How To Rebuild Lost Trust In A Relationship
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One fundamentals of a good relationship is trust. When trust is broken, relationships can get broken too. If you're here to save a relationship, listen to these four steps.
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U’re here bcz ur life has been tough lately , i wish you the best for your relationship as well , there’s always a space for us ❤️
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Thank you for that, I know they was small but like that meant a lot
Thank you
I think #1 should be STOP LYING, be open honest & transparent!!!!!
Kristie May definitely.
I literally cannot. I feel like I’m in a lose lose situation every time I have to tell someone something. That may mean I’m a bad person, but I feel trapped.
And the best way not to be fat is to eat less right? Thanks captain obvious!
@Kristie May There are several ideas for making improvements in your marriage
Try to communicate more
Cooperate with each other more
Try to give and take more
(I read these and why they work on Pavs partner pundit site )
Yap...that are actually some people's habit...
Part of rebuilding trust is to think positive about someone 💞💞💞
Kathryn Kozar, here's a few ideas for saving your marriage Try to talk more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I read these and why they work on Pavs Partner Pundit site )
100% true! It’s working too!! Think positive be positive!
That sounds like an obvious thing. But I haven't done that in a long time! Thanks for the advice
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Wow thank you
Trust is one of the essential building blocks of a healthy relationship. Trust is a two-way street, so your partner should feel the same when they trust you. In my opinion it is possible to rebuild trust - but this is contingent on both parties still wanting the relationship, wanting the relationship to work, and wanting each other. The person who broke the trust can’t, on their own, rebuild trust with you. You also need to roll up your sleeves, put in the work, and work on building trust with your loved one.
These steps to help you rebuild trust in your relationship:
- Recommit to Your Relationship
- Take Responsibility
- Apologize, Grieve, and Forgive
He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problems.He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's .
How can he help me I also need help
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Video starts at 3:00 ☺️
Thanks
Thank you lol
You got my trust lol
Lol 😂 thank you
Thanks
Potentially losing my partner and family because of a loss of trust and now I need trust more than ever. 💔
You are not alone.😔
When your spouse sneaks around doing stuff and lying to your face it’s hard to believe any change.
Most people deserve a chance and have a potential to change,but not most narcissists. This applies to most pepple,except for the majority of narcissists.
john miller how do you know a narcissist
People use the term narcissist way too casually. Very few true narcissists exist. There are people that display some narcissistic tendencies though. Huge difference.
I'm here because I live a life filled with anxiety in relationships because of trust. Whether someone is completely honest or not I still have the anxiety that they are lying. Or that paranoia feeling.
I’m so grateful I found this video , I really needed to hear this. I just want to be happy with my fiancé, we both deserve it
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My girlfriend has lied and lied, and broken promises and hid stuff from me on and off for the last 5 months of our relationship. I want to regain my trust and faith in her, this video helps so much... thank you... I really love her, I see her and I growing old together, with her I feel I can do anything, she is the best part of me
DePreSseD aNd StResSeD i am the one thats lied and broken promises. And i want to change. Im sure she does too
So DID she change?
Don't make someone who doesn't value you the best part of you. You are the best part of you. Your girlfriend seems to just let you down. Never seen liars change and it doesn't seem like she just lied once.
Any update lol
She is a liar they don't change she lie now she will lie again might make a great friend drop the rest. (that's my two cents)
Trust builts on its own it doesn't requires much efforts as long as u understands them
Rami Sen no there are some people who won’t give you a chance no matter what! When your around unforgiving people like that it’s their loss. They believe they are perfect and aren’t capable of accepting responsibility for their part in the relationship.
My friend said i copied his idea and i just agreed i did (i didnt really but i wanted to get it over with.) And now he wont talk to me or trust me, guys please help. :C
It builts on its own but Retrust needs efforts !!
Understanding that keeping a negative story running about a person keeps us not in tune was important to learn. I'm grateful to have learned these tips because we will all have this happen and learning to trust ourselves as well is also critical.
Very true!
Lying is the biggest trust breaker and some people just never quit. They lie and sneak. I didn’t realize my person was a liar until recently.
I lied to him. I hid stuff in the beginning of our relationship but over time I could feel myself changing. When we finally met (long distance) it was amazing and everything we could’ve wanted... I told him I’m not that person anymore and owed up to the stuff I did and he’s still hurting and having a hard time regaining trust. I want us to be okay, I really love him
Hello! How are both of you now? Was he able to forgive you?
did you tell him though or did he find out about what happened?
Also, did you try making up for what you did or wanted to start the relationship over like when you first date someone?
that's exactly my issue rn. all of that is literally me rn help
You just mentioned my situation right now,I’m tearing apart 😭
My situation rn😅
Sometimes there's nothing you can do. Sometimes, you have to just take it as a learning experience, vow to never repeat your mistakes, and move on with your life.
It's hard, but sometimes that's just how it is. So accept it, learn from it, and move forward.
I know
I wish it wasn’t but it’s true
" Why dont you trust yourself? "
This line hit me so deep. I realized that it wasnt that I dont trust the man in my relationship, but it was that I didnt trust myself that I could change. This is what I didnt know I needed. Now I feel much more confident to love him and I am emotionally stable again and I feel like I can now change for the better. ❤️❤️
Everybody deserves a second chance but if you are with a (repeatedly proven) dishonest person - liars rarely change. They just try to cover up better. Especially the ones that are only "sorry" that/when they get caught. Their favourite lie is that it's not how it looks and that they're gonna change.
They never change i guess
If they a liar and a cheater they will always be.....because they love playing games hows so sad!
They will never change....if they lie once....twice or repeatedly. They are a liar...and a cheater they will always be.because they love playing games
Yep it’s easier for them to keep doing what they’ve always done. Once you start lying you have to keep lying to cover up the lies. Lol it’s harder to step back, take a look at themselves and be transparent. Some people just like fool us
This actually not true. These are symptoms of deeper issues that the person may be dealing with. Only by addressing those underlying issues will the cycle be broken. It isn't easy though.
Liars Changes...but when u address the right issues in the right moment,they confess their hearts out and in that moment lies their true image .
From that moment things slowly starts to heal up if taken proper care.
Not everyone can be trusted but the ones we truly care about,we can help them to change not by bullying them and repeatedly accusing them of their lies but real meaningful conversations as to why they did so in the first place .
Very true very true. Exactly! People change. People learn. Some learn it the hard way. It's ok, still they learn isn't it. So we all must give second chances to others. As you said, communication is the key.
I needed to hear this right now. Thank you for speaking in such a clear and gentle way I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much. I'm going through some tough times with my wife and I am so glad that God has lead me to u. Yes we r all just humans and I'm not perfect myself, I'm willing to change/open up for the better so me and my wife relationship can grow stronger. I'm only 29 yrs old and still have a lot to learn. Thank you so much Kirk! I am a new subscriber and will keep up with your great words. Gob bless us all.
How r u man?
How did it go?
You are amazing! Thanks so much. I was so down and depressed and now I have HOPE! 🙌🏼💕
What a beautiful message, I'm feeling positive already, thank you!
I'm living proof that people can change but the people got to understand that there is a problem, if they don't then change is not possible for them . But I am responsible for my health and care to change myself. 60 days from a toxicity relationship. But life is getting better. One day at a time. 60 of changing me up not pulling me down. Thank you 🙏🔥👑⚘🌹🥀🌷💖
That last suggestion was what I needed to hear. It's not easy providing trust, but I'm also not in tune. I need the right tools to help me do the right decisions and I desperately need some peace of mind 😞
Wow! Thank you for your words. Nombre 4 is the problem with us. That’s why I never had a chance and my changes were never noticed. Best of luck to everyone watching this video. People can change and want to change for the better. If people believe that people don’t change. They should come and read all this comments.
Some people will never change and that’s the sad thing. Some people can change but after all the lying and hiding stuff from me i just can’t trust her again and I feel terrible about it I’ve tried trusting her again but she screwed it up again but after 2 chances I just can’t trust her again.
This was life-changing advice for me. I needed to hear this today - thank you so very much!!
There was not even an argument, but a misunderstanding between me and my best friend. I am actively working on regaining her trust and thanks to this video I believe it is possible now. I've opened up to her more than I ever have to anyone and I am not willing to lose that.
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I feel this guy knows what he is talking about because he has the experience and proof that what he is saying will work if you try. I know what positive thinking can do. Thank you to this guy I just hope I don't forget this.
Number 4 hit me hard. Thank you.
I hurt someone badly by admitting my mistakes, she was trusting me and I made everything worse... eventho I acted behind her back to help her in the end... I feel terrible and she doesn't talk with me
One thing I’m taking away from this is that even though we may keep getting hurt trying to repair the brokenness in the relationship we still get to liberate ourself from that cold callus feeling or anything else we may feel towards that individual
Thank you for this sensitive discussion. I think it will help me make a better relationship with a family member. Thank you.
Thank you so much. I recently made a huge mistake with someone that destroyed the bridge between us. This video has given me amazing groundwork to move on and try to regain that trust.
You're so welcome!
oh my! you just nailed it! my husband hold me back so much with negative stories, doesn't even see all the changes or things i've done to better us! THANK YOU! now to communicate with him, May God guide my words to help him see. And may we rebuilt. Amen!
Did it make a difference in your life?
@@mansidhawan8573 great question
Guys, i hope you all get trough tough times, i belive in you!! Much love!! ❤️
Thankyou. I really need that video. Blessed to found it
This video has given me hope to keep on trying to regain trust.
People can change, so long as they stay far away from each other. There isn’t enough patience in the world to allow reoccurring nonsense. Thanks for the video
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
this is brilliant - thank you
Thank you, very happy to come across you channel🙏🏽♥️
Number 4. is magical. Thanks.
This helped so much . Thank you for helping me out . 😀😀😀
Really appreciate this video. Very much UNLIKE everything else that gets thrown around out there in terms of coaching and relationship advice. Great video looking forward to discovering more.
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I love your videos. You have such insight. Love and Light ❤️
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!!! This defiantly helped me.
Sucks when someone wants you out there life, after you had something with them
What hurt me that someone want you In his life but you are want things faster😭After break up we start to talking and yeaahh
Yeah it dose it’s happening to me a month ago
Your use of the English language is embarrassing.
OmniG they could be young and learning or their first language could be something other than english. your lack of critical thinking and consideration is embarrassing.
Thank you. Going through a tough time in my new marriage. A tough time that I created. Thank you for the video
Sorry to hear the struggles you're going through! I hope the video helped... hang in there. Always be quick to admit when you're wrong, apologize, and start building that trust again... it comes from actions too, not just words. You got this!
How are things now
Thank you sir. It was wonderful listening to you
Thank you for this video. It helps me alot..
Trust can be rebuild with better communication but both partners needs to actively work on it. Every relationship goes through this phase and it doesn't mean we should move on to the next one.
Thank you for the advice, this is one of the best videos ive seen in recent history. My partner who ive been in separation from for a couple of months turned me onto your video. Everything you said makes total sense and im hoping i can use the ideas you outlined to try and reconcile with her. Your first point of communication is something i need to work on within myself. I think if we can put these steps into action our relationship could be alot better than it previously was.
Hi, how are you finding this advice in practice, is your relationship getting better? Praying for you.
I appreciate your positive outlook! This video helped a lot
You're so welcome!
Really fantastic structure for rebuilding trust!! Thx!!🔥🔥
Super relevant to my current situation-thank you😞
I sadly know the feeling. 😭
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Thank for such a positive, uplifting video. Needed this.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back
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He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problems.He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's .
This really helps. Thank you very much for sharing!😌
Glad it was helpful!
Amen! This was great.
Thanks for helping! Me and my BFF broke the friendship 1 week ago.. i have been depressed about that, but this is helpful! Thank you so so much
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back
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He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problems.He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's .
Loved the emphasis on "I"
Great stuff, thank you!
This was so good and insightful :)
My sister broke my trust. After a period of time I forgave her. She apologized and she promised never to do it again.....then she turned around and did something even worse. Her jealousy and her mouth betrayed me far worse than I could have ever thought. I love her but she is toxic. I don't need that it my life. She's sixty two years old....far too old to want to hurt others so she can feel better about herself.
Oh I'm so sorry hunny.xxxxxx maybe distance
Trust is very important especially for those who had a relationship! So be true and loyal to your partners but not trusting too much! 😔👍💔
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I'm very grateful that I found this video :)
Thank you very much for sharing
This video is very helpful, thank you I am struggling with #4 I need to think positive I have been trying however, some actions of the person still got me rethinking over and over of what they did. Smh Yahweh help me pass this!
You got this girl ❤
Trust is as fragile as a glass that is not attainable and is standing on a edge of a high table
I’m so happy this really gave me so much hope I am definitely following this steps 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Nailed it great video thank you
Thank you 😊 Loving and forgiving other.
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Didn't work for me
Love you bro! Thank you so much!
Awesome awesome awesome thank you very much it was very helpful
Thanks Kirk ,I've met you once at a royalty and romance and been to that seminar 2wice ,me and my wife love you and Kim,I really do love your advice and can trust you both the moment we came to that first seminar.Your an amazing person, Thank You for what you do you continue to help me! Much love to you both.
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My pleasure - thank you for watching!
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I needed this!
My mom put parental controls on my ps4 and she trust me now. It makes me feel way better it’s the best feeling!
He has clearly never met a narcissist or a sociopath before...
Can we discuss in Facebook
Narcissist are not included in this talk...I think he is talking more about dealing with healthy normal partners who faces issues of trust and make mistakes not with the intention of hurting the other.
Narcissistic and socialpath obviously are not part of this video.... You can't use any of these 4 steps with them to start of
I really need to hear this again ,i really love my bf and want us stay happy ❤ thank you
4 suggestions yet worth their weight in gold!!
I lied to my bf about who I was goin on a vacation with, he found out and now we are over. I'm trying to build back the trust with him, but I don't wanna force him. I love him so much.. he's my person
Thank u @trell
How did it go
@@tibumamba6028 prayed alot, gave him time. And we are working on it.. baby steps
@@NakeishaClunis any updates? My boyfriend broke my trust a few months ago, and we’re working on things. I know he’s my person as well so that’s why I’m giving him a second chance
The people who don't forgive have their own things they are not proud of.
I'm here watching this from now on to work on rebuilding trust from the people that I love the most, especially my mother and girlfriend 😢
Thank you😀 this video help me but bring tears to my eyes same time😫
I am here because I did something so horrible that it ended up losing one of my best friend’s trust, and the trust of my crush at the exact same time. Neither of them want to communicate with me. They decided to completely cut me off from their lives. Worst thing is that the best friend I mentioned is my roommate in my dorm. He doesn’t even care enough anymore to look at me. When I wish to talk to him he immediately shuts me off and sends me away in the most ruthless ways possible. I want to rebuild my trust with him but it seems impossible. I am truly on the lowest possible point in my life right now. I don’t know how I can even begin these steps if the first step is communication, and my roommate treats me as if I wasn’t in the same room with him.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back
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He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problems.He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's .
This applies to me!!! I need to let go and relax
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This is the way I think and people run me down telling me I'm living in a fantasy....I say if you do these things watch what happens. Saying what you're say and thinking and yeah you will continue not being in a relationship where someone chooses you. We are human, but that's No excuse.
My brand (No Excuses-Move)
My ex and I dated for 3 years and long distance for 2 years after I decided to transfer to a different University, and for some reason I didn’t see it at the time but I was becoming more and more toxic, I left her because I didn’t know what I wanted anymore after I hurt her badly, and now I’m healing myself, trying to be the real me and learn from what I did. I don’t mind that she’s moving on, I just want to know she is happier. But I want to rebuild that trust because we had something really divine when we met each other in the beginning and I know that we could be that version of us again and even more deeply committed and trusting, but idk time will tell, I’m in no rush and I’m trying to focus on myself more so I could be better.
Im in so so so much similar situation
Im the one who hurted him we are in long distance
He doesn't even want to see me because i told him the truth by myself about a mistake i did i want him back i can't live without that person at all i imagine everything with him
I have committed to become a stronger person giving him much more importance but he doesnt trust me anymore I cry all day n night I'm in depression I need him so much
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I'm glad I found this video bcz me and my cousin just got an misunderstanding I lied to him and he lied to me I want to save our friendship bcz I can tell that I threat him like my brother thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️
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I believe when trust is broken, it can’t be rebuilt with the person you once knew. That person is gone, and now you are with a completely different person.
Unlike a glass vase, I see trust as a measuring cup. You and your partner are the water inside the measuring cup and it’s at 100%. When trust is betrayed, the jug tips over and now it’s capped to a maximum of 90% or even as low as 20%.
With trust going forth, you have 2 options: you can either pour the water in a smaller cup to achieve the 100% capacity again or you can dump the water out completely.
The thing about transitioning to a smaller cup is now you don’t know anything really about this person except the idea that was presented in the measuring cup. This smaller cup can end up being the best, but it won’t ever be the same as the previous measuring cup.
Besides cheating and abuse, sometimes the smaller cup isn’t the bad option because the reality is no human being is perfect, and the harsh reality is most relationships formed in our time end in the smaller cup.
Edit- Just to clarify, if there’s cheating and abuse involved, it’s always best to just dump the water immediately.
Thank you for your help 😊
If the person we are trusting says they want to rebuild trust but what they really want is to keep getting away with shady shenanigans and they prove this over and over again hundreds of times for more than a year than the person who no longer trusts is not in the wrong. The person taking advantage of their trust is wrong and the person mosusing second chances is wrong and the person taking advantage of opportunities is wrong. And if we who are honest and trustworthy and faithful keep being around someone who is dishonest, breaks trust and is unfaithful then the good person will be corrupted by yhe person who lacks morals.
Meg Schültze that’s exactly my situation. My guy keeps telling me to ‘just trust’ him but it’s only so that I stop questioning him on everything he’s doing and everyone he’s talking to.
This is true
That's true. Not everyone is worth giving chances. Few people just keep on taking advantage.
This only works if someone wishes to changes and regrets past actions.... and I’m referring to adults.
What if you partner desplays mistrust in me to other people.
Super Thank you Sir Godbless.
Very helpful ! 👍🏼 love it