Celibacy | How I Flipped My Perspective On It Forever | Total 180 Shift

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • I never thought I would practice celibacy. Here's what changed my perspective entirely.
    Timestamps:
    0:00 - Have You Had This Thought?
    0:17 - How I Used To Feel
    0:55 - Our Ego's Attitude towards Celibacy
    2:17 - What Helps Us Change?
    2:54 - Realising Sex Is Dissatisfactory
    3:59 - We Actually Know To Practice Celibacy
    4:23 - You Are Rewarded for Celibacy
    4:44 - Sexual Desire Is Still There
    4:57 - You Must Put Your Happiness First
    5:27 - We See Things Clearly on Celibacy
    7:05 - The Benefits of Celibacy
    7:45 - My Spiritual Awakening
    8:04 - The "Moments Right Before"
    9:09 - Compassion, Empathy, Warmth, Fullness.
    9:49 - Always Keep Your Mind Open
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Комментарии • 56

  • @MarkPuk
    @MarkPuk Год назад +22

    Day 142 on SR and my life and perspective has changed a lot as you mention 🛡️🗡️

  • @Nothing-lr3dt
    @Nothing-lr3dt Год назад +16

    your celibacy/SR videos are so quality, you explain the deeper motives for the practice so well

  • @twentysjx
    @twentysjx Год назад +11

    You’re underrated bro. You obviously practice what you preach. Your appearance has a glow and you speak well too. Your video on suffering is gold.
    Thank you.

    • @twentysjx
      @twentysjx Год назад

      I’m compiling playlists of videos I ran into on RUclips on topics that resonate most with me at the moment. Your videos are great quality and had to put them on there too. I hope to do similar work in the future as I start on this path. A seeker and eventually a sentinel of truth.

  • @HarshYadav-jw9zm
    @HarshYadav-jw9zm Год назад +7

    Hey Iam from India.
    I'm happy that you are guiding youth in right direction.

  • @lewisjones3181
    @lewisjones3181 Год назад +14

    Congrats on 4k bro!
    I've found celibacy can be a great phase to go through if you're perhaps unsure if you want to remain in it long term. After my past relationships, I chose to stay celibate for 1 1/2 years to heal and get over a lot of my accumulated trauma.
    The long-term goal of celibacy (or karezza only) is defo where the potential is at though. 👍

  • @paulfalchi9548
    @paulfalchi9548 2 месяца назад +1

    I Love You All!

  • @rohitverma4147
    @rohitverma4147 Год назад +8

    True before starting nofap journey i used to think it would help me to attract more girls but after 70 days in this journey my mindset has completely changed now i think about spiritual growth wordly things have become less important for me

    • @emmanuelimumolen8660
      @emmanuelimumolen8660 10 месяцев назад

      If you have the mindset of using celibacy to attract girls, you won't go far in it and you won't be true to yourself. Live it as a way to honor God/Jesus Christ. That's where the strength comes from.

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 3 месяца назад

      ​@@emmanuelimumolen8660 Well, technically, God ordered us to give birth and copulate, so you'd honor him better If you did just that. He didn't tell us to suppress our urges.
      That being said, there's something incredibly dark about being dependent on your urges, or rather lust, porn, masturbation. It does ruin the "soul". I write this as a non-believer. That's right, I don't believe in God, but I do believe that some form of a creator does exist, that this spiritual energy is all around us, and that we ruin the spirit within ourselves, taint and corrupt it by reducing ourselves to the level of an animal.

  • @jjrecon3024
    @jjrecon3024 Год назад +2

    Fellas, your count/streak does not matter when compared to working on what matters. Practice purpose over pleasure no matter the weather.

  • @CreceTuAlmaTarot
    @CreceTuAlmaTarot Год назад +3

    Have just discovered you, and yes! Have experienced the same ! And it has been such a healing process ❤

  • @vladklava0862
    @vladklava0862 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much, I needed to hear this, my soul and body are begging for a change. I will follow your teachings and put them into practice.

  • @mundea
    @mundea Год назад +1

    Look at this saucy man, look at this saucy channel, how could I not subscribe 😎

  • @MikeV8652
    @MikeV8652 2 месяца назад

    Before and after my first year-long excursion into celibacy, I did many shorter streaks of a few months each; but it was after the year that I seriously missed it whenever I wasn't on it. I would have embraced permanence except for just not being willing yet to give up all future orgasms. That seemed like too much to ask! Then I realized that a man has only one at a time, so that was never the question. The only question was whether I'd rather continue my semen retention or have the one next orgasm. Put that way, it was a no-brainer, and I was able to enter my permanent celibacy quickly and enthusiastically. That was nearly 5½ years ago. I'm DONE, and I've never felt closer to God, more fulfilled, or more masculine.

  • @kevphillips02
    @kevphillips02 6 месяцев назад

    A very good and grounded explanation .

  • @RoodyRoo
    @RoodyRoo Год назад +2

    Very much enjoyed the video, Seb. I'm attempting to walk the same path now.

  • @grantstevensma
    @grantstevensma Год назад +1

    Such a good video Seb! And it feels so fitting to our discussion yesterday. Awesome work man 🔥

    • @sebjones1
      @sebjones1  Год назад +1

      Thanks Grant brother! ❤️

  • @munthaliagrey8684
    @munthaliagrey8684 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for upliftment....

  • @myselfasevan
    @myselfasevan Год назад +2

    Great video Sebby… celibacy makes you feel like a child again!

  • @maheshdeshpande4527
    @maheshdeshpande4527 Год назад +3

    5 months 5 days

  • @ananyapamde4514
    @ananyapamde4514 Год назад +2

    May god bless you

  • @odaishams2648
    @odaishams2648 Год назад +1

    i really like ur videos man. and plus, ur handsome 😁

  • @GoldenToothBrush
    @GoldenToothBrush 4 месяца назад

    This is the kind of sex education that should be taught in schools.

  • @mundea
    @mundea Год назад +1

    I must say that I am thankful that I've found spaces like this at an early age. I first discovered nofap and the whole self-development community when I was 15 or so in 2020. Since then I've had great success and progress in multiple areas of my life but recently as I near my 18th birthday, I've been stumbling quite a bit with my practices, included nofap and sr.
    Cheers for the video, Seb. Your insights are greatly appreciated, especially since I'm trying to get on the right path a few months off my birthday. Really do love the atmosphere of this vid, bit of an ASMR'y, relaxing, tranquil vibe... I'm here for it :)

    • @sebjones1
      @sebjones1  Год назад +1

      Welcome brother! Many more insights to come 😉

    • @mundea
      @mundea Год назад

      @@sebjones1 💪

  • @tommyvasilev5012
    @tommyvasilev5012 Год назад +3

    Celebacy is the way.Practice that purifies your soul

  • @hebergarcia8873
    @hebergarcia8873 8 месяцев назад

    Recently got out of a unhealthy relationship. My mind was clouded, but I had this desire to withdraw from sex and women.
    Started looking into celibacy and found your videos. Great content.
    Where are you from brother?

  • @Jenn_KittyThe3rd
    @Jenn_KittyThe3rd 10 месяцев назад

    This is an interesting perspective. For some reason I always see men talking about celibacy. I would seriously love to see this guy's natal birth chart.
    Personally, I don't understand any of this. It's not because I'm not spiritual. I am a very sexual being, my sexual energy is a very deep part of me. No, I'm not a hoebag either lol. Sex can be a deep means of self expression and connection to others. It's very intimate.
    We are spiritual beings having a 3d meatbag experience- on PURPOSE. We are humans on purpose. So it's my belief we should not shun our ego, but live with it in a healthy way. There are physiological benefits to releasing. It can be actually good for your body.
    You can grow spiritually and still experience the human life. But if it works for you, and others as I can see then I'm glad for you all. Anything to help with increase positive vibes and mental/emotional health. Good luck you all ❤✌️💜✨️

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been celibate since June I’ve been starving my dopamine sensors of late to be more at peace and less reactive to my brains demands for pleasure be it alcohol , sugar , etc

  • @vanillakiss8701
    @vanillakiss8701 Год назад +4

    I believe sex is an act of destruction and hate and feel amazing being celibate 🙏

  • @leteriver
    @leteriver 8 месяцев назад

    I love my journey so far, only six months and I feel so much more in touch with myself. I would recommend to anyone on the self discovery path.
    Has anyone tried to date whilst being celibate?

  • @xb4439
    @xb4439 7 месяцев назад

    Good for you! Brother! It is so great for you to practice and teach thou shalt not commit adultery. Have you considered raising your frequency even much further by purifying your diet. The China Study. Forks over Knives. Cowspiracy. The Game Changers. God bless!

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin 7 месяцев назад

    Catholic Church has celibacy as a part of the priesthood but unfortunately many men are now afraid of committing to this type of life ..

  • @abdouboss
    @abdouboss Год назад +2

    Is it also normal to feel drained even after a simple non-ejac intimacy? Like a deep cuddling kissing time ?
    And thank you for this beautiful content:))

  • @theprofat1250
    @theprofat1250 Год назад +1

    God.. suffering.. love that thing so much.. no greater teacher than suffering ❤️

  • @silkroad1201
    @silkroad1201 10 месяцев назад

    Since I'm involuntarily celibate anyway, I might as well convince myself it's for my own good
    (ok it's not totally involuntary. I just don't have what it takes anymore to go out and get it)

    • @sebjones1
      @sebjones1  10 месяцев назад

      No convincing of oneself. Arrive at celibacy when you're ready. Avoid bypassing any kind of sexuality.

  • @soorajunni436
    @soorajunni436 Год назад

    How old are you broo

  • @suryadeepfitness5192
    @suryadeepfitness5192 Год назад +2

    Hey men you facing nightfalls ?

    • @sebjones1
      @sebjones1  Год назад +2

      Yeah sometimes, they're an aspect of this path that needs to be embraced. I am currently studying this topic lots before I share content about how to stop having them (long term).

    • @fabricendiaye5345
      @fabricendiaye5345 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@sebjones1yeah that's something I have been studying for a while.
      It's related to the pleasure one is taking from sleep.

  • @darkelf1000
    @darkelf1000 Год назад +1

    I'm really at a point now where I'm not bothered about sex. Modern Womens bodies are not appealing anymore on the whole. Been there...done it.

  • @ElParacletoPodcast
    @ElParacletoPodcast Год назад

    Sex is the best invention ever, why the hell would anyone not want it is beyond me.

    • @fabricendiaye5345
      @fabricendiaye5345 10 месяцев назад

      The irony is that you can only understand once you try it out😊

    • @ElParacletoPodcast
      @ElParacletoPodcast 10 месяцев назад

      @@fabricendiaye5345 And God saw that it was GOOD, nuff said.

    • @emmanuelimumolen8660
      @emmanuelimumolen8660 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@ElParacletoPodcastBrother, sex is for a purpose but there is far more to life than s**. When you go into it your perspective of life will change for the better.

    • @ElParacletoPodcast
      @ElParacletoPodcast 10 месяцев назад

      @@emmanuelimumolen8660 of course there’s a time for everything but sex is sex

  • @TassieJake
    @TassieJake 8 месяцев назад

    Why is he talking like that for ??? It gets to me. I don't like it.

  • @jjrecon3024
    @jjrecon3024 Год назад +2

    Harness Hero 4life 🤍