Being a white, lack of self confidence is definitely my greatest limitation. As well as when people are demanding, I do become very stubborn... sorry everyone lol
Mike Tony I have a white 10 year old son. I am a blue with a red secondary. I know this stuff about whites and try hard to take it into consideration when dealing with my son. I try not to be too demanding, but he is just so lazy if I am not demanding. He would settle for C’s in school, he is a smart kid that reads way above his grade level capable of straight A’s. I compromise and settle for A’s and B’s on his report card. If he plays a sport, he’ll be down on himself if he is not one of the better players, but he doesn’t want to keep his head in the game and work hard to do his best. In sports, I could be laid back and say to myself “it’s just not that important to him”, but he is down on himself when he doesn’t do well, so I push him. I’m really struggling to strike the correct balance with him.
@@scottwidiculous As said in the video whites don't like to be pushed. As a white he is probably seeking independence and is able to handle failure, even if it doesn't seem like it. I would recommend to let him make his own experiences and learn from them. Hope you find a good compromise!
Omg.. wow.. so glad I found you. omg..everything youve said about me, even since I was young is all about me!! This amazing self development journey I am on, and I am discovering more and more about myself...My Aura is Almond Pure White.... Now I know my personality type, my personality color!!.. this is seriously incredible!!...I am also an INFJ, my Chinese horoscope is the dragon.. I am also a Gemini...
If there's such a thing as a flaming White, I'm it. Being in management over the years I've taken so many of those personality tests. None of them hit the nail on the head like this. I'll be saving this for my team to know me better and suggesting each get to know and appreciate all the colors. Thank you so much.
Jane, I'm so happy you are finally "understood" my friend. I agree that all the other behavior based personality tests miss the WHITES completely. You are such a legitimate personality type. I'm sure you have been a tremendous manager for years because of how well you embrace diversity. Thanks for your comment and continued success.
Often misunderstood too, different style of thinking- intuitive- also great with math and or poetry. Living in a meditative state is spot on. Patient yes, zen unconditional love.
A psychic told me i have pure white aura..i was surprised because i think I am chaotic and white aura would be the least aura I would consider I have.. 💗 Listening to this confirmed that I may really have that aura 🌠 Your description is on point and it made me cry 💗
I’m a Blue married to a white. It’s so great because he is so kind and since I’m sensitive and take everything to heart My white husband is kind and never gives a negative opinion to me! Been a blissful marriage for over 23 years
And im everthing u described foe white .. I was thinking im indigo .. But never felt it completely .. May be also because i had a visual experience of white starry aura around me ..
I think my manager is white. As the blue that I am, I feel a little bad not having understood them sooner, but I am starting to and appreciate them a lot.
I truly believe we have crossed path a few moments as go in a different realm.. nice to meet you Dr. Hartman. I have white aura also. Thanks. A vampire also tagged along and tried getting credit. Hes an aries. I'm a leo. Leo rules. Get out of my frequency 🐺. I met the doc first. Isn't that right doc. I was here first. But I can share. Are you happy now. Yes. Peace out.
The White motives and fears sound exactly like the Enneagram type Nine's motives and fears, but I'm a Nine and the Yellow outward behaviours sounds much more like my outward behaviour than the White's. I can't stop talking or sit still, I interrupt a lot, avoid commitments, am optimistic, see the best in people, crack a lot of jokes, have ADHD... every single Yellow trait is spot-on. But with motives and fears I'm totally Nine/White: my fear of conflict feels much more influential in my daily life than my fear of not having fun. :/
I don't know the Enneagram well but People Code is based on driving core motive and no other instruments do that. So it is the driving core motive that tells you more about yourself as who you truly are than behaviors. Only you know if you are driven by peace (white) or fun(yellow) but your characteristics sounds VERY yellow.
You've really made me reconsider my predominant motive. I have read extensively on the Enneagram and was certain I was a Nine (the type driven by fear of losing positive relationships through conflict), rather than Seven (the type driven by fear of boredom), but the Yellow sounds just like Seven and White sounds just like Nine in both behaviour AND core motives now I take another look at both. Could it be that I only related more to the fear of conflict than fear of boredom because my drive for entertainment is so constant (and easy to fulfill 99% of the time by ensuring I'm constantly plugged in to my smartphone to stay entertained even just walking from one room or building to another :P) that I don't notice it there, like the hum of a refrigerator in the background? My fear of conflict is powerful enough to be annoying, but I'm diagnosed on the autism spectrum and I wonder if that fear is not coming from the same place as a true White/Nine. My fear of conflict is the result of finding it very hard to predict the consequences and knowing what to do when even minor anger gets expressed; if somebody is annoyed with me it feels like the friendship might somehow end up completely over unless I respond the right way, and I don't know what the right way is. I have trouble with the concept that somebody can be openly irritated with me *without* thinking I'm a bad person, hating me, wanting to sack me, disown me or never see me again. I suspect that if were able to accurately assess the actual danger posed to a friendship or working relationship by any particular conflict, and I had confidence in my ability to react appropriately and not make things worse, I wouldn't fear conflict at all. Would a true White be able to say that? Sorry this turned into an essay. :P
White aura people - explains so much about me & my life when I learn more of what I am & who I am as learning I have a definition or term.. as a caregiver I wanna learn what my abilities are & how to master them to better help others vs I didn't know I could do that or huh so I know I have done this or that but didn't know it was a thing I could master to help others by knowing more on .. I'm learning more of who I am just not yet what a detailed list of my abilities are to utilize at their fullest potential.
I am not timid I just know my own story so well I wanna hear the stories of others, much more fun listening to other stories and no I don't seek validation of others, I can do that myself
I’m a white and this really describes me to a T! Def self doubting, not liking conflict, hold stuff in until you explode get embarrassed and then do it all over again. Little to say i could go on and on !
especially the one thing that makes me white never really engage in conversation with friends but everyone seems happy having me around they dont have any problem.
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Now I understand why my white husband would not stand up to my red sister. And, whenever he speaks on public, which is rare, he Always makes people laugh.
If you are locked in yourself like I was (iit was like I was locked in a cage), there is only one way out. Now im not trying to push what I believe on you, so I hope you dont feel like that, but Christ literally set me free. I think I grew up as a white, and I was very unhealthy personality. But since I found Christ, I have discovered so much more about myself - I have developed strong Red & Blue traits, and I love that about myself!
@@josephzanes7334 thanks dear , this is very considerate, I feel like you understood me enough to know what I was going thru and im not sure what you've been through but I understand where your coming from , Im happy for you, ive been learning to embody strong purple traits, i feel that if i become more intune with spirit and meditation (trusting the process) I will be able to transmute my negative energies into positive transformations, im not sure if your fond of astrology and metaphysical Alchemy but Being a scorpio rising pisces sun virgo moon puts alot of emphasis on my lifees worth and character onto myself and absorbing negative traits from others and my experiences haunt me but your right about Yeshua (jesus) (Christos), though we all have our own individual ways to reach this ascension process for ourselves... Namaste to you always , blessed be
Hi few years ago i saw white dots like shining glittering aura kinda thing .. But it wasnt like a like but .. It was very clearly avatar movie like , white very small and was covering kind of whole body .. I saw it with my naked eyes and was there long enuf for me to sort of get shocked and then try and see them clearly but it went away slowly .. But i know what i saw .. I was not under snd influence infact i was in kitchen cooking .. Can u plz help me understand what i experienced ..
I am white but I was just wondering if alcohol or any substance abuse can affect it for instance if I drink I become mean or have the tendency to be someone I'm not which is normal for a person if they drink but can alcohol affect your aura? I'm usually a nice person but if I drink alcohol I get in fights and say things I don't mean which the next day I would be in a deep depression full of worry and anxiety and I always apologize for the behavior
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#askdrhartman Everything you said describes me so perfectly! I had this question and my blue friend suggested I ask you so here I go. This isn't easy for me! :) but my question is this: "What are some good career/job choices for whites?"
Whites are excellent at independent work like research and background study. They don't require much supervision and like to move at their own pace. They are able to excel as lawyers, police work, management and when they find their passion, they excel like Michael Jackson in music.
#askdrhartman My whole family is white (parents and sisters). I'm a blue and it's so hard to fight with whites! If I wanna discuss something they take it as a conflict and are always huffy and offended.. even if I do jokes in an ironic way.. What shall I do?? Help pls :)
oh man you are in for a LONG life. Whites are the most difficult to fight with because they won't. You will have to take a chill pill because they don't operate in the emotional world. Just be kind and accept they move at their own pace
Seyma Nur Afacan This is me too. Trying to work through problems with whites is INCREDIBLY frustrating. They just run from everything and won't deal with problems staring them in the face because it's too confrontational. Drives me crazy.
#askdrhartman I am 42% White 37% Blue 17% yellow how does that skew the white and blue combination? I am also dating a 42% Yellow 29% White and 29% Blue, what do you think? LOL Thank you for your input!
#askdrhartman how do I get my white husband motivated? I'm a red and its one of the hardest things. I view him as lazy and unproductive most of the time drive me absolutely insane
I've looked at so many personality theories and I've never found one that describes me so well :)
Thank you. :) We are putting up more clips shortly and on my facebook as well. Enjoy
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@Ibo Zambotnik you reminded me of this video after 5 years. Thanks!
Being a white, lack of self confidence is definitely my greatest limitation. As well as when people are demanding, I do become very stubborn... sorry everyone lol
Well said Mike. You deserve to value yourself better. You are too hard on yourself.
Mike Tony I have a white 10 year old son. I am a blue with a red secondary. I know this stuff about whites and try hard to take it into consideration when dealing with my son. I try not to be too demanding, but he is just so lazy if I am not demanding. He would settle for C’s in school, he is a smart kid that reads way above his grade level capable of straight A’s. I compromise and settle for A’s and B’s on his report card. If he plays a sport, he’ll be down on himself if he is not one of the better players, but he doesn’t want to keep his head in the game and work hard to do his best. In sports, I could be laid back and say to myself “it’s just not that important to him”, but he is down on himself when he doesn’t do well, so I push him. I’m really struggling to strike the correct balance with him.
@@scottwidiculous As said in the video whites don't like to be pushed. As a white he is probably seeking independence and is able to handle failure, even if it doesn't seem like it. I would recommend to let him make his own experiences and learn from them.
Hope you find a good compromise!
I saw in picture I have white aura and blue so is that a different mix
You’re describing me so well it’s bringing me to tears. 🕊🌬🌨🦢🐇🌫
Same. dropped a tear to the amazing description never felt someone understand me
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But I know I have this intense power for freedom and peace in my spirit and energies when I'm around positive people
Yes! So true
Omg.. wow.. so glad I found you. omg..everything youve said about me, even since I was young is all about me!! This amazing self development journey I am on, and I am discovering more and more about myself...My Aura is Almond Pure White.... Now I know my personality type, my personality color!!.. this is seriously incredible!!...I am also an INFJ, my Chinese horoscope is the dragon.. I am also a Gemini...
If there's such a thing as a flaming White, I'm it. Being in management over the years I've taken so many of those personality tests. None of them hit the nail on the head like this. I'll be saving this for my team to know me better and suggesting each get to know and appreciate all the colors. Thank you so much.
Jane, I'm so happy you are finally "understood" my friend. I agree that all the other behavior based personality tests miss the WHITES completely. You are such a legitimate personality type. I'm sure you have been a tremendous manager for years because of how well you embrace diversity. Thanks for your comment and continued success.
Yes flaming streaking white beautiful auras 🥰
White flaming Auras are very connected to water love this comment
Literally everything you said describes me perfectly. Thanks Taylor!
Often misunderstood too, different style of thinking- intuitive- also great with math and or poetry. Living in a meditative state is spot on.
Patient yes, zen unconditional love.
A psychic told me i have pure white aura..i was surprised because i think I am chaotic and white aura would be the least aura I would consider I have.. 💗 Listening to this confirmed that I may really have that aura 🌠 Your description is on point and it made me cry 💗
It's amazing that not that many people watched this. Thank you, for telling me who I am
Nobody knows me as much as you do.
1000% correct. Everything that you have stated is exactly my personality trait. I don't think there is anything I can add to that. Great presentation.
I’m a Blue married to a white. It’s so great because he is so kind and since I’m sensitive and take everything to heart My white husband is kind and never gives a negative opinion to me! Been a blissful marriage for over 23 years
U made me proud of my white aura , you have said everything 🙏 thank youuuuuu ❤️
And im everthing u described foe white .. I was thinking im indigo .. But never felt it completely .. May be also because i had a visual experience of white starry aura around me ..
My aura was said to be white so I searched on RUclips and crazy to see we share the same last name😆 this is the most accurate thing I have ever heard!
I think my manager is white. As the blue that I am, I feel a little bad not having understood them sooner, but I am starting to and appreciate them a lot.
Definitely hate mean people and I run away
I am the same
I felt that in my soul every single word! I'm a true white! Thank you❤❤
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I truly believe we have crossed path a few moments as go in a different realm.. nice to meet you Dr. Hartman. I have white aura also. Thanks. A vampire also tagged along and tried getting credit. Hes an aries. I'm a leo. Leo rules. Get out of my frequency 🐺. I met the doc first. Isn't that right doc. I was here first. But I can share. Are you happy now. Yes. Peace out.
Someone told me I have a white aura. Makes sense! I even have a peace sign tattoo. Also starting a non profit.
Keep blessing everyone's life with your peacemaking ways my friend
The White motives and fears sound exactly like the Enneagram type Nine's motives and fears, but I'm a Nine and the Yellow outward behaviours sounds much more like my outward behaviour than the White's. I can't stop talking or sit still, I interrupt a lot, avoid commitments, am optimistic, see the best in people, crack a lot of jokes, have ADHD... every single Yellow trait is spot-on. But with motives and fears I'm totally Nine/White: my fear of conflict feels much more influential in my daily life than my fear of not having fun. :/
I don't know the Enneagram well but People Code is based on driving core motive and no other instruments do that. So it is the driving core motive that tells you more about yourself as who you truly are than behaviors. Only you know if you are driven by peace (white) or fun(yellow) but your characteristics sounds VERY yellow.
You've really made me reconsider my predominant motive. I have read extensively on the Enneagram and was certain I was a Nine (the type driven by fear of losing positive relationships through conflict), rather than Seven (the type driven by fear of boredom), but the Yellow sounds just like Seven and White sounds just like Nine in both behaviour AND core motives now I take another look at both. Could it be that I only related more to the fear of conflict than fear of boredom because my drive for entertainment is so constant (and easy to fulfill 99% of the time by ensuring I'm constantly plugged in to my smartphone to stay entertained even just walking from one room or building to another :P) that I don't notice it there, like the hum of a refrigerator in the background? My fear of conflict is powerful enough to be annoying, but I'm diagnosed on the autism spectrum and I wonder if that fear is not coming from the same place as a true White/Nine. My fear of conflict is the result of finding it very hard to predict the consequences and knowing what to do when even minor anger gets expressed; if somebody is annoyed with me it feels like the friendship might somehow end up completely over unless I respond the right way, and I don't know what the right way is. I have trouble with the concept that somebody can be openly irritated with me *without* thinking I'm a bad person, hating me, wanting to sack me, disown me or never see me again. I suspect that if were able to accurately assess the actual danger posed to a friendship or working relationship by any particular conflict, and I had confidence in my ability to react appropriately and not make things worse, I wouldn't fear conflict at all. Would a true White be able to say that? Sorry this turned into an essay. :P
Yup this checks out. Can confirm as a white aura personality
I laughed soooooo hard. You are wonderful at what you do. THANK YOU!!!!
Are white's all empaths? One reason that I hate walking into rooms full of people is that I can feel too much energy, it's exhausting.
White aura people - explains so much about me & my life when I learn more of what I am & who I am as learning I have a definition or term.. as a caregiver I wanna learn what my abilities are & how to master them to better help others vs I didn't know I could do that or huh so I know I have done this or that but didn't know it was a thing I could master to help others by knowing more on .. I'm learning more of who I am just not yet what a detailed list of my abilities are to utilize at their fullest potential.
I am mixed with White and Blue personalities. I just got to figure what type of careers would be good for me with these personalities.
Number 444 to like, it was ment to be. Much love and thank you for sharing your wisdom.
This is so funny and so accurate! I am a white and my husband and I could not stop laughing at how accurately this describes me.
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Very true all the points😊
I am not timid I just know my own story so well I wanna hear the stories of others, much more fun listening to other stories and no I don't seek validation of others, I can do that myself
So very true.. I love being alone 🤗
Wow you are spot on.
we are blessed....thank you
I’m a white and this really describes me to a T! Def self doubting, not liking conflict, hold stuff in until you explode get embarrassed and then do it all over again. Little to say i could go on and on !
My aura is white, this dude kinda just read me like book 😂
Hello fellow whites, I also felt that his description is me 100%
especially the one thing that makes me white never really engage in conversation with friends but everyone seems happy having me around they dont have any problem.
This is amazing!! Right on the nose
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OMG This is me!
I’ve never been described so well
Every point he made was like Nostradamus telling me about my thoughts
Wow this describes me perfectly. I am a white aura.
Speaks to me more than most ever have
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Now I understand why my white husband would not stand up to my red sister. And, whenever he speaks on public, which is rare, he Always makes people laugh.
I always think I like to move to Switzerland :)
But I really want peace with anyone I meet and I'm so unsure about everything
If you are locked in yourself like I was (iit was like I was locked in a cage), there is only one way out. Now im not trying to push what I believe on you, so I hope you dont feel like that, but Christ literally set me free. I think I grew up as a white, and I was very unhealthy personality. But since I found Christ, I have discovered so much more about myself - I have developed strong Red & Blue traits, and I love that about myself!
Anyways I hope that helps a little, even if you arent interested in Christinaity
@@josephzanes7334 thanks dear , this is very considerate, I feel like you understood me enough to know what I was going thru and im not sure what you've been through but I understand where your coming from , Im happy for you, ive been learning to embody strong purple traits, i feel that if i become more intune with spirit and meditation (trusting the process) I will be able to transmute my negative energies into positive transformations, im not sure if your fond of astrology and metaphysical Alchemy but Being a scorpio rising pisces sun virgo moon puts alot of emphasis on my lifees worth and character onto myself and absorbing negative traits from others and my experiences haunt me but your right about Yeshua (jesus) (Christos), though we all have our own individual ways to reach this ascension process for ourselves... Namaste to you always , blessed be
Hi few years ago i saw white dots like shining glittering aura kinda thing .. But it wasnt like a like but .. It was very clearly avatar movie like , white very small and was covering kind of whole body .. I saw it with my naked eyes and was there long enuf for me to sort of get shocked and then try and see them clearly but it went away slowly .. But i know what i saw .. I was not under snd influence infact i was in kitchen cooking .. Can u plz help me understand what i experienced ..
How would a red male and white woman get along in terms of marriage? Pros and cons
Jijiji you described me so much...but nobody knows 😁
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This is basically 9 on the Enneagram
Sounds like it.INFP 9w1 and a crystal
Someone mentioned in the comment section that whites don't operate in the emotional world.So he is wrong or i
I laughed out loud at all the self recognition here. 😂
Soooo helpful thanks
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I am white but I was just wondering if alcohol or any substance abuse can affect it for instance if I drink I become mean or have the tendency to be someone I'm not which is normal for a person if they drink but can alcohol affect your aura? I'm usually a nice person but if I drink alcohol I get in fights and say things I don't mean which the next day I would be in a deep depression full of worry and anxiety and I always apologize for the behavior
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This explains sooo soo much
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Everything you said describes me so perfectly! I had this question and my blue friend suggested I ask you so here I go. This isn't easy for me! :) but my question is this: "What are some good career/job choices for whites?"
Whites are excellent at independent work like research and background study. They don't require much supervision and like to move at their own pace. They are able to excel as lawyers, police work, management and when they find their passion, they excel like Michael Jackson in music.
I love working alone, I'll take any advantage to do anything that requires working with me, myself and i.
@@taylorhartman6496 yay! So happy to see this comment. Aspiring police officer😍Thankyou Dr. Hartman
@@aziyanasar894 So great. you will be excellent in that new career my friend
Very correct !!🌝 thank you
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Wow!!! Very accurate
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I am the white aura!
does he mean aura color?
#askdrhartman
My whole family is white (parents and sisters). I'm a blue and it's so hard to fight with whites! If I wanna discuss something they take it as a conflict and are always huffy and offended.. even if I do jokes in an ironic way.. What shall I do?? Help pls :)
oh man you are in for a LONG life. Whites are the most difficult to fight with because they won't. You will have to take a chill pill because they don't operate in the emotional world. Just be kind and accept they move at their own pace
Seyma Nur Afacan This is me too. Trying to work through problems with whites is INCREDIBLY frustrating. They just run from everything and won't deal with problems staring them in the face because it's too confrontational. Drives me crazy.
Did you do black?
Woooooow sooooo meeeeee🤭🤭🤭😍😍😍😍
I guess Im a alpha white Capricorn introvert. Okay cool what’s next
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I am 42% White 37% Blue 17% yellow how does that skew the white and blue combination? I am also dating a 42% Yellow 29% White and 29% Blue, what do you think? LOL Thank you for your input!
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That my true self. White
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Enjoy! We love people like you.
Football fields
“Hits the person and has a blast
But would never do it off the field”
Well, excluding self defense for me
Oops
Wrong video
But
White
I like you
Rude is not something I think
But a red secondary changes things
I don’t like bullies
And I will say something in my own way
Bullies spread misery
Who likes a bully?
Not even a bully likes being bullied
Not liking a thing and hating a person
Are not the same thing btw
He got me
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i think im white it describes me pretty well
Wow. Describing me to a T.
I thought you were being condescending and racist until I clicked on the video 😂
😂😂 Yes, this is me.
literally me wtf
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#askdrhartman how do I get my white husband motivated? I'm a red and its one of the hardest things. I view him as lazy and unproductive most of the time drive me absolutely insane
My youngest Daughter is a White
enjoy her. Healthy Whites are such a gift. They are so easy to enjoy time with. Don't expect too much "chitchat" :)
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