Secretaries On Screen: Secretly The Most Important Person In The Office | Trope Explained

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  • Опубликовано: 22 май 2024
  • Secretaries keep the company running, know everything about everyone, and are often severely underappreciated. Nowadays, there are a number of different positions that fall into this trope - secretaries, personal assistants, receptionists, executive assistants, and beyond - but they all share some important qualities, and have to suffer through many of the same problems. Though these jobs are integral to keeping their companies running, they very seldom get much recognition for all of the work they do. So let’s take a deeper look at the various representations of the secretary on screen - from Mad Men's Joan to The Office's Pam to Veep's Sue to Suit's Donna to 9 to 5's Doralee and beyond - what she really represents, and why she deserves respect.
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    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Intro
    00:44 The Sexy Secretary Trope
    01:59 The Plucky Office Girl Trope
    03:03 The Ditzy Secretary Trope
    04:06 The Male Secretary Trope
    04:51 The Long-term Loyal Secretary
    05:47 The "Secretary Fantasy" vs Real Life
    08:05 All women being seen as secretaries, regardless of role
    09:21 Modern secretary stories changing the narrative
    10:26 Mad Men's Joan & Peggy
    11:04 The Office's Pam
    11:45 Succession's Jess
    12:28 Parks and Recreation's April
    13:23 Veep's Sue
    14:09 AI Secretaries?
    15:24 It's time to show secretaries the respect they deserve
    The Take was created by Debra Minoff & Susannah McCullough
    This video was produced/written by Jessica Babineaux, narrated by Charly Bivona, and edited by John Tod
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Комментарии • 109

  • @thetake
    @thetake  Месяц назад +9

    Thanks so much for watching! Next up, check out our recent video on tragedy of the Untouchable Girl Trope: ruclips.net/video/1JjlMpw4RIY/видео.html

    • @zacazzz
      @zacazzz Месяц назад

      but where is Maggie Gyllenhaal

    • @joanjones6882
      @joanjones6882 Месяц назад

      Fembot video pleeeeeeease

  • @theinternetisnotreal1
    @theinternetisnotreal1 Месяц назад +77

    Secretaries and personal assistants are the nurses of the corporate world.

    • @thomaslyons441
      @thomaslyons441 Месяц назад

      That is an excellent analogy.

    • @Angels8Harmony
      @Angels8Harmony Месяц назад +3

      As a manager in corporate who works for UPS, I can sincerely say this is the god truth!

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Месяц назад +208

    The 80's Twilight Zone has an episode where a downtrodden Secretary ends up in a parallel universe where secretaries are treated akin to models, and everyone is impressed when she admits that she's one. It's a nice subversion of the usual clichés, and she's able to cultivate her own happy ending.

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses Месяц назад +128

    Also when you're the *only woman* in a team of men... you become the Hermione or *"serious mom"* of the group... which can become exhausting af

    • @ayameisastar
      @ayameisastar Месяц назад +11

      Oh god. My friend was #9 at a tech startup and when they finally hired a secretary/receptionist, she was an older woman who was basically just there to be mom to a bunch of 25 year old toddlers. She’d go in on Monday and there’d be chaos and mess from a whole weekend of drinking, gaming and coding

  • @macyelledge8864
    @macyelledge8864 Месяц назад +102

    I loved how in Suits, Donna was not only always the one keeping the firm together, but other characters actually acknowledged it, and when they didn't give her the respect she knew she deserved, she fought back. Plus, she worked her way up and earned the position of COO.

    • @vbrown6445
      @vbrown6445 11 дней назад

      I didn't see the show, but COO is really the appropriate role for so many of the senior secretaries/executive assistants I have seen in my lifetime. It's not just the office that would fall apart without them, but the company itself.

  • @SS-mk2yp
    @SS-mk2yp Месяц назад +91

    I'm the administrator/secretary/receptionist/janitor/repairman/therapist/solver of everyone's problems at my office. Most days, it feels like I'm a single mom to 20 adults who can't do damn thing for themselves 🙄

    • @tomoegozen2302
      @tomoegozen2302 Месяц назад +1

      I find it always amusing when women (Yes, most of the time it’s women) complain about how they have to take care of people all the time in a job like this, for people who are not self-dependent enough like your colleagues. Just a reminder: You wouldn’t be doing this job then if you don’t like the idea of being needed and in charge of things. Just be aware if you’re the mommy in the office the kids won’t ever be self-dependent. So, it’s more a teamwork in your case.

    • @SS-mk2yp
      @SS-mk2yp Месяц назад +12

      @tomoegozen2302 That's a bit of a stretch to a pile of bullshit, but you do you.

    • @sammyvictors2603
      @sammyvictors2603 26 дней назад +1

      God Bless you for your strength. Those 20 adults don't deserve you.

  • @adalovelace521
    @adalovelace521 Месяц назад +58

    Sue of veep is the coldest, most savage and the best secretary

    • @Rs-rq9fd
      @Rs-rq9fd Месяц назад +1

      As an office manager, she’s my role model

  • @PrettyPrincess9609
    @PrettyPrincess9609 Месяц назад +27

    I use to work as an Administrative Assistant a couple of years ago and all of these problems I experienced myself. Unfortunately, I also experienced racism as well when I use to work in the office. It really sucks to not be respected even when you exceed expectations, be berated and treated like your nothing, be harassed by jealous coworkers who will do anything to get the promotion, passed up for promotions despite being one of the top performers, cursed out by customers over company policies that you didn’t create, and deal with racism from customers. I’m just glad I work from home now and I’m working in a different field that doesn’t involve me being on the phone. I feel more appreciated now and I’m finally rewarded for my hard work. I will never go back to the office and customer service ever again.

    • @rush8280
      @rush8280 Месяц назад

      Glad to hear you’ve gotten out! Where do you work now?

  • @janehargrove3651
    @janehargrove3651 Месяц назад +51

    as a secretary myself I love the fact that you made this video 😂

    • @burvjuzizlis22
      @burvjuzizlis22 Месяц назад +4

      Haha,me too, I met my boyfriend being a secretary and he was sales manager.😂Definitely was into a trope.

  • @gabrielle6415
    @gabrielle6415 Месяц назад +27

    “Sue, did the president call?”
    “…no.”

  • @ThatsSo369
    @ThatsSo369 Месяц назад +25

    Admin assistant. Every single one of these issues happened this morning

  • @Hallows4
    @Hallows4 Месяц назад +14

    Etta Candy was a great subversion of this trope. She had some of the classic signifiers, but really stood in her own right, despite her limited screen time.

  • @cynthiaschultheis1660
    @cynthiaschultheis1660 Месяц назад +10

    MAD MEN reminded me of my dad, always wore a suit to work. And my mom was in a stamp pool early in her CPA career.
    I've worked in many offices for varied companies. Retired as Asst. Director of Multicultural Center for 23 years. Yes, we KNEW everyrhing!!!!🤐🤐🤐🤐

  • @Evamarie41
    @Evamarie41 Месяц назад +8

    Hello. Thank you for this video and for calling them "secretaries". Secretary is not an offensive or insulting word. It's my job. It's an important job and can be difficult. Also, anyone who thinks that we can be completely replaced by an AI thing, does not understand our job in the slightest.

    • @Evamarie41
      @Evamarie41 Месяц назад

      also we definitely get asked to do admin work. Even in jobs where we aren't the secretary.

  • @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
    @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety Месяц назад +10

    My favorite TV secretaries/assistance/ go-fers: Miss Hathaway - The Beverly Hillbillies, Janine Melnitz - The Real Ghostbusters, Jennifer Marlowe - WKRP in Cincinnati, Crystal Smith - Dead Like Me, Scooter - The Muppet Show.

  • @cynthiaschultheis1660
    @cynthiaschultheis1660 Месяц назад +12

    Phone operators, men, got drunk at lunch, and were rude to callers, fired often. So women were brought into operator jobs.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Месяц назад +11

    I always thought I had the skills of an assistant and a secretary and it’s always the aesthetic and idea of working at an office that attracts me.

    • @Giftedgurl100
      @Giftedgurl100 22 дня назад +2

      I completely understand how you feel! I've had that same attraction.

  • @thefriesofLockeLamora
    @thefriesofLockeLamora Месяц назад +3

    I worked as a secretary for a little over a year and people who do that job deserve the world

  • @laffingist218
    @laffingist218 Месяц назад +20

    most bosses do like 3 things a day that take forever and 2.5 go nowhere

  • @andreabanuelosavila2317
    @andreabanuelosavila2317 Месяц назад +4

    This video reminded me that my grandma told me she used to be a secretary in her youth, she even studied for that.

  • @clickchick760
    @clickchick760 Месяц назад +47

    Darn, this hit hard. As an executive assistant, all of these aspects have come up at one point or another.

  • @Sokew86
    @Sokew86 9 дней назад +2

    I used to be the second type of secretary. After seven months I say goodbye everyone I have found a new job!
    They were all shocked that a person with a master degree want an job in their field 😂

  • @binarystar300
    @binarystar300 Месяц назад +24

    I'd love to see a show with Peggy and Joan from Mad Men working with April Ludgate from Parks and Rec.
    Joan: "April, where is Mr. Draper?"
    April: "He said he 'went out', so he's probably asleep in bed with someone at a whore house"

    • @synthiasparkle6482
      @synthiasparkle6482 Месяц назад +6

      That reminds me that a lot of shows with "great lead male characters" are guys who we "forgive" for cheating on their wives. Note that these men are also fathers: It happens in Mad Men, The Sopranos, and even in a show like Pose, Evan Peter's character Stan cheats on his wife and children. They're never called out for it- at least in the beginning- definitely not by their other male peers. Women keep hushed about it. Even in a world like Crazy Rich Asians and real life, secretaries are supposed to help men pick out jewelry for their mistresses. This doesn't mean we should show more women having affairs. I get that it's drama, but it makes characters irredeemable when they do things like this- it's immoral.
      This is seen in Wolf of Wall Street too- even when he leaves his wife for the new woman, he ends up treating Margo Robbie's character like a trashy object/degradable trophy wife. And when the time comes, these "men" will dispose her too for a younger, more naive woman in her steed. Sorry for the rant!
      Note to The Take: if you're reading this definitely make this a video topic "The Disposal Family: How he gets away with having an affair"

    • @angelicasmodel
      @angelicasmodel Месяц назад +3

      And Joan would then give a very polite, but very pointed dressing down!

  • @helenmarie1082
    @helenmarie1082 13 дней назад +1

    Never watched ‘Madmen’, but having seen clips of Joan on RUclips, she’s such a badass.

  • @ButterflyBandit88
    @ButterflyBandit88 Месяц назад +4

    I read an Australian ABC article on a woman transitioning to a man. They said they no longer got asked to do 'admin' work, like take notes, or organise lunch, or get coffees for everyone.
    It was a really eye opening article on unconcious gender roles in the workplace

  • @V_4_Versace
    @V_4_Versace Месяц назад +6

    Huh I was never interested in watching Veep, but learning about the secretary character just made me want to give it a watch!

  • @Walls2008
    @Walls2008 Месяц назад +5

    HUGELY wonderful video. Well done!

  • @WillJBailey
    @WillJBailey 22 дня назад +2

    I used to be a secretary and PA, and in all my years I never came across another male one. It always struck me as deeply weird. One time I was speaking to a client on the phone, they said “oh this is no good, I need skirt. Get me a skirt!” 😱

  • @prestely
    @prestely Месяц назад +2

    In Veep, Gary could also be considered the other half, the "waiter" side to the secretary. It's interesting in the show that the job was Split in two, Sue for the administrative tasks and Gary for the personal assistant, and that the gendered roles were swapped, Sue being more assertive and Gary more nurturing.

  • @jordanloux3883
    @jordanloux3883 Месяц назад +3

    I feel like more time should have been given to Moneypenny. Sure she was mostly there for Bond to flirt with, but she was also the only person in MI6 that served as his anchor to the real world.

  • @jongrover8763
    @jongrover8763 Месяц назад +3

    Alexander Hamilton was George Washington's secretary.

  • @angelicasmodel
    @angelicasmodel Месяц назад +3

    I used to be an EA, and really enjoyed it, so i appreciated this video.
    One on screen secretary i simultaneously love and loath is Elaine from Ally McBeal. I love her because she enjoys her job, but also uses the less stressful workload to do meaningful activities outside of work. On the other hand, she always sneaking around and spying on people. This is supposed to be so she knows what's going on. The reality is that secretaries know what's going on is because people tell them. We also sit in meetings precisely so we know what's going on. We also take messages, open letters, and file documents with important info. It's disappointing that the show felt the need to ignore Elaine's presence in the work, and treat it as an annoyance.
    Another representation is Thoroughly Modern Millie. She is very skilled at her job, but she's only interested in finding a boss to eventually marry.
    I'd be interested in an AI video please. My opinion on how AI will change the role of a secretary is that it will be similar to the shift in the role due to PCs. Once workers could type their own letters, there was less of a need for typists. There were fewer admins in the office, but they took on greater responsibilities. I would be in charge of preparing different reports, and taking on minor projects.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Месяц назад +3

    3:50 ‘Doc Martin’ had a lot of these.

  • @HomeyPups
    @HomeyPups Месяц назад +6

    This is literally my life. Like right now. 20+ years as an EA and im constantly stuck in the waitress/mom role. No matter how hard ive worked, i cant get out of the pink ghetto.

  • @SunShine-qk4rb
    @SunShine-qk4rb Месяц назад

    Great episode.

  • @debbiemoore2747
    @debbiemoore2747 Месяц назад +1

    NHS secretary here. My takeaway is brits are lonely and the entitlement to trauma dump us is frankly exhausting. Patients definately blur lines but sadly management who DONT deal with patients are very against having boundaries!

  • @felimillo
    @felimillo Месяц назад +8

    I think it would have been cool to have Gina from Brooklyn 99 as well, since her character is out of trope from most of the ones described here

  • @missherjh
    @missherjh Месяц назад +1

    Sue standing out in this video proving once again she’s one of the stronger comedic characters of all time 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @haleykornfield698
    @haleykornfield698 Месяц назад +3

    I feel like Donna Moss from TWW is the Sexy Secretary (and its subversion), the Plucky Secretary, the Ditz, and the Loyal Secretary. I wonder if she wasn’t featured because she’s not in a box.

  • @amylouise9853
    @amylouise9853 Месяц назад +1

    I’m an EA and I think being a mother is the closest analogy to it. The biggest challenge really is the lack of possible career progression, there isn’t much of a ladder to climb.

  • @malyciousapple
    @malyciousapple Месяц назад +1

    I tend to go back and forth on whether I appreciate the very even tones in these videos, even when discussing really upsetting tropes and stereotypes, but I gotta admit the *very audible* frustration and disdain in this one was was hilariously

  • @yungsolopath2603
    @yungsolopath2603 12 дней назад

    Carol burnett's Mrs.Wiggins is the best portrayal.

  • @Forceprincess
    @Forceprincess Месяц назад

    I remember (when I was a kid) Lani Andersons character from wkrp in Cincinnati. Also, this video needed to address gina linetti from Brooklyn 99. Like you brought up every other micheal shur show but that one 😂

  • @georgeprchal3924
    @georgeprchal3924 Месяц назад

    The vague flirting between Kent and Sue is some of the best in TV.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Месяц назад +2

    2:04 BETTY SUAREZ THE ICON THAT YOU ARE ❤
    (We had Jassi in Hindi television)

  • @Clarke.Beatriz.Griffin
    @Clarke.Beatriz.Griffin Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤ I love it! 💕

  • @zypher1990
    @zypher1990 Месяц назад +2

    Maya Wilkes and Sinclair James would like a word.

  • @Lena-oi1ye
    @Lena-oi1ye Месяц назад +7

    ahh, i wish this had included maggie gyllenhaal's character in "Secretary" (2002) and brooklyn 99's gina linetti 💔

    • @christinecremen4151
      @christinecremen4151 Месяц назад +2

      So do I !

    • @AI-dp3rd
      @AI-dp3rd Месяц назад +3

      I was so disappointed Maggie Gyllenhaal's character (Lee?) wasn't in the thumbnail!!

  • @TrulyMademoizelle
    @TrulyMademoizelle Месяц назад +1

    Heavy on the "mother and a waitress".

  • @tygressblade
    @tygressblade Месяц назад +4

    AI has been a catch all. But let’s be honest, programmers can’t program common sense into a computer program because they don’t have it initially.

  • @butcher_banana3745
    @butcher_banana3745 Месяц назад +2

    And even if I like The Intern movie Robert de Niro is a dad and a therapist

  • @MyJwiz
    @MyJwiz Месяц назад

    Excellent 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @cynthiaschultheis1660
    @cynthiaschultheis1660 Месяц назад +3

    If I had a dollar for every inappropriate words or actions by men thru my "secretarial, assistant, grad asst., office manager jobs" I'd be a very rich woman!!!!🤑🤑🤑🤑

  • @kge6492
    @kge6492 15 дней назад

    Its a ity you didnt use a ditzy secratary from Ridle High with the cymbals

  • @currentlywatchingrandomvid5650
    @currentlywatchingrandomvid5650 Месяц назад

    Okay now I get it the sketch from SNL

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Месяц назад +1

    4:27 These type of narrations are my favourite haha

  • @cartomancycarmen
    @cartomancycarmen Месяц назад

    Fawn Hall 😩

  • @cynthiaschultheis1660
    @cynthiaschultheis1660 Месяц назад

    "THE V.I.P.S" FILM, MAGGIE SMITH PLAYS A PRIVATE SECRETARY TO ROD TAYLOR, AND IN LOVECWITH HIM. ITS HEARTBREAKING!😪😪😪

  • @CaregivingVlogs
    @CaregivingVlogs Месяц назад +3

    Please make a AI worker video.

  • @amyzing4344
    @amyzing4344 Месяц назад

    Take staff, how dare you completely ignore the queen of secretaries, Elaine Vassal from Ally McBeal? The woman was so good at her job she spent most of her time inventing gadgets and gossiping in the unisex bathroom. For shame Take team, for shame!

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 Месяц назад

    I would like to see the AI video.

  • @feliciabaxter6423
    @feliciabaxter6423 22 дня назад

    YOU FORGOT JANINE!!!

  • @kaitlyn__L
    @kaitlyn__L Месяц назад

    PLEASE do a fembot slash sexualised doll analysis video. I love your intersectional and woman-focused analyses!! 😊

  • @adiksaff
    @adiksaff Месяц назад +1

    Any Kdrama fans out there? What’s Wrong With Secretary Kim” ring any bells?

  • @Oliver401
    @Oliver401 Месяц назад

    I love how disapears in later seasons because she is too competent to work for Selena Meyers

    • @williamalfonso1373
      @williamalfonso1373 Месяц назад +1

      If I recall, the New Administration kept her and let everyone else go.

  • @tonyc8752
    @tonyc8752 21 день назад

    Only on TV are they important. In real life, not so much

  • @thomaslyons441
    @thomaslyons441 Месяц назад

    So, what category of secretary is the main character of "Secretary"?

  • @seebothways9630
    @seebothways9630 Месяц назад +2

    What would you think if employers started only hiring men as secretarys to avoid the hole story of appreciate secretary

  • @ChutneyRomero
    @ChutneyRomero Месяц назад

    Yes, make an AI video please! Thank you.

  • @whatsup3519
    @whatsup3519 Месяц назад +1

    Se xy sports reporter what is ur take on that?

  • @Zappas77Princess
    @Zappas77Princess Месяц назад +1

    Yes please a vid on AI/fembots/ rise of, would be interesting.

  • @jadziawynter9241
    @jadziawynter9241 Месяц назад +1

    First! 🥇☝🏾

  • @lucbauer
    @lucbauer Месяц назад +1

    Pam lost her charisma when stopped being the receptionist. Some characters are born to fit into a role.

  • @hinkhall5291
    @hinkhall5291 Месяц назад +3

    *Joan had some huge knockers too.*

  • @seebothways9630
    @seebothways9630 Месяц назад +2

    Wonder if children were ever secretaries

  • @seebothways9630
    @seebothways9630 Месяц назад +3

    Women are empowered and freed after divorce until the man dies on the street and theres no more alimony.
    .because of how horrible the man was and men are broken because of the great women was he didn't appreciate. Not anything systemically mebt prevent maj moving on. But same research shows when the Wife comes down with terminal illnesses. They feel freed as they only stayed in marriage out of legal obligation

  • @seebothways9630
    @seebothways9630 Месяц назад

    When workers ask for fare pay they mean unfair pay in their favor

  • @paisan8766
    @paisan8766 Месяц назад

    3rd wave whining

  • @eliadavis3881
    @eliadavis3881 Месяц назад

    I was a secretary for a university for 4 years and watching this made me realize, how Pam from The Office and the Plucky office girl, resonated with me while working the position and how invisible 🫥 you can feel most of the time. There were most times than not. That your weren’t really acknowledged by the office. 😑