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Hi don't give up on your baby fight to the end,I really wish I can advise you Niko US myself and I'm doing divorce and I understand your situation.im so sorry that you have to go through this painful process aki.
Uko na Sauti mzuri sana Connie. You are so beautifull with a wonderfull personality. You are very intelligent. God will fight for you. A quote from Denzel Washington "A mother is a Son's first love"❤ your son will look for you. And his dad will have difficult questions to answer. I wish you God's Protection and guidance. You will be successfull and happy. I wish your son too a good life. And when he grows up, may your love for him call his heart. May his love for you come searching for you. 🙏🏾 Asante sana Tuko for giving Connie a Plattform to share her story.
Connie is so beautiful and with a clean heart. She told her story of pain with humor and a smile on her face until she was asked about her son, then she broke down 😢. May God of justice fight for her and reunite her with her son.
Poor Conny!! This man used you to get a child!! This was well thought through but take heart my dear!! Your star will shine again just like your very bright lovely smile. All the best for the future. Hugs 🤗
That what Ugandan woman did to me they took my son with my white American ex to USA but now my son in grownup amenileta USA are we are living together happily so don't worry
King'ori, you are a gentleman - a hug is therapeutic to most women, there doesnt have to be ties attached, continue doing so. Connie I am so sorry you had to undergo this painful experience. First of all, you are a very kind hearted beautiful Kenyan woman and a mother. This world is full of people whose hearts are beyond understanding, what I know is we are all going to reap what we sow. One day your son will know the truth because truth never dies, continue to pray for him especially his soul. There were very many red flags from the word go, unfortunately there were no people around you to help you see things from different perspectives. So sad
How can I reach her out niko US i would like to connect with her and see if i can advise her on the steps she can follow to get her baby,i really feel for her
@@judymuthoni1222 Kama haku sign anything it will mean ali forge kitu akampeleka US embassy haiwezi kubali aende huko and see if she can get help and they agree kulea wote coz dame hanashida huyo jamaa kukuwa na mtoi
One mistake you should never do, leaving your child in the hands of someone who has abused you, either verbally, physically or whichever way, whether it's your fiancee, husband, sister, brother, father or whoever
Connie,you are very beautiful and intelligent.That insensitive and selfish man doesn't deserve you.I believe you will get a very good man for yourselves alone, God is working on your situation and when the right time comes,He will wipe your tears for good.I wish you well in your pursuit of gaining back the custody of your boy.
Conny am a lady!A straight lady lakini sauti ya kutoa nyoka pangoni ulipewa!You will get a Good husband 😊🎉keep this comment aki you soft spoken !Roho safi !
Don't cry my girl.imagine just pray always for your son.A time will come your son will cm back to you.a time I passed what I are passing.they took my son and brainwashed him.i keep praying and now my son is a grown man and he is my best friend
Red flags were there ni vile huyu Dem uakushikanisha..mtu ako usa hawezi kuoa traditionally juu utapataje visa..Tena hataki kumeet parentd that was areed flag
Connie you are very beautiful ❤natural beauty 😊You are a strong woman and everything will be okay 😊God will do something no tears is in vain.Sending hugs 🫂 ❤❤
She is beautiful even without makeup Sasa phillino ni girlfriends we work with them, watu wazenzi Sana kwa kuna shinda kuliko Kenya eti mzungu Philipino sio wazungu
@@KaruguruSandra hata Mimi I am working with them,they are so stupid, even her ataachwa tu..... They really used her to get a baby, infact the husband hated her so much
Connie your story is so sad indeed,however I just want you to know that you are beautiful very beautiful indeed. Thank God you never wasted your life with that narcissist. As for your son ,worry not he knows you love him and someday you will reunite that's my prayer 🙏 ❤️ you are very beautiful that's what I want you to know .We love you ❤
Such a natural beauty. Sorry for dealing with a narcicissist. His intentions was to lock you down with a child so you can't move on. Ana train mtoto kuwa raised anti wewe. Thank God ha kwenda na wewe States. Ange ku tesa sana huku. Huyo mkewe ana pitia such a worse life than una jua. Mna counter parent, sio Co parenting. I wish i could help
It's tough aki for a mum to be away from the child,Connie be strong no matter what he is told about you trust me he will come back looking for you wanting to know what happened🥲😍
My poor little Conny! Everything is going to be okay in Jesus name! For the man, Congratulations 🎉🎉you won,but always remember that the Universe keeps its records!! Hiyo ndoa hata si Conny atavunja but itavunjika!!! Unaona hiyo machozi Analia? Utayalilipia! Hiyo USA~ Ness vile itaisha hutajua! Conny alikuwa mdogo saana she didn't deserve what you did to her!
But yy pia hangewachilia Mtoto ,the guy had already showed her the animal side of him na akawachilia Mtoto..huyo Mwanaume na Mama yake watajua hawajui.Huyu naye nikama aliogopa majukumu ya kulea wacha alie..I hate it if men win over a woman when a child is involved!
Wah😔😔this cought me badly, yani ata wenye hatukushugulikiwa from the pregnancy moment moaka tuka deliver nimeona hiyo uchungu ni kidogo kuliko wenye mulishugulikiwa na the so cold awo watu 😑😑sijui hili chozi limetoka wapi but I'm sory dear Mungu akupatie umri na afya mtoto wako atakuwa na atakutafuta. Shetani ataaibika sikumoja. Mungu asiwainipea roho yaku treat mtoto wa mtu vibaya, hata kama vijana wangu watawawacha but still nitawajali bila ya kubagua. Huyo mama aombe Mungu am badilishe hiyo roho mbaya ako nayo
NB: when a parent, sibling, close friend and geniune friends have a gut feeling that isnt baseless follow it up!!!!! attraction impairs discernment fr. Most especially trust YOUR gut. ENERGY DOESNT LIE EVER!!!! All in all hope she can get her son back
Sorry aki the man just used you to get a kid lkn he is not wise mbona sasa achukue mtoto alelewe na mama wa kambo who in their right mind does that? just pray for your kid for God to protect him i hope you will reunite again with your boy
Those men who meet yóu and there like we need to get married .like things happen so fast think about .....l met a man march after two weeks niko kwao. Introduction .. after a month kwetu .then boomed we moved in 2 months later . wuuuueh 😢😢the dad was like .l educated my son .there is nothing you can do .now am home ,
Ladies kama hatuna marriage certificate ni Come We Stay. It will help us understand what the man is taking you for. Ata mukuwe na watoto wangapi, family inakujua etc... pale legally wewe ni Come We Stay, aka girlfriend. Sina ubaya, men can use that loophole against you so tell yourself ukweli who you are.
Also as a parent, tell your children that come we stay is a No GO ZONE! And explain to them why it is not in their best interests, be it a son or a daughter. Even if they don't listen to you, at least they cannot say they didn't know and you never said anything! My parents were very adamant against come we stay, even if all of us lived abroad, where people like to argue, "bills and expenses are costly", "everyone does that before they marry". They still told us that is NONSENSE! If you have hands and legs, go and work hard, or get a same gender roommate. For a long time time, my parents refused to visit my brother and his wife (then girlfriend) living together huko majuu. Aliambiwa until you do things right - we are not enabling it! Eventually my brother had to go to the Courts and legalize their union. Alijipeleka mwenyewe, and my parents never got tired of telling him to do the RIGHT THING. I am so proud my parents, as they never looked the other way or decided he is man - he can do whatever! They know they have daughters whom they would not want to be taken advantage of.....
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Uongo iko hapa nje ati ukijifungua normal utakua mkubwa, Bora utuzwe vizuri na ujichome vizuri wanawake waache upuzi
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@@annndunda3953true the VG is elastic in nature na ukishazaa inafaa irudi normal unless mtu anazaazaa bila break hapo ndio haiwezi rudi normal
That woman has the prettiest heartwarming voice. Does she sing? I could listen to her stories for ever.
Hey Tuko thank you for having me❤
Hi don't give up on your baby fight to the end,I really wish I can advise you Niko US myself and I'm doing divorce and I understand your situation.im so sorry that you have to go through this painful process aki.
Connie! you will be fine just keep yourself, your son is Joseph from the Bible 😊
You are beautiful mami❤and hardworking
You have a wonderful voice. may your carrier grow. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us. Many will learn from it.
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Uko na Sauti mzuri sana Connie. You are so beautifull with a wonderfull personality. You are very intelligent. God will fight for you. A quote from Denzel Washington "A mother is a Son's first love"❤ your son will look for you. And his dad will have difficult questions to answer. I wish you God's Protection and guidance. You will be successfull and happy. I wish your son too a good life. And when he grows up, may your love for him call his heart. May his love for you come searching for you. 🙏🏾 Asante sana Tuko for giving Connie a Plattform to share her story.
Connie is so beautiful and with a clean heart. She told her story of pain with humor and a smile on her face until she was asked about her son, then she broke down 😢. May God of justice fight for her and reunite her with her son.
Poor Conny!! This man used you to get a child!! This was well thought through but take heart my dear!! Your star will shine again just like your very bright lovely smile. All the best for the future. Hugs 🤗
That what Ugandan woman did to me they took my son with my white American ex to USA but now my son in grownup amenileta USA are we are living together happily so don't worry
She is so pretty now compared to the past photos . I wish you well .
Lakini king'ori you and connie look like soulmates, muoane tuwachangie ya honey moon
True kbs we can contribute from dsm to facilitate the marriage😂
I thought it's only me😂😂😂
i was searching for this kind of comment kumbe sio mimi nimeona
Aki I've been thinking the same 😮
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King'ori, you are a gentleman - a hug is therapeutic to most women, there doesnt have to be ties attached, continue doing so. Connie I am so sorry you had to undergo this painful experience. First of all, you are a very kind hearted beautiful Kenyan woman and a mother. This world is full of people whose hearts are beyond understanding, what I know is we are all going to reap what we sow. One day your son will know the truth because truth never dies, continue to pray for him especially his soul. There were very many red flags from the word go, unfortunately there were no people around you to help you see things from different perspectives. So sad
Thank you
How can I reach her out niko US i would like to connect with her and see if i can advise her on the steps she can follow to get her baby,i really feel for her
Help if you can aki
@@ruthmomanyi9629the number is pinned up there by tuko
Contact TUKO
@@ruthmomanyi9629 I will do the follow up to see what I can do.
Isthis adding up coz DNA has to be done ??
Wûûûi, such a sweet girl. I pray she finds happiness...and her son.
It is illegal to take a kid under 18yrears away from mother in USA. Go to their embassy and file a case.
Yes she needs to report him to the US embassy. He’s just taking advantage of her because maybe she doesn’t know this.
Basically, it's kidnapping. US dont play with this@catherinemuriuki1471
illegal without the consent of the others parent’s consent.
@@judymuthoni1222 Kama haku sign anything it will mean ali forge kitu akampeleka US embassy haiwezi kubali aende huko and see if she can get help and they agree kulea wote coz dame hanashida huyo jamaa kukuwa na mtoi
Not embassy, she needs to go to Fida first! Lawyer up now. They help get shared custody and justice.
Moral of this story, Don’t be an understanding fiancé , learn to say NO when things don’t feel right and don’t ignore your gut
Excellent interview and Big Thank you to your Guest for sharing her story.
Angeweza kupata Hiv kbs yaani ni Mungu tuu amemtetea huyu binti..polee mam
I like your spirit Connie,he failed to break you up. You have a positive mind set.
The most loyal,caring and loving women i guess we are just not lucky with marriage!
It is well girl.
Yes but me all I wish is God to bless the work of my hands that I may take care of my kids
One mistake you should never do, leaving your child in the hands of someone who has abused you, either verbally, physically or whichever way, whether it's your fiancee, husband, sister, brother, father or whoever
Wah pole mama! You seem like a very nice woman, well spoken. I liked how calm and collective you were. These men yawa! I choose to be single weuh
LADIES DON’T GIVE A CHILD TO CRAZY FATHER, WANAUA WATOTO
Ugandans in the house big up
Connie,you are very beautiful and intelligent.That insensitive and selfish man doesn't deserve you.I believe you will get a very good man for yourselves alone, God is working on your situation and when the right time comes,He will wipe your tears for good.I wish you well in your pursuit of gaining back the custody of your boy.
Mothers please stay with your children no matter what..kula mawe na yeye Mungu atakubariki
Kabisa,don't ever give up your children
At 22 reminds me of Benjamin’s teachings. You are still young with all your life ahead.
Conny am a lady!A straight lady lakini sauti ya kutoa nyoka pangoni ulipewa!You will get a Good husband 😊🎉keep this comment aki you soft spoken !Roho safi !
when she said at least kingori alimhug...did yall notice he blushed?
I've been watching Tuko for some time from another country but I've gotten a phobia for Kenyan men. Cheiii
Not all are bad, but if you happen to encounter one character development is sure bet
Be cautious
Spend 24 hrs 7 days a week fearing Kenyan men😢
be warned😢
Fear them ooohhhhw
Wewe uko na shida unatoka wapi nguvu ya kuachia strangers mtoto Mimi haiezi kbsa my kids my everything.
Connie you are sweetest soul,roho safi ,kind ...kuteleza sio kuanguka .stand up,dust off and move on .i wish you well i .your next life❤
Don't cry my girl.imagine just pray always for your son.A time will come your son will cm back to you.a time I passed what I are passing.they took my son and brainwashed him.i keep praying and now my son is a grown man and he is my best friend
DNA IS VERY IMPORTANT MORE THAN MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE!!!!
Time heals everything..just give it time.. Your son will one day know the truth and come back to u....huyo tu ndo atakupeleka US mummy
Finances are not an hindrance to a wedding.I am for 4people wedding and thatvis all.Anybody giving excuse, is not ready!
That was the first red flag
Red flags were there ni vile huyu Dem uakushikanisha..mtu ako usa hawezi kuoa traditionally juu utapataje visa..Tena hataki kumeet parentd that was areed flag
Connie you are very beautiful ❤natural beauty 😊You are a strong woman and everything will be okay 😊God will do something no tears is in vain.Sending hugs 🫂 ❤❤
Conny is our last born, but what she went through ni balaa. Mungu tu
King'ori,chukua huyo dame...mnakaa poa😊❤
I hope you are not serious, this girl needs to heal kwanza.
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Please, help Conny get legal help!!!
She is beautiful even without makeup Sasa phillino ni girlfriends we work with them, watu wazenzi Sana kwa kuna shinda kuliko Kenya eti mzungu Philipino sio wazungu
Yap, they are very divisive too.
Kwani umesama ukweli.. their not white very wicked human being
@@Mary-c2v2una kiherere mingi mimi brother yangu akiona Philippino Hawa wezi kanyakanya home sababu watafuruga Familia yote
Filipino of all the people🙆🏽
@@KaruguruSandra hata Mimi I am working with them,they are so stupid, even her ataachwa tu..... They really used her to get a baby, infact the husband hated her so much
Maaahn 🤔🤦🏾♀️ that delivery story had me shuddder bana as a midwife. Ati post delivery alipewa something to eat lini? Huyo mama ni sumu joh😮😢
May God see you through baby girl❤ you really have a great Smile 😊
Kindly Conny, hii story huniuma sana. But i thank God for the control. Nachukia sana huyo jamaa na ningemfanya vibaya but acha Mungu afanye kazi
Ukimuona niambieni akujiwe. I don’t him but I will.
Someone help this lady get her child
We can changa and hire a good lawyer for her ....akuje tu apaene paybill
Connie your story is so sad indeed,however I just want you to know that you are beautiful very beautiful indeed. Thank God you never wasted your life with that narcissist. As for your son ,worry not he knows you love him and someday you will reunite that's my prayer 🙏 ❤️ you are very beautiful that's what I want you to know .We love you ❤
I have the same story so i understand how it feels,is now 6yrs since i see my baby 😢😢
What a strong, beauwoman, Connie God bless u and ur son.❤
I'm so sorry dear,may God remember you..all the dots will connect ❤️
Don't worry, Connie, we all in the same way we went through the same take heart girl and be strong the way you seem to...God has a good plan.
Stay strong Connie. I admire your courage. Ustie shaka. When that kid grows up, he'll know the truth and will come looking for you.
It happened to me walichukua birh certificate ya mtoto wangu wakatoa jina langu wakaweka jina la huyo mwanamke mwingine,inaniuma sijui nifanyeje.
You are so beautiful Connie 😍❤ Pole sana and all will be well insha'Allah 🙏🏾🙏🏼
Cheeiii! I have really felt your pain Connie. May God heal you as you get justice. Na vile you are beautiful. Sorry dear,it is well.
Such a lovely girl ❤ so sorry Connie the future is very bright
Red flags mingi, why mum comments like this
Ukweli lakini sitamlaumu n utotoi
Such a natural beauty. Sorry for dealing with a narcicissist. His intentions was to lock you down with a child so you can't move on. Ana train mtoto kuwa raised anti wewe. Thank God ha kwenda na wewe States. Ange ku tesa sana huku. Huyo mkewe ana pitia such a worse life than una jua. Mna counter parent, sio Co parenting. I wish i could help
😢😢 waaaaa Cony be strong Galfriend ❤️ get married again have kid's na God atacome for this...be blessed
Waah!! Life is sometimes unfair. But you look strong enough to handle the situation.
she is so beautiful n has a good heart- she is eloquent too
Pole sana Connie, GOD is on your side, all will be well 🙏 you are such a humble soul.
Siz sikujui but hy the grace of God mungu atafanya mtoto wako akutqfute na mtoi wako atakucha kukutafuta
Pole sana my sister I fee in your story 😢😢But mungu yupo utapata mume mzuri na pia u will get child or chidren be strong😢😢
First born you can deliver at 8 months God was with you
It's tough aki for a mum to be away from the child,Connie be strong no matter what he is told about you trust me he will come back looking for you wanting to know what happened🥲😍
You are such a beautiful soul Connie
I hope to hear if the lady was helped and whether she got her baby back
Waaaah its painful😢
My poor little Conny! Everything is going to be okay in Jesus name! For the man, Congratulations 🎉🎉you won,but always remember that the Universe keeps its records!! Hiyo ndoa hata si Conny atavunja but itavunjika!!! Unaona hiyo machozi Analia? Utayalilipia! Hiyo USA~ Ness vile itaisha hutajua! Conny alikuwa mdogo saana she didn't deserve what you did to her!
But yy pia hangewachilia Mtoto ,the guy had already showed her the animal side of him na akawachilia Mtoto..huyo Mwanaume na Mama yake watajua hawajui.Huyu naye nikama aliogopa majukumu ya kulea wacha alie..I hate it if men win over a woman when a child is involved!
Pole sis mm yalinipata hayo na kufikia sahii mtoto alitafuta mamake naniko nayy hata wewe utavuka hapo
It's good you brought this here
Sorry gal.. your kid will once look for ni vile ni mdogo ..but he knows you are somewhere.be strong gal..we wish you the best hugs ❤❤❤❤
She's beautiful may Almighty God open doors for her ❤❤❤❤
Wah😔😔this cought me badly, yani ata wenye hatukushugulikiwa from the pregnancy moment moaka tuka deliver nimeona hiyo uchungu ni kidogo kuliko wenye mulishugulikiwa na the so cold awo watu 😑😑sijui hili chozi limetoka wapi but I'm sory dear Mungu akupatie umri na afya mtoto wako atakuwa na atakutafuta. Shetani ataaibika sikumoja. Mungu asiwainipea roho yaku treat mtoto wa mtu vibaya, hata kama vijana wangu watawawacha but still nitawajali bila ya kubagua. Huyo mama aombe Mungu am badilishe hiyo roho mbaya ako nayo
Keep on praying for your son will come for you and bring you to America.
Despite going through all that but Connie ni a very good story teller
Huyo mother in-law alitaka huyu Dem akufe..hakupenda kabisa
That boy he will see this clip one day.He will understand you.your story sounds like mine. You are not alone, my girl.
Connie you will have the best family i know God is the mater and above everything
For real you are very beautiful lady and also strong.....God will help you one day your son will come back I feel for you 💘
Such a beautiful girl,pole Atoti,,may God make a way,
Connie have hurt that boy will come to you. Keep on praying for him and any chance you get , see him.
Men are just men no matter race, colour ,may anyone listening to her help her reunite with her child
You are very right. I wonder if there are good ones out there.
With all the swaying red flags, she could have stopped the child from being taken away from her.
The interviewer had great chemistry with her
NB: when a parent, sibling, close friend and geniune friends have a gut feeling that isnt baseless follow it up!!!!! attraction impairs discernment fr. Most especially trust YOUR gut. ENERGY DOESNT LIE EVER!!!! All in all hope she can get her son back
Don't worry He will come back crying for you! We have seen many crying!!
Come with part two please🙏
Keep one trusting in God.
And pray that 🙏 you will get your baby.
You deserve to have him.
I.know the feeling 😢
At 28 you are soo beautiful girl.All the best baby girl.
Uterus contractions is some thing else is so pain full 😢
Sorry aki the man just used you to get a kid lkn he is not wise mbona sasa achukue mtoto alelewe na mama wa kambo who in their right mind does that? just pray for your kid for God to protect him i hope you will reunite again with your boy
That's a strong woman,bravooo
“Toroka kwenu na suitcase” that was the largest ever red flag that should have made you disappear into thin air.
But a small girl in love hawezi jua. Hatajua akiwa 35yrs
Those men who meet yóu and there like we need to get married .like things happen so fast think about .....l met a man march after two weeks niko kwao. Introduction .. after a month kwetu .then boomed we moved in 2 months later . wuuuueh 😢😢the dad was like .l educated my son .there is nothing you can do .now am home ,
Wewe ni chopie sana na class ya Women conference haukukosa
It happened to me too,,, when the deal is too good, think twice!! Mostly they are narcissists
wishing you well mum,the only difference between you and me,is that I miscarried at 8 months due to stress....was not able to bear them
Ladies kama hatuna marriage certificate ni Come We Stay. It will help us understand what the man is taking you for. Ata mukuwe na watoto wangapi, family inakujua etc... pale legally wewe ni Come We Stay, aka girlfriend. Sina ubaya, men can use that loophole against you so tell yourself ukweli who you are.
Very very true...a bitter pill no woman would want to swallow ask Maureen and Frankie 😮😢
Come we stay is not a marriage. Tuambie kina dada wasikie. Even if you stay for 10 yrs it's not a marriage
Also as a parent, tell your children that come we stay is a No GO ZONE! And explain to them why it is not in their best interests, be it a son or a daughter. Even if they don't listen to you, at least they cannot say they didn't know and you never said anything! My parents were very adamant against come we stay, even if all of us lived abroad, where people like to argue, "bills and expenses are costly", "everyone does that before they marry". They still told us that is NONSENSE! If you have hands and legs, go and work hard, or get a same gender roommate. For a long time time, my parents refused to visit my brother and his wife (then girlfriend) living together huko majuu. Aliambiwa until you do things right - we are not enabling it! Eventually my brother had to go to the Courts and legalize their union. Alijipeleka mwenyewe, and my parents never got tired of telling him to do the RIGHT THING. I am so proud my parents, as they never looked the other way or decided he is man - he can do whatever! They know they have daughters whom they would not want to be taken advantage of.....
May God remember mercy to that young lady.
May she have many more beautiful children and a man who loves her.
Thank God he loves the kid.
You married for a scammer and a narcissist, ni yeye aliiba hiyo ring, plus usiwahi kimbilia kuolewa na mtu humjui😂
Stop! If the 'road' is not clear, only cross when clear
Wow! she's got a very nice smile🥰🥰🥰
Son akifika 18 he will ask where is her real mom, Connie God will give u back your son