ACTION FAKING PSYCHOLOGY what is it, how to stop doing it & how actually achieve our goals

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +9

    I truly hope you find this video interesting and helpful, and if you have unknowingly taken part in "action faking", you are certainly not alone! As always, I want to thank you for subscribing to this channel, for being a part of this community, and for all your insightful and interesting comments! You are appreciated more than you know! Have an extraordinary day!
    Much Love!
    Nena

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Three Minutes of History thank you for watching!!! 😊

    • @darnellgarland5736
      @darnellgarland5736 4 года назад

      Thank you.

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      @InTheGardenandTheBlessings 4 года назад

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  • @OlympiaSophie
    @OlympiaSophie 4 года назад +3

    I think my favorite was the part where you discuss how a goal's meaning can change, like in a New Years resolution, which is so true. Great content as always Nena ❤

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thanks for sharing, and for your kind words! Wishing you a wonderful weekend! :)

  • @Discoveringbandsbymichaelnagy
    @Discoveringbandsbymichaelnagy 4 года назад +3

    Action faking is a new term for me that I enjoyed learning about and great video on making the right progress in life!!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! I recently learned it myself! :)

  • @zestygirl
    @zestygirl 4 года назад

    Congratulations on being monetized - that's fantastic! Action faking! Not a term I've heard and not something I can say I've really seen.. This was great - thanks Nena! Oh now I have got to the end I see the concept is like many concepts that have been joined together with this title! I like the theory of combining them all! I find that some of my clients suffer this in some way.. with the most common reason being that they are simply to afraid to take the first step toward a goal.. They can then get into excessive planning and get lost.. Of course the reasons why differs for each client.. Thanks for sharing this idea and this book!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      He's a great author! I read Unscripted, but he has more titles that I need to check out! Glad you enjoyed the video and thank you for your words of support!!!

  • @lovesurfbunny
    @lovesurfbunny 4 года назад

    Six problems and three solutions to solve the problem, amazing sharing fully watched with ads also full. Thumbs up.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you so much for all your support! So glad you enjoyed! Have a FANTASTIC weekend!!! :)

  • @Birdsic1
    @Birdsic1 4 года назад +1

    So it's doing things that make you think you're making progress when you're not. Good to know that! Thank you for being an inspiration, Nena!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! And yes, you got it exactly right! :)

  • @sunshine6891
    @sunshine6891 4 года назад +1

    Hi my beautiful & truly very smart friend! Loved your lesson for today. Shared it in a playlist on my channel. You are helping many people with your videos. Much , much Love

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing!! You are a sweetheart! I hope you are having a beautiful week! :)

  • @keepmotivating6332
    @keepmotivating6332 4 года назад

    Action faking .... I have experienced this lots of time...
    I have met people who were just like that...
    Awsome upload dear..
    BigLike😊👌👍💯

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you so much 😀 I have experienced this many times also, lol! :) Have a great day!

  • @roseb8983
    @roseb8983 4 года назад +1

    I absolutely loved this video! Well made and informative as always!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you so very much! So glad you enjoyed ♥️😊

  • @esterfrias2679
    @esterfrias2679 4 года назад

    Never heard this term before either but it makes so much sense. Your videos always shine a light on so much. Thanks for sharing.🌟😊

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      You are so welcome! It was a new term to me also! Glad you found it helpful! Have a beautiful week! :)

  • @SelfHealingGod
    @SelfHealingGod 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing Nena. Just perfect with my morning coffee. Liked.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      😊 It is night here! Have a wonderful day!

  • @DannysFoodTravel
    @DannysFoodTravel 4 года назад +1

    i learned something new today, thank you Nena ~ 😍😘👍

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      👏👏👏👏😊♥️

  • @APeacefulPlace
    @APeacefulPlace 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this. A very cool video

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      So very glad you enjoyed ♥️😊✨

  •  4 года назад

    This was fascinating! I'd never heard this term but somehow intuitively I've see it in "action" lol. I seem to be listening to your videos when I am doing my work outs haha. It must be because they are so constructive and positive. Oh and CONGRATULATIONS on getting monetized!!! 💗💞🌸🙏

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! Human nature really IS fascinating, I agree! And thank you for your sweet comment...you next!!!! :)

    •  4 года назад

      @@NenaLavonne 💗💞💗💞💗

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      😘

  • @marciawhite4993
    @marciawhite4993 4 года назад

    I needed this today. Thank you Nena. I’m ready to begin!

  • @NazaNalani
    @NazaNalani 4 года назад

    Action faking!!! I’ve never heard of this before but it makes so much sense! Loved this video I learned so much ❤️❤️😊

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Glad you liked it!! Thank you for watching, lovely lady! I hope you are doing great! :)

  • @oneminuteonelife4173
    @oneminuteonelife4173 4 года назад +1

    Hello sweet friend 🥰 all great points and this action makes sense. I appreciate any chance to improve and motivate myself to reach goals effectively, great topic and video! Take care dear 🙏

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      You are so welcome! I appreciate your kind words, and I'm so happy you found it interesting! :)

  • @BimbyChannel
    @BimbyChannel 4 года назад

    Very interesting discuss, Thanks for Sharing Sis, Dropping by my suport from West Java Indonesia👍

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thanks for visiting the channel! Happy you enjoyed! :)

  • @FREESPUR
    @FREESPUR 4 года назад

    Wow, I've seen this a lot in life and did not have a term for it until now! Great steps for changing this behavior!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      I didn't know it either until I read that book! :) Thanks for watching!

  • @JenniferMoralesFelineFilms
    @JenniferMoralesFelineFilms 4 года назад

    That's an interesting concept and the term is spot on. It reminds me a bit of procrastinating. I know I do this with things that I just don't feel like doing. P.S. I saw an ad on your video. I don't recall ever seeing one so congratulations!!!! ❤️👍

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Awww, thank you! Yes, it is like procrastination except you think you are making progress, lol. I've definitely been guilty of this! Hope you are having a great day!

  • @lilianvlog5898
    @lilianvlog5898 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this vedeo. Nice to meet you my friend

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      A pleasure to meet you also! Have a great week! :)

  • @devonportm
    @devonportm 4 года назад

    Great topic you've covered here and very well put together, I also believe that action faking is due to people being too scared to get out of their comfort zone!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Hi Matthew! Yes, I agree that is the case many times! But nothing that great happens in the comfort zone, lol :) Thank you so much for watching!

  • @Amora986
    @Amora986 4 года назад

    i jut love you♥ you take away any shame or guilt within ourself about these things we sometimes do!! I really do work hard at the things im working at but i understand how we still fall into these lil humps & bumps on journey Thank you for all your teaching us my beauty😊🤗 sending you love & happy thoughts💙🕊😘

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      What a sweet comment! Yes, we are on this journey together, bumps in the road and all! :)
      Thank you for watching!

  • @robinwebster5808
    @robinwebster5808 4 года назад +1

    Very good presentation. A big like.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you so very much, Robin! I hope you are doing fantastically well!

  • @sarojpurohit6963
    @sarojpurohit6963 2 года назад +1

    Yes very common in youth today,who get hooked and gather and gather information from internet and think they r preparing themselves for a great future but actually getting more and more in inertia.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  2 года назад

      You are right, and that is a wonderful way to put it! :) Thanks for watching!

  • @diyasircar5002
    @diyasircar5002 4 года назад

    Thanks
    I have been unwittingly facing this for about an year...
    I was actually a straight-A student until this happened

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that. The good news is that once you realize it is happening, you can start to figure out the "why" and address it. It is absolutely possible to reverse track and get back to not only where you were, but better! Welcome to the channel, happy to have you here!

  • @The_Midnight_Wanderer
    @The_Midnight_Wanderer 4 года назад

    This is really interesting. I have never heard of this before. Something to think about for sure.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed! The term was new for me as well! :) Have a wonderful weekend!!!

  • @RockerRoxy
    @RockerRoxy 4 года назад

    We have a saying "if you can do something today don't delay it till tomorrow " I sometimes interpret it like this : if you can do something today, don't delay it till tomorrow, but wait a couple of more days, when you'll be about to finally do it, it will no longer be necessary " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 only with non important things of course 😀😀😀😀😀 full watch including ads as always ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Awww, thank you so much for your support! And I agree with you! It is sometimes a hard philosophy to adopt, but very helpful when we do! Happy weekend! :)

  • @LayilaFaon
    @LayilaFaon 4 года назад

    I always love listening you, you are so positive and you inspire me with your thoughts so much :D

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Oh thank you! I appreciate you watching, Layila! How are you doing? :)

  • @foltz-art
    @foltz-art 4 года назад +1

    Nena Lavonne This was very Interesting luv ''Action Faking'' M.J DeMarco Yeah I also like his book Millionaire FastLane it was a cool read. I love his added quote of the Great Bruce Lee '' I fear not the man who has practiced 10.000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times ~ Bruce Lee © anyways Awesome discussion I enjoyed it! bless you Nena and have a great day. 🌞🌻🤗💕✌

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      So glad you found it interesting! I haven't read "Millionare Fastlane" yet - I will have to add it to my list! I read his other book, "Unscripted" which was fantastic! I hope you are having an absolutely fabulous day! :)

    • @foltz-art
      @foltz-art 4 года назад +1

      @@NenaLavonne Yes My day is going Super well thank you luv! And hey if you get the chance pick up a copy of the Millionaire Fastlane book it's so fab! You will like it! And dont just say it do it! Haha! Anyways have yourself a super duper day Nena! Loveu baby! Your so adorbs! 😽✌📸

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Put it on the list! 😊

    • @foltz-art
      @foltz-art 4 года назад +1

      @@NenaLavonne am I on your list too? Hahaa! 😝🤪😳

    • @foltz-art
      @foltz-art 4 года назад +1

      @@NenaLavonne yeah your hit list haha!, loveu girl!! Have a wonderful 4th of July Nena! Sending Xoxo your way luv!😽🤘💜🎆🎇✨

  • @HerDestiny
    @HerDestiny 4 года назад

    Hi! Nena. I have found myself a time or two starting something in my head and not actually putting forth any effort. 😂 Great share. Big Like 👍. Congrats! On your ads. Have a wonderful day. 💖🌷

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Lol, I think we have all done that from time to time! Thank you for your kind words! Hope you have an amazing day, lovely lady!!!

    • @HerDestiny
      @HerDestiny 4 года назад

      @@NenaLavonne 🤗💖

  • @HarryThomasPictures
    @HarryThomasPictures 4 года назад

    Awesome video beautiful Nena😍❤️✨. I don’t like to fake who I am and will always take honest action, to say your gorgeous would be a understatement🤩. Huge love and hugs💐😘xx!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 🤗 I hope you are having an amazing week, Harry! :)

  • @keitygarden
    @keitygarden 4 года назад +1

    Very informative💖You are a very sophisticated and well educated woman.
    I have a lot to learn from you😘👍

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you so much! I appreciate you watching, Keity! I hope you are doing fabulous!

  • @rudig5698
    @rudig5698 4 года назад +1

    Great topic. That’s so important😊

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      I think so too! I did this without realizing for years! :)

  • @bluescity1
    @bluescity1 4 года назад

    I haven't heard this. It sounds interesting. You've just earned a new subscriber and a like. I will be watching alot more videos. Wow, this makes so much sense. I've just learned alot. I enjoyed watching. Stay safe and have a wonderful day. :-)

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      So glad you enjoyed! I love Disney as well! Thanks for watching! :)

  • @steveharris2589
    @steveharris2589 4 года назад

    Wonderful video Nena!!!!!!!!)))😊😊😊🌺

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you for watching, Steve! I hope you have a wonderful week! 😊✨

  • @PickUpShots
    @PickUpShots 4 года назад

    Useful words to learn and think.....
    Thanks for amazing words...
    Keep in Touch...
    Best Wishes From "Pick Up Shots"

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thanks for watching! Wishing you an incredible week! :)

  • @hatechickenofficial3819
    @hatechickenofficial3819 4 года назад +2

    👑Bravo!!🌞Like!!👑

  • @LIFESOUL
    @LIFESOUL 4 года назад

    Hello my friend Thank you for sharing Be awesome 😉💜

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thanks for the visit! Wishing you an amazing day! :)

  • @IsabellasQuickRecipes
    @IsabellasQuickRecipes 4 года назад +2

    Hahahaa I thought this first said acting fake, I was like Lmao 🤣😂 after watching I realized wow this actually has a name!!? Very interesting topic

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed, and I only recently knew the name myself! Have a great week, lovely lady! :)

    • @OlympiaSophie
      @OlympiaSophie 4 года назад

      Omg I did too!!! hahaha

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 года назад +1

    Interesting, I hadn't heard the term before. Always learn something new :D

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      I'm glad! :) I've definitely been guilty of this in the past! :) Have a great week!

  • @OneManArmy2786
    @OneManArmy2786 4 года назад +1

    Good job 👍👌😀👏

  • @easydrawingschool_0077
    @easydrawingschool_0077 4 года назад

    Useful words to learn

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      So very glad to hear that! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664
    @dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664 4 года назад

    "Picasso had his pink period and his blue period. I am in my blonde period right now.
    ~Hugh Hefner
    "Create an environment of love, live with passion and make our most exciting dreams come true."
    ~Marcel Wanders
    "Walking Distance to the Riverwalk"
    Dr Suez & Dr Carl, Afro-Dutch Designers

  • @ynotcooking7447
    @ynotcooking7447 4 года назад

    Like 58 wow amazing excellent video stay connected joined new friend

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Warmest welcome! Have a great weekend!

  • @Ealdorman_of_Mercia
    @Ealdorman_of_Mercia 9 месяцев назад

    I do it all the time.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  9 месяцев назад

      It's easy to fall into this habit! I truly hope the video was helpful!

  • @btggirls358
    @btggirls358 4 года назад

    Hi guy!good share knowledge,I watched you video of it very clear and very attractive. Clear image, I want to be your friend, thanks for our relationship. I look forward to your happiness and good luck

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thanks for watching! Have a beautiful week! :)

  • @dnabiology
    @dnabiology 3 года назад

    thanks

  • @ASMRSoundVibe
    @ASMRSoundVibe 4 года назад

    Very useful to listen and learn .... Appreciate you for your help... ^^ Like 35:) I wish you enjoy your day my friend:)*

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you! You too! Glad it was useful! :)

  • @FREESPUR
    @FREESPUR 4 года назад +1

    First!

  • @rebekam9362
    @rebekam9362 2 года назад

    Ug, Story of my life!

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  2 года назад

      Don’t get discouraged! Try taking a small step of action that isn’t overwhelming. It can be incredibly empowering! 😊♥️

  • @receitasjujubueno
    @receitasjujubueno 4 года назад

    Shou my friend, like

  •  4 года назад +1

    Video good... Like 47

  • @cherishingflo
    @cherishingflo 4 года назад

    #2 is a biggie. Too many of us search outside validation.

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      I agree! It's a tough habit to break! Thank you for watching! :)

  • @ddungchanasmr2179
    @ddungchanasmr2179 4 года назад

    good

  • @lephuocthinh8132
    @lephuocthinh8132 4 года назад

    Wish u chl more & more developed like+++🔔🔔🤝

  • @aldifagelbi4051
    @aldifagelbi4051 4 года назад

    🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊📢📢📢📢🔔🔔

  • @WifeStyleInKSA
    @WifeStyleInKSA 4 года назад

    hi dear new friend hare i hope we will be friends and sport each other’s

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you for watching! Have a wonderful week! :)

  • @OneManArmy2786
    @OneManArmy2786 4 года назад +1

    I'm new friend

  • @RadjaUtara
    @RadjaUtara 4 года назад

    Likes +
    Nice sharing and nice to Meet you. New subscriber, new here, new watch.
    Let's be friends and Stay connected.
    Greetings of Joy from Indonesia 😉🇮🇩

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Warmest of welcomes! Happy to have you here! Wishing you the absolute best! :)

  • @parthasarathidas573
    @parthasarathidas573 4 года назад

    You are very attractive. love you 😘😘

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne  4 года назад

      Thank you for watching! 😊✨