@@rebelpanther1784 But you did. There are many who believe in the concept of a "soul's contract". If you are having difficulty, please find someone to be and talk with.
my brother if you suffer from depression please eat clean foods dont eat food with a lot of artificial ingredients like margarine and pls avoid drinking milk powder and exercise a little bite everyday. BUDU SARANAI
1. Do not reply or Do not take action when you are angry. 2. Don't make promises to other people when you are too happy. 3. Never take decisions whenever you are sad. Namo Buddhaya 🙏
I am 65 , I have several major illnesses , I often contemplate suicide. I feel isolated and lonely. Hearing you talk like this helps me to get up and go outside to find a quiet place and think . Thank you for your thoughts on this subject.
I went through the same feeling in July, then again in September. Something wouldn't let me. Then I thought of all the things I left undone. So I told myself, "You can't do this now, you have to much to do to." I went home and got busy trying to clean up the mess I would have left behind. Then something miraculous happened. A stranger told me I was pretty. The next day my boss gave me a raise and a client sent me a box of candy. I was really glad I didn't do what I wanted to do when I was depressed. Besides, suicide isn't an instant invitation into heaven. Pray and love yourself more today than you did when you wanted to destroy yourself.
Hello friend I hope you’re doing well. I’m so proud of you as a 24 year old for making it this far and you deserve to be here for many many more years to come. I see you and I hear you, you’re existence matters so so much.
No I am not suicidal and I don't have thoughts about suicide. I'm tired of fighting to stay alive from chronic diseases and illnesses. I just want to die in peace and with dignity when the time comes. I'm not afraid to die because I know that my spiritual being goes on to a much greater journey with the Creator of the Whole Universe. No one lives forever in the physical sense. The spiritual being moves forward to greater things.
This is for you! Anyone struggling today, know that you are a beautiful loving being! You are loved so so much! You are kind giving n amazing. There's a reason to be here, even if it's just to reach out to others. I know your pain I have been there n so have others!! This guy speaks truth n love ❤ please there's always 🙏 something to live for? 🙏 remember in the storm there's always a rainbow 🌈 that follows!! Bless n peace!!
@@22CONSERVATIVEFELON please remember life is a roller coaster, everyone has up n downs and nothing is for ever. Depression lies to us, yes you may be feeling like your at the end of a long road. But trust me that road will change. I've sadly only just seen your text. I'm from the U.K.......remember you are never alone, it doesn't matter what culture we are ANGELS 😇 are always with us they love you so so much ♥..wishing you all the best..God bless xx
@@Amy123456788 Visit a psychiatrist and start taking medications, you will feel better and in the process you can try to correct negative thinking pattern.
There is a birth, there is a suffering. We have all gone through the life vehicle: Birth, Aging, Sickness and Death. We cried when being born. That’s a humble beginning of life! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Namo Buddhaya 💐💐💐
We have to be very conscious on to whom we are being open. Some people may misuse our openness to make our lives way miserable. Being a part of a good circle to others will make a better circle around us, coz we always get what we give to this world 🤗
sis if you are going through depression consider improving u r diet don't drink milk powder and don't eat artificial food with chemical ingredients. if you have friends going through depression advise the same
Thank you very much for your wonderful words! I always believed in Buddhism, but since my life got so difficult and lonely, I sometimes forget, that there is a reason for all our tuff times and that its there to make us a better person! Lately all I wanted is to leave this world to end the pain. After listening to your words, I’m back on the right path to myself and the right thoughts! You save so many lives with your words! Thank you again 🙏🙏🙏
I love the beautiful teachings of Lord bhudha. I'm born Hindu and a practitioner however I have massive respect for bhudism. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
Very true. Life is like a ocean from time to time we experience different things in our life. Sadness, happiness which are not permanent in our life.,that is the nature of life . The one who cannot understand this nature cannot live a peaceful life.
this video is making me realize I am doing injustice to my body that was given to me only once after the long cycle of samsara, and with the limited time I have to enjoy the youth of my body, I really want to stop smoking.
Choosing a person whom we can share our problems also important...some times we may not have that single person also ... 😔😌 Thankyou for your good words 🙏 this gives relief for some extent..
I've already survived enough abuse neglect and trauma.life hurts so much I was born into pure pain and sadness.i always hurting inside for my family and yes all the trauma 💔 😢 😞 😔 🙏 I'm trying to stay stronger more then ever.i'll never forget my mommy and daddy.i wish I could take back all the bad things I've done and said. I'm running out of breathe.
Learning to love oneself, no matter what you look like, and seeing things from a more positive point of view. Will help cure depression. You have to decide it though . As a precious human life , choose wisely .
A very tough time I have been passed but sometime too much negetive thought storm into my mind..I can't handle ..I understand but I nothing to do...I just tried to fighting with myself .. therefore your video 's can saves very life those who suffer from depressional phase in their life.
I Love You Self ❤️🙏 Thank you Reverend for this beautiful encouragement. I will practice this practices indeed. Do not take action when you're angry. Don't make promises to other people when you're happy and Never take decision when you are Sad. Namo Buddhaya.
I’ve delt with depression for a good period of my life. It still comes up from time to time, but it’s much easier to deal with now. I can recognize it for what it is and accept it, feel it without suffering. I was only truly liberated from my depression once I dove into it fully and let myself feel it.
In our odiya Bhagbat have a quote that describe our present life as " Juga ku juga yehimate Parmananda ye jagate." Meaning is our life is changed according to time.
You saved me today ! Thank you. Hearing your voice gives peace. Am so broken I can’t express. No a single person to see me. I somehow navigate through. Staying alive for my children. Marriage broke me into pieces I can’t pick. I was in attack and with shaking hands I just tried to search some random vid to calm down gush of thoughts. And I found you. I don’t want to live. But can not leave children. Attachment causing pain. I really want to end this. Am tired of suffering emotionally. Nahi ho pa raha ab.
Don't answer when angry Don't make promises to others when you are happy Don't make decisions when you are sad. I accept these 3 advices. And unfortunately, there is no one who is trustworthy to listen to these things openly. If the people of the world are ready to listen to the other person, there will be no suicidal thoughts. Love yourself. Be compassionate. Take care of yourself.
Guruji, I am a Muslim but I am suffering from terrible psychological disorders. I have no one to rely on, no support, money, I am derailed and divulged and on sedatives and anti histanies. I hsve no option but to destroy my life. My conscience and soul loathes me. I don't geel like waking up from morning. Feel like death is a great blessing from me. Dont feel like living anymore.
I get sometimes get severely depressed and just want to die. Then I just rest and suffer the feelings until the dark cloud in my mind clears. I remember what this monk said on another video: "This too shall pass"
3 notes to make the goods out of your life ❤️: “Do not reply or do not take actions when you’re angry Don’t make promise to people when you’re too happy Never take decisions when you’re sad “
Ven. Bhante ji, Vandami ! Your thoughts in this video are very very important and useful in our daily life to save the life of those people who takes a decision to sucide their life in a sad moment. At last in a summary, your three suggestions are very commendable and useful- 1. Don't speak or be silent when we are in an angry moment. 2. Don't give any promise/assurance, when we are in a very happiness-moment. 3. Don't take any decision when we are in a sad moment/condition. Salute to you !
Rev. Sir, Very useful your each & every episodes for all. Not only the Buddhism but you also have power to talk & advice by reading others mind.also highly appriciate your grate service. Thank you.
"Suicide will not provide the answers for your life problem" People committing suicide are not looking for an answer for their life problem. They are looking for an escape from their life problem. And it totally gives that.
I do know Sunny Days don't make me comfortable anymore. They make me feel suicidal and worsen my symptoms of C-PTSD. This video is very helpful. Thank you.
I don't like if others are smiling.I don't know the reasons why to smile if there can be sadness as well.To me more comfortable if I'm around sad people.I had,maybe still have C-PTSD.Sometimes I don't like to go outside at all as outside is only the world which disturbs my mind.Then I always remember that monks and bhaktas are living in monastery and exactly because they don't want to be disturbed.No wonder if people are having PTSD as material world is beautiful,crazy and sick as hell.I think by a PTSD it can be very shocking to seeing the sunny side,better seeing the shadowed side or a fog or half dark half light side or fully light but without people.To me everything is disturbing already.I try to ignore the whole outside disturbing scenes.I checked the pictures on the dalailama homepage few years ago if all the monks are smiling cause then I would have felt less than them and absolutely not, some of them were smiling,some of them were neutral and some of them looked depressed but that dosen't mean their minds weren't clear.Have a nice day.❤
These days stuff time for all of us.because of the country situation..you might be think those things will be long lasting.I wanna say " everything will be ok " keep you mind in that thought..And always love yourself.❤️
No matter what I do, listen to Buddh stories, share my pain, get doctor consultation or try anything possible, nothing is helping me. Things u say I already know but can't control my tears
Endless waves battered my life, right throughout for a long time now.... I no longer have t energy or t will to go on....Dont see any purpose in going on....But I need to hold on...Atleast till I step in to path of sothapatthi...
As suicide is usually about escaping great pain as opposed to dying, the impermanence of pain is a good discussion. Not making decisions when in such pain is another one and talking to helpers in the field of this pain is another solution to speak of.
1.consult doctor 2.plz don't feel guilty. We r human.cannot be 100%perfect. Past is past.try to live true to someone. 3.early morning 4-5 pray to universe what u want 4.keep ur wall pictures flower ,children's, nature, ur favourite pictures.see it regularly before go to sleep and early morning
You don’t understand. If I were to receive anything good I don’t even want or care for it at this point. I’m training my soul to make sure I do not reincarnate. I believe the earth and this life is a beautifully designed prison and a trap we cannot escape from.
It’s hard for me to watch this video because the person speaking strongly reminds me of a man who used to abuse me mentally and physically and broke up with me after I was assaulted. I can’t recover from it after 8 years. Every single day I’m feeling suicidal. Medication and hospital treatment doesn’t help at all. I’ve lost will to live but I’m afraid of dying because I know that it won’t be the end. I’m tired of living like this. But I’ll try to give myself another chance. Thank you.
Namo Buddhaya! I am having serious suicidal thoughts and I think this video helped me. Thank you so much dear great monk🙏 Hope I will feel better in the future!
Everyone blame me, for others decision. Fighting alone since 8 years. Fed up of crying n struggling. Became burden for my parents n they are too blamed. I want to quit but trying to be alive for my 6yr old kid. Om namo buddhaya
I genuinely don't mean to be rude, but, > It's rare that we get a human life Okay I still don't want it I don't see how something being rare is the same as being important. > Restarting will never give an answer, and is not an answer to life problems I won't even remember so what difference does it make? And it'll end all problems permanently, past and future one, so it still is a valid approach. May not be a "solution", but is a valid approach. For me. And I don't even have those many problems. I just find it tiring, I don't want to keep doing whatever this is. Sure I could become a recluse and abandon the nice things of life and live as forest dweller, but that is too much too. I don't want to do anything, just not have to do anything > Life is a cycle of suffering over and over again I do not see the point to how it is relevant to ending one, or choosing to end one > Talk to someone What good does that do? It'll just burden them with worry for me. And what can they do? There isn't much they can. > Talk to elders ... Well they just told me to go to a therapist, and they just gave me medications, and it did absolutely nothing. Like, I don't see a point in any of this. > You need to have self-love and compassion With all due respect, this is just talking is circles. I wouldn't be labelled as a sad person if I didn't have them in the first place. It's the same platitude as saying "Just be happy!" > You do not have the right to quit Why not? I was not here with my consent, I didn't pick whatever this is? Okay fine. What about my body my choice? What about exercising my will? Why does it apply everywhere but here? > You should not abandon yourself Why not? If the whole world has deemed me unfit in society and shins me everywhere, and no one wants me, what is the point in me being around? You don't keep plants that have perished around do you > Little push to your life Yes, just that I want it off a cliff > miserable Well I'm not really miserable, just that I don't want to be here in any shape or form > The three advice Yep I genuinely agree with that. That also means that I have thought of the same thing of not wanting to be here when I was happy, when I was sad, and every other time too. > Human life is valuable To whom? I don't value mine. I add no value, and I can factually break it down. Look I'll be honest, this video sounds a little disingenuous to me, almost feels like mockery, I am sorry.
Accept that you are in pain, allow yourself to feel the emotions, be brave to be there for yourself , help yourself to get out of the storm, help yourself forever, love yourself forever ❤️ shouldn't you?
I’m suffering from bpd and depression. I am in college currently. I wish being calm taking control over myself and being happy. I have overdosed I tried to suicide once. I want to be happy and be okay. I have got a lot of trust issues it’s so hard. Hearing ur voice gives me peace of mind. I hope one day I overcome this.
never give up life is tough, sometimes we are brought to the deepest and most painful situations in our lives, where sadness dwells and the pain is almost imaginable. but event how hard the situation may be we always should choose to live our lives and find a way to overcome all our struggles, life is worth fighting for and all will be ok and well. bless and love
That's the ideal life, but when life is full of only days with storms, and you can never find peace, that's when one starts to question the purpose of staying alive.
12 years bedridden suffering chronic pain, since my 29 years old. I lost everyting. I want to give up. I can’t stand the body pain and the mental torture.
Please do not give up as you can really withstand the pain please be positive that you will be moving again and I play the almighty to solve all your major health problems
But what if you don't love yourself? What if you are full of self-loathing? Too simple dear master. If you love yourself you wouldn't think about suicide... You are right, nothing is permanent. Suicide is just a way to accelerate the change -- ultimate change. When you know that things won't be better. And they don't get better -- you just get used to your circumstance. Like a wild animal may eventually get used to it's cage. But do you want to? Do you want to live in a cage? As a person who often thought about suicide, the only counter argument for it is the radical freedom. You literally have nothing to lose when you are contemplating suicide. You've conquered the ultimate fear -- the fear of death. Now -- if you can just channel this energy and freedom somehow. You would be a truly unique human.
Going through a divorce now and my life is broken, job sucks too, and full of commitments pressing me a lot, no family support also, now tell me why I am still alive? To suffer more?…. I seriously lost hope on everything… all I want is a peaceful life, is it too much to ask for?…
I hope you see the truth, that karma is what gave you this unpleasant life. You see people born in to rich families and some to very poor ones. Some born very healthy, some born unhealthy and deformed. Some born to very loveable families and some born with families that they can't bare and so on. It is the previous karma they accumulated that they have to suffer. It may seem unfair and it surely is excruciating to bare (that is why the Supreme Buddha called these suffering). Like in the sermon, we learn that birth is suffering. Ending this life will not end the karma, so you will be born and suffer even more (because committing suicide is a very bad karma too). You may not remember this life, but end up suffering again and repeat. This cycle of birth and death is endless. That is why a very rare Supreme Buddha has taught the truth, this pure Dhamma. So be strong and get past those suicidal feelings and see for yourself the true meaning of the teachings. The Great Arahants who followed the path, were able to have a calm and peaceful mind even when being tortured and killed (even without any hateful thoughts towards the person doing so). So do good and the right thing (as you learn the teachings). Not only so you will be born in a better destination but also to escape from this endless samsara and all suffering. :) I hope this message has helped you in the slightest of ways. I'd be glad to help further if you need. Be strong! May you be well and happy! Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🏼
@Thiru Ram Don't be an enemy to yourself... Keep practising and learning the pure Dhamma and you'll feel the difference. True happiness comes from within! :)
thank you so much bhanthe but i guess is too late for me because i live with little good karma and have very bad karma...first bad karma i am born in christian family with a toxic grandfather and also peoples in my family are vary toxic even in the school too.No one is trying to help me until i learn Buddhism at age 16 years old when i am in senior high school.The problem is i am also trying to find a love or a perpose in sociaty and my family but they are always insult me.They said "i am a stupid boy and useless'' beside that i have two hands,two feets,two eyes to see,two ears to hear(no disablelity in my body)they keep said ''i am useless''.one fact is that we are lived in this world to accapted ours karma and created new karma throught our lives but my biggest mistake is listened and eat the toxicty.i alaways tried to make a friendship with other but i never got them.these are my biggest mistake ''always tried to find a happyness outside not within''.the result of those mistakes i am become lazy and always sad and blame myselft also hating myself. Now today i am 21 years old lived with small,skinny,and short body,this condition make me can not get a job.and still lived with toxic family.i have one shot to get out from this toxic's envorement.but i ruin it for 20 years ago.i hope i can improve my body to become tall and stronger by myself....but its too late.i have skill in art but many animation's company reject my arts and my passion.i hope i can time travel to my childhood.and company my child version to train and support this boy become stronger man...give him the love of a loving parent and always beside him when he is sad and need support. this sociaty is broke when parents are tired of work and got depressed of their job performance because their mistake and got blame or got yalling by an angry's boss.When they go home and found that their kids make a little mistake or a mistake...they become angry and awfull sometime they beat their kids and yalling at them'' you are stupid a trash,you are uselless'' in the end this a big mistake that always repeat in our sociaty.That can create a moster in our sociaty KIds and children are supposed to be love by their parents and giude them to be stronger and kind to other human or living creature. Now it is too late for me if i keep my live, i will depending on my toxic parent to pay me in art collage .and also if i go to collage other teenager will bully me because i am skinny and short. thank you bhanthe i hope everyone will live in happy and kindness...Saadhu...Sadhu....Sadhu...🙏🙏😊
"Though the whole world abadon you, you should never abandon your life". Very nice advice
I agree with u cos life is so beautiful
I should. I didn't choose to be born.🤔
@@rebelpanther1784 But you did. There are many who believe in the concept of a "soul's contract". If you are having difficulty, please find someone to be and talk with.
@@chhayachabukswar1748 I
Why not though? It's our life, we can do whatever we want with it.
I suffer from depression.
I m a Muslim.
But I feel like I will get rid of my depression watching ur videos...
I don't know how to thank you .
Helpt je vaak in vervelende situaties
my brother if you suffer from depression please eat clean foods dont eat food with a lot of artificial ingredients like margarine and pls avoid drinking milk powder and exercise a little bite everyday. BUDU SARANAI
i m also pray for ur good with happy life ,, dont worry bro ,
Muslim have depression very strange ,
@@ulala9729 its religion that causes depression
1. Do not reply or Do not take action when you are angry.
2. Don't make promises to other people when you are too happy.
3. Never take decisions whenever you are sad.
Namo Buddhaya 🙏
that is correct, i am also feeling to sucide. no hope , my desires felt own , i am watching this video to relax for little time
Yes. Let emotions subside, before you decide.🙏✨
Many people do total opposite.
@@roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115me too
@@roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115chant hanuman chalisa
I am 65 , I have several major illnesses , I often contemplate suicide.
I feel isolated and lonely.
Hearing you talk like this helps me to get up and go outside to find a quiet place and think .
Thank you for your thoughts on this subject.
I am 24 , idk know what to about me contemplating my death I’ve been trying therapy it not helping how have you been staying alive
omg i know this hell be well soon i pray for u all ❤
I went through the same feeling in July, then again in September. Something wouldn't let me. Then I thought of all the things I left undone. So I told myself, "You can't do this now, you have to much to do to." I went home and got busy trying to clean up the mess I would have left behind. Then something miraculous happened. A stranger told me I was pretty. The next day my boss gave me a raise and a client sent me a box of candy. I was really glad I didn't do what I wanted to do when I was depressed. Besides, suicide isn't an instant invitation into heaven. Pray and love yourself more today than you did when you wanted to destroy yourself.
Hello friend I hope you’re doing well. I’m so proud of you as a 24 year old for making it this far and you deserve to be here for many many more years to come. I see you and I hear you, you’re existence matters so so much.
No I am not suicidal and I don't have thoughts about suicide. I'm tired of fighting to stay alive from chronic diseases and illnesses. I just want to die in peace and with dignity when the time comes. I'm not afraid to die because I know that my spiritual being goes on to a much greater journey with the Creator of the Whole Universe. No one lives forever in the physical sense. The spiritual being moves forward to greater things.
Does it ever move lower??? The spirotual being??
I think I can relate - 14 years of MS, not getting easier.
Look up the story of Channa and Sirpata. It's interesting
Same here friend.
I'm struggling so much 😢 I really can't go on... I'm weak and just want to dissappear x
You are a Brave human being in the world 🙏
This is for you! Anyone struggling today, know that you are a beautiful loving being! You are loved so so much! You are kind giving n amazing. There's a reason to be here, even if it's just to reach out to others. I know your pain I have been there n so have others!! This guy speaks truth n love ❤ please there's always 🙏 something to live for? 🙏 remember in the storm there's always a rainbow 🌈 that follows!! Bless n peace!!
😢😢😢😢 I so tried to be living
Thank you for your words, and for caring.
@@22CONSERVATIVEFELON god bless ♥
I am thinking about giving up today as I sit here crying
@@22CONSERVATIVEFELON please remember life is a roller coaster, everyone has up n downs and nothing is for ever. Depression lies to us, yes you may be feeling like your at the end of a long road. But trust me that road will change. I've sadly only just seen your text. I'm from the U.K.......remember you are never alone, it doesn't matter what culture we are ANGELS 😇 are always with us they love you so so much ♥..wishing you all the best..God bless xx
Omg!!Why I did not know you 7 years back….3 suicidal depression later here I am.Living and loving life after many storms.
Depression can be cured. You have to choose the cure.
Life can still get worse again for you and you may end up more suicidal than ever. That's just how life is, it's a constant up and down in life.
Wow
How did u got out of it? Mine lasts 8 months already
@@Amy123456788 Visit a psychiatrist and start taking medications, you will feel better and in the process you can try to correct negative thinking pattern.
There is a birth, there is a suffering. We have all gone through the life vehicle: Birth, Aging, Sickness and Death. We cried when being born. That’s a humble beginning of life! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Namo Buddhaya 💐💐💐
IT GETS BETTER! IT GETS BETTER! Please don't make a permanent decision based on a temporary problem. IT GETS BETTER.
Not all problems are temporary. Some people suffer from very painful incurable illnesses, so stop yelling like a lunatic.
Thank you ❤❤
I really hope it does, thank you
I wish I can believe that it's getting worse my father is the worse
I am sorry, but goos things would come soon@@jerryraidersnation3306
We have to be very conscious on to whom we are being open. Some people may misuse our openness to make our lives way miserable. Being a part of a good circle to others will make a better circle around us, coz we always get what we give to this world 🤗
sis if you are going through depression consider improving u r diet don't drink milk powder and don't eat artificial food with chemical ingredients. if you have friends going through depression advise the same
Outdoor games and interacting with animals like cats,dogs....helps a lot.
@@janithgunasena9741lad Shutup with the worst advice possible. People aren’t considering suicide because of what they eat. Proper div
Greatest speech I hav e ever seen in my life 🙏🙏🙏....namo budhaya...
Thank you very much for your wonderful words!
I always believed in Buddhism, but since my life got so difficult and lonely, I
sometimes forget, that there is a reason
for all our tuff times and that its there to make us a better person! Lately all I wanted is to leave this world to end the pain. After listening to your words, I’m back on the right path to myself and
the right thoughts!
You save so many lives with your words! Thank you again 🙏🙏🙏
I love the beautiful teachings of Lord bhudha. I'm born Hindu and a practitioner however I have massive respect for bhudism. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
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Me too 😊
We devotees have problems religion haven't. I like your comment through my inner heart. Thanks.
Very true. Life is like a ocean from time to time we experience different things in our life. Sadness, happiness which are not permanent in our life.,that is the nature of life . The one who cannot understand this nature cannot live a peaceful life.
this video is making me realize I am doing injustice to my body that was given to me only once after the long cycle of samsara, and with the limited time I have to enjoy the youth of my body, I really want to stop smoking.
Choosing a person whom we can share our problems also important...some times we may not have that single person also ... 😔😌
Thankyou for your good words 🙏 this gives relief for some extent..
U r very right
Agree
I've already survived enough abuse neglect and trauma.life hurts so much I was born into pure pain and sadness.i always hurting inside for my family and yes all the trauma 💔 😢 😞 😔 🙏 I'm trying to stay stronger more then ever.i'll never forget my mommy and daddy.i wish I could take back all the bad things I've done and said. I'm running out of breathe.
You need to get away from your family if they caused you trauma
I am thankful for all my troubles which got me closer to dhamma..🙏🙏🙏❤
What a nice thought dear .☺️🙏
Learning to love oneself, no matter what you look like, and seeing things from a more positive point of view. Will help cure depression. You have to decide it though . As a precious human life , choose wisely .
I love Buddhism with all my heart 💓 😊
A very tough time I have been passed but sometime too much negetive thought storm into my mind..I can't handle ..I understand but I nothing to do...I just tried to fighting with myself .. therefore your video 's can saves very life those who suffer from depressional phase in their life.
these videos really helped me alott to overcome my stress ❤️. Namo buddhaya 🙏
I Love You Self ❤️🙏
Thank you Reverend for this beautiful encouragement. I will practice this practices indeed.
Do not take action when you're angry. Don't make promises to other people when you're happy and Never take decision when you are Sad.
Namo Buddhaya.
I’ve delt with depression for a good period of my life. It still comes up from time to time, but it’s much easier to deal with now. I can recognize it for what it is and accept it, feel it without suffering. I was only truly liberated from my depression once I dove into it fully and let myself feel it.
In our odiya Bhagbat have a quote that describe our present life as " Juga ku juga yehimate Parmananda ye jagate." Meaning is our life is changed according to time.
Lost job, lost in love. Still i will not quit. I will fight back for my parents.. will try to bring back peace to the society..pranam guruji
You saved me today ! Thank you. Hearing your voice gives peace.
Am so broken I can’t express. No a single person to see me. I somehow navigate through. Staying alive for my children. Marriage broke me into pieces I can’t pick. I was in attack and with shaking hands I just tried to search some random vid to calm down gush of thoughts. And I found you. I don’t want to live. But can not leave children. Attachment causing pain. I really want to end this. Am tired of suffering emotionally. Nahi ho pa raha ab.
Don't answer when angry Don't make promises to others when you are happy Don't make decisions when you are sad. I accept these 3 advices. And unfortunately, there is no one who is trustworthy to listen to these things openly. If the people of the world are ready to listen to the other person, there will be no suicidal thoughts. Love yourself. Be compassionate. Take care of yourself.
Guruji, I am a Muslim but I am suffering from terrible psychological disorders. I have no one to rely on, no support, money, I am derailed and divulged and on sedatives and anti histanies. I hsve no option but to destroy my life. My conscience and soul loathes me. I don't geel like waking up from morning. Feel like death is a great blessing from me. Dont feel like living anymore.
I get sometimes get severely depressed and just want to die. Then I just rest and suffer the feelings until the dark cloud in my mind clears. I remember what this monk said on another video: "This too shall pass"
3 notes to make the goods out of your life ❤️:
“Do not reply or do not take actions when you’re angry
Don’t make promise to people when you’re too happy
Never take decisions when you’re sad “
Thank you Venerable for sharing your profound Dharma talk in English. I’m so grateful. Namo Amituofo 🙏🙏🙏
I am Hindu but I love what namah budha say it , my life is parts of religious to go through. Thanks namah budha.
Ven. Bhante ji,
Vandami !
Your thoughts in this video are very very important and useful in our daily life to save the life of those people who
takes a decision to sucide their life in a sad moment.
At last in a summary, your three suggestions are very commendable and useful-
1. Don't speak or be silent when we are in an angry moment.
2. Don't give any promise/assurance, when we are in a very happiness-moment.
3. Don't take any decision when we are in a sad moment/condition.
Salute to you !
Rev. Sir,
Very useful your each & every episodes for all. Not only the Buddhism but you also have power to talk & advice by reading others mind.also highly appriciate your grate service. Thank you.
Great insights with so much of soothing and calmness in speech.. Thank you
I love myself .i treat my life .peaceful and happy .human life so valuable ..🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much💜 Sending everyone love,hugs and encouragement🥰
"Suicide will not provide the answers for your life problem"
People committing suicide are not looking for an answer for their life problem. They are looking for an escape from their life problem.
And it totally gives that.
One who is able to find anybody for trusting and asking for help will never have any suicidal thought.
I do know Sunny Days don't make me comfortable anymore. They make me feel suicidal and worsen my symptoms of C-PTSD. This video is very helpful. Thank you.
I don't like if others are smiling.I don't know the reasons why to smile if there can be sadness as well.To me more comfortable if I'm around sad people.I had,maybe still have C-PTSD.Sometimes I don't like to go outside at all as outside is only the world which disturbs my mind.Then I always remember that monks and bhaktas are living in monastery and exactly because they don't want to be disturbed.No wonder if people are having PTSD as material world is beautiful,crazy and sick as hell.I think by a PTSD it can be very shocking to seeing the sunny side,better seeing the shadowed side or a fog or half dark half light side or fully light but without people.To me everything is disturbing already.I try to ignore the whole outside disturbing scenes.I checked the pictures on the dalailama homepage few years ago if all the monks are smiling cause then I would have felt less than them and absolutely not, some of them were smiling,some of them were neutral and some of them looked depressed but that dosen't mean their minds weren't clear.Have a nice day.❤
Let emotions subside before you decide...on anything 🙏✨
These days stuff time for all of us.because of the country situation..you might be think those things will be long lasting.I wanna say " everything will be ok " keep you mind in that thought..And always love yourself.❤️
Tomorrow is my exam pray for me
Thanks all foryour wishes
It got well
The whole universe is with you
All the best 👍 🙂
CA Student
All The Best...
All the best.🌻Do your best👍
Thanks for your wishes😇
I LOVE MYSELF MYSELF MORE THAN ANYONE IN THIS WORLD.
PEACE TO EVERYONE.
NAMMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🏻
THANK YOU REVEREND.💕❤💟
GOD HAS BROUGHT ME THIS FAR FOR A REASON. I THINK HE WILL TAKE WHEN HE'S READY. AMEN AND I THANK GOD🌹🌹♥️🤗🙏🙏
No matter what I do, listen to Buddh stories, share my pain, get doctor consultation or try anything possible, nothing is helping me. Things u say I already know but can't control my tears
Bud we can talk
Hey hope r u doing now ....
Endless waves battered my life, right throughout for a long time now....
I no longer have t energy or t will to go on....Dont see any purpose in going on....But I need to hold on...Atleast till I step in to path of sothapatthi...
Ask Jesus for help. My life completely changed when i did that
Yes hold on dont give up it will pass trust me ❤ we love u although we may not know each other
As suicide is usually about escaping great pain as opposed to dying, the impermanence of pain is a good discussion. Not making decisions when in such pain is another one and talking to helpers in the field of this pain is another solution to speak of.
Nammo Buddia.
I HAVE OCD MENTAL PROBLEM
I feel guilty and very sad.
I can't pray to god can't
Very Bad Images and thoughts come....
1.consult doctor
2.plz don't feel guilty. We r human.cannot be 100%perfect. Past is past.try to live true to someone.
3.early morning 4-5 pray to universe what u want
4.keep ur wall pictures flower ,children's, nature, ur favourite pictures.see it regularly before go to sleep and early morning
Do meditation daily
Dont be scared of buddha they are the most forgiving. As long as you have the hope to change, they will only protect you
IAM Jewish but love Buddhism and it’s wisdom I practice nap myoho renge kyo
I don’t have life problems. I have a problem with life. I’m tired. I wanna go home.
Don't lose hope brother you are not alone we'll keep fighting 💪 never give up on life good days are coming be patient 😊
You don’t understand. If I were to receive anything good I don’t even want or care for it at this point. I’m training my soul to make sure I do not reincarnate. I believe the earth and this life is a beautifully designed prison and a trap we cannot escape from.
It’s hard for me to watch this video because the person speaking strongly reminds me of a man who used to abuse me mentally and physically and broke up with me after I was assaulted. I can’t recover from it after 8 years. Every single day I’m feeling suicidal. Medication and hospital treatment doesn’t help at all. I’ve lost will to live but I’m afraid of dying because I know that it won’t be the end.
I’m tired of living like this. But I’ll try to give myself another chance.
Thank you.
Hey hope u r doing good ... hold on ❤
@@ashu3234-fz6ld thank you so much, I’m in a clinic right now and everything gets a little bit better every day
Namo Buddhaya! I am having serious suicidal thoughts and I think this video helped me. Thank you so much dear great monk🙏 Hope I will feel better in the future!
0:06Life is like an Ocean🌊👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Love your speech as always! Truly real meaning 🙏
Everyone blame me, for others decision. Fighting alone since 8 years. Fed up of crying n struggling. Became burden for my parents n they are too blamed. I want to quit but trying to be alive for my 6yr old kid. Om namo buddhaya
I always find a clarity of thought in the expression of swami Jee. I feel a breath of fresh air. Highly appealing and very healing.
Love, blessings an much gratitude for your words of wisdom 💙🙏✨
Thanks for caring enough to talk about this subject.
Soothing..namo Buddhaaya 😇🙏
I genuinely don't mean to be rude, but,
> It's rare that we get a human life
Okay I still don't want it I don't see how something being rare is the same as being important.
> Restarting will never give an answer, and is not an answer to life problems
I won't even remember so what difference does it make? And it'll end all problems permanently, past and future one, so it still is a valid approach. May not be a "solution", but is a valid approach. For me. And I don't even have those many problems. I just find it tiring, I don't want to keep doing whatever this is. Sure I could become a recluse and abandon the nice things of life and live as forest dweller, but that is too much too. I don't want to do anything, just not have to do anything
> Life is a cycle of suffering over and over again
I do not see the point to how it is relevant to ending one, or choosing to end one
> Talk to someone
What good does that do? It'll just burden them with worry for me. And what can they do? There isn't much they can.
> Talk to elders ...
Well they just told me to go to a therapist, and they just gave me medications, and it did absolutely nothing. Like, I don't see a point in any of this.
> You need to have self-love and compassion
With all due respect, this is just talking is circles. I wouldn't be labelled as a sad person if I didn't have them in the first place. It's the same platitude as saying "Just be happy!"
> You do not have the right to quit
Why not? I was not here with my consent, I didn't pick whatever this is? Okay fine. What about my body my choice? What about exercising my will? Why does it apply everywhere but here?
> You should not abandon yourself
Why not? If the whole world has deemed me unfit in society and shins me everywhere, and no one wants me, what is the point in me being around? You don't keep plants that have perished around do you
> Little push to your life
Yes, just that I want it off a cliff
> miserable
Well I'm not really miserable, just that I don't want to be here in any shape or form
> The three advice
Yep I genuinely agree with that. That also means that I have thought of the same thing of not wanting to be here when I was happy, when I was sad, and every other time too.
> Human life is valuable
To whom? I don't value mine. I add no value, and I can factually break it down.
Look I'll be honest, this video sounds a little disingenuous to me, almost feels like mockery, I am sorry.
Exactly!
Your most important message delivered beautifully 😍
Accept that you are in pain, allow yourself to feel the emotions, be brave to be there for yourself , help yourself to get out of the storm, help yourself forever, love yourself forever ❤️ shouldn't you?
I’m suffering from bpd and depression. I am in college currently. I wish being calm taking control over myself and being happy. I have overdosed I tried to suicide once. I want to be happy and be okay. I have got a lot of trust issues it’s so hard. Hearing ur voice gives me peace of mind. I hope one day I overcome this.
never give up life is tough, sometimes we are brought to the deepest and most painful situations in our lives, where sadness dwells and the pain is almost imaginable. but event how hard the situation may be we always should choose to live our lives and find a way to overcome all our struggles, life is worth fighting for and all will be ok and well. bless and love
Suicidal feeling is a situation what becomes what we feel.It’s a feeling .. beyond our control. Thank you for the advice.I’m ok x
I am very happy and blessed Honorable Thero I am proud that you are from our blessing COUNTRY SRI LANKA
Blessing and love from India , please start guided meditation series 🙏🤲
Thank you so much dear thero🙏
This channel is very important us..we can completely change our future lives and improve our English knowledge too🙏
That's the ideal life, but when life is full of only days with storms, and you can never find peace, that's when one starts to question the purpose of staying alive.
You are super I love everything you do I listen to it more than 10 times God bless
Respected Bhande
I am getting happier day by day !
You're inspirational words are really change my deppresed life... 😴😊
Really heart soothing words,and great and valuable service sir, we respect Buddhism....... 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much I appreciate you and will keep going thank you so very much you saved a life I love supreme Buddha
this helped me a lot to stop my siffering namo buddhaya
كلام رائع ومفيد لاني منذ مدة اعاني من الأفكار الانتحاريه
Why ?Which country you from ?
So profound. Thank you for this wisdom.
Very well spoken words-- I feel life is worth living-- life is beautiful❤❤❤
12 years bedridden suffering chronic pain, since my 29 years old. I lost everyting. I want to give up. I can’t stand the body pain and the mental torture.
Please do not give up as you can really withstand the pain please be positive that you will be moving again and I play the almighty to solve all your major health problems
@@bapaiahprabhala956 Thank you so much for all your words ❤️🩹
But what if you don't love yourself? What if you are full of self-loathing? Too simple dear master. If you love yourself you wouldn't think about suicide... You are right, nothing is permanent. Suicide is just a way to accelerate the change -- ultimate change. When you know that things won't be better. And they don't get better -- you just get used to your circumstance. Like a wild animal may eventually get used to it's cage. But do you want to? Do you want to live in a cage? As a person who often thought about suicide, the only counter argument for it is the radical freedom.
You literally have nothing to lose when you are contemplating suicide. You've conquered the ultimate fear -- the fear of death. Now -- if you can just channel this energy and freedom somehow. You would be a truly unique human.
Can you make video on how to stop overthinking
Your speech is so beautiful and worthfull sir
🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐 thank you reverant...some people are nearly there..it is very educational & useful
Being open
Self-l♡ve
Self-compassion
I watch this video multiple times a week now just to get by. Sometimes the coming good days are/feel years away.
Beautiful message if wisdom. Thank you 😊
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank u sooo much buddhism ,,,, these advice make me calm always , 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. You are blessing to all of us.
*Nguyện cầu cho tất cả mọi người được được tin nhắn này đều bình an cuộc sống vui vẻ viên mãn* 🙏
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Going through a divorce now and my life is broken, job sucks too, and full of commitments pressing me a lot, no family support also, now tell me why I am still alive? To suffer more?…. I seriously lost hope on everything… all I want is a peaceful life, is it too much to ask for?…
I hope you see the truth, that karma is what gave you this unpleasant life. You see people born in to rich families and some to very poor ones. Some born very healthy, some born unhealthy and deformed. Some born to very loveable families and some born with families that they can't bare and so on. It is the previous karma they accumulated that they have to suffer. It may seem unfair and it surely is excruciating to bare (that is why the Supreme Buddha called these suffering).
Like in the sermon, we learn that birth is suffering. Ending this life will not end the karma, so you will be born and suffer even more (because committing suicide is a very bad karma too).
You may not remember this life, but end up suffering again and repeat. This cycle of birth and death is endless. That is why a very rare Supreme Buddha has taught the truth, this pure Dhamma.
So be strong and get past those suicidal feelings and see for yourself the true meaning of the teachings. The Great Arahants who followed the path, were able to have a calm and peaceful mind even when being tortured and killed (even without any hateful thoughts towards the person doing so).
So do good and the right thing (as you learn the teachings). Not only so you will be born in a better destination but also to escape from this endless samsara and all suffering. :)
I hope this message has helped you in the slightest of ways. I'd be glad to help further if you need. Be strong! May you be well and happy!
Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🏼
@@mahe4102 I am trying hard but, I have a sense of losing my self. I feel very unnecessary always
@Thiru Ram Don't be an enemy to yourself... Keep practising and learning the pure Dhamma and you'll feel the difference. True happiness comes from within! :)
@@mahe4102 thank you
There is something better awaiting you... Believe it.
Please, maintain the faith.
Why am here,don’t know but the video gives me a new positive thoughts ❤
Your voice like budhiman... I like. From India.
Bhante your talks are always inspires me and give lesson to life sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yes, Only need a little help... Thank you Sir...🙏Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much Bhante for sharing the Dhamma of Buddha teaching
Anoumothana Sathu kanoy
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Thank you very much with your healing words namo buddhay 🙏
I thank you whole heartedly for this life saving video ❤
thank you so much bhanthe but i guess is too late for me because i live with little good karma and have very bad karma...first bad karma i am born in christian family with a toxic grandfather and also peoples in my family are vary toxic even in the school too.No one is trying to help me until i learn Buddhism at age 16 years old when i am in senior high school.The problem is i am also trying to find a love or a perpose in sociaty and my family but they are always insult me.They said "i am a stupid boy and useless'' beside that i have two hands,two feets,two eyes to see,two ears to hear(no disablelity in my body)they keep said ''i am useless''.one fact is that we are lived in this world to accapted ours karma and created new karma throught our lives but my biggest mistake is listened and eat the toxicty.i alaways tried to make a friendship with other but i never got them.these are my biggest mistake ''always tried to find a happyness outside not within''.the result of those mistakes i am become lazy and always sad and blame myselft also hating myself.
Now today i am 21 years old lived with small,skinny,and short body,this condition make me can not get a job.and still lived with toxic family.i have one shot to get out from this toxic's envorement.but i ruin it for 20 years ago.i hope i can improve my body to become tall and stronger by myself....but its too late.i have skill in art but many animation's company reject my arts and my passion.i hope i can time travel to my childhood.and company my child version to train and support this boy become stronger man...give him the love of a loving parent and always beside him when he is sad and need support.
this sociaty is broke when parents are tired of work and got depressed of their job performance because their mistake and got blame or got yalling by an angry's boss.When they go home and found that their kids make a little mistake or a mistake...they become angry and awfull sometime they beat their kids and yalling at them'' you are stupid a trash,you are uselless'' in the end this a big mistake that always repeat in our sociaty.That can create a moster in our sociaty
KIds and children are supposed to be love by their parents and giude them to be stronger and kind to other human or living creature.
Now it is too late for me if i keep my live, i will depending on my toxic parent to pay me in art collage .and also if i go to collage other teenager will bully me because i am skinny and short.
thank you bhanthe i hope everyone will live in happy and kindness...Saadhu...Sadhu....Sadhu...🙏🙏😊
Love you guruji❤️....namo buddhaya🧘🙏