I have cried Twice in My Life: I Apologised; divorce, poverty, Male Ego Ft. Ntando Maseko

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 83

  • @delicatesive1599
    @delicatesive1599 26 дней назад +17

    I love how self aware Ntando is. His admission of his faults and errors is admirable.

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад +2

      @delicatesive1599 took a lot of scars to get there but I think it's good to always find your contribution first otherwise you keep repeating your mistakes

    • @delicatesive1599
      @delicatesive1599 23 дня назад

      ​@@NtandoMasekothis is very true. Challenge accepted. Keep it up!

  • @NtandoMaseko
    @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад +23

    Brother you go really deep in your interviews 😅😅 grace and blessings to you

    • @NancyBsAdventureDiary
      @NancyBsAdventureDiary 26 дней назад +2

      Your life is inspiring

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад +3

      @NancyBsAdventureDiary Thank you @Nancy if it helps one person change how they make decisions for the better, I'll be one happy brother 😊

    • @faithrehema4767
      @faithrehema4767 26 дней назад +1

      I liked what you said when someone is going through a hard time some of us don't have the skills and to know what we should ask or say during that time which is very real and I've come across such a situation.

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад +1

      @faithrehema4767 l hope you successfully bounced back 😊

    • @alicemakochieng6147
      @alicemakochieng6147 25 дней назад

      Watching from Gqeberha, PE, Mzansi. Glad Bhut Nthando you got a glimpse of Kenya. Indeed, Jagero is a force in his craft. Congrats to you both. I enjoyed listening to this interview.

  • @wanjirumurimi2916
    @wanjirumurimi2916 25 дней назад +14

    There were numerous opportunities in this interview for this man to shift blame, make himself a victim or whine but he totally refused to do that. Respect.

    • @Cresentmoon649
      @Cresentmoon649 25 дней назад

      Where was he going to shift the blame though?

    • @wanjirumurimi2916
      @wanjirumurimi2916 25 дней назад +5

      @Cresentmoon649 Many places. Most people would even blame a wife who doesn't contribute financially. However this is a good conversation, I don't want to engage in negative exchanges.

    • @ddm4622
      @ddm4622 23 дня назад +1

      ​@@wanjirumurimi2916..I actually found ur comment to be negative. You making it sound like doing the right thing is remarkable. It's not!

    • @wanjirumurimi2916
      @wanjirumurimi2916 23 дня назад

      @@ddm4622 okay.

    • @wanjirumurimi2916
      @wanjirumurimi2916 12 дней назад

      @@ddm4622 Okay.

  • @priscahsimon539
    @priscahsimon539 26 дней назад +3

    Poverty has a look and smell, recognize the look and smell then do the opposite!! Wow!!

  • @dorothydongo5493
    @dorothydongo5493 24 дня назад +2

    Ntando I cannot forget how we enjoyed your wedding and the class.

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 26 дней назад +6

    This man Ntando healed totally
    1. No blaming another but self
    2. Truthful
    3.Self management-no shouting about his problems
    Appreciated Ntando

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад +2

      @akinyiokeyo4618 thank you 😊😊 blaming others is easy, but changes nothing on your side so l have found accountability is king

    • @rhinahirina4038
      @rhinahirina4038 26 дней назад +2

      ​@NtandoMaseko thanks for this. You have confirmed my innermost long held suspicions.
      Glad you have had a chance to redeem yourself. For some it may be too late.

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад

      @rhinahirina4038 let's pray and hope they hear and learn in time 😊 everyone deserves seconds and thrid chances l think

  • @ruthchep2356
    @ruthchep2356 26 дней назад +4

    I am in that pit and this has really encouraged me💪

  • @Herhealingtouch6683
    @Herhealingtouch6683 25 дней назад +3

    It takes a village to raise a child , it takes a church to beeak that child , and it takes a Tribe to heal the child .. Most of the time the church ask from a place of gossip the Tribe intervenes abd manifest healing without judgement.

  • @elishalmntrix
    @elishalmntrix 24 дня назад +2

    At DWJ it's raw and uncut😂😂 you receive it both hot and cold, very very inspiring and educative talk between two grown adults that have seen life in both black and white. As they always say the journey a head, ask those coming back💯and thanks to Ntando maseko and jagero i've learnt someting.

  • @wanjakibaara
    @wanjakibaara 26 дней назад +3

    This is pure talent jagero at the moment you're my best RUclipsr🎉

  • @nirvana2073
    @nirvana2073 26 дней назад +1

    This gentleman displays self mastery at its best. Respect.

  • @BeyondHighLife
    @BeyondHighLife 25 дней назад +4

    37:45 I was in the praise and worship team, the same pastor in that church officiated my wedding and when things came crumbling down, its been 6 years now and no one has ever asked me what happened or even tried to sit us down
    too sad and painful to realize that we running away from churches instead of running to church for help
    So Jagero, nothing new.... but si ni life....

  • @NancyBsAdventureDiary
    @NancyBsAdventureDiary 26 дней назад +4

    I love your your content. Your guests and interviews are getting better and better.

  • @lyndandovie-jere2063
    @lyndandovie-jere2063 10 дней назад

    Very educative Jagero. Ntando was quite open about his circumstances

  • @anointedking6960
    @anointedking6960 25 дней назад +1

    I really like that part Jagero touched from 37:43 churches are just after what we contribute as offerings beyond that up-to suffering parties

  • @nnelende5881
    @nnelende5881 26 дней назад +2

    Fellow south african. ❤

  • @naibeieve
    @naibeieve 26 дней назад +2

    Today I have learned a lot plus I have laughed man Ntando is hilarious

  • @Mvtvri
    @Mvtvri 24 дня назад +2

    Great conversations as always. Jagero please, give us a series from the church/religion angle: EVERYTHING from your wedding feelings, recent Gen Z and Jumia mosque something about Islam and humanity/Ruto and his church strategies and recent realization of betrayal from churches, Gen Z and declining church attendance, divorce, abuse and church reactions, church and modern mental issues, modern world and church decline in Europe.

    • @RachelKing-rh4kh
      @RachelKing-rh4kh 20 дней назад

      It's rare to see South Africans in other African countries,it's good to see Ntando in Kenya

  • @MarthaKimungui-eb1cx
    @MarthaKimungui-eb1cx 26 дней назад +4

    After the book launch,Jagero kindly lemme know how i can get it.cant wait to read it. May your guest be blessed for being honest,lessons learnt from this podcast.

  • @catherinemuchiri9263
    @catherinemuchiri9263 25 дней назад +2

    Mentorship is key with the right mentor

  • @broken_arrow1813
    @broken_arrow1813 25 дней назад +2

    I'm a Kenyan living in SA and it feels like I'm listening to two of my brothers. This podcast is truly going places. Jagero knows how to make his guests feel comfortable.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  24 дня назад

      Bro. You must invite me to SA brother.

  • @julietokoth
    @julietokoth 25 дней назад +3

    Very informative conversation

  • @ericleemulwadevices2499
    @ericleemulwadevices2499 26 дней назад +2

    What a great interview .. Congrats Mr. Ntando . Mr Jagero thought you will share his mobile No.. Good job and great interviews

  • @naibeieve
    @naibeieve 26 дней назад +6

    The self awareness of your guest is something men could not accept 😊

    • @Kelvin-s9r
      @Kelvin-s9r 26 дней назад

      What do you mean, he is a man and he has accepted

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад

      @@naibeieve 🤣🤣🤣🤣✨️✨️🔥🔥

    • @naibeieve
      @naibeieve 26 дней назад +1

      @Kelvin-s9r I meant other men like you Kevin

    • @naibeieve
      @naibeieve 26 дней назад +1

      @NtandoMaseko Congratulations brother 👏 for accepting your mistakes

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад

      @@naibeieve 🙏🙏🙏 much appreciated

  • @faithrehema4767
    @faithrehema4767 26 дней назад +3

    Hahaa this guy is hilarious and his story has alot of lessons too 'don't wear your problems'

  • @candidajamesa5650
    @candidajamesa5650 25 дней назад +1

    This was very informative. As someone who has constant panic attacks about the future... I have gotten a hint on where to start. Thank you, Jagero, for these conversations that make us decide better for ourselves.

  • @joanshitawa8035
    @joanshitawa8035 25 дней назад +1

    What a profound interview!!!!

  • @elainekaniaru6346
    @elainekaniaru6346 16 дней назад

    Alot of gems from Ntando. Would love to know when or where to get his book...

  • @rufusnganga1118
    @rufusnganga1118 17 дней назад

    Great content thanks a lot, I have really learnt

  • @lesibatloubatla9176
    @lesibatloubatla9176 25 дней назад +1

    Thanks for this, it really inspires me deeply

  • @winnieonsongo6305
    @winnieonsongo6305 26 дней назад +1

    I loved this podcast and that illustration on debt hits hard and its why i am afraid of going out for credit at these exorbitant rates

  • @gladyskitonga
    @gladyskitonga 17 дней назад

    Very engaging and inspiring!
    Both of you have gained a new follower/sub!
    Thank you for sharing

  • @MarthaKimungui-eb1cx
    @MarthaKimungui-eb1cx 26 дней назад +1

    Quite insightful.

  • @warmandfuzzyinside
    @warmandfuzzyinside 17 дней назад +1

    I loved this interview. 😂😂😂 I could see parts of him in me in his past and in his present. I laughed hard😂 so hard coz I lived parts of his story, including his part of a mentor who never gives you money 😂😂. Thanks, you made my whole year

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  17 дней назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Dory_Sia
    @Dory_Sia 15 дней назад

    Woo this man🙌

  • @DIon..Godismyshield
    @DIon..Godismyshield 25 дней назад +1

    1:06:30 😅😅😅😅😅I liked this part but was sad for you somedays but am glad you managed and came out of the situation 😅😢

  • @MosesLaon-c8e
    @MosesLaon-c8e 20 дней назад +1

    A good conversation here,however,on 37:45,about church, I love Ntando's response on Jagero's question on the church's whereabouts when you are suffering. On my take i'd really say it's high time we stop dragging the church on our failures and sufferings,let us just live life however hard it is because church is fellowship which then after there we go work hard for our life 😢 I stand to be corrected though 😊 thanks

    • @murianzi6336
      @murianzi6336 16 дней назад

      Are we supposed to be our brother's keeper?

    • @murianzi6336
      @murianzi6336 16 дней назад

      @moses, are we supposed to be our brother's keeper?

  • @accessoriesaccess8660
    @accessoriesaccess8660 26 дней назад +4

    Begin the conversation with a disclaimer😂

  • @daisymaalim2707
    @daisymaalim2707 25 дней назад +2

    Sober man, sober mindset

  • @StoryMelody254
    @StoryMelody254 25 дней назад +1

    Wewe Jagero😅

  • @monixmonix916
    @monixmonix916 17 дней назад

    Poverty has a look and smell, recognize the look and smell then do the opposite

  • @royalusala8527
    @royalusala8527 19 дней назад

    The girl was 21 and Ntando was 28.. They were quite young... The girl still too young.. Also, money is indeed a solution for all things, and its sad!

  • @davidaswani9972
    @davidaswani9972 25 дней назад +1

    We lost power from 3pm to 5pm brother

  • @jaberrabora4757
    @jaberrabora4757 23 дня назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @hlamalanibaloyi6331
    @hlamalanibaloyi6331 26 дней назад +6

    I wish Jagero you can interview a real South African who is not scared to be labelled xenophobic. As South African we are losing our roots.Imagine Luhya,Kikuyu,Luo etc kids not knowing their heritage because the country is taken over by the whole of Africa. Kids only speak their home language when their at home, I dont want to be labelled otherwise but because i grew up the time SA was for south African i can clearly see the difference. Now even the youtubers that visit ourcountry they end up being exposed to the culture that is not South African ,
    South Africa is loosing their cultural values because when you start talking you are labelled. THE Only African country that honestly understand our frustration is Kenya

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 26 дней назад +2

    It must have been even harder for him showing face for the family...

    • @NtandoMaseko
      @NtandoMaseko 26 дней назад

      @@akinyiokeyo4618 that it was just say 😊

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 26 дней назад +2

    It must have been even harder for him showing face for the family...