WHEN THE NARCISSIST REALIZES WHAT THEY LOST (YOU!)
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- Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2021
- THE NARCISSIST REALIZES WHAT THEY LOST IN YOU. They certainly will do this. It could happen today.. tomorrow or in a month.. it will happen. The narcissist had the best person ever in you.. and they had to try to destroy it. They tried and tried.. and failed. You are here improving yourself everyday and moving forward. You have the knowledge and insight now. You will NEVER LOOK BACK.. you are empowered and on your path to being the best version of you everyday.
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Oh my God, you are so wise and so pure, what you are doing it' very important, God put the right words in your mouth. thank you for helping me heal.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Packing my things up right now leaving my ex listen to you! Thanks I needed this!
Having a soft heart in this harsh world is courage, not weakness.
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Truth. I have a soft, true heart, and I can walk through the fire like it’s nothing. My true heart guides me through it, and I can look back at those who wish to harm with pity and compassion. I can tell them to their face with a gentle voice the harm they are doing, and if they want to change they can listen. If not, so be it. Despite the narcissists I’ve encountered, I am walking through my life in love and trust, because LOVE is the strongest power. Can I fight? It’s what I do for a living - fighting for justice and equality. Those who try to harm others are petty and weak and easy to defeat. Remember the principle of Ahimsa, and you will always walk in beauty and power.
Yeahhh, til u get sick of being bullied, criticised, criticised, ignored.. the softer, kinder & more understanding, the harder they push 2 hurt you, torture you, pull u down.. Been there 2 often.they don't care !!!
Facts Exactly 💯 !!! ❤
A year after my divorce, my ex said to me, "It's true what they say--you never really know what you have until it's gone." In my mind, I said, "Wrong, I knew exactly what I had and that's WHY I'm gone."
BEST POST EVER!!!!
I like that comeback. If I ever have the chance to say it , I will and I will mean it with all my heart. So so grateful to be out of that fake marriage
Saddest thing is , maybe you knew what you had , and still loved them , as they are unable to see what they had and trully apreciate you.
yes totally I got with 2 men like that but my childhood never broke me or my marriage or my last relationship they were sandpaper polishing me to shine and rise while they got dull in shinning me thank you I learned so much about strength and love myself more I am free and what is free is free indeed while they are in their turmoil they create for themselves empy shells I am in freedom peace and love myself my own hero
What he said was just a sort of lever to try and crack your resolve.
You don't need them. They need you.
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It’s her kids I’m concerned for, because I wouldn’t keep feeding her.
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what they realise is that they didnt lose you , they lost control of you.
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This is absolutely true. 😊
@@bezza2005 this one got me good. too real
the real mindfuck is when you're thinking whether or not it's about you or control.....I don't think I'm even good enough to say control for certain yet....but it obviously is in all our cases if we're here. Noone who cares about you in your life treats you like this but this individual, and it's that nagging feeling that I think eventually eroded the walls of my own delusional trauma bond.
When God delivers you from evil, don’t revisit it. Love this quote
Amen 🙏
If there existed a god, it would have been responsible for creating and putting the narc in your life. Sounds pretty evil, eh?
Am happy I came across this video, you are awesome and amazing human, thanks for the knowledge, God bless your heart ❤
@@StaggerLee68 exactly... in my life there were no god helping me whatsoever... i was a superstrong motherf* that survived all this... and ironiclly it was my childhood friend that first mentioned the term narcissist for me a couple of years ago and now i have realised he was a narc.
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I truly feel for my ex. As narcissistic as he is, I could see he was in pain and battling traumas he's dealt with growing up. Insecurities guided his actions. I love him, I feel for his pain, but I could no longer accept his actions. At some point in your life you must take accountability that your traumas aren't an excuse to treat people wrongly. You need to get therapy instead.
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I went through the same thing. My ex had horrible childhood, horrible narcissiatic parents and was in a horrible place mentally when we met. I help her, did everything for her, tolerated all the craziness and she still undermined me and showed no gratitude whatsoever. It was all her trauma (after three years I learned she had a kid she gave up to adoption). It's very sad, because her character was mostly good, but her victim identity gave her permission to abuse me and breach my boundaries.
I think she really believed I was the bad guy, while my only concern was to make her happy, fix my mistakes she was always talking about, and I just couldn't make it work, no matter how hard I tried. She was so judgemental and ungrateful...
After 4 years She ended up cheating on me with my best friend and moved in with him 14 days ago... Good riddens
@@Gajdosh you are a good one.
Omg this resonates with me so much!!! My husband was abused as a child and in turn treated me like a doormat. After 30 years I said the same as you! Strength and happiness to you 🌟💫💕
We still have not lost our compassion for the hurting. We have learned who we can allow in our life. I am now happy and content.
These are definitely spiritual issues. Normal people cannot act like this unless they’re being influenced by demonic spirits. I think it’s good for us to realize that these narcissistic traits are often evil spirits.
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Yes. I think so too..My younger sister treated me like a dog, I still loved and cared for her so much....her face changes when she shouts at me...I think it is some kind of evil spirit.
@@JyoKaPamy sibling too . The addiction issues open portals
I feel so fortunate that I listened to my instincts and never had a baby with that man.
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Me too!
This! I'm so thankful.
Same I would’ve been so down bad rn
Well done you......life could have been very different.
The peace that comes with leaving the narcissist behind is priceless! Never again will I allow myself to be walked on like that!
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Same,my wife had me second guessing myself if I was doing the right thing by leaving her at first but after I blocked her calls and messages a week went by and I was certain it was good to divorce her,she dragged out the divorce for 5 years and I done some really low things to try to make me lose all of my parental rights to my son so it was an uphill battle the entire way
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They definitely don't fight fair. Especially when we just wanted to get away from them and not fight. It's worth it for the peace that eventually comes. I wish you the very best!!
I almost let it happen again, two months into the relationship I connected the dots from all the ignored signs and bailed on the relationship asap
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The empaths have gone through the fire, gone through the lessons and the pain, and still choose to be good ppl. Better days are coming!! Thank you for this.
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Lady you ain't kidding I dare others to take on what we do
@@user-nr6sl7jz6d agreed 💯 We got this no matter the storm!!
Empaths don't exist. Every single person on the planet is technically one if we are talking about potential.
@const3llations_370 I'll tell you what does exist, people who have no idea what they are talking about but still feel the need to open their fukkin mouths. That definitely exists
I gave a lot, I cried and suffered a lot, but I'm looking forward to my life and getting healed. The only thing I can say is that I hope nobody faces narcissists in their life.
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Same here.
You are so right exactly what happened.
They are truly evil, disgusting people. 8 years together, and I'm just now realizing she was a narcissist. There were many red flags, I just never knew there was a label. I started to figure her out a year ago, tho, when she began calling me a narcissist. No one's ever called me that in 40 years. And according to her, every man in her life was one. I thought that statistically improbable and I was right. Not only had she been cheating for months, minimum, but she also smeared my name and deliberately caused problems between my son and I and other family.
Hey! How are you holding up 5 months later here? I am 7 weeks out and my life has dramatically improved already.
We are circumstantially still connected and the weird part about it is that we are able to be civil to one another.
What a sad state of affairs to have happened. Going through this was horrible. I need therapy and need to try to understand and make sense of what happened to me.
Funny how not being told I am hated, that I deserve bad things, that I am a POS human being for 7 weeks improves the quality of one's life.
No eggshells like I walked on for years has done wonders for my nervous system.
What a mess.
I just dated for the 1st time,what I now know is a Narcissist. We only dated 3 months, and he drained me, made me cry, ignored me, then texted me back, used me, hurt me…it’s the worst thing I’ve experienced in my life. He was so cold, so self centered…after realizing he is a Narcissist, I removed myself from that relationship, cause I know he will never change…now I feel I can finally breathe ! 🙏🏻
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You are lucky.
Never let anyone steal your joy, your light or your worth!
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Thank you for ur comment ❤
Never gonna let anybody steal my joy again. Meh, I don't feel my narc has the capacity to feel.
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It is like a thief that comes in the night. Stealing everything but your soul.
The most difficult thing for me was forgiving myself for having gotten In to the narcissistic relationship in the first place.....
Hi Annamarie.. it takes time.. a lot of time to process.. my hope is you are healing and improving ☀️🙌🙏
Same here... Felt like such an idiot for the longest time, till I fully realised who the idiot was all along... I will always be amazing, he will always be an idiot..... 🥴
@@moscloset6408 I was embarrassed that I was such an idiot....
@@annamariehewitt3173 me too... But with time, knowledge, self-love and healing I got to a point where I could let that go and really just laugh about the whole thing, what a clown show... Believe me, it will come for you too... Don't rush... Sending healing love..... 🙏🏽❤️
@@annamariehewitt3173 oww and one more thing... You ARE not an idiot, you were just unawarely DECEIVED by an idiot, please don't see yourself that way... You are not, they are!!
Time and distance give you perspective and gratitude that you've survived an encounter with a black hole.
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I think I'm a champion here ! After 35 years of toxic marriage one day I've said: enough ! (I was 60 years of age !!!) Live alone now for almost 7 years, and I end every day with a prayer of gratitude to the Almighty for giving me the strength to finally live in peace and harmony, with the wonderful support of my son and my friends. Every new day is like a new gift to me.
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WELL DONE 👍👍👍❤️. YOU'RE Strength can be seen!!!!!!!! I'm SO PROUD of YOU ❤️❤️❤️👍. I've been FREE for 5 YEARS, after 25 of misery with Mother, and then 25 with EX Husband..........WE ARE STRONG 👍👍👍. AND, THEY KNOW IT 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@tracyross5831 Thank you ! It is NEVER to late . . .
I wish my mom had done that.
You were obviously a walk over!. Anyone who prays everyday to a mythical being rather than congratulating themselves for doing something right has to be living a delusional life!
When my ex-husband realized that he'd lost me for good, he completely freaked out. He flew into one of his narcissistic rage, thinking it would make me feel guilty and go back to him. Wrong thinking. His irrational anger just reaffirmed my position and reinforced the fact that by leaving me I had saved my life from further emotional abuse and suffering.
This is empowerment Izzy.. 💯🙌☀️🙏
My son has not realized that I am walking away and it is one of the hardest things I have done.
@@mikeodiomasaigh6757 yes it is the hardest thing to walk away from them. But it's also the best thing to do. I hope it will get better for you. Put yourself first for a change.
So rewarding, remembering the look on his face when I told him I was leaving that day & divorcing him. The two year love bomb had lasted until I married him. The slow devalue lasted a year, and one day I woke up & knew it was never going to change, and started packing. He had been awful to me! He never thought I’d leave, he was speechless. But too proud to ever ask me back, or proclaim any love or remorse. He knew I’d never see him as anything but a coward, a bully, a huge phony.. bc I called him out. He did realize what he lost, & then a year later when nurses were getting recognition & he tried some lame text, wanting THAT supply, but I shut him down. Bu-bye.
@@izzybizzy9230 ... Thank you.
When the narc tried contacting me again via text I hit him with the "who is this?" And after he answered and asked more questions I completely ignored him. I hold the power.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for your kind support
I feel so bad for my past self, you lose who you are completely after dealing with those type of people. But once you find yourself again, you become so strong you truly become a warrior and you no longer care anymore, you look forward, find better, do better and just close that ugly chapter. It takes years I cannot lie... but once it’s done I promise the air feels so good to breathe again ❤
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Best feeling in the world
Married for 30 years and I couldn't understand what was happening. I just knew something was wrong and I tried over and over to make it better. Freedom is now mine!!!
I know this very well..
Mine to Susie. 20 years married. Ten years out
I need the strength to leave
@@PaulaRothrock I found it helped when i removed the emotions, and focused on the facts only,
motivation was found in logic and reason. Deal with the emotions later, alone away from the source.This is not something that can be rushed. Take time to make time.
@@PaulaRothrock I couldn't do it without a therapist and my grown children's blessings. It's hard but worth it. You have to PREPARE...have a PLAN and have a network of family and friends who will surround you with love. I know your unhappiness all too well...the memories still hurt.....I wish you the best.
The Narcissist teaching: after one bids them Goodbye forever.they teach us.
1. Self Love
2. Self Respect
3. Protect our boundaries
4. Deattachment
5. Freedom from mindless drama
6. New way of positive fullfilling life .
7. Help us build Healthy reciprocal relationships .Give and Take relationships with others.
8. To live in harmony and peace.
9. Self contain
10.Assertive Communications at all levels.
we realise that we are the best.it's their bad luck to lose us.
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Thank you. I now know what to do. As an empath, it has been devastating.
Needed to hear your words 🙏 ❤ to heal.
God bless you
This is empowering 😊
I needed to hear those words. It's so hard to realise that person you love is narcissist. ,💔
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Yes 😢💔😭 and that makes the survival more painful 🥲
“You didn’t realize that we were going to rise out of the ashes” 💙
Everyone seeing this, keep healing and being the incredible human you are.
YOU’RE WORTH IT!
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DEAR unapologetic
Bless you're Sweet ❤️ thank you.same to you Sweetheart.May God Grant you your Hearts desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE in JESUS NAME With MUCH LOVE 💕 From Somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏
I needed to hear this. Thanks so much for your comment
Who would have thought the good people would be victims and find each other here like this....God is amazing
I met Jesus and found True Love, and He showed me my worth in His eyes. And I came to realize that He made me true treasure to be sought out and valuable. They must go through Jesus to have me now because I belong to Him.
Beautiful message of hope and healing thank you Joyce 🙏🙏
Exactly! Thanks for sharing.
Amen.. Yes!
God bless you!
My discard came when I wouldn’t discard Jesus.
"People cry not because they're weak, it's because they've been strong for too long."
~Johnny Depp
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That's what happens in a narcissist-to-empath relationship. It's a death spiral.
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Except that the quote does not have Johnny Depp as its original author.
@@carriekay5987 That someone popular has a quote attributed to the person by Google doesn't make the person the author. That quote has been around for a while before Johnny Depp.
@@brendannokam4167 - What's your point?
Truth is universal, no matter whose lips it comes from.
@@carriekay5987 There is no where that I said truth isn't universal and to emphasise your point. The truth is that Johnny Depp is not the author of that statement even if he repeated it.
Educating myself on narcissism has been the second biggest thing of my healing journey. First would be God’s protection!
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Well said
Amennnnnnnn that's what happened to me God opened my eyes after 40 years 😢 finally free it feels great. I thank God everyday for another day and feel great about myself and life and will enjoy whatever time I have on this earth 🌎 🙏 take care enjoy life 😊
Walking away from my ex-female Covert Narcissist will go down as one of the best and most important decisions i ever made in my life. I knew in my heart i was just far far too good for this very disturbed individual. Goodbye to bad rubbish.
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It takes so long to recover when you are closely involved with a narcissist and it's hard to accept that they are narcissistic to a point of not really loving you.
that was the hard part for me that the love i gave and shared with my ex was all fake,,,as an empath it hurt me deeply,,,but over time it gets better
My sister just said my NC this week must have feeling for me, since he got mad, when I discarded him.. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I wrote her.. CLEARLY YOU DO NOT KNOW NARCISSISM.
TRUST YOU ME,, THEY NOT ONLY DID NOT CARE/LOVE US.. THEY HATED US.. THEY HATED US..
I just started my journey without my narc wife....she left 1 month ago and is already with another man. It hurts like nothing else,but slowly I am going no contact and learning to take care of my health. I will always love her. Thank you to anyone who reads this.
They do not love themselves ❤
@@digidrum2003 Thank You for sharing that takes courage
Namaste ❤
I am not a supply I am a person and I am not a tool or a wallet. I am a human being and I deserve better ❤ thanks man you’re the best!!
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Your videos have helped so much. Sorry for what you went through. I get it now. Thank you for your channel. And the work you up in.
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When you're raised with narcissists, it takes a long time to realize what had happened with me.
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An absolute life altering soul shattering MISERABLE experience I can’t wait to forget
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When you have been delivered out of a narcissistic relationship, never, NEVER look back! Keep going, keep growing!! You ARE the strong one. Thank you Andrew for your message.
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But how do you save your child from the narcissist?
@@JeanmarieRod...I have the same question. My Son is married to a narcissist. She took him and my grandchildren away from us. My Son is oblivious to what she has done. How is it that he can be so blind to her devious ways. Sure I said goodbye to her, but with that I lost my Son.
I don’t think they would never know what we gave them!! This I truly believe !!!! They see people as a thing not human!! They don’t know how to love!!!
I truly believe that as well.
I agree completely with you
They are not capable of love or empathy IMO..
Sadley they are heartless robots … they dont care for anybody… ❤️
I agree. They wont know. I still had days I lie in bed. My friend said you're recuperating it's ok. I was a lot older . Knew him from over 20 years ago.
He is very different today. And you're right they dont k ow. When hes my age I wonder if he'll think back to hiw much more tired you get and how much more easily we get sick.
Probably not
They aren’t capable of love and reflection like this. If they say they made a mistake and miss you it is purely to get them back in their web so you fill their narc supply.
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The only reason I found out I was in a relationship with a narcissist is because I was discarded. Yesterday I looked up information to find out about fixing the narcissism that I was told I have and why I couldn’t pinpoint it. After reading I realized I was being gaslit by a narcissist who was projecting all of her self hate on me to break me down. Then she would slowly build back up just to bring me down again. What a wild 10 year ride. Blinded by love.
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Wow, 1.7M views. So many hurting souls have thankfully discovered this channel and are now gaining the wisdom, education and understanding of the evil creature we shared our life with. God bless you Andrew and everyone reading this. May you all live your best life, find peace and be stronger each and every day ❤
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thought the same thing...
Demons. Literally.
I couldn’t agree more💯💯Peace and blessings to you all🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰❤️❤️💕💕💕
Thank you Paul!!🙂 There's a beautiful life waiting for us once we free ourselves of those devil 😈 narcissists and get our life back in order. It's so much easier to walk once we're off the eggshells we had tread upon so lightly. Feels so good not being victimized constantly. I wish everyone here the peace of mind and heart they long for and deserve. FINALLY, LIFE IS GOOD!!🤩💜
It really hit me, when he said they are always on the search for new supply, always on the look for that one thing they will never find - how to fill their bottomless pit of emptiness.
its so sad for them , and at least we have the gift to improve and find our selfs we dont need to be in another relationship to proof we moved on
Why are they so dead set against therapy, if we are telling them how much better they will be, it's not enough to make them go. IF HE makes an effort to change, i will allow him to talk to me, with out any further effort on his part, he IS done. I told him a few weeks ago, he's good at calling me a bitch, if you THINK you married a bitch, you are divorcing a MUCH BIGGER ONE!!!
@@eveningowl9443 he has a sister who has isolated herself, they can turn to each other. I am through being HIS healer, time to heal ME and my 2 dogs
@@Indy__isnt_it you need to get away from him, dissapear , block him change ur number if u have too, thats what i did, i waa new last yeart june about narcissisim idk what it was, when i found out after doing some ,online searching, testing him, i immiadietly blocked him 3 das after blocking him changes my number and told my family caused they all loved him to please block i dont want to know nth bout him, my mom felt bad for him and after i told her everything what happened behind the scenes she immidiatlu blocked him
@@Indy__isnt_it during our last days of toxicity i literally sat down with him, we spoked i told him open up with me, dont be insecure, i know theres good in you ( which i know there isnt) he can te me anything and we can both solve it.. i tried reasoning and just walked away and he was like where u going come back... i didnt look back just kept walking
I'm recovering from recent narcissistic relationship and by the time I found out what it was it was to late and damage was done. This destroyed me in every way but felt empowered but still struggling worh alot and these videos help me a lot
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“You can’t unsee what you’ve seen!” Amen
Amen 🙏
That also applies to seeing yourself in the mirror. What this has done to your self image is so frightening. Thank you
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My favorite way to deal with a narcissist is to simply ghost them. It's easy, for me, because I don't have a problem NEVER looking back, that's part of _my_ personality.
Narcissists HATE losing their victim and they often go to great lengths trying to regain that power. But that's not your problem, anymore, it's theirs. And don't worry, karma _will_ come for them. Just trust that it does and it's not _your_ problem, anymore.
Yeah, I'm pretty merciless once I realise what's up. It becomes easy to play them at their own game when you're not in a gullible mindset and know what to look out for
I think they cut their losses more often to protect their rep. Also once you're off their radar they seek new prey, and tend to find it easily.
They probably don’t care as much as you’d like to think they do. Why is it so hard for supply to accept that “karma” might never get them? Let it go.
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They always care. If they didn't, they wouldn't fight so hard to hold on to me, or any of their other victims.
Yes, my narc ex tried many times over a couple of years, but like he says in the video, you just can’t un see what you’ve seen once you have discernment.
Everything you said happened in my life. After 20 years of marriage I found out I was leaving with a narcissist. Thank you for your words . The more I educate myself about this , the better I feel.
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I just ended things with her after 4 years of abuse. I finally learned what she really is this week and then I found her dating profile. She even deleted the account in the middle of getting called out. It has been 30 minutes and I found your video. Thank you - It feels like the weight of a 1000 pounds is off my shoulders
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What they miss the safety net, the comfort, the one who displayed respect to them , the one that up graded their character , let them stay with the so call greener grass !
Excellent insight.. thank you 🙏 💪💯
All because they want an UNDUE form of control..which becomes their undoing. I'm too burnt out from their fake, more watered down of the former versions of their good stuff/side to bother any more consideration for another recycle
Run for your life and never look back. I sent the darkness screaming into the night in the name of Jesus name,Amen
Amen 🙏
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Amen Amen 🙏🏿
😂 SO TRUE‼️ Thank You Jesus‼️
Amen!! Thank you Jesus!! I walked away 6 weeks ago. Unfortunately I had to pray for Jesus to help me walk away because I was too weak to do it in my own.
"Goodbye, forever". Right on. My former friend was a classical musician, extremely intelligent. Regardless of the warnings, he ever learned. I knew he would be resentful, so I was prepared. I simply said I needed a break, and then then many years passed without any contact from me. After he realized I was no longer in his life, he started with the nastiness, spreading rumours, gossip, sending emails to other friends and being sure to CC me. At no time did I give any response because I knew that's what he wanted. He tried many other times, and then finally he apologized in an email. I knew what he was doing: trying to get me back, and then he would tell his friends that I "saw the light", making it sound like I admitted I was wrong. So, I ignored the apology. Earlier this year, he sent about three more emails with photos to soften me, but I did not respond. Then, I got the news that he had died in hospital. Yes, goodbye, "forever", and I am all the better for not getting involved again with his games and manipulation. Thank you so much for this video.
Welcome 🙏💯💪
Good for you for not reacting at all. They would have twisted any reaction to their advantage anyway.
@@ayumisae6864 Yes, he would have been worse than ever. I knew silence was the best way, but he never learned. I had known him for 50 years, off and on (he moved around), and he was always like that. Instead of mellowing and growing, he only became more resentful and controlling, plus he was drinking heavily and that made things all the worse.
Well said… what we must remember is that the narc highlighted the reality that we are amazing and that is why they targeted us. They are envious. They want to be just like you! They never will be, but take that away with you.. you are beautiful and amazing and no one can ever compare or replicate your unique qualities. One day you will meet someone like you and someone that truely appreciates you.
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I was in a narcissistic relationship with someone I thought was my best friend. After years of manipulation, drama and gaslighting, I snapped. I told him you've falsely accused me, you've lied to me, you've spied on me...well congratulations, you've just lost a friend. I've felt such a sense of joy and freedom since!
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Ryan and that Freedom you feel and experience is worth everything each and every day! Be Safe, best wishes.
The biggest narcissistic abuser of all time eventually became one of my closest friends in my adopted home of Arizona (for a few decades). Yeah, I've had relationships with the women turn toxic, yeah I'm the scapegoat of my family.. but nothing was WORSE than seeing the mask off of what I thought was a close friend.
So glad to hear your post. Because it makes me not feel alone in having to run away from a person that I caught on lies eventually about themselves and other people.
Thanks for reaffirming my NO CONTACT stance that I now use.
Doesn't it feel great!
If I catch people lying the 1st time they lose all credibility, after the 1st one I start calling them out
Wow that sounds so much like what happened to me.
They tried to bury us but realize we are Seeds , grow where your planted our Father in heaven will overturn deeply entrenched thinking to help us flourish and have Joy. Love from Albuquerque.
They tried and failed.. we rise up stronger than ever.. thank you for sharing this beautiful message 🙌☀️💯😊
Amen 🙏🌻💖
I can experience to have a narcissist partner .im in also in healing process but i know God has Better plan for me.and everything is has a reason why it was happen..
Wow what a great image to think the seeds breaking through into a beautiful flower!! I love how these videos spark so many valuable comments and such powerful incite. Thank you!
Beautiful! So true.
✍️🏽The Narcissist always tries to devour the Empath-to no avail. 🤷🏽♀️All praise & glory to “Yah.” 🙏🏽😇
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I just wanna know what makes u qualified to give ur opinoj cause u didn't say It
@@jordandeleonard5358 - I just want to know where you learn to spell? At least match my IQ or shut up trying to be nasty! 🖐🏽
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In Agreement with you Hun.may God Grant you your Hearts desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE Sweetheart in JESUS NAME With MUCH 💓 from somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏
@@BillyHendricks-wm1yq - Thanks, Billy. I claim the blessing in Yah’s name. I know ‘Oklahomà well. Upon graduating (undergrad) my first adult job was an outside sales position at Dell computers. I won awards thanks to Tinker AFB, Oklahoma.👌🏽🙏🏽☺️
Thanks sincerely, you nailed it! Brutal 20 year marriage! Divorced 27 years and finally understand what happened and am healing 💝 I have a wonderful life today
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Beautiful!
There comes a point eventually where you not only forgive that narcissist, you can actually thank them for contributing to the person you become after the experience.
So true, that’s how I feel now after three years.
I'm looking forward to that. Thank you for the hope. 💛
Yes!!!!
Never thank to that thing. Lesson do not be come from Them.
I totally agree with this because this is where I am at with it. I feel like it was a Blessing to go through what I did. The lessons I learned are priceless! All I can do is Thank GOD🙏!!!
When WE finally realise what we lost ,.. it's a HUGE RELIEF 🤔😜💪💪
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Yeap you right on that
Yep. like sitting on the toilet.
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Such a beautiful and important message. Being involved with a narcissist is such an ugly wake-up call, but it’s a powerful red pill. Gives you wisdom and lessons you would have never learned otherwise. Thank you
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People that do not understand what you went through is hard. It's not a normal break up. Theres no closure. The trauma bonding almost kills you. Took me to my knees daily. I've lost many people in life to death, but for me, the pain of this discard was worse than anything I had ever lived through or experienced. The part that still gets to me, and it's been 3.5 years is he knew me for several decades and I never looked at him that way. Until one day, later in life his charm played well for him. 7 years wasted, yet I knew this wasnt normal but couldnt leave. After he found new supply, he discarded me like trash on garbage day. I trusted him with everything. Never saw it coming. Could not imagine doing that to anyone. Then the smear campaigned and lies. Omg, I truly didnt think I was going to make it. Death seemed more appealing than living the hell I was living. I've never bumped into him, I isolate to prevent it. I have no idea what my reaction would be. But I REFUSE to ever let him see me shed another tear, ever.
They don’t miss you, they don’t regret anything. They only miss that they can’t use you anymore. The one that got away to them means, the one I can’t control anymore.
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I got disguarded. Some times I feel like I'm the narcissist. I just wanted to spend quality time with that person. But she always gravitated to other people for energy, ideas, and validation.
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I don’t care what they’re thinking, feeling, missing, contemplating, scheming, nothing. I have no animosity, I just don’t care.
I understand now that my superpower is kindness. I thank them for pushing me to my breaking point until my authentic self refused to accept the unacceptable any longer.
I am free and I will never get back in that cage.
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yesssss in a cage! i worded my narc as trying to force me into a box ! a small, very regimented world, while HE was out in the world doing as he pleased, reduced me to a very small, lonely world to serve him. You know.
Facts!!!
I know right I dont care about them!
Yes! "You can't un-see what you see." Thank God for that. When I was still talking to my ex (I don't talk to him anymore) I asked him "Why don't you find a new girlfriend and let me live my life?" and he said "Because they're not WORTH anything." They see us as resources, and relationships as transactional. They don't love or value us (since they don't love themselves) -- they value what we GIVE them. It's when we love ourselves enough to stop being someone's resource that we're free to live the beautiful life we're meant to live
You hit the nail on the head with the statement their relationship's are transactional!!! Every single thing in my first marriage was negotiated with something for him each time. There is no giving for giving sake.
@@Aliveandkick8 bless. Yes they think of people in terms of “what can I get out of this person/situation?” And I guess they think they can get something out of everyone because they’re nice to everyone - everyone but us lol
Yes, I'm 60 for a couple more weeks. I wasted years, money, crying. I. So happy now. Single. And doing well.
@@barbarawentzel6202 Good for you, Ms Barbara. May God bless you and heal you from within like the delicate flower that you are. With love and light my beautiful sister. 🙏 😘
@@barbarawentzel6202 i'm just realizing that my so called friend used me for years...i gave so much, just as you state here; what i can't seem to get over, is that i thought she was truly walking with Jesus Christ, as i am a follower of Jesus and i thought she and i shared as sisters and friends; she doesn't return phone calls or want to talk of what i so-called did wrong...i feel as if she shut me out of her life after all i did to help her. it hurts. all the time she listened and probably still does to her favorite Christian pastor? ...doesn't mean squat if you don't love your brother or sister as Christ commands us to.
7 years from my life gave to an narcissist, he just took his clothes and left without any excuse or explanation
hope he will regret badly in one day but in that day i won’t be there
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Loving all this Andrew - my biggest issue was to understand.
I had no idea what was going on and now I’m starting to piece everything together.
For me, a calm mind is brought about by clarity.
Thank you SO much.
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I forgot how it feels to express yourself to be you again. Without fear without shame.
I hope I can be you soon someday.
Sounds nice
Your allowed to feel my friend. That’s what I tell my friends.
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SPOT ON, BRUH....
And that's the precise moment Andrew, when you look the Narc SQUARE DAB IN THE EYE......as you say to them, "Now, from this point forward, you will search for me in everyone that you meet.....but I assure you......you will NEVER FIND ME!
Thank you Dennis.. you are certainly correct 💯💯💯.. there is only one of us 🙌☀️🙏
God proved to me just what a GREAT protector He truly IS
@@joanharvey9013 Allows us to go in. pulls us out when we didnt know we were in.
Rescued for better things eh, Joan
@@stephenrandall484 ABSOLUTELY got that right, took the words right out of my mouth.👍🏽
I’m in the beginning stages of leaving after 31 years. Tensions rose a bit today, but he quickly retreated when he realized how absolutely serious I am. I caught him off guard. He has never seen me so stern, firm and calm at the same time. I texted my sister and finally told her the hell I’ve been living. I had to reach out and tell someone, someone needs to be aware what’s going on in case the arguments intensify. He’s lying low thinking this will all blow over in a couple days. In the meantime I’m getting my duckies all lined up.
Thank you for this video. Once I realized what has truly been going on I felt a peaceful, calm feeling rush through my body. It blew my mind when I started looking deep inside my self, wondering what is wrong with me, and it went full circle back to him. I’m continuing to work on my mental health every day. Im not perfect, but damn, I do not deserve this!
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DEAR Shelby
Bless you're ❤. May GOD GRANT you Your HEARTS desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE Sweetheart in JESUS NAME With MUCH LOVE ❣️ from somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏 GOD BLESS 🙏
DEAR Shelby
Bless you're Sweet ❤️
Hope you're doing well today.from Somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏 Be strong in the LORD LOVE.God Bless 🙏
what’s crazy is after everything i would still take her back hoping she would change
That's really crazy how we all were in the exact same relationship.. we suffered alone thinking that our situation was one of a kind unique, yet while we all endured narcisisstic abuse and strong trauma-bond. I'm so glad we all got out of this and made it to the other side. I'm glad we gained the knowledge and I really hope that all the people who suffer from the same thing right now will find their answers eventually. Thank you for the video!
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So true! Love and blessings your way
My journey of discovery has just begun. Please keep me in your prayers
I agree. Same here. I was pushed to the brink. Now I’m free
I am in the process of getting safety away from a narcissistic, it is slowly becoming dangerous for me so I am learning from you the tools I need to break this unhealthy friendship so I can be free to safely move on with my life.
Thank you your posts are crucial to my future survival.
It is eye-opening once you know. And like you said you can’t unsee it once you know. And then they know that you know. Then comes the grieving process, the death of the life you thought you had, the realization you are alone, that no one will ever truly understand what you’ve endured. And the time and energy that you’ve wasted. And then after you’ve cried until you thought you would turn yourself inside out, the strength will come. It will come in waves, mixed with the grief. And your mind will start to clear and you will start to make plans in your mind to move forward. And this will all be jumbled up for a while. I’m going through it now. And the narc will try to Hoover you in their pathetic, clumsy, immature way. But you can see right through them now. And the plans for your life of peace and joy will start to form in your mind and with help of God Almighty you will walk out of the hell that you walked into, as an innocent babe in the woods. And you will emerge a fully formed being, still a loving, kind human being, but now full of wisdom. God bless you all.
Welcome to the community violetgypsie.. this is a beautiful message and so accurate.. thank you 🙏 🙌🙏.. I appreciate your kindness and support
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you for bring your honesty and love to all those who have walked on these burning coals disguised as lush meadows. May God bless you and keep you all your days.
Beautiful message!🌺
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@@enlightenedone7083 Jesus is The Way, The Truth and The Light. God bless you.
Beautifully said and perfectly accurate.
God bless you Andrew they never cared at all when your gone is when they learn they can’t ever abuse you again
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Thank God it’s behind me! You cannot have a relationship with a void..
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“They are always looking for that one thing they will never have….wow.” They seriously will never be satisfied. I remember saying how I felt like I wasn’t good enough, even if I did EXACTLY what he claimed he wanted….It was NEVER enough.
Scary to know that as much as I tried…it was never going to be enough. This shit hurts
Yes my friend it's very painful. I'm sorry your hurting...I am hurting too. Stay strong. What feels foreign to us now will become easier.
It is true, all that you have written. But, do not underestimate the impact they had in us. We were their fantasy and they reflected that fantasy, the better version of us unto us.
We too will never have that feeling again, I think.
i heard that even if they had brad pitt as a baby daddy and etc they would still not be satisfied and is true, if i that cooked for him, wash his clothes , helped him in every aspect i could, love animals, have a six pack and muscles , cause i love to work out, treated him nice, if that ( which is me ) wasnt enough, i doubt that avrage white mice he was supposely not cheating me with , wont ever be enough for him
They use ppl " as self objects" animals too, sadly.
Frantic Search for Happiness FSH. Bob thieme taught. Houston Texas great theologian. Now deceased but plentiful in his studies. Free booklets but I donate.
“On one of their three cell phones.” Hahaha! So true!
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I learned about narcissists around 15 years ago. More recently, I learned a lot about addicts/addictive personalities. It seems that narcissism goes hand in hand with addictive personality. Addicts think a certain way, they have no internal dialogue and they are totally materialistic. They think in delusional cycles where they tell themselves lies, conjuring a delusional act that will satisfy them, then feeling remorse afterwards, it is a cycle, they like it.
What i learned is that they know exactly what they are doing, they know why they do it, and they just do not care.
Once I realized how narcissists operate, how they think, then I realized, i never do these things, they are foreign to me.
Then I realized that i have a very robust inner dialogue, I started studying stoicism and it has really enriched my life even further.
I share this as a path for non addictive personalities to be the most joyful they can be, in a world totally adjusted in every way FOR addicts/addictive personalities.
i might get banned for my comment, its ok, telling the truth is bad these days.
After 23 years together married for 18 getting a divorce. Omg the things this man did is just so so hurtful and burning our marriage to the ground, the manipulation and lies and gaslighting, the smear campaign I called the police now I am non- verbal and at peace with it.
Hurting a lot especially for our beautiful family overall better now than when I get older. These individuals are horrible, they have no empathy, just a cold stone heart. 😢 thank you for your amazing insight Andrew.
Moving forward & looking forward not back.
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You’re not a victim, you’re a good person who someone bad targeted…that isn’t on you, it’s on them and their issues they can’t deal with ❤
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Exactly! They chose you. They targeted you because they saw something good in you. You had every trait they lacked.
I gave him 5 years of my life a living hell, he never appreciated me, I even helped him after getting his own place but he just took it for granted I got tired and left and didn’t look back
Welcome Tabithia.. that is the only way to be.. moving forward not looking back 💯
Thank you so so so much. We are beautiful. We are stronger than ever. What darkness meant for evil we turned into gold! Onward for healing humanity, starting with our own hearts. Alchemy. We choose love always and that is the greatest freedom!
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i’m only 22 so it’s not such a big deal in the grand scheme of things but in this period of my time i can only thank you and whoever else that have made videos like this. it really felt like i couldn’t talk or even understand the way i was treated. thank you for making a video like this specifically ive really been fighting these mental battles overcoming the trauma that was in my past from my relationship. truly thank you because you have no idea how many people this will reach and touch and help them grow stronger
Welcome..💜🙏😌
Trauma bonding at its worst.
No contact is the strongest boundary and the wisest and most effective form of self protection from narcissistic abuse in a romantic relationship... and the beginning of healing the heart, mind, spirit and body. That is healthy self love. You now have the space, time and distance to begin again.... though perhaps not the peace of mind ... not for a while.
A devastating lesson that had to be learnt...and now importantly, apply that lesson by changing your own patterns of behaviour so that it never happens again. There is no shame in seeking cognitive therapy to recognise your own cognitive dissonance... and to help you learn new behaviours, let go of constant rumination and rebuild your esteem, self belief , self trust.. and authentic self.
Always remain vigilant so that you do not repeat the past. Recognise your own contributing behaviour without guilt or shame.
Truly let go and move forward fearlessly in the light of your own sovereignty. 💛
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That is very nicely put. I totally had to look at why I got entangled in such a mess that was my marriage which ended 4 years ago, and not a minute too soon. I work on myself every day, learning as much as I can, knowledge is power, I understand now and I forgive myself. I became a horrible human being in order to protect myself. Eventually I left because I knew that one of us were going to die if I stayed. And more than anything else... I saved my children.
Amen. 10 years of marriage. He even tried to gaslight me into a nursing home by hiding my stuff and tried to convince me I had Alzheimer's so he could get everything, which he got 75%. I got my life after he threatened to kill me. But he died last year and I am still here. Thank you God.
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They’re disgusting and despicable and know no boundaries, and thrive on making you believe that you’re stupid and useless. So happy that you got away! ❤❤❤
Sorry this happened to you!
omg girl!! I want to give you a 🤗 hug
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They didn't think of u bc they reflected on their wrong doings nor was it ever bc they are remorseful...or have a conscience. They think of u for their own selfish gain, simply bc they cannot lose...their appetite to win cannot be satisfied when u walk away...their desire to validate their own self worth and boost their ego spur them to think of ways to get u back and if they succeed, it confirms to them they are best at it. It feels good knowing they can always get u where they wanted... manipulating u. It makes them feel powerful, smart. Their pride and ego were hurt bc u left them, hence getting u back means they still have power over u. They are very disillusioned ppl. They cannot believe someone can actually walk away from them and still harbor hope of getting under your skin as long as u allow it...but believe me, u aren't the only one he's trying to get. While trying to get u back, u aren't the one getting 100% of their attention...they are also trying to get fresh supplies or even old supplies b4 u. They cannot be bored or alone. They are unlike normal ppl, they are always seeking...b4 u came along, while with u and immediately after losing u. They know no pain. They don't feel hurt like we do.
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God bless! Steer clear from those people, you can rebuild your life much better !
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I had an ex wife that was a narcissist. She was evil. I went through the episode of her dropping her mask after our kids were born . I went through her lies, gaslighting her inability io show empathy for others the whole bit. I will never allow another human being to devalue me ever again. I now have so much peace and joy in my life and it is unmeasurable. Luckily I still have a wonderful relationship with my kids in spite of their mother constantly trying to sabotage our relationship. I feel like a man that’s been falsely accused of a crime and found to be innocent and has been set free!
EXACTLY the same story here. Germany, 2 wonderful daughters that love me yet she will always do everything to complicate or sabotage the few times we (girls and me) get to spend whole days together.
She positioned herself as victim very well, with most of her family serving her.
Really she is crazy like in the Hollywood films, no empathy but intelligence and an outstanding sadism that's scary.
She just misuses her children like everyone else in her life. Tells me she needs to "protect the kids" from me.
Amazing stuff, I get so tired of her sickness sometimes.
All the best
Your words resonate with me.happy for you man 🙏🏼
26 yrs marriage. 3 children. I kept journals from 1st year of marriage. Total mind f**k. In cycles. I didn’t know about narcissism & the real definition until I couldn’t take anymore, deep resentment for this person. sought out a therapist in another town.
My narcissist ex was a psychiatrist.
Damn, you took the words right out my mouth
I went through the same thing. I could of written your post. The wife walked out on the kids and me. She hooked up with her boyfriend. When she realized that the boyfriend was an alcoholic and on dialysis, she tried to come back. I said No and she declared war on all of us. The kids are grown now and have their own homes. I recovered from the divorce and was able to retire five years ago. Life is peaceful and drama free.
I left my narccissitic abusive ex-boyfriend six years ago. I'm still healing emotionally and mentally. I told him, "You are NOT going to destroy me!!" And he didn't. He'll never have a woman that loves him more than I did. His loss. Today I'm shining!
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Exactly
You shine,move forward,be healthy and safe!
FYI. He doesn´t know love so not his loss because he has no idea nor will ever have what love is. You just think that he did because he projected it on you. Was just a game for him.
@@dominiquedismuke620 feel u. If you have some self worth and love yourself you have to get out asap. Life is short dont waste it.
Imagine saying your ability to feel and love is sooooo much more advanced like it's bigger than the stars. Seems a bit too full of love, to say your love is unimaginably large. Seems unreal.
I always question if I was the problem, and I find it so hard to accept that my own ability of self reflection is evidence I wasn’t. This video really helped me to identify just how subtly yet insidiously I was controlled and made to ‘play a part’ rather than be an equal party in a loving relationship. I still wish her the very worst, and I aspire one day to feel sorry for her.
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Don't live with hate in your heart
Ask Gid to remove that energy out of your heart
My therapist keeps telling me that I’m not a narcissist because I question if it is me that’s the problem. She said, narcissist are unable to reflect.
ALL of this now makes 100% sense to me. 3 years later and I still can't believe I let myself go through that hell.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you, I can see that from these comments. I feel for those that have spent their lifetime dealing with this.
Try 30 💔❤️🩹
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I boxed heavy for British army, no man would take me for a ride, my ex wife, all 8 stones of her drove me crazy. We are not alone 👍
This was my mantra when i got discarded; “You aren’t going to break me; you are going to make me”!
STRONG! Is what they’ll make you!!!
Beautiful message Cheryl 💪☀️🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you! I don’t know why I stumbled on your video; whoa. Thank you!!!!
Thanks a lot Cheryl 🙏
Aman and Aman!
Fight for eternal strength
Thank you. She was a stroke victim. Felt my intuition & was wrong, manipulated. The 24 hour silent treatment on the second occasion flipped me. I was a sucker. No more. 💜
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I was dealing with a narcissist not even knowing it for 1yr and almost 7 months,in the beginning I was all roses ,then 3 months into the relationship everything fell apart 💔,I tried really hard to maintain the relationship but I saw an ugly pattern ,one minute he treats me right,all of the sudden his arguing with me for no reason or petty reasons,he played me ,what I would call the ping pong effect ,my emotions was all over and I became drained and ill,the things he says and do,all the red flags,eventually I gave up and he moved on 2 weeks later with another woman ,his had 4 relationships since 2021 till 2024 ,I was 7yrs single before I met him ,I'm still healing,but wont date anytime soon,yet I'm relieved and in a better headspace.
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I was married for 3 and half years and I knew I had to get out before I grew old and unhappy, I spent a year in my room crying, thank you so much for this video. I’m sorry for the pain everyone here went through
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A year... I've got about 6 months to do. I know I'm doing better each day but if I could rush this grieving and healing process instead of do the hard work I should would.
Soo glad that you’re doing better!!😊
So sorry , you went thru that , but so glad you got away and are doing better …
@Shell m I'm also at the same place and not able to see the future. Hoping to gather all my strength again and leave
So true. And once we leave, they like to twist things and blame us for the relationship not working. They never ever take ownership of the damage they did. Good luck to the future supply, she will be hurting too.
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My ex wife blamed me for her leaving for another man.What da heck???!!
@@digidrum2003 yes, it's never their fault... we CAUSE their problems, always us.
I ended things with my him yesterday, he just keep saying that I’ve changed that’s why the relationship isn’t working out. He wouldn’t apologize to things he’s done in the past, instead he keep gaslighting me and twisted the reality
@@cyndiatseng9999 😔😔😔
Was dealing with this with my baby mother . I did things I wasn’t proud of in the relationship but she did a lot of things as well in the relationship and I was willing to look past all the pain she put me threw for the sake of my child but it was just the same thing everything was about her and only her . Not once did she ever say sorry about the things she did either . Never took accountability for anything . Fellas it’s gonna hurt for a couple months I’m not gonna lie to you but once your set free ? You will be so much happier in life .
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My ex fiancee is a narcissist, I left her and went no contact a little over a year later she contacted my Mom… I got rid of social media all together. I’m finally in a healthy place. Thank you for this Video 🙏🏽
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I really needed to hear this. I am breaking away from a Narcissist. You can give them all the love and understanding in you and it will never be enough. Nothing you say or do will be good enough. Protect your soul and peace.
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While I’m going through my healing process, I’m going to listen to this over and over. It’s so therapeutic to me. The narc does not know what they have created in me. They’ve created a super human who will be better than before. Thanks for sharing with us.
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Brilliant Comments. Thank You.👏
Me, too.
@@0annonymous can you recommend a good digital journal
Love your personal take on the disorder. Yes you’re hitting on all the points that were on my mind!!!
I am a survivor of a nine month relationship with this girl- didn’t know what it was and once I got clarity wow I cured myself very fast. Many relationships don’t go anywhere but what’s devastating about a narcissist relationship is that the victim is actually VERY attracted to the narcissist physically emotionally and that’s where the problem lies- it’s just not easy to say goodbye
Interesting how when you step away from the relationship and reflect back on it you can understand what was going on
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At the age of 59 I realised my mother is a narcissist. I've completely cut off all contact after she went way to far in an attempt to destroy me. Thanks to my psychologist.i only last year what I've been dealing with. I now have PTSD. In recovery.
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Along with so many other things, above all else, a relationship with a narcissistic is a learning experience.
Absolutely correct 🙏🙌💯
They are our best teacher
So true! If we don't work hard at understanding how we got into such a mess, we almost can't fail to do it again. Very scary thought!
Agreed 👍
Thank you for this. 23 years together 21 married. He was a covert narc. I never knew what a narcissist was. I learnt the hard way, noticing patterns, he spoilt every celebration. Christmas , birthdays and holidays, withdrew love and affection for many years. He had a pain killer addiction, depressed and hand terrible mood swings. I fought hard in my business , providing a lovely home, weekends away which he ruined, holidays abroad which he took for granted. We have two beautiful teenage boys who did well at school. I did all the house work, provided a happy loving home and he ruined it. I couldn’t understand why. Gaslighting was he’s specialty, I felt unheard and irrelevant. How cruel can someone be. He’s last words were, you a lovely person but you don’t exist. 9 months out, I don’t need revenge but if something exists above I hope he goes to hell.
Welcome Lindsay.. thank you for sharing this.. I appreciate your honesty.. I know you did everything you mentioned and more.. my hope is you are improving and moving forward.. 🙌☀️.. one day at a time 🙌
Now that he’s separated from you , that karma is coming, stay strong and safe
I feel you sister… nearly identical/word for word..
But If it’s any consolation…Their life is already a living hell. They are a gaping black hole trying to filler their false self which can never be satiated.. they are completely cut off from source/life force energy/Creator/God…
They cannot self generate which is why they must suck and drain the life force from us.
They will never know peace. That is hell in my book.
23 here too, 3 teenage sons also, 19 married
Constant stress and cycle of devalue
Same scenarios, sister! I’m out 2 years this week.
On the mend
Same. She ruined every birthday, Christmas, holiday, family event.
She nearly ruined me but she underestimated my resolve. The same resolve I put into staying, I now put into my recovery. In the words of Arnie “I’ll be back”. 😀
My mother is a covert narcissist. I was 39 when i realized it. I hadn’t seen her more than a couple times since I was 20 but my sister still lives near her. She came to live with me at 39. I threw her out of my house within 4 weeks. It got ugly and was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. It gives me a whole new life understanding of what my empath sister is still dealing with.
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6 months later and it is as if the last 7 years are a blur. 99.9% healed and recovering each and every minute :)
We grow through what we go through, you can't heal what you cover and conceal. The process is painful, but hang in there, each day it will get easier. Invest that energy in your healing process.
Merry Christmas and prepare for a Blessed Toxic Free New Year!
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