It's crazy how this video showed up three times in my feed and i was like "it's impossible i can't have a secret admirer" So i finally had to click it.
@@marcuspelletier6969 you can click on the three dots under the video (when it gets recommended, not when in the video) and click "don't recommend" or something like that
I was feeling lonely last night, I was crying quietly in my bed. I just wanna find that person, to feel love and affection, to feel a connection and a sense of belonging. I am working on myself, I’m trying to be the best version of myself, but…i don’t know if or when I’ll find that person. I just hope I do, I hope god has a special person picked out for me. Anyway…at least i have my family and online friends, i just need to make more friends IRL. And hopefully…someday, I’ll find the right person for me.
Same here man, unfortunately I have no real life friends, only online ones. I never really seen it, but I started to realize how lonely I was. I realized how important love actually is. Once I did realize, I done the same thing, sitting on my chair one night, in the dark, as tears fell from my face. I put my trust into God. I know he'll be there for me, he knows whats best for all of us. When the time comes, we'll find that person. The best thing we could do, is show our appreciation to them, every day. Thank God for all we have, and be greatful. One day, we'll all find someone if we haven't already. The longer we wait, it'll be so much better then rushing it. Because again, good things come to those who wait. We will be patient, and eventually one day, someone will share their feelings for us, and we will do the same. For now, we continue working on ourselves. Fixing our issues, whether it's repeating sin, or some other problem. It'll all be worth it, I can promise you that. All we need, is to put our trust in God.
Similar situation, only in my case I thought I found the one at my workplace, and ik people say don’t date your coworkers but it’s not like the workplace I was at was gonna be where I’m at for the rest of my life, but anyway, I thought she was the one, I could never confess to her face because for one we were in different departments and second because we rarely spoke to each other, I didn’t wanna break the mutual respect we had as coworkers, so I did sum stupid shi where I sent them a message request on instagram like a week ago since I had them on my suggestions all summer long, till this day my message is still pending to be accepted, but in a way it made me realize that I really had to lock in with myself so as long as you got goals that you’ve always wanted to do, you’ll never feel that sense of loneliness, in my case I’m goin to adult high school just for the sake of it because I got nothing to do till I start uni next year
Same, I have a lot of insecurities and trust issues and just wanna be able to talk to someone with getting nervous or worried. Worried I will never find true self again. Just like you I also need more IRL friends but man is it hard. Couple of my previous friends had stabbed me in the back big time on one of my projects I was working on. Makes it hard to find new friends, but overtime you’ll figure it out. For now it’s just waiting .
One day I decided to do an experiment at school. I am a pretty popular kid at school, and what I did was I acted cool for 1 week. I noticed that people who knew me were avoiding me a lot more than usual. The next week I acted like myself. I’m always kind and respectful to everyone at school and more people saw who I was and they are all my friends. Don’t become a person that shows off or anything like that because people will never like you. Just be yourself and be kind to others and they will always be nice to you as well.
Popularity means shit...this is coming from a guy whose been popular in school for the most part...popularity doesn't feed your family doesnt earn you money...the knowledge and skills you acquire in school does...your success is far more important than your popularity...so it doesn't matter if you act cool or kind to other what matters is that you're willing to act cool with your distractions and be kind to your goals
@@sohamghosh5772 he’s a popular kid because people like him for who he is. And yes, although it’s mostly just the work you put into the school that decides your future, being respectful and kind to others will get you VERY far in life which this guy tried to prove with his comment.
Someone called me ugly one time. People act like I’m annoying, and people ignore me. It determines how I look at myself. But I met some people, one of them in particular, that don’t make me feel bad about myself. And I kinda have a crush on that one particular person. He doesn’t make me feel at all bad about my identity (I am nonbinary), my looks, or my personality. He’s just always there for me, and that’s really special. Remember that it is good to be able to respect yourself on your own, but it’s not bad to have people that will actually lift you up ❤
“The most judgmental people are the most insecure” That is so good Thanks for the vid I’ve never seen you before but you popped up in my yt and so thankful you did Keep doing what your doing ❤
Bro you literally come in clutch at the perfect times. When I’m depressed I get your advice videos, when I like someone I get this. One of my favorite content creators for sure.
That’s happening to me too lol, I was just thinking about this girl I like who I think maybe likes me back (I wish) and then this video shows up when my parents had yelled at me and no one had been talking to me. Really comforted me right now and made me feel wanted by at least one person.
Here is a summary :D People compare their insecurities with other people's, and talk smack about them the most judgemental people are also the most insecure if a person is purely confident, they dont look for insecurities in other people they look for the confidence in other people and the love in other people Having a different generation value makes us different and rare, which causes us to develop more on our patience Admiration piques as you grow, without growth you wont become a better version of yourself, and you wont be able to change your circumstances
@JakPiggott agreed. and u are a good source of that sense. thats why people not only thank u for ur insight but by the affect it has done to lifes much appreciated. 👍
That part when you said that “you’re reputation in school goes up when picking on someone” in my opinion is quite pathetic for someone to do. It kinda pisses me off sometimes when i see this happening at my school. I found the video valuable tho “build the best garden to attract the best possible butterflies” Much love brother 👊❤️
I stutter when i’m excited or happy, and when i’m around my friends i get happy, and i stutter! it’s a little annoying and i can’t control it, but i am learning to love my own excitement when i see people i love. I always make sure to (when they say they’re bad at something) point out what they’re good at :).
A friend of mine in high school recently got married, and if you knew this guy that would be a bit surprising. He was not a bad person just odd. But after that I realized that there truly is a key for every lock and someone out there for everyone.
just before i saw this video i was watching some girls video and comparing myself so much that i literally almost cried. then this showed up on my fyp. thank you. we need more people like you in this world
It is not uncommon for those who are suicidal to suddenly seem happy. Not because they aren't thinking about it anymore, but because they have already decided that they are going to end it. This is one of many signs that they are planning to do it. Make sure that your friend is actually alright and see that they get help.
not gonna lie my dad would have been like "This is the type of stuff people need to hear and watch, not that other 'cotton candy.' Thank you, this really made my day.
You know, I think I'm at point in life currently where I actually don't think I do have a secret admirer. I don't see how somebody could actually know me enough to admire me..
I started watching your videos in January, and since then i've started to actually care about my health, i've reduced my screen time about 40min - 1 hour every day and I work out now. Although i'm the one doing it, I wouldn't have started it without you. Thanks Jak, keep it coming ❤
@@JakPiggott I'm trying not to give you too much credit, it's not like you completely changed my life or anything, but I wouldn't have evem started without you
A few days ago, I met a friend that I hadn’t spoken to in a few years, and it made me realize that maybe the good times are here again. I’ve started improving myself, and hopefully I can overcome my struggles with mental health. I hope everyone will get to see their dreams come true one day.
I cant take this shit anymore, Im only 17 and have gone trough hell a good amount of Times, i feel Lost and lonely, i really believe i wont make it to my 20s, i just wanna feel loved by someone, ive always tried my best to be kind and help others but karma doesnt fucking exist, im sorry everyone, please keep safe and Seek for professional help,love yourselves Brothers and sisters, smoker out ❤️
You're young. I'm 25, but I kinda thought the same as you when I was 17. Don't worry, you'll make it to your 20's! Make sure to make peace and learn to enjoy your own company before seeking a relationship.
Thank you.. I'm litterally on my journey to love myself truly with everything I am rn and to stop letting myself be influenced by others🥺 This helps a lot❤
About two or three years ago I was constantly looking for the approval of “the popular group” at school, and because of this I let them push me around and make fun of me. Little did I know at the time, however, that this just made me the laughing stock of their group and that it didn’t help me get their approval at all. It took me until last year to make a change and stand up for myself; I realized where I stood in relation to them so I left, and I’m so glad I did. I also don’t think it’s a coincidence that I started to stand up for myself at the same time that I really started to look into self-improvement and becoming the best version of myself. Your videos have helped a lot, so thank you!
3:25 that's gotta be the STUPIDEST thing i ever heard and somehow to my classmates it makes sense , idk how because i have a classmate in my school that takes my kindness as weaknes and that really pisses me off , but after watching this video it helped me understand that they are pathetic, thank you so much for making this video .
I low key actually do. I’ve been doing theater for a while, and I always receive a rose and a sweet letter in the same handwriting yet it’s never signed
Thank you, for reminding me on what I need to do again. I don't think their is someone who admiers me, but just a reminder on how I should think and my mind set.
This is exactly what I needed today! Thank you, RUclips algorithm, for recommending this to me. And thanks to you, Jak, for making this video! It really helps to focus on improving yourself rather than trying to live up to the standards of others. Obviously, when you’re working a full-time job (like I am), there’s ALWAYS standards that you have to meet in order to avoid being fired or laid off. And those can cause a lot of stress as well. But if you focus on improving YOUR speed, efficiency, etc. instead of worrying about what your employer thinks of you, you’ll have a much better and more fulfilling career-and job security is just an added bonus!
I just found your channel and I just watched 14 of your videos straight. I've never done that before! I am a 16-year-old, and I feel so much connection with you and what you teach. Thank you for being you and helping me become a better me. I am definitely going to be a long term subscriber!
Dude, you have such a nice voice. Okay, that sounds weird, but I was watching a few videos, and I just closed my eyes. Listening contently, it was so peaceful and calming and like awe-inspiring
Hey man i appreciate this a lot, sometimes i feel down because i think that "oh im forgetable" or "oh im unlikeable" but this video made me realize that there's people who don't care about my flaws and actually do care about me in a positive way, and even if others didn't like me, at the end of the day I'd still have myself.
I doubt it but thanks for the kind words I used to really stress about finding somebody that can love me because I thought that no one could love me but now I know that I actually I’m lovable, I just need to have the patience to find the right person You have really helped me through my break up and a lot of other problems so thank you And to anyone who thinks like I used to, in the words of LTG « You should love yourself NOW ! »
I just a few days ago started getting up more early and going to bed more early, what I’m very proud of, afterward life became a lot more fun everyday just cause of that simple choice of not staying up that late.
Bro, it’s 4:46 am rn I’m in an oversized hoodie sitting on a beanbag in the corner of my room eating an apple I was just chilling watching romance movies on RUclips that are free with adds and this popped up on my fyp…😭😭😭
4 months late to the party but I watch this and start crying. I rly needed to hear this bc I’m having a lot of trouble with self-image and while it is very hard for me to stop looking for someone I will try to work on focusing on myself. Thank you for making this
Thank you for putting this out there, I feel like so many people (including me) need it. And for the record, I think you’re one of the cutest guys I’ve ever seen 🤗
Thank you for this bro, I kept belittling myself for looks and everything, especially since people were making fun of me. This helped me so much, thank you.
Bro I’ve been ignoring this vid for a few days but it keeps coming up, and when I finally clicked on it i suddenly realized how much I needed to see this vid. I bow down and salute to you, Jak Piggot. In other words… *RESPECT.*
What's so pedophilia about it? I hope you understand what the word actually means, and not randomly commenting things based on what you just recently heard or seen online.
Things that Jak has better than me 1.Jak has more potential than me I have zero 2.Jak has more confidence than me I have zero 3.Jak has more will power than me I have zero 4.Jak has believe in self I didn't believe in myself never 5. Jak doesn't watch corn 3 or 4 times a day I watch corn 3-4 times setting 6.Jak love is life and I hate my life When i watch Jak i feel more and more guilty about my self I wish i never born never exist....
I know I’m not Jak but please don’t think that about yourself, be the best you can and love yourself share a hobby with someone and talk with someone. Do not think you are a bad person you have potential of being the best you can be and live confidently to be good.
come on mate jak isnt any better than you are, just like jak said in this video, you need to become, or start to become, the best version of you i can relate to the corn, but im trying to stop, just like you should too i know you can help yourself, just keep trying, it will be a lot of trial and error
Ty very much i am gonna download this video so even when I don’t have wifi i can still look at it, it made my day im also gonna share it with my bestie ❤❤❤
I was feeling down, especially after people called me AI looking lmao, i pretend it didn't hurt me but it kinda did. this video showed and it feels like a miracle, thank you. i will lock in for the upcoming 3 months, ill make sure to edit this comment by then.
i hope someone finds this comment. i was bullied a lot when i was younger because i wanted attention and just did annoying shit that i thought was funny to gain attention. I now realise why people hated me so much was because i was a dick head. That lead me to become a better person, but that also sparked an anxiety of not being liked by everyone which haunts me. I was playing this basketball game with mates (i’m shit at basketball) and kept on messing up and the other kids were annoyed. A few days after that when we start playing basketball again, one of my mates tells me that no one likes me after the first game. I thought about it all day and i just broke down. I had no reason to cry: i have friends, family and go to a good school. i have no reason to be sad. Can someone tell me why? i wanted to make new friends so i try getting involved in everything. i get told by one of my mates to be myself but for some reason i find it hard to be myself. Please someone help me.
That really sucks. I’m not really sure about myself right now and where I will go. Last Monday, C and A (their name initials) are kind of together now and M and R confessed the day after. I feel a little jealous and I started really wondering about life, especially love and crushes. Before, I was already wondering about life because I’ve felt more sad since the pandemic. I am now being more conscious of what I do and say in my life now. As for you, just hang out with your friends (the good ones who support you) and maybe ask your parents for more extracurriculars like basketball so you could exercise, make more friends, have fun, and be healthy! Something I learned is that if you are fit and you exercise and take walks more and eat healthier, you are also happier and more positive inside. Stay safe and have a good day/night!
@@kofabillion tysm much brotha. I convinced my parents to get me into boxing again and hopefully i’ll be meeting more people. i hope u find the one bro no need to be jealous. just find the will to love the things that you already have and maybe just maybe you’ll be able to share the love with someone else, someone special.
Hey jak I need some advice I’m going through an addiction to shit and can’t stop it’s not drugs vapes or smoking it’s physical and has something to do with corn watching I keep saying I need to stop but I seem to not be able to what should I do? Much love brotha❤
One thing that helped me a lot was learning about how habits work, there is the cue - the trigger that makes you start the habit ex. boredom, the routine - the main action or behavior of the habit that you wish to change, and the reward - the momentary relaxation or pleasure that results from the habit, even if it is short lived. I recommend finding the thing in your life that starts you down that path, whether it is boredom, anxiety, or generally feeling bad, etc, then finding something else in your life that gives you a high amount of joy, something that you can feel good about. It is much easier to replace segments of a habit loop that to build a new habit or completely dismantle one. If you shift the routine of the habit, and end up with a similar reward, and truly believe that you can change, then you will be able to change. I struggled from the same issue that you currently face, I found that whenever I read the bible that after a bit I’d experience a deep sense of joy, which is what I used to change my habit. I do think the other things such as a quick workout or doing something that you truly enjoy such as a hobby could work too. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. - info from The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
Tysm. This really helped me, because I'm kinda new to highschool, not really,mim in year 8 and I get picked on and people talk bad about me in my class which makes me more insecure. I'm already shy and I want to be brave but now after watching this I feel like I can start trying a bit harder. I won't care if the popular girls talk bad abt me, because they're just insecure themselves. I can be the best version of myself. Thankyou.
our flaws is nothing more than the smallest part of ourselves by giving it importance, we limit ourself to our flaws but we are much much bigger than these flaws
You can realize that your own secret admirer is yourself.
If you start complimenting yourself and stop criticising yourself.
I already know this tho
I have no friends
Are you sad about that? @@jmanbenoit3812
It's too hard not to
I dont think this is what you mean, but Personally, I think no criticism is worse than harsh criticism
impossible, positive self affirmations?
It's crazy how this video showed up three times in my feed and i was like "it's impossible i can't have a secret admirer" So i finally had to click it.
FRR
same lol
Same
Saaaaaaaame
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I think this video showed up because I'm subscribed, not because I have a secret admirer. 😂
I don't watch his videos but they keep showing up. I got click baited into thinking he was gonna tell me who my admirer was.
@@marcuspelletier6969 you can click on the three dots under the video (when it gets recommended, not when in the video) and click "don't recommend" or something like that
Agreed
It might be both, they're not mutually exclusive
Having a secret admirer is much more common than you think
"You are rare." honestly... these are what I live for to hear:) I could cry-
You got this mate!
I was feeling lonely last night, I was crying quietly in my bed. I just wanna find that person, to feel love and affection, to feel a connection and a sense of belonging. I am working on myself, I’m trying to be the best version of myself, but…i don’t know if or when I’ll find that person.
I just hope I do, I hope god has a special person picked out for me. Anyway…at least i have my family and online friends, i just need to make more friends IRL. And hopefully…someday, I’ll find the right person for me.
you got this bro ❤
Same here man, unfortunately I have no real life friends, only online ones. I never really seen it, but I started to realize how lonely I was. I realized how important love actually is. Once I did realize, I done the same thing, sitting on my chair one night, in the dark, as tears fell from my face.
I put my trust into God. I know he'll be there for me, he knows whats best for all of us. When the time comes, we'll find that person. The best thing we could do, is show our appreciation to them, every day. Thank God for all we have, and be greatful.
One day, we'll all find someone if we haven't already. The longer we wait, it'll be so much better then rushing it. Because again, good things come to those who wait. We will be patient, and eventually one day, someone will share their feelings for us, and we will do the same.
For now, we continue working on ourselves. Fixing our issues, whether it's repeating sin, or some other problem. It'll all be worth it, I can promise you that. All we need, is to put our trust in God.
@@BloonChipu got this bro u'll eventually find them
Similar situation, only in my case I thought I found the one at my workplace, and ik people say don’t date your coworkers but it’s not like the workplace I was at was gonna be where I’m at for the rest of my life, but anyway, I thought she was the one, I could never confess to her face because for one we were in different departments and second because we rarely spoke to each other, I didn’t wanna break the mutual respect we had as coworkers, so I did sum stupid shi where I sent them a message request on instagram like a week ago since I had them on my suggestions all summer long, till this day my message is still pending to be accepted, but in a way it made me realize that I really had to lock in with myself so as long as you got goals that you’ve always wanted to do, you’ll never feel that sense of loneliness, in my case I’m goin to adult high school just for the sake of it because I got nothing to do till I start uni next year
Same, I have a lot of insecurities and trust issues and just wanna be able to talk to someone with getting nervous or worried. Worried I will never find true self again. Just like you I also need more IRL friends but man is it hard. Couple of my previous friends had stabbed me in the back big time on one of my projects I was working on. Makes it hard to find new friends, but overtime you’ll figure it out. For now it’s just waiting .
One day I decided to do an experiment at school. I am a pretty popular kid at school, and what I did was I acted cool for 1 week. I noticed that people who knew me were avoiding me a lot more than usual. The next week I acted like myself. I’m always kind and respectful to everyone at school and more people saw who I was and they are all my friends. Don’t become a person that shows off or anything like that because people will never like you. Just be yourself and be kind to others and they will always be nice to you as well.
Popularity means shit...this is coming from a guy whose been popular in school for the most part...popularity doesn't feed your family doesnt earn you money...the knowledge and skills you acquire in school does...your success is far more important than your popularity...so it doesn't matter if you act cool or kind to other what matters is that you're willing to act cool with your distractions and be kind to your goals
@@sohamghosh5772thanks for the inspirational message
@@sohamghosh5772 he’s a popular kid because people like him for who he is. And yes, although it’s mostly just the work you put into the school that decides your future, being respectful and kind to others will get you VERY far in life which this guy tried to prove with his comment.
Yea that’s what @user-yu5pn3n3t is said popularity doesn’t mean shit you just gotta be “YOU”.
@@sohamghosh5772 Sometimes, you need some good friends that motivate you to continue the grind and studying
Jak is our secret admirer, always helping us out
Haha gotcha bro, much love ❤
No Homo ❤
Probably admirers will ignore you or only focus on you don't think about it to much everything comes in it's own time
Tf
Be the admirer of your own best self. Admire but also criticise if need be. Admire Humbly & wisely 💪🏾
100%, you need to find a balance of self love and criticism 👊❤
@@JakPiggott 🤝🏾
@@JakPiggott real
100% good advice
Exactly what constructive criticism is for
to be lame in the eyes of somebody i would never want to be like is nothing but an absolute success in my eyes
“You will realize that you are more than you thought you were”
I really needed to hear that. Thank you
"work hard to show yourself that you are worth it"
-Jesse James West
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I read that as Jessie James and I thought abt Pokémon...
Jak is like the big brother I wish I had growing up 🫤
ok
But you have him now as a youtuber making videos
@@bastiano2939 I know but it would have helped me more if I got good advice like the advice he gives out when I was younger and needed it more
Aye thanks bro ❤
the big brother is watching you
Someone called me ugly one time. People act like I’m annoying, and people ignore me. It determines how I look at myself. But I met some people, one of them in particular, that don’t make me feel bad about myself. And I kinda have a crush on that one particular person. He doesn’t make me feel at all bad about my identity (I am nonbinary), my looks, or my personality. He’s just always there for me, and that’s really special. Remember that it is good to be able to respect yourself on your own, but it’s not bad to have people that will actually lift you up ❤
Ha! Ga-
@@GEEISKING I mean you’re not wrong
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D'awwwww, (frick does anyone understand that-) I hope I find someone like that one day :D
“The most judgmental people are the most insecure”
That is so good
Thanks for the vid I’ve never seen you before but you popped up in my yt and so thankful you did
Keep doing what your doing ❤
Bro you literally come in clutch at the perfect times. When I’m depressed I get your advice videos, when I like someone I get this. One of my favorite content creators for sure.
That's so good to hear bro, much love ❤
That’s happening to me too lol, I was just thinking about this girl I like who I think maybe likes me back (I wish) and then this video shows up when my parents had yelled at me and no one had been talking to me. Really comforted me right now and made me feel wanted by at least one person.
@@the_cap64Go get her king 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@@dillonmcnamara7057 thanks bro 💪🏻🔥
he's not only a content creator, he's more like a therapist or a big brother who's always there for you
Whenever this guy becomes a dad. His kid is gonna have such a happy time
Here is a summary :D
People compare their insecurities with other people's, and talk smack about them
the most judgemental people are also the most insecure
if a person is purely confident, they dont look for insecurities in other people
they look for the confidence in other people
and the love in other people
Having a different generation value makes us different and rare, which causes us to develop more on our patience
Admiration piques as you grow, without growth you wont become a better version of yourself, and you wont be able to change your circumstances
Big W bro ❤
from my understanding judgemental people are just very competitive or want their opinions to be validated
not this man reminding me that my true secret admirer is me
The big brother we didn't deserve but definitely needed.
Jak has what we call common sense. Whoever likes this comment knows what's up🫡🗣.
Not as common as you think
Hehehe pun
@@elizadion4410 nice one ..
Yeah bro all my stuff is common sense, our gen needs it though ❤
@JakPiggott agreed.
and u are a good source of that sense. thats why people not only thank u for ur insight but by the affect it has done to lifes much appreciated. 👍
A surprisingly rare trait.
For me the best thing was a friend who acepted me the way I was, and then I got more confident!
They are the real ones who you should never leave ❤
That part when you said that “you’re reputation in school goes up when picking on someone” in my opinion is quite pathetic for someone to do. It kinda pisses me off sometimes when i see this happening at my school. I found the video valuable tho “build the best garden to attract the best possible butterflies” Much love brother 👊❤️
Yeah bro it is what it is. It's just the power dynamic, you can't afford to take anything personally in high school 😂
I stutter when i’m excited or happy, and when i’m around my friends i get happy, and i stutter! it’s a little annoying and i can’t control it, but i am learning to love my own excitement when i see people i love. I always make sure to (when they say they’re bad at something) point out what they’re good at :).
Stop giving me hope 😭
“No… don’t give me hope.”
Fr why dose this video make me smile
You have stopped to accept Hope…
Never, you should always have hope
He’s not giving you hope, he’s making you realise what’s true.
got this at 21 seconds published and literally best timing, ty so much jak you mean a fucking lot 🤝
Aye LFG bro, much love, this motivates me more than you think ❤
It got recommended to me at 21 hours after publishing, kind of funny. 😊
I love this type of video. 4-6 minutes is a great time frame and this was really motivational. Keep it up Jak!
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Thanks man, been experimenting with some shorter videos recently so I'm glad you're liking them ❤
A friend of mine in high school recently got married, and if you knew this guy that would be a bit surprising. He was not a bad person just odd. But after that I realized that there truly is a key for every lock and someone out there for everyone.
100% man, just gotta have patience and never close your mind to opportunities ❤
Bros catching strays and he isnt even in the room to hear it 😅
@@eline7214😂😂😂
It's like they say : Have confidence to find love
That's the reason we should be aware of these kinds of people. Every problem, always has a solution.
just before i saw this video i was watching some girls video and comparing myself so much that i literally almost cried. then this showed up on my fyp. thank you. we need more people like you in this world
Me clicking on this video:
"Ha! No one is my secret admirer no one loves me!"
Me after:
"Wow I need a moment to think about this"
i've send more of you're video's to a friend of mine who has stress and is on suicide level, after this he became more calmer and became happy
It is not uncommon for those who are suicidal to suddenly seem happy. Not because they aren't thinking about it anymore, but because they have already decided that they are going to end it. This is one of many signs that they are planning to do it. Make sure that your friend is actually alright and see that they get help.
not gonna lie my dad would have been like "This is the type of stuff people need to hear and watch, not that other 'cotton candy.' Thank you, this really made my day.
bro made me cry. i havent cried in years. i felt like no one loved me or valued me because everyone told me i wasnt. thank you jak.
I just failed something today and its really disappointing. Thanks for this advice Jak i will keep going
this is by far my favourite self improvement channel. thank you Jak for sharing these things with us.
Thank you man, there's multiple minds to learn from though ❤
You know, I think I'm at point in life currently where I actually don't think I do have a secret admirer. I don't see how somebody could actually know me enough to admire me..
the only admirer i have is my depression, lonelyness, and no will to try to do something that someone will just turn down
I started watching your videos in January, and since then i've started to actually care about my health, i've reduced my screen time about 40min - 1 hour every day and I work out now. Although i'm the one doing it, I wouldn't have started it without you. Thanks Jak, keep it coming ❤
This is a massive W bro, you should be immensely proud of yourself, keep this up man, don't give me to much credit for the work you put in ❤
@@JakPiggott I'm trying not to give you too much credit, it's not like you completely changed my life or anything, but I wouldn't have evem started without you
*I lost faith in searching a long while ago. But now, We'll see where things go from here. Thank you so much for sharing this, bro* ❤️🙏🏽🤙🏽💯
Don't lose faith bro trust me ❤
Love the cinematic backdrop, we need more vids like this
I got some more coming with some good backgrounds ❤
A few days ago, I met a friend that I hadn’t spoken to in a few years, and it made me realize that maybe the good times are here again. I’ve started improving myself, and hopefully I can overcome my struggles with mental health.
I hope everyone will get to see their dreams come true one day.
I literally starting crying watching this.
Nobody has ever been so nice to me ‼️‼️‼️
I cant take this shit anymore, Im only 17 and have gone trough hell a good amount of Times, i feel Lost and lonely, i really believe i wont make it to my 20s, i just wanna feel loved by someone, ive always tried my best to be kind and help others but karma doesnt fucking exist, im sorry everyone, please keep safe and Seek for professional help,love yourselves Brothers and sisters, smoker out ❤️
You're young. I'm 25, but I kinda thought the same as you when I was 17. Don't worry, you'll make it to your 20's! Make sure to make peace and learn to enjoy your own company before seeking a relationship.
Don’t worry, I have faith it’ll happen eventually. I mean Shrek didn’t even get a gf until he was 30
Thank you guys
Ah. You're a youngling. You still got plenty of time to find someone.
Quick update: Im doing worse and worse by The minute, posting it here cause i dont have a goddamn life :) it was a pleasure guys :)
I needed a video like this man, thank you so much, dude. You're a gift from God!!!
Thank you..
I'm litterally on my journey to love myself truly with everything I am rn and to stop letting myself be influenced by others🥺 This helps a lot❤
This is the best kind of sarcasm i have ever seen!
About two or three years ago I was constantly looking for the approval of “the popular group” at school, and because of this I let them push me around and make fun of me. Little did I know at the time, however, that this just made me the laughing stock of their group and that it didn’t help me get their approval at all. It took me until last year to make a change and stand up for myself; I realized where I stood in relation to them so I left, and I’m so glad I did. I also don’t think it’s a coincidence that I started to stand up for myself at the same time that I really started to look into self-improvement and becoming the best version of myself. Your videos have helped a lot, so thank you!
3:25 that's gotta be the STUPIDEST thing i ever heard and somehow to my classmates it makes sense , idk how because i have a classmate in my school that takes my kindness as weaknes and that really pisses me off , but after watching this video it helped me understand that they are pathetic, thank you so much for making this video .
The song mixed with your words just make me peaceful and make me think about life, thank you.
if you want to know the song name it is "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship.
@@mr_carguy777 Ty bro
I low key actually do. I’ve been doing theater for a while, and I always receive a rose and a sweet letter in the same handwriting yet it’s never signed
Hey, did you find out who that person was?
@@Hexarius01 nah, I asked everyone I knew so either someone is lying or I’ve never crossed paths with them
@@Hudfilmsproductions oh, feel bad for you ):
Thank you, for reminding me on what I need to do again. I don't think their is someone who admiers me, but just a reminder on how I should think and my mind set.
This is exactly what I needed today! Thank you, RUclips algorithm, for recommending this to me. And thanks to you, Jak, for making this video! It really helps to focus on improving yourself rather than trying to live up to the standards of others. Obviously, when you’re working a full-time job (like I am), there’s ALWAYS standards that you have to meet in order to avoid being fired or laid off. And those can cause a lot of stress as well. But if you focus on improving YOUR speed, efficiency, etc. instead of worrying about what your employer thinks of you, you’ll have a much better and more fulfilling career-and job security is just an added bonus!
I just found your channel and I just watched 14 of your videos straight. I've never done that before! I am a 16-year-old, and I feel so much connection with you and what you teach. Thank you for being you and helping me become a better me. I am definitely going to be a long term subscriber!
Dude, you have such a nice voice. Okay, that sounds weird, but I was watching a few videos, and I just closed my eyes. Listening contently, it was so peaceful and calming and like awe-inspiring
This video showed up for me and I'm like, "Damn bro wtf" because you're so right
A message like this is always a good reminder bro, much love ❤
Hey man i appreciate this a lot, sometimes i feel down because i think that "oh im forgetable" or "oh im unlikeable" but this video made me realize that there's people who don't care about my flaws and actually do care about me in a positive way, and even if others didn't like me, at the end of the day I'd still have myself.
honestly, this really is true. you are an amazing motivational RUclipsr, and your words actually can have impact for so many.
I dont have a secret admirer i dont talk to anyone lmao
Me neither. It feels good not to deal with drama
Based
What if they know you while you don't?
Thanks Jak, just got rejected and hit me hard. This helped a ton, to confirm what I should be focusing on. Thank so much Jak.
You've got this man, use this as fuel to become the man you've always wanted to be, much love ❤
I doubt it but thanks for the kind words
I used to really stress about finding somebody that can love me because I thought that no one could love me but now I know that I actually I’m lovable, I just need to have the patience to find the right person
You have really helped me through my break up and a lot of other problems so thank you
And to anyone who thinks like I used to, in the words of LTG « You should love yourself NOW ! »
them girls saying you were on their minds are MVPs!! they understood to say nice things about others! ITS NOT HARD. and really helps!
This video was recommended to me because my algorithm knows that I am in my delulu phase.
Bro I love this new format! It's really beautiful
Thank you brother, been experimenting wth the shorter videos recently and new scenes ❤
I just a few days ago started getting up more early and going to bed more early, what I’m very proud of, afterward life became a lot more fun everyday just cause of that simple choice of not staying up that late.
This is a W man, use this to create more W's, compound interest baby ❤
This was definitely the message I needed right now so thank u for reminding me to get off my phone & get ready for bed 😂
Bro, it’s 4:46 am rn I’m in an oversized hoodie sitting on a beanbag in the corner of my room eating an apple I was just chilling watching romance movies on RUclips that are free with adds and this popped up on my fyp…😭😭😭
I really needed to hear this, I've been having a crap life so far.
Ironically I just got this video in my fyp when I told my crush how I feel
I relapsed on nofap today after around 30 days, I truly believe I can make it this time 🙌
"So, if you're like me, and fantasize about this perfect person,"
...
*I don't.*
I'm aro ace.
😑.✨
Dies bc laughed too hard*
Who in their right mind admires anything about me? I don’t even think my dog does…
Dang, but tbh I say the same to myself too much
4 months late to the party but I watch this and start crying. I rly needed to hear this bc I’m having a lot of trouble with self-image and while it is very hard for me to stop looking for someone I will try to work on focusing on myself. Thank you for making this
I had literally never heard of this guy and this popped up on my fyp.
That means you have a scret admirer, congrats!!
This guys videos are amazing, he helped me out so much
This feels cult-like 😐😐😐😐
This video showed up exactly when I needed it, the message within it really got through me.
I really appreciate this type of videos, thank you 🤍
3 minutes for sure is a sign
Fr, God wants us to see this
It's gotta be bro
"Enjoy the beach" Talking over the beach 😂
Haha same thing 😂
the fact that i was not subscribed earlier and this video showed up to me after 4 weeks means something
Your focus determines your reality fr.
Someone fantasizing me as their punching bag more precisely..
Brother, I legitimately don't know anyone. I haven't talked to a soul outside my family in so long I don't remember.
Now that I've typed that out, that sounds really lonely.
@@den_den6734Fr bro. I just made a similar comment then was like "wow that sounds really sad"😂
@@-Ct-1409- well as long as we aren't too bothered by it, right?
@@den_den6734 that's right! Just keep working on yourself and maybe one day we'll find the right person.
Under 20 seconds is crazy
Nine minutes ago wowzers
😊
🤖
Real one 🤝❤
@@JakPiggott YOOO WE LIT
bros apology will make us cry instead of him
Thank you for putting this out there, I feel like so many people (including me) need it.
And for the record, I think you’re one of the cutest guys I’ve ever seen 🤗
Keep up the great work Jak, you're the 🐐
Thanks bro I'm sure I can say the same for you 👊
Thank you this was nice to hear
❤❤
**AROACE PANIC**
Haha have fun dealing with this
Thank you for this bro, I kept belittling myself for looks and everything, especially since people were making fun of me. This helped me so much, thank you.
Bro I’ve been ignoring this vid for a few days but it keeps coming up, and when I finally clicked on it i suddenly realized how much I needed to see this vid. I bow down and salute to you, Jak Piggot. In other words… *RESPECT.*
0:52 that’s ped0phelia but thank you😭
How so
How??
What's so pedophilia about it? I hope you understand what the word actually means, and not randomly commenting things based on what you just recently heard or seen online.
@@Kylemorales-q2o I think they just mean that the og commenter is under 18
Things that Jak has better than me
1.Jak has more potential than me I have zero
2.Jak has more confidence than me I have zero
3.Jak has more will power than me I have zero
4.Jak has believe in self I didn't believe in myself never
5. Jak doesn't watch corn 3 or 4 times a day I watch corn 3-4 times setting
6.Jak love is life and I hate my life
When i watch Jak i feel more and more guilty about my self
I wish i never born never exist....
Your life is more valuable than anything. You are worth it. Someone loves you
I know I’m not Jak but please don’t think that about yourself, be the best you can and love yourself share a hobby with someone and talk with someone. Do not think you are a bad person you have potential of being the best you can be and live confidently to be good.
someone always will love you.
You won't change much if you don't love yourself bro, you're always doing better than someone else.
come on mate
jak isnt any better than you are, just like jak said in this video, you need to become, or start to become, the best version of you
i can relate to the corn, but im trying to stop, just like you should too
i know you can help yourself, just keep trying, it will be a lot of trial and error
I think this showed up because I watch a bunch of your videos not because I have an admirer
Aye trust me someone's admiring the best version of you, you can't deny that 👊
@@JakPiggott thank you for this it was really uplifting
Ty very much i am gonna download this video so even when I don’t have wifi i can still look at it, it made my day im also gonna share it with my bestie ❤❤❤
I was feeling down, especially after people called me AI looking lmao, i pretend it didn't hurt me but it kinda did. this video showed and it feels like a miracle, thank you. i will lock in for the upcoming 3 months, ill make sure to edit this comment by then.
Good luck man.
Jakk appreciation button 👇
You are aiming at air
@@genio2509 💀
i was feeling good watching this video until i saw your comment, like beggars need to stfu
i hope someone finds this comment.
i was bullied a lot when i was younger because i wanted attention and just did annoying shit that i thought was funny to gain attention. I now realise why people hated me so much was because i was a dick head. That lead me to become a better person, but that also sparked an anxiety of not being liked by everyone which haunts me. I was playing this basketball game with mates (i’m shit at basketball) and kept on messing up and the other kids were annoyed. A few days after that when we start playing basketball again, one of my mates tells me that no one likes me after the first game. I thought about it all day and i just broke down. I had no reason to cry: i have friends, family and go to a good school. i have no reason to be sad. Can someone tell me why? i wanted to make new friends so i try getting involved in everything. i get told by one of my mates to be myself but for some reason i find it hard to be myself.
Please someone help me.
That really sucks. I’m not really sure about myself right now and where I will go. Last Monday, C and A (their name initials) are kind of together now and M and R confessed the day after. I feel a little jealous and I started really wondering about life, especially love and crushes. Before, I was already wondering about life because I’ve felt more sad since the pandemic. I am now being more conscious of what I do and say in my life now.
As for you, just hang out with your friends (the good ones who support you) and maybe ask your parents for more extracurriculars like basketball so you could exercise, make more friends, have fun, and be healthy! Something I learned is that if you are fit and you exercise and take walks more and eat healthier, you are also happier and more positive inside. Stay safe and have a good day/night!
@@kofabillion tysm much brotha. I convinced my parents to get me into boxing again and hopefully i’ll be meeting more people. i hope u find the one bro no need to be jealous. just find the will to love the things that you already have and maybe just maybe you’ll be able to share the love with someone else, someone special.
Hey jak I need some advice I’m going through an addiction to shit and can’t stop it’s not drugs vapes or smoking it’s physical and has something to do with corn watching I keep saying I need to stop but I seem to not be able to what should I do?
Much love brotha❤
One thing that helped me a lot was learning about how habits work, there is the cue - the trigger that makes you start the habit ex. boredom, the routine - the main action or behavior of the habit that you wish to change, and the reward - the momentary relaxation or pleasure that results from the habit, even if it is short lived.
I recommend finding the thing in your life that starts you down that path, whether it is boredom, anxiety, or generally feeling bad, etc, then finding something else in your life that gives you a high amount of joy, something that you can feel good about. It is much easier to replace segments of a habit loop that to build a new habit or completely dismantle one. If you shift the routine of the habit, and end up with a similar reward, and truly believe that you can change, then you will be able to change. I struggled from the same issue that you currently face, I found that whenever I read the bible that after a bit I’d experience a deep sense of joy, which is what I used to change my habit. I do think the other things such as a quick workout or doing something that you truly enjoy such as a hobby could work too. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
- info from The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
@@brenzdmanthanks man❤ much love
Tysm. This really helped me, because I'm kinda new to highschool, not really,mim in year 8 and I get picked on and people talk bad about me in my class which makes me more insecure. I'm already shy and I want to be brave but now after watching this I feel like I can start trying a bit harder. I won't care if the popular girls talk bad abt me, because they're just insecure themselves. I can be the best version of myself. Thankyou.
our flaws is nothing more than the smallest part of ourselves
by giving it importance, we limit ourself to our flaws
but we are much much bigger than these flaws
0:42 I'm really not, but thanks anyway pookie 😭😭
Buddy I don’t even leave the house who tf would be admiring me lmao, other than the local creep
REAL
well if you want a lover then you gotta get out of the house man if you don't honestly good on you
please leave the house
he means it hypothetically in terms of your traits, with growth you are more confident about your pros, those traits that you have, people value them
@@captaincluck838I can’t I don’t have a license or a job so