Why a Narcissist Blocks You!
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- In this short I discuss one reason why a narcissist blocks you!
What does it mean when a narcissist blocks you? The narcissist blocks me when he doesnt get his way because the narcissist must always be in control. If the narcissist blocked me everywhere this means the narcissist is feeling like they need to use one of their many narcissistic punishment tactics to manipulate and control. The narcissist blocks me when mad and the narcissist blocks me when he doesnt get his way. Why the narcissist blocks you is because it is another way in which they refill their narcissistic supply. How long will a narcissist block you depends on how long the narcissist needs you to be punished. The only person who can determine when the blocking is over is the narcissist. The narcissist blocking game is determined by their own needs and wants and nothing else. The narcissist blocking and unblocking might seem arbitrary, however, it is well thought out by the narcissist and dependent on what works best for them and no one else. The silent treatment is in essence able to be enacted with the narcissistic abuse tactic of blocking you on social media. Do narcissist give silent treatment for any reason other than control and manipulation? No. Silent treatment in relationships is abuse and narcissism is marked by emotional abuse in toxic relationships. Why do the narcissists use the silent treatment to punish? Because they don’t have the communication skills to actually address an issue. They are passive aggressive and would rather avoid an issue due to their lack of object constancy than to actually address the issue. Narcissists are masters at deflection and blame shifting.
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If a narcissist blocks you, you are lucky 🤔
I just figured that out 👍
Just happened to me
Then they will unblock you eventually
Blocked just once.
@@barringtonstevens8791true, relationship with them is like forever lol
People block narcissists so they don't come back also.
Yes, this is me too.
I had to block 🚫 to save myself ..I know by now he's blocked me for revenge but I'm good with that 😮😅😮
Yes ❤
Amen 🙏🏾
Exactly!
90%of the time they block you because they spend time with other supply and don't want to be bothered by you💀
Exactly! 😡
I agree
Exactly. Sad truth that he'd Never answer to.
5yrs 11months later....
It's really true. I have a video from back in May when he doesn't realize I was recording him. He realized I was right and he tried to change the subject. He started bringing up this other woman's name a lot towards the end and for me that was what solidified my decision to leave him. When I listened to that video, I was like, yep he was already cheating on me. He was busy talking to his side piece. Well, she can have him, she'll figure out the kind of person he is soon enough.
Yup👏
See it as a blessing folks, enjoy the silence, give your brain a break from the gaslighting
Once you've been abused and victimized by a narcissist you also learn to set healthy boundaries...to protect your own overall health 💪💝
So true!
I'm not the narc. I'm rhe victim and I had to block them everywhere to protect myself from the spell they had over me.
i think they doing something in free time for me too
EXACTLY 💕
did she do black magic on you ?
It’s also a form of silent treatment
It is! Thank you for the comment!
Yes, they wrote a long messege and I was not gonna answer, and then there was: "no need to try answer, you Will be blocked once again after I sent you this" 😅 I haven't been writing for two weeks or so, but I don't even know when I was blocked.
Your mental health is everything folks,
Never let anyone control YOUR mental health 😄👌🏻
I've experienced both sides. I had to block a narcissist who kept reaching out to pick fights. And I've been blocked by a narcissist who didn't want to hear how they had been hurting me.
And also so their "side piece" won't accidentally find out you exist.
Yes very true...
I blocked them first... No contact, peace, no more drama
I disagree. I think people block narcissists to protect themselves!
Yes! I stopped blocking them and resorted to just ignoring...I don't see the need to block someone if there'sno reason. I also believe that because they block, they think you're doing it for the same reason. So it relays a message that you still care, and I don't want them to think I'm tripping about them on any level. Plus, I refuse to give them that much power over me to make me block them. When I'm the one that pays this phone bill, it's just time to move on...
I block narcissists. They don't block me. I know their BS. I can see right through a narcissist.
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me too, i deleted anything i ever used, any pic of me, miss me so much my name is like D in their mouth
When a known narcissist family member that has borderline personality disorder from way back owes me money and says they don't and puts up pitiful little things on Facebook about liars and happens to be my son he is the sick one and I will block him for a while
I have blocked the narcissists in my life so they'll have a harder time snooping and (hopefully) get bored. And then! I closed accounts in my real name and opened anonymous accounts when it became clear that blocking them wasn't enough.
Blocking their phone number still allow them to text and call, I'm just not notified and can then choose if I want to read or listen to their messages. (I don't.) But here's the thing: They don't call or text, they seem to prefer snooping on social media.
Via email, their messages are auto-directed to the trash. Email is also a preferred torture device for the narcissists in my life. So, now they can email me whatever they want and I am blissfully unaware that the messages exist and can honestly say I never saw, received, or read them.
This is an effort to preserve my mental health.
Oh, and! I even had to block one on PAYPAL. No kidding. She figured out that she could message me there, too.
"Crazy-making" isn't a strong enough phrase for these people's behavior.
I so agree. I know a narcissist too will block in between texts because he wants to let me think that he doesn't want to hear back from me. I block him for a couple of days so he emails me. It's a push-pull game that is not cute. Especially from a man that old. He's a senior citizen. It's passive aggressive and as you stated is used to reassert control, I wouldn't waste my time on it ever again
I feel so so stupid for not knowing he was a narcist.😢he broke me into pieces when he blocked me without knowing why.
This sounds exactly like my ex. He blocked me on everything after I called him out for stealing from me. That's fine because I have him blocked as well.
The funny part is, he blocked me only on Facebook where we were not even friends, both of our accounts are very private so we couldn't see each other's stuff anyway. But he didn't block me on Instagram, where both of our accounts are public and he could see all my stuff without even following me. It was definitely to send a message and punish, it served no logistical purpose.
My ex narcissist use to block me then I'm unblocked 2days later, I let him see me on his birthday 3dats ago because he been wanting to see me, and in the morning had argument, now I'm blocked he hasn't unblocked me 2days later now. But he did me a favour.
I have been through a lot with dealing with Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse and I have worked in Construction most all of my life and now I am Divorced and single and Retired and for right now I have set boundaries and I just need to say focused on my life and I text my daughters information on Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse thanks. GOD-BLESS.
Trust me !!! They read those blocked messages!!! GO FOR DEFLATING THE EGO Y'ALL 😂😂😂
I block people all the time because they are toxic!
Yes, I was done a form of blocking. He does not give me 'likes' or anything as he does others, then he went so far as to delete a whole page/post 3 wks after I posted something he should have liked. With that, I felt punched in the gut badly, I mean badly. I decided I was done, and not to return to his SM. However I got weeks of daily bombardment of new postings notices which was very weird but I won't look. Kind of as though perhaps he was feeling guilt for deleting me as though he needed room for more stuff. Perhaps not. Anyway, he likely wants new supply, not me.
Mine told me he doesn't love me. I know he doesn't want me, even told me that but doesn't want anyone else to have me either. He's gone as long as 2 2mweeks to the day no contact then calls me telling Me he misses me.
It seems perfectly healthy to assert whatever control you have to better your life, if blocking someone to prevent yourself from seeing the painful and insensitive things they post, improves your mental health- DO IT. And move on - but don’t unblock them the next week.
Just recently found out a friend of mine was 1. I thought she was just a victim suffering from NPD from her narc mother until I saw signs of covert. When called out about it she discarded and said she was hurt. Came back a week later like nothing happened, I fell for it and counseled her. She got triggered when I set up boundaries and showed her your video of narcissist discard, said I was hurting her and tried to justify and blah blah. She made 0 sense. I said wow, I can't believe I was narcissistic supply to her so long. In reality trying to help and time invested in a narc is pretty much a waste.
I blocked her! I just dont need the toxic abuse after she has a new supply
Dude just because someone blocks you does not make them a narcissist 😂
I have blocked people because they do not ever reach out and I get sick of always being the initiator. This does not make me a narcissist. I just get sick of being disrespected for no reason.
Go toward people who respect and value you.
Just because someone don’t reach out to you doesn’t mean they disrespect u.. it could just basically mean not interested! Your reaction to them not being interested hurts your feelings so your reaction is blocking-that’s it that’s all
I think it's important to block out what is not important to you. It's setting boundaries Narcissists don't like being blocked and they can't accept boundaries. Read into this post as you wish but it sounds like word salad and Narcissists will always be vague.
Thank you.
I was wondering why they do this
GREAT INFO! 😊 you're right. seems like they try to control others communications since they cannot have any self control.
Exactly!
I really should have left after blocking became a pattern. Remember, actions speak louder than words and if someone is blocking or stonewalling you it's absolutely okay to just let things stay that way.
He told me before “ if you don’t stop I will block you “!
Bc I was trying to have a conversation about us & HE didn’t want to hear it !
His way of controlling me not bringing up stuff he didn’t want to talk about!!
Makes so much sense now !
CONTROL !
My ex narc of 7 years very covertly removed me from every aspect of her life until our relationship was just a job for me doing all her work and chores. I've never been a big social media person and she lived on her phone 24/7, after a few years of being run ragged by her I started to question our relationship and THAT was the end for me. She had very convincing reasons why she blocked me from her social media and why she would leave me out of catch up's with her friends etc. Covert narcissists are truly evil. I'm free now but 18 months on I'm still trying to heal but I know now I'm better off without her in my life. I like your style and info in your videos, thank you for sharing.
It's never only about them, because theh don't have free will, as they don't respect themselves. It's all about controlling, to put "others" down to adore the narcissist. Narcissistic injury isn't produce by others, as those "others" have imaginary properties, it's the narcissist who doesn't have self esteem. How can a person be guilty of producing a narcissistic injury? That's a big contradiction. Woke culture.
This is incorrect, the narcissist never gets exhausted, the narcissist enjoys negative supply. The victim suffers from exhaustion.
Usually the victim blocks, the narcissist, why would the victim want to get information to the narcissist?
Your saying they have took up the withdrawal position that could be possible, (that’s sort of what the victim, aim for) maybe that could be a good period for the victim, allowing the victim a rest and to move forward.
Please don’t give the narcissist any of your information.
People can block whoever they want. Block me and I'll block you back 😅
So that explains it. There's just nothing about them that functions normally. No way are they worth all this circus!
Wow that’s no good thing to do to someone you’re being in love with.
but can they do something original and not copy others, oh i broke up with you, how about i didnt even like you, i was just bored!
❤ thank you for this message you are looking well/ fresh faced ..have a great day.
I don't understand. I have been told to block and ignore a narcissist for my sanity, not punishment. And then the narcissist blocks someone, and that is for punishment. Do you see my confusion?
It can be confusing for sure! My shorts all have links to the longer video they were made from and it can provide more information. However, for your question I think the best video to watch would be "How do I tell the difference between NO CONTACT and SILENT TREATMENT?" which can be found here: ruclips.net/video/IPrUPYNVkZg/видео.html When a narcissist blocks someone it is meant to be controlling and manipulative - and used to get their way without concerns for others. When non-narcissists block, it is an appropriate boundary and a way to no longer allow the narcissist to be able to control and manipulate.
@@DrEmilyMayfield I understand your explanation because it coincides with my experiences. She will often stop communicating because she doesn't want transparency, and accountability. Not answering is an answer. I stop responding to every demand from her because I don't want to fight. It's all one way interrogation. She wants me to lay down on a "hot grill," in order to "fry me up" and find fault. I usually am only wanting to find out what is the complete truth. Yesterday, after I found out she had been planning on dumping me for years, I asked her about the thousands of times we told each other we loved each other. She told me, "love has many different meanings." It was an excuse to basically say she used the "love" term to manipulate and control me. So much of everything was all a lie. I was a puppet on her strings. I've been devastated and shattered for the last 6 months. Information like what you give is helping me to understand what was going on all these years. Thank you very much. I need your videos.
I saw my ex narcissist on his birthday other day he been wanting to see me, I let him, then we had a argument in morning before he left, now I'm blocked. He has blocked me for 2days in the past. But he hasn't unblocked me this time. And they doing as a favour.
Be very glad they block you
Block is good
This was very helpful and something I've been looking for the answer for, for 4 years so thank you!
You're very welcome!
Thank you,but Noone control me,ewen myselfe lm craizy and sometimes loosing myselfe
Narcissistic injury is caused by the narcissist,!!!!hello???
I blocked ms narc because she threatened me etc.
What if you block them? Am I the narcissist now? She took me to hell, used me for a baby, and won't let me see our child.
Blocking them for your own mental health and well being doesn't make you the narcissist. When the blocking is done to control and manipulate that is when it becomes an issue.
@@DrEmilyMayfield understood. Don't want to end up being worse than her. I'm sure, somehow, she'll still be the victim.
Well it’s the whole narc game, they project on the victim what they are to feel better
This is backwards
Wait what is something I can do or say to get un blocked?
They want you to beg and boost their ego.
She blocked me and everyone’s saying she’s a narc. But I want to be there for my fiancé
Run people
People can block who they want whenever don’t make them a narcissist 😂
Of course. However, this video is specifically about narcissists and not "people" in general.
Sounds like somebody has blocked someone a time or two. 😅
@@jeremytaylor4874 100 😂
Quite the toxic narcissistic comment tbf 😂
@@gordongraham7552 blocking is necessary for lots of reasons especially for mental health I’ll block who ever makes me feel shitty that’s a basic right. I’m not here put up with shit from anyone, self love is a must.
I got blocked because I didn’t answer his calls after being called a dumb broke bitch repeatedly. He tricked me with God stuff. Said he felt blessed to be a family and all the stuff I needed to hear. Then tore me down and broke up with me everyday. He made fun of my parenting, appearance, anything I did really. He made fun of me for talking to my estranged and absent father then said everyone leaves me for a reason knowing I have issues with those words. I’m glad he blocked me. He’s in an apartment with my name on it. I’m waiting for him to leave so I can take apartment back and stop dealing with the back and forth games all day. I’m worn out.
I'm so glad I don't talk to my sister. She blocked me after being a caseworker thinking she's better than me I'm adopted and I'm a chosen one and my whole family my relatives my siblings I hate me because I speak the truth about being physically and mentally abused. They almost went to jail, but yeah, my sister, my siblings. My relatives have just thrown me away. I'm 2 hours away, I don't drive but they won't even pick me up for holidays. Still do things and then tell me after the fact. So it's just like white bother. It still hurts no matter how much counseling you have, or how many people you've tried to talk to or pray about it and never goes out of your heart, especially when you are close to your sister😢😢 I just wish I had somebody to love me nobody loves me. I'm adopted and my family said no matter what they loved me. But they bring up the past and hold it up against me. I have such a sweet spirit, and I've just been thrown away by friends. Family relatives and there's no way to get around on holidays. Where I lived volunteer someplace at homeless shelter
happy for the blockade
it's crazy,you see on some sites people have someone blocked for LIKING a post which is really weird!
I changed my phone number and blocked him on everything- he still tries to contact me even with a restraining/ no contact order - but he pretends I was the bad one, doesn’t that show even him that he’s a liar and holds all the blame for his monstrous atrocities he did that made me leave him?!
This makes me sound like the problem for blocking them. Sorry, not sorry.
A narcissist would make you feel guilty blocking others.
Watch out. May be someone makes you feel guilty by saying that blocking is bad is narcissist.
Sometimes someone doesnt communicate anymore with you tho because its pointless. Theres good communication but the person doesnt know how to listen
I thought the complete opposite. Going through hell and being gaslit all the time is exhausting. But I am happy to be the person called a narcissist if it protects my peace and stops the roller coaster of suffering.
Wrong.
Mine groomed me three weeks before the discard that she wanted to split up for 3 months! I said well I’m unlikely to give you what you want in giving you a baby in such an unstable emotional environment then! I asked her if this was the devaluation stage leading up to the discard and she flung her arms around me and said that it was not. Low and behold she manufactured an argument just after Valentine’s day the next week and i had to walk away and was blocked and discarded. Recently she sent her flying monkey number one to me to ask me to dance two months on from being ignored by her and her flying monkeys so I’m watching the thawing process lols😅
I discard my narcissist because he lied and I was with him for several months and I know when he's lying so with him blocking me one I'm not going to message him back but I know him.. Is he going to react in a way to the new Supply that will confuse the other person just to gain control or be extra nice to the new Supply?
Makes sense
Yup this is what mi e does every few days esp when I needed him the most
I think not just to control the information that gets in but the information that gets out, too, in a manipulative way, so they share with each stranger but not with you as you can see through most things and know their way.
Actively happening
Same. Just happened which is why I searched for this content.
Blocking me from talking on Snapchat
So much asumptions in one video. Not even considering the person who is blocked is the narc.
The video is 1 minute long. Check out longer videos on my channel for more information.
Could care less 😂
Not always
Whaaaaat?
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YES 🫡 🥹