I look forward to the day my man talks about me like this. Being a good woman to the wrong man is heart breaking- but I know the love and life I want is attainable . My time will come
I join you in the prayer line sis. One day. They almost made me cry talking about their women like that. One day a man will talk about me the same way God willing.
A woman 100% want to know the impact they make for their man. It makes us feel appreciated and yes we will want to do those things more often. A man just expressing his appreciation for his woman in general is soooo important!! It will lift her up for sure.
13:21 I love hearing men talk about a feeling. I've thought I'm being a ridiculous womanly woman for basing dating off of a feeling I want to feel, but it's great to hear that men experience it too.
“Six flags everyday” was a mic drop. Excitement, different levels of fun, nourishment, chill zones, challenge, strategically eduring, taking risks…and more. Much respect!
That’s exactly why I don’t like when someone asks, “What can you bring to the table?” I can list a bunch of attributes, but it really takes getting into someone to see what they really bring to the table, and if you even want that.
Initially this was hard to watch because I’ve been told that I’m a “good woman” and felt really low about losing who I thought was a “great man”. Until I realized him and I being great people had nothing to do with us being great for eachother. This video helped to stamp my thoughts.. thanks Guys 👌🏾
I loved this episode I personally would love to hear from Candice and Chanel as to the process of them knowing that they found the right man. How to distinguish a good guy from the right guy!
Lead in respect, lead in compliments, Lead in love… I absolutely love that. Everyone wants to be the boss but the cost is leading by example and being influential enough to touch your audience. KEEP THE EPISODES COMING…New subscriber!
Wowwwww. This episode was BOMB. The topics and conversations just keeps getting better and better. Its so cute seeing how Omar just gushes over Candice. That man is IN LOVE. And the way Duke speaks of Chanel, you can tell he VALUES her and doesn't take her presence for granted. Jalon, you're in the company of great energy. Soon, that energy will flow onto you and you too will meet your Queen. Nonetheless, as a woman, I love listening to you men speak. Grown men tingz!
Love this content. I’ve been blessed to marry a good woman who is/has been the right woman for 17 years. I appreciate you guys always being so transparent, so forthcoming with knowledge and so willing to share personal experiences
I just watched this episode 3x’s. I have never thought of good woman vs the right woman. I’ve been with good woman but something that I couldn’t explain or put my hand on , something was missing. I couldn’t explain it. After watching this episode. I found my answer. I want to be the right man, and I want to be able to say I got the right woman. Thanks for this! 💯
I really appreciate how positive these guys are . As a young dude looking for guidance and lessons on the internet and outside of it a lot of the "advice" and man focused content we're getting these days has really become the He-man women haters club and these guys are tryna lead in a healthy direction
I believe the right person is a lifetime partner. That's the person that evolves and grows with you. Yes, there will be difficult times, but you choose to move and grow together, because you know it's best for the both of you. Good people are placed in our lives for seasons, but the right one is forever.
You know what! I have to applaud you all! You may not realize this yet or maybe you do… but you all are leading a generation of men and women in new paradigm shifts. Finding your podcast has confirmed that GOD is moving and still desires family as the initial foundation! The way you speak about your women the way you realize you are better together. It’s what this generation needs and what older generations forgot. Love everything about this and I speak the totality of blessings to your endeavors and your future marriages! God bless you all. This is so wonderful! You have no idea the encouragement I received! Keep up the good work fellas!
“Make you feel” yup! Things on paper isnt everything... now I have a list of things like are they forgiving ? what are their values ? can they communicate well? ect. Things that aren’t tangibles love this video 🙏🏽
I have so much respect for this podcast, 3 wise, knowledge man who speak into a generation who do not understand. I love you guys so much, I pray y'all receive an award for this podcast.
Ugh this is why I love this channel! Great men talking about real stuff in a way that makes women listen and pay attention. I actually learn something from this channel
When Jalon said “I know what I want to feel when it’s time” just struck a NERVE cause that’s it! You just know it’s really the intangibles that make it align RIGHT for you
My thing is I feel like in order for a man to realize if the good women is the right women, he would have to have some sort of emotional intelligence. He can have a good women/right women but if he’s not aware in himself or is able to change his toxic behaviors, he’ll push the good/right women away.
This the one! I’ve been trying to explain this to so many men because they always say “I’ve had several good women” but she wasn’t THE RIGHT ONE . They always agree ! This was goooooddddd stuff
It’s dope to hear men speak positively regarding relationships, I must say that I’m confused on why Duke and the gentleman with the light colored shirt aren’t married since they can admit to being so happy.
I am so glad it was brought up that the same can be said for “the good man vs the right man”. I have seen so many woman get chastised and criticized for not choosing “the good man” or knowing when a man is “a good man” or appreciating “a good man” when they have one. And maybe, like they are saying, he is a good man, but just not the right man. Great discussion to give everyone a lot to think about.
Answering Duke’s 1 question. Initially I was confused about the difference, but I get it now. I have met a few good men, but they just didn’t have that umph that I needed, that certain spice I was anticipating. I LOVE THE PODCAST and I like y’all pov.
That total holistic feeling of completeness I’ve found is essential in the discovery of the right woman. There are a lot of good women and men out there. The focus should be on the right one that fits. I love the way yal speak on your women.
I love the messages in the episode. The only thing that I kind of disagree with is communicating all of what you need "up front." I think that when we as humans hear a person of interest tell us they're looking for or need XYZ, we subconsciously try to be whatever that person wants, regardless of whether or not it's behavior true to who we are, rather than just letting it unfold organically.
I LOVED this episode! It's so nice and refreshing to hear young, black, successful men be happy and joyful and vulnerable about their love and how they feel. Also for someone single like Jalon, sharing that desire to want to experience that was nice. Beautiful episode, Keep it up guys!❤🙌🏾
I'm just gonna go ahead and call y'all the 3 wise men of nice and neat cause you men dropped so much knowledge in just 1 episode. Great topic, I enjoyed listening and from a man's perspective because im always hearing about men and women and what the right men/women looks like from a women's perspective, so this was a good episode and a very informative one too. Definitely got you a new sub and im looking forward to more episodes
Love every topic covered in this episode. Love the vulnerability and transparency. I think the best way to explain to a woman she’s not the one for you is by simply being honest and how you deliver the message. Some women may not understand in that moment depending on her own self awareness and if that’s the case, it’s not the man’s issue to deal with. Respectfully❤ it’s the woman responsibility to have the self awareness and emotional stability/intelligence to accept the words of “you not the right one.” It may hit the ego initially but you’ll get over it because the truth is freeing✨💖
I literally discovered y’all THIS month and I have to say y’all are the best podcast I’ve listened to. Mature, healthy, wholesome black Kings and I think we need more and more talks like these and then the actions to help heal the community.
This is so so eye opening from a woman’s perspective. I love the objectivity in the conversation, you gentlemen discussed this topic from different view points. Very neat (no pun intended 😌) 🥃 👏🏾👏🏾
I really enjoyed this episode! I’ve been tuned in since episode 2, and I have to say you guys are doing a wonderful job! I enjoy hearing the perspective of black men! Thank y’all! Can’t wait for next weeks episode!!!
Wow, I love the realness one these men. I thought a lot of this was lost in our generation. I hope their message gets out to all men and women. it’s an eye opener for women too. Now I know that I don’t have to feel rejected just because something didn’t work out with a particular man. I just wasn’t the right one for him, doesn’t mean my value is any less. Thank you guys❤️
Wow!!! This conversation blew my mind. It tops as one of the most intellectually rich conversation i have heard in forever. Very spot on. You can tell that the men are in love with women that are very wealthy and healthy within themselves and they(the men) are wise enough men to be open to recieve and learn from their women, that's why their minds are on a very different level. Amazing 👏🏾. And to add to their point, a good woman is a woman os most likely good based on social constructs and also knows whats generally acceptable but the right woman... first of, she knows she is right and is quite self aware and can tell/decern when she is not right for a particular person. Secondly, she comes with a mindset and skillset for a particular type of man and when she meets that particular man, knows how to feed his soul in a way that he didn't even know he needed feeding and that is the original intention of God for relationships. And until is humans(men and woman) get to these mindset through patience with ourselves, having honest conversations with ourselves, learning from our mistakes and yes, adding the God factor to help us actually meet our person, relationships with keep being problematic or at best, mildly satisfying with occasional good times instead of this deep satisfaction and growth that can be gained through meeting your right person. Thank you so much for this podcast.
Just found your podcast today and I've watched 4 straight episodes. You guys are doing a great job. What if a man thinks that you're the right woman but you don't feel like the man is the right one for you?
The good woman and the right woman can also be compared to the shoe that fit Cinderella . A good woman can be too tight, too big or mediocre. But the right woman is the right fit in every way. Like a glove . It just feels like home . You get each other without any words spoken.
Every right woman must have all the qualities you guys mentioned in a good woman. However, not every good woman is suited for every man. To me, it's all about suitable, compatibility, and alignment that constitute the right woman. And this goes the other way around.
I am used to the old school marriage FOR LIFE PERIOD, ONCE ALL THE rest of it is FLUFF. THIS FEEL LIKE PRAISE for the moment until I change. After 30 years I many want to change
The right woman/man can also improve a person's health and well-being! You guys are my fav! You guys should have Jay Barnett a mental health professional who would definitely add some fruitful gems to your audience! ♥️
Like Always another AMAZING episode... and knowing Because your a Good women.. doesn't always make you the right one (for a particular person)... is a powerful statement.. learn something new every episode.. this podcast is good for both genders for sure!!..
I look forward to the day my man talks about me like this. Being a good woman to the wrong man is heart breaking- but I know the love and life I want is attainable . My time will come
I join you in the prayer line sis. One day. They almost made me cry talking about their women like that. One day a man will talk about me the same way God willing.
A woman 100% want to know the impact they make for their man. It makes us feel appreciated and yes we will want to do those things more often. A man just expressing his appreciation for his woman in general is soooo important!! It will lift her up for sure.
13:21 I love hearing men talk about a feeling. I've thought I'm being a ridiculous womanly woman for basing dating off of a feeling I want to feel, but it's great to hear that men experience it too.
“Six flags everyday” was a mic drop. Excitement, different levels of fun, nourishment, chill zones, challenge, strategically eduring, taking risks…and more. Much respect!
That’s exactly why I don’t like when someone asks, “What can you bring to the table?” I can list a bunch of attributes, but it really takes getting into someone to see what they really bring to the table, and if you even want that.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Exactly!!!
SIMPLE.
Precisely!!
Initially this was hard to watch because I’ve been told that I’m a “good woman” and felt really low about losing who I thought was a “great man”. Until I realized him and I being great people had nothing to do with us being great for eachother. This video helped to stamp my thoughts.. thanks Guys 👌🏾
Yeah this is also hard for me to hear. But it makes sense.
righttttt!
It’s so refreshing to see black men speak so eloquently about meeting good women! In today’s climate it gives me hope! Thank you!
They said being a good woman is not enough
I don’t think we ever stepped into Good woman vs Right woman as women. This just gave me another perspective about good woman.. Jeez this is deep..
Me too
The way Duke and Omar speak about their women, it really makes you feel and see the love they have for them. Loving this podcast
“The right woman is specifically designed for you”🔥🔥🔥
I loved this episode I personally would love to hear from Candice and Chanel as to the process of them knowing that they found the right man. How to distinguish a good guy from the right guy!
Please!! An episode with the ladies would be amazing
Lead in respect, lead in compliments, Lead in love… I absolutely love that. Everyone wants to be the boss but the cost is leading by example and being influential enough to touch your audience.
KEEP THE EPISODES COMING…New subscriber!
Wowwwww. This episode was BOMB. The topics and conversations just keeps getting better and better. Its so cute seeing how Omar just gushes over Candice. That man is IN LOVE. And the way Duke speaks of Chanel, you can tell he VALUES her and doesn't take her presence for granted. Jalon, you're in the company of great energy. Soon, that energy will flow onto you and you too will meet your Queen. Nonetheless, as a woman, I love listening to you men speak. Grown men tingz!
Yasss
Love this content. I’ve been blessed to marry a good woman who is/has been the right woman for 17 years. I appreciate you guys always being so transparent, so forthcoming with knowledge and so willing to share personal experiences
I just watched this episode 3x’s. I have never thought of good woman vs the right woman. I’ve been with good woman but something that I couldn’t explain or put my hand on , something was missing. I couldn’t explain it. After watching this episode. I found my answer. I want to be the right man, and I want to be able to say I got the right woman. Thanks for this! 💯
I really appreciate how positive these guys are . As a young dude looking for guidance and lessons on the internet and outside of it a lot of the "advice" and man focused content we're getting these days has really become the He-man women haters club and these guys are tryna lead in a healthy direction
I believe the right person is a lifetime partner. That's the person that evolves and grows with you. Yes, there will be difficult times, but you choose to move and grow together, because you know it's best for the both of you. Good people are placed in our lives for seasons, but the right one is forever.
That transformation that she causes in you is not always peaceful and sweet either.
This is my favorite video ever!
Whew Jalon, that part, "when you don't communicate, the devil will narrate"!!! ♥️
I really love the analogy about a man being a “house” but the right woman will make him a “home”. That’s so real and true ❤️
To see these big smiles on the faces of these men all because of their woman is so beautiful❤ This is how it should be! That is true happiness!
I can’t explain how scared I am to go through the dating process all over again, but this podcast gives me hope … Thanks y’all.
You know what! I have to applaud you all! You may not realize this yet or maybe you do… but you all are leading a generation of men and women in new paradigm shifts. Finding your podcast has confirmed that GOD is moving and still desires family as the initial foundation! The way you speak about your women the way you realize you are better together. It’s what this generation needs and what older generations forgot. Love everything about this and I speak the totality of blessings to your endeavors and your future marriages! God bless you all. This is so wonderful! You have no idea the encouragement I received! Keep up the good work fellas!
Exactly you said it all.
“Make you feel” yup! Things on paper isnt everything... now I have a list of things like are they forgiving ? what are their values ? can they communicate well? ect. Things that aren’t tangibles love this video 🙏🏽
Exactly
I have so much respect for this podcast, 3 wise, knowledge man who speak into a generation who do not understand. I love you guys so much, I pray y'all receive an award for this podcast.
What a conversation as a woman, I feel super honour you Kings tap into it..
Ugh this is why I love this channel! Great men talking about real stuff in a way that makes women listen and pay attention. I actually learn something from this channel
When Jalon said “I know what I want to feel when it’s time” just struck a NERVE cause that’s it! You just know it’s really the intangibles that make it align RIGHT for you
My thing is I feel like in order for a man to realize if the good women is the right women, he would have to have some sort of emotional intelligence. He can have a good women/right women but if he’s not aware in himself or is able to change his toxic behaviors, he’ll push the good/right women away.
This is the one!
This the one! I’ve been trying to explain this to so many men because they always say “I’ve had several good women” but she wasn’t THE RIGHT ONE . They always agree ! This was goooooddddd stuff
Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnn this was good! There needs to be way more views on this. I'm bout to share this everywhere! I am now a fan!!!
Why haven't I heard of you fellas sooner?! GREAT episode. Y'all should have your ladies on the show sometime 🙂
It’s dope to hear men speak positively regarding relationships, I must say that I’m confused on why Duke and the gentleman with the light colored shirt aren’t married since they can admit to being so happy.
I am so glad it was brought up that the same can be said for “the good man vs the right man”. I have seen so many woman get chastised and criticized for not choosing “the good man” or knowing when a man is “a good man” or appreciating “a good man” when they have one. And maybe, like they are saying, he is a good man, but just not the right man. Great discussion to give everyone a lot to think about.
So refreshing to see black men dive into topics of vulnerability. This is beautiful. I love it.
Answering Duke’s 1 question. Initially I was confused about the difference, but I get it now. I have met a few good men, but they just didn’t have that umph that I needed, that certain spice I was anticipating. I LOVE THE PODCAST and I like y’all pov.
That total holistic feeling of completeness I’ve found is essential in the discovery of the right woman. There are a lot of good women and men out there. The focus should be on the right one that fits. I love the way yal speak on your women.
Speak it Jalon... a lot of wisdom in the point about life changes and people changing - don't discount that they were right for you at that point!
This was refreshing and I have been educated. The delivery from you all made this quite easy to digest. Correct me don't condemn me.
Such a hidden gem. I love this podcast 🤎
I love the messages in the episode. The only thing that I kind of disagree with is communicating all of what you need "up front." I think that when we as humans hear a person of interest tell us they're looking for or need XYZ, we subconsciously try to be whatever that person wants, regardless of whether or not it's behavior true to who we are, rather than just letting it unfold organically.
Omg this just brought me into reality…I appreciate the honesty coming from these brothers!!! I will definitely be checking out your other videos
I LOVED this episode! It's so nice and refreshing to hear young, black, successful men be happy and joyful and vulnerable about their love and how they feel. Also for someone single like Jalon, sharing that desire to want to experience that was nice. Beautiful episode, Keep it up guys!❤🙌🏾
Oh my the podcast has come a long way. I enjoy this episode it was nice seeing Duke dance lol.
I'm just gonna go ahead and call y'all the 3 wise men of nice and neat cause you men dropped so much knowledge in just 1 episode. Great topic, I enjoyed listening and from a man's perspective because im always hearing about men and women and what the right men/women looks like from a women's perspective, so this was a good episode and a very informative one too. Definitely got you a new sub and im looking forward to more episodes
Love every topic covered in this episode. Love the vulnerability and transparency.
I think the best way to explain to a woman she’s not the one for you is by simply being honest and how you deliver the message. Some women may not understand in that moment depending on her own self awareness and if that’s the case, it’s not the man’s issue to deal with. Respectfully❤ it’s the woman responsibility to have the self awareness and emotional stability/intelligence to accept the words of “you not the right one.” It may hit the ego initially but you’ll get over it because the truth is freeing✨💖
Just discovered this page, definitely binge watching! Already love you guys
I literally discovered y’all THIS month and I have to say y’all are the best podcast I’ve listened to.
Mature, healthy, wholesome black Kings and I think we need more and more talks like these and then the actions to help heal the community.
This is so so eye opening from a woman’s perspective. I love the objectivity in the conversation, you gentlemen discussed this topic from different view points. Very neat (no pun intended 😌) 🥃 👏🏾👏🏾
This is my favorite podcast. You guys are intelligent and transparent
I’m extremely grateful for the growth you guys inspire in me. Peace and blessings
15:54 Jalon’s face says it all 😂. Amazing stuff guys. Really enjoying your wisdom.
So good!! It’s great to hear things topics from men’s perspective.
I really enjoyed this episode! I’ve been tuned in since episode 2, and I have to say you guys are doing a wonderful job! I enjoy hearing the perspective of black men! Thank y’all! Can’t wait for next weeks episode!!!
Wow, I love the realness one these men. I thought a lot of this was lost in our generation. I hope their message gets out to all men and women. it’s an eye opener for women too. Now I know that I don’t have to feel rejected just because something didn’t work out with a particular man. I just wasn’t the right one for him, doesn’t mean my value is any less. Thank you guys❤️
When y’all were talking about the “it’s not you it’s me” it made me think of the new edition “you’re not my kind of girl” song
Wow coming from a woman’s perspective is amazing to hear this! 🙏🏼👏🏼
Wow!!! This conversation blew my mind. It tops as one of the most intellectually rich conversation i have heard in forever. Very spot on. You can tell that the men are in love with women that are very wealthy and healthy within themselves and they(the men) are wise enough men to be open to recieve and learn from their women, that's why their minds are on a very different level. Amazing 👏🏾. And to add to their point, a good woman is a woman os most likely good based on social constructs and also knows whats generally acceptable but the right woman... first of, she knows she is right and is quite self aware and can tell/decern when she is not right for a particular person. Secondly, she comes with a mindset and skillset for a particular type of man and when she meets that particular man, knows how to feed his soul in a way that he didn't even know he needed feeding and that is the original intention of God for relationships. And until is humans(men and woman) get to these mindset through patience with ourselves, having honest conversations with ourselves, learning from our mistakes and yes, adding the God factor to help us actually meet our person, relationships with keep being problematic or at best, mildly satisfying with occasional good times instead of this deep satisfaction and growth that can be gained through meeting your right person.
Thank you so much for this podcast.
Just found your podcast today and I've watched 4 straight episodes. You guys are doing a great job. What if a man thinks that you're the right woman but you don't feel like the man is the right one for you?
Dopest episode I’ve seen on any podcast! Nothing but facts stated.
I'm a new Subscriber. However, you guys are touching some old struggles I was dealing with..... Thanks,Guy's 🥰🤟🏾💯
Man yall was spitting on this one, great episode!
This is the most mature shit I have ever seen/heard. Packaged and delivered perfectly. Thank you fellas
Man, i just found yall podcast.. yall go hard mayne .. earned a new subcriber .. yall sound real mature and real asf ! keep up da great work
This was a rewarding episode, gave me so much perspective and allows me to give grace to the guy from my last relationship
Fav part was when Jalon said “I need a home” 😍😩
I learned a new perspective that was really affirming for me. Thank you 🙏🏾
This was an excellent conversation. I myself believes that every man needs a cheerleader...Thanks guys. God bless you all.❤
It's a lot of jewels dropped here brethren...greatness!
Listen!! This is the ONE!!!!! I’m late but right on time. Great conversation.
When Omar started talking about Candice 💯🔥🥺 ***claps it up for my boiiii***
This episode gave me a whole new perspective didn’t know I needed
Just found this today, but seeing it when I needed it. ❤
These two are in love love & I love it!!!
Great episode! My partner played this last night while we unwinded from the gym. This is so spot on! Love this! ♥️
This is a great conversation piece
My friend sent me a link to this and wow! I love this podcast already. Real and wise knowledge, great job and much respect 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
Amazing content! I appreciate the honesty and transparency
Absolutely love this episode!
The good woman and the right woman can also be compared to the shoe that fit Cinderella . A good woman can be too tight, too big or mediocre. But the right woman is the right fit in every way. Like a glove . It just feels like home . You get each other without any words spoken.
As a woman, I appreciate you men so much! 💕
Every right woman must have all the qualities you guys mentioned in a good woman. However, not every good woman is suited for every man. To me, it's all about suitable, compatibility, and alignment that constitute the right woman. And this goes the other way around.
Great podcast and content. The convo was fire!!!
I love this conversation, you men are great.
This was my second time watching this podcast. Definitely picked up a lot of jewels
Great show beautiful quality black men with positivity. Subbed
I’m so glad you guys ended the conversation the way you did ❤
I needed this so much and I’m so grateful for you guys 🥰❤️💫 thank you
This episode really made me see my woman differently
I am used to the old school marriage FOR LIFE PERIOD, ONCE ALL THE rest of it is FLUFF. THIS FEEL LIKE PRAISE for the moment until I change. After 30 years I many want to change
I love these conversations you all are bringing us. Keep them coming. Keep doing y’all thing! Great work! Much love and blessings to you all.
This the best podcast ever.
This convo was needed !!!!
6:25 wheww 💎💎
This was so good, and made so much sense
"I was literally just a vessel, part of her plan," ....whewwwww!!!
The right woman/man can also improve a person's health and well-being! You guys are my fav! You guys should have Jay Barnett a mental health professional who would definitely add some fruitful gems to your audience! ♥️
Very enlightening! Love hearing male perspective
Like Always another AMAZING episode... and knowing Because your a Good women.. doesn't always make you the right one (for a particular person)... is a powerful statement.. learn something new every episode.. this podcast is good for both genders for sure!!..
Duke be giving wisdom rn