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  • Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love (Inspirational Video)
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    Speakers: Josiah Ruff, Tyrone Stokes, INTRO by Oprah Winfrey on Super Soul Sunday (with Linda Francis)
    I actually said this to Tom Cruise a long time ago.
    That movie, Jerry Maguire, “you complete me”
    really messed a lot of people up.
    There wasn't a dry eye in the movie theater and all the women went, “Oh, she completes him” when in fact, no one completes you.
    …That instead of looking for the right person, work to make yourself the right person for you and the right person will then be drawn to you based upon the work that you've done for yourself.
    That's what I hear you saying.
    Everybody who's looking for somebody, and believe me, there are lots of people who are like looking for Mr. Right or Miss Right, or whatever that is… to complete them.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @FearlessSoulOfficial
    @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 года назад +3473

    "No one will love you until you love yourself. No one can complete you until you… yourself are complete."

    • @FearlessSoulOfficial
      @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 года назад +18

      Download or stream the speech: iamfearlesssoul.com/stop-doing-these-5-things-if-you-want-to-find-love-inspirational-video/

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 4 года назад +24

      Not true

    • @andreciagl
      @andreciagl 4 года назад +22

      David Parkinson it's true. Love yourself

    • @FearlessSoulOfficial
      @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 года назад +15

      @@keiron.4612 Explain.

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 4 года назад +8

      @@andreciagl will that change everything it won't you don't know my life love yourself it won't take away my pain

  • @manithchann5902
    @manithchann5902 4 года назад +4868

    1 : You have to stop looking for others to love you
    2 : stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect
    3 : stop expecting someone to be something you are not giving back
    4 : Stop hiding
    5 : stop holding on to comfortable habits that are holding you back

  • @damiangonzales2485
    @damiangonzales2485 4 года назад +4036

    I hope anyone who reads this finds their soul mate

    • @dymonddara
      @dymonddara 4 года назад +28

      I hope too

    • @rachelzane6371
      @rachelzane6371 4 года назад +20

      Amen!

    • @earlmcraw5606
      @earlmcraw5606 4 года назад +30

      We all deserve that

    • @wydeano3822
      @wydeano3822 4 года назад +21

      Amen!! I received and believed!!! Amen!!!🙌🏾💕

    • @kimyoung3484
      @kimyoung3484 4 года назад +17

      Thank you so much for your kindness words ❤️ appreciate it 😍👍❤️

  • @luciii7115
    @luciii7115 3 года назад +778

    To those who are in a complicated relationships or to those who are single ..be patient the right person is on the way ♥️

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 3 года назад +19

      Patient?! I'm almost 37 (at the end of this month)..how much more "patience" do I need? Lol. 😞

    • @sc.art_block5484
      @sc.art_block5484 3 года назад +8

      If you just sit around things arent going to be handed to you. You have to search and search for this right person.

    • @IndividualistMusic
      @IndividualistMusic 3 года назад +6

      @Riverz Wyte Everyone beware this number.

    • @ericknegi7359
      @ericknegi7359 3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @heaven9447
      @heaven9447 3 года назад +1

      Omg this comment made me cry....❤️ Amen...

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 3 года назад +494

    Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕

    • @mzmiss1826
      @mzmiss1826 3 года назад

      Amen. LORD I ACCEPT.. THANK YOU

    • @beautyogbeide3051
      @beautyogbeide3051 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @gloriaaseye3261
      @gloriaaseye3261 2 года назад

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @Skittle83
      @Skittle83 2 года назад

      Amen god bless you too

    • @levi_2134
      @levi_2134 2 года назад

      wtf Amen is!
      Besides god exists only inside your brain and nowhere else .
      Only weak ppl needs god although Infinite God is allowed for everyone and that's not fawking Jesus, Allah...etc.

  • @teallevi823
    @teallevi823 4 года назад +1135

    Social media makes us really sick.

    • @irishly2000
      @irishly2000 4 года назад +15

      That's true..

    • @williamhawkeep6072
      @williamhawkeep6072 4 года назад +10

      But this will make your life change

    • @deandredavis5264
      @deandredavis5264 4 года назад +15

      William Hawkeep He’s talking about messaging apps, not youtube

    • @user-sv1kd7hz9e
      @user-sv1kd7hz9e 4 года назад +7

      That's y I dont have it. If you do you are an idiot and an addict, probably both

    • @norelenhuesca4566
      @norelenhuesca4566 4 года назад +8

      Yeah.... I agree it's not good.I found myself crazy with someone that I can't be with him.

  • @churchelllovecanoy1807
    @churchelllovecanoy1807 4 года назад +598

    Prioritize Yourself💯
    Dont rush
    Be happy
    Life is short

    • @brodyberry6253
      @brodyberry6253 4 года назад +1

      LoveMC : 😧😍😍😍 Snapchat blitzkriegben31 😘

    • @user-ru2yl3un7g
      @user-ru2yl3un7g 4 года назад +3

      Stranger danger haha

    • @tonyalexander9505
      @tonyalexander9505 4 года назад +1

      Nice!!

    • @augustfourteen1680
      @augustfourteen1680 4 года назад +1

      Tama..

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 4 года назад +7

      Life is not short( some yes when die young) but for most of us its a long book. try to make nice pages and also hurt will be written in your own book, but own your book . make it in your own best read . be honest be honestly .

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 3 года назад +940

    Whoever reading this, God is going to hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit back together. Just trust in him. Amen

  • @abbywhite6942
    @abbywhite6942 3 года назад +105

    Currently still healing from a breakup. Still learning to love myself first. But I will one day find the love I deserve

  • @sabrina3138
    @sabrina3138 4 года назад +634

    If you become the person you want in your life, the right people will show up. You'll be thankful you didn't give up, believe that.

  • @marly5661
    @marly5661 4 года назад +729

    This quarantine really has me crying at 1am watching motivation speeches

    • @williamstaylor8988
      @williamstaylor8988 3 года назад +3

      Hi

    • @loynasi6565
      @loynasi6565 3 года назад +4

      Same here

    • @simplequalityliving.morefo8392
      @simplequalityliving.morefo8392 3 года назад +4

      Me too

    • @lovealways2609
      @lovealways2609 3 года назад +2

      Ha ha.
      Looks like a lot of folks.
      Nice to feel connected with others in some way.
      There are worse things than RUclips motivation videos.
      Shalom.

    • @lovealways2609
      @lovealways2609 3 года назад +4

      * nothing wrong with crying every now and then.
      Just remember to get happy again.
      Shalom.

  • @beatricechandasampa5759
    @beatricechandasampa5759 2 года назад +33

    1. Love yourself first
    2. Stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect
    3. Stop expecting someone to be something you're not giving back
    4. Stop hiding, put yourself out there.
    5. Stop holding on to comfortable habits that are holding you back.
    Me: I need to stop hiding 🤭🤭🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️
    I'm an introvert guys, and it's really hard for me to get out there and make myself seen. I mean I'm always indoors and I don't usually talk to people, just family and close friends whom feel free with. What a life!!🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ The struggle is real 😂😂

    • @Southpaw1001
      @Southpaw1001 Год назад

      Yup. Stopped eating yrs ago...always got burned. Messes your head up. Got comfortable not having to put myself out there again...for yrs. Need to go back out there again.

    • @srivatsavmattaparthi4915
      @srivatsavmattaparthi4915 Год назад

      youre not alone. im always afraid of makig jokes coz coz ive been bullied a lot for my bad jokes and introvertness. it just makes me insecure as aswell

    • @haidhabushiri9558
      @haidhabushiri9558 Год назад

      Don worry we will be together

    • @vonnytighe517
      @vonnytighe517 Год назад

      Good luck to you x

  • @kevinnelson7070
    @kevinnelson7070 3 года назад +87

    After hearing this I finally found what I was looking for, He was in the mirror starring back at me all these years💯

    • @JessicaMartinez-od3xb
      @JessicaMartinez-od3xb 3 года назад +6

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣LMAO..... they're so much irony in this how funny but yet so very true very very true literally

    • @kevinnelson7070
      @kevinnelson7070 3 года назад +5

      😂 its funny how truth is so close to you you can't see it until someone shows it to you, I like to think thats the reason God made so many people and gave no one person every gift on purpose so that we would need communicate with each other 💯

    • @Kpopfan_12346
      @Kpopfan_12346 3 года назад +1

      @@kevinnelson7070 I couldnt agree more :)

    • @kevinnelson7070
      @kevinnelson7070 3 года назад +1

      @@Kpopfan_12346 👍🏿💯

    • @shaenovak6815
      @shaenovak6815 3 года назад +1

      Happy pride kev

  • @InfiniteTriztan1111
    @InfiniteTriztan1111 4 года назад +411

    We attract who we are, i remember when i was a mess i attracted messed up people too,funny when i got better i then attracted better persons as well. Now i keep continuing to work on myself to become my greatest version. 🙏🏽

    • @Vartikas.illustrations
      @Vartikas.illustrations 4 года назад +2

      Triztan 369 ❤️

    • @chrish7583
      @chrish7583 4 года назад +5

      I don't attract anyone: So, what does that make me?

    • @winniegunawan7440
      @winniegunawan7440 4 года назад

      How you did to yourself? What did you do to feel better and attract better persons?

    • @ohyesitsyouagain
      @ohyesitsyouagain 4 года назад +5

      I was the nicest kid you’d wanna meet, and I attracted nothing but bullies. So that’s not true.

    • @claura5391
      @claura5391 4 года назад

      @@chrish7583 It's not your time yet

  • @Eli-vd2zo
    @Eli-vd2zo 3 года назад +48

    For the first time in my life I can say , thank you RUclips .
    Exactly what I needed to hear 🙏🏻 I love you all

  • @jamesmadison8726
    @jamesmadison8726 3 года назад +12

    "the right person is you." i felt that underneath my bones

  • @ilhanxarago9449
    @ilhanxarago9449 4 года назад +511

    REAL love can only come to those
    Who are REAL to themselves🧡
    Strong words

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 года назад +7

      My huge ego and "love" for myself has gotten me nowhere. Seriously Im super glad Im who I am but that doesn mean someone will just fall on my lap

    • @joantorresvlog8758
      @joantorresvlog8758 3 года назад +2

      I agree.

    • @jaydenokc9075
      @jaydenokc9075 3 года назад

      Well I’m fucked then aren’t I

    • @merletrisch3703
      @merletrisch3703 2 года назад +1

      Your words are your reality

    • @zoeentmeditation4943
      @zoeentmeditation4943 2 года назад

      I love myself

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 года назад +359

    *The trick is to share your completeness with others, not to make them a part of your whole.*
    If you don't appreciate yourself, others will take your lead on that.

    • @nigerianclassic8209
      @nigerianclassic8209 4 года назад +3

      True!

    • @PriyankaSharma-ny4ee
      @PriyankaSharma-ny4ee 4 года назад +2

      True

    • @dannyarnold4201
      @dannyarnold4201 4 года назад +12

      The thing I've learned, and in turn am teaching others is: "The key is me". Meaning if I do work on improving myself and learning to feel good from my own self development and cultivating self love, I will eventually begin to feel happy in life. That's when females will come along. They will appear.
      Self Love is Everything!

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 4 года назад +3

      @@dannyarnold4201 It really is. Not just to that, but the whole understanding of life.

    • @bubbuhsmom108
      @bubbuhsmom108 4 года назад

      So true!

  • @shekharsingh1357
    @shekharsingh1357 3 года назад +69

    I was expecting love from her but after this video I realized, I don't love myself. 😥

  • @renejaminal8104
    @renejaminal8104 2 года назад +36

    YES the right person is on the way
    THANK YOU LORD ALMIGHTY GOD FOR ALWAYS PROTECTING ME, THANK YOU AMEN

    • @engineercosmos659
      @engineercosmos659 2 года назад

      Don't be carried away by all this videos stop wasting your time here , I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱who helped me bring back my ex who left me a 3 year ago and now we are back together through his help

    • @engineercosmos659
      @engineercosmos659 2 года назад

      ➕13526396901⏭️⏭⏯⏯⏯

  • @abdelazizriah3245
    @abdelazizriah3245 4 года назад +755

    Once a sun asked his father how do i find the best wife, he said by being the best husband

    • @lerolerolerolerolero256
      @lerolerolerolerolero256 4 года назад +36

      I think u meant "son"

    • @trendystyles421
      @trendystyles421 4 года назад +7

      OMG this statement has just changed my whole perception of searching for Love

    • @eastman40
      @eastman40 4 года назад +9

      Sun cant find a wife...... Its son and not sun...... You just gotta be good within yourself...

    • @trendystyles421
      @trendystyles421 4 года назад +2

      @@eastman40 😂😂😂😂😂🔫🔫🔫you are a Savage

    • @eastman40
      @eastman40 4 года назад +1

      Trendy Styles lol

  • @pradeepchethan3167
    @pradeepchethan3167 4 года назад +155

    Love yourself,
    Do not wear mask
    Be a mirror
    Do not hide
    Don't be in a comfort zone
    Step out

    • @spiritguider1458
      @spiritguider1458 4 года назад +1

      Do you need help

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 3 года назад

      Slefedok not g0 no neead

    • @naoualtalla4080
      @naoualtalla4080 3 года назад

      Not jealous

    • @ifa8025
      @ifa8025 3 года назад

      I know a great man who can help you out ,he once helped me to get my ex back and also helped me solve my problem he's really powerful you can contact him on WhatsApp +234 913 605 4313.

    • @ifa8025
      @ifa8025 3 года назад

      @Kuba P You can text that number on WhatsApp he will help you out ok

  • @isuu...6608
    @isuu...6608 2 года назад +22

    True love first begins with self love💜️

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras Год назад +25

    “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever.” - The Notebook

  • @anaafipriscilla
    @anaafipriscilla 4 года назад +277

    Can't stop crying cos this is very direct message to me😢😢
    Now l'm gonna work it out
    Thanks for opening minded message.

    • @alliemaxwell8382
      @alliemaxwell8382 4 года назад +3

      anaafi priscilla: We’re all here to ‘work it out’ and become the best version of ourselves. Life is a journey w/ experiences to help us evolve to higher levels of consciousness✨

    • @ryohunter7534
      @ryohunter7534 4 года назад +1

      @airoc

  • @driftforlife8436
    @driftforlife8436 4 года назад +1566

    Porn and social media will destroy who you were meant to be.

    • @chapman8671
      @chapman8671 4 года назад +53

      funny but true

    • @sgreeney5664
      @sgreeney5664 4 года назад +10

      No, i did that.

    • @neverendinchaos4800
      @neverendinchaos4800 4 года назад +91

      I guess I needed to see this comment. It's what I've been suspecting for a while. Great minds think alike.
      It's time to rise from the ashes to reclaim a long forgotten throne.

    • @ujjwalgautam7341
      @ujjwalgautam7341 4 года назад +6

      I like your saying NeverEndinChaos

    • @jesslim2358
      @jesslim2358 4 года назад +74

      Porn leads you in a wrong direction. Don't let it destroy who you're meant to be.

  • @leelaarocho1530
    @leelaarocho1530 2 года назад +15

    I lost my spouse April 2020, its year and 8 months! I listen to music and ask Abba father to help me, started to dance my sadness away. I am working on me to get me to the next level! Almighty God be with us all🙏🙏🙏

  • @ViralShorts11184
    @ViralShorts11184 3 года назад +56

    Love is not in romance, love is in people.

  • @NightcoreDayandNight
    @NightcoreDayandNight 4 года назад +204

    The first 50 seconds of this video took me from super sleepy to wide awake. This is what all of earths people need to hear, no matter who they are. "No one will love you until you love yourself. No one can complete you until you… yourself are complete." - That is a good quote. Thank you for sharing this to us Fearless Soul =)
    Edit: i watched the video again, i needed to hear this advice again.

    • @Lindsweightloss
      @Lindsweightloss 4 года назад +1

      ღNightcore Day and Nightღ Yeah the first few words of the video are everything!

    • @doraaggel9124
      @doraaggel9124 4 года назад

      😉3 times is a MUST makes the subconscious MIND WHICH IS WISE🤗 TO RESONATE WITH THESE FACTS EVEN WHILE U SLEEP

    • @jerrylisby5376
      @jerrylisby5376 4 года назад +1

      So no one ever completes you. But you will find a good compatible lover.

    • @saysamnang9851
      @saysamnang9851 3 года назад

      Rukayat Bola no

  • @ericrichardson9547
    @ericrichardson9547 4 года назад +59

    Going through a divorce right now. I'm sitting in my kitchen 12 26 am in south carolina. Thanking god I saw this video. I will love myself this year. And continue to let god show me his will whatever it may be.

    • @mariaknoll1117
      @mariaknoll1117 3 года назад +4

      EDJE Family Homestead , My name is Maria, I leave in Pretoria South Africa. I pray an wish that after seen this message you started loving yourself and receiving the most beautiful loving coming your way, if not don’t give up yet because love is coming your way. I pray for your happiness.

    • @ericrichardson9547
      @ericrichardson9547 3 года назад +2

      @@mariaknoll1117 thanks. So much.

    • @LuLu-lh1hz
      @LuLu-lh1hz 3 года назад +2

      Idk if this will help, but my father just got a brutal divorce. For two years all it was was broken relationships, but recently he found someone that makes him giggle like a little boy and stay up late on a FaceTime. He found this love after he grew into a man who worked only for himself and for his kids. And now he’s ready to work and open his heart to that special someone as well. I hope you find the same thing soon❤️

  • @sophialynn469
    @sophialynn469 3 года назад +48

    Needed this right now! Spent so much time chasing after others, I left myself behind🙏🏼❤️

    • @noelevans8239
      @noelevans8239 2 года назад +1

      I’m sure this sums a lot of us up very well

  • @SarikTursunov
    @SarikTursunov 3 года назад +11

    I was here when it was posted 10 mins ago. I still listen to this sometimes. By this time I have experienced a lot. Yes You can be perfect, but if your partner is stupid, you can't change it.

  • @kanchankanani5719
    @kanchankanani5719 4 года назад +260

    Self love is everything ❤️

  • @tanusofu808
    @tanusofu808 4 года назад +86

    You can't pour from an empty glass. Take care of yourself first.
    - Anonymous

  • @confidentlloris5415
    @confidentlloris5415 2 года назад +6

    Being real makes things happen exactly as they were planned...
    I pray that GOD shows us that soulmate that deserves to be a part of us. May HE bless our future

  • @olivialiebe9581
    @olivialiebe9581 2 года назад +13

    I watched this video about a year and a half ago and it started my journey to self love. I hated myself for years. This short video helped change the course of my growth. ❤️

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 года назад +1

      how's it going... loving caring for yourself...

    • @olivialiebe9581
      @olivialiebe9581 2 года назад +1

      Better and better every day. 💜

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 года назад

      @@olivialiebe9581 leave all people behind?
      And work on ourselves only?

    • @lucasjsmith1797
      @lucasjsmith1797 2 года назад

      @@olivialiebe9581 It's really a nice Song, I was listening to this sweet song when I came across your eye catching profile and I thought of knowing more about you so I decided to sent you message hope you're not mad at me??

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 года назад +149

    Self-love and self-compassion is the answer to EVERYTHING. Everything changes when you decide that you are WORTHY, BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE, SPECIAL. You are whole and COMPLETE ♡

    • @dankonesovic8437
      @dankonesovic8437 4 года назад +2

      Thanks.

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 года назад +1

      @@dankonesovic8437 have a beautiful day 💕

    • @Heal_the_World81
      @Heal_the_World81 4 года назад +1

      Thanks ,this resonated with me. Peace love light health and happiness to you

    • @kimberdejesus7874
      @kimberdejesus7874 4 года назад +1

      Hi Erika. I love you

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 года назад +1

      @@Heal_the_World81♡♡♡ and to you! Have a wonderful day !

  • @reachelbrobbey5678
    @reachelbrobbey5678 3 года назад +333

    You made me found myself after listening to this...... am really touched ..... well said .....thank you very much

    • @jeroenofferman8519
      @jeroenofferman8519 3 года назад +2

      Still found yourself? Or did it slip away without the external input of a youtube video? Sincere question.

    • @Elemental_Soul
      @Elemental_Soul 3 года назад

      @@jeroenofferman8519 I often find myself in that position. All inspired then ..Bam! Bk to my old self, all because I was seeking externally rather than within...still working on it

    • @jeroenofferman8519
      @jeroenofferman8519 3 года назад +1

      @@Elemental_Soul Great insight. Check out Sadhguru. And even though it is about tinnitus, the basics work for everything: Julian Cowan Hill.

    • @Elemental_Soul
      @Elemental_Soul 3 года назад

      @@jeroenofferman8519 I will. Thanx

    • @Mssbeti
      @Mssbeti 3 года назад

      Can I connect with you please to practice to love my self I really need help. 5my09_2019ca this my Instagram account thank you so much

  • @youphisynongsiej8002
    @youphisynongsiej8002 2 года назад +4

    Love is the most powerful force on earth💟

  • @waltergoodwin7463
    @waltergoodwin7463 2 года назад +4

    Today was my first step; putting myself out there and being me for a change. The final steps that I need to complete. 🌷

  • @moistbender148
    @moistbender148 3 года назад +550

    "No one will love you until you love yourself."
    Except your parents.

    • @PersonalGrowthNow
      @PersonalGrowthNow 3 года назад +3

      😂😂

    • @livelove8514
      @livelove8514 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely love

    • @lydiaveldhuizen3157
      @lydiaveldhuizen3157 3 года назад +18

      Parents? My Mother was a Narc.

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 3 года назад +13

      Some parents!

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 3 года назад

      Closed to all thinges ok not felled me feel come for not under ground no a buried cc,cct ve schearched go some story maked ganna 500+100020005000////closedganna not charted

  • @curli-lettey4319
    @curli-lettey4319 4 года назад +100

    I have to break out of my "comfortable zone" and stop being afraid to just go out there and live life.

    • @nitr0gen949
      @nitr0gen949 4 года назад +1

      what do you call comfortable zone? spending the majority of time in home?

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 4 года назад +1

      @@nitr0gen949
      Uhhh....NO. comfortable zone is just what it is, a zone, I'm not doing extra as to what its supposed to take to get love. 🤨

    • @nitr0gen949
      @nitr0gen949 4 года назад +2

      @@curli-lettey4319 ah i see, nvm my confusion, spending alot of time in home can be considered as a comfortable zone, although in order to find "love" you will need to find people which means going out alot often etc, i get wym

    • @shahkamkhuklum9976
      @shahkamkhuklum9976 4 года назад +1

      Very nice videos keep updating more...

    • @jitendrachauhan3079
      @jitendrachauhan3079 3 года назад +1

      @@curli-lettey4319 Leave comfortable zone not for finding love but leave for finding yourself

  • @cloudclassy9247
    @cloudclassy9247 2 года назад +4

    I hope to find Genuine love someday starting my positive energy from today 🙂

  • @rachel_murphy06
    @rachel_murphy06 3 года назад +30

    “No one can love you, until you love yourself”
    Me: uh... well I’m just gonna gooo...

  • @Matt10mm
    @Matt10mm 4 года назад +32

    I don't know what I would do without this channel. After my wife passed I was so lost but this helps so much.

    • @preciousadoboe163
      @preciousadoboe163 4 года назад +2

      My condolences. God is your strength.

    • @m.martinez1272
      @m.martinez1272 2 года назад

      😢 how r u doing, 2 years later? My husband passed away in December 21

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 2 года назад

      His with you.. more strength from above

  • @kaleighwilson7413
    @kaleighwilson7413 4 года назад +30

    "YOU become the person you want in your life". Needed. This.

  • @darkiknik7285
    @darkiknik7285 3 года назад +6

    All my life I have been working for a better me but it goes in vein maybe one day I will achieve it

  • @Blessed2Dance4God
    @Blessed2Dance4God 2 года назад +4

    Thank goodness & glory to God for recently understanding that my ex (who caused tremendous heartbreak) was truly NOT for me! - God is Love!

  • @Caritasaveritas
    @Caritasaveritas 4 года назад +87

    Perfect!🦋
    Completely ✨
    perfectly said 🍃
    1 Love yourself first 💕
    2 Be yourself💃🏻
    3 Like attracts like👫
    4 Be fearless confident
    5 Be vulnerable 🍃

  • @pinkrose4775
    @pinkrose4775 4 года назад +22

    Powerful lines-
    *No one can love u until u love urself. 💛
    *No one can complete u unless u feel complete with urself. 💛
    *U have to stop looking for others to love u n instead love urself 1st. 💛
    To everyone from me-
    We still do feel lonely sometimes in our low times n wish for someone beside, in such cases reach out to ur parents. They love u more than anyone on Earth. 💜

    • @graceelathrop6371
      @graceelathrop6371 3 года назад +1

      Valentine's day is for live in general, not just romantic. Give your best friend a gift, buy yourself a bath bomb, make your parents a card.
      I know someone who handed out free candy on Valentine's day to bad neighborhoods, and a lot of people were really touched because nobody really recognised them.

  • @claraciaranakyanja139
    @claraciaranakyanja139 Год назад +1

    Really true you can't love someone if don't love your self

  • @shanilmine5166
    @shanilmine5166 2 года назад +2

    Coming from a broken relationship.
    God bless you for your healing msg.I'll fix myself first instead of waiting to be fixed

  • @nuranailiana
    @nuranailiana 4 года назад +30

    “no one will love you until you love yourself”, its really hit me hard, when i think about it, its true that i need to fix myself first, so i can get someone who like me, because your partner is mirroring your behaviour, good will attract good. i truly need this advices, thanks 🙏🏻

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 года назад

      Bullshit. I couldnt be more glad of who I am but that doesnt mean someone will just show up in my life.

  • @tommyboybr
    @tommyboybr 4 года назад +52

    This video is like a slap on people's face, but in an amazing way!
    Because we are true mirrors of one another.
    And loving ourselves ALWAYS must come first.

  • @hsfd7760
    @hsfd7760 3 года назад +7

    For beautiful ppl out there, forget about chasing ppl or finding the right person, u're great on ur own, u're unique and thats what make u special
    Love urself, be urself, know urself, expres urself, dont be fake and keep trying to figure out ur life purpose, just be happy
    Because when u're happy alone, everyone want to be happy with u, i know it sounds weird, but it works for me
    Focus on u, till the focus is on u
    Let ur real character attract the other ppl, because what belongs to u will come and find u
    Be happy and stay healthy :)
    *Sorry for my bad eng

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 года назад

      single
      alone
      happy
      peace
      freedom
      joy
      loving self
      caring for self

  • @genoburton6826
    @genoburton6826 2 года назад +2

    People that doesn't have love will look for love and to those that have it share it.. turn to God he will lead us to the right people

  • @lilyalis
    @lilyalis 4 года назад +41

    Love yourself first and stop holding on comfortable habits that holding you back ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nyabokesuzzanne4439
      @nyabokesuzzanne4439 4 года назад +3

      Surely this message really is touching especially no one will love you til u love yourself

    • @lilyalis
      @lilyalis 4 года назад +1

      @@nyabokesuzzanne4439 yes absolutely 😊

  • @carrylopez5755
    @carrylopez5755 4 года назад +47

    "Love is the most powerful power on a Earth"
    "Love yourself first"

    • @jobond4314
      @jobond4314 4 года назад

      And is not easy to find it, or give it away, until you love yourself, but sometimes we don't give away self that love we're looking for.

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 года назад

      Hate is far more powerful than love I learned than on very bloody ways

    • @jitendrachauhan3079
      @jitendrachauhan3079 3 года назад +1

      Ya exaxtly love from yourself not from others because if you love to other not from yourself one day your life will be fucked by others.

    • @carrylopez5755
      @carrylopez5755 3 года назад

      @Rukayat Bola and how did he do that?

  • @jessyracheljohn2515
    @jessyracheljohn2515 2 года назад +3

    Really great and amazing talk! If we all start love ourselves then only we can give love to all! Please take care that your self love does not turn to selfishness!
    A heartfelt thanks to the author!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bobthedoorknob4842
    @bobthedoorknob4842 2 года назад +4

    In order to achieve loving yourself, you must fully comprehend that you are loved regardless of your situation.

  • @RiqSMNN
    @RiqSMNN 4 года назад +57

    I think this is more than about finding love.

    • @kiRa-oy9lt
      @kiRa-oy9lt 4 года назад +1

      Me too I think it's more about life rather than Love

    • @flonighty
      @flonighty 4 года назад +2

      @@kiRa-oy9lt Yeah, I can just agree with you, technically this video name should change from finding love to live Life (or smth like that, i am not very creative at the moment cuz i am tired)

  • @kartikeygupta8784
    @kartikeygupta8784 4 года назад +20

    A very beautiful and important person of my life told me that self love is more important than loving others.
    second, I love her lot I always wait for her entire life

  • @zeusramos6504
    @zeusramos6504 2 года назад +1

    This messages are the pure true that everyone should try to live within.

  • @Cory19999
    @Cory19999 3 года назад +51

    Everyone who reads this has already met their soulmate :)

  • @grezzer1427
    @grezzer1427 4 года назад +66

    Fearless soul is the best and I've been listening for a few years now

  • @cherrybacon5154
    @cherrybacon5154 3 года назад +14

    Every time I listen to these I feel as if'm not alone in my struggles anymore. That there's a Guardian Angel helping me. Thank you so much, 🍒

    • @doctorjayden5579
      @doctorjayden5579 3 года назад

      Love has its own strength and weaknesses, you have to find the perfect role to play in this two script... Don't let love wail you down and never be too carried away by love

    • @robertavalos6437
      @robertavalos6437 2 года назад

      hello, dear i will love to know you more

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 2 года назад

      Let your light shine

    • @stevenjone3673
      @stevenjone3673 Год назад

      I will love to know you

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 Год назад +1

      @@stevenjone3673 I'am Lydia

  • @sofiagoudaropoulou2392
    @sofiagoudaropoulou2392 2 года назад +2

    Real love can only come to those who are real,pure themselves!! it's real,strong message from universe we take this reward!!! awakening of consciousness!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @jessabelbagarinao3641
    @jessabelbagarinao3641 3 года назад +3

    Yes indeed! I love myself first before anything else.

  • @tatjanastojanovic9037
    @tatjanastojanovic9037 4 года назад +97

    This video is so true. I’m seating in London during this current situation with Virus, crying everyday because I’m 40 still single thinking what is the point to live but this video said it all 🙏🏻

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 4 года назад +8

      Sweetie you seriously need help,I will recommend you to a powerful man who will help you find the true love of your life and live a happy married because he did mine too

    • @sans-sd2hv
      @sans-sd2hv 4 года назад

      @@janetperry9114 like seriously

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 4 года назад

      @@sans-sd2hv yes friend

    • @kokokoko4672
      @kokokoko4672 4 года назад

      @@janetperry9114 conect me

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 4 года назад

      @@kokokoko4672 WhatsApp +2348144358180

  • @365DwithAJ
    @365DwithAJ 4 года назад +42

    Now I know where everything went wrong in my life for so many years...😞, such an fool I'm running around looking for someone who could heal me💔, someone who could love me truly..💞, someone who I can trust eyes closed...❣️..when the answer for all this was within ME....💗, it's like the Deer 🦌 which went all over the forest looking for the beautiful fragrance that was coming from..., when it was right above from it's own forehead....♦💖♦
    Thank You..!! soooooo much for this Beautiful......! Video.. ❤🙏🏽

    • @leonpeterson2129
      @leonpeterson2129 3 года назад +1

      I feel so sad after seeing all this ,I hope I could find love again someday ..😔😔😔
      I failed cause I never focus on completing myself and loving myself first ....
      I hope a could make it right .....
      Will I ever find love anymore ??😢😥😥I hope I don't fail a victim.

  • @amareshdebbarma8109
    @amareshdebbarma8109 9 месяцев назад +1

    Self-love is the greatest medicine.

  • @eviozyra6300
    @eviozyra6300 2 года назад +2

    You never are really "ready" or complete, what does it even mean, you are always evolving, growing (idealy), of course you need a sense of yourself, but in 2 years that can completly change.
    And you are always deserving of love, even when not complete, even when not loving yourself!

  • @kimwillemsen9731
    @kimwillemsen9731 4 года назад +3

    Be authentic, be yourself..
    Don’t try to be perfect
    You are who you are and that’s good ❤️

  • @julianegoncalves2739
    @julianegoncalves2739 3 года назад +15

    "Life's greatest growth comes when you leave your comgort zone" 📝

  • @mariflorparangan7067
    @mariflorparangan7067 3 года назад +3

    I lost him already.his in heaven.

  • @salomonsarmiento6274
    @salomonsarmiento6274 3 года назад +6

    Hard to be alone, but it's important to love myself first

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 года назад

      hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 года назад

      it really works our for me get my ex back

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 года назад

      I can help you out

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 года назад

      ➕1⃣2⃣0⃣4⃣5⃣0⃣0⃣1⃣6⃣6⃣2⃣

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 года назад

      text me on WhatsApp for directive

  • @deantawatao8004
    @deantawatao8004 4 года назад +33

    We don't really need to do anything to be loved and to find love, Love already found us. All we need to do is to accept that Love, believe that we are always loved, and share that Love. 😊

    • @Letloveleadus
      @Letloveleadus 4 года назад

      Good point, Dean. Jesus Christ loves us, He loves the world, meaning good and bad. We are already loved, we need to share our love to others. No matter what happened to you, If you have his breath in your lungs , know that you are loved. God is Love, He is the source of Love,. you can only get love from the source. Anyone who talks about love without having genuine connection with the source is speaking of this present darkness kinda love and counterfeit love.Only the sick needs the doctor. We need to love those who feel undeserved of our love. Don’t wait for you to love yourself to love others, we fail to ask the important question , what makes someone don’t like themself? Please don’t wait until the day you have this or that to love, that day may never come. You are a spirit, love is the only way to sow to the spirit. Love because you are already loved.

  • @brandonzhang8209
    @brandonzhang8209 4 года назад +63

    When you love yourself the whole world start to love you.

    • @jerrylisby5376
      @jerrylisby5376 4 года назад +8

      The whole world won't but the right ones will.

    • @yeswing10
      @yeswing10 4 года назад

      Until you meet a Narcissist!

    • @diouranke
      @diouranke 4 года назад

      That's cliché

    • @kshrvpz1587
      @kshrvpz1587 4 года назад +1

      Bullshit. I don't have nothing against anyone. The problem of that people Is with themselves, not the rest

  • @genmae2967
    @genmae2967 3 года назад +2

    Love yourself first.
    Love starts within you.
    Let go of no longer servers you.
    Still Loving those people who hurt you.why? because of them you learned ,you grow up and became more stronger.

  • @sweety-xq1pm
    @sweety-xq1pm 2 года назад +2

    search of love and incompleteness is needed to find God.
    when we loose everything here in material world we find our selves complete with HIM.❤

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 4 года назад +50

    I think that when you love yourself you do not tolerate those who demean you and try to tear you down. You recognize you deserve better.

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 года назад +2

      Danny Meyer well said, there are strings attached though.. kids are very important..

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 года назад +1

      Danny Meyer Looks like GOD listened your words.🙂

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 года назад +1

      Danny Meyer not everything is told on internet my friend.😃😃

    • @dannymeyer3256
      @dannymeyer3256 4 года назад +1

      Raj Boda Meaning you cannot tell me then.

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 года назад

      Danny Meyer not on internet.🙂

  • @ivywang416
    @ivywang416 4 года назад +6

    God is good. before I opened RUclips. I pray that God can you guide me. coz I'm struggling right now, then I see this video my prayers got answered. thank you so much. mostly you father God.. 😇😇😍😍💕

  • @vajirakoongoda7470
    @vajirakoongoda7470 3 года назад +1

    I never loved my self ...but now i do love my self and give the love others

  • @eldersellstrom4178
    @eldersellstrom4178 3 года назад +12

    I just want to say man you are right on every level! I really needed this!

  • @angelmushi1099
    @angelmushi1099 4 года назад +6

    Love yourself,value yourself, complete yourself first..in simple words BE YOU♥️......

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 4 года назад +130

    Be the one that makes peace, the one that offers friendship, the one that makes a difference in this world.

  • @user-oj7fl4fc9o
    @user-oj7fl4fc9o 3 года назад +2

    This does not only apply in finding true love, it matters in our journey of life.
    Thank you for this valuable video, it was all I've been waiting to hear for!!

    • @jerryjoy6795
      @jerryjoy6795 3 года назад

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @jerryjoy6795
      @jerryjoy6795 3 года назад

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @jerryjoy6795
      @jerryjoy6795 3 года назад

      Whtsaap him**

    • @jerryjoy6795
      @jerryjoy6795 3 года назад

      +234=814=079=9323//##

  • @carlaynunez4910
    @carlaynunez4910 3 года назад +1

    I needed to hear this. Often we are harsh on ourselves. We need to hear more positivity and create it as well!! 🌷🌞

  • @yusefelyonandcelina
    @yusefelyonandcelina 4 года назад +20

    Love yourself first and you will find others to love you more than you expected. It is about being contented for what you have and be freely express yourself with necessarily action and consequences. Love happiness success attracts who really believe that everything is possible with your determination kind hearted and not to be jealous and envy for what others have but you have to figure it out and learn more about yourself through experience to fit in to others life without discrimination or judging your flaws because you found friends loved ones who truly understand you no matter what indeed to happen with God Almighty in our side

  • @thesalonicacastro4305
    @thesalonicacastro4305 4 года назад +8

    I'm ready to be the best version of my life! Let's get it on!

  • @Freeduradura
    @Freeduradura 2 года назад

    I learned to peruse myself, to love myself and it is really amazing how the outside world is rearranging itself to match my internal energy.

  • @scarletsky5292
    @scarletsky5292 4 года назад +35

    Wow.... I just went through a break up an hour ago and this showed up on my RUclips's Recommendation...? RUclips's watching me LOL but wow
    I needed this ❤️ it actually made me feel better. It really hit me hard but also made me realize what i was doing to myself, this hit was worth it, like a wake up call. Now i know what to do for my next step ❤️ love myself more.

    • @andreflavell2689
      @andreflavell2689 4 года назад +1

      Scarlet Sky that’s the way . I loved a woman who just took and took . On all levels.. now it’s about having ones eyes open

    • @andreflavell2689
      @andreflavell2689 4 года назад

      Scarlet Sky I live on a 60 foot yacht now and try to let it go .. I have my dog to. Maybe adventure awaits you . Andre

    • @damodaradhikari1162
      @damodaradhikari1162 4 года назад

      idk u but u rock scarlet , he didnt deserve some one amazing like you

  • @yassenmirheg6730
    @yassenmirheg6730 4 года назад +13

    this is the most balanced words id ever read

  • @svasianfilipiname6603
    @svasianfilipiname6603 3 года назад +3

    People don't know how to love others these days but they surely know how to JUDGE and DISCRIMINATE! I love myself but I also I guess just wanted what every superficial being had (or is striving to get) that which is a successful life and successful, happy relationships! We all want to be liked (heck even LOVED) but I don't know why it's hard to get that.. I feel the only people who are "lucky" enough to find it, are those who are healthy, attractive and in their 20's mostly lol.. it's lust not love!!
    I am almost 37 (at the end of the month)... never hot to be pregnant or have a loving, happy husband.. ah well what can I do??!! I don't want to be this shallow anymore and frustrated and in pain!! It hurts too much!!!

  • @lakshmi9432
    @lakshmi9432 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for good words 👍 this is what I really needed at this time..

  • @sammysam2615
    @sammysam2615 4 года назад +38

    My unbiased view
    These 5 tips can definitely help a lot of people. But theirs one single objective truth, life isn't fair for all and unfortunately some can and do everything right, and still some aren't loved.

  • @karmalepcha2592
    @karmalepcha2592 4 года назад +8

    Wow every morning it gives me more strength
    My heart beat become so fast

  • @hopeihiemekpen9112
    @hopeihiemekpen9112 Год назад +2

    Currently heartbroken 💔it's not easy but hopefully it will pass and I will get what I deserve💯👌

  • @Escorpio40
    @Escorpio40 2 года назад +3

    We all need to have a healthy a good balance when comes to love and relationship and never love another before loving yourself first. Everyone needs a partner. Nobody can live a lonely life forever and always feel happy. Humans are just too complicated when comes to express their true feelings.

  • @chariz1593
    @chariz1593 4 года назад +6

    I really like this. The only thing I would add to it is, after you've learned to truly love yourself, don't just love yourself and nobody else.