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  • Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024
  • Complaining might feel like a harmless way to relieve stress, but it can have a lasting and negative impact on your brain and overall well-being. But you can break the cycle! Today, I discuss ways to overcome negative thoughts and break the habit of complaining once and for all. bit.ly/2XxMfgx
    Discover more ways to overcome complaining and negative thoughts with my Positive Thinking Guide. Click the link above to download!
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    Time Stamps:
    00:00 - Intro
    00:29 - Dealing with adversities
    01:25 - Why complaining never gets you what you want
    01:49 - E + R = O
    02:18 - Process of transforming the habit of complaining
    03:56 - Determine what you can control
    04:39 - Take action or stop complaining
    05:23 - Complaining makes you weak
    05:55 - Challenge
    06:11 - Notice when you complain
    06:27 - You have a choice
    07:21 - Break from the news
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Комментарии • 112

  • @JackCanfield
    @JackCanfield  4 года назад +22

    I challenge you to take part in my 7-Day "No Complaining Challenge." Leave a comment below and let me know how you will complete it!
    If you need a resource to help you complete the challenge, download my Positive Thinking Guide: bit.ly/2XxMfgx

    • @user-ot1nm7xj6g
      @user-ot1nm7xj6g 4 года назад +1

      I already stopped complaining since last month,when I read you book,The Success Principles.Thank you once again🙏

    • @siyadsiyad5277
      @siyadsiyad5277 4 года назад +1

      I accepted this challenge

    • @whatsonmymind4848
      @whatsonmymind4848 2 года назад

      Accepting the challenge 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

  • @kathigonia4853
    @kathigonia4853 2 года назад +15

    I notice this a lot about me as of late. And I definitely want to change it. Today my mom told me to say 3 things I' am thankful for. So I did. I realize when I come into work. I start my day complaining. The madness needs to stop.
    Thank you for the video.

  • @anniefitzsimmons4003
    @anniefitzsimmons4003 3 месяца назад +1

    I’ve been coming aware of the feeling inside that comes to me before I complain and my thoughts. But I stop myself and just have to fix the problem. So that’s awareness and that’s a big step

  • @jessicawarn2010
    @jessicawarn2010 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for being human in this video! And admitting that we all complain because it's human. I've noticed a lot of content people are just complaining about the complainers! And acting superior. I appreciate your video 🌸

  • @AmandabellaDay
    @AmandabellaDay 7 месяцев назад +1

    Really good stuff, thank you. I need help with my elderly father who just moved in. He perpetuates my anxiety like no other because every time he wants to talk it’s to complain at me & use me as a sounding board. Really lights up my childhood trauma as he used me in what’s referred to as “emotional incest”. He always dumped big emotions & adult problems & worries on me. All I have to see is him walking toward me & my panic body activates. I love him but I am not an uneducated child anymore & am learning to draw boundaries. This is what life is teaching me right now. Thank you for all the help !!

  • @lindarumpf4066
    @lindarumpf4066 4 года назад +3

    I have been complaining about my job and putting more energy into that job rather than applying for a new job and networking. I haven't had much energy to invest in myself. Time to change that! Thanks, Jack!

  • @amulyamalhi
    @amulyamalhi 4 года назад +17

    These days I was continuously complaining about weather conditions. This is an eye opener. Thanks Jack.

  • @Soldar70
    @Soldar70 4 года назад +13

    Perfect timing! I was just starting to realize that I am complaining constantly.

  • @mz6367
    @mz6367 2 года назад +1

    complaining has been a big part of my live I hope that someday I can overcome it and become more thankful and just realize that live is just the live and it doesn't owe me anything

  • @stevestover9670
    @stevestover9670 4 года назад +10

    Great video, Jack! I noticed there are 3 Dislikes so far. I wonder what their complaints were? Haha!

  • @markdarlington9914
    @markdarlington9914 2 года назад +1

    Prior to watching this ,am in the process of quitting so to speak ,i am more acutely aware of the times but what i shall start doing is logging times circumstance so thank you for the excellent advice

  • @maymimi1449
    @maymimi1449 3 года назад +4

    Thank you 😍 I really needed this 🙏I found myself complaining so much lately so I'm going to do this challenge 😍🙌💪

  • @rikkiholguinn
    @rikkiholguinn Месяц назад

    I complain so much about not having what others have and not looking like what others look like it’s genuinely exhausting and I know it’s just as exhausting for the person I’m complaining too.

  • @norshilaabdullah9045
    @norshilaabdullah9045 4 года назад +1

    Never thought of challenging myself about complaining. Yes I catch myself doing that. OK I am game and I will take up this challenge.

  • @mikat6026
    @mikat6026 2 года назад +1

    I needed this!! Thank You Lord for placing this before my eyes🙏

  • @beatricesandoval8284
    @beatricesandoval8284 4 года назад +1

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

  • @TribalLady12
    @TribalLady12 4 года назад +2

    I accept the challenge! I've been working on this but not as conscientiously. I will take every thought captive.

  • @maribelmejia2693
    @maribelmejia2693 2 года назад +1

    I need to take this 7 day no complain challenge.

  • @dr.kapilwagh733
    @dr.kapilwagh733 4 года назад +9

    Accepting the 7 days challenge by not blaming , justifying and complaining of anything.

  • @hunterpower6015
    @hunterpower6015 3 года назад +1

    something I really needed. I'm in the military and there is a toxic habit of complaining. I'm trying to get out of it.

  • @girishkohli8793
    @girishkohli8793 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Jack
    My mantra for a week is
    Thank you God for everything
    I have no complaints whatsoever
    Love you and your videos Jack
    God bless you all family members always
    Lot of love and Regards
    Girish kohli

  • @BJ-xh8tg
    @BJ-xh8tg 2 года назад

    Thankyou

  • @nickvantastiq1848
    @nickvantastiq1848 Год назад +1

    I am a complainer by default...it is really annoying to myself but more for my surroundings....I am grateful I choose to quit smoking, I am grateful I booked the gym today and I will actually go, I am grateful I have a good job, its not the best, but its good and I earn money, I'm grateful im almost turning 38 dispite physical uncomfortable stuffies....im grateful for this video! it encourages me to compain less......any tip on how to react on a teenager that tends to complain about everything?

  • @victorianicolehughes4291
    @victorianicolehughes4291 4 года назад +2

    I am going to take the challenge. I can do it.

  • @architektura204
    @architektura204 Год назад

    Life presents to everyone challenges, problems and tragedies. We can take action to find solutions and create a beautiful life. Or, we choose the self destructive paradigm where our never ending self indulging lamenting, blaming and complaining is nothing else but manipulating others.

  • @agashoshi223
    @agashoshi223 4 года назад +5

    I'm in Jack 💃 starting from today
    I like the challenge. In the past I did your 10day transformation programme and I saw the effects!!

    • @JackCanfield
      @JackCanfield  4 года назад +1

      I'm so happy to hear it, Aga! Thank you for sharing. 😊

    • @agashoshi223
      @agashoshi223 4 года назад

      Day 1completed
      Uff ..it was close at one point but I caught myself just in time😱😁

    • @agashoshi223
      @agashoshi223 4 года назад

      Day 2 completed. There were three challenges : weather change, coffee and trafic but I resisted

    • @agashoshi223
      @agashoshi223 4 года назад +1

      Day 4&5 completed successfully. Now day 6 starting with a trick: 4 min morning meditation setting intention for opportunities for gratitude instead of complaining

    • @agashoshi223
      @agashoshi223 4 года назад

      Challenge completed. Lesson learnt: only by focusing the attention on not complaining I noted how many temptations a day there were. Did I succeed every day? Not. But I continued. Even catching myself about to complain ( the weather too hot in the UK, people not wearing masks in a shop etc) was a small win. Thank you Jack for this challenge. It made me grateful for ability to self-reflect and be kind to myself

  • @makaylahollywood3677
    @makaylahollywood3677 4 года назад

    Can I get depressed? I can stop complaining. But, I get depressed. Is this the same thing? I was complain gin about the garbage people throw in the streets yesterday, so i went to Target bought some vinyl gloves and started to pick it up. I felt better. Thank you Jack Canfield for your relentless positive commitment to serving and helping others.

  • @tarins625
    @tarins625 3 года назад +2

    I was just starting to complain about not complaining... I caught myself in time!

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne 4 года назад +9

    Love this! I think we are all more guilty than we realize. Thank you for this ♥️🙏

    • @JackCanfield
      @JackCanfield  4 года назад +2

      Absolutely true! We all need the occasional reminder.

  • @himangshudeka8873
    @himangshudeka8873 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Jack Sir. I am in the challange

  • @leedaniels7196
    @leedaniels7196 4 года назад +13

    This sounds like a great challenge and I’m up for it!.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne 4 года назад +2

      ♥️😊

    • @JackCanfield
      @JackCanfield  4 года назад +2

      You can do it! Keep me posted on your progress. 🌟

    • @leedaniels7196
      @leedaniels7196 4 года назад +2

      Jack Canfield I absolutely will Jack!.I know I can do it.It is not a maybe for me because this video will inspire me to do it!.Thanks Jack!.

  • @frankborja25
    @frankborja25 2 года назад

    GOD bless you! I thank you for the sound advice!

  • @sashidar5649
    @sashidar5649 4 года назад +1

    Ok I try to stop complaining 😁😁😁

  • @donnarowell8281
    @donnarowell8281 3 года назад

    Thank you Thank you Thank you I needed this today.

  • @alexiscook607
    @alexiscook607 3 года назад

    Thank you so much. I accept the challenge.

  • @bbhegde1
    @bbhegde1 4 года назад

    Thanks Jack for the wonderful video & challenge !! I'm in.... 👍

  • @cprparo
    @cprparo 3 года назад +1

    Thank you jack..Your eyes are so beautiful..It's looks likes brighter star....

  • @nanaamoafoaboateng4997
    @nanaamoafoaboateng4997 2 года назад

    Thank you Jack I needed this

  • @sapnasardar772
    @sapnasardar772 4 года назад +1

    People who complained "Remain" it makes them weak.🤒
    1. Awareness 👂
    2. Figure out how to occupy it🤔
    3. Fix it.🤠
    4. Focus on Gratitude rather complain😇

  • @DeviJade
    @DeviJade 4 года назад

    Perfect timing to hear this with this last retrograde going on. I am facing some of my old old money patterns and have taken a walk down that little broken road of complaining. Midnight I am listening to this challenge. I hear you Stop..Change and reset to healthy self talk. Challenge accepted. I have done this challenge with myself and close friends before. I was told if we could absolutely do this for seven days our vibration would actually go higher. This will be fun given the fact that I’m going on a family vacation in the car. Yep. Perfect divine timing. Thank you Jack.

  • @PammyR56
    @PammyR56 4 года назад

    I’m up for it.

  • @prairieloon3323
    @prairieloon3323 4 года назад

    Thank you for the reminder....

  • @anupammasharmma845
    @anupammasharmma845 4 года назад

    Thanks Jack!

  • @hectoraugustocruzalonso455
    @hectoraugustocruzalonso455 4 года назад

    Thank you

  • @victoriagonzalez6304
    @victoriagonzalez6304 3 года назад

    I needed this today! Thank you Jack 😀

  • @Malenemusic458
    @Malenemusic458 Год назад +1

    How do I allow honesty about my emotions without complaining? I don’t wanna just bypass or lie 😅

  • @vickysforum
    @vickysforum 3 года назад

    Our attitudes during trying times is very important. Let's not be people who complain, blame others, look for pity, burst out in anger, act with no self-control, and such like. Going through difficulties is no excuse to carry ourselves in ways that don't glorify God.

  • @bonchauvin5744
    @bonchauvin5744 2 года назад

    Love your suggestions!

  • @rubyaddison5446
    @rubyaddison5446 2 года назад

    Thanks for this I really needed this advice 💗

  • @ReneelovesGod
    @ReneelovesGod 3 года назад +1

    I find myself complaining because at my job when I offer solutions they don’t want to be Successful and I’m tired of their complaining.. they don’t want to be a part of the solution.. what to do when this happens?.. it’s so frustrating

  • @rudijuergens1911
    @rudijuergens1911 3 года назад +1

    What a great idea. I love it Jack. You always have such loving ideas just to help us. It is not about making money. May the Lord always Bless you.

  • @henryk.5192
    @henryk.5192 3 года назад +1

    My team is understaffed and overworked. Not sure what to do about this. Complaining doesn’t work. Speaking to the higher ups does not yield any results. I guess the only real thing I can do is change my situation for the better.

  • @shaneross7428
    @shaneross7428 2 года назад

    Very helpful! Thank you

  • @renecarlostamezgomez9424
    @renecarlostamezgomez9424 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @francesanderson9692
    @francesanderson9692 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Jack! I’m going to take action to change!♥️

  • @abefroman8821
    @abefroman8821 4 года назад +3

    I never knew Jack was a lefty

  • @emmagrace40
    @emmagrace40 2 года назад

    Great video 👍

  • @simonebeauty404
    @simonebeauty404 3 года назад +2

    Event + Response = Outcome 💪🏽🙌🏽

  • @mezjandallas6257
    @mezjandallas6257 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Jack ! This is just such an important life lesson you reminded me of here. Simply fantastic !

  • @khantv6711
    @khantv6711 4 года назад +2

    Jack love your book the success principles are you thinking of writing a new book about success 😉

  • @Manishdna
    @Manishdna 3 года назад

    Great mindset! Thank you!!!

  • @saritaj2653
    @saritaj2653 4 года назад

    Amazing video....Love from India..💞💞💞

  • @Smilejoylen
    @Smilejoylen 4 года назад

    love it

  • @theheartistvlog
    @theheartistvlog 4 года назад

    Very useful video 👌 Sir

  • @edwardzimmer
    @edwardzimmer 4 года назад

    I’m in

  • @jamsheedbegum1067
    @jamsheedbegum1067 4 года назад

    GREAT 👍

  • @gargiaryacoach
    @gargiaryacoach 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Jack sir, you are amazing! Learning so much from you.

  • @oladipupoodutayo7080
    @oladipupoodutayo7080 4 года назад +2

    7 days vacation from watching the news. That’s it.

  • @lizm8716
    @lizm8716 2 года назад

    I have a question...What if you don't know the difference between your business and other people's business... sometimes I think I could do something to change the way things are; therefore, if I paid for a service and I didn't get what I paid for, I might fill out a complaint or I might give a negative review.
    Also, here's something that happened to me the other day... I moved out of my house because it was very loud: street vendors, my nieces, music in the street... and I was uncomfortable so instead of complaining I decided to move. Now, at this new place, I have kinda the same issues because people in my country are pretty loud (the majority) and I can't do anything about it nor can I afford a better place... So, sometimes I feel like asking them to stay quiet might help but I know that will only be a waste of time plus they will hate me... and I know I cannot control other sounds such as the ones from the street vendors, motorcycles, people honking in the street... however, I think that something should exist maybe some sort of minister? that would take care of those things...
    Some situations are very annoying and there might be something we can do but we always let it go just because we understand that it's other people's business when in reality we might be part of the solution.

  • @W-sfire7000
    @W-sfire7000 3 года назад +1

    But for many situations, complaining constitutes taking action. Lines are quiet blur in real life, what (exactly) do have dominion over, and what not. This is trickiest part. Not straight forward Sir. In my situation, if I didn't complain to the authorities over long standing psychological harassment case on my country's (Singapore) Metro system, I would have gone into actual fights and assaults, my constant complaints actually stayed this action on my part - but didn't mitigate these harassments all the same. It went on and on, and I complained on and on .So you're partly right in my situation, all my complaining (not matter how much in good faith) did any shit my train commute harassments. It made it much worse, but at least, I did not strike back physically as complaining, as ineffectual as it was, offered me channel to avoid outright violence. I'm a eurasian minority and my people are facing more and more social/racial harassment from our two major ethnicities ):

  • @damoneverson8598
    @damoneverson8598 4 года назад +1

    Only good can come from this, I am in. Thanks for posting this & have a great day ALL. :)

  • @ardenbaltimore4867
    @ardenbaltimore4867 4 года назад

    Thank you Jack. I am a reformed non complainer due to this .

  • @rashmichandsarkar3647
    @rashmichandsarkar3647 4 года назад

    Thank you for such a wonderful video... nowadays continuous complaining has become part of life and need to overcome this order by taking a challenge like this... thanks again for making us aware to break this bad habit...I am taking this challenge..🙂👍

  • @damoneverson8598
    @damoneverson8598 4 года назад

    Thank You for sharing I got this... Have a great day ALL!

  • @anmolgupta6608
    @anmolgupta6608 4 года назад

    That' really amazing advice. Will implement this from today itself.

  • @W-sfire7000
    @W-sfire7000 3 года назад +1

    If not for Covid, I would RAN away from this country last March

  • @lopasoni
    @lopasoni 4 года назад

    Right on time, I’m in Jack starting form today!

  • @melisherwood9734
    @melisherwood9734 4 года назад +2

    What is the difference between simply complaining and expressing inner pain

    • @CarlosCarpintero_OCAC
      @CarlosCarpintero_OCAC 4 года назад +1

      your level of judgement for the situation or others determines whether you are expressing a what is or complaining

  • @jeng9953
    @jeng9953 4 года назад

    This is a few weeks late, but I am going to do this challenge this week. I had printed Your Guide to Everyday Positive Thinking before. I need to keep it on my desk until I have memorized it.

  • @phongvong8639
    @phongvong8639 2 года назад

    What i like to complain is going to and always will be in this country if our Presidents are still on a ongoing matter.

  • @sophiaholst1506
    @sophiaholst1506 Год назад

    I thought it was just me who was complaining a lot

  • @MsCristina38
    @MsCristina38 4 года назад +2

    You look like you lost weight. Looking great!

  • @jamsheedbegum1067
    @jamsheedbegum1067 4 года назад

    😊

  • @pavelgrace3624
    @pavelgrace3624 2 года назад

    No

  • @jaypeterman5560
    @jaypeterman5560 2 года назад

    Music ruined the video

  • @briancisneros8595
    @briancisneros8595 9 месяцев назад

    Complain my life is hard

  • @blayasblay3941
    @blayasblay3941 3 года назад

    Refuses to wear a mask :D:D:D:D:D

  • @oletimer5853
    @oletimer5853 2 года назад +1

    You lost me at “systemic racism”. … you sound like a whiner

  • @HDPersonal777
    @HDPersonal777 2 года назад

    Sell out.

  • @jaypeterman5560
    @jaypeterman5560 2 года назад

    Music ruined the video