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If you're having trouble dealing with your problems go talk to a professional that can help you work that stuff out!
But they are way too expensive!!! I don't even earn that much
Or start lifting weights boys and tightening your diet. I've noticed dramatic changes in my moods and how I handle things when I'm lifting weights and sticking to my diet, I'm currently getting back into the gym and tuning my diet so I can be a better man.
@@Fuzzycap then lift weights bro!!!
Nobody cares period. I blame burn out and overworking contributing to American Psychos
@@Fuzzycap try to find a group in your local area (or start one?), I know AA groups will have like tangent groups for people with other problems to talk, it's super helpful to just listen to other people, and how they cope with their situations. And even more if you are able to talk about your own.
This video dropped at the PERFECT time in my life. I’ve had, probably the worst year of my life, and this holiday season is making me realize that I’m not bouncing back as quickly as I have in the past. I’ve been dealing with some pretty insane emotions this year, but oddly enough, they aren’t exactly alien to me. I’ve been here before, but this time the emotions are WAY more intense. It’s almost like I’m breaking. I’m finally starting to crack. I think therapy is the only way I can reverse this trend, and I’d probably better hurry up! 😂 Thanks again, I needed this today.
Hey man, such a strong move to realize you need help, try to find a group, or someone you can talk to sooner, than later, you can make it out of this predicament, Buddy.
I agree, because you’re aware of what’s going on, than you’re gonna better than fine, I think it’s because winter and holidays are coming up and subconsciously we know we’re not gonna have the warmth in the bed, the coziness of a partner so i get it bro.. it sucks
Good luck bro 🖤🖤🏹🏹🏹
I just watched 20 minutes last night of that "Stults" I think movie with Jonah Hill. It was good what I seen but your comment reminded me of those first 20 minutes.
@@kylewashington1841 "Stutz", whoa that looks like such a great documentary, just watched the trailer.
I'm a father of two preemies, twin baby boys. I have always felt good talking about my emotions, but nobody cared, or I was made fun about it, so I stopped to talk about them. That made me feel like a fish in tank, free to a certain point, because men don't cry.. I'm gonna break that cycle that my father couldn't, and make my sons swim in a see of emotions, because this is not a good life, it is like living without colors.
Thanks Dorian, I like your videos, and your content, can relate with you on so much topics. Keep them going!
Software engineer with lots of emotional shit :D
I know what you've been through. I'm a father of two, a boy and a girl. Try to find some balance between emotion and reason. No question: men are born to be less emotional and more logical while women are the opposite. When you have a man being too emotional then you have a weak man. When you have a woman trying to be too logical, you have a weak woman. As I said before, try to get some balance.
I plead with you NOT to raise your boys to 'swim in a sea of emotions'. They will be lambs to the slaughter.
@@TruthHurts907 Most dangerous man is a good man, who can manage his emotions.
If you never swim in sea of emotions you will never learn to fight with deep sea sharks of your character.
So my friend, my twins, they may be a predator if they choose to be, but never a lamb.
i've been fighting this shit for years and it's so hard but hearing someone else talk about their problems does help motivate me to keep fighting.
Thanks for the video! I’ve been going to therapy the last 8 years and it changed my life! Finally quit smoking cigs and drinking alcohol (was necessary for me, nothing personally against it). I’ve regained health, run/hike/gym weekly, on a new career path now, and new connection with people, myself and nature. Game changer that I feel we (especially men) need these days. Just want to echo your video that if these are things someone out there desires, it’s possible and you don’t have to live bottled up! Thanks!
I have talked to people and I have talked to therapists, but nothing and nobody can help me. I am beyond help and I think that I might check out soon.
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
Showing vulnerability isn’t weakness
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Bro, lately I’ve been struggling with getting past the “no emotion”, my dad was Force Recon in the Marines, I was raised around the military, and joined it myself. I lost my mom in 2015 and I’ve been trying to tear down that mindset since, she was the only one I was able to talk to. I’ve been getting teary eyed recently since I’m watching my “hero’s” (most recent was Robbie Coltrane) pass away and knowing the world has gotten a little bit darker. It’s been a rough 7 years man.
I feel you bro. I am in a similar situation.
Thanks Dorian, I was just talking to my gf yesterday about how I believe many of my problems stem from my escapism, and how I use many/any addictions to numb my mind/distract myself. What's worked in the past to stop the buzzing in my mind has been AA (even though I'm too shy to talk, even in the zoom meetings), and getting into healthy hobbies. I hope everyone dealing with things can find healthy outlets.
Keep making these videos man, your channels going to explode even more than it already has. Keep being real, you are literally helping save other people's LIVES, not just livelihoods. This is huge.
Hands down one of my favorite videos. I'm 35 and remember the man up bs. You are helping alot of people with your transparency. The name change is fitting btw.
I would say many of us care. Speak to younger generations of women and this is a huge issue to us. Telling men to shut up and bottle up their feelings is the real toxic masculinity. You may feel alone but there are people who do care about you and your well being. We are your mothers, sisters, wives, etc and we don't think it's ok to expect men to suffer in silence.
Yeah. Some do care but most pack up and leave when their husbands get depressed. I'm lucky to have my wife supporting me. I have bouts of depression and PTSD. It's pretty hard. It's something we can't control. Keep supporting men on their issues. It's a way of healing.
Yes i thing the most woman care about that but they dont go on social media and scream" I CARE ABPUTE MENS PROBLEMS "
Who are these people cuz they def don't exist in my eyes.
No one cares. Not a single soul. At least for me lol
you cannot vulnerable with women nowadays she will take it as weak that just how it is maybe not you but most will
Before watching: THANK YOU. This is a coding/programming related channel but to use your platform to talk about this..Huge Respect to you!
I appreciate that you share something with us throughout your journey. Because like it or not people do make joke of men when we cry or fell demotivated ; they don't solve our problems but try motivate us by narrating few words and hope that we will have a drastic change from that movement.
I feel bad that fathers of previous generations encouraged this. Some mothers backed up their husbands on this as well. I'm a woman, but I talk with my bf about this often.
They came from harder times. We have it easy thanks to them, which is why we can focus on this stuff, but we should not forget to be grateful for what the previous generations have built.
Also, many girls can't stand emotional men. They think they want their men to open up, but then use what was shared in weakness to exploit and backstab; or they lose attractiveness for their partner. Not everyone, of course, but there's countless stories out there.
A man learns early his cries for help will mostly go unanswered.
@@mrknarf4438 It would be better for you to stop reading various stories "out there" and concentrate on getting professional help yourself. You're buying into narratives that are ironically self-isolating. The truth is much simpler, that there are assholes of every kind, woman or man.
@@mrknarf4438 I mean if you yell out into the wind, they will go unanswered. But speaking to licensed professionals is the point of this video. Visiting a therapist whether in person or virtually will help tremendously vs bottling it up and possibly leading to suicide
@@mrknarf4438 It's not about being fed , If somebody was treated badly and traumatized in his childhood , Will end dying on the streets eventually , I can tell you that their parents and the generations before them were much more merciful because I have met my grandparents and knew them well .
Nothing to do with fathers. The fact that you would insinuate this is just testament of how ignorant society is.
Dont even pretend like you care, just dont.
It's not funny, it's not amusing, it's not cool.
As life says I just wanted to take a moment to express my authentic appreciation for the video you created. The way you were able to tell a story and evoke emotions through the real stories was great. Great job 4 BEING REAL!
Whether your 45+ yr old raising kids, working a shit job or being a doordasher. Or a 20 yr old that doesn't have skills and is wasting there life; Your special. Your not alone. Men all over the world and especially the U.S. go thru the same thing
Before u think about giving up. Talk to someone. Maybe a stranger who is going thru the same thing, or someone that can relate and maybe give advice. If your working hard everyday to reach goals. Whatever they may be, then your not a failure.
Thanks for making this video man appreciate you and I hope things are well with you!
I’m a Cuban-American and I talk tell that I’m not a super macho , I take it relax , I express myself openly without any problem . The point is in the past people where different, the world were different, todays kids are different, every generation is different…. I’m proud of your courage to open yourself. Take care and doing what you’re doing ✅
this is the sad reality... and it doesn't get any better... But there's always something you can do to better the situation, just look around, act on it, and they will respect you for overcoming it. Nobody said it was gonna be easy... but we are Lions!
There's that macho bullshit again.
"HURR BRO GET OVER IT"
"HURR STOP BEING A PUSSY BRO"
it's all so tiresome
Then force them to respect it 🔫
Wow, appreciate it, Dorian. I thought you are just about Coding and freedom, but there's so much more about you. Thank you and good luck in helping people. You definitely helped me with this one🔥
That problem exists not only in Latin world. For example, here in my country Ukraine, I've met a lot of people that thinks that way. You can hear that especially from women and if you are not lucky and she IS YOUR woman, better run away from there bro, you don't need that shit. Not every man are strong enough to deal with that kind of pressure. Don't even argue with them, just go away.
This social mentality should be fixed, coz if broken people raise another broken people it doesn't help to make the world a better place. I'm glad you raises important topics like this. All love and peace.
So raw Dorian love it. When the tough times pile up and emotions hit you, it is time to OPEN UP. To every guy out there who feels alone in their fight for what ever that is, your situation is more common than you think it is. I felt better talking to a therapist who listened to my issues and gave honest advice and life improvement techniques. Get help guys!
This is sooo true!!!!
If you’re a man people might care but you’re only valued by what you accomplish
Great video! Lover that you made it, especially since this is such a taboo topic in society. It is too real! Have lost too many to this.
I started opening up around 14-20, Im at 22 now and Ive just stopped, opening up to people around me has done nothing but caused me to be ridiculed and looked at with disdain or disgust lol
I’ll hear your problems I’m not like other people I have the same problem man.
dude, please remember that your problems are valid. nobody deserves to be ridiculed when they are at the lowest point in their life. you matter. ❤
Do not open up much to people, people would use it for their benefit. Not always, but in many of the cases, you just can't take the chances.
That's the reality of this bro, nobody really cares. Never open up to a women, only a male friend or professional. Chanel that frustration into something positive, for me it's the gym
I really like this kind of videos, where you open up and speak your truth. It’s not easy to talk about those topics in front of a camera but trust me, it’s important for many people to know that they’re not the only ones struggling with real issues and trauma. Each person has his/ her own history and everyone has de ability to change they’re life for better. I wish you continue creating content like this because is necessary for all of us to listen to other people’s stories and use it like an inspiration.
There's much more important things to being a man than "being strong". My man is always there for me, he always finds the positive in things, he's thoughtful, and he works hard. He's also a great father 😊 (but now I'm just bragging lol). I'm sorry there's so much pressure on y'all to be something other than human.
Dory, we were talking about Andrology. It is the science that study strict men's diseases.
Men tried in the past to be ''Hell of a Men!'' not realizing that it has downside.
Violence in school has risen among men, not women. In female prisons, there's no violence almost at all. But among men, well you watch prisons movies and series. So this male curse was ignored in the name of masculinity. For example, origin of male sexual drive was never researched, so as origin of male promiscuity! Someone has to start search! GOOD VIDEO!
Respect the honesty
Thank you for sharing. It was very brave of you to discuss this topic. I hope this video reaches an abundant amount of people in need of it.
Man, this was RAW. But I'm glad you put it out there.
Men, when they were boys, generally recieved the message of 'shut up and put up', either directly or indirecly; at least in my culture. Not complaining about it so much because I guess it existed because boys were expected to grow up and be tough to the world. And at least, in the environment I grew up in, you adopt the 'don't talk about your pain' attitude. I used to be so proud of not going to the doctor for years. I changed attitude a few years ago, and among the wake up calls were last year when I was feeling groggy all of the time and somewhat depressed. A visit to the GP showed up I was very low in Vitamin D.
I initially made the appointment because I was having some significant skin issues some weird symptoms inside my body and started to get scared that it might be an underling 'cancer' thing or something, so I went to get bloodword done and also had my testes examined because guys have been notorious in not getting checked in that area. I was terrified while waiting for the appointment; of course nobody I knew knows this because you know 'shut up and put up'. And that's just the physical side - the mental health side is much more taboo. We've really got to take care of ourselves.
I went through 6 therapists in one year. My friend reached out for help & he lost everything for it, even his life. Everybody says the same shit; reach out for help, don't struggle alone, don't take that last step, but nobody realizes that they're repeating each other, requoting the same generic responses.
Nobody listens, nobody understands, nobody cares & they never will. That's not depression or ideations talking, *it's the truth.*
Thanks for sharing brother. So real and vulnerable. You’re brave :)
I relate to you a lot, I have a lot of similar issues that you have had, I started my code career in my 30s and I used to be a hardcore WoW PVP guy
i can no longer trust anyone, not even myself. my problems, i will take them to the grave. no one needs to bear my burdens. no one needs to share my pain. my weakness i shall not expose. my demons forever caged within. the world is dark and i am blind, but at least no one else is here to suffer with me. better to suffer alone. even better yet to fade into the darkness where there is no more sadness, no more pain. listen to dorian, talk to a professional. don't become like me. it is already too late for me.
Matthew 11:28-29 - Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls
Good one person who understand he have failed themselves
Probably not in your target demographic, but super appreciating the realness of your content right now! :)
Love you dude, the honesty is priceless !
Dorian, thanks for every upload. You teach, inspire, motivate and alot more. Your a vessel from God. I noticed you removed your 'Relapse Video'. I understand there were many who didn't like it and saw it as unnecessary. Those are just surface level thinkers. It really hit home and resonate with alot of ppl.
I know u may second guess yourself when you upload a video that's not about coding and talking about life. Trust me bro, there just as important. I listen to you like a podcast 2hrs into my shift before we open up. Keep doing you! Thanks a million! Much love brother✊️
Thank you Dorian
I recommend the "guided meditation on the four noble truths"
but yeah, therapy is important or some people willing to listen
No one out there to help me!!! Been trying for 5 or so years wife,family,friends work.. just laughed at more!! Its like they want me dead!!!! As for mental health professionals well all they did was put more obstacles in my way which gave the people above more ammunition to attack me!!!
Kudos for raising the topic ! Thank you !
The only tech youtuber i know, who shares darkest times. May you continue to be an inspiration.
This is quickly evolving to be one of my favorite youtube channels ever
Thank you for this
I'm autistic, with bipolar II and Complex PTSD. I'm also gay, so you can imagine the crap I've endured! Thank you so much for posting this. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to get help and then encourage other men to do that, too. We need more guys like you. I'm in my 40s and it's very encouraging to hear you younger men being honest with yourselves and everyone else.
Just bottle it up. I have sisters, mother, brothers with worse problem. Sometime you just have to put the loved ones before yourself. Hopefully you can keep it up. Who should be the strong one if you are the strongest you know, on the outside atleast...
But When we have self respect for ourselves we get called narcissists
Thanks a lot society 🙄
Well put. Stay strong brothers, talk to someone!
Haven't even watched the video yet.
Just have to say your thumbnail game is insane; consistent 10/10s.
Great video and great advice i wish a lot of people would really understand about mental health now and days
Yooo, Cuban dev here. Nice to see another one like me out there!
Hey. Appreciate you sharing. Me and you are from the old school. I perfer it that way for myself. It is important that men share this kinda of stuff so that doing something human like being in touch with emotions of yourself is important not to bottle them me. You can still be a man an be in touch with your self. good video. appreciate your channel and all the subjects it touches on.
Mental health is so vital.
Keep on conveying your message and experiences.
Thanks Dorian!!
Love the video
I immediately recognized myself in this video thanks Dorian
Αll human beings (men, women, straight, gay, young, old), have problems and vulnerabilities, and it is absolutely ok to have problems and issues! We don't live in a perfect world, why should we be perfect??
Bc if men are werent good and dud their job the world shouldn't exist today as we know it
@@Cheesycat0
Don't let society affect you
I disagree with men being emotional, I always thought I was depressed until I started setting goals and putting myself to work and a lot of that has to do with suppressing your emotions.
Nope. Suppressing emotions is bad. Keeping it under control is different. Talking to someone who will listen is the right way to do it
@GoldenOracle64 no one will. They do it do so they can it ageins u and ruin u even more. Just learn to ignore emotions until u are just useless and just end it there
Don't bottle up emotions
The Tank may explode
I don't understand how someone can dislike this video. ❤❤
FRankly what frustrates me is your answer: "go and talk to a professional." That is bullshit. It should be "come and talk to me". If men opened up, mutually trusted each other tank talked about their problems, like - you know - friends!, that would probably help a lot and make professionals unneccessary in many cases.
I mean think about it, how shitty a deflection it is. Some dude tells you how shit things are and you just say "go see a shrink, don't bother me with it." I know, this is a bit of a projection here but this is how it sounds, frankly.
MEN NEED SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS. Actual ones. And sitting there together, fishing, and not talking for 6 hours is already a form of male bonding and relaxation, just imagine how fruitful it could be to mutually let the guard down and talk.
It's not just a male problem. We get away from the situation that women simply expect men to function. Yes it's great to have our solid rock that we can lean on and that helps with all our usual confidence problems. But it's time for women (and men) to acknowldege that the difference between men and women is not so big at all and in the end we're both just human and need a shoulder to cry on and reassure us sometimes. It's not a female need. its a human need.
That requires far more change on the women’s end than stated. Most men here can tell you the only woman that ever truly cared for them was their mother(if that)…after that they became a bearded resource and that’s it. We are sized up by what we provide, not by our existence. Therefore when we are closed-off people think we are providing security (strength), and when we are open people think we are providing insecurity (weakness). It’s harder than you are saying…
Women can’t even be comfortable with MRA’s bringing awareness to abortion, family court custody rights, domestic violence, and prison rape. I see plenty male feminists, but not even a handful of female MRA’s.
@@TallGlass-fh8qf Well said! You both are correct.
Catriona. Well said! you both are correct.
Hi, thanks@@Alazar654 apologies if this reply is too pessimistic…but being correct doesn’t matter if it isn’t practical enough. Though I agree with the OP, respectfully, it reads more as valid thoughts turned into wishful thinking rather than valid thoughts turned into practical instrumentation. I mean well in saying this.
@@TallGlass-fh8qf I do actually agree. Much of what I said, might as well be wishful thinking. I stated what I think would be needed, but I am neither optimistic that that change will happen on a big scale.
We can try to make a difference on a small scale though, maybe.
I am too old to still believe that campaigning for big scale social change actually works.
Thank you You have no idea how much that helps Thank you
People blame fathers, but the mothers were far more guilty. They did this to us.
Just remember who stay on your side when everybody left . Yes and I mean who stay on my side is wieghts in my gym .
Yeah I think it's true no one cares for the most part. Only about how useful you can be which sucks but I've learned to accept it.
ARE U CUBAN?! Holy shit! never noticed!... anyways, great video !! lots of older men are stepping up to show how healthy a man can be.
I was thinking that this was no longer just a “coding” channel lol now I guess it’s confirmed with the name change.
Therapy is not solving actual problems!
I do care. So if anyone ever needs to talk, shoot me a message
Its not just that they 'will look weak'. Its moreso no one gives a damn about how a man feels or wants to listen to what they have to say so they bottle up. Seems the only logical choice.
Exactly. Men have been tricked to believe we are supposed to compete for the “alpha position” so much that we don’t feel safe confiding in each other cause other males will think we are “beta”. And women simply don’t care about our problems because they think feelings make you feminine, so they look at you as if you’re losing manhood as soon as you act human.
This is what I've been saying as well. Its obvious, and is very sad.
I don't think most of the RUclips self-improvement guys out there focused on men are that good, but some of them are, and they help people. I wouldn't generalize that, and you will also have to notice that even though we need to suck it up sometimes, and that's ok as well. We are missing good brotherhood that we can be ourselves and share that burden, more than going to therapists. Also, we are missing good manhood as well, so we are biologically designed to suck it up, but as i understand we need a middle ground on this and i agree with you. Deny our manhood (I am not saying you said that) but one of the points that is increasing our mental health issues as a man is that saying we are worthless, we are bad, we are toxic and all that modern shit that's been for far too long about 100 years.
Btw, something I've noticed as well is that many "trans women" (men that become women) are created because of this issue, we as men, have. Some of us (well them, 'cause I'm not a trans) think that if only women can express their feelings and talk about mental health openly, then it's better to become a women. This is what a trans friend of mine told me and I get it.
And then there's me, whoe doesn't care that much about costumes and talk about my mental health to my friends from time to time, they look at me like I'm a weirdoo but the situations become hella funny.
that is....not how this works. People dont "become" trans to be able to talk about their feelings without getting told "man up". Also you don't "become" trans.
@@acreativename2781 I mentioned what my friend told me, I can't really say for sure.
@@acreativename2781 you do become trans its absolutely encouraged by and large in the west. Why do you think theres are more boys that feel like girls, than girls that feel like boys? We live in a decadent world that caters to the female mindstate, young boys see young girls get treated like queens before they accomplish anything... Then you see divorce all over the place on steroids, its seems like a better deal for young boys to get some of that "female treatment" by becoming gay or "trans". There are studies coming out that def backs up you are not born "gay"
@@acreativename2781 It's not the norm but it can be a thing lol
How many trans women are crushing it in sports for example?
There's a lot of motivations. You'd be naive to think that some people don't do that
Oh god, I dont have the stamina for this rn 🙄
There's nothing weak about a man having emotions. People need to stop making men feel like it's weak to express themselves. My father died 3 years ago I wept for days. My grandmother died I cried, my biological mother doesn't give a damn about me of course I feel hurt, she even told me she wish she had a abortion but I'm all man. Messsge to men it's okay to talk about your hurt, feel sad and even mad but lets find positive ways to cope. I pray God wipe my worldly tears with his heavenly Kleenex. Even god wept at the sin of man, so if I was created in his image I have all his emotions. God bless all the men who are going through things. I always tell my son I love him, because I wish I tell my father I love him or hear him say I love you back but he's dead. 😭😭😭
Thanks for making this
Peeps don't care and never will. My biggest regret in life was opening up to people.
Dang, I'm sorry. I hear ya though....
Those people are horrible and aren't your friends
Find real friends
Naah i thought like that before but it didn't work. Talking téo a professional was even worst because most of them are female and they start to give you pills for no reason because they don't actually care about your problems. Every single time that i opened up to someone or have been vulnerable to anyone they judged me or used it as a weapon later on, their behaviour slightly changed. The less people know man the better it is. I started to live like i was alone and ffs it feels good to be a man and not give a fuck, when i have issues nobody knows , when i have a succes or a project nobody knows. I live a really private life and the less poeple know the more they like me for some reason lol.
People are strange, aren't they?
Thanks for opening up, bru :)
Neurodivergence can create problems for people in highly advantaged families and neighbourhoods.
Awesome vid
It so true there are no funds or resources for men when it comes to our depression, mental health, behaviors that comes from our childhood. If we lived in an abusive home whether it was physical, mental, sexual, spiritual. We are always told to walk it off, brush it off to the side. That why the prisons are filled with men of all colors and races. I'm 43 I have 5kids, 4 of my kids know me I was there for them not as much as I wanted to but I am fighting to get custody of them because they are living with in abusive grandma. It took me along time to get my act together. My other son knows of me but his mom was with a guy and that guy was dad to my son. I have tried many times to establish communication with my other son but the mom doesn't want me in his life at this moment because she feels I care more about my 4kids than him. It very complicated situation having one with one woman and having 4kids with another women but I try. My 4kids know of there brother and they have asked to see him. Hopefully they can someday. Anyway gid blessed the men and dads who are trying their hardest out there. Times are hard even more so for us
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I fucking love your video. I hear that you communicate well about your self and past . Also is what I am going through to change my mind to see my self as important as my two boys and wife. Big nutrition and fitness change coming holding my brother accountable to do it with me. Also enjoy your software engineering videos. I hope to change my job in 3 1/2 years. Also getting a adhd test and see therapist! Thanks for letting people know men are most likely to commit suicide! Bye ✌🏽 Miguel Ángel R. Out mic drop 🎤 make your self matter
amazing shit man! my biggest fear is someone hearing my story but my biggest wish is someone to accept my story. Contradicting i know right?
Great video man, need more men like ya.
I grew up in a Americanized biracial Latino family where none of us had Spanish last names or first names and very rarely any Spanish names, none of us are fluent in Spanish we 99% conversate in English, and too some that means our Native New Mexican Indian dna mixed inside with our Celtic blood is non existent because we don’t follow our cultures customs. But we have the blood
To be honest for my case totally opposite situation , I been very soft and it cost whole 15 years to escape from it .
I thought today couldn’t get any better dude I’m first generation America, my parents are from Mexico. The macho philosophy is brutal
David Goggins bro
Take care of yourself bros
jeeez, that went way too real for a youtube video. respect.
Well-said and accurate.
Try growing up in Foster Homes and Facilities. The more the days go forward, the more suicide looks and sounds ideal.
I've tried reaching out. Its alienated me from all my friends and family. No one cares, no one wants to hear that. Tried professionals, they really dont care, but pretend to and prescribe stuff. A pill is not gonna fix my shitty life, good try
I had a feeling he would change his name from dorian develops to something else.
I want to say that, many of us just need someone who would just listen, but as we say something we get these comments like "man up" or "you should do this or that" when we just need someone to listen
Yes.
Thanks!
I’ve had the hardest year so far and I’ve have negative thoughts lately but I don’t want to stop working on myself and getting better I know tougher time will come but I’m not sure if I’m tough enough for those times
I have had my New Mexican/Mexican card revoked from my biracial self for pathetic reasons, like not being macho enough naturally and not being super straight.
Never change dorian