏻😡
Damn. No next time. She needs to move out.
I’m sorry for this stressful situation 😔. That police response was so frustrating to hear. Wish you didn’t have to deal with this situation or that person. You should always feel safe in your home. Wish I could do more to help and be there for you, and you’re doing what you need to do to be safe.
I completely agree with you Joey. I wish there was more we could do. My daughter is in the same age range as Rachel and if anyone ever gave her crap they'd have to deal with me. Maybe we should "adopt" Rachel just for this occasion.
When this covid settles down and we can travel again I do want to go to Korea. I'd be more than happy to talk to your neighbor.
For now, please stay safe Rachel and Claire.
it's just neighbours arguing 1vs1 so far
if he is doing parties so often,why doesn't other neighbours react?
rachel's word versus that guy's word,police can only give a fine for disturbing public order to that guy if he makes noises after 22:00
until other neighbours don't complain,it gonna take a long time to resolve the issue
in my block we had a criminal and gang member who always partied only late at night,people from entire neighbourhood called police and police just warned him
my country is very corupt cause that criminal even worked for city hall despite being an ex-convict,his boss was also working at city hall as guidance conselor also an ex-convict
mayor was at their feet kissing them
the boss had an arrest on his head,the police waited for him to dress,to eat....if he was a normal person then police would take you with force but here police are friends with criminals,politicians also
i don't know how much korea is corupt but living at house it's always better than block/apartment
also big cities are so overated,small cities less people and if you don't everybody there will be neighbours who kinda knows everybody
@@matttrenkamp-grinevic8486 good on you!
she: (speechless)
me: (spechless)
this pshyo dude : pArTy PaRtY yEaHhH
Army !????
@@btsbts4496 yeah😏😂😂
Jungkook stanned?🙂
@@swarali_ no but he is my bias wrecker
@@idc1415 mine too
My first apartment was above a deranged person. He even attacked one of the neighbors. I wouldn't leave my apartment if I saw him outside. After two years he got evicted. I hope you don't have to wait that long.
he clearly look down on you because you took his shit from the beginning, I had the same situation before, this creep would have parties in the middle of the night when he just moves in next door,after the second time I was so done, I called my brother who lives in another city , he had a NICE TALK with him,that dude never had a party again
"its 3am when everyone supposed to be in deep deep sleep"
*✨totally not me vibing to songs at 3am✨*
Relatable af🙌👸
Same but I use headphones
Bruh That's exactly what I'm doing rn
@@naurinvahid4190 have a good time shaking yo ass army😜🙌
@@naurinvahid4190 lmaooo
With the police saying “we won’t do nothing unless he does something first” they mean “we won’t do nothing until you are found dead” typical police. I love true crime and listen/read about it everyday and that is always the case. Please be careful and take precautions.
Also keep reporting him, keep calling the police so if something happens it will be blamed on the police and they will be dragged through the mud. If you can get a mace, a bat everything you can so you can be able to grab it quickly but that they won’t be able to find it if they come in. Also get a male friend or family to live there so you be able to feel safer. PLEASE BE CAREFUL
i mean she doesn't have a cctv camera so there isnt much proof
@jancsi 1 police forces everywhere are known for taking steps too late, most times where the victim ends up dead :/ you see it often with stalking cases or with domestic cases
I live in an apartment here in Canada and I've lived through this situation and the polive do the same sort of thing. The only one who can do anything here is call the landlord and if they get too many complaints against them they will get evicted so maybe contact your landlord
Edit* I was trying to say call both police and landlord
My thoughts exactly, the landlord/ building management should be able to actually do something about this. And he's damaging property on camera on top of all of this. I hope this gets resolved soon!
When seconds count, the police will be there in minutes, the landlord in days!
@@brettwheeler7753 the police don’t take minutes to arrive most of the time. and if she lives in a high rise apartment building the management usually lives in the building too
@@brettwheeler7753 I never said call the landlord right then. I said contact the landlord.
@@lemr88 I think she should contact the landlord as well. And the fact that she has actual proof of what he’s doing should help. Maybe she isn’t the only neighbor collecting proof as well!
PLOT TWIST: Rachel's Psycho is actually Jina's stalker as well!
😂😂
That would impressive improvement in his Korean!
🤪🤪 That's the first thing that came to my mind!!!! 😅😅
I dated a sociopath, no bueno!
I was thoughting same😂
"What kind of lunatic plays guitar till 3 in the morning?!" Ouch. Guilty of doing this before. Serious note, be safe!
Yup... I did this too.. but softly and don't sing along. I will not be doing that anymore. Don't want my neighbours to think I'm a psychopath.... I'm just an insomniac music addict.
@@squ34ky Yep.
It’s fine to play guitar at 3am in your house not if your in an apartment tho
@@valeschuuil7193 Pretty much. I'm in a house.
It's not that I don't understand people being in love with their music. But if you're living in an apartment with thin walls, you're just being inconsiderate and selfish. If you live in a house, this doesn't even apply to you. No need to say "Ouch" and make me feel bad
For what it's worth, I think every woman anywhere has had an experience where she realizes she is smaller than the man she's dealing with. I had one recently, and it was really off-putting. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and I'm so sorry that women as a whole have to feel this way, but the silver-lining is there's solidarity. Be safe, girl!
There must be neighbors who are living right next from both sides or right in front from his apartment. Ask them if they get bothered from him as well. Maybe you all can work together and complain to him like in official way you know. Hope this will not go too far, as an adult he should understand. Wish you to stay strong, don’t be afraid 🙌🏻✊🏻👊🏿
Hey, aren't their terms and conditions in your building that he violated by his actions? At any rate, it's good to report it to management. Having tenants like that is very bad for business. Spread the word, never keep quiet, and insist, not ask, that management do something about this. You are entitled to enjoying your apartment without this harassment. Perhaps consult with a lawyer. It's that serious from what you say! Never give up and don't comprise on what you need and want! I know it's easy to say these things, but you have the right to take these actions. I wish you the best!
I love how she keeps calling him a psychopath 😌✨
😂😂 Rachel be like you psychopath!!
You got me feeling like psycho ~ 😂😂😂
Can u tell me wat psycho or psychology or psychologist or psychopath is?
@@kingtaeminemsglasses It's like a crazy person who kills and murders people
@@tokyoinaprod.9784 ooooh
@@tokyoinaprod.9784 no what-
never think ur over reacting or being dramatic or a coward in such situations, u were literally so strong and brave and amazing, and i really hope that never happens again, love you!!
Those are the thinnest walls ever, you could literally hear your neighbor fart if it was quiet enough.
SORRY IM LAUGHING BUT WHEN U SAID FART BAHAHAHA
@@nicolee8725 Same!!!!!!!!!😆😆🤣🤣😂😂😅😅
Wtf 😂😂😂
i had a crazy neighbor like this and the building management wouldn’t do anything. it was so similar to your situation with the noise issues. i finally just had to move out early and lose money bc i no longer felt safe there. please carry a self defense tool and keep yourselves as safe as possible. it’s not fair what women have to go through. these guys would never harass other men like this and we know it.
Stay Safe.
Do you have a building manager you can contact to complain to?
It's like a Townhouse apartment, so there is no manager living in this apartment 😭
No wayy but is there like a main owner that lives in that apartment, not manager
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda Don't Force people stop.
@@tokyoinaprod.9784 report it for spam
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda wtf is wrong with you
Does your building, or local government, have noise regulations? Contact the landlord and council to find out, they may be able to do something about his anti-social behaviour.
Sorry to hear this, Rachel. A peaceful home is very important. Stay safe, dear.
It sounds like the beginning scenes of a vigilante movie. Narrator's voice - "It all started when he tried to threatened two seemingly helpless neighbors in their home. Little did the man upstairs know what he was getting into..." Cut to scene of Rachel kicking down HIS door.
Rachel says that she wishes she could deal with the problem like a guy, brings to mind the image of a hulking "Rachel" threatening him to keep it down. I wonder if there are any building tenant agreements that would show that he is breaking some building rule. It seems doubtful that the building would let anyone do what they want once they moved in (granted, the building management usually don't want to be bothered with these types of problems). Also, I wonder if any other people in the building are upset with the late, loud sounds.
We love you Rachel. I love the pink hair even more as the color slowly changes ("Ash Pink" is one my favorites). Stay safe.
edit: Another relatively cheap thing you can do is to add an additional, beefier lock to your front door. It would be mostly for the sake of your mental wellbeing, because it is unlikely he would actually be able to get in with even a normal lock.
edit2: I just read in the comments that it is a townhouse layout, with no real building management. Hmm, I guess we have to go with Plan B and Rachel with have to become the vigilante...
Wow that's so scary I'm sorry that's happening to you and your sister. I was so frustrated hearing how passive the police are about the noise disturbance and threat. He kicked the door that should be enough to consider it as a threat. I live in an apartment as well luckily it's more of a family friendly complex so I dont run into people like that. Hopefully he moves out because your other neighbors are bothered by his action. Idk if this will help but if you guys have a building manager to talk to and if you have more neighbors who agree with you ladies that he's being to disruptive they could kick him out . Strength in numbers is what I always say. Good luck Rachel 🙏🏽💕
Are you the only one who hears the noise? If not, coordinate with other´s in the house and act as a group.
If you become quiet and let him do his thing it will only get worse.
Fight back, but keep it safe!
Maybe a little counterharrasment.
Hit the wall for an hour,
train your skills with a hammerdrill early in the morning,
you have doorbells downstairs? give him a wakeup ring when you leave the house early,
maybe block it in a pressed state.
But don´t become a fanatic ^_°
I’m sorry but counter harassment is not great advice. If Rachel wants help from some sort of authority (whether that be the police or an owner of the building) she needs to be absolutely sure that she can not be accused of being part of the problem - what if he or others start to complain about Rachel making a lot of noise? She needs to “stay in her lane”, document the harassment/anti-social behaviour (call the police, video and audio record whenever possible etc.) and talk to the other neighbours (like you suggested) who might want to be a part of a joined complaint. Plus if this person has an untreated mental illness or is on drugs he might be straight up dangerous to harass
This sounds like a guys writing. For most women doing this is a bad idea. If he wants to hurt her she will probably not stand a chance at least considering what she said in the video. If he is really a psycho counter harassment can be dangerous. Working on getting him kicked out is a better option.
Maybe hire a tough guy who will go upstairs as your brother or uncle and have a talk...
I doubt that's helpful advice. Backing down is not the right way, but confrontation or playing "I do you as you do me" will end in a bad situation for Rachel, especially if that person isn't a stalker or psycho after all. If he is a stalker, that kind of attention will convince him that she is interested in him. Rejection is a form of attention that some people misunderstand as affection in disguise. It also would create new situations for him to get closer to her or spot weaknesses. She did the right thing so far, but with exaggerated expectations. The police can't detain him or remove him from that apartment for what he did so far. Finding support with neighbours could help. Also enforcing the house rules for tenants via the landlord. That's the best option to get that person acknowledge the rules of social interaction or get removed from his apartment. I would mention the door kicking, landlords do care more about their property than the personal situation of their tenants.
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda No. Stop spamming.
✨ Report report report ✨
Girl order safety keychains, most of them have tasers, alarms, portable door locks and discreet, secret knives in keys and bracelets. Stay safe please🥺🥺
This incident really scares me . The fact that the police warned Rachel to not run into the psycho rather than strongly telling the man to leave the girls alone proves how our society is shaped into always blaming the girls for a man's wrongdoing. If a girl gets harassed by someone while coming back from work late at night , no one will tell the criminal to behave himself , rather they will tell the girl to start coming early from work just to stay safe. In our country girls are literally eve teased on the streets ! When this happens everyone tells the girls to not wear short skirts or revealing clothes (or to not even go outside anymore) . But no one tells the convict to actually respect girls . But the truth is girls get eve teased by bad guys no matter what they wear. Why else do you think that girls get "dress code" in schools . Its because the boys will get 'distracted' if girls show too much skin. The sad part is that no one is willing to educate a boy on how to respect girls . Anyways sorry for such a long comment.
And I hope Rachel stays safe .
“He isn’t a normal citizen” glad you’re having cameras installed, they are a deterrent. Stay safe Rachel and much smaller sister 😊
With all that disturbance, why is he not getting evicted??
Aw, I feel so sad for you Rachel. All the best and I hope the psycho stops bothering you and your sister soon! Stay safe Rachel, X. 💕
Rachel I think its dangerous to tell the whole world that you live alone with a girl, u should ask a relative to move in or lie that you live with a man
Hi
Army?
But they don’t know her address right?
Yeah not everything needs to be broadcast
@@silparao2310 fuck its not even related keep bts things away from this
What a creep.... Please take care of your self and be safe. By the way does he knows that you are a RUclipsr. And does other people in the apartment are not noticing what kind of a person he is, you should definitely ask them to help you too..
That's just my advice pls be safe.
Hope you have a magical day✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
in my apartment, in my opposite flat , a man keeps on playing heavy metal music on a loud speaker from 6 in the morning to 11 in the night , even when no one are there in the house ! there were even 6 month old babies living here !
all the uncles confronted him , he argued with them for a whole ass hour and later he started playing the music even louder !
now i am typing this comment while listening to some loud ass s**t !
Rachel surely has a tenant contract that states the owner, even if there is no management. Sending the owner evidence for that person damaging his/her property should trigger some reaction.
In germany we have a law called "Ruhestörung" you can sue him in germany when he is loud at 3am
Nach 23 Uhr...
@@angelic18 ich dachte immer nach 22 lol. But bis wie viel Uhr girlt das denn?
@@aminekarim4942 oder war es doch 22....
Ich bin mir nicht sicher aber ich glaub von 22/23 bis 7 Uhr oder so
@@angelic18 Ahh oki
Please stay safe and bring something with you at all times for protection , men like this never change and only get more and more violent😣
Plot twist: psychopath doesn't know English, so you're safe.
Wha- really?!
Rachel, I hope this bad situation gets resolved quickly. Please be safe. You’re an amazing person and I wish nothing but the best for you.
Apartments are some of the worst places to live and if you are in the middle then you have someone above you and below you harassing you in addition to random people throwing trash in your yard. Apts are full of witches
the police should have at least arrested him or threatened to arrest him, for one he's probably being a nuisance for everyone in the building and he has a higher chance of bringing covid into the building with all the parties and with the parties he's having and he should be fined for it (at least thats what they do in the UK) im sorry you have a prick of a neighbour
What do they arrest him for thought?
He needs to break a law in order for an arrest to be possible, talking to him was literally all they could do...
As one of the main issues is that he is laud maybe talking to the landlord would have any effect?
I hope everything will be OK soon, hopefully he is scared of the police and won't be loud and rude anymore
When I was a kid we had a neighbor that would kill our plants, break our sprinklers, block our driveway with his car (then have it moved by the time the police got there) etc. We never talked about him because we knew he listened in on our house by picking up our baby monitor frequency
I hope your staying safe and being careful. if he gets out of hand, call the police and don't be afraid to barricade the door.
"It's probably some machine a psychopath uses" 😂
@12:25 Wait, what?! If y'all need to stay away from him because it will create a dangerous situation then they, the Police, or the landlord needs to rectify the situation. If he's not receptive to working with his neighbors towards peaceful coexistence then something, i.e. him, needs to change or be removed.
I saw a report about a similar case, when the neighbor attacked a family, they called the police, but the policewoman fled from the location. It's very frightening when you couldn't trust the police.
As a woman, it's so frustrating to be told that you should change YOUR habits or lifestyle because of someone else's actions. But even here, in Canada, it's similar. The police often can't do anything unless there's a really clear, documented, verbal threat to your life or the person actually hurts you. It's so reactionary, and frustrating. Sorry you have to go through this. Maybe the landlord can evict him?
My neighbor, who is in a whole separate house next to our house, plays his music I kid you not, from around 8pm to 6am to sometimes even 10am! My boyfriend already went over there and asked him to turn it down. He said when he went to talk to the neighbor that he didn’t even hear much music, it was mostly just bass! His excuse (you thought yours was ridiculous with the laundry making loud noises 😅) was that his CAT MUST HAVE TURNED IT UP! WHAT!? So he did finally turn it down...for about a WEEK and then gradually started turning it up again!! This has been going on for about 6 months now, maybe longer. It’s ridiculous. I don’t want to have to involve the police, but I feel like being nice about it isn’t going to work. Our neighborhood noise ordinance is 11pm and the fact that it goes on for way longer than that is ridiculous. So I totally feel your pain. And our neighbor is a complete weirdo as well. I’m terrified to go over there by myself. And my boyfriend only says something for me because he can actually sleep through it. I’m a light sleeper and can’t handle it, so I feel like a burden even sending my boyfriend over there. Stay strong, girl. Idk if you guys have pepper spray over there, but definitely get yourself some protection just in case! 💗
I feel you. Was in a similar situation once. Me in my boyfriend got into many fights over it, because he would say I should just ignore it. But I couldn't sleep and I couldn't concentrate. My boyfriend would do most of his work with headphones on and just ignore the noice. He could also just sleep through the noice. I couldn't. Luckily we have a long distance relationship, so after some weeks of staying over at his appartment at holidays, I could finally go back home into my quiet, peaceful appartment. I don't know, if I could've handled it any longer, if I didn't have my own appartment to recharge. After like two years of noice, the neighbours then finally stopped, I think they just moved away. I can now finally think about moving in with my boyfriend again and we aren't fighting so much anymore. I hope it gets better for you as well. Wish you all the strength in this world and please don't think your needs are any less important than others. Stay strong.
@@LilaTraumtaenzerin I feel so much better knowing I’m not the only one and that my feelings are valid! I thought I was just overreacting! 😅💗
Even the charmander is scared, he’s facing the wall 😂🤣
Mind boggling how "me too" works yet they acting like they can do nothing to a neighbor harassing you.
My cousin moved into an apartment complex by herself and this strange man and his friend kept following her, or behaving strangely. They would hover around her door, try to get in elevator with her, or follow her to the door. I gave her a taser. She moved out of there now but that was scary because she would call me on the phone. It is difficult being a woman living alone. I hope you are safe now.
Are there self defense classes locally? It might be a good idea to try to take one with your sister. Those skills are always good to have. If you can, keep pepper spray handy and practice using it. Stay safe and I hope this blows over on its own!
I’m a tall and big guy. The only people that mess with me are people with a chip on their shoulder. I have a sister and if someone did this, I would do everything within the law to make sure that man had to leave as soon as possible. I hope this guy disappears soon and never bothers you again.
Great to actually know there are some great, sane, righteous man like you in this world. Thank you
Psychopath would not care if you big guy they don't feel fear they will find a way t hurt you their dangerous
@@thomasbarnhouse3884 people have a general sense of self preservation
@@buckcitycrunk I'm a psychopath but myself well more sociopath with bipolar but we're not what people make us out to be but soma are
Might be time to think on a move to a safer building, somewhere with building security.
In the U.S., most apartment communities/landlords will serve as eviction notice after 3 noise violations. Police can also arrest those who get physical the way he did when he kicked the door with your recording of the incident. I hope you and your sister stay safe!!
Have MIke come over when creeper is having a party and tell them to stop with all the BS. First Jina now you, making my damselitis act up.. Stay safe!
Yeah I'd love to see the footage of his reaction if Mike opened the door and was like "도대체 원하는 게 뭐야?" 😌
(lousy Korean, I know)
So Mike puts his life in danger as well? Are you serious? Some crazy people don't care if you're a man, they will try to hurt him as well.
@@minkki5656 true, the man can get harmed too.
Rachel: (speechless)
Me: (speechless)
Pycho dude: PaRty pArTY YeAh
Kinda makes me remember of Jungkook pycho ff
Same!!!!!!!!😆😆🤣🤣😂😂😅😅
A Good neighbour is gold - doesn’t matter if you live in an apartment or a house. I laughed at the comment - „he plays the guitar and sings at night and he’s not even good”. Maybe he’s watching your videos snd actually understands it and he know you are talking sbout him and he’s pissed idk. Landlord should do something about it. It’s dangerous
When she said 'wished if i was a man ' that really hurt as a girl ..as a female ...cant women be safe !
her saying what kind of lunati cplays the guitarr 3am in the morning
Me knowing nct Mark-
appado gwenchana~
Stay safe, keep your head up and moving. don't get distracted.
It's sad so many women have to go thru this while men can just be carefree on their own.
@@lulu9421 this isn't just women, anyone who looks a victim, head down, not aware of surroundings can become a victim. But i agree there should be no reason people cannot just be who they are as long as they do not hurt others.
@@ThomMassaro agreed, agreed. After all, the main problem is the perpetrator themselves.
Trust me, I can understand your situation. My brother used to have a tenant renting a room in his apartment, and he's super obnoxious. Said he hated smoke (causing other tenants to not be able to cook), hated food with strong smell (he had the audacity to throw away my mom's fruits once because it had a strong smell, and not telling us anything about it until we found out!). When we yelled about it outside his room, he made a huge fuss and started punching and kicking at our room door. We were scared beyond belief. Those people are unbelievable!
However, I wish you could tell your apartment's tenant management about it. They ought to do something! And the police's response to your report was ridiculous, he was saying *try not to run into him too much* .. Like, really? But it's good that the officer came and talked to him. Idk if that worked, obviously.
I wish you and your sister safety. I hope some other neighbors will start to realize something's wrong and start reporting him too. I mean, maybe you could try talking to your other neighbors about it? Cause there's strength in numbers!
I feel like mafias are better than police.
If someone hurt mafia's loved ones, then they are dead..
But..
If we complaint to police, they will be just saying and going...😩
TOTALLLYYYY
Ff huh 😂 I seee
@@chrisrightdimple 😉
@@snowflakes828 😳😂u too 😜🤭🤫
@@chrisrightdimple yep...see my account name itself..
"He'd play his guitar and sing along with it." OH MY GOD my downstairs neighbor would wail at the top of his lungs while banging away on his guitar every day. And at my place before that, the guy downstairs would play piano and sing--and it was always the chorus to Sia's 'Titanium' over and over again. That guy had parties every single week too. To make it worse these were both shitty 150 year old buildings with no insulation. Anyone who thinks it's okay to behave like that in a communal living situation is unhinged. Apartments are a nightmare. 😔 Sending you good vibes and hope that things improve.
Pls be careful, we love you, we need you 🙏🏽💜
I had a similar neighbor in my college dorm a few years ago. My next door neighbors would play loud music all day and night (with a lot of bass🙃) and sometimes have people over and randomly yell alot. It was even worse because our rooms were so small and you could hear your neighbors pretty easily. T___T It never escalated to this point but the guys in that room got several reports against them, but nothing ever happened except a warning. I think I heard that one of them was diagnosed with schizophrenia. I hope your landlord does something about this situation because you never know what this guy could do. Stay safe Rachel!
I hope that things work out for you soon. The worst possible feeling is when you feel unsafe in your own house. Trust me I feel like this a lot sometimes.
This is actually horrible. I hope that the problem will be solved soon. Cause it is not pleasing to life next to a creepy psycho.
Stay safe 💪💖😔
Hi Rachel. So sorry to hear about your ongoing inconsiderate neighbor. It sounds as if you have done everything possible to reason with this extremely inconsiderate individual. This is a most uncomfortable situation to deal with and not everyone is considerate in their living environment so I would like to try and help you. In California, if you live in an apartment then you don't own the property so you have a landlord or property management company to whom you make your monthly rent payments. The landlord or management company should have written rules for all tenants to follow and everyone must comply to avoid these situations. If this is the same in Seoul, and with you, then your next step is to write the landlord/management company a letter explaining how this neighbor above you is making noise at unreasonable hours and your polite efforts to ask him to stop. Documentation is the key. However, if you own the apartment, like in other parts of the US such as New York City, then you may have to take legal steps. My suggestion is to contact an attorney to see what the next step would be. Keep in mind, the relationship between you and your neighbor, which is not good, will most likely deteriorate further because in my experience, people like him are, and will remain, very unreasonable and inconsiderate. I would also suggest that you follow the advice the police officers gave you and avoid any confrontation with your neighbor. When going out try to go with friends (strength in numbers) and always be aware of your surroundings, especially at night and when you are out alone. I hope this is helpful. It is advice I give to my daughter, who is about your age.
Everyone at sometime or another have deal with unpleasant people that take the rights of honest step all over them... You Are Not Alone just be safe.
Good luck, Rachel. I’m so sorry this happened to you, and I hope you don’t have to live near to that guy for much longer. Make sure to keep a detailed list of things that he does/has done and make sure you call the police the second you feel that he might become a threat again. Those two things will make it easier for you if things get worse. Praying for you 💜💜💜💜
If I were you I would put the cctv, making him know that you are not living alone, invite people time to time just for a coffee, always telling at list to your sister if you are gonna come home, so you can check each other, doing videos it's an other good point, because we are gona suport you, even if we are not in the same country, I don't know if a pepper spray it's legal there (just in case he smash things again), calling the police and living with someone else in this case it's a good point.
I'm so sorry you are going through that. I am living in Korea and I live alone and I used to live in a building with a lot of middle aged men who stood outside smoking and drinking and would stare at me and sometimes knocked on my door at like 2am... Thankfully I moved cities last year and now I'm in a better place. It's so scary and we can feel so helpless in these situations. Do you think contacting your landlord would help at all? Maybe if enough of the neighbors complain he could be kicked out? Anyway, I am praying that he moves and that you never have to see him again. ㅠㅠ
Omg!
Please stay safe as possible as you can!
How the situation gets better!
We love you so much
And again stay safe!
(Btw I love your pink hair!)
You are so right that he wouldn't have bothered you if you were a man. It's awful how the law can't protect you in this situation. I've had something similar happen, where the officer told me to avoid a neighbor. Have you contacted the observer of the building? Telling the owner that your neighbor is dangerous and you've had to call the police because he's threatened you, that could cause a lot of trouble for the owner.
Maybe next time when he’s loud you can call a guy friend, who will talk to your neighbor. This might work better, since he is so disrespectful to you girls.
Lmao nope that's just a good way to escalate the situation who knows he might actually physically harm her for sending a man to confront him.
@@thizzgerald5709 it is way better to send a guy than for her to go herself duh. Also contrary to what you said, i think it gives higher chance for him to back off if they send a strong intimidating guy to him.
@@justahuman9273 unless the guy lives there with her then yes send him but if he doesn't live in the apartment most likely the neighbor will know and that will escalate the situation lmao neighbor would most likely just go to her apartment after the man is gone knowing he doesn't live there and then she's dead lmao happens all the time. She's better off leaving it to the police. Cowards tend to attack when strong men aren't around but go ahead and tell her to test it out lmao its more of a personal confrontation when you send a civilian to intimidate but with the police on average people tend to back off more often.
Omg, no!!!
If she sends somebody to intimidate him, he will call the police & tell the neighbourhood she is the psycho, because she is threatening him -which is illegal-.
In the future, he could create a situation to attack her & say he was just defending himself. Psychos really know how to manipulate situations.
Plus, the person who try to talk to him would be vulnerable, & who knows what could happen to all of them next... :c
OMG RACHEL!😲😱 I pray you be alright 🙏🙏🙏 and don't worry cause God got you😊😇💖
Oh my god so dramatic lol
@@tfulookingatbitcg4040 we here for it boo boo kitty 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🎉🎉🎉✨✨✨💖💖💖👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
I live in a house and this same situation just happened to me, I got the same response from the police; I have multiple cameras and footage and when I call the cops they said “we are only here to prevent incidents, unless you get hurt we can’t do anything” yes, it’s sucks being a women and not taken seriously when calling for your own safety to the cops. Hope things go better for you!!
I'm so sorry to hear about this horrible situation you're in. If it doesn't change within the next couple of months, I would advise you to move. Don't stay around to let the situation escalate with this crazy guy. Your home is supposed to be your castle, your comfort zone - don't let this psycho take this away from you. If you and your sister even have to move back in with your parents until this matter gets resolved, then do it. Is there any way to get the landlord involved?
Oh no girl, be careful! Get a male friend to stay over a couple days so this psycho at least is aware you ladies are not alone!
Me in 3 am : try not to make sound while cooking hotdogs and ramen and act like spy HAHA, my parents will be crazy if they found me in kitchen HAHA
Yep watching this at 4.40 a.m. is totally the best idea ever!! 🙂..
But seriously hope you're safe 💕
Don’t worry Rachel, we’re all here for you! Stay strong 💪! You did the right thing.
I was the other side of this situation (a little bit) a long time ago as a student. I lived upstairs from a young woman who was also a student. We were the only two people in this house. But she had a much more regular life than i did. I worked late and was up most of the night. I wasnt crazy loud, but i did play music or make noises going up and down stairs, or having co-workers over after the bar we worked at shut down. The girl said something to me once. The landlord talked to me a couple times saying the girl downstairs was complaining, but i blew it off, just thinking that she also woke me up in the morning sometimes and its only fair. But when the girls mom came to visit and then paid me a visit everything changed. She told me this girl was afraid of me. I never thought about that. I am a very big guy, and I do admit I was pretty unkept and scary looking in those days too.
But I'm not a monster, i was just insensitive. Knowing that I scared her changed everything for me. Nobody except a true monster really wants to be scaring people. We ended up being good friends after this. Not saying that this is a match to your problem, just suggesting that before you start an ever escalating battle with him that will just give you more grief, that maybe if he knew that you and your sister were truly frightened of him might get him to be more respectful. Maybe the police could help you deliver that message.
he literally kicked their door thats deranged behaviour
Wow i really appreciate u for staying strong
This is so frustrating i couldn't even finish the video without commenting this: Report him to the landlord and talk to the other neighbors (the ones next to him and above him) to see if you all can report him to the landlord and the process can go faster. If you have support from you neighbors it can be easier!
This is my all time favourite story time video!!
I really want to watch more videos like this
First jina and now her! Please save these girls🥺❤️
BE BRAVE UNNIE WE ARE HERE WITH YOU.
It is tough. I pray that your situation gets better. Stay safe.
"is he good at least? *NO, HE'S TERRIBLE!!* " 🤣😭😭😂
I think calling him a psycopath is a bit much, bc Antisocial personality disorder is a real thing.
But he just sounds very entitled and knows he can intimidate you and your sister because he can physically dominate and harm you two. It's just messed up.
Also using terms like "lunatic", "psycho" is invalidating the actual experiences of people living with these disorders. I understand her fear and pain but just stop using these terms so horribly. I get it the guy is wrong here and i don't support his behaviour and action should be taken.
@@suntryingtouke8654 exactly
what kinda antisocial person has parties 4 times a week?
When she said what are you dragging at the night
My mind- A BODIE OMG
Same!!
SAME
Same..,
Same
The responses from the police...like “wow” so “professional” , it’s frustrating!!! pls stay safe!!
I can totally relate with u all about the noise. It's really disturbing and actually it makes me mad whenever I heard the noise. For me, I have been home-stay almost 24/7. Sometimes, it makes me sick to hear those noises. In my case, the most noise polluter is a family next to my room.
Please stay safeand strong 💗💗, he is so scary i swear
Omg I would be sooo scared 😭so brave Rachel! And dont worry just call a police and get some pepper spray and always have it with you in case something happens, to protect yourself!
I dont think he will try to kill you at least I hope so! Just make sure to brace yourself everytime there is a chance you may meet him.
I will be thinking about you!!! 💞💞
I am so sorry about your situation. I hope that things improve for you and your sister. Stay safe and be careful 🙏🙏🙏
Another think I notice is how they always seem to only mess with one neighbor most of the time