In recent years, I've learned to let a girl know right away that if I get disrespected again, don't bother talking to me again. I walk away and mean it. They usually apologize and do a 180 in the way that they act.
It sucks to say but you have to ALWAYS be willing to walk away if she ever disrespects you, put your foot down that you won't tolerate it. Women know when they're being disrespectful to you, they're just testing you because they don't think you have the balls to step up to them like most guys. Respect > 🐱
Am Hispanic and never had any relationship experience or nothing in high school. The closest thing I got was asking this beautiful Japanese girl at my old college, got rejected on the spot, and gave up after that. That was in 2015, so almost 10 years ago crazy...
I would set clear boundaries with women not tolerating disrespect and it’s been draining really. Because of my confidence and how I carry myself women would try to put me down by doing petty little things that I take as disrespect so I cut them off but what ends up happening is that they don’t reach out. I wish I was making this up but I’ve been through almost 30 women this past month and it’s all ended the same way.
Because women don’t know what disrespect and accountability mean. They will always twist the situation in their heads to think they’re right and justified.
This is how you do it right here man. When dudes deal with BS they tend to bottle it up forever and if they do end up taking a stand they often lack composure. When I tell my boys there’s a way to stand up for yourself properly this is how I mean
Glad I found you in this sea of content on RUclips bro, actually I accidentally clicked your video when it came up in my feed but I believe things happen for a reason
She learned a hard lesson that night. At least she acknowledged her behavior but the moment he/she crosses the line, that's too far! She lost. She can cry in a corner for all I care. Plusbi know she will NOT go out of her way to see you the next time you're around, she got at least 5 other guys she could go and slam doors with.
I wouldn't even bother to ask her. I will just say who we sleep with is irrelevant and start another convo. If she doesn't follow my direction and instead asks the same thing again, she is showing she won't listen to me and then drop her off and leave her to talk to another woman.
I have one rule: the only person who can disrespect me is my Momma. If you disrespect my Momma ur going to have an audience with God and Satan simultaneously.
Yes, self-respect and boundaries is huge! I was in particular situation and I knew at that moment I needed to get out. She wanted a fuck buddy and date other people; I straight up cut her off when she proposed it. Months later I see the chaos that she is in and bam my decision at the moment was vindicated. It was tough decision at the moment but if I would have stuck around, I would have been a mess
I agree you shouldn’t tolerate disrespect and how you initially handled it. But I think you’re delusional if you think you’re going to find a girl that isn’t going to cross a boundary like slamming a car door. Especially a young girl who has no experience dealing with a dude with standards. You could have accepted her apology and you would have began shaping her behavior in what you want. Girls don’t self improve, they’re molded. You began molding her for someone else 🤷♂️
I agree if it was a girl i was in a relationship with then yeah i wouldnt drop her for an act of disrepect just one time but a girl that i just started dating, im probably good off that lol
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"Do not compromise your boundaries based on the person or your situation."
Damn, I think I and a lot of guys needed to hear that.
Respect over love imo. That’s how a relationship should always be.
In recent years, I've learned to let a girl know right away that if I get disrespected again, don't bother talking to me again. I walk away and mean it. They usually apologize and do a 180 in the way that they act.
It sucks to say but you have to ALWAYS be willing to walk away if she ever disrespects you, put your foot down that you won't tolerate it. Women know when they're being disrespectful to you, they're just testing you because they don't think you have the balls to step up to them like most guys.
Respect > 🐱
Facts. Respect over pussy
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Right on. I'm never making that mistake again.
Bruh hit the gas pedal! 😂😂 bravo sir 👏🏽
Type shit
Never take anyone's disrespect.
You can never win in this subject, never ask questions you don’t want the answers to. Like you said, they’ll lie anyways
This video just answered so many questions I had about what I was doing wrong and you just revealed it to me. Thanks!
Am Hispanic and never had any relationship experience or nothing in high school.
The closest thing I got was asking this beautiful Japanese girl at my old college, got rejected on the spot, and gave up after that. That was in 2015, so almost 10 years ago crazy...
C'mon bro, chin up. That was years ago, try again.
@ChurlzVA I was younger then am to old to start from 0
Okay that 5 guys joke was funny 😂😂
You've got great videos. It's really interesting hearing a guy's point of view on these topics.
I would set clear boundaries with women not tolerating disrespect and it’s been draining really. Because of my confidence and how I carry myself women would try to put me down by doing petty little things that I take as disrespect so I cut them off but what ends up happening is that they don’t reach out. I wish I was making this up but I’ve been through almost 30 women this past month and it’s all ended the same way.
Because women don’t know what disrespect and accountability mean. They will always twist the situation in their heads to think they’re right and justified.
This is how you do it right here man. When dudes deal with BS they tend to bottle it up forever and if they do end up taking a stand they often lack composure. When I tell my boys there’s a way to stand up for yourself properly this is how I mean
Good general message. I liked how it related to life in general.
Where were you 4 months ago 😅, I needed this back then
Right on, as usual. 👍
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Facts man stay red pill and stay aware and spread the message.
Glad I found you in this sea of content on RUclips bro, actually I accidentally clicked your video when it came up in my feed but I believe things happen for a reason
love 🙏🏽
Love your content bro, keep going
you played it well, good one
Great video brother 💯👏
appreciate it G
same dawg I love latinas
She learned a hard lesson that night. At least she acknowledged her behavior but the moment he/she crosses the line, that's too far! She lost. She can cry in a corner for all I care. Plusbi know she will NOT go out of her way to see you the next time you're around, she got at least 5 other guys she could go and slam doors with.
I wouldn't even bother to ask her. I will just say who we sleep with is irrelevant and start another convo. If she doesn't follow my direction and instead asks the same thing again, she is showing she won't listen to me and then drop her off and leave her to talk to another woman.
Factos 🐐💯
This is one of my favorite videos for sure 🤤
I have one rule: the only person who can disrespect me is my Momma.
If you disrespect my Momma ur going to have an audience with God and Satan simultaneously.
Self respect ong!
You did good, dont chase her.
Yes, self-respect and boundaries is huge! I was in particular situation and I knew at that moment I needed to get out. She wanted a fuck buddy and date other people; I straight up cut her off when she proposed it. Months later I see the chaos that she is in and bam my decision at the moment was vindicated. It was tough decision at the moment but if I would have stuck around, I would have been a mess
Does this all still apply when yall are already in a serious relationship? Or should you try to make it work
still applies
Simple as that. If you’re both having sex with 30 random people in a very short timeframe, you both are goofballs that need to get checked. 😂
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I agree you shouldn’t tolerate disrespect and how you initially handled it. But I think you’re delusional if you think you’re going to find a girl that isn’t going to cross a boundary like slamming a car door. Especially a young girl who has no experience dealing with a dude with standards. You could have accepted her apology and you would have began shaping her behavior in what you want.
Girls don’t self improve, they’re molded. You began molding her for someone else 🤷♂️
I agree if it was a girl i was in a relationship with then yeah i wouldnt drop her for an act of disrepect just one time but a girl that i just started dating, im probably good off that lol
I mean she said sorry bruh not like she continued, one is a mistake and twice is a pattern. But i mean i get it.
stop simping
Each their own
Bro how do you not get how insecure you sound