How to use your words wisely... | Buddhism In English

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 288

  • @noname-j5m7e
    @noname-j5m7e 2 месяца назад +26

    This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .

  • @manimekhalai8256
    @manimekhalai8256 2 месяца назад +106

    Five questions to ask yourself before speaking:
    1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say.
    2. Am I speaking truthfully?
    3. Am I speaking gently not harshly?
    4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully?
    5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?

    • @ConcettaLynch
      @ConcettaLynch 2 месяца назад +3

      Very well said
      ❤❤❤

    • @Sri_lanka-00
      @Sri_lanka-00 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes

    • @priyankadawane4156
      @priyankadawane4156 Месяц назад +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @eileenvannurden1343
      @eileenvannurden1343 27 дней назад

      @@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!

  • @shinfa.ecco-23
    @shinfa.ecco-23 2 месяца назад +49

    I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter

    • @dinoblock8516
      @dinoblock8516 2 месяца назад +13

      Buddhism is a philosophy you don't have to be a Buddhist to understand it.and it's really easy to understand ❤❤

    • @leebeef
      @leebeef 2 месяца назад +5

      So nice to see. Wishing you and your family all the best.

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 2 месяца назад +6

      I feel the same way. I am seeking truth more than religion.

  • @Pavels_World
    @Pavels_World 2 месяца назад +33

    Love from Russia. When you speak I feel relaxed. Thank you for your teachings.

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 месяца назад +92

    My gradma once said"When someone hits you, the pain fades quickly, but hurtful words stick with you forever."

  • @billyjjackson
    @billyjjackson 2 месяца назад +10

    I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 месяца назад +13

    Thank you❤❤❤
    Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤

  • @adharshpk6524
    @adharshpk6524 2 месяца назад +11

    Guruji ..love from INDIA

  • @eileenvannurden1343
    @eileenvannurden1343 2 месяца назад +11

    It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!

  • @lorellamazzotta3306
    @lorellamazzotta3306 2 месяца назад +10

    Thank you 🙏
    You are always immensly helpful and wise 🥰

  • @chitrajayasekara7353
    @chitrajayasekara7353 Месяц назад +2

    This is so use full 😊 it gives reasons and examples.

  • @ANUJGUPTA-f2h
    @ANUJGUPTA-f2h 2 месяца назад +3

    sir you are a great person in my life , because of sir those sentences you say i will apply to speak it , it is creat a magic

  • @CybersecPat
    @CybersecPat 2 месяца назад +4

    beautiful advice. Always look forward to you posting. Wishing you and the team all the best

  • @citylight66
    @citylight66 2 месяца назад +3

    wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.

  • @SelviP-g7e
    @SelviP-g7e 2 месяца назад +8

    நன்றி என்ற ஒரு வார்த்தை போதாது தங்களுடைய கருத்திற்கு. இருப்பினும் எங்களால் அதை மட்டுமே உரைக்க இயலும் 🙏😊

  • @neshad9731
    @neshad9731 2 месяца назад +6

    Your words are very helpful to me and encourage my life to grow better as I grow I am blessed to live across a Buddhism temple

  • @Gimme_Cornbread
    @Gimme_Cornbread 2 месяца назад +3

    This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.

  • @chinnagarikapati4916
    @chinnagarikapati4916 2 месяца назад +2

    One of the best ever video , I have ever watched in my entire life

  • @shawonbabu4163
    @shawonbabu4163 Месяц назад +1

    Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏

  • @RealityBuddhism
    @RealityBuddhism 9 дней назад

    Thanks for your lesson to built a right Buddhist 🙏🙏🙏

  • @shivanigautam3980
    @shivanigautam3980 2 месяца назад +5

    Namo Buddhaya.... ❤❤❤❤

  • @JyoticaJk
    @JyoticaJk 2 месяца назад +1

    Thnku so much for this message...Nammo budhhaya🙏🙏

  • @supunsandika5455
    @supunsandika5455 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you dear bhanthe ! Your words clean my mind. May Lord Buddha bless you !

  • @tsinghua4251
    @tsinghua4251 2 месяца назад +1

    Absolutely the True Supreme Dhamma

  • @basavarajkaujalgi3947
    @basavarajkaujalgi3947 2 месяца назад +1

    🙏🏻😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏🏻

  • @slonmax
    @slonmax 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanks from Ukraine!

  • @QueenNancy-rg2bf
    @QueenNancy-rg2bf 2 месяца назад +4

    Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller2980 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for teaching us about proper speech. Namo Buddhaya

  • @YasmminKalpesi
    @YasmminKalpesi 2 месяца назад +2

    Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @dinoblock8516
    @dinoblock8516 2 месяца назад +6

    When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය
    කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය
    දෙකට එක විල මය
    හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය."
    This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤

  • @pemasherab487
    @pemasherab487 2 месяца назад +2

    ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ་དགེ་སློང་མཆོག
    Namo་Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏

  • @jennydam9188
    @jennydam9188 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks to Monk 🙏🙏🙏❤️
    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @TheTranquilMind-v6n
    @TheTranquilMind-v6n 28 дней назад

    It's amazing, I can't stop watching videos like this

  • @MasterCVVNamaskaram
    @MasterCVVNamaskaram 7 дней назад

    Because we have no proper knowledge about speaking, behaviour etc.. we face many problems with people.
    And in the right time we got access to your videos .. its like better late than never...
    We can learn good things anytime in the lifetime. If we change atleast a bit before we die, we will have better life in the next birth... i believe..
    Will try to follow you sir.
    Thanks a ton for your valuable videos 🙏

  • @shinyaugustin7317
    @shinyaugustin7317 2 месяца назад +1

    Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤

  • @indexcards9414
    @indexcards9414 2 месяца назад +1

    This was perfectly timed for the events in my life. Thank you. 🌷

  • @fatimamercado9436
    @fatimamercado9436 2 месяца назад +2

    So inspiring Sir, while watching you I am smiled...❤❤❤ thank you do much🥰🥰🥰

  • @susanatangpos5959
    @susanatangpos5959 2 месяца назад +2

    I always watch your viðeo it helps me a lot. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @PinoyGalaan
    @PinoyGalaan Месяц назад +1

    sometimes its really hard but i learned too not to care a lot thats mades my life bit easier

  • @asiabrown30
    @asiabrown30 2 месяца назад +1

    So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.

  • @kylerdad123
    @kylerdad123 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Sifu! Namo amitofu☸️!

  • @SushmaBiradar-z3e
    @SushmaBiradar-z3e 2 месяца назад +1

    This is the most important video i want

  • @uttarasarkar9530
    @uttarasarkar9530 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for your valuable words. Namah Buddhaya🙏

  • @BuddhasPathway-qb
    @BuddhasPathway-qb 2 месяца назад

    Every teaching in Buddhism has practical value. Thank you for providing insightful and useful content.

  • @VishalFilms647
    @VishalFilms647 2 месяца назад +4

    Words decided character of person.. ❤️ Really Helpful Thank you

  • @samithakulatilaka
    @samithakulatilaka 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!

  • @Pgz60
    @Pgz60 2 месяца назад +2

    Hi guys l am from nepal l listen all videos

  • @BuddhismfortheYouth-z3i
    @BuddhismfortheYouth-z3i Месяц назад

    Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work

  • @whoinlok7664
    @whoinlok7664 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤Thanks Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏😍

  • @Sr.CelineDayana
    @Sr.CelineDayana Месяц назад

    Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔

  • @DeepVerma-gm2el
    @DeepVerma-gm2el Месяц назад

    Thanks fr ur advice... I will try to analyse my speech more.

  • @Godloveencirclemyheart_19
    @Godloveencirclemyheart_19 Месяц назад

    Amen. Thank You Lord

  • @RabbitingAgain
    @RabbitingAgain 2 месяца назад

    Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom

  • @shivanandpatil6247
    @shivanandpatil6247 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanku you🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Namo Budhhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @joebutta7539
    @joebutta7539 2 месяца назад

    💜 speech is frequency/vibration

  • @ShivamGupta-pd8im
    @ShivamGupta-pd8im 2 месяца назад

    Namo Buddhaya! 🙏 Thank you

  • @vijithairrangani5757
    @vijithairrangani5757 2 месяца назад

    Very very worthfully teaching .may tripple gem bless you .

  • @gayatrys3
    @gayatrys3 2 месяца назад +1

    Sir, This is good lesson for day. I will practice to follow this. How should we behave when some one is hurting me to core.

  • @sgeeth
    @sgeeth 2 месяца назад +1

    ස්තූතියි 😊

  • @anniecheurekjian9955
    @anniecheurekjian9955 2 месяца назад +1

    Exactly true 💯%😊😊

  • @mysweetpepper
    @mysweetpepper Месяц назад

    A little wisdom goes a long way

  • @swapnamaity8396
    @swapnamaity8396 2 месяца назад

    NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏

  • @tanchauvan8600
    @tanchauvan8600 2 месяца назад +16

    Must have a inner peace mind and a kind heart to practice these 5 things. Thank You so much.

  • @letspeaknaturally1328
    @letspeaknaturally1328 2 месяца назад +2

    Namo buddhaya😊

  • @phoenixdk
    @phoenixdk 2 месяца назад

    Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)

  • @Geetha-o1d
    @Geetha-o1d 2 месяца назад +2

    Tq Namo Buddhaya

  • @imtiazousmand2271
    @imtiazousmand2271 2 месяца назад

    I really appreciate your efforts in educating us. It has been of great help to change my heart and mind.

  • @mylenebautista6568
    @mylenebautista6568 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing and inspiring us, your motivational words, ❤❤❤

  • @Vuthysakchan
    @Vuthysakchan 2 месяца назад

    Namo Buddhaya! From Cambodia

  • @MohdShariqAnsari1
    @MohdShariqAnsari1 2 месяца назад

    Your videos are very helpful for Life improvement and English ❤

  • @OJOMShiva
    @OJOMShiva 2 месяца назад

    ❤Namo Buddhaya!!!❤

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 2 месяца назад

    Beautifully explained..thank u Sir..

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 месяца назад +1

    Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏

  • @anthonyangelis1094
    @anthonyangelis1094 2 месяца назад

    much gratitude for your teachings. Thank you.❤❤❤

  • @HarinathPitta
    @HarinathPitta 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you my dear friend monk ohm namo buddaya I am so proud of you for being so sweet and loving and I love you baby sanchitha basu

  • @svetlanamandic9785
    @svetlanamandic9785 2 месяца назад +2

    This kind of video makes me a better and calmer person :) 🤍

  • @shainavk4008
    @shainavk4008 2 месяца назад

    Very essential and helpful words... Great... Thank you sir ❤❤

  • @sarojagopalgopal2253
    @sarojagopalgopal2253 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing this good information for us sir 🙏 lNDIA Kerala

  • @HaibaAlexander
    @HaibaAlexander 2 месяца назад +1

    Thankyou Namobudhaya

  • @Rashmiinspired
    @Rashmiinspired 2 месяца назад

    Namo Buddhay❤❤❤Love From India❤

  • @tejas007-B
    @tejas007-B 2 месяца назад

    Thankyou bhanteji, i was really in need of this video Namo budhaya

  • @davecameron5355
    @davecameron5355 2 месяца назад

    What a helpful video! Thank you for your kindness and guidance.

  • @MichaelJoseph-j7l
    @MichaelJoseph-j7l 2 месяца назад

    Buddha Is Life 🙏🙏

  • @Karasnightvision
    @Karasnightvision 2 месяца назад

    This really helps, appreciate you. Thank you ✌️♥️🕯️

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 2 месяца назад

      Please save japan from peaceful zombies.

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 2 месяца назад

    More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.

  • @ahasanaruny
    @ahasanaruny 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much!!❤️❤️

  • @okarbomtatu2712
    @okarbomtatu2712 2 месяца назад

    Namo Buddhaya 🕊️

  • @asuznjoozhamattom
    @asuznjoozhamattom 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for the wisdom 🙏

  • @rosesam258
    @rosesam258 2 месяца назад

    Always awesome message

  • @sangeethas7315
    @sangeethas7315 2 месяца назад

    ಬುದ್ಧಂ ಶರಣಂ ಗಚ್ಛಾಮಿ ❤️

  • @Users370
    @Users370 2 месяца назад

    This video is so precious ! 5 wised rules to follow ! Thank you .🙏🪷

  • @ReetaraniPanda-cn6sf
    @ReetaraniPanda-cn6sf 2 месяца назад

    Om Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @MohammadhyderMohammadhyder
    @MohammadhyderMohammadhyder 2 месяца назад +3

    Please sir make an video upon fake friendship

  • @orrphase77
    @orrphase77 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks dear💗

  • @maheshwaribalamurugan4004
    @maheshwaribalamurugan4004 2 месяца назад

    Namo Bhuddhaya 🙏

  • @ceylonrailwayunion9221
    @ceylonrailwayunion9221 2 месяца назад

    Namo buddhaya venerable thero🙏🙏🙏

  • @TanmayaAjeshmekoth
    @TanmayaAjeshmekoth 2 месяца назад

    Thank you really much for your advice

  • @myintsu6212
    @myintsu6212 2 месяца назад

    Thank you.Noted and follow up

  • @0710tejas
    @0710tejas 2 месяца назад +219

    If my comment gets 10 likes before 27th August I will give audition for the host for school's annual function. I am so confused about it, i just want a sign.
    Edit : I am overwhelmed to see all the likes and replies from everyone. Now, I don’t care if I will get selected or not, I will give my best. Thank you everyone.

    • @dinoblock8516
      @dinoblock8516 2 месяца назад +8

      Trust your self.you can do it lil brother

    • @FACTSSAHANI
      @FACTSSAHANI 2 месяца назад +10

      Give the auditions in peace fullness don't think about people what they say about you. You just focus on ur audition 😁❤

    • @bandulaliyanagama3299
      @bandulaliyanagama3299 2 месяца назад +5

    • @boookroach
      @boookroach 2 месяца назад +4

      You got this!❤

    • @boookroach
      @boookroach 2 месяца назад +3

      You got this!❤

  • @janetgupta6179
    @janetgupta6179 2 месяца назад

    I have started following all your teaching........what is your name guru ji??